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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: joining us. As always, we are so excited to be

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Speaker 2: How are you doing today, Susan.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know those kind of days when you're dealt

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Speaker 3: with a lot of lemons. I made some big lemonade today,

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Speaker 3: but I am happy to be here because I'm going

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Speaker 3: to forget about that day. That's right, and what doesn't

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Speaker 3: kill you makes you stronger. I hate that when people

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Speaker 2: I hate it.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I know it's so easy to say though, And

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Speaker 3: you know what, today we're going to be answering more

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we want to make susan day this day

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Speaker 3: Okay, now let's get into our episode. Let's start, Kathy,

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Speaker 3: you know our favorite part, the question of the day. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So do you think the box theory is accurate? The

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Speaker 3: box theory is when a man meets a woman in

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Speaker 3: a romantic setting, he automatically and permanently puts her into

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Speaker 3: one of three boxes to date, to hook up with,

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Speaker 3: or to have nothing to do with.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: For example, if you're in the hookup box, you can

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Speaker 3: hold out on sex for as long as possible and

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Speaker 3: it will not matter. Or if you're in the dating box,

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Speaker 3: you can sleep with him on the first eight and

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Speaker 3: it won't matter.

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Speaker 1: What.

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Speaker 3: How do you know what?

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Speaker 2: I who wrote this rule?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I do not. I do not

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Speaker 1: subscribe to the box theory. And no, I'll tell you why.

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 1: Ultimately, Ultimately, women or men whoever you're talking about, end

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Speaker 1: up in one of those three boxes. You either end

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Speaker 1: up dating or just hooking up, or having nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with the person again. But where I would say

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Speaker 1: is you don't land in that box on the first meeting.

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Speaker 1: It takes time.

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Speaker 3: When you say or hooking up? Does that mean one

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Speaker 3: and done?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, is that hook?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: We go with vaccination. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: We have to explain forgot its hooking up is not

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Speaker 1: making out?

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Speaker 2: Hooking it?

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Speaker 1: Well, to you, you just go ahead and make out

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Speaker 1: and tell when you're hooking up, and they're going to

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Speaker 3: I was just in nineteen fifty seven. May I remind you.

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Speaker 2: Get with the time, Susan. Okay, So what do you

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Speaker 2: think so? I don't think so. I don't think it's accurate.

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Speaker 1: I think women and men ultimately and up in one

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Speaker 1: of those boxes. But I don't think that you meet

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Speaker 1: someone that you automatically put them in that.

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Speaker 3: Box, automatically, permanently. No, I disagree because.

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Speaker 1: To you, it's a good day. Wait, it's a good day.

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Speaker 1: You're like, your day's getting better.

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Speaker 2: You and I just agreed on something. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: let me get my lemonade. We should put some box

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Speaker 2: in it. I swear, yeah, but that's okay if you insist.

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Speaker 3: Is there really such a thing as called box.

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Speaker 2: Box theory? I'd never heard of it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know it's if it isn't, somebody wants

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Speaker 1: about it and make buckets of money, so you know,

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Speaker 1: let's go with it. But no, I mean, I just

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Speaker 1: I don't think if you're in the dating box you

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Speaker 1: won't matter.

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Speaker 2: I just don't buy that.

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Speaker 3: I just shout, happen, some people get married when they

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Speaker 3: do it right.

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Speaker 2: No, but the point is you're you're not you're throwing.

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Speaker 1: In a red hair in hair, I'm saying, just because

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Speaker 1: you're in Yeah, you're hooking up.

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Speaker 2: You could repeated we hook up too.

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Speaker 3: Then it becomes here I go again with my age,

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Speaker 3: A friend with benefits?

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Speaker 2: Do they say that anymore? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: All right, Katy, you're as old as me, if not older. Here,

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Speaker 3: come on, how about you ladies and gentlemen out there listening.

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Speaker 1: I think we still have friends with benefits. I think

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Speaker 1: we do. I think that term sad there.

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Speaker 3: But then you're calling that hooking up though.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to try this, Well, that's what you're doing,

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Speaker 1: because there's if you're hooking up with somebody, it's just sex.

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Speaker 1: It's not a relationship. Okay, it's a sex let me

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Speaker 1: write that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: God, you know, Susan, the next time you have a date,

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Speaker 1: you know what a box I'm not putting you in.

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Speaker 1: God help me keep her out of the hookup box

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Speaker 1: because she doesn't know.

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Speaker 2: What it means.

