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Speaker 1: I with Alexi Napola and Marissa Patton, an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeahmiga, this is our second episode of Ask Me Anything.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, these are my favorite. I love when

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Speaker 1: the fans rite us questions. That's my favorite because they're

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Speaker 1: always the like easiest ones.

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Speaker 3: It's about we're so used to being on the hot seat.

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Speaker 2: It's so easy for us to answer all these questions,

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Speaker 2: even if they may be uncomfortable, but in this case

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Speaker 2: they're not.

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Speaker 3: They're They're all fun questions that we love. They're so good.

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Speaker 3: They're so good.

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Speaker 1: I got creepy ones, though, I on mine that were

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Speaker 1: just like rated acts that I had to ignore.

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Speaker 3: Really, I winked on me.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, okay, Well, let's talk a little bit of housewives,

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Speaker 2: because of course, you know, we're always going to have

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Speaker 2: some questions that are related to the housewives.

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Speaker 3: We try not we don't like to do those, Okay,

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Speaker 3: So this is this one about.

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Speaker 2: One of the questions is exactly what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you talk more about housewives on I put forward?

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Speaker 3: Because we don't want to.

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Speaker 2: So when Marathon and I decided to do the podcast,

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Speaker 2: we promised ourselves that we were not going to talk

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Speaker 2: about the housewives, you know what, because we want you

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Speaker 2: to watch our show. This is not about our show.

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Speaker 2: Our show is our show, which is the Real Housewives

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Speaker 2: of Miami, and we want you to tune in to

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Speaker 2: Brabo and Peacock and watch everything that's going on in

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Speaker 2: our lives at the moment on the on that platform.

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Speaker 1: We love Bravo, we love Peacock. We really love what

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Speaker 1: all the women do. They entertain all of us. We're

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Speaker 1: all here for a reason. We all bring something different

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Speaker 1: at the table. So that's why we don't do that.

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Speaker 3: Next question, what's our favorite memory together?

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Speaker 1: Our favorite memory together? That's very difficult, Alexia, because there's

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Speaker 1: so many, Like right now, we're making a very fun memory.

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Speaker 1: I just think anytime we're together and we're laughing, they're

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Speaker 1: great memories. And there's so many of those that I

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Speaker 1: can't even pinpoint.

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Speaker 3: So can I tell you something that I love that

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Speaker 3: you just told me recently in Mexico? Was you told me? No?

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Speaker 3: So you said, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I just realize that I've traveled with you more like

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Speaker 2: all over the world than with any other front.

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Speaker 3: And I thought that was pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: I said, wow, like that's really cool, Like I'm your

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Speaker 2: friend that you've traveled the most. Who've been to Thailand,

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Speaker 2: We've been to Mexico. We've been to New York so

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Speaker 2: many times. We've been to California, to La We've been

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Speaker 2: to Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: I mean everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Right, We've been to so many places together, Bahamas, Hampton's, Hampton's,

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Speaker 2: and not only for the show. In our real personal

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Speaker 2: life we have as well, not only for the show life.

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Speaker 3: So I thought that was pretty cool. I love that

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Speaker 3: you said that. It's true. It's true.

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Speaker 1: And I used to have a PR firm, as you know,

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Speaker 1: and I traveled a lot with my staff and my

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Speaker 1: own business partner. But we've traveled a lot more and

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Speaker 1: been to a lot farther, you know, more exotic places

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Speaker 1: together than I have with anybody.

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Speaker 3: I think, even with one of my husbands. Steve's catching

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Speaker 3: up though now.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, he had competition, so he's like, let me

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Speaker 2: take her on a good trip this summer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So, speaking of friends, what would you do if you

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Speaker 2: see an ex friend in public? Would you say hi

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Speaker 2: to her or him?

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Speaker 3: Or would you ignore them?

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Speaker 1: This actually just happened to me when we were at

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Speaker 1: Polo on the Beach. I saw an enemy, and she

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Speaker 1: looked at me and smiled, and I was like, oh, hey,

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Speaker 1: but I had had a lot of tequilas, so I

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Speaker 1: guess without alcohol, right, I said high and I kept

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Speaker 3: One if I had a drink.

