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Subject I'm tired of raising his child 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: and his ex wife. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and 12 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: I have been together for three years and married almost 13 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: one year. When I met him, he was just getting 14 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: a divorce and he was struggling with being alone. He 15 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: said he was still really cool with his ex wife, 16 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,599 Speaker 1: even after she cheated on him. They have a four 17 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 1: year old daughter, so he has no choice but to 18 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: talk to her to co parent with her. He's thirty 19 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: five and his ex wife is twenty eight. He explained 20 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: to me that he started dating her when she was 21 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: twenty two, and when they moved in together, he had 22 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: to teach her the basics like money management and how 23 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: to take care of their household. I couldn't imagine how 24 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: much he had to prepare her to be a mother. 25 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: He made it sound like she had no home training. 26 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: But she's sweet and mild mannered. I haven't had any 27 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,759 Speaker 1: issues with jealousy or how I discipline her child in 28 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: my house. The only issue I have is that she 29 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 1: constantly calls my husband and I for advice on how 30 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: to do certain things. My husband and I always tell 31 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: her to google stuff, and she always says she's not 32 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: good with that. I have told her that she's in 33 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: the real world and as a single mother, she has 34 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: to be on top of her game and know what's 35 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 1: going on around her at all times. I cannot raise 36 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: her and her four year old daughter. I think I'm 37 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: going above and beyond what any new wife would do 38 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: in regards to an ex wife. My husband keeps telling 39 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: me that God will bless me for having a kind heart. 40 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: I want God to bless me with a husband that 41 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: I can have all to myself. I have to remind 42 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: my husband that she knew enough to cheat on him. 43 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: So her quote Damsel in Distress act is getting old. 44 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: Does he feel sorry for her? Or is he doing 45 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: this because he still loves her. Well, it could be 46 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 1: a combination of both. He may love her, he may 47 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,239 Speaker 1: not be in love with her like he's in love 48 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: with you, and he might feel a little sorry for her. 49 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: He's known her since she was twenty two. She didn't 50 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: know how to do anything. He taught her the ropes 51 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: and all that. 52 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: But I have to. 53 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: Say to you, you are really, really a good person. 54 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:33,519 Speaker 1: It sounds like and because who does this? I mean, 55 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: what your husband should do and should have done, is 56 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: to tell his ex that she's got to start figuring 57 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: these things out for her for herself, just like you did. 58 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: Because your husband has moved on, and that's the key. 59 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: He has to move on with you. They can co parent. 60 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: She needs to stay out of his current marriage, though 61 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: I don't know any wife who would be this patient 62 00:02:55,400 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: with her husband's ex wife. But then again, and let's 63 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: get down to it, Like you said, she had enough 64 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: sense to cheat on him, So her damsel and distressed 65 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: act is a bit played. Now she's by herself. She 66 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: sees his hard out here in these single streets. The 67 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 1: one good thing is that you said she calls you 68 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: and your husband, not just him. Are you okay with 69 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 1: that though, I don't think so, because at twenty eight 70 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: she ought to be able to google anything. If not, 71 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: she needs to start learning some basics and leave you 72 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: guys alone. 73 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 3: Steve, Ain't nobody got time for this foolishness right here. 74 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 3: I don't know who put up with this type stuff 75 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 3: right here. This ain't regular. Go find your ass something 76 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 3: to do. First of all, I'm tired of raising his child. 77 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 3: Did Steven Shirley? My husband and I have been together 78 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 3: three years and married a year. When I met him, 79 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,559 Speaker 3: he was just getting a divorce and he was struggling 80 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 3: with being alone. Okay, he said he was still really 81 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 3: cool with his ex wife even after she cheated on him. 82 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: Okay, right there. 83 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: Can I tell you how impossible that statement is. I'm 84 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 3: really cool with my ex wife even after she cheated 85 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 3: on him. Okay, see right there, that's abnormal. 