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Speaker 1: You think you're getting sex with they're really all she's

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Speaker 1: going to do is want to make out with you.

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Speaker 2: So what's kissing?

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Speaker 3: What box is that?

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Speaker 2: It's it's making it out.

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Speaker 3: It's the making out box or the They needn't found that.

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Speaker 2: That's because that's because it's not a box.

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Speaker 3: Okay, people out there, if you're under forty, write me,

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Speaker 3: write me and tell me the rules, because I know

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Speaker 3: the people over fifteen know.

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Speaker 2: What I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying I told you my daughter, who is

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Speaker 1: under forty, when I said something like hooking up, and

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Speaker 1: I like, she was like what Mom? And then and

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Speaker 1: then so you know that's that's where I get my

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Speaker 1: education from my children. All right, let's get into our

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Speaker 1: fan questions here.

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Speaker 2: Here we go. Please, I'm wonder if it's up for

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Speaker 2: the box.

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Speaker 1: Please God let it be okay. The first question is

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Speaker 1: from anonymous. She says, hi, Kathy and Susan, please explain

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Speaker 1: the box theory to me.

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Speaker 2: No, she did. She's good, she's really quick.

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Speaker 3: Does anybody knows?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: But she really anonymous, really did say Hi, Kathy and Susan,

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Speaker 1: I really need your help. I met my now fiance

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Speaker 1: five years ago when I moved into his apartment building.

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Speaker 1: After months of flirtatious and wageous say that five times

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Speaker 1: fast flirtatious exchanges, we ended up, Oh dear God, hooking

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Speaker 1: up here. It is okay, Susane, they were not making

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Speaker 1: out cool and this was not making out. I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna do a little ad lib here, a little editorializing.

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Speaker 1: She was not making out. She may have been making out,

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Speaker 1: but it led to sex.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: We both had a lot going on at the time.

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Speaker 1: He didn't go into detail. So we put a pin

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Speaker 1: in our budding romance for a bit and started officially

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Speaker 1: dating about six weeks later.

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Speaker 2: Pause pause, put a pin in it? What's a pin?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, putting a pin in this means taking

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Speaker 1: a just gonna put everything on hold for a minute.

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Speaker 1: Put a pin in it, just like hold, put a

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Speaker 1: hold on it. Okay, but put a pin. It's just

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Speaker 1: it's an expression like cooking up. But it doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: hooking up. It means just putting a hold on things.

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Speaker 1: And so they put it on their budding romance for

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Speaker 1: a bit and started officially dating six weeks later. So

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Speaker 1: they put a pin in it for six weeks, for

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Speaker 1: six weeks. Okay, all right, all right. Well over this

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Speaker 1: past weekend, I got a DM from his ex girlfriend

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Speaker 1: of seven years, who he broke up with and cheated

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Speaker 1: on with me. I had no idea he was seeing someone,

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Speaker 1: and now I feel devastated.

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Speaker 2: Uh okay, she wants She warned.

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Speaker 1: She warned me that if that's how you got him,

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Speaker 1: that's how you'll lose him. I haven't told him yet.

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Speaker 1: What do I do? Is he destined to cheat on me?

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Speaker 1: I have so many questions? Thanks, ladies, What do you

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Speaker 1: think is? What do you think?

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Speaker 3: I totally was in on your story?

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Speaker 2: Honey? I liked it.

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Speaker 3: It was romantic, it was exciting, sexy, all of the above.

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Speaker 3: Now WT sked.

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Speaker 1: Well, tell me why, because you can't keep that in.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't.

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Speaker 3: I'd have to say the next time, excuse my expression.

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Speaker 3: You made him come, I'd say, by the way, I

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Speaker 3: got something on my mind. Your girlfriend called me, let's

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Speaker 3: talk about it.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, hold the fune girlfriend? Why do you

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Speaker 2: not tell Wait a minute?

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Speaker 1: Unless I'm misreading this because I got stuck when we

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Speaker 1: put a pin in it.

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Speaker 2: Pause.

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Speaker 1: When we took that pause, she got a DM from

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Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend of seven years who we broke up

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Speaker 1: with and cheated on with me. I'm sorry, where did

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Speaker 1: she get that information?

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Speaker 2: Anonymous? Did you get that information from the ex girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: And she said, if that's how you got him, that's

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Speaker 3: how you lose him.

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Speaker 2: No, we don't know that he cheated on her. She's

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Speaker 2: are you going to take the ex girlfriend's word on this?

