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Speaker 1: My in laws ruined my baby shower because I didn't

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Speaker 2: That's a ridiculous reason.

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Speaker 1: So my boyfriend Matt and I were expecting our first

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Speaker 1: baby boy, oh baby, and we're so excited to celebrate

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Speaker 1: his coming into the world. I was very unsure if

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Speaker 1: I really wanted to go through with the baby shower,

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Speaker 1: considering I was already thirty two weeks pregnant. That's a

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Speaker 1: lot of pregnancy, and my job had already thrown me

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Speaker 1: a big, beautiful baby shower that included Matt, which I

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Speaker 1: guess is the fiance by the way, I suppose. By

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Speaker 1: the way, this comes from shel c ninety seven on

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Speaker 1: the Rislage Okay, story time subredd itself. In the end,

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Speaker 1: everyone convinced to have it. Since this was my first baby,

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Speaker 1: you know, you want to shower with as much gifts

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Speaker 1: as you can. Yeah, Matt and I worked very hard

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Speaker 1: that really pitched in and offered to help with my

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Speaker 1: family Matt's cousin and his father in law Jerry. Before

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Speaker 1: shower fiasco, I want to talk about what led to

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Speaker 1: this whole mess. I had a great relationship emphasis on

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Speaker 1: hat with my mother in law Marianna. Marianna Marianna and

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Speaker 1: sister in law Emily, also including Matt's dad and half

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Speaker 1: brother Samuel, whoa Marianna, Emily and I would hang out

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Speaker 1: a lot, and I always looked forward to them visiting

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Speaker 1: from out of state. So it was all happy. It

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Speaker 1: was all good. Everything's copastic until it isn't until adult snap,

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Speaker 1: poor clap. When I found out I was pregnant. Emily

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Speaker 1: found out she was pregnant too, copy cat. Yeah, can't

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Speaker 1: we can't be pumping at the same time. And we

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Speaker 1: were so excited to share our journey together. Actually think

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Speaker 1: we would be cute to pump at the same time.

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Speaker 1: Double get a double pump a double pump. Can you switch?

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Speaker 1: Like like, let's say you're not you're not pumping one week.

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Speaker 1: You can't. You can't switch milk.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so, I think right, No, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: How was you gonna put on my face? When they

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Speaker 3: do unsensible things when they talk about them, start.

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Speaker 1: Talking about were put the milk on your face? That's

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Speaker 1: so weird? Kean, let us no chat if you can

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Speaker 1: switch milks. Yeah, let us let us know. Anyways, my

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Speaker 1: relationship with Matt's brother Samuel was good. I could say

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Speaker 1: he never said much to me, but nonetheless he was

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Speaker 1: always very nice the few times he'd come around. He

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Speaker 1: had his own kid and girlfriend, Beatrice, but while I

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Speaker 1: was pregnant, they were not together. Okay, okay, okay. So

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Speaker 1: Beatrice and I had spoken over the phone before and

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Speaker 1: But when I had met her in person, she ignored me.

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Speaker 1: It didn't seem to want anything to do with me.

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Speaker 1: I didn't understand why that was. So, I didn't understand

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Speaker 1: why that was. So I expressed to Marianna and Emily

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Speaker 1: that I had a hunch about Beatrice disliking me. Why

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Speaker 1: do we think Beatrice dislikes Ope? Oh, dude, hot, classic hotness.

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Speaker 3: It's the jelly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude being a hot it's hard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a curse.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, tell me about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we all know about the curse, especially hard. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah it is. It is right now, I'm looking active,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at kon. Come on, I can it not be.

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Speaker 2: Making me blush?

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Speaker 4: God?

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Speaker 1: I want to I want to make you more than blush.

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Speaker 3: Give me ten hours of you just meditating.

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Speaker 1: Coming over here. Give you a smooth teach me your ways.

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Speaker 3: I need a visual representation.

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Speaker 2: Oh, get off track, it's something you want.

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Speaker 4: To talk about.

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Speaker 3: Off the rails a little bit.

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Speaker 1: That's not fair.

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Speaker 2: I have to be the parent here.

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Speaker 1: Kim Roberts says, yes, babies can have someone else's milk,

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Speaker 1: but you cannot stop pumping your own or you'll dry up.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the milk knowledge. If only someone would tell

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Speaker 1: us about the thousand year egg too, I would be fulfilled.

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Speaker 1: If only Emily then blurted out that Beatrice told them

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Speaker 1: she didn't like me because her boyfriend Samuel said his

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Speaker 4: We were right. I knew it. We were right. I

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Speaker 1: Go hat on hot. Samuel never showed weird signs of

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Speaker 1: liking me. You can say someone's hot without like, oh,

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Speaker 1: my my brother has a pretty girlfriend. Is different than uh,

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Speaker 1: I want a bone in my brother's girlfriend because she's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my brother's girlfriend's so hot. I'm like you, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: When I look at you, that's what I think. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you could say someone's pretty.

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Speaker 2: The twist is they're all eight years old. You look

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Speaker 2: like she looks like wow, wow, roadblocks. Okay, Okay, I'm sorry, Kean, don't.

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Speaker 4: Look at me like that, please please.

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Speaker 2: Sama been gone for ten days.

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Speaker 4: What did you say? What? What did you say? Back

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Speaker 4: to the story, you'll know.

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Speaker 1: What did he what did you?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Don't worry.

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Speaker 4: No, I really hope no one heard it. I really

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Speaker 5: Never showed weird signs of liking me. He's always shy

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Speaker 5: but very jouny one with everyone. So it was crazy

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Speaker 5: how she would even assume he meant that in a

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Speaker 5: whole different way. Yeah, he's just saying, oh, she's pretty,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. When I found out about four months of pregnancy

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Speaker 1: in Beatrice kick Samuel out of their home, and he

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Speaker 1: asked if you could stay in our living room. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 1: because now Beatrice kicked him out, and now he's even

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Speaker 2: It's like you played right into his hand.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know she's gonna You're gonna get him

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Speaker 1: a little hot and bothered. Uh, and she even blocked

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Speaker 1: she was pregnant as well, and Samuel moved into his

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the story.

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Speaker 3: Together, this is bad.

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Speaker 1: It's so fun though. Beatrice had a gender reveal for

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Speaker 1: her fourth son and we were not invited, nor were

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Speaker 1: we notified they would have one. So this is a

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Speaker 4: Secret baby someone half secret baby, half secret baby, half

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Speaker 1: Shower, limited release baby.

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Speaker 4: It's clearly not a very good secret because she found

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's like it's like like everyone knows about

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Speaker 1: it's an exclusive baby shower.

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Speaker 4: It's exclusive exclusive. It's like it's like the Soho baby Yeah. Yeah, yeah, exactly, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I've always said that.

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Speaker 1: I want my baby shower to be the Soho House

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Speaker 1: of baby showers. I've always, always always said that, and

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Speaker 2: I'll stand right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he'll stand at the door making sure you don't

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Speaker 4: I'm standing on that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, stand in all business ten tolls in.

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Speaker 2: Back to the story, It didn't.

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Speaker 1: Bother me because that's her party. She can invite whoever

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Speaker 1: don't love my kind of shower. You know, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: don't want shower. Some people love those showers. That's the

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Speaker 1: wrong shade baby showers. Oh no, no, no, thank you.

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Speaker 1: All right, I was on your bingo card today.

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Speaker 3: Make sure the ex sign out on the Okay, story

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Speaker 3: time bingo card.

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Speaker 1: I started planning my baby shower and making my invitation list.

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Speaker 1: Considering that she didn't like me, I decided I didn't

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: I invited my brother in law and his son, considering

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Speaker 1: they weren't even together at the time, let alone a

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Speaker 1: living together. Yeah, Samuel's and sam hold her pretty.

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Speaker 2: You know, so you get hot privilege.

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Speaker 1: You get hot privileges.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you get hot privilege.

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Speaker 1: Marianna and Emily started to question why didn't invite her,

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Speaker 1: and I explained my reasons. They said they understood, and

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Speaker 1: While I was talking to Emily over the phone, okay,

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Speaker 4: I'm not I wasn't gonna make it. He started laughing.

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Speaker 4: I know someone else.

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Speaker 1: He wants to know.

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Speaker 4: That one I was loving might be He might even

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Speaker 4: be in the room with us right now. He's in

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Speaker 4: the story. Guys, it's it's Samuel. I wanted to god

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Speaker 4: with no tension. Yeah, this is a little boys stream.

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Speaker 1: How is this the story?

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Speaker 4: After that Joe was made, I just wanted to leave

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Speaker 2: I've got a great idea, and that.

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Speaker 1: One for everyone.

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Speaker 3: Back to the story, please, I'll tell you that one

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it just fits. I uninvited my own father

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Speaker 1: for my party. So I politely asked him not to

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Speaker 1: show a month prior, and he respected that. Okay, mind you,

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Speaker 1: Matt doesn't ask Matt doesn't need me to ask him

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Speaker 1: do it with no hesitation. The issue is that he

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Speaker 1: any issues. Yeah, I understand, Lindsay said, sam I can

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Speaker 1: give you a golden shower anytime for the two bucks.

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Speaker 3: You couldn't wait for that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that now sits, says Lindsey, So I rather just

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Speaker 1: avoid the issues. The day before my baby shower, Emily

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Speaker 1: and Marianna came from out of state, but they were

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Speaker 1: to help with the baby shower. Marianna and Emily came

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Speaker 1: the party. The next day. We have a living room

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Speaker 1: camera for the cats, and we Emily and Marianna going

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Speaker 1: through our things, calling Matt and I fat because of

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Speaker 1: all the snacks we had in our cabinets.

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Speaker 3: It's not like eating all those snacks.

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Speaker 4: It's like, you know, sounds like a stereotypical I'm mad

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you can eat all these snacks in

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Speaker 2: your cabinet.

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Speaker 1: You must be so fat. It's like, I mean, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm just naturally just a just rocking all the time

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Speaker 1: and can eat as much potato chips as I want. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: what's your favorite snack? Just kidding, I don't want to know.

