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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody. We are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: Yes we are. It's gonna be one of those episodes

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Speaker 3: where I'm a little tired.

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Speaker 4: We are straight from the mountains, yeah, Colorado into.

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Speaker 3: The or into the or how you where do.

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Speaker 2: We even start? It was just like such an amazing weekend.

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Speaker 3: It really was, And like, you know what's so funny

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Speaker 3: because I was in a sorority. I love being in

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Speaker 3: spaces with people. I like sleeping with a bunch of people.

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Speaker 3: I like that. I don't know that like togetherness. And

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Speaker 3: I was thinking about it. I'm like, had we not,

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Speaker 3: like we shared a cabin together, had we not been

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Speaker 3: given that assignment for the weekend, we probably would have

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Speaker 3: shared like gone separate cabins or whatever or separate rooms,

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Speaker 3: and it would have been such an experience. And I'm

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Speaker 3: so happy that we had that experience, the four of us.

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Speaker 2: It was really fun. Like I think we were all kind.

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Speaker 4: Of worried about the well, first of all, we didn't

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Speaker 4: know what the cabin layout was, so we didn't know it.

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Speaker 2: Like Tanya was really on one and.

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Speaker 4: She was looking at the website and she was like,

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Speaker 4: I think this is our room, which is a real

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Speaker 4: it's just like a bed, and then there's a pullout couch.

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Speaker 2: So she's like, Robbie and I will take the pull

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Speaker 2: out couch.

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, there's no way that there's not two

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Speaker 4: that makes no sense.

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Speaker 2: So room, yeah, I did. Yeah, that was another.

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Speaker 4: Suggestion that it was like one so it's two rooms.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So.

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Speaker 4: Haley and I had the room and we just had

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Speaker 4: twin beds pushed together, which I will say that was

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Speaker 4: we essentially slept separate because twin beds pushed together there's

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Speaker 4: a large crevice in the middle.

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Speaker 3: Even still just a little hack, a life hack for everybody.

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Speaker 3: If you take two twin beds, you push them together

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Speaker 3: and you just take a full sheet, you can basically

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Speaker 3: make like one bed.

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Speaker 4: Right, But they were all they were like separate main beds.

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Speaker 4: So like then he's twin had it separate cover, you know.

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Speaker 4: So it was like if I wanted to be not cold,

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Speaker 4: I had to be on my little bed section. Haley

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Speaker 4: slept great. She was like I was in the corner

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Speaker 4: by myself whatever, So it was totally fine. And then

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Speaker 4: there was another bedroom that was like they weren't right

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Speaker 4: next to each other.

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Speaker 2: No, it was a small cabin.

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Speaker 4: But and then we had the one bathroom correct, And

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Speaker 4: I really appreciated Robbie. Halen and I were saying that

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Speaker 4: Robbie it was a game changer because he would just

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Speaker 4: go if he needed to. I believe the word Ryan

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Speaker 4: used on the Morning show was aroma. If he needed

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Speaker 4: to create aroma, he would go to like the main

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Speaker 4: lodge or like the bathrooms the general like public bathrooms

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Speaker 4: that were part of the main lodge.

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Speaker 3: I'd like feel him getting up out of bed at

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Speaker 3: like five thirty and where are you go? And he's

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Speaker 3: like zipping up his winter coat. He's like I have

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Speaker 3: to go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, what a guy.

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Speaker 4: Guy.

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Speaker 2: But the thing was we were like, we're so tired,

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Speaker 3: Especially if you think Becka and Hayley are waking up

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Speaker 2: Now, you're very over time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we had a full door. So but he was

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Speaker 4: just like very He never made it a big deal.

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Speaker 4: He's just like, all right, I'm going to go to

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Speaker 4: the bathroom. And he and and you did say he

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Speaker 2: Robbie was is a Beverly Hills guy.

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Speaker 4: Grew up in the hills of Beverly, Yes, and he

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Speaker 4: was thriving in the mountain nature.

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Speaker 3: Is he's such a nature mountain man. Like it's very funny,

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Speaker 3: like he likes he's like likes that that. I don't

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Speaker 2: That he's not though he's not, but he loves it. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Throw the axe and he wants to fish, and he

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Speaker 4: I did get a great video of him attempting to

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Speaker 4: chop the wood. Yeah, there was a outside there was

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Speaker 4: it made it look like the log was huge.

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Speaker 2: It looked like he was cutting like.

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Speaker 3: A tree stump and it was his videos, so it

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Speaker 3: made the tree really fall and like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I like set him up for success. So that

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Speaker 4: was really fun. We had a really great time. We

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Speaker 4: all had like portable mirrors that had little lights on

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Speaker 4: them that you had beca Tobin had posted, so we

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Speaker 4: all ordered them and yeah, we just sat at the

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Speaker 3: So cute, Like when when would we ever do that?