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Speaker 2: I'm going to go and Kathy I like this, Oh,

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Speaker 2: come on, I.

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Speaker 3: Give you more. I'm so surprised. Did you get up

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Speaker 3: on a different side of the bed today. Kathy is like, oh, no,

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Speaker 3: red flag.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I was talking up last night and I'm in

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Speaker 2: a better move.

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Speaker 1: No, you were.

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Speaker 3: We were on the phone.

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Speaker 1: You were true, true, But you know, thanks a lot,

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Speaker 1: But for a minute, I might have some you know,

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Speaker 1: cash with the people here. Okay, I'm saying, she doesn't

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Speaker 1: know and Susan, the fact is this girl could just

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Speaker 1: have made it up. We don't know she warned me,

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Speaker 1: Uh no, what you need to do, sweetheart Anonymous, is

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Speaker 1: go and talk to your boyfriend and let me just

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Speaker 1: give you some friendly, good advice here. Don't accuse him,

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Speaker 1: say I got this really upsetting DM and I don't

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Speaker 1: know what to do about it. Can we talk about it?

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Speaker 1: Because if you put him on the defensive and he

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Speaker 1: thinks that you think he cheated on her, that's gonna

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Speaker 1: be that's going to be bad for your relationship.

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Speaker 3: So you remember the story. Yeah, when I moved in

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Speaker 3: with Mark a few years back and realized it's not

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Speaker 3: where I need to be, and when I told him

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Speaker 3: and all that I hired my movers, I was, I

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Speaker 3: was leaving, but I was still there and I got

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Speaker 1: I had two dates, Susan, you know this whole story

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Speaker 2: None of it was true. None of it was true yet, so.

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Speaker 3: It could go either way.

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Speaker 2: It could go either way. So so.

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Speaker 1: You know, I would say to you, Anonymous, I know

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Speaker 3: No, she's her, he's her fiance, Beyonce. They're engaged, right,

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Speaker 3: No they're not. I met my now fiance five years ago.

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Speaker 1: So we don't know. We just don't know, Susan. We

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Speaker 3: If she's strong enough to just put it behind her

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Speaker 1: So, So Anonymous, I'm going to say again, your fiance

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Speaker 3: But when they did the pause, Kathy, I could write

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Speaker 2: Through with it. Call me.

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Speaker 3: I'll come officiate, but i'll question.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm first, thank you for writing it, and Anonymous,

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Speaker 3: Where I go, she goes, Okay. The next one's from Liliana. Hi, ladies,

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Speaker 2: Answer? Can I answer this question? That talk away? Whether

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Speaker 3: It's it would in the newspaper. Give him his name,

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Speaker 3: his address. No, No, I meant that people get away

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Speaker 1: This happened all the time. But Liliana, move on it.

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Speaker 1: You know you've had a million first date. Go have

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Speaker 3: But does it make you feel better?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 1: Not really exactly really, Liliana, I know you're you had

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Speaker 1: Yeah, men sucks sometimes and this guy and women at

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Speaker 3: Women do it too. But today I think I'm repeating

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Speaker 3: I had a good time. That's you know, it's not

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Speaker 1: Well, Susan. Another one of our ideas patination. What do

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Speaker 3: Guy?

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Speaker 1: Let us know, well, right, and Susan's walk away, right,

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Speaker 1: walk away. You can't stick it to him, you know.

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Speaker 1: Somebody has to want to be stuck, you know.

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Speaker 2: But you know, go stick a pin in it.

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Speaker 3: Did you ever hear karma?

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Speaker 2: You miss that? I heard the pin?

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Speaker 3: Karma is it's going to happen to him when he

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Speaker 3: Not that that's a nice thing to wish it on somebody,

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Speaker 1: It's about the yeah, I just think we only have

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Speaker 3: But Kathy, she's had a million first dates. I don't

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, let us know, all right, moving on Hollywrights, Hi, ladies,

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Speaker 1: I'm really upset and I really could use some advice.

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Speaker 2: Get get the bat.

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Speaker 3: I don't know who I did first in my bed?

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Let me see if I get through this question a

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Speaker 1: I walked in on them when I got home a

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Speaker 2: Yes, you can be. It's called girl code.

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Speaker 1: Sorry I am meditorializing again, but like that's honestly how

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Speaker 1: and I honestly don't ever want to. Then don't don't absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Let her do not guilt.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Susan, this is the time for me to tell

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Speaker 3: We had a great hurt you.