86 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: You can forgive a person all this here. 87 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 3: But I don't know too many men though that's really 88 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 3: cool with they ex after they cheated on them. I 89 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:39,280 Speaker 3: don't really know too many that our sum I just 90 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 3: don't know none. And since she all said, did Steven Shirley, 91 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 3: all I can do is tell you my world, and 92 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 3: that ain't in my world because I'm not doing that. 93 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 3: She was thirty five, he twenty eight. When she met him, 94 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 3: she was twenty two. They moved in together. He had 95 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 3: to teach a basic money management to take care of 96 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 3: the household in She said, I couldn't imagine how much 97 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 3: he had to prepare her for motherhood and how he 98 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 3: gonna do that? 99 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 1: What? 100 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 3: What teaching he finna do to prepare her for motherhood? 101 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 3: What he say? What was the motherhood meeting that this 102 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 3: man had with this girl? I sure want to hear that. 103 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: You want to talk about a wasted ass conversation, Fellas, 104 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 3: try to tell a woman something about having a baby 105 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: or being a mother, and you ain't one that that's 106 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 3: some more wasted If I'm telling you right now, they 107 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 3: gonna tilt they head and look at you like that 108 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 3: little dog on that r C A label used to 109 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 3: be what I'm a dogged him? How you start that conversation? 110 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 3: Then she turned around and says, but she's sweet in 111 00:05:55,800 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 3: miud manner. I ain't got no issues with her yellows 112 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 3: sea or how disciplined her child in my house. 113 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 2: Excuse me. 114 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 3: The only thing she says that bothers me is she 115 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 3: constantly calls my husband and I for advice on how 116 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 3: to do certain things. Well, she don't need a husband, 117 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 3: She need a daddy and a mama. 118 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 2: That's what she needs. 119 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 3: She needs some more friends and look like y'all it 120 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 3: we come back. We do the rest of it, but 121 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 3: I'll be taking questions on this from the laby. 122 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: All right, we'll have heard two of Steve's response coming 123 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: up to today's Strawberry letter. The subject is I'm tired 124 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: of raising his child and his ex wife. We'll get 125 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Morning show. 126 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 127 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 1: The subject is, I'm tired of raising his child and 128 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 1: his wife his ex wife. 129 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 3: Well, this lady that married this man and they got married. 130 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 3: They've been married about three year years. When she met him, 131 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,679 Speaker 3: he was lonely and struggling with the breakup he had 132 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 3: with this girl. He was married to Dayton and he's 133 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 3: just he was, oh, well, first of all, they were married, 134 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 3: he was married to this young girl, and after the 135 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: divorce he was struggling being alone. Budd He said it 136 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 3: was really cool with his ex wife, even after she 137 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 3: cheated on him. That's an impossible statement, because we ain't 138 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 3: cool no more. 139 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 2: Once you take the cookie. 140 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 3: M and dunking in somebody else's milk, that's your cookie. 141 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: You can keep that cookie, And I don't want that 142 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 3: cookie no more, say because to me now your cookie 143 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 3: is spoiled. Wow, you don't messed your cookie up. It 144 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 3: don't crumble the same no more to me now it does. 145 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 3: But I'm saying for me. 146 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: That's all. 147 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 3: You still got good cookie, somebody still wanting you, still 148 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 3: beautiful person, all like that, just not to me, No, 149 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 3: damn mode. 150 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 2: That's all you know. God and the forgiving beer. 151 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 3: Since I might have been wrong and pushed you into 152 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 3: the arms of another man, all that all that could 153 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 3: be true, d ain't I don't. 154 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 2: Will look at it though. 155 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: No, it's. 156 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 2: Lord that ain't. 157 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 3: That ain't what I'm goin to do. I'm finna hate hate, hate, hate, 158 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 3: hate hate. 159 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: Women forgive. 