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Speaker 3: Whenever we go like travel places for the podcast, like

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Speaker 4: Yeah no, and I think that that's obviously like great,

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Speaker 4: and yeah, it was really fun. And we did have

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Speaker 4: one day We're like the water went out or something.

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Speaker 4: We don't know what happened, but Tanya had asked because

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Speaker 4: Haley and I got there on Thursday night, so we

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Speaker 4: and we had had no problem like taking shower and

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Speaker 4: like it was like it wasn't oh my gosh, this

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Speaker 2: Is this what the water pressure was last night? And

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Speaker 2: I go in it's like drips like it's literally like.

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Speaker 3: Drip drip out of the faucet and I sit in

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Speaker 3: like birdying myself clean. It was actually very comical.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so once that got situated, we were smooth sailing

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Speaker 2: It was great.

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Speaker 4: I can't go, like to the bathroom, I can't go

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Speaker 4: very much alone. So at one point we were sitting

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Speaker 2: Sit here, don't sit here.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know where to begin with the wedding festivities,

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Speaker 4: because it was one of the most beautiful wedding locations

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Speaker 2: But also everyone was on the.

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Speaker 4: on location, and it was so cool to just spend

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Speaker 4: whole weekend. But also there was everyone could kind of

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Speaker 3: It was so nice and I actually, like I want,

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Speaker 3: like I feel what they created was such a it

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Speaker 3: it felt like a little summer camp get away for

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Speaker 2: By the fires.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I love that. And actually, you know, that's

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Speaker 3: like the first time Robbie ever spent time with Dean

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're just It was really cool because it.

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Speaker 2: Was just the perfect combo.

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Speaker 4: That we had field day on Friday, y'all weren't there yet,

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Speaker 4: you know. But they had a flip cup game where

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, babe, good job.

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Speaker 4: But she was like, I just it felt like I

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Speaker 2: So everyone would like come up and be like our

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Speaker 3: All weekend, people kept coming up to Haley being like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: And then one of the nights when we were sitting

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Speaker 3: Won her the million dollars on Survivor, like if she

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Speaker 4: And she's like, there's there's there's mice droppings in my suitcase.

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Speaker 5: You see the tracker look at that investigating droppings.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm going to do this more often in

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Speaker 3: Me too.

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Speaker 4: If it was a chipmunk, I would have been like,

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Speaker 4: that's so cute where rat rat crosses them?

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Speaker 6: Something Ben Higgins said about this venue. That made me

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Speaker 6: I've been to this place before. There's no cell signal.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's very cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was very shut off. Like I did feel

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Speaker 3: I need to do that more often too, I am.

444
00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,520
Speaker 3: I do spend a lot of time scrolling and U

445
00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:33,639
Speaker 3: did not do that this weekend.

446
00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,680
Speaker 4: Tanya also got a lesson on how to take photos,

447
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:40,200
Speaker 4: which was much needed because she'll be like, beccha, will

448
00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:41,480
Speaker 4: you take a photo of me and Robbie And.

449
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:45,080
Speaker 3: I give her just like options like like oreads shoots,

450
00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:49,120
Speaker 3: like I just get like these picturesque like cinematic videos.

451
00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,440
Speaker 4: And then I asked Tanya to take a photo of

452
00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:54,199
Speaker 4: me in Haley and I'm like, just snap it, like,

453
00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,320
Speaker 4: just can't take it fast. We're going to be moving,

454
00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:58,440
Speaker 4: something will be in their candid I get my phone back,

455
00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 4: there's like seven photos my portrait mode, which I'm.

456
00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,439
Speaker 3: So proud of these photos. By the way, they're like

457
00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,320
Speaker 3: sitting on the cabin, I'm below them. I was like

458
00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,280
Speaker 3: like a like a wooden rod next to Haley, and

459
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:12,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, this is going to frame out so beautifully.

460
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 3: I'm in portrait mode. I'm like thinking, I'm doing such

461
00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,199
Speaker 3: a good job. And I had them back.

462
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:22,800
Speaker 4: It was so bad that I was like I kind

463
00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 4: of thought like was this a joke?

464
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 2: Like there was a little bit of me that was like, oh,

465
00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:27,159
Speaker 2: this is like kind of funny.

466
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 3: And then I felt like the whole rest of the weekend,

467
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:29,919
Speaker 3: I need to make it up to her. So I

468
00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,480
Speaker 3: was like following them everywhere taking photos.

469
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 2: Which I didn't ask for. I didn't one. I wasn't

470
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:36,960
Speaker 2: looking for that at all.

471
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:40,000
Speaker 4: So I go the next night for the wedding, I'm like, okay,

472
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,359
Speaker 4: I'm going to show you how to take like to

473
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 4: set it up so that you can get a good photo.