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Speaker 2: No, you know what. It takes two too.

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Speaker 3: I can't blame just want to hate people that only

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Speaker 2: It takes two.

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing. Why sucks, But I do believe

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Speaker 3: Made me feel yucky inside. I feel for her.

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Speaker 2: It's you do, Holly.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing, Go find a new friend because you'll,

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Speaker 1: in my opinion, and I'm being honest, I love Susan.

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Speaker 1: Everyone knows we are great friends. But if I were

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Speaker 1: on you know, you went out and I'd never talked

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Speaker 1: to you again, you'd be we'd be done.

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Speaker 3: What's that country song that? That's when she took the

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Speaker 3: bat to his red pickup tru I don't know, but Susan,

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Speaker 3: I think you're in both their gas tanks, flash their tip.

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Speaker 1: How about a how about a key? I think you

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Speaker 3: Before he cheats, that's what it is, before he cheats,

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Speaker 3: you're going to do?

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Speaker 1: What's I don't know. I'm into the new Blake Shelton's

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Speaker 1: new song. All my exes are in Texas. That's my

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Speaker 1: new one. Anyway, it's carry Underwood, I guess not not

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Speaker 2: Sorry, sweet sleep tonight.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean the people write these questions? I

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Speaker 3: take them to bed with.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's better than other things you could be taken

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Speaker 1: to bed with you.

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Speaker 2: We're backing up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is really getting interesting.

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Speaker 1: Let us know, Holly, let us know, let us know,

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Speaker 1: and we feel terrible. Seriously, it's a horrible. We're making jokes,

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Speaker 1: but it's not funny, it's a horrible thing, he'd to you.

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Speaker 1: Your mother doesn't get to vote on this. You do

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Speaker 1: it feels right to you, Holly.

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Speaker 3: For one second, what do you think about the mother

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Speaker 3: saying you're being too harsh on your best friend? Wait

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Speaker 3: a minute, did mom have an affair at one time?

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Speaker 2: Or now?

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Speaker 3: Where does that come from?

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Speaker 2: Susan wrote detective novels In another life.

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Speaker 3: However, I probably would let her talk. I would hear

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Speaker 1: So why you while you're hearing her out? Okay, Susan,

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Speaker 1: I've I've been sleeping with your boyfriend, and you hear

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Speaker 1: me out, then what are you going to do? Look

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Speaker 1: at Beka, Susan just gave me that you are dead

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Speaker 1: to me.

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Speaker 2: Look all right, let's move on.

446
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 3: You find somebody even bigger and better better.

447
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 2: That's right, all right.

448
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 1: We are moving on to a little thing that we

449
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:55,479
Speaker 1: call tough love because a lot of a lot of

450
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 1: men and women need a little, you know, advice on

451
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 1: love here. So we're gonna get some advice to those

452
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 1: out there who are not asking for it. That's one

453
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 1: of my special dais. There are so many issues when

454
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 1: it comes to dating. And so you know, we're gonna

455
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,399
Speaker 1: set some of you, We're gonna set some of you

456
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 1: straight on this. We're gonna switch off reading these hypothetical

457
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 1: who's and we're gonna give our thoughts on what they

458
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 1: need to hear.

459
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 2: And this may be my favorite game of all time.

460
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 3: Have you ever done tough love? Have you ever had to.

461
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 2: With my children? I sure have me too, And yeah.

462
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 3: It's the hardest thing I've ever done.

463
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what I'm not gonna say which

464
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:39,640
Speaker 1: one of my children? Yeah, but that child is a

465
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 1: very admirable.

466
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,159
Speaker 3: Human being now today because of it.

467
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 2: Yep, it was the hardest. Right here we go.

468
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:51,400
Speaker 1: What advice or thoughts do you have for men that

469
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: pursue women relentlessly only to ghost them after they have sex?

470
00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 2: All right, So.

471
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: If we had this in front of us, that we

472
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 1: had this man in front of us who relentlessly pursues

473
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 1: women and then he goes to them right after sex,

474
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 1: what would you say to him, Susan, Do.

475
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:14,440
Speaker 3: You really feel good about that?

476
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 2: Really? What you do?

477
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 3: If you do, I'm amazed. I'm amazed that you have

478
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,919
Speaker 3: no conscience. Men that just want sex are straight up today.

479
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 3: It's twenty twenty five.

480
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 2: Just want That's what I would. That's what I would.