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Speaker 2: I don't like breaking down in the car and crying.

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Speaker 2: Breakdown, breakdown squared break breakdown.

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Speaker 1: What does it mean?

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Speaker 2: A breakdown inside of a breakdown?

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's beautiful. I was filled with rage because in

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Speaker 2: Everybody hates Beatrice.

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Speaker 1: Everyone hates Beatrice. I like Binge the season of it.

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Speaker 2: I love Terry Crews in that show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so buff Well I got home, I found that

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Speaker 4: Hey, yeah this Hey, you're trying to get ahead of

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Speaker 1: Matt approached Beatrice and kindly said, you should say hi

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Speaker 4: That's a whole lie. That was a complete, straight up lie.

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Speaker 1: Beatrice was looking for drama. Yep, she'd been her kindly

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Speaker 1: if we could go somewhere else to talk, but she said, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't care who hears. I hate this.

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Speaker 4: I don't care who hears. I don't care who hear's to.

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Speaker 2: Sit your wedding.

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Speaker 1: I know you don't care, but this is my baby shower.

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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, this is my baby shower, and I care.

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Speaker 1: I know you don't. I know you want to sabotage it.

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Speaker 1: She starts yelling at me, asking me why I would

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Speaker 1: they've always been there for me, but now I've caused

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Speaker 1: So I just yelled, you know what, this isn't the

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Speaker 1: Opie putting the foot down.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and she was nice.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's like you can only push someone so

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Speaker 4: You put your foot down, and then if they don't

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Speaker 1: The law involved. She said, f you both and left

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Speaker 1: along with Marianna and Jerry. Marianna told Jerry, my father

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not Opie's fault for that.

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Speaker 1: Also, I love how you guys wait until like the

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Speaker 1: milk it. They milk it, they know what they're doing.

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Speaker 3: Supposedly, Chad's Lake trying to like, I think we missed

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Speaker 3: a thirty did we ever?

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Speaker 2: Did that at first thirty ever, get added.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we had it, I added, trust me, I don't

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Speaker 1: No difficulties. We started out three, it's been it's four

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Speaker 3: Do your math write adhd man, God dude, that was

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Speaker 1: Why wait? Weird?

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Speaker 2: We were just talking so much. There's a lot of century.

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Speaker 1: That's NORMALI ish, what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Everything's going on?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: We got alert?

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Speaker 1: Is this? Do what? What?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Should I keep reading? Riley?

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Speaker 4: Are we are? We on everything sideways? Now?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: All right, okay, I'm gonna keep reading so emily that

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Speaker 1: it was all my fault in doing so. Jerry called

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Matt and I were so bummed. We didn't even have

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Speaker 1: every weekday at three pm PST. Just tap her profile

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Speaker 2: Like you can have a good time like we've been

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to give you a good time.

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Speaker 4: We've heat a full body good time.

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Speaker 1: Full body good time. There's another relevant update, but let's

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Speaker 1: discuss right here. So it sounds like, I mean, op

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Speaker 4: It's going to be dramatic, and trying to get ahead

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Speaker 4: of it. I don't want drama.

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Speaker 1: It was dramatic. Yeah, it was dramatic.

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Speaker 4: Nail on the head, smacked it and she even tried

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Speaker 2: I'm not I'm being nice. I'm being nice.

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Speaker 4: First opportunity that the stinky century egg had to cause

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Speaker 2: She took it. She ran with it.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. So sometimes you know, if you if

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Speaker 4: you know something's gonna stink, you put your foot down

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Speaker 4: and you say, I won't have the stinky stink.

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Speaker 1: You know at my wedding, you put you bury it

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Speaker 1: for another hundred years. Yeah, maybe, you know, and maybe

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Speaker 1: that's enough time for it to marinate. Oh she Maybe

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Speaker 1: it's enough time for it to marinate and become a

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Speaker 1: good egg once more. Yeah, we got another thirty minute yo.

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Speaker 1: Oh uh Riley, we got spamming bugging ladies on Facebook.

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Speaker 4: Spamming bug ladies.

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Speaker 1: There's a's who's ladies? Ladies? Who's bugging our ladies? No

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Speaker 1: one bugs are lady.

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Speaker 2: Hey, nobody bugs all ladies but us. You're the only

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Speaker 2: ones that bug on ladies.

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Speaker 1: And we'll bug them into oblivion. Yeah, full body bugget without.

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Speaker 2: Plan to FuG you full body style.

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Speaker 1: Ladies.

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Speaker 4: I learned. I learned it in the Jungles of Mexico story. Wait,

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Speaker 4: but they ready to get rid of these ladies.

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Speaker 1: These buggies. Who are the buggy ladies here?

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Speaker 4: I'll figure it out.

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Speaker 1: Anyway. We're going, We're going. My mother in law left

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Speaker 1: me a voicemail saying that she was going to take

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Speaker 5: Want I'm just looking at you.

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Speaker 2: I was just looking. I didn't there's no ulterior motives.

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Speaker 1: Here, because I didn't want to answer her calls with that,

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Speaker 1: he explained that I never asked him to say anything

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Speaker 1: to her or disrespect her. Nonetheless, she wasn't too convinced

448
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Speaker 1: and gave me a half booty apology, saying it was

449
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: it was probably just her. Then. Emily and Jerry never apologized,

450
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 1: but at least Jerry is still nice to me and

451
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 1: comes around since he lives near us. Well, Marianna and

452
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: Emily live out of state, but never call or text

453
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Speaker 1: ever since my baby a boy was born. Was I

454
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: the a hole for not inviting Beatrice? I think not, No,

455
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Speaker 1: not at all.

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Speaker 4: In fact, you were kind of an angel for even

457
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Speaker 4: allowing her to show up to the wedding in the

458
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Speaker 4: first place.

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Speaker 1: And also she was so nice. She was so nice.

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Speaker 1: She was like, hey, thank you for coming. Dating Beatrice

461
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Speaker 1: a hug.

462
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 2: Tried to tried to immediately play the peacemaker.

463
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:50,880
Speaker 1: And Beatrice wanted war.

464
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Speaker 2: Beatrice wanted her to have her snink stinkers egg smell.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she wanted to be crabby.

466
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Speaker 2: The entire wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just get buried for another.

468
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Speaker 2: Egg fog horn sound effect.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Well that's actually kind of good.

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Speaker 4: That was good, Actually was kind of good. Dude.

472
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Speaker 2: I'm getting my hat.

473
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Speaker 1: But that's the end. Of that story. Uh, let us

474
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Speaker 1: know if you think op was the a hole, there's

475
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Speaker 1: no way anyone thinks that. And if you do, talk

476
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Speaker 1: to me after class because I got a got a

477
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Speaker 1: word to say to you. But yeah, that was wild.

478
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Speaker 1: But we got another story for you because we got

479
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Speaker 1: thirty more minutes on the clock.

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Speaker 2: That's right, we do.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, MG, Grossa has never been so grateful for adhd. Yeah,

482
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Speaker 1: who likes it?

483
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Speaker 3: Now?

484
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Speaker 1: Get more time, your little little nerdicns. But we got

485
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Speaker 1: some donuts to read.

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Speaker 4: I like how you went. Who likes it now? And

487
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 4: then your brain wiped itself? Who likes it now?

488
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Speaker 1: You little you?

489
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Speaker 2: Literally, you little nerdican?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Mail? Oh yeah, ma, mail.

492
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Speaker 4: Mail, mail the mail?

493
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Speaker 1: What's in that box? In that box? Oh, make sure

494
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Speaker 1: not to show people who it's from. Do not open

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Speaker 1: with sharp object?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Do we want to say who this is from?

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Speaker 4: Not? Don't give their government.

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Speaker 2: Don't give their guvy.

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Speaker 1: Let's see, all right, we got it? Okay? Wait wait

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Speaker 1: uh hey, Opie Gang. Hope you enjoy the honey, and

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Speaker 1: hope the lip bombs help prevent chapped lips from all

503
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Speaker 1: the reading. If the honey begins to crystallize, solidify. There's

504
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Speaker 1: nothing wrong with it. Honey never spoils. Just place it

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Speaker 1: in a container of hot water, not boiling and it

506
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Speaker 1: will re liquefy. Don't microwave, it can diminish the flavor.

507
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Speaker 1: I'm a truck driver as well as running our apiary.

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00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: That's cool.

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Speaker 2: Nice. So this is fresh bee juice that we got.

510
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 2: We got fresh and just.

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Speaker 1: Want to say thanks for the many hours of keeping

512
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Speaker 1: me entertained on long drives. And this is from Honey

513
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Speaker 1: Hill Apiary. In the chat.

514
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,120
Speaker 2: Shout out Honey Hill Apry.

515
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: Honey Hill Apiary. If you're with us, let yourself be known.

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00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, send us a buzz.

517
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: Let's see. Let's see what we got. Let's see what

518
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: we got. We got honey for days from the Honey

519
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Speaker 1: Hell Apiary. Yeah, oh yeah that.

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Speaker 4: I need me some of that.

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00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 2: I'll be having that, having that with tea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Runs, we got some Honey Hill Apiary lip bus.

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Speaker 4: Some we got we got a lifetime.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, here we go. Get those Get those

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Speaker 1: lips unhot, get those lips greased, especially you Keon, especially.

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Speaker 2: You coconut oil, bees wax and oil.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, this is like.

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Speaker 1: Oh nash around m.

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Speaker 3: Mm hm oh m hm the free sponsor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's from the from the it's from the community.

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Speaker 1: Mm hm oh m hmm.

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00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 2: It's tasty.

533
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 4: I taste the cocoa, the cocoa nut mm hmm.

534
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: Cocot, cocoa.

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00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: Dude, I'm nutting. I'm like coconut. They're putting coconut on

536
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Speaker 1: my It's.

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00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:33,439
Speaker 2: This is nutty.

538
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: But we got some donus tore before we go into

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00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 1: this next story.

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Speaker 2: M hm oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, yeah, okay, okay, all right, let's go. Let's

542
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 1: go to the very beginning. It's a very good place

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00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: to start, alrighty, yeah, you want to read some of this?

