1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: Second date of date? 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: Why do women ghost after showing very high interest early on? 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 2: Like we're talking two weeks of NonStop flirty talk and 4 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 2: genuine planning of your futures together, and. 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: Then suddenly one day Nope, actually. 6 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 2: Never mind, she's completely over you and doesn't want to 7 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:23,760 Speaker 2: talk to you anymore. 8 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: Got the ig, Alexis is that? The reason? Is that 9 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: why someone would do that? 10 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 3: You found something bad about you? I was taking online. 11 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: Research, some incriminating like family information online. 12 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 3: I mean, who knows? 13 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: Rap she? 14 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 3: You didn't find anything? Yeah, I mean, if it's Alexis, 15 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 3: it's just a photo taken in bad light. Yeah, online? 16 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: Okay, that's one possibility. 17 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 2: Is it also possible that maybe you built up a 18 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 2: lofty idea of who the guy was in your mind, 19 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: and then when you actually met him and got to 20 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 2: know him, reality didn't even get close to your expectations. 21 00:00:57,880 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: Oh well, I don't know. Do girls build up us 22 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: guys like that? 23 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 4: Maybe Duxit the guy thought she liked him for two weeks, 24 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 4: and that's possible. 25 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:10,839 Speaker 2: Well, one of our listeners chatted with a girl every 26 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 2: night for almost two weeks, then they met up and 27 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 2: things just stopped. 28 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: So now he's. 29 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 3: Here maybe she was overwhelmed because she was so in 30 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 3: love with you and she isn't processing it. Oh, you 31 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 3: can lie to the listeners. 32 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 2: Now, let's welcome into the show though. Hey Brad, how 33 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 2: you doing? 34 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 4: Man? 35 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 3: Hey guys, dude, buddy, that is an investment. Two weeks 36 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 3: of every day like, actually, phone conversations are texts. 37 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 4: We did it all. We did phone, we did text, 38 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 4: we did face times, we did everything. 39 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 1: Wow did you before? Yeah? 40 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 2: So you only had one meet up with this woman? 41 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 2: What was her name? 42 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 4: Her name is Megan? And I know she saw what 43 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 4: I look like on the face time, so she knows 44 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:54,559 Speaker 4: that I look like my photos. 45 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 3: That sucks. 46 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 5: I want to say this, but like most of the 47 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 5: time people are dating around. 48 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: Is it possible she was talking to somebody else? 49 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 4: I understand when you're first talking to somebody, you could 50 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 4: be dating someone else or talking to someone else. But 51 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 4: we had such long, deep conversations we go on. 52 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 3: Sounds like you guys connected on such a level. 53 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 4: Right. Yeah, Well listen to what she told me one night. 54 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 4: She goes, I could see myself growing old with you. 55 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 5: Oh, oh my god, that's almost too much. 56 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 4: Man. 57 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 2: Well I've said that to my messeuse before. 58 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: Is that not appropriate? I could do this until I die. 59 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 3: But you liked that because you were on the same 60 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 3: page with her. That didn't freak out. 61 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, that was the thing. It didn't freak me out 62 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 4: because I kept feeling like I was falling for her 63 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 4: before we even met up. 64 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 5: Oh wow, it's only weird when you're not on the 65 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 5: same page. If you're in two weeks like this is 66 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 5: great and you're on the same page, then it is great. 67 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 2: But you sound like you're one hundred percent in on 68 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: her before you even met her. 69 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 4: Oh my god. I started telling all my friends about her. 70 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 4: I told my sister about her. Got you a manor Yeah, 71 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 4: like I have like a ninety year old barber that 72 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 4: I told about it. Yeah, I. 73 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 3: Mean, I bet you were so nervous for your guys' 74 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: first meetup right in person. 75 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 4: You know what. I wasn't nervous because we had such 76 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 4: a good connection. Okay, I kind of felt like there's 77 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 4: only one way to go. 78 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: Sure. 79 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 2: But see that goes back to what I was saying 80 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 2: earlier about how it could be a little bit dangerous 81 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: now that you've put up these lofty expectations for how 82 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 2: much you're going to connect when you actually meet in person. 