481
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 2: That's I can't believe you took the words out of

482
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 2: my mouth. That's what we're on the page. I would say, Hey,

483
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 2: as long as.

484
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 3: You jump out of an airplane together.

485
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 2: What do you think? I know we're doing it.

486
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: As long as you say that to the woman, Hey,

487
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 1: I just want to hook up with you and have sex. Uh,

488
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 1: and then I'm out of here. But I'm guessing he

489
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 1: doesn't do that, so he's a pig and I probably

490
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 1: have to say oink oink.

491
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 3: Dick dick or dick dick. I see it gets again.

492
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 3: That's what I would wish. Okay, moving right along. Sorry

493
00:23:58,440 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 3: about eater.

494
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 1: Susan would high his blue pills. It eva is at

495
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 1: a certain age.

496
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 2: I mean you are weak. Can I just say you

497
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 2: are violent? First?

498
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 1: It's it's it's cutting off that. It's then it's hitting

499
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: them with the bat. I mean, you know you're going

500
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: to take out half the population here.

501
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 3: What do you think?

502
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 2: Okay? What about cheaters's?

503
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 3: I mean, people do make mistakes, but I know I

504
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 3: don't know if I believe once a cheater, always a cheater.

505
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 3: I know people can learn from things. You know what

506
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 3: I would say, I wouldn't want to be in the room.

507
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 3: I'm going to avoid it at all.

508
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 1: I would say no, because you know me, I'm always

509
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: more bark than bite. But I would say to a cheater,

510
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: you know, there's there's no way for me to say

511
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: anything to you that is going to change your behavior,

512
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: because this is not the first time. So my wish

513
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: for you is the you fall in love with so

514
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 1: deeply with someone and he or she cheats on you.

515
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: You know, what goes round comes on. That's what I

516
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: would say. Go ahead, here we go.

517
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 3: Men.

518
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 1: Oh oh, this is a This is appoint men who

519
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 1: complain about the physique of their pregnant formally or formally

520
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:26,920
Speaker 1: pregnant wives.

521
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 2: I'm borrowing your baseball bat.

522
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 3: Complain.

523
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, you know what happened you?

524
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: You know your boob sag, your butt went flat, your

525
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: stomach's big.

526
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,719
Speaker 3: Give me the credit card because I'm going to go

527
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 3: fix it all and then I'm going to leave your

528
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 3: ass after you pay for it. How dare you they

529
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 3: get love hands?

530
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, back it up, Give me the credit card. Yeah,

531
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 2: excuse me?

532
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: No, Yeah, you're not I don't ask for a credit card.

533
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 1: I got one with my name on it. That's get

534
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,479
Speaker 1: filled to him. What are you kidding me? No, I

535
00:25:59,520 --> 00:26:03,120
Speaker 1: think that is it's disgusting that that is a disgusting

536
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: human being. But I've known my ex sister in law

537
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: the ones that are dead to me. Now, her asshole

538
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 1: husband had comments to make about her.

539
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 2: I mean, met do this. That's that's terrible my husband.

540
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 2: Did your husband ever do it? I never did.

541
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 3: No, I got teased and stuff, but no teased.

542
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, what do you mean you got teased.

543
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 3: My own father. I had twins in my belly look

544
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 3: like the side of a barn when you stay insideway

545
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 3: shoes andality.

546
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,640
Speaker 2: Is that when you were pregnant my hormones. I'm gonna cry.

547
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I'm talking about Oh yeah, I guess

548
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 1: when you are pregnant. Yeah, okay, Well you know what

549
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:44,640
Speaker 1: my husband used to say jokingly, I thought your boobs

550
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: were supposed to stick out further. I mean, I thought

551
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:51,040
Speaker 1: your stomach was supposed to stick out further than your boobs.

552
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 1: Can I just tell you I was a Guernsey cow.

553
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: I could have milked the entire state of Texas.

554
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 3: I look like I could feed the state, but hardly

555
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 3: any milk came out. Do you know what I said

556
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 3: to the plastic surgeon when I went to go have

557
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 3: my breast lifted.

558
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 2: He goes, Susan, what is it I could do for you?

559
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:09,399
Speaker 3: I said, doctor, I don't mind if I don't pass

560
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,199
Speaker 3: the pencil test. I don't want to hold the remote

561
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 3: control anymore. You just pick them back up, please.

562
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, we both had boop issues. We both had

563
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 2: breast reductions done.

564
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 3: Moving right along, show me a woman that has had children.