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Speaker 2: It depends, like in the mood I'm in, I may

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Speaker 2: if I'm like sober, and it depends on mean like well, the.

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Speaker 1: Gravity of course in between you. Then you know, it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: sometimes I think it's better to ignore, you know. I

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Speaker 2: I think that that's the best way of getting anybody back,

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Speaker 2: bigger person if you like do that. So, like I said,

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Speaker 2: it depends who it is and I and what they did.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of relationships, Yes, speaking of relationships, a person has

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Speaker 1: a query here what qualities are most important when choosing

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Speaker 3: What do you look for? My friend?

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Speaker 2: You know, what I look for today is a lot

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Speaker 2: different than what I looked for when I was much younger, obviously,

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Speaker 2: say so, what I look for today is you know

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Speaker 2: And you know, I do look for someone that's loyal

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Speaker 2: and that I can trust. Yeah, to me, those are

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Speaker 2: is important in a life partner. Somebody that I can

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Speaker 2: trust and that is loyal, and somebody that wants to

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Speaker 2: live their life like I want to live my life.

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Speaker 3: That we have the same wants and the same needs.

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Speaker 1: I think that I was always in love with love

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Speaker 1: and I wanted to do something different than everybody else

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Speaker 1: around me. All my girlfriends married guys they knew when

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Speaker 1: just wanted to live in the same group forever, in

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Speaker 3: I had to look for air. I need to do

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Speaker 3: something different.

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Speaker 1: And I was dating all these Arab guys and I

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Speaker 1: all believe in God. It doesn't matter if you call

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Speaker 1: them all our God. It's the same God. We're all

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Speaker 1: going to get along. But in the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: and then I had two French husbands and we you know,

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Speaker 3: It does.

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Speaker 2: But when you're young in naives and you don't know

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Speaker 2: those things. And until I was fifty, right, and then

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Speaker 2: I met Steve who actually was raised like me. We

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Speaker 2: have the same religions, believe same ethics. I thought, listen,

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Speaker 2: that's impossible. It's all love, It's all the same God,

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Speaker 2: We're all going to get along. It's going to be

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Speaker 2: Love is everything. Love is love, which is true idea.

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Speaker 1: Just the littlest things can cause the biggest problem if

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Speaker 1: you don't celebrate it the same way or think the

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Speaker 3: Decided, I mean, I'm Marria gringo.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know they say Mary or father. Well, this

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Speaker 1: was the first time, and we get along perfectly. It's flawless.

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Speaker 1: We believe the same things, we grew up the same way,

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Speaker 1: that makes life well, I feel.

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Speaker 2: Like at the stage that we are now and like

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Speaker 2: you know, in my case, the third time around, you know,

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Speaker 2: you look for things that we're missing your other relationships.

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Speaker 3: A hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: For me, loyalty and trust is very important because maybe

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Speaker 2: I didn't have that in my you know, last relationships.

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Speaker 2: I did thinking you know, coming into it, but out

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Speaker 2: that's very important to me because I was dated by

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Speaker 2: that now and then I also think it's very important

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Speaker 2: to like want the same things in life you know,

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Speaker 2: and have, like you said, the same morals and values,

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Speaker 2: grow together because I feel that when there's separation, when

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Speaker 2: need the same things.

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Speaker 1: One hundred percent Yes, And you have to be able

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Speaker 1: to love yourself in order to love someone else, and

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Speaker 1: hope you find someone else that is open to loving

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Speaker 1: you and they love themselves too, because a lot of

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Speaker 1: people just get a relationship, be in a relationship and

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Speaker 1: they don't they don't like themselves and they can't even

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Speaker 2: They're just going through the motions. So well, yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: a beautiful thing about aging. Also, you know that it

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Speaker 2: comes with wisdom yes, and you know it's so different,

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Speaker 2: like the Alexia that was twenty three, twenty five years old.