474
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,920
Speaker 4: So I gave her a lesson and she crushed it

475
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 4: and thank you.

476
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. It was just like it was just some short

477
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 2: and sweet lessons that you need it.

478
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,679
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I could. I'm I'm a sponge, Just

479
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,080
Speaker 3: give me, give me give me the all of the advice.

480
00:20:58,200 --> 00:20:59,679
Speaker 4: Should we take a break and come back and talk

481
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 4: about mountain cheek attire? Yes, okay, we'll be here at that.

482
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 4: All right, we're back. So we talked a lot about

483
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 4: the attire being mountain cheek and what that meant, what

484
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 4: we were gonna wear. I felt like you really nailed it.

485
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. I feel like you really nailed

486
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 3: it as well. But mountain cheek is like the opposite

487
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:38,360
Speaker 3: of I would say my style. I'm more like city grunge,

488
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:43,679
Speaker 3: you know, like city gow. Oh my god, I.

489
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 2: Feel like your city chic. That's hard to say city she.

490
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:57,359
Speaker 3: I'd say city grunge gal, okay, So mountain she was

491
00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 3: stress stressful for me.

492
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,879
Speaker 2: Well, I had bought my cowboy boots.

493
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,719
Speaker 4: I was already and then I was like, I feel

494
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 4: like I need a hat, Like I felt upset that

495
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 4: I didn't have a hat. So luckily in the main

496
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 4: cabin they had like a little shop that had like

497
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 4: boots and a tire and they had like not a

498
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:16,639
Speaker 4: tie clothes. I don't know if they could have a

499
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 4: tire in there, so I just wanted to clarify. But

500
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 4: they had hats, so I purchased a hat to wear,

501
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 4: which I don't know, me asking where you got that hat.

502
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 3: From the blewipeup.

503
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 2: No affiliate link for that one.

504
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 4: So then Haley's like, wait, do I need a hat?

505
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 4: And so we were talking about it. She's like, I

506
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 4: just don't know if I want to buy one. I'll

507
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 4: literally never wear a cowboy hat again. And Ben was like,

508
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 4: I brought hats in case anyone needed a hat.

509
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:44,399
Speaker 2: I have hats.

510
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 4: So we walk over to the car and he gives

511
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,439
Speaker 4: her a hat and it fits perfectly and goes with

512
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 4: their outfit and really just like completed her look.

513
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 2: So that was a really cute little moment.

514
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 3: But not all heroes wear capes.

515
00:22:56,200 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 2: No, they wear cowboy hats and cowboy boots. Yeah, Ben Higgins.

516
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 3: Ben Higgy.

517
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 4: But the star of the show obviously was Kaylin that night.

518
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 4: I I was like, I gasped when I saw her.

519
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 3: Her Every single outfit she wore was like crazy.

520
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: She I mean, yeah, she.

521
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 4: Could wear like a trash bag and bee stunning, but

522
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,439
Speaker 4: this was like a silk dress, like white dress with

523
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 4: the white like cowboy hat.

524
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 3: Is that a cowboy hat?

525
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:25,560
Speaker 2: I think so?

526
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 4: Like a cowboy like a western white hat. She looked

527
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 4: straight out of a magazine. Yeah, it was crazy.

528
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 3: The whole wedding felt like every single part of it

529
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 3: felt like it was straight out of a magazine. Yeah.

530
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 2: I loved how the chairs are facing the aisle.

531
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never seen that before.

532
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 2: It felt like a runways.

533
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 3: So interesting because I feel like now when I go

534
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 3: to weddings, I'm like looking at things and taking notes

535
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 3: of like, yeah, like I really like that that everybody's

536
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 3: like facing the aisle. I want to do that, you know, Yeah,

537
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 3: I want to have a tattoo artist at my wedding.

538
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 2: Okay, So there was a tattoo artist at the reception, so.

539
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 4: You had to put your name on the list and

540
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 4: they had like pre it was like you chose from

541
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 4: a sheet, so you couldn't just like say, oh I

542
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 4: want this, and they do it. And I was about

543
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 4: to get it because they had a little spicy pepper

544
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, I could do a spicy margarita,

545
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 4: like I love a spicy margarita. Do a little tiny

546
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 4: little pepper. And they're like, yeah, you can't scale it.

547
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 4: It's the size.

548
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 2: And it was like this, it was this big giant.

549
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 4: It was a huge and I was like, I don't

550
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 4: even know where I could put that.

551
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 2: Where wouldn't it be like why did I do that?

552
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 2: Like regret central?

553
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 4: And then I was like, maybe I'll get a little mounting.

554
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 4: They had a little mountain like outline, which was really

555
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 4: cute and small. I think Kalin got it, and I

556
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 4: was like, I could do that because that would be

557
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 4: a great memory of the weekend.