565
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 3: That doesn't I mean it doesn't have a breast reduction. No,

566
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 3: that doesn't have different breast afterwards.

567
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean you know, I mean it's just nature.

568
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 3: And the man that's going to say something about it,

569
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 3: he's got to pay for it.

570
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: Uh.

571
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 3: Men who send unsolicited news? Okay, tell me what unsolicited?

572
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: Okay, unsolicit means I didn't ask for it. You just

573
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: like a pick he sends you a dick pic.

574
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 3: I had those. When I came off the show. I

575
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 3: was like I told you, I was opening my so

576
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 3: many d ms we they hardly get any.

577
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 2: I got four. Two of them were dick pecks. Are

578
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 2: you kidding me?

579
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 3: Are you kidding? Do you think I'm desperate because I

580
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 3: didn't get Gary?

581
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 2: Wait, Gary didn't send you a dick pecked in? No?

582
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,879
Speaker 2: Did you ever reach out to these guys? No?

583
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 3: I blocked them.

584
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 2: Okay, I showed you the one though.

585
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 3: It's great. Listen, I didn't know if it was real.

586
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 3: Did you get your ruler and measure it double? Like?

587
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 2: Oh? You know what, Susan dead?

588
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 1: Guys, she took that photo poster and it's hanging on

589
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: her bedroom wall exactly.

590
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 2: You knew where I was going. That's gross. That's gross.

591
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 3: I don't have a problem with when you're with somebody

592
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 3: if they said a little sexy pick, yeah, I like that,

593
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 3: but I want to know it. I mean, you know

594
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 3: it's unsolicited. That's why I said divine.

595
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 2: Along. Yeah, moving right along.

596
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: Susan Scott shall have a few more posters up in

597
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: her bedroom by next week.

598
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: This time.

599
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 3: Mood of myself before I had a dick pick.

600
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 2: Okay, all right.

601
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: People who forget their partner's birthday despite being together for years, Oh,

602
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: I've got the answer to this.

603
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 3: There is no excuse. Absolutely put it on the calendar,

604
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 3: put in.

605
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: Call your secretary. If you're the guy if they still

606
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: have a secretary. That's what you know.

607
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 3: My dad used to They don't call them that anymore.

608
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I know, But that's what my dad.

609
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 2: He's called miss personal.

610
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 3: Men who buy women drinks but get upset when they

611
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 3: don't want to spend the whole night with them. That's

612
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 3: the only reason you're by. I don't buy me a

613
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 3: drink and I don't even hardly talk to them.

614
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what, that's not the point. The

615
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: point is what I would say to a man. I

616
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: would look him in the eye and say, just because

617
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: you bought me a drink or two drinks does not

618
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: mean I'm hooking.

619
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 2: Up with you.

620
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 3: Notice Kathy said too she wants to.

621
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: No, actually what the whole bottle? But anyway, I'm just

622
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: kidding about that. But I'm saying I would say, guy,

623
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 1: you don't this is not it's not an engraved invitation

624
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: to take me home with you or you home with me.

625
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: That just because you bought me a drink, you got

626
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: my fabulous personality. That was the payment.

627
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 3: You got nice thing to buy somebody a cocktail. That

628
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 3: doesn't mean they owe you anything. You should be doing

629
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 3: it because you want to be nice, make somebody smile,

630
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 3: make somebody feel good.

631
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 2: OKAYI have you ever bought a man a drink? Yes

632
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 2: I have. I mean that you didn't know, Yes I have.

633
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 2: I've done it once. I never talked to him either.

634
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 2: I just said it over. We did the wave. Okay,

635
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 2: now you and I really are really get back from.

636
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 3: The bathroom and like to melt my chair. I swear

637
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 3: to god, it was more to fun. But he liked it,

638
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 3: and he kept looking all night and him like, don't

639
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 3: look at me, don't I did not know. That was

640
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 3: me trying to be a big girl and flirt and

641
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 3: you know how women can be. Never again, Oh, that's

642
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 3: really funny that I said it to a guy.

643
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: Sendatory to a guy at bar once and he smiled

644
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: and he said hello, and that was it and nobody

645
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 1: and sadly there was not another woman that came and

646
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: sat down next to him.

647
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: So you went out of the bathroom, Kathy, I was like,

648
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 2: give me the check, I'm getting out here. Okay.

649
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: But to the men, when to the men who do

650
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 1: that and think, I gotta say, no, it is not.