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Speaker 4: Uh, hello Chaitra, thank you for the one hundred rupees. Hello.

545
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 4: I'm putting together a gift box for you guys, anything

546
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 4: you might want from India. This might take months as

547
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 4: I'm making handmade stuff for y'all.

548
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 2: Then you try throwing what handmade.

549
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: Is he in India?

550
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 4: Let's see, I don't know anything. I can't think of

551
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Speaker 4: anything specific.

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00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: I yes, I would love I've been reading Saddhartha recently.

553
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 1: I don't know anything like Buddhists, like from what what?

554
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 2: What?

555
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 1: What was under the Goindra tree or whatever? Where like

556
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: Siddartha got uh the Enlightenment, the Enlightenment. Yeah, I don't.

557
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 2: I don't know what kind of tree it was, maybe

558
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 2: some some kind of some kind of Uh.

559
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 4: Can I have some bark from the tree where the

560
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 4: Buddha became enlightened?

561
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that or like something something spiritual. I

562
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: think that's still around. Yeah, I think it is.

563
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 2: I think it's it's probably protected though.

564
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: Man's steal some bark from that tree. I'm kidding. Do

565
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 1: not do that.

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00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 4: Don't steal bark in the enlightenment tree.

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Speaker 1: Please, but something like that, that would be cool.

568
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can just give me like a rock, oh

569
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 4: oh yeah, a rock and a rock from India please,

570
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 4: that'd be great.

571
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: That would be pretty cool.

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00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 4: Slightly. Tobaz, thank you for being a member for seven months.

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Speaker 4: Uh whoa seven months? My only YouTube sub So glad

574
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 4: that I found you guys. I love all the growth

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00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 4: that the family's had. Keon's looking funny f today. Loving

576
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 4: the hair. You hear that, Keon, You hear that ke On.

577
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 4: Your hair is good?

578
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 2: You hear that?

579
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: Thank you? Wow? Oh wow?

580
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 4: Uh, Lindsey, thank you for the two New Zealand dollars.

581
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 4: I gotta hang up washing. But chat is so chaotic

582
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 4: right now.

583
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's been a it's been a chaos.

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Speaker 4: Nice. It's been a nice time having Sam back on

585
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 4: the stream.

586
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been it's been a nice big bag. I've missed.

587
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: I've missed that good.

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00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 4: We are glad. We're glad, glad that you're back from

589
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 4: the jungle. Yeah, and you've got new skills.

590
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: I will teach you, guys. I will lead a workshop.

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Speaker 4: That was your twentieth super that's crazy, Lindsay, thank you,

592
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Speaker 4: Uh Angie, what is that? Annie?

593
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Speaker 2: Angie?

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Speaker 4: Alice? Thank you for the five euros one thousand year

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Speaker 4: egg is a delicacy in Japan. I'm sure it's a

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Speaker 4: fermented egg. YouTube count not working, okay.

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Speaker 1: Vi ma YouTube counter on that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm trying to fix that, gang vix makes.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for the five gifted memberships Grow in the family, Lindsey,

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Speaker 4: thanks again for another two New Zealand dollars.

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Speaker 2: Sam, I can give you a golden shower anytime.

602
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 4: Winky face.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I would like that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you go ahead and meditate on that.

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00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, until you get the full body big o'.

606
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 4: Well we'll talk about it.

607
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: What is that like? A piss shower.

608
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 4: Yeah wait, hey, wait a minute, is that like a

609
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 4: piss shower? Oh?

610
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: God?

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Speaker 2: Hey, who's leaving me out of the piss shower?

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00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 4: Anyone? Go ahead? Ke's passing? What is it?

613
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 2: What is it? Have you participated in?

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00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 3: I have not?

615
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: Oh, Keon, I heard that story Keon too much.

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00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 4: Heidi, thank you for the Heidi, thank you for the

617
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 4: five gifted memberships. We love you, Heidi. Lindsey again, thanks

618
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Speaker 4: for the ten New Zealand dollars. Glad to have you back. Sam.

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Speaker 2: You can message me on.

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Speaker 4: Discord just ask Riley and Ke and Daddy Coda bless

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Speaker 4: y'all like the stream y'all. Thank you for the messages. Lindsay,

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00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 4: We love you. MJ grow thanks for gifting five memberships

623
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Speaker 4: of the Okay storytime Bam growing that family. It's expanding,

624
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Speaker 4: flip switched. Thanks for the ten bucks. More stream, Yes,

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Speaker 4: more stream. Uh, I cannot tell what that says? Local

626
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 4: drug addict, local local drug addict. Hey, thanks for making

627
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 4: it into the chat. Remember for four months the Coda

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Speaker 4: you look the Coda. You look like an X of mine,

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Speaker 4: dimples and doll. But he's in prison now, so you know,

630
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Speaker 4: I don't know actually, I don't know.

631
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: Can we pull up as much?

632
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: You know, well, if he's.

633
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 4: In prison, I'm not.

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00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 2: I'm free.

635
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: I got I mean maybe maybe you got out. Maybe

636
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Speaker 1: you you it.

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00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, conspiracy theory. I broke out of prison.

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00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: I think you could do it. Yeah, you're personable enough

639
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: and I think you have way out. Yeah.

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00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 4: I just was like, hey, babe, you look great today,

641
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 4: and they're like, oh, you're free to go.

642
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 2: You're free to go.

643
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 4: Deborah A Lizard, thank you for the five gifted memberships.

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00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 4: And ALYSSA Monday, thank you for the five gifted memberships.

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00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 4: So many gifted memberships. We love it. Carly and welcome

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Speaker 4: to the Night Switching.

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Speaker 2: I Night the okay and that Oh that's all the.

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Speaker 4: YouTube excellente Thank you all, Thank you everyone for being here.

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Speaker 1: Also, a Nut's gotta say it again. Thanks for the

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Speaker 1: seventy dollars. We need more time, Anonymous. Thanks for the

652
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 1: twenty five bucks. Teresa Eats a Pizza. Thanks for the

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Speaker 1: five bucks new from Spotify. Thanks for the stories from Chicago.

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00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,479
Speaker 4: Thank you Teresa Eats a Pizza. You got my new

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Speaker 4: favorite name now.

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Speaker 1: I love that. It's a pizza.

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00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: It's a pizza.

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Speaker 1: It's a pizza, Brittany, I c U. Then thanks for

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Speaker 1: the five bucks. I just wanted to say hi and

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Speaker 1: welcome back Sam ten hour gang.

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Speaker 2: That's right, Darren, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Lad Putin. Can you scroll a little bit us?

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Speaker 2: I think that might be it?

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, yeah we did that.

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Speaker 4: I think we're caught up now, except Honey, hill Apiery

666
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Speaker 4: just donated where on the super chat show me right there.

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Speaker 1: Honey, hell Apiary thanks to two bucks. Hey to go to.

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Speaker 1: That's a taste of north central Montana.

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Speaker 4: No, that's not Montana, that's Missouri. That's where I'm from. Ops,

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Speaker 4: that's amazing to north central Missouri. So that's like right

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Speaker 4: around Truman right.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Wait, what's what's the what's Montana's code?

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Speaker 2: Emptn No, that's Minnesota.

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Speaker 4: MPTY geography.

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Speaker 2: Hello, all right, and I believe that means that we're

676
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Speaker 2: all caught up. Are we ready to rock on this

677
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 2: next story?

678
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

679
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Speaker 6: Yeah, you can do another story another episode?

680
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Speaker 1: Yes? Are we? Are we not? Are we not reading yet?

681
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Speaker 1: Are we waiting?

682
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Speaker 4: You can read?

683
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Speaker 1: We can read?

684
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Speaker 2: We can read?

685
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 4: Did you have it ready? Sam's reading?

686
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Speaker 1: I'm reading read one second? Oh yes, that's okay, be weird.

687
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Speaker 1: What else Oh, dude, I saw kapy baras in the

688
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Speaker 1: Mexican jungle. Yeah. I saw a bunch of yeah dude,

689
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Speaker 1: next to the trash heap I saw. I went to

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Speaker 1: the Yeah dude, I would so. I was so because it's.

691
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Speaker 4: Literally it would be next to the trash heap.

692
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 1: They all hung out there and they were eaten so

693
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Speaker 1: much trash.

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Speaker 4: Our north of Columbia, Okay, So you're like in the

695
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Speaker 4: central Central Okay.

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Speaker 3: M hm.

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Speaker 4: Those bees are probably nice in pristine her woods.

698
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Speaker 2: Those are wood bees?

699
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Speaker 1: What what? What? What area has the most bees per

700
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Speaker 1: per now, like per hector of land? I thought, I

701
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 1: thought it was my bathroom full of bees?

702
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 4: Dude. How many bees are in there?

703
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Speaker 1: Dude, I would love for you to have a small

704
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Speaker 1: little apiary in your bathroom. We got Sammy thanks to

705
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Speaker 1: the five bucks. Wish my daughters. I wish my daughter

706
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 1: good luck as her first cheer competition in two weeks.

707
00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:02,239
Speaker 1: We're practicing every day. Let's go your daughter, Let's go.

708
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Speaker 1: Good job, Hey, good job. You should lead, should lead

709
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Speaker 1: a practice leader cheer Yeah as a cheerleader. Yeah. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: st r t Ivy, who do.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, We're still we got more practical work guys, but

712
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 4: we'll get there, okay.

713
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Speaker 1: And uh the icy Land thanks for the by bucks.

714
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: My YouTube name is local drug Deck, but oh wait,

715
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 1: this is not Brittany icy Land. Brittany. My YouTube name

716
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 1: is local drug Deck, but I've been sober for ten months.

717
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Speaker 4: Hey, congratulations, time to change.

718
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Speaker 1: I guess your user name to ex local drug addict

719
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: or maybe make a different part of drug addict. Yeah yeah,

720
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: local sober person.

721
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:53,320
Speaker 2: Former addict.

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Speaker 1: Former.

723
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Speaker 4: I feel like.