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Speaker 2: You know, the first time around was completely different. You know,

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Speaker 2: they probably said, oh, what did you know, what did

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Speaker 2: like he's good looking, he has my lady. You know,

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Speaker 2: he wants to have kids. I want to have like

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Speaker 2: four or five kids, you know, completely different.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wanted to have I wanted to have a

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Speaker 2: By the way, but remember my two comfort tends, so

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Speaker 2: I like, you have to take two.

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to say. It's like, it's so different. Like

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Speaker 2: That I had more time, you know, more time to

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Speaker 2: and you know we're still young. But yeah, that's what

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Speaker 2: that's what. That's all I wanted a relationship. It's not

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Speaker 2: even that much, right, Like I thought it was funny

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Speaker 2: because like I really I think I heard like a

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Speaker 2: little bit. I don't know, you saw Kim Kardashian's list

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Speaker 2: I see like a roll of toilet paper, like it's

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Speaker 3: What was on the list? I can't even remember.

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Speaker 2: It was multiple, it was hundreds of things, like it

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Speaker 3: But the thing is that she believes it. But it's

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Speaker 3: that man exists and we're easy.

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Speaker 2: Because we all and I just I just learned to

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Speaker 2: ask for less but more important things, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean, Because it's like all that other stuff I

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Speaker 2: have and I can get, I.

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Speaker 1: Asked for now for good health for me and my

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Speaker 1: husband so that we can have time together because we're

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Speaker 1: enjoy our time together.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and peace, that's all I want.

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Speaker 2: I want good health, and that's why even you know

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Speaker 2: that's that's that's all I want, because with good health

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Speaker 2: you can get everything else. And if you can have

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Speaker 2: everything else and not have good health, and you have nothing,

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Speaker 2: So for me, it's the same thing, my.

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Speaker 3: Friend, gratitude.

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Speaker 2: We're still talking about relationships because we love to talk

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Speaker 2: about relationships, which is your best way to get of

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Speaker 2: our heartbreak.

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Speaker 1: You know, well, I think you when I have the

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Speaker 1: same answer, can I say, yeah, yeah, two things prayer

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Speaker 3: Right right, And I also said a new partner like movie.

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Speaker 1: Themselves because I end up with cadab or body and

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Speaker 1: Paul's like, I'm done, done, I'm done, I'm done I'm

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Speaker 3: It is if it was bad, it's just you're not

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Speaker 1: Grew up here and I've seen Miami transform a lot,

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Speaker 2: People that I don't even consider than Miami people, right,

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Speaker 3: I'm very prudent, Okay, And what about you? What bugs you?

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Speaker 2: Well? You know what bothers me the way that people

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Speaker 3: Lot of big cities. It happens to a lot of

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Speaker 1: But I feel like we get an influx of it

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Speaker 2: There's so many I think even Miami people have become

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Speaker 3: You know. There's like a bunch of like memes and

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Speaker 2: Like only in Miami and only in day that that

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Speaker 2: I'm gone used to it. People were up here. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: You know, I've always lived here, so I you know.

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Speaker 2: I don't see you the bathtop, but I mean I can.

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Speaker 2: Those are the things I mean today, there's worst things

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Speaker 3: Where would you love to live if it was in Miami.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I would love to live anywhere with four seasons,

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Speaker 3: Well, how was Mexican Spanish different from Cuban. It's so

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Speaker 2: I've always said my favorite Spanish was Mexican and Argentinian because.

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Speaker 3: I don't like the Spanish from Spain. It's very kind

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Speaker 2: And so the Mexicans used say straw, and the Cubans

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Speaker 1: But isn't it funny how some of our words are

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Speaker 3: Like like it. It's funny, you know what.

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Speaker 3: You know that they have different terms.

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Speaker 2: No, I know that I'm saying, like about the sexual

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Speaker 3: You know, that's a whole other thing. I have to

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Speaker 2: Straw is straw, That's no worry, Yeah, there's straw. We

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, to try to put into pursuit that we

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Speaker 1: And I feel like you've been able to overcome a

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I think you have to be happiness

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Speaker 2: they're like an extension of my happiness. Like if I

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Speaker 3: I get that. And the people that I love as well,

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Speaker 2: You're sad, like I can't be like happy, like generally happy,

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Speaker 3: So that takes that takes away a little piece of

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Speaker 2: I mean, happiness is a big word in it encompasses

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Speaker 3: But I think that.