651
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 2: It's not hunting season. Just because you bought her a Martini.

652
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 3: If you want to lie and buy somebody something and

653
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 3: you know what, it is a good gesture. And if

654
00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 3: she's interested, yes, you started something. But odds are she's

655
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 3: going to say hey, thanks, yeah, and you know whatever.

656
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 3: People that are afraid of commitment, how do you tell somebody.

657
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 2: If they're afraid they're a you know what I mean?

658
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could ask why why are you afraid of commitment?

659
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:24,640
Speaker 1: Parent issues, mommy issues, daddy issues issues, daddy issues. Maybe

660
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: they've been divorced ten times and they don't want to

661
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: go down that road again.

662
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 2: What is commitment?

663
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 3: Commitment means I am committed to you. There's nobody else.

664
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: That's what I see.

665
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 3: And they're afraid of commitment because they want to leave

666
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 3: that door open.

667
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Speaker 1: But can I just say, I got to be honest

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Speaker 1: with you. I don't see anything wrong with that. I

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Speaker 1: think people who know who they are, there's nothing wrong.

670
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: Who says you have to commit to someone? I mean,

671
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Speaker 1: if you're married, have children.

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Speaker 3: Afraid to commit? They never commit you?

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Speaker 2: Saydy?

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Speaker 3: Say say you're in your late twenties, early thirties, you've

675
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Speaker 3: been dating somebody for nine years.

676
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Speaker 2: You expect the.

677
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Speaker 1: Raceason, do you think I'm dating anybody for nine years.

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00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: Let's start there. No, I mean limit, Okay, how about

679
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: how about saying get into therapy? I mean I don't know,

680
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, go ahead, people, thank you, ma'am.

681
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Speaker 1: People forgive people who forgive their partner for cheating but

682
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Speaker 1: hate the other woman.

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Speaker 2: We just talked about it.

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Speaker 1: It takes two to tango, it does, I mean, and

685
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: you can forgive, but you gotta forgive both of them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you won't forget it. And you might have a

687
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Speaker 3: secret little thing up in your head.

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Speaker 1: But do you think people, I mean, this isn't this

689
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: isn't on our list for today. But Susan, honestly, could

690
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: you forgive your partner for cheating?

691
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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, you said.

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Speaker 2: The reason I asked the question was you said you

693
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: don't forget. I don't not forget. You would never forget.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think people can forgive, but you're always going to

696
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Speaker 3: be on your guard.

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00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 2: It will put a real stream.

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Speaker 3: On the relationship. Yeah, I don't want to.

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Speaker 1: Go all right, we're not Oh boy, this people? What

700
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: about this one? Women who go after their best friends,

701
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 1: crush or X.

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00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 2: We just talked about that too.

703
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 3: What is going on?

704
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I guess, I guess we are. Let

705
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 2: me ask you this, so I don't know.

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Speaker 3: We'll pick Nancy dated somebody for a long time and

707
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 3: it was so five years ago, and now you run

708
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 3: into this man and it's Nancy's X.

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Speaker 2: But it was so five years ago.

710
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 3: And Nancy's moved on, she's happy, she's married, and you

711
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 3: have a little spark between you. Is there something wrong

712
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 3: with that?

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Speaker 2: I don't think there is.

714
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 3: I don't either.

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Speaker 1: I do not think there is anything wrong with but

716
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 1: but well, wait a minute, what if before we crushed,

717
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: if I say to you, my mind is going so fast, right,

718
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: I was about to say something that I might regret

719
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: if if I if I met.

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Speaker 2: Someone that we mutually knew.

721
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I said you, hey, Susan, I think I'd

722
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: like to have a date with that guy. And then

723
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: I heard that you were talking or dating with that guy.

724
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Speaker 1: I might be a.

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Speaker 3: Little the best woman when I don't know?

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00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 2: Would you say that though?

727
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 3: No? No, probably not. No, I'd suffer inside because I

728
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,280
Speaker 3: would feel bad. My friendships are important.

729
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, friendships are really important to me. I know that's

730
00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: a tough one. Because the ax I wouldn't care about

731
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 1: you can have them. I dumped him years ago, good luck.

732
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 3: But if you had a crush on him, if I

733
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,879
Speaker 3: had a crush on somebody but he was interested in you,

734
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 3: I mean I would be okay if you pursued it

735
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 3: because he wasn't interested in me, be a little, probably

736
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,280
Speaker 3: jealous or envious for a few minutes.