724
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: Local former addict feels like like it's still I guess

725
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: it should be part of your identity. I guess right, Yeah,

726
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 1: it does have to be like the focal point of it. Yeah,

727
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: what else do you like? Do you like? You know,

728
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: like pottery, talk about pottery or something.

729
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 4: And Alyssa Monday, thanks again, thanks for the two dollars.

730
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Speaker 4: You missed Sam's sam EA's donut.

731
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Speaker 1: We just said it. Yeah yeah, all right, thank.

732
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Speaker 2: You for that donu.

733
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Speaker 4: My mother in law demands my twin sister not be

734
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 4: in town when she visits. I still invited her anyway.

735
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 4: That's my twin twins. That's my twin twin. For a

736
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 4: little background, I twenty seven female have a twin sister,

737
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 4: also twenty seven female. We are very close and she

738
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 4: is my best friend in every way. After high school,

739
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 4: we went different ways as we had different career plans.

740
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,880
Speaker 4: I studied physical therapy in Florida and she studied finance

741
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 4: at a university close to where we grew up. By

742
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Speaker 4: the way, this comes from user adventurous Honey nine four

743
00:37:54,920 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 4: four on the r slash Okay storytime subreddit. So, my husband,

744
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 4: twenty eight male, joined the army and because of this,

745
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 4: I've been away from home for about seven years. I

746
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 4: lived in Italy for two and a half years, in

747
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 4: which I hardly saw her, and due to COVID I

748
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 4: couldn't visit her much either. The military has now taken

749
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,399
Speaker 4: us to Japan for about three years. We don't want

750
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 4: to live our lives apart from each other, so we

751
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 4: decided each year to take turns making trips to visit

752
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 4: one another.

753
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Speaker 1: That's great. Yeah, that's nice.

754
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 4: It's a twin thing to do.

755
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: That's my twiss. Cool military locations.

756
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're winning. You're up on the military location.

757
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 1: You could like be in a military basis, like somewhere

758
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 1: random in the US. Yeah, you're getting you're getting the

759
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: world tour.

760
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, since flights are expensive. We stay for an extended

761
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 4: period of usually around one or two months during the summer.

762
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Speaker 2: That's awesome.

763
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 4: I understand that can be a lot to ask our

764
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,919
Speaker 4: spouses to be okay with. We invite our husbands out

765
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,720
Speaker 4: on our adventures, but they usually decline anyway, to stay

766
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 4: home and play video games.

767
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 2: That there's a couple of real men's men right there.

768
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 4: Couldn't. I couldn't relate to not hanging out with my

769
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 4: girlfriend and playing video games. I could never relate.

770
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Speaker 1: To that, not at all.

771
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 2: I don't know what that's about.

772
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 3: What's a game?

773
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 4: Anyway. We're both very emotional people and like to use

774
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 4: this to make up for lost time. Basically, we do

775
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 4: everything we would have liked to do throughout the year

776
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 4: during this time instead. My sister tends to stay longer

777
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 4: with me since we've done everything in our hometown and

778
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 4: I'm in Japan, where there's significantly more to do.

779
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:37,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's putting it lightly.

780
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: That also just sounds like like a month in Japan

781
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: sounds like a dream. Yeah, that sounds awesome.

782
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 4: Two months in Japan.

783
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Speaker 1: And also, I feel like this time is probably more

784
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: memorable and packed with new experience than if you had,

785
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: like just lived together like this is super intentional time.

786
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 4: This is great, It's a great This is a great ay.

787
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 4: Any twins out there take notes. Yeah, it's the best

788
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 4: way to twin. If you can just spare two months

789
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,760
Speaker 4: in Japan, you can figure out how to make it work.

790
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Speaker 4: This sounds like the best way to do it.

791
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

792
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 4: When I stay with her at her place, her husband

793
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 4: has no issue with hosting me whatsoever.

794
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 2: If she's happy, he's genuinely happy.

795
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Speaker 4: For of course, boundaries are set, such as not being

796
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 4: allowed in the master bedroom, or to give each other

797
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 4: privacy with our significant others and not touching their belongings

798
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Speaker 4: without permission.

799
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Speaker 2: We set those boundaries in my house as well. When

800
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Speaker 2: at each other's houses, we help out with chores, groceries

801
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 2: and pay for our own meals, which is a simple request.

802
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 2: This year, it was my twins turn to come back

803
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Speaker 2: to Japan.

804
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 4: I really want her to be here and enjoy my

805
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 4: last summer in Japan. My husband said that he's okay

806
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 4: with it, but he never seems to actually be okay

807
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 4: with her presence or my family and always makes unwelcoming

808
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 4: remarks to them.

809
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Speaker 1: Unwelcoming remarks like you're not well come.

810
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 2: Here, like I would assume something along those lines.

811
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Speaker 4: My husband asked that my family not visit when his

812
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 4: family is here, per his mom's request, as his family

813
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 4: was coming at the end of summer. We got a

814
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 4: big mama's boy alert, mama's boy conspiracy.

815
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 2: This guy's just gonna be a total MoMA's boy.

816
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: Well, question is it? I feel like it's to tell

817
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: me if I'm getting this right. But he's basically saying like,

818
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: I don't want both families to be there at the

819
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:30,879
Speaker 1: same time, right, Is that what he's saying.

820
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, my husband asked that my family not visit

821
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 4: when his family is here.

822
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 2: I feel like at the request of his mom.

823
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do feel all right, Well here here.

824
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,280
Speaker 2: Hey, bring the whole family to Japan.

825
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 4: Your family, my family Japan.

826
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 1: I am like, I don't think it should be for

827
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 1: the whole time, but I feel like it it is.

828
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: It would be hard maybe to like spend quality time

829
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 1: if there's so many people there potentially.

830
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 2: But you make it like just part of it. Yeah,

831
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 2: four days, five one.

832
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: Week, two months is a little crazy. Two months with

833
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: all of the family months is kind of crazy.

834
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,399
Speaker 3: No, it was a vacation, not a vacation, your station there,

835
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 3: but like, this is your family time. If you want

836
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 3: to come and spend that money, do it.

837
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:24,479
Speaker 2: If you want to come, come, if you want to. Yeah,

838
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:25,399
Speaker 2: there's no other way.

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Speaker 4: I can story anyway, story anyway, great story. Uh. But

840
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,280
Speaker 4: but his family was coming at the end of the summer,

841
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:36,919
Speaker 4: and my husband had originally told me that it would

842
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 4: be his mom, sister and significant other and his brother

843
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 4: and significant other who are coming to stay with us.

844
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 2: So that's five people.

845
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: And for how long is it? It's is it the

846
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:46,959
Speaker 1: entire two months?

847
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 4: I'm not sure.

848
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Speaker 2: I don't think so.

849
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 4: My family came my mother, brother, and sister and her

850
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 4: husband at the beginning of the summer for two weeks

851
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 4: and have already left per husband's request, except for my

852
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 4: twin who's staying longer, which my husband knew about. Here

853
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 4: is where I might be the a hole me thinking, well,

854
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 4: it's just one person.

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00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 2: What's the big deal if my twin is here when

856
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 2: his family is here.

857
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 4: After all, I've seen his mom treat his brother and

858
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 4: sister significant others like family and invite them to dinner,

859
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 4: concerts and go with them on cruises, etc. But she

860
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 4: does not do the same thing with me or my

861
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 4: siblings or try to make me feel like family. She

862
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 4: is my twin after all, so I told my sister

863
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 4: that she could stay. My husband got very upset with me,

864
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 4: reminding me that he asked my family not to be

865
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 4: here as he did not want to upset his mom.

866
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 4: He told his mom about my twin staying, and his

867
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 4: mom got very angry, asking why is she here, and

868
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 4: called my husband's brother and sister about what I've done.

869
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 4: He told me that there are gonna be too many

870
00:43:56,640 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 4: people staying at our house, his mom, sister, brother, and

871
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 4: both of their significant others, And now is telling me

872
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 4: that his mom had also invited his brother's girlfriend's sister

873
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 4: and brother to come on the trip too, but nobody

874
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 4: told me so the girl, the significant other's siblings.

875
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 1: That's a full I mean, hopefully they have a big

876
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: enough place for that.

877
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 4: So that's now one, two people five, that's seven people

878
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:31,319
Speaker 4: on Opie's husband's family that's going to be coming. And

879
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 4: then the twin is also there, so that's eight eight

880
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 4: extra people in the house at the same time.

881
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: And so did the did the husband. The husband didn't

882
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: know that the twin was going to be staying, but

883
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,479
Speaker 1: OPI was like, I think it'll be fine.

884
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because that's what they do all that, They

885
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 4: do that every year anyway. Yeah, so the twin's now

886
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 4: staying for the two of the other month and a half.

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00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: I think the the the families request. I feel the

888
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: family is being unreasonable here by like the husband's family,

889
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 1: by making such a fuss about the twin. Yea one person, however,

890
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: I would say the husband did ask her to not

891
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 1: have her family there, and she did.

892
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 4: Agree, and she did that, though she did it besides

893
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 4: the twin, right, besides the twin.

894
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 2: But it's like, but that is I understand having the

895
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,240
Speaker 2: whole family there, bet.

896
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: I think that that is a family, and so I

897
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:27,240
Speaker 1: understand how that would have been surprising to him. And

898
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: not to like excuse the family's situation, but I think, like,

899
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:35,760
Speaker 1: if we're trying to ensure the least amount of drama possible,

900
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: making sure that you commute, like if you've agreed to

901
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: not having your family there, making sure you're communicating that

902
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: something is changing, I think would produce the least amount

903
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,919
Speaker 1: of drama. Tell me chat, tell me if.

904
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 2: You think I'm wrong, elip. She was like, yeah, it'll

905
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 2: probably be fine.

906
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is a leap, and it's again not excusing

907
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 1: the families respond to this at all, because that's pretty wild.

908
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 2: But a bargain had been struck.

909
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: But a bargain had been struck, and like, once you

910
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 1: strike the bargain, you gotta update the bargain.