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Speaker 3: And I remember your mom telling me that.

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Speaker 2: Mariso Elsa told me, like, I know that you're going

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Speaker 3: And she.

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Speaker 2: Looked at me and she said, I, you know, you're

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Speaker 2: always smiling, and I love about that. But people don't

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Speaker 2: know how much you have to work at always. You

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Speaker 2: know that while and have to smile because people don't

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Speaker 2: know everything you have to go through to be here

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Speaker 2: with here with us now, Yeah, you show up with

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Speaker 2: a smile on your face and you're happy. So I've

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Speaker 2: always been like that person that even though I'm dealing

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Speaker 2: with all this, and it's not that you're not going

448
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Speaker 2: to know because I'm very expressive and I'm very and.

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Speaker 3: I tell you what right, show right, So I don't

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Speaker 3: hide things.

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Speaker 2: I'm very genuine and I'm wrong and actually talk a

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Speaker 2: lot about my personal life. But I always work on

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Speaker 2: my happiness, is what I'm trying to say too. It's like,

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Speaker 2: I think you need to work at it. You have

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Speaker 2: to because you can let all these things that bring

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Speaker 2: you down, or you can choose to be happy.

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Speaker 3: And it's you have to choose it. And I choose

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Speaker 3: to be happy every day, and it is it is.

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of my happiness at least and

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Speaker 2: me I've noticed throughout the years that has to do

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Speaker 2: with my children and with the people I love. Like

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Speaker 2: I'm easy to make happy, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: I don't need a lot to make me happy. All

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Speaker 2: I need is my kids and my loved wants to

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Speaker 2: be healthy and happy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree. Yeah. It's all about

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Speaker 3: your frame of mind and the way you process information.

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Speaker 3: And you know I have.

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Speaker 1: We all have hard days, and I say to myself, no,

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Speaker 1: you're not going to think about that. No it's not

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Speaker 1: gonna be a big deal in two days. No, you're

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Speaker 1: not thinking about that look around you. How lucky are you?

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Speaker 1: You have a beautiful home, We have a lovely husband,

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Speaker 1: great step kids.

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Speaker 3: I mean you you you're healthy.

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Speaker 1: Like I always think of the good things and I

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Speaker 1: get myself out of the funk, and then immediately I'm happy.

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Speaker 1: And then I pour Teitos, which never hurts, I mean,

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Speaker 1: any vodka.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I will admit if it adds to your happiness,

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Speaker 2: it makes me giggle, of course, and then I forget yeah,

482
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Speaker 2: and you help me giggle too, you know. So I

483
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Speaker 2: feel like at this point in our lives, we just

484
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Speaker 2: want to be surrounded with people that are going to

485
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Speaker 2: add to our happiness, and I'll take away from it.

486
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Speaker 3: So that's all we want.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to make me happy, because I make

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Speaker 2: myself happy, but you're not going to come and try

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Speaker 2: to take it away from me, because you know, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: it's very important who you surround yourself with one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: And in that case, I only want around I only

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Speaker 2: want to be around people that I tell my happiness

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Speaker 2: and and that's where that's why you and I are

494
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Speaker 2: such good friends, because you always add to my happiness.

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Speaker 3: You do too.

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Speaker 1: Whenever I sit and I see your face when we're

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Speaker 1: going to do this podcast, all of a sudden, my

498
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 1: energy changes and I smile, like when we go film

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Speaker 1: a scene. The minute I'm in front of you him like,

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Speaker 1: oh this is fun, Like I'll be dreading, like what's

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Speaker 1: going to happen today? And then the minute I see

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Speaker 1: your face and you smile and I smile, like this

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Speaker 1: energy activates.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, we're on, let's go.

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Speaker 2: We're the because I'm bolt like a general life that

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Speaker 2: that's like what we want, you know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you know before me, you're animating each other.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you know what, and life is sure and we

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Speaker 2: know that, so we want to make every moment count sure.