558
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 2: But the line was so long at that point that

559
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 2: I was like.

560
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 3: It's okay, so long, like the amount of people that

561
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 3: got tattoos, it's so cool.

562
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 4: Though, Like I kind of woke up going, dang, did

563
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 4: I make a mistake not doing it for the weekend,

564
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 4: But it's okay, I don't have any.

565
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,880
Speaker 3: So I was like I don't have any either.

566
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 2: You know. I think if I had already had tattoos,

567
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 2: it would have been a no brainer.

568
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 3: I would have like got a dot, oh, just the dots,

569
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 3: like break myself in you're Phoebe.

570
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 2: You're literally Phoebe from brind Yeah yeah, yeah.

571
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 3: This is the earth for a three million yeah yeah.

572
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 2: But yeah.

573
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 4: It was just I left being like this is if

574
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 4: if if or when Haley and I get married, Like

575
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 4: I would love.

576
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 2: To do something like that.

577
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 3: Everyone.

578
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was so fun. I just loved the like togetherness.

579
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 4: I loved that everyone was on the property, everyone ate together.

580
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:35,199
Speaker 2: Everyone.

581
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just everyone sat around and like but

582
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 4: did their own things.

583
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 2: Still, it was just perfect.

584
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree. I loved the vibe they created, just

585
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 3: such a great vibe, a great weekend. We're amazing hosts

586
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 3: and couldn't be happier for them. Yeah, couldn't be happier

587
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 3: for them. It was really really fun.

588
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 4: Some big things happen though, while we were out of

589
00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 4: touch with pop culture and well.

590
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 3: We were like borderline coming back into touch when it

591
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 3: all went down. Because I remember Robbie was watching his

592
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,679
Speaker 3: fantasy football stuff and I'm seeing all this like Taylor

593
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,600
Speaker 3: Swift stuff in his feed, and that's when I saw

594
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 3: the news.

595
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 2: That's when you heard the news. That's when I heard

596
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 2: Taylor Swift at the Chiefs game.

597
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

598
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on this? I don't think it's real.

599
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 2: Oh you think they're just like going along with it.

600
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 3: I think they're maybe dating, But I don't think it's

601
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 3: like because she it was with Joe for six years,

602
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 3: and that girl likes to hide. She does not like

603
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 3: her romantic life to be public. And I think the

604
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 3: fact that these last couple guys have been public have

605
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: shown that it's just like.

606
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 2: But they're dating, you think, just as casual.

607
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, if they're even dating.

608
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. A. Tony's very down on this

609
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,360
Speaker 1: whole thing. She's very poop pooing the.

610
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 3: Whole pooing it. I just don't think that everybody thinks

611
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 3: that they're like boyfriend girlfriend. I just don't think it's

612
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 3: that far down.

613
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 1: Maybe not, But I say, yesterday was a hard launch.

614
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 3: Really I do, do you not?

615
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 4: I like you said, everything she does is private, so like,

616
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 4: regardless of what it means or what if it's just

617
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 4: casual or whatever, she wanted everyone to know she was

618
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 4: there exactly.

619
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 3: I don't disagree.

620
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 1: Why why if not they're sitting next to his mom

621
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: watching him play football. Why what's the motivation if not

622
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: a hard launch of the world that this is a thing,

623
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: because the logistics of Taylor Swift attending a football game

624
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,400
Speaker 1: are not just a whim.

625
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 3: But that's the same thing with Matty Healy too. Like

626
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 3: that was very public. We all saw photos, paparazzi shots,

627
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 3: and that girl when she wants to hide, like she

628
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 3: knows how to hide, so it's like she wants to

629
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 3: be seen. I don't know what that wanted.

630
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the motivation?

631
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I think it's not.

632
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,199
Speaker 4: Do you see the video of him like looking up

633
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 4: and seeing her though, and he's like gets this like

634
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 4: big smile and he's so.

635
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: Cute and sweet. I'm so down too.

636
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 4: But I can't tell what I think about him, Like

637
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 4: sometimes I find him to be just kind of like obnoxious,

638
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 4: Like I don't know, there's something about him that I

639
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 4: just he's very arrogant and cocky.

640
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 2: But I think that's the way people like him.

641
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 4: You know.

642
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: I think it's an endearing arrogant and cocky for some reason.

643
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 3: To me. It is.

644
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: Anyway, when he hosted Saturday Night Live, which not a

645
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 1: lot of athletes can pull off.

646
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 2: That Saturday Night, he was great.

647
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 4: And I think he's like swaggy. I think he has

648
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 4: like this or about him that people are drawn to.

649
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 3: He's he's like thinks he's cool.