83 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 3: But that risk, right, Like with great risk comes great reward, 84 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 3: you know, or great letdown in this time, that's the 85 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 3: risk part of that sentence. 86 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 4: Well, I guess it's just going to depend because I 87 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 4: thought the date itself went really really well. 88 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: Well, let's go through. What did you do for the date? 89 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 2: We went to out back okay, staying up in lofty? 90 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: I like it. 91 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. The only thing I can think of that maybe 92 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 4: with a stupid thing to say or do, I don't know, 93 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 4: is as we're walking into the restaurant, there's this old 94 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 4: mattress out behind it next to the dumpster. H and 95 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 4: I looked at it and I said, maybe I should 96 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 4: just bring that home because I need a new one. 97 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: Oh. 98 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 4: Actually she actually laughed, Yeah. 99 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: But do you actually need the mattress or is that Jeff? 100 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: He was kidding? 101 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 3: And then she saw him strapping it to the roof 102 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: of the Okay, so she laughed, he said, she laughed great. 103 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 4: I actually led into a conversation about what kind of 104 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 4: dream house we would get if we ever had one. 105 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: All the alley mattresses that one home could handle. 106 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is not like me, Like I don't rush 107 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 4: into relationships. I just it felt right. 108 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 3: You know that feeling. It just feels like comfort. 109 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 2: Like home. 110 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 4: You know, it felt like we'd known each other for 111 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 4: years already. Wow, like we were doing that thing you 112 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 4: know where you're sitting at the table and you make 113 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 4: little excuses to sort of brush up against the other person. 114 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 2: I don't think that's really what it's like to be 115 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: with somebody for a long time. You kind of are 116 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 2: on each other's nerves by that. 117 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 1: Don't touch my shoulder. 118 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you skipped right past the honeymoon phase into twenty 119 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 2: years of marriage. Yeah, that's also good, right, Like well, 120 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 2: the chemist felt amazing. Okay, if it feels good for you, 121 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 2: that's awesome. How did the night end? 122 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 4: Well, the kiss In my mind, I pictured it longer, 123 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 4: but we did kiss. Yeah, And I told her I 124 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 4: wanted to see her again, and she said definitely. 125 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 3: She said definitely. 126 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 4: Okay, and now she's not answering anything weird. 127 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 3: How long has it been since the date? 128 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 4: It's been six days, six. 129 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 3: Which feels like an eternity. When you talked every day, 130 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 3: multiple times a day for two weeks. 131 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you built your dream house together with each 132 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 2: other in your minds. 133 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 4: I mean Basically I was going to. 134 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 3: Say, and you told your ninety year old barber, I mean, 135 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 3: you can't that he is going to be disappointed. 136 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know he's got he's got a lot writing 137 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 4: on this. 138 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: All right, Well, we cannot give your barber bad news. 139 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 2: So we're going to come back, get you your second 140 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: date update, and hopefully end on a positive note. Coming 141 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 2: up thank you after this. Hold on second date update, 142 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 2: No pressure, but true love is on the line today 143 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 2: for our listener Brad, because he met a girl online. 144 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 2: They texted, they called each other, facetimed even for hours 145 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 2: and hours on end, and got to the point where 146 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 2: they were literally planning out their future dream home together, 147 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 2: complete with roadside mattresses. And it's not just him who 148 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 2: feels that way. 149 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 1: He told us. Megan brought up I could see myself 150 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: growing old with you. Those were her words. 151 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 2: So clearly they were both drinking from the same that 152 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 2: of love juice. But one dinner date whatever is in there. 153 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 2: One dinner date though at the outback, and everything is changed. 