911
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 4: According to pirate code, you have to stick with the

912
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 4: bargain you strike. Okay, so nobody told me that there

913
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:23,280
Speaker 4: would be uh what seven people coming instead of five,

914
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:24,879
Speaker 4: which is.

915
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: A total miscommunication on the husband's park, right, right, because

916
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:30,760
Speaker 1: she should know when he's coming into.

917
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 4: Her house exactly. That's her house, right after all? I

918
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 4: live here too, and this information should not have been omitted. Agreed,

919
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 4: I did not know his mom invited my husband's brother's

920
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 4: girlfriends siblings to my home in Japan for their graduation trip.

921
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, how are you get? How are you gonna

922
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: invite that husband's girlfriends brothers sibling? Like what?

923
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: I feel like they're both doing the same thing to

924
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,760
Speaker 1: each other. She's not telling him that her sister's staying,

925
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 1: and he's not telling her that there's more people coming. Yeah,

926
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: so it's like it feels like they're both And again,

927
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: chat tell me if I'm wrong. Here because I know

928
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 1: you will, But it feels like it feels like they're

929
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: kind of doing this, like the same negative act towards

930
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: each other, and there's not enough communication on both sides right.

931
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 2: Now, both sides. Uh huh.

932
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 4: His mom is extremely upset with me for messing up

933
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 4: their trip, but she didn't tell me or talk to

934
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 4: me about this at all. And my husband knew my

935
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 4: sister intended on staying longer than my other family, but

936
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:39,239
Speaker 4: omitted that his mom invited these extra people to stay here.

937
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 4: Now there's more people going to stay at my house

938
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 4: than what I had previously believed. I know that my

939
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 4: husband asked me not to have any family here, but

940
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 4: why is my mother in law allowed to bring my

941
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 4: husband's brothers, girlfriend's siblings to stay at my house and

942
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 4: my own twin is not allowed? So am I the

943
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,359
Speaker 4: a hole? And there's a little bit of extra info here.

944
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 4: Two years ago, when my twin came to visit me

945
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 4: my family, my husband's family accidentally scheduled their trip at

946
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 4: the same time. Even though I told my husband what

947
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 4: dates my twin had bought her tickets for at the

948
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 4: beginning of the year, my husband's family insisted on using

949
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 4: my car and they did not allow me to go

950
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 4: pick up my sister from the airport, and she ended

951
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,800
Speaker 4: up having to walk from the airport to my house

952
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 4: in the night with her husband as she has never

953
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 4: even been here before and did not know what to

954
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 4: do as everything was closed.

955
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 2: Extra extra info.

956
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 4: This is not the first time my mother in law

957
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 4: has done something like this. I had in the past

958
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 4: invited my mother in law to dinner. She brought my

959
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 4: father in law, sister in law, and her boyfriend brother

960
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 4: in law and his girlfriend.

961
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: I paid squatting up right, I got everyone.

962
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 4: Mother in law is like, oh, oh, we're going to dinner.

963
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 4: You mean we going to dinner the extended family. I

964
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 4: paid for the dinners as it was my ine, and

965
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 4: she was still upset with me that I brought my

966
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 4: twin without telling her. But I also did not know

967
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 4: she was bringing my brother in law and sister in

968
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,920
Speaker 4: law significant others, and I had no problem, nor did

969
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 4: I make a big deal paying for them. I'm the

970
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,600
Speaker 4: only one married into the family of her.

971
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 2: Children's significant others.

972
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 4: My husband also expects me to serve and care for

973
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:22,439
Speaker 4: his family, like doing the cleaning and cooking while they're here,

974
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 4: but gives my family the cold shoulder when they're here

975
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 4: and hides in our room. He also tells me I

976
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 4: should learn to live without my family, which breaks my

977
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:36,240
Speaker 4: heart as my family is very close knit.

978
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:40,160
Speaker 2: And a third edit, Hey this dude, no no.

979
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no way.

980
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 2: That is crazy to live without your family.

981
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: So someone in the chat was like, it seems like

982
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 1: he might be trying to isolate you from your family.

983
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: That is direct proof.

984
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, that is like a big flashing neon sign screaming

985
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 4: abandon your family, do not speak with your fan.

986
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 2: Do not be with your family. Wow, I am your

987
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 2: family now, Wow, look at me, Look at me, I

988
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:09,320
Speaker 2: am the family.

989
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: Now.

990
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 4: Okay, here's the next edit. This is getting suspicious. Thank

991
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 4: you so much for all the feedback and responses. This

992
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 4: has really been an eye opener for me to clarify.

993
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 4: I should have mentioned this in the original post of

994
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 4: my apologies. Location, ages, and professions were altered to keep

995
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 4: people anonymous. I know that there are a lot of

996
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 4: feedback regarding licensing. I know that I know there are

997
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:38,760
Speaker 4: a lot feedback. There was a lot of feedback regarding

998
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 4: licenses in Japan. I didn't think about this earlier. My

999
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 4: husband and I are from the same cultural background. The

1000
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 4: apartment we live in is only a two bedroom, one

1001
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 4: and a half bath in an expensive area.

1002
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:55,399
Speaker 6: Wa wait wait wait wait wait, they have a two

1003
00:50:55,719 --> 00:51:00,720
Speaker 6: bedroom place and they're going to fit like sick extra

1004
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 6: people in their place? Is that?

1005
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: Am I?

1006
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 4: Seven? Eight?

1007
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 2: Actually?

1008
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 6: Am I?

1009
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,840
Speaker 1: Am I? Tripping? Or an OP is supposed to cook

1010
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 1: for all those people and clean for all those people? Yeah,

1011
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:16,399
Speaker 1: that's I am I.

1012
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 4: The red flags are waven real strong right now.

1013
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 1: That seems absolutely crazy.

1014
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 4: That's unhinged to expect one person to take care of

1015
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 4: eight people living in a two bedroom apartment. I mean,

1016
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:33,479
Speaker 4: I wonder how long they're gonna stay. Maybe they weren't

1017
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 4: staying for that long, but.

1018
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 2: Even still, like that's a lot to take care of.

1019
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 1: Even so okay, so all right, is there is there more?

1020
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,359
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I mean yeah, well there's an update.

1021
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 1: Okay, just really quick. Like, I do think, don't tear

1022
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 1: me apart yet, chat. I do think communicating that you're

1023
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 1: like your family is gonna be there is important, right

1024
00:51:56,520 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 1: and like that like OP should have done that for sure, right,

1025
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 1: but what the husband done has done has gone so

1026
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: like like like it just gets worse and worse and worse,

1027
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: and I feel like this is one of these moments

1028
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 1: where she might be realizing how controlling he is. And

1029
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 1: I don't think she's realizing that, like until now as

1030
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:20,399
Speaker 1: she's writing this out.

1031
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 4: Yeah I would, I would probably suspect.

1032
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 1: That I'm feeling divorced. Yeah, She's this feels feel.

1033
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 4: I was thinking Mama's boy, but now I'm thinking he's

1034
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 4: acting more like the prison warden dude and he's like, yeah,

1035
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 4: and you're taking care of everyone.

1036
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,760
Speaker 1: I mean this feels what this feels like. This feels

1037
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:39,359
Speaker 1: like like a like a very like I don't know

1038
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 1: the I've heard of this archetype of like the traditional

1039
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: army guy archetype where it's like this, I'm I'm taking you,

1040
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: I'm taking you away. And I had a family member

1041
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 1: go through this where it's like basically isolating her from

1042
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: like her entire family and being super controlling. And because

1043
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 1: that's like I feel like it's the uh uh, it's

1044
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: like the norm within that. Yeah, it's the environment. That's

1045
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: the environment. I mean, well, it's a military everything is

1046
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: like super by the book and very traditional and all

1047
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 1: that stuff. Yeah, yeah, I don't like that at all.

1048
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:25,320
Speaker 4: Well, let's find out what happens next. Here's the update.

1049
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,799
Speaker 4: I want to go ahead and update everyone. I told

1050
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 4: my husband about the post and it didn't go well.

1051
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 4: He was very upset with me and did not want

1052
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 4: to read the post or comments. All he did was

1053
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 4: repeatedly say why would you do that to me and

1054
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 4: stare at me. So I had left and stayed at

1055
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 4: a friend's house for a couple hours. He said he's

1056
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 4: not interested in what the post had to say and

1057
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 4: to drop it. The next day, he went to military

1058
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,760
Speaker 4: counseling and told his counselor about what I did and cried.

1059
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:01,360
Speaker 4: The counselor recommended marriage counseling. So I'm happy he's open

1060
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 4: to that. But the way he victimized himself and said

1061
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 4: he was the perfect husband to me kind of put

1062
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 4: me off.

1063
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're not the perfect husband.

1064
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: You are so far from the perfect husband.

1065
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 4: You are like a tiny blip in the distance in

1066
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,799
Speaker 4: terms of how far away you are from.

1067
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:20,640
Speaker 1: Being a perfect very very low bar. And I worry

1068
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,400
Speaker 1: who your model husbands look like.

1069
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:25,840
Speaker 2: Definitely not like Ryan Gosley.

1070
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: Dang, yeah, who too have a mendoz? Who's that lady?

1071
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 4: A nice lady?

1072
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 3: Placed beyond the pines, Place beyond the pines. Okay, have you.

1073
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 1: Seen anyway read the code?

1074
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 2: Nay boyfriend, Ryan's.

1075
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:51,240
Speaker 4: Boyfriend a man marry Ryan Gosling.

1076
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:54,479
Speaker 1: I would marry Ryan, I would read right now?

1077
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, okay.

1078
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 4: Recommended marriage counts like and I happy that he's open

1079
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 4: to it. But the way he victimized himself and said

1080
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 4: he was the perfect husband to me kind of put

1081
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 4: me off. Regarding where the guests are to stay, I

1082
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 4: originally planned on three guests staying in the living room

1083
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:13,799
Speaker 4: on an air mattress and the large couch I have,

1084
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 4: and two in the upstairs office on an air mattress.

1085
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 4: They're planning on being here for nine days. I now

1086
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 4: am not so sure about what to do with all

1087
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 4: these guests, and I will leave that.

1088
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:26,839
Speaker 2: Up to him.