650
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 4: He knows well he is cool. I think he knows

651
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 4: he's cool, and so you can feel that. And I

652
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 4: think that in a way, Taylor Swift is also an

653
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 4: athlete in her own right. If you've seen the aerostore

654
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 4: and there's a quiet confidence that she has about her,

655
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 4: So I think that the power of them works. It's

656
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 4: just so random to me that I'm like, I don't

657
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 4: know if it's like what the longevity of it is,

658
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 4: but it's fun.

659
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 3: Athletes understand her life more than other people would.

660
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: I think that's great.

661
00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 4: Great.

662
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 3: I think the way the athletes have to train and

663
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 3: they have to live their lives is probably very similar

664
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 3: to the way that Taylor has to like train for

665
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: her tour and like live her life on tour.

666
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: In life during a sports season are very similar.

667
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 5: Ruined venues.

668
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Like it just feels very parallel.

669
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 2: Although I am really ready for the songs about him,

670
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 2: whatever they will be.

671
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: But don't you think he could be as simple as

672
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: he shut he shot his shot, you know, he joked

673
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: about putting his phone number on the bracelet when she

674
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: was in Kansas City. Didn't get to meet her, but

675
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 1: that got a lot of press, And couldn't you have

676
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: just been like, hmm, I looked into this guy a

677
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: little bit, thought he was handsome, enjoyed his vibe, watched

678
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 1: I don't know his SNL or his commercials or whatever,

679
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: and thought that's.

680
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 3: Interesting, Yeah, which is what I think she's doing.

681
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: Reached out, Yeah, went out a few times, and he's like,

682
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: you got to come and see you for football. So

683
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: he said, Okay, I will.

684
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 3: That's what's happening.

685
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's a relationship.

686
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 2: Allegedly.

687
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 4: I read somewhere that she shut down a whole restaurant.

688
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 2: So that they could Are you sure I read she did?

689
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 3: I read he did well.

690
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 4: Either way, they shut down a whole rush on to

691
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 4: go have like a dinner yeah after the game or something.

692
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 3: Though I did. I was like watching I mean the content.

693
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 3: I couldn't get enough so good. I was watching the

694
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 3: There's like a photo of her in the suite and

695
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 3: there's like a plate next to her and has like

696
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 3: a piece of chicken and ketchup and ranch ranch, yeah,

697
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 3: seemingly ranch. And like everybody's like, ah, she's so relatable.

698
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 3: She's just like chicken, ranch and ketchup. I'm like, oh

699
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 3: my gosh, it's too good.

700
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 2: It's good.

701
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 4: It's great for the NFL, it's great for tailors.

702
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 3: Like everything makes me happy. If like she's involved with

703
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 3: like football stuff on Sundays, that just makes my Sunday's

704
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 3: least annoying having to like watch like my fake fantasy

705
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 3: team and Robbie's fantasy team.

706
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 4: Has there ever been a more powerful person that has

707
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 4: the influence that she has, like genuinely like, has there

708
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 4: ever been someone that has this hold on people?

709
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 5: The Beatles?

710
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the Beatles were I mean, yes, there are

711
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 1: people that were as popular as she is, but they

712
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: didn't they weren't in this era of constant twenty four

713
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:02,959
Speaker 1: to seven social media and news coverage. Like that convergence

714
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: is interesting. It's kind of like what if Michael Jackson existed? Now, Yeah,

715
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: what wouldn't be like, well, it'd be a lot like this.

716
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 5: I think I saw a really great tweet about Kelsey.

717
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 6: There was a picture of him just like staring into

718
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 6: the camera as he walks by with Taylor and says,

719
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 6: this is a man who knows he's in too deep

720
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 6: and sees potential embarrassment around every corner. Millions of women

721
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 6: are waiting to hate you, and your own fans are

722
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 6: gonna call your situationship a distraction. But if he backs out,

723
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:24,959
Speaker 6: he's a coward.

724
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 5: He can't win. It's fascinating, Oh my god, so true.

725
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 3: I also saw somebody post this that it was during

726
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 3: Taylor's Red tour, like Red and a fan brought like

727
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 3: a Kelsey jersey to their meet and greet, So she's

728
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 3: like holding it up and this is during her Red.

729
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 5: Invisible string.

730
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like an invisible string now like tying

731
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,959
Speaker 3: them back together after however many what is this? When

732
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 3: was the Red album come out forever.

733
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 5: Ago twenty twelve or something.

734
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 3: She's holding up his jersey.

735
00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that is so cool.

736
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 3: Are you all along? There was some shaky invisible stream

737
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 3: tying you to.

738
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 2: Me so much?

739
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 1: Do we agree on this or we don't agree on this?

740
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: What I'm saying this is a budding relationship. They've been

741
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 1: out a handful of times, they've spent the night together

742
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 1: a few times, and this is just what we saw

743
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: yesterday was an escalation where she spends the day with

744
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: his mom watches them play football. Maybe we'll see him

745
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 1: with Taylor's mom at a concert in Belgium in the spring.

