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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Tutor Dixon Podcast. We have a really

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Speaker 1: a gentleman who I met at one of my daughter's

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Speaker 1: Halloween parties. She was over at a friend's house and

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Speaker 1: we were sitting around the bonfire in the back and

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Speaker 1: Will was there and he started talking about he's a veteran.

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Speaker 1: He started talking about his service, and I just thought

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Speaker 1: it was so fascinating that I really felt like his

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Speaker 1: because I'm somebody who I think you all know. I

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Speaker 1: so I wanted to bring willan Will Dirk's thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for joining me on the podcast today. And

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Speaker 1: it was a pleasure meeting you. So I'm so glad

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Speaker 1: that you decided to agree to come on and talk

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you, Tutor. It was a pleasure to meet

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Speaker 2: you also, and glad to be here and to share

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Speaker 1: So one of the things I was just telling you,

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Speaker 1: one of the things that struck me is that you

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Speaker 1: and your wife are both deployed together, and that's how

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Speaker 1: night when we were chatting, or a few months ago

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Speaker 1: when we were chatting, and you were talking about your

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Speaker 1: experiences when you were deployed, and she was like, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's funny we were together and we have totally different memories.

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Speaker 1: A lot of these things that I just don't even

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Speaker 1: remember happened. And I thought that was fascinating because we

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Speaker 1: always think that, you know, everybody kind of experienced the

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Speaker 1: with different experiences and different scars when they've served.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Yeah, my wife, she doesn't remember a

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Speaker 2: the time. My mind, I just absorbed all of it

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Speaker 2: when I was over there. When we left on September nineteenth,

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Speaker 2: I remembered standing up on the island of the aircraft

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Speaker 2: into war to defend our country and for who attacked us.

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Speaker 2: And I remember that, and she really doesn't remember all

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Speaker 2: hits you pretty hard as a nineteen year old kid. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: to see that happen and to know what's going to

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Speaker 1: And just for those that are listening, like I said,

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Speaker 1: Because everybody's calling it Israel September eleventh, and that was

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Speaker 2: It brings up stirs up a lot, because when, of course,

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Speaker 1: So as you watch some of these college students and

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Speaker 2: It's with not experiencing with not those kids not experiencing

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Speaker 1: No one.

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Speaker 2: It's hard to get the terrorists because they blend in

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Speaker 1: So that was something that struck me when we talked

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Speaker 1: and it's pretty cut and dry, and there are rules

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Speaker 1: So you hear people constantly like they're breaking the rules,

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Speaker 1: But you actually went through that with me and you

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Speaker 2: So terrorists they don't follow, you know, like we have.

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Speaker 2: You can't fire until fired upon terrorists, they just they'll

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Speaker 2: Like I said, my buddy was a marine and he

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Speaker 2: And they're hard to see, right. They blend in with

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Speaker 1: the Tutor Dixon Podcast. What do you say to people

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Speaker 1: So just let it stay there, because I mean, if

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Speaker 2: It will, It will keep growing more and more. So

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Speaker 2: in order to fight it, Yeah, you have to get

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Speaker 2: you try to do your best for that not to happen,

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Speaker 2: but it does. But the problem is with social media

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Speaker 2: So that's another that's tough for our men and women

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Speaker 2: And sometimes war it's not pretty. It never will be.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny because we were I was on news

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Speaker 1: And he said, well, you're saying seventy twenty five percent,

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Speaker 1: Now they still have hostages. I mean, my goodness, they

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they can't get away with that. You have to

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Speaker 2: We're not going to let this ever happen again. Well,

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Speaker 2: So as Israel's going in and going house to house

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Speaker 2: how you do it. I mean, they're they're getting the

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Speaker 2: It's not going to be easy to get the people out.

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Speaker 1: You mentioned your friend who is a marine, and when

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Speaker 1: we talked that night, you were talking about how there

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Speaker 1: the Tutor Dixon Podcast. So what is the answer to

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Speaker 1: You there is faith, and there is service, and these

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