1089
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 4: So yeah, well, if he wants to be controlling, he

1090
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:33,240
Speaker 4: can control that. I plan to stay with my neighbor

1091
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 4: who's a good friend while his family's here. Okay, okay,

1092
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 4: I think no, that was her prerogative. She's like, I'm leaving,

1093
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 4: I'm staying with you.

1094
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 1: Room for her. Oh oh pe.

1095
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:48,279
Speaker 2: I planned, Yeah.

1096
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 4: I decided to take everyone's advice and I'll go on

1097
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 4: some adventures with my twin.

1098
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 1: Is also thank god your twin is there because you're

1099
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:02,400
Speaker 1: being isolated. Yeah, like everyone, I matter how much it

1100
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: would suck to be in this hotel room all by yourself,

1101
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:07,399
Speaker 1: like basically thrown out of your own house.

1102
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, at least you don't have to cook and

1103
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 2: clean for nine people.

1104
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. If you're in a hotel room all by yourself,

1105
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 1: you could bend it.

1106
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:15,919
Speaker 2: Yeah for an hour.

1107
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 4: His contract here ends in a few months, and then

1108
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 4: we will go back to the US. Luckily, I'm not

1109
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 4: in a financially dependent state with my husband, and I

1110
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 4: have a career in which I can support myself.

1111
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 1: Let's squeak.

1112
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 2: You love an independent, strong woman.

1113
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 4: This isn't the first time that he made rules for

1114
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:37,720
Speaker 4: me but not for him. He is very computer science smart,

1115
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 4: and I'm not a little over a year ago he

1116
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,439
Speaker 4: made it where he had made it where I had

1117
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 4: restricted access to certain websites such as TikTok and Pinterest.

1118
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,279
Speaker 4: He said that this was for my mental health and

1119
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 4: computer safety, and I just thought that this applied to

1120
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 4: him too. He strictly told me that corn that cornography

1121
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 4: was cheating and I better not be ever watching it

1122
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:06,360
Speaker 4: as he has Christian values. But one day when he

1123
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:08,479
Speaker 4: thought I went to work in the morning, I caught

1124
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:13,839
Speaker 4: him in his office with multiple screens of corn agraphy.

1125
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: Open, multiple screens. That's hey, you get like day trading corn.

1126
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 2: He's it's all the shame, the shame, shame projection.

1127
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 3: No more corn talk. I just gotta call out a

1128
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 3: net right now. She just donated one hundred twenty Schmackarooney's wow.

1129
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: Wow net a net y'all are not Yeah, yeah, let's go.

1130
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 4: Ten hours, ten hour stream, ten hour stream, ten hour stream.

1131
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 1: I'm here, I have my I put my French press.

1132
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 4: You had an entire French press of coffee. He's ready

1133
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 4: to go.

1134
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go.

1135
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 4: So multiple streams of corn, canned corn open. I have

1136
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 4: been with him since middle school. Oh this is That

1137
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 4: explains a lot, and I am having a hard time

1138
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:10,959
Speaker 4: letting this go. He says he doesn't know what he's

1139
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 4: doing wrong, but that he tries very hard. But I

1140
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 4: can't help but think that he is far from it. Yeah,

1141
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 4: this guy is like he knows, he knows what he's

1142
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 4: doing wrong.

1143
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 1: Also, really quick, if you're if you're on multiple screens,

1144
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:29,280
Speaker 1: this is not like a one in a while habit.

1145
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:31,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're on multiple guy, this guy had to

1146
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:32,959
Speaker 3: go to like page eight.

1147
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're you're cranking it. You're cranking it to like

1148
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: some weirder, weird sessional cranker.

1149
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I'll save this one for later and I'll

1150
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 3: do that one for later.

1151
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 4: It's like he's, uh, he's got multiple screens, but his

1152
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 4: eyes he's like going chicken eyed.

1153
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 2: So he's like looking at one on the left and

1154
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 2: looking at one on the right. Can I do that?

1155
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 1: He has some chameleon eyed.

1156
00:58:58,080 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 2: Uh okay.

1157
00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 4: Oh, by the way, you can join us with your

1158
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 4: chameleon eyes. Every weekday when we go live on YouTube

1159
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 4: at three p m ps T, just tap our profile and.

1160
00:59:12,040 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: You know what, open up on multiple screens. We want

1161
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 1: to be in every one of your chamileon I.

1162
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 2: Want to be on your phone, we want to be

1163
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 2: on your desktop. We want you to be like streaming

1164
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 2: whatever speakers.

1165
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 4: You have in your house that could connect to podcast streams.

1166
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 4: We want we want every possible way for you to

1167
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,400
Speaker 4: watch and listen to us to be up at the

1168
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 4: same time.

1169
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: Send it to your friends, send it to your family.

1170
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 4: So there's a little bit less but I think let's

1171
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 4: let's let's consolidate our thoughts on Op's husband since middle school.

1172
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: Dude, Well, I think she doesn't know how bad it is,

1173
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 1: and I think that's great though. What's great this is

1174
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 1: silver lining is she is finally understanding through the power

1175
00:59:57,000 --> 01:00:00,680
Speaker 1: of submitting a story to the world wide Internet. Power

1176
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:02,160
Speaker 1: of the Internet and people being like.

1177
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 4: Girl, wrong, being like that's not right, this is all wrong.

1178
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think I just saw a very weird

1179
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: Satan loves pieces as I caught one of my exes

1180
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 1: looking at corn and it was a huge guy.

1181
01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:21,200
Speaker 3: You know exactly what he means or they mean they.

1182
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 4: Take the sea?

1183
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,360
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, what does that mean?

1184
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 2: Give it a vertice?

1185
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: What does it mean?

1186
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 2: A bit of vertex?

1187
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 3: Okay, guys again.

1188
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 1: But what does that mean? A huge but like, what

1189
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: does that? What's a huge one?

1190
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:34,840
Speaker 3: I'm you not Okay, that's for another day, Sam, We'll

1191
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 3: talk about that when you show us.

1192
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 4: You get you get older?

1193
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, what are you a couple of hours a little older?

1194
01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, this is this seems like it seems like

1195
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: a divorce territory. But she doesn't know because she's been

1196
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: dating since middle My conspiracy theory is she's going to

1197
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 1: realize she's going to get a really great advice from Reddit,

1198
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 1: and she's going to make some changes. Yeah, I hope.

1199
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 4: I hope she leaves this guy and moves in with

1200
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 4: your twenty.

1201
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: I hope, I hope.

1202
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, get out of here.

1203
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: I wonder what the twins advice would be. Oh, run,

1204
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 1: I wonder, run run. I hope, I hope, So.

1205
01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 2: Run away with me. What's winning?

1206
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 3: Run into that story.

1207
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 4: I don't know if there's any saving this relationship. And

1208
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 4: we'll keep you guys updated so she is aware immediately good.

1209
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 4: He doesn't even do the bare minimum and doesn't help

1210
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:31,560
Speaker 4: around the house with chores. He leaves his clothes on

1211
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 4: the floor and dirty dishes, can slash empty chip bags everywhere.

1212
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 4: He is an affectionate towards me, and he treats me

1213
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,439
Speaker 4: like a roommate. He doesn't reciprocate my love for him,

1214
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 4: and I now know I need to walk away.

1215
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 1: Let's go. I love this realization. He's great.

1216
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 2: I'm starting to ramble.

1217
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:51,959
Speaker 4: I'll post another update when mother in law comes to visit.

1218
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 4: Thanks you guys for all your responses and concerns. I

1219
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,080
Speaker 4: will definitely take them into consideration and that is the

1220
01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 4: end of that story. We do not have an update, Keon,

1221
01:01:59,040 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 4: do we have another update?

1222
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 3: I'll check right now.

1223
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 2: I don't.

1224
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:03,280
Speaker 4: I don't know. I would love to, I would love

1225
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 4: to see that. Yeah, I mean, yeah, she realized. I

1226
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 4: think I got to get out of here. I'm sure

1227
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:13,280
Speaker 4: that's going to be a complicated process, being like or

1228
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 4: maybe not. I don't know what military divorce looks like

1229
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 4: because you're in Japan, but I think the.

1230
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 2: Laws in your marriage or American because.

1231
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 1: Usually you're on the which is usually American laws.

1232
01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:28,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I just learned recently that, like there's a

1233
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 4: lot of different countries where it's like you can't just

1234
01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:32,480
Speaker 4: divorce somebody, No, but you got to do like a

1235
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:34,760
Speaker 4: whole bunch of other stuff beforehand.

1236
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 1: With with well, there's like often I mean even in

1237
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 1: some like European countries, it's like you have to have

1238
01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 1: a year of separation before you yeah, stuff like that

1239
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:47,680
Speaker 1: whole year, or like in Saudi Arabia it's like not

1240
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 1: only if your husband wants to.

1241
01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Saudi Arabia marriage divorces.

1242
01:02:52,920 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: You, dude. I remember the Mother Russia in Saviet thresh skins.

1243
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 1: There is an update, No way you're joking.

1244
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 2: Hit it.

1245
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 3: I'm seeing yours right now.

1246
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 1: Hit it? Put it in.

1247
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 3: Wait, hold on, yeah, I'm sure reading this. The first

1248
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 3: thing is, hey, everybody, thank you for all the comments

1249
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 3: and advice left on previous posts. To be honest, this

1250
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 3: is the twin sister of the op throw.

1251
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 4: It oh, I loved my God?

1252
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 2: All right, we are you putting it in the same story.

1253
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna try and put in.

1254
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: The thing all right, while Keon is all right, we

1255
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:33,520
Speaker 1: have an update. We just found the update from this

1256
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 1: from the Twins perspective, The Twins perspective.

1257
01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:38,120
Speaker 3: Let me just read into it. Just just keep keep

1258
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:38,920
Speaker 3: them busy a second.

1259
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna We're gonna read some of the donos

1260
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 1: while we do that, so we'll read again. Uh and

1261
01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 1: At thanks for thee hundred and twenty bucks not leaving us.

1262
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 2: We are We're a champion, uh.