154 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: So I feel like we say that all the time. 155 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, nobody's the same after, but especially not Brad. He's 156 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 2: trying to figure out what happened. What changed because she 157 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 2: is totally ignoring him now, Brooke, you're sticking with the 158 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 2: he's too sexy and emotionally mature angle. 159 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she's overwhelmed and doesn't know how to handle it. 160 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 3: And right now she's just talking to her therapist about 161 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: letting go of her old baggage and thoughts and moving 162 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 3: forward into the future. 163 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 2: Yes, she wants to be the perfect woman to fit 164 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 2: your perfect man. 165 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 3: I mean, that's what I'm hoping for anyway. 166 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: Okay, sounds good. 167 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 4: B Yeah, that's great. 168 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure that's what she's gonna say when we 169 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: call her right now. 170 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 3: It has nothing to do with a dumpster mattress at all. 171 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 4: I would hope not. I hope she knows I'm joking. 172 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've writ a question. You said you had a 173 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: quick kiss, like really quick. Did you eat bloomin onions? 174 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: Onion breath? 175 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 4: We ate a bunch of different stuff. If her breath 176 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 4: smelled like twenty bloomin onions, it wouldn't have mattered. I Oh, that. 177 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 3: Is so sweet. He would kiss her if she had 178 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 3: hot breaths. Really cute. 179 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: If Brook thinks it's cute, that's how you know you're doom. 180 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 2: So let's just call her Hopefully it's not the breath thing, 181 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 2: but brooking. 182 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: Her husband just eating raw onions, Like, oh honey, hey, 183 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 1: if you. 184 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 3: Do it together, it doesn't matter. 185 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: Okay, let's eject from this as quickly as possible. I'm 186 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: down on you right now. 187 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 4: Hello. 188 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 1: Hey is this Megan? 189 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, relax, calm down, Brook. 190 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 2: This is a radio show that you're on right now. 191 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Thanks for 192 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 2: being here. 193 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 3: Hi, good morning, so happy. 194 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 6: Yes, what is this? 195 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 4: Yeah? 196 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 2: This is a segment that we do, a dating segment 197 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 2: called Second Date Update, where we try to help out 198 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 2: listeners who've gone out with someone and afterwards they're not 199 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 2: getting a call back or no chance for a second meetup. 200 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: We try to help them figure out why. 201 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:01,839 Speaker 2: Oh I know you're probably expecting some prizes or whatever, but. 202 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,559 Speaker 3: I think this is even cooler than a prize. Yeah, like, 203 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 3: could be a chance, I don't know, a relationship for 204 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 3: love kinds of a prize. Well, it's good. 205 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 2: So this is a guy, a listener of ours that 206 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 2: you went out with, named Brad. 207 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 6: Oh wow, okay, yeah, I mean. 208 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: Wow, like oh wow, or like, oh, I. 209 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 6: Don't even want to talk about this. I mean, really, I. 210 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 3: Mean it sounds like you two are so invested in 211 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 3: each other. 212 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 2: We've heard a lot from Brad about you, and he 213 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 2: said that it's been six days since your date, but 214 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 2: it's kind of felt like a lifetime to him, because 215 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 2: I mean, that's how strong the connection was. We've heard 216 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 2: a lot of people going on normal dates before on 217 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: the show, but the way he described your connection and 218 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: your kind of journey together, he put a lot of 219 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 2: hope into this, and he's felt kind of devastated that 220 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 2: you've stepped back. 221 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 6: Yeah. I was pretty devastated to him. 222 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 3: Oh okay, that's not good. 223 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 2: Can we ask, like, what cause that change in feeling 224 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 2: towards him? 225 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean we were talking about the future and 226 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 6: everything was good, and then we met up and it 227 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 6: started off right, it was fun, it was sweet, and 228 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 6: then he said something that was just so off pudding. 229 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: Uh oh he doesn't like pudding. 230 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 3: Yeah off jezz Oh okay, oh my god, Like immediately 231 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 3: you had to reaction as soon as he said this. 232 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 6: I mean, at first I thought it was a joke 233 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 6: and then I realized he was serious. 234 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: Oh god, it's not about the street mattress thing. 