746
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, It's all heading in this direction.

747
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: Oh you're saying this is not what's happening.

748
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 3: I don't think that's what's happening.

749
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: Do you think this is some sort of publicity stunt.

750
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 3: No, I don't think it's a publicity. I do think

751
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 3: that they're dating or have gone on a date. I

752
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 3: just don't think it's anything serious.

753
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 2: This is what I think.

754
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 4: I think Travis Kelsey is different than a Matt Healey

755
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 4: in the sense that he's going to pursue her and

756
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 4: he's going to put in the effort of like trying

757
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 4: to like.

758
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 2: Make the relationship work as long as she's in it.

759
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 4: I see that him doing that, and I also have

760
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 4: a vision of both of their moms hanging out.

761
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: They both seem very like sweet and warm.

762
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, they do. They do seem sweet and warm. Only

763
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 3: time will tell.

764
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 4: Only time to tell. But it's fun. I will say

765
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 4: it is exciting. And the weekends.

766
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 6: Her.

767
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just.

768
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 4: Something really funny that happened was that Robbie posted a

769
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 4: photo of the two of you and said, like, what

770
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 4: would our country music group be? And Easton said little

771
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 4: big tongue. And I just thought that was one of

772
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 4: the funniest.

773
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 6: I submitted a lot of ideas, that was the one

774
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 6: that made the story.

775
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 5: It's a great photo.

776
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 3: It's a great photo, thanks guys.

777
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,440
Speaker 4: So, yeah, that was a little bit of the weekend.

778
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 4: It was wonderful. Taylor Swift and Travis were happy for

779
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 4: you whatever it is.

780
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 2: And do we miss anything?

781
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do feel like we missed a lot. Oh,

782
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 3: but it's okay.

783
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 2: Do you have it?

784
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 3: No, I'm trying to look back at photos. I feel

785
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 3: like I was very drunk a lot of the weekend.

786
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 3: So it's going to come back to me in spurts.

787
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:15,919
Speaker 2: Okay, not great for the podcast, but right, So.

788
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: This week we'll do twenty mini podcasts as they come

789
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: back to.

790
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, so if one comes up, you can just

791
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:22,919
Speaker 4: write it down and be like, oh I thought about

792
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 4: this and.

793
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 3: Next actually started doing that now.

794
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 2: Okay, good, Yeah, but not for this episode.

795
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, the turnaround from last night's Yeah, it was very stressed.

796
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 3: I was trying to get my training reports to Mark

797
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 3: on time. Our flights were delayed and so I was

798
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 3: like I had to pick up Sonny. There's like a lot, yeah,

799
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 3: lot going on.

800
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 2: I'm with you. I'm in recovery today. Yeah.

801
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 4: Well, we are going to take a break and we'll

802
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 4: be back with emails. So maybe something will come to

803
00:34:46,440 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 4: you during the break. All right, we are back. What

804
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 4: were you saying?

805
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 3: There's something about Robbie and Haley bonding that like really

806
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 3: does something to my heart, Like it really melts me.

807
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 2: It's really cute.

808
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 3: It's really cute.

809
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what they talked about.

810
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 4: They talked about something at dinner, but they both I

811
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 4: don't know what he told you, but she was like, yeah,

812
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 4: Robbie made me really emotional at dinner, and I was like, what,

813
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 4: like what about And I think he just like gave

814
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 4: her some like really encouraging words and like it was

815
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,959
Speaker 4: just I think there's something about.

816
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 2: Someone who's.

817
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 4: I don't think they're as different as as like they

818
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 4: seem like they would be, because I think he is

819
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,359
Speaker 4: like very passionate about art and has like a very

820
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 4: similar personality and drive in certain ways. And I think

821
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 4: there's something about someone who's so different and him being

822
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,879
Speaker 4: a man and like being very much in like a.

823
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 2: Very hetero world.

824
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 4: Like the way he thinks of her and speaks her

825
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 4: is like really beautiful and like it's very sweet, you know,

826
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 4: because it's like I don't know if in any other

827
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 4: world he and Haley would have met or like hung out,

828
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 4: you know.

829
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: So I think that's one of those things.

830
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:16,280
Speaker 4: That's just like really cool to watch as obviously their partners.

831
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 2: It's really sweet.

832
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is really sweet.

833
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 2: Okay, we are going to get to emails.

834
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 1: Mark take it away, all right, Becka, thank you very much.

835
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: This is from anonymous. So my fiance comes from a

836
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: country where weddings are not very culturally significant. It's common

837
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: for people to live together with the intention of staying

838
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: together forever pretty much and having children together without ever

839
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: getting married. I'm not sure what country that would be.