1263
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: Nicole, and thanks to the five bucks everyone liked the stream.

1264
01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:59,080
Speaker 1: Give us a chance at more time.

1265
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 4: We are only fifth team likes away from a wheel

1266
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 4: spin and I certainly do like to.

1267
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 2: Spin the wheel.

1268
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:08,240
Speaker 1: Spin that wheel. Angie Alis, thanks for the two pounds. Dakota.

1269
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: Saw you say elder rings once? Do you play.

1270
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 4: Oh, don't even get me started, dude, I could talk

1271
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,919
Speaker 4: to you about the Golden Order until my lips fall off.

1272
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 1: That's the one where you like continually roll against the

1273
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 1: big monsters.

1274
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 2: Kind of in a way depends on how good this man.

1275
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 3: This man, this man is out of pocket, but he's right,

1276
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:29,480
Speaker 3: it's go, let's go.

1277
01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:33,600
Speaker 4: It is technically what you do if you're not really good, you.

1278
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 2: Do just roll all the time.

1279
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 4: You just roll and you roll, and you roll some

1280
01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:38,640
Speaker 4: more than you die is it? And then you go,

1281
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 4: I don't like this game, but that's not what I do.

1282
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 1: Uh and uh oh, Nikki Lee, thanks for the ten

1283
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 1: bucks a little sticker, uh Carly, and thanks for being

1284
01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 1: a member for three months. Do you guys have more

1285
01:04:52,640 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: than one live going? Because it keeps kicking me out?

1286
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: The other lives pop up and said it was from Paris,

1287
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 1: while I'm so can we fixed it?

1288
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 4: It's been like the salt downstairs and I just realized

1289
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 4: nobody knows what I'm talking about.

1290
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 1: Alyssa Monday, thanks for the gifted Okay storytime membership. Two

1291
01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 1: gifted memberships, Hey and Josephine Madla bur Quest, thanks for

1292
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 1: the Svens The Coroner.

1293
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 4: Swedish crowns.

1294
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 2: By the way, Swedish crowns.

1295
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 4: They got Swedish, and then Norwegian and Denmark crowns, Danish crowns.

1296
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: Then he watches step Mom corn imagining his own step

1297
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 1: mom that dirty dirty and we're gonna spin that wheel. Yeah.

1298
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 4: First we have a wheel spin.

1299
01:05:42,200 --> 01:05:43,120
Speaker 1: First we have a wheel spin.

1300
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 3: The wheelspin, y'all, I update the story and everything goes.

1301
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 4: You've updated the story. After the wheel spin, we will

1302
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 4: be getting the update. Are you ready to spin?

1303
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1304
01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 4: Five five memberships.

1305
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 3: I'll get on that.

1306
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 1: Don't worry members Wait.

1307
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 4: It landed on fifteen more minutes.

1308
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 3: What what do you want, Sam? Do you want five

1309
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 3: memberships or fifteen more minutes?

1310
01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 1: We landed on five memberships?

1311
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, we did land We spun the wheel like forty

1312
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 3: times the other day because it landed on trivia a

1313
01:06:19,560 --> 01:06:21,920
Speaker 3: thousand times and you're like, everyone was.

1314
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 1: Like boo, maybe we should change the wheel.

1315
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:31,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, we should wheel into me doing accents. Yeah.

1316
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:33,040
Speaker 3: They wanted they want to update it.

1317
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 4: They want it.

1318
01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:36,880
Speaker 1: Okay, well, hey, uh, can you guys in the discord

1319
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 1: say what you want on the wheel and we'll put

1320
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: it on the wheel for next time. Uh, And maybe

1321
01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 1: maybe chat Riley on it. John said he get Riley

1322
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: to get a new wheel. Yeah, but Bob pastor Riley

1323
01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: about it. Okay, you can make it happen. But we

1324
01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 1: got another update.

1325
01:06:57,360 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 4: They from the sisters perspective.

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01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah the twin. Oh that's my twin.

1327
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:03,880
Speaker 4: Got it? Is it there, twinter?

1328
01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Winter Winter Twinning dinner. All right, go for it.

1329
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:09,360
Speaker 4: Here we go.

1330
01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 2: New update.

1331
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 4: Hey everybody, thank you for all the comments and advice

1332
01:07:14,960 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 4: left on the previous post. To be honest, this is

1333
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 4: the twin sister of the op. It's my account. I

1334
01:07:21,400 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 4: had originally been posting on behalf of her so she

1335
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 4: could see how her husband was in the wrong. It

1336
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 4: was the twin the whole time, and we couldn't even

1337
01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 4: tell because they're twins.

1338
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:30,760
Speaker 2: They're twinning.

1339
01:07:33,080 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 4: After still receiving some requests for an update, I decided

1340
01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 4: that I'll go ahead and do so. Let's just say

1341
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 4: me and my sister agreed to disagree on what was

1342
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 4: to happen and what did happen after her mother in

1343
01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 4: law and the rest of her husband's family showed up.

1344
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 4: I can't say I was disappointed, because well, it's not

1345
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 4: like they haven't left me feeling this way before her

1346
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 4: neighbor seemed to agree with me on my side of

1347
01:07:56,200 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 4: the story. Basically what happened was as soon as his

1348
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 4: family showed up, she began to cater to them. I

1349
01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 4: ended up staying a few nights alone at her neighbor's house.

1350
01:08:06,120 --> 01:08:08,720
Speaker 4: She was really kind and friendly towards me, as I

1351
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:11,080
Speaker 4: think she kind of felt bad my sister let me

1352
01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:13,520
Speaker 4: down as she expected both of us to be there.

1353
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 4: The neighbor also agreed that my sister's husband would never

1354
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,600
Speaker 4: do what she does for him and his family, not

1355
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 4: to mention. When my sister did come over to the

1356
01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 4: neighbor's house, she overheard the way that he talks to

1357
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:27,640
Speaker 4: her when no one else is listening. It was a

1358
01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 4: few months ago, but it was something along the lines

1359
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 4: of get the f over here, I want you here

1360
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,960
Speaker 4: with my family. He's a whole other person when he

1361
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 4: thinks no one's listening, which scares me. But my sister

1362
01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 4: claims that he's all bark and no bite.

1363
01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 1: I would round that bark though.

1364
01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 4: Your husband's in the military, so I would assume he

1365
01:08:46,600 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 4: can bite. They kind of trained them to do that.

1366
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:51,679
Speaker 1: They that is literally he is a killing machine.

1367
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 2: That's his job.

1368
01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 1: That's his job.

1369
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 2: His job is to be able to bite.

1370
01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 4: My sister claims that she thought we were just going

1371
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 4: to stay together and sleep interrupted bedroom on the floor

1372
01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 4: or in the linen closet, and when his family wasn't

1373
01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:06,799
Speaker 4: doing anything, we would chill up there and watch Netflix

1374
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 4: and work on some crafts together.

1375
01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 2: So that's what we ended up doing the rest of

1376
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 2: the nights there.

1377
01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 4: I clearly remember planning to stay together at her neighbor's house,

1378
01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 4: but I let it go. His family used his car,

1379
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 4: and we did not go out on our own adventures

1380
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:23,920
Speaker 4: that last week his family was there. I spoke to

1381
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 4: my mom and she told me to just stay positive

1382
01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 4: until I go home, to make the best of the situation,

1383
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:30,720
Speaker 4: and to try to enjoy the last week there with

1384
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 4: my sister.

1385
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:34,720
Speaker 2: Despite everything, my sister did force.

1386
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 4: Them to squeeze some room for me in their truck

1387
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:38,200
Speaker 4: so I could go with them on some of the

1388
01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:43,440
Speaker 4: more exciting activities, like visiting Kualoa Ranch, swimming in the

1389
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 4: co Olaina lagoons, and eating in Waikiki.

1390
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:51,839
Speaker 2: What were they in Hawaii?

1391
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 1: They're going everywhere? Well, I think he went. They may

1392
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 1: have gone to I thought they were in Japan, but

1393
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: they're moving all time.

1394
01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 2: Did not know where Japan or Hawaii was.

1395
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 1: No, No, I think they went to the Hawaii base.

1396
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 2: So they went to Hawaii from Japan.

1397
01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

1398
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 4: The other activities, I just stayed with her neighbor. Although

1399
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 4: it was really awkward, Her mother in law was really

1400
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:17,479
Speaker 4: nice to me and did not seem to act like

1401
01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:20,680
Speaker 4: she had any issue with me. She claims that she

1402
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 4: did not, and that it was my sister's brother in

1403
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:26,559
Speaker 4: law who had the issue with me being there since

1404
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:29,880
Speaker 4: he brought so many people because he brought his girlfriend,

1405
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:31,760
Speaker 4: his sister, and her boyfriend and.

1406
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 2: Wait, oh, that can't be bored.

1407
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:40,479
Speaker 4: He brought his girlfriend, her sister, and her boyfriend and

1408
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 4: their little brother, so I would be the one too

1409
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:46,719
Speaker 4: many lols. She seemed honest, as his brother did seem

1410
01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:49,080
Speaker 4: to be the one throwing tantrums when things weren't going

1411
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:51,639
Speaker 4: his way. He couldn't seem to agree on anything such

1412
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 4: as where to eat or what to do for the day.

1413
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:56,760
Speaker 4: I even saw that my sister's mother in law and

1414
01:10:56,840 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 4: sister in law and her fiance were all keeping their

1415
01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:02,360
Speaker 4: disc from him, as they said they couldn't even joke

1416
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:06,760
Speaker 4: around him, as he would get offended by everything. Truthfully,

1417
01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:08,920
Speaker 4: he did seem to get offended by things that weren't

1418
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 4: even offensive. He got upset that we went to another restaurant,

1419
01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 4: were able to eat and leave, and him wait. He

1420
01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:21,240
Speaker 4: got upset that we went to another restaurant, were able

1421
01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 4: to eat and leave, and him and his group were

1422
01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:26,720
Speaker 4: still waiting in line at the restaurant they chose. He

1423
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:29,880
Speaker 4: got upset when his sister said she was full, because

1424
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 4: supposedly that was super rude to rub it in, but

1425
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:36,640
Speaker 4: they chose to eat there. It's somehow, it seems we

1426
01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:40,599
Speaker 4: somehow scheduled to leave back to Texas on the same day,

1427
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:43,960
Speaker 4: so they left the same day I did. I was

1428
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:46,800
Speaker 4: happy to go home and see my husband being with

1429
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 4: him as a breath of fresh air. I'm sure you're

1430
01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 4: wondering about my sister. She's still trying to work things

1431
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:56,519
Speaker 4: out with her husband. Why because middle school? They've been

1432
01:11:56,600 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 4: dating since middle school. Dude, she's locked She's fully locked in.