235 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 5: Is it he wants to design a dream home or 236 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 5: on a stained mattress. 237 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 6: Yeah. No, it was when we were eating. We had 238 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 6: a lot of stuff to eat, and I said that 239 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 6: I make the best blooming onion in my air fryer. 240 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 6: Oh wow, And he laughed at me. 241 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 1: He laughed at you. 242 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 6: He laughed at me, and he said that air fryers 243 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 6: are a scam. 244 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 3: What I mean, they are just convection ovens. 245 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: But right, wait, what does that mean? 246 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 6: Oh? He said, it's just a loud toaster. 247 00:11:02,160 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 3: Oh that's kind of funny. I mean, it's like the 248 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 3: George Forman Grille of today. Like everybody's buying them. Everybody's 249 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 3: got to have him. 250 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: But she said, but she said he wasn't joking, that 251 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: he was serious. 252 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 6: He was serious. 253 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 3: What he was that passionate about air friers? 254 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, well maybe I was passionate about it and he wasn't. 255 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 6: But he said he just didn't believe in them. And 256 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 6: that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. 257 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 2: Okay, wow, So his comment about air friers being a 258 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 2: scam for you, that completely shifted how you saw him. 259 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, in that moment, I was like, Nope, I don't 260 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 6: see my future husband. 261 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 2: Okay, Oh wow, not the trash mattress. 262 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 6: We were joking about that. He was dead serious about this. 263 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: Okay, that is such. 264 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 3: A hard take. 265 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 2: That is weird. He seems like that's where she draws 266 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 2: the line, like you can come after whatever else, but 267 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 2: don't cross me in my air frer. 268 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 3: No I actually met him, oh saying the airs were 269 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 3: a belief system. 270 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:58,320 Speaker 1: Oh interesting? 271 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, that is weird. 272 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: You never discussed it with him and told him how 273 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: it made you feel. 274 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 6: I mean, he was so serious, he was just digging in. 275 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 6: I just sat back and crossed him off my list. 276 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: Oh geez. 277 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 6: Wow. 278 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 2: Well, I can still sense a little bit of pent 279 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,959 Speaker 2: up frustration that you have towards Brad even thinking about it, 280 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 2: and if you wanted to unload on him, just saying, 281 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 2: now's your chance, because he's on the other line right 282 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 2: now waiting to. 283 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: Talk to you. 284 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 6: Are you serious? I don't want to talk about this anymore. 285 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 2: I'm sure he wants to say something about it this. 286 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, me too, Brad, are you there? 287 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 4: Hey, Megan, I had no idea you were so bothered 288 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 4: by those comments. 289 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 6: Well, I mean you were so serious. I mean, what 290 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 6: are you going to stick fries in the microwaves. 291 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 4: I mean, you have an oven, you can put things 292 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 4: in the oven. 293 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:49,599 Speaker 6: You're sounding like a lunatic right now, Brad. 294 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 4: Rise in an oven, You're great, Brad, I don't know, 295 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know what to say, because, 296 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 4: I mean, our connection I thought was so strong and 297 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 4: I can't imagine that something as simple as my feelings 298 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 4: about an air fryer have changed your optimism about where 299 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 4: a relationship could go. 300 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. 301 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 6: I mean I use it every single day. My friends 302 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 6: use it every single day. I mean it's like the 303 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:18,880 Speaker 6: best invention. I mean, this guy like he doesn't understand 304 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 6: how great it is. What's wrong with him? 305 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 3: Okay, well maybe that's like an invitation to teach. You 306 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,720 Speaker 3: bring him to the air fire side. 307 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 2: Brad, do you see how like you've clearly touched a 308 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 2: nerve for her. It's not like you've just made a 309 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 2: funny joke about air frers. 310 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 1: You've attacked her life. 311 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 4: I'm just so shocked. Guys, I thought you were in 312 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 4: the hospital because things were going so well. 313 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 6: You almost put me in the hospital with your comments 314 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 6: about that, and that is so dramatic. 