840
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: I've never heard of such a place. Therefore, the whole

841
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: concept of a wedding ceremony and its traditions don't hold

842
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 1: much weight in his eyes, and he finds many of

843
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 1: the traditions over the expensive and on of his necessary.

844
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: He also thinks engagement rings are too expensive for what

845
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: they are, but it's still willing to exchange rings if

846
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: they're reasonably priced. I settled for a gold band, but

847
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: he said it was too basic. So I found to

848
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 1: ring that were more interesting, but he said they're too expensive.

849
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: I found cheaper alternatives in sterling silver that have pretty designs,

850
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: but I prefer gold over silver, but getting solid gold

851
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: is more expensive than sterling silver. Should I stop being

852
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: picky and settled for silver? Should I go with gold plating,

853
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: even though it will eventually fade. Sometimes I feel like

854
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,720
Speaker 1: he only thinks about his way and what he thinks

855
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: is correct. But it may also be that I'm being

856
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 1: too picky curious to hear your thoughts in this situation.

857
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: This is a new one for us.

858
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:31,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that the last question of like.

859
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 4: Should Sometimes I feel like it's only his way or

860
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 4: he only thinks about his way or what he thinks

861
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 4: is correct.

862
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 2: That's a very that's a very.

863
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:47,720
Speaker 4: Telling sentence, because that seems like this isn't the first

864
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 4: time where she hasn't felt like herd or it's just

865
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 4: been his what he thinks. I think wanting a ring

866
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 4: that you're going to wear forever, in wanting it to

867
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 4: be something that you love and that is going to

868
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 4: fade or tarnish, is a very valid thing. I think

869
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 4: there's a way that you can like the fact that

870
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 4: she settled for a gold band, but then he thinks

871
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 4: it's too basic, But then she found something else that

872
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 4: she liked.

873
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 3: Me too, That whole paragraph made me so uncomfortable, because, Okay,

874
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 3: I understand somebody like you know, weddings and traditions and

875
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 3: stuff like, if you're not raised in that and not

876
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 3: carrying so much weight. But if it means something to

877
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 3: your partner, then that's important. And I just feel like

878
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 3: he's just kind of doing it to just like appease you,

879
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 3: but not really. It's like kind of half assing it

880
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 3: in a way.

881
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:47,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

882
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 4: I think that your expectations and what you want like

883
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 4: this is just because it wasn't something he grew up

884
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,400
Speaker 4: in his culture. You did, and that's okay for you

885
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 4: to want those things. And I think that there's a

886
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 4: middle grad where it's like, hey, I know I can't

887
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 4: have my dream ring right now, but this is like

888
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 4: what I like, or or looking for options that maybe.

889
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 2: I don't know.

890
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 4: I think that you being you settling for something and

891
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 4: then him saying no to that is just a.

892
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 2: Weird I don't know.

893
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say manipulation because I don't know if

894
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 4: it's that, but it's like, you.

895
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 2: Can't win, right, it's not a partnership.

896
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 4: You want a gold band and he says no, until

897
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 4: you pick out something else and he says no, Yeah,

898
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 4: so what do you do you can't win?

899
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 1: You say bye, there's a compromise, I think, yeah, right,

900
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 1: Like it's two separate arguments here spending fifty grand on

901
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 1: a wedding or something. I understand the argument that it's

902
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: ludicrous to spend that kind of money on one night.

903
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 1: It's silly, we should do something small er whatever. I

904
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: think that's fine. If you're buying something you're going to

905
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: have for the rest of your life, you can drop

906
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 1: a couple of bucks on it, right. I mean you're

907
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 1: literally going to have I've had this ring on my

908
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: finger for twenty one years now. You know, like this

909
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: is something and that's going to be part of your

910
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,320
Speaker 1: life and part of your hand forever. I think you

911
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 1: got to spend some money on that, and I think

912
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: that's fine. I think he needs to understand that. And

913
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: then I think that the trade off is, let's cut

914
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: costs where we can for the wedding and make it

915
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 1: more of a simple affair, since that's not a major

916
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 1: part of his culture. If that's cool with you too,

917
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,360
Speaker 1: and if that's a deal breaker for you too, there's

918
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,439
Speaker 1: always got to be compromised. But yes, it does sound

919
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: like his way or the highway.

920
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds like it doesn't even sound like they're

921
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 2: doing doing a wedding, right.

922
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 4: No, So if he's not willing to meet you and

923
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 4: plan a wet and plan a wedding with you. Then

924
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 4: he can at least buy you a ring that you love.

925
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 4: And I agree there is compromise because you don't want

926
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 4: him to go into debt because he can't afford your ring.

927
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 4: But I think there's a way of doing something that

928
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 4: you get what you want and that he.