1433
01:12:00,439 --> 01:12:02,920
Speaker 4: She's got the blinders on. She can't see anything except

1434
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:03,840
Speaker 4: this one guy.

1435
01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:05,800
Speaker 1: I thought she was figuring it out, you know, I

1436
01:12:05,800 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 1: thought she was like realizing this wasn't good for her.

1437
01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 4: I mean, let's figure out why she doesn't want to

1438
01:12:11,479 --> 01:12:12,559
Speaker 4: why she can't see.

1439
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:15,000
Speaker 1: The light, because you know, it's it's a case of

1440
01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 1: just not having enough self respect and and it's probably.

1441
01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 4: The comfort the comfort zone, and she's probably been taught

1442
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 4: by her her husband has been conditioning her to not have.

1443
01:12:27,040 --> 01:12:28,799
Speaker 1: Any self respect.

1444
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 2: Ye bad, bad bad. At least you're in Japan.

1445
01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:36,479
Speaker 4: They've been going to couples counseling and even went on

1446
01:12:36,520 --> 01:12:38,920
Speaker 4: a couple's retreat. She says that he's.

1447
01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:41,000
Speaker 2: Getting better, but I don't know anything for sure.

1448
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 4: Sometimes she says that she wants to start over, and

1449
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:46,360
Speaker 4: other times she wants to work through things with him.

1450
01:12:46,640 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 4: I can see how that decision could be difficult. I

1451
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:51,559
Speaker 4: understand after being with him since they were in middle school.

1452
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 4: She doesn't know anything else and is afraid that she

1453
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:57,120
Speaker 4: won't find better. I think she could, and I think

1454
01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 4: everyone in this room also thinks that.

1455
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:01,040
Speaker 1: She's afraid she couldn't find better.

1456
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:05,320
Speaker 4: She's used, she's loosed in, she's locked in, she's final answer.

1457
01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 2: That's what she that's the mode that she's in right.

1458
01:13:07,439 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 1: Now, like op, like no one deserves to be treated

1459
01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:14,879
Speaker 1: like crap now, Like I feel like you might feel

1460
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:17,280
Speaker 1: better being alone?

1461
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:20,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would probably feel better being alone instead of

1462
01:13:20,479 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 4: being like, hey, I hope you're ready to cook and

1463
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:25,360
Speaker 4: clean and wipe all our butts.

1464
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 2: Me and my whole family change our diapers.

1465
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:30,720
Speaker 1: Our adult diapersps.

1466
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:33,400
Speaker 4: I think she could definitely find better, but it's not

1467
01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:36,120
Speaker 4: my decision to make. They're about to finally leave and

1468
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:38,720
Speaker 4: move back to Texas. They want to start over and

1469
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:41,400
Speaker 4: get a new home here. My sister says that she

1470
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 4: thinks it's better to wait to make her decision when

1471
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:47,000
Speaker 4: they're back, because then all her stuff and her cats

1472
01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 4: will be over here, and if she needs to leave,

1473
01:13:49,360 --> 01:13:51,320
Speaker 4: she can get her own home and move her stuff there.

1474
01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:53,320
Speaker 2: That's actually probably a great I think great.

1475
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:56,160
Speaker 1: Sense, but maybe I've be also that also feels like

1476
01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 1: just a way to kick the can down, you know.

1477
01:13:58,320 --> 01:13:59,479
Speaker 4: I mean, if you know you're not going to be

1478
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:01,160
Speaker 4: in Japan long term and you're gonna have to move

1479
01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:03,280
Speaker 4: back to the States anyway, and then you're gonna be

1480
01:14:03,280 --> 01:14:04,640
Speaker 4: coach it at home, it's like you'll be closer to

1481
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:05,439
Speaker 4: the support system.

1482
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:08,120
Speaker 1: Total tactical. It totally makes sense.

1483
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 2: It's a tactical decision.

1484
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:13,240
Speaker 4: But maybe she picked that up from the army, because

1485
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:14,679
Speaker 4: that's pretty that's a tactical decision.

1486
01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 1: She's learning her own bite, you know.

1487
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:19,280
Speaker 4: Yeah. Plus the rest of our family is here to

1488
01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 4: support her as well. It would be much harder to

1489
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 4: leave him when they're still in Hawaii, which makes sense

1490
01:14:25,280 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 4: to me. But she also still wants to try to

1491
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 4: work stuff out. See, I told you there was something weird.

1492
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 4: They were in Hawaii, Japan, Hawaii, Japan.

1493
01:14:32,960 --> 01:14:35,760
Speaker 2: Someone got confused. It was because maybe they were trying

1494
01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:37,840
Speaker 2: to be like I think they were trying to anonymous.

1495
01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 1: Where they were. Yeah, they decided. I guess that doesn't matter.

1496
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 4: I guess, Hey, they've been in Hawaii, which also you

1497
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 4: hit the jackpot on being stationed. This makes sense to me,

1498
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:49,679
Speaker 4: but she also still wants to try to work stuff out.

1499
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:52,599
Speaker 4: I know this is a long post. I apologize as

1500
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:54,679
Speaker 4: for me and my sister. Well, I wear the same

1501
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,280
Speaker 4: rose tinted glasses for her that she wears for her husband.

1502
01:14:57,640 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 2: I let things go, as she's.

1503
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:03,080
Speaker 4: Done me wrong in life, she has also done a

1504
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:03,639
Speaker 4: lot of right.

1505
01:15:04,240 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 2: I for her too.

1506
01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 4: Soon they will come stay with me for a while

1507
01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 4: in my home in the in the RGV, which I

1508
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:15,320
Speaker 4: don't know what that means. We will see how that goes,

1509
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 4: thank you for everyone for coming along for the ride.

1510
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:20,960
Speaker 4: I wish you all happy holidays, and that is the

1511
01:15:21,200 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 4: end of that story.

1512
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 1: You know what, you know what my prediction is she

1513
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 1: stays with them. I think I don't think she's gonna live.

1514
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 1: I think she's she's like still fifty to fifty right now.

1515
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:34,720
Speaker 4: I think once she gets everything back and she's in

1516
01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 4: Texas and she's closer to her family, which is weird

1517
01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:38,800
Speaker 4: that he was like, you.

1518
01:15:38,800 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 2: Need to be used to not being with your family, and.

1519
01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 4: Now they're moving to Texas, which is I am assuming

1520
01:15:42,960 --> 01:15:43,920
Speaker 4: where her family's from.

1521
01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:46,280
Speaker 1: Uh maybe yeah, necessarily, but.

1522
01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 4: Well because that's where she said that the sister didn't

1523
01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:51,160
Speaker 4: ever really leave town or didn't move away from where

1524
01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:51,640
Speaker 4: they grew up.

1525
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, went to school close to where they grew up.

1526
01:15:53,720 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 4: So I'm assuming that the sister still lives close to home,

1527
01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 4: which would be Texas.

1528
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 2: And then but anyway.

1529
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:02,320
Speaker 1: Where we know that they're in tech, that they were

1530
01:16:02,320 --> 01:16:02,839
Speaker 1: in Texas.

1531
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:05,360
Speaker 2: That's where the sister sister was leaving Hawaii to go

1532
01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:06,040
Speaker 2: back to Texas.

1533
01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 1: That's what they said, okay, and then their guard.

1534
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:10,880
Speaker 4: So I assume the like the whole fact she still

1535
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 4: lives closer to home in the family. So once she

1536
01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:16,200
Speaker 4: gets closer to her family, she'll I think she'll be

1537
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:17,479
Speaker 4: more likely to make.

1538
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:19,400
Speaker 2: That decision of like I need to get this guy

1539
01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 2: out of my life.

1540
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:22,040
Speaker 1: Because it's way it's what much harder to leave someone

1541
01:16:22,280 --> 01:16:25,640
Speaker 1: when you have like it's your your whole life is

1542
01:16:25,640 --> 01:16:26,439
Speaker 1: attached to them, you.

1543
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:28,760
Speaker 2: Know, right, Yeah, it's like I'm I go where he goes.

1544
01:16:28,960 --> 01:16:31,639
Speaker 1: And that's that's the hard about being a military wife

1545
01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 1: is it's like you have to give up your whole

1546
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:38,400
Speaker 1: life to follow this person wherever they go. You know.

1547
01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 1: It's like and you can't, uh, you can't create your

1548
01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:46,519
Speaker 1: own your own like interest because you're just it's it's

1549
01:16:46,560 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 1: like you're subservient to this person.

1550
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:50,080
Speaker 4: If you try to establish like roots wherever you are,

1551
01:16:50,479 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 4: it's like you can pull them up because you're going

1552
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:54,320
Speaker 4: somewhere else in like three or four years.

1553
01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 1: Literally all you have is this person. Yeah, it's it's

1554
01:16:57,560 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 1: it's tough.

1555
01:16:58,120 --> 01:17:00,080
Speaker 4: And you have to deal with the stress of is

1556
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 4: personally gonna get deployed and go to war and then

1557
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:02,920
Speaker 4: maybe never come back.

1558
01:17:03,520 --> 01:17:07,040
Speaker 2: Like that's all. It's all hard, it's all very.

1559
01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:08,719
Speaker 1: Difficult, but might be good in this situation.

1560
01:17:09,600 --> 01:17:16,760
Speaker 2: But that is nice, nice, that's the end

1561
01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:18,479
Speaker 1: Of the story, by the way,