737
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 2: But I think that's the thing. You have to know.

738
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Speaker 2: If the guy has any interest in you.

739
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 3: It's pretty genuine. We need a bigger.

740
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 2: Big we need the bigger picture. Actually, the line forms

741
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 2: here behind me. Girl, that's just reminded me.

742
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Speaker 3: I don't know why I.

743
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 2: Had had way too much lemonade today. Go ahead.

744
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 3: There was an emergency at landing when I was a

745
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 3: flight attendant one hundred years ago, and the other flight

746
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 3: attendant said to me, oh my god, what are we

747
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 3: going to do? I said, follow me on the way

748
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Speaker 3: out because we had a train how to open the end?

749
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Speaker 2: And she goes, you're going to help them all get out?

750
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 3: I said, hell, no, I'm going to say follow me.

751
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: That's great.

752
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:50,839
Speaker 1: And now I wonder why you didn't have a long

753
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: career as a flight attendant.

754
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 2: Every man for himself.

755
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: Susan Knowles was across the runway before the other people

756
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 1: were just trying.

757
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:58,320
Speaker 2: To find their.

758
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,879
Speaker 3: Your head and what do you think, my friend Mary

759
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 3: Joe says to me, because I was senior flating tents,

760
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 3: so I was up front, and that's you go first.

761
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 3: You know, the best place to be is in the

762
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 3: back of the plane. And I'm sitting there looking at

763
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 3: the coffee pods and all the stuff that's going to

764
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 3: fly in my face, and we're about to leave. We

765
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,399
Speaker 3: hug each other and this could be it. We don't know,

766
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 3: and she said, good luck. I'm so glad you're seeing

767
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 3: your We were living so hard.

768
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Speaker 2: It was scary. Okay, guys, enough of that.

769
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Speaker 3: You know what, Cat, that was fun, It really was.

770
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Speaker 3: I laughed.

771
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 2: It's almost fun. You're laughing. You're a lemonade is still

772
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 2: in my head though in your head, but you're laughing.

773
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 2: You're laughing. Hope, hopefully our listeners were laughing today with us.

774
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 2: You know this thing.

775
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 1: I hope they know that this is when you and

776
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: I are doing these when we're just by ourselves.

777
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 2: This is what goes on. I mean, this is real

778
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 2: life for us. I was at the gym yesterday, and

779
00:37:57,360 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 2: this woman came up to me. By the way, her

780
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 2: post did you see her post?

781
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 3: Miss Strong? She makes me feel bad because I'm sitting

782
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 3: you're eating the cheese, think.

783
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 1: I am working out. I am working out. But this

784
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 1: woman who, by the way, is from Philadelphia. She told

785
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: me she's from flower something Flower. Yeah, flower Time that

786
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: was near you.

787
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 3: Not really, but it's not flower it's not ours.

788
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 1: Anyway, she was from flower Time. And she said, are

789
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,760
Speaker 1: you two really friends? Because she goes you two crack

790
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 1: me up? Like is that a put on? I talked

791
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: for ten minutes. The way we like, the way we.

792
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 2: Live, the way we love.

793
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?

794
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 2: Oh man?

795
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 3: Thank you guys for listening, and special thanks for you

796
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,319
Speaker 3: guys that wrote this stuff. I really we do take

797
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 3: it seriously. I get shocked. That's some of the things

798
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 3: really these people are going through.

799
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 2: But that is life.

800
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Speaker 1: It is like, and you know what, to the extent

801
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: that we help somebody just laugh, have a brighter day

802
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 1: and put dumping and dump a boyfriend who's cheating on him,

803
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 1: It's all good, okay, when you've got to. If you

804
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: enjoyed this one, just be sure to follow Bachelor Happy

805
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 1: Hour because we have new episodes coming out every week.

806
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 1: We know you know this drill. You don't want to

807
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: miss him. Hit that follow button, reach out to us.

808
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 2: You can do it.

809
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 3: You can dm on bachelornation dot com, slash Golden Hour.

810
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 3: You know the routine, right dm us on Instagram at

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Speaker 3: Bachelor Happy Hour.

812
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 1: Okay, we've got to go have some more fun now.

813
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: So we hope you all have a great rest of

814
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: your day and in the meantime, listen to Bachelor Happy

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Speaker 1: Hours Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you

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Speaker 1: listen to podcasts.

817
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 2: And tell you your dad lemons make lemonade.

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Speaker 1: Have a great day, everybody,