929
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 2: Can meet you at I don't know. I don't like it.

930
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like it.

931
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 1: It's not great.

932
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:55,959
Speaker 3: It's robbing me a really wrong way.

933
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 1: But it's far farbi it from us to say don't

934
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: marry this person who is clearly love of your life.

935
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 2: Right.

936
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 4: I don't think you're being too picky, is all I'm saying.

937
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 4: And I think that he I do think there's a

938
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 4: conversation of saying, hey, I really I understand where you're

939
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 4: coming from on the cost of things, and I want

940
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 4: to be able to meet you in the middle, but

941
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 4: I need you to also meet me in the middle,

942
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 4: because we're two people trying to make this work, not

943
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 4: one person.

944
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 1: Well put yeah, so much And a one sentence question

945
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: from Katie, what is your number one golden bit of

946
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: a relationship advice you wish you knew sooner? This is

947
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: good because now you both are kind of on the

948
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: other side of this. You've been through it, you're engaged,

949
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 1: you are deeply committed long term relationships. What is the

950
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: relationship advice you wish you had been told when you

951
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: were younger?

952
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 3: So much I don't even know, I know where do

953
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 3: I start? And I think I wish that I am engaged,

954
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 3: engaged to a man that is very securely attached, so

955
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 3: therefore he handles arguments very differently than I do. I'm

956
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 3: anxiously attached. So when we would get into arguments and

957
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 3: he would want like space, you know, he just want

958
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 3: to like sleep on it and talk about it tomorrow,

959
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,279
Speaker 3: I would spiral, like I would think everything was the

960
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 3: end of the relationship, because that's just how an anxious

961
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 3: attached person kind of lives their life. And I lost

962
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 3: a lot of sleep over some of these arguments and things.

963
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 3: So I wish that. I guess my best piece of

964
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 3: advice would be to learn so much about your partner

965
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 3: and how they handle situations, and like, is this making

966
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 3: andy sense? Okay? Learn your partner and like how they

967
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 3: handle situations and adapt to that, because I wish that

968
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,439
Speaker 3: now whenever we have disagreements we do, we step away

969
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 3: from it. We both step away from it for a minute.

970
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:52,359
Speaker 3: We just like watch TV and then like talk about

971
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 3: the next day, and we're so much clearer headed and

972
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 3: come to a compromise a lot quicker. And I feel

973
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 3: like in the beginning of our relationship was met with

974
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 3: like a lot of anxiety and it would create like

975
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 3: a lot of turmoil in me that was so unnecessary.

976
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, so like kind of learning like how your partner

977
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:16,720
Speaker 4: communicates essentially, because yeah, I agree, there's times where Haley's

978
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,360
Speaker 4: ready to settle it right there and I'm like I

979
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 4: can't even think straight because I'm so frustrated and I

980
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 4: need space. And then she would be like, you're just

981
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 4: abandoning me, and I'm like, no, no, no, I just

982
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 4: want to be able.

983
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 2: To for it to be productive.

984
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 4: I would say that like focusing on your relationship and

985
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 4: not listening to outside opinions. I mean, I think you

986
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 4: have people that you respect in your life, and if

987
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 4: they come to you and have like a concern or

988
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 4: want to talk to you about something, and you can

989
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 4: hear them and listen. But I think like knowing that

990
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 4: you and your partner are the ones in the relationship.

991
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 4: I think not listening to opinions on the outside of

992
00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 4: like if it's right, if they're the right person for you.

993
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 4: Like I do think there's certain people in your life,

994
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 4: Like if Tanya came to me and she was like,

995
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 4: I just want to make sure that you're okay in

996
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 4: this relationship.

997
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 2: I don't know.

998
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 4: If Haley's like a great partner to you, I would

999
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 4: be like, okay, Like I'm gonna think about that.

1000
00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: But if there's people that.

1001
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 4: Don't know your partner or know you and they're having opinions,

1002
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 4: it's just like it's just outside noise sometimes. And I

1003
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 4: think it's like, you put in the work that you

1004
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 4: want to in this relationship, and I think it's important

1005
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 4: to focus on that and not just let other people's expectations.

1006
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:33,439
Speaker 3: That's a great one. Not letting people's expectations or opinions into.

1007
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, infiltrate the relationship. Well that's all for now.

1008
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 4: I'm sure we may have things that come to our

1009
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 4: mind that we miss. We're just both coming from the

1010
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 4: altitude and the long travel day. I genuinely have two

1011
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 4: brain cells that are actively fighting to work right now.

1012
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:52,720
Speaker 4: So we love you all so much. Have a wonderful weekend.

1013
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,280
Speaker 4: We have a fun episode this Thursday with Hunter March

1014
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 4: Yes and.

1015
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 2: We love so much. Week byes

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Speaker 4: HM