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Speaker 2: So how do you remain which is kind of like

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Speaker 2: into the next leads to the next question. How do

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Speaker 2: you remain positive in bad situations? I pray you talk

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Speaker 2: to Alexia, I pray that for you. How do you

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Speaker 2: remain positive?

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Speaker 1: I call Alexia, I pray a lot, and then I

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Speaker 1: cancel the negative I cancel the negative thought and I

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Speaker 1: go into a place of gratitude. It's just an exercise.

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Speaker 1: You have to do it a lot. You have to

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Speaker 1: remember to do it. You can't let the negative thoughts

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Speaker 1: eat you. Up and keep you up. That's just my practice,

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Speaker 1: my mantra. I learned it to the most typical times

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Speaker 1: in my life. And I have to remind myself when

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Speaker 1: I can't sleep, I'm like, no, stop, stop.

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Speaker 3: Be grateful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know sometimes you have to like look

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Speaker 2: around and be grateful, like you said, for your life

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Speaker 2: and for all the good things, like focus on the good,

528
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Speaker 2: positive things that are happening in your life.

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Speaker 3: I feel like.

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Speaker 2: People forget those things and people just want to focus

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Speaker 2: on the negative and on the bad things. And I've

532
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Speaker 2: never lived my life like that, and that's why I've

533
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Speaker 2: always been very optimistic and I've always been filled with hope,

534
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Speaker 2: and I always think tomorrow is going to be better,

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Speaker 2: and it is, you know.

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Speaker 3: So that's what I do.

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Speaker 2: You know, I just focus on all the good because,

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Speaker 2: believe me, people, there's so much good in your life.

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Speaker 3: It's the way that you see things.

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Speaker 1: When you focus on the good, you keep attracting good.

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Speaker 1: Your thoughts attract and it's so power. It took it

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Speaker 1: was it was trial and error is how I found

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Speaker 1: out that that really works.

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Speaker 3: And it's you.

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Speaker 1: You cannot you cannot let things take over your brain

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Speaker 1: too much. If they're negative, because then you don't get

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Speaker 1: out of it, and then you keep attracting bad things.

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Speaker 1: You got to stay in the positive, focus on the positive. Anything,

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Speaker 1: just hang on to anything.

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Speaker 3: Seeing and believe me, there's a lot. There's always something great.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot. We should have a therapy website.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I think we would just give the same therapy

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Speaker 2: every week.

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Speaker 3: Well, we love our questions. Love questions. We love questions.

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Speaker 3: I wish we can like either people asking them.

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Speaker 1: Well, this was lovely, And I just want to say,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to miss you, bro, I'm leaving for three

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Speaker 1: weeks on vacation.

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Speaker 3: Don't miss me. I'm so happy for you. I will

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Speaker 3: miss you, but we have to keep in touch. You

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Speaker 3: have to FaceTime. What's upp? Yeah, what's up? I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: miss you, my friend.

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Speaker 2: But I'm so happy that you're gonna get to enjoy

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Speaker 2: with your bootbear and go on vacation. I can't wait

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Speaker 2: for mine a week later. Yes, you know, I mean

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Speaker 2: this is what life is about. You know, we need

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Speaker 2: to enjoy ourselves and travel and I think we reconnect

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Speaker 2: right with our partners. I think traveling is so great

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Speaker 2: for like relationships.

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Speaker 1: You know how much you love being in a hotel room. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, get you crazy. Thanks, I'll sick. Yeah

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Speaker 1: see thanks best friends now secret Yeah, hotel room antic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like everybody is like sexier and horder

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Speaker 2: in a hotel room.

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Speaker 3: The sex is way much better when we travel too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah, do you feel like a prostitute? I

577
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Speaker 3: knew you were going to say something like that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe pretty girl went on, Mom, I love you.

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Speaker 1: It was so good chick chating today.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for making me feel better. I made you

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Speaker 3: feel better. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I feel better too, okay okay oi. Yeah, tune

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Speaker 1: in next time too. Ivte Forward I.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Follow us on Instagram at iPort Forward Podcast.

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