160 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 3: So now you all have a relationship, and she's mild manner, 161 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 3: She ain't bad. You don't have no issues with her 162 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 3: with jealousy. She don't talk about how you discipline her 163 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 3: child in the house. And the only issue you have 164 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 3: is she constantly calls my husband and I for advice 165 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 3: on how to do certain things. See, she don't need 166 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 3: ex husband, She needed daddy. She needs daddy and the 167 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 3: mamma and y'all, y'all old, and y'all help me my 168 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 3: husband and and well she'll call and ask vice on 169 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 3: how to do things. My husband and I always tell 170 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 3: her the Google stuff. And she says she's not good 171 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 3: with that. Well, now we're talking about stupid person. Now, 172 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 3: See we gonna we can gonna elevate this whole letter 173 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 3: up now because now she ain't needed she's stupid. I 174 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 3: ain't good at Googling. Well you good at asking questions? 175 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 3: What you think Google for? Yeah, Google is far asking 176 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 3: question what you just asked us? Type that in and 177 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 3: Google gonna give you several options. It's gonna be some 178 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 3: good advice, gonna be some bad advice, gonna be some 179 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 3: stuff you need to listen to. It's gonna be some 180 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 3: stuff that's familiar, some stuff you've never heard. Google is 181 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 3: damn So now she says she ain't good at that, 182 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 3: And I told her that she's in the real world 183 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 3: now as a single mother. She gotta get on top 184 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 3: of a game and know what's going on. Around her. 185 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 3: I cannot raise her and the four year old daughter. 186 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 3: I'm thinking I'm going above and beyond what any new 187 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 3: wife will do. And yes you are. You are way 188 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 3: over the top in regards to an ex wife. My 189 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 3: husband keeps telling me that God will bless me for 190 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 3: having a kind heart. I want God to bless me 191 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 3: with her husband, I can have all of myself up. Yeah, see, 192 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 3: we got problems. Now, see you in here telling you 193 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:24,280 Speaker 3: that God gonna bless you dog. You know, look, man, 194 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 3: you need to take all that old that stuff you got, 195 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 3: You take all that church mess you got and go 196 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 3: on somewhere with it. You gotta stop this man, because 197 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 3: whoever she cheated on you with, she ain't with him 198 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 3: no more. I think she trying to weazle her way 199 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:50,760 Speaker 3: back in with kindness. Would and if you just come 200 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 3: over here and take care of me every now and then, 201 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 3: and then you and your wife. The reason I'm being 202 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 3: cool with your wife so she can know that you 203 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 3: can ease on him back over here. She ain't even 204 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 3: gonna think nothing of it. And in a minute this 205 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 3: advice is gonna turn into a financial requests now, and 206 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 3: I have to remind my husband that she knew enough 207 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 3: to cheat on him, So that damnsel in distress act 208 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 3: is getting old as it should be. You can't keep 209 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: being the damnsel in distressed when you was cheating. See, 210 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 3: you can be both of them for me. Once you 211 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 3: cheat on me, you can be the damsel that's fine, 212 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 3: And you could be in distress, that's fine. But I 213 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 3: ain't got a damn thing to do with that, because 214 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 3: first thing, when you come and ask me, I'm going 215 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 3: whoa where homeboy? 216 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 2: Ad? 217 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: Yes? 218 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 3: You know, you know, you know, you know, use over 219 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 3: that pass and now cook it? You know, letting somebody 220 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 3: you know, dunking into somebody else milk? 221 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,439 Speaker 2: You know where he at? Ask him? You ain't got 222 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 2: to google nobody. Ask him. 223 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:58,559 Speaker 3: You're out here passing. Now cook it like the tato chips. 224 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 3: You can't eat as many cooks because says you can't 225 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 3: take the chips. 226 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: That's true. Let me ask you this, Steve, do you 227 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 1: think is the husband still in love with her? Somewhat? 228 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? Uh huh, and he's stupid and he's stupid. 229 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: Okay, because he's letting this go on and he needs 230 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: to dog. 231 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 3: You're not fin to cheat on me and then need 232 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 3: me now need. 233 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 2: Who you cheated with? Yeah, yeah, where he at? 234 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 3: You know we're gonna get a divorce and break up 235 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 3: because you was with him. Now you find out he 236 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 3: ain't nothing. Now you back over here needing me because 237 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 3: you knew I was gonna help you. 238 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 2: You ain't that fine? I'm sorry though. 239 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 3: Oh he got a great wife. But what the wife 240 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 3: ought to do is slide over there. Not in her 241 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 3: d MS on her dose, step ding dong Avon called 242 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 3: him full of brush around herby. 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