315 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: I mean, it doesn't even sound like Brad really cares 316 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 3: about air fryers that much, right, Brad. 317 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,839 Speaker 4: I don't believe in them, but who cares? Like, I'm 318 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 4: not gonna let it get in the middle of a 319 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 4: potential great relationship. 320 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 2: We clearly an important touching point for Megan that you 321 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 2: value it because that's how she eats all of her meals. 322 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 1: She wants in the air fryer. 323 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 6: I mean, if you don't believe in air fryers, what's next? 324 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 6: Seasonal candles, fitted sheets, marinating things overnight? 325 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: You do not believe in fitted sheets, bread? 326 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 3: It's your dream home? Okay. I think we're putting a 327 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 3: little too much emphasis on one kitchen appliance. 328 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 4: I mean, go buy an easy bake oven. I don't 329 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 4: care whatever. 330 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 6: You guys are laughing at me, but it's it's a 331 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 6: deal breaker. 332 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 3: He said you can use your air. He doesn't care 333 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 3: if you use an air fryer. 334 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: I mean, but he also is like, I don't believe 335 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: in them. 336 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 3: At the same time, he hasn't had her bluemann onion. 337 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 3: You know he may change his mind. 338 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 6: You think he's getting invited you over to try any 339 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 6: of my foods. That chance. 340 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 1: You'll never taste her blooming on you in there. Brad, 341 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: sounds like it is in a way. 342 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 2: Well, we went from the most romantic story of all 343 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 2: time to air fryers burning down a relationship. 344 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 3: Yeah it was pretty simple. 345 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and quick too, under fifteen minutes. They're so efficient. 346 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 6: I can't believe I actually imagine myself growing old with 347 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 6: you. You're clearly gonna die young from the way you're eating. 348 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that was dark. 349 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 4: I mean, I gotta be honest. If this is the 350 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 4: thing that is your deal breaker in a relationship, dying young, 351 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 4: I'm gonna be getting out easy. 352 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 2: Oh should we keep the disses going for another few 353 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 2: minutes or. 354 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: Should we just call it here? I think okay, we're 355 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: gonna call it anyway. 356 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning, man, I need to be a 357 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 2: better host, I think, just in general, particularly for this 358 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 2: second date. 359 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 3: Upt don't comment. 360 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 2: I know it's true because we kind of got sidetracked 361 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 2: on air ryer burns and kind of jokes and put downs. 362 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 2: I never tried to reconnect those two back to their 363 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 2: original feelings for each other and what they liked about 364 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 2: each other. I was just sitting back and joining the show, 365 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 2: eating popcorn, not being a good host. 366 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 3: I feel like I tried to create some middle ground, 367 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 3: at least on the air frer front, and there was 368 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 3: no middle ground to reach. It wasn't gonna work. It's 369 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 3: so weird. I mean, she just wrote him off in 370 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 3: that moment and would never change her mind. 371 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 372 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: I actually was kind of shocked that you don't own 373 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 2: an air fierbrook I thought that you were one of 374 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 2: the air friers Stands. 375 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 3: I hate kitchen gadgets. It's like a thing. 376 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 2: For me, Brooks, Like, let's just put it over an 377 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 2: open fire in a trash can and call. 378 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 4: It a day. 379 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 3: In nineties where everyone had like food dehydrators, you'd realize 380 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 3: what it's a dumb mistake. 381 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: I am glad. 382 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 3: Seriously, how many banana chips can you make? 383 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 2: But if you want help from our show, I promise 384 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 2: Brooks willing to help you. 385 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: It might not sound like it, she will. 386 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 3: Okay, you're the one that was apologizing, not me. 387 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:04,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, I am the bad host. 388 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 2: Brooke is the good one, and hopefully she can help 389 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 2: get you a second date. 390 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: I mean it, Brooks the good one. 391 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 4: We're all doing. 392 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, reach out to us. Email us. We'll call that 393 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 1: person who's not calling you back.