1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: It's time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com. We 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just 5 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now. 6 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 2: You never know, it could be yours. 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 3: It could be your, so buckle up and hold on tight. 8 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 3: We got it fort you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 2: Thank you nephew. 10 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: Subject how do I keep her out of my clothes? 11 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty eight year old married 12 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: man and I'm a personal trainer on the side. I 13 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: met my wife at the gym and we've been together 14 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: for three years total and we got married last December. 15 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: She is the most beautiful woman I've ever known, and 16 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 1: I fell in love with her immediately. 17 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 2: In the beginning. 18 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: We spend all of our time in the gym together 19 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: or at my house. We went on a couple of 20 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: trips to see her parents and mine, and that's when 21 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: I noticed that she's got some trust issues. 22 00:00:58,400 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 2: She opened up and. 23 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: Told me that her ex had a woman in her bed, 24 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: and she found out when she got in the bed 25 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: and there was a big spot on the sheets. She 26 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: said it messed her up for life, and she asked 27 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: me to be patient with her. I've tried to be, 28 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: but it seems like she's never satisfied with my answers. 29 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: I always try to answer her calls by the second ring, 30 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: and I try to respond to all of her texes 31 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: within five minutes. 32 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 2: Nothing I do is enough, and lately she. 33 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: Has been questioning me and checking up behind me when 34 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 1: I get home. She started going through my dirty clothes 35 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: last month, and she thinks I don't know when I 36 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: go to wash clothes. My briefs are turned inside out, 37 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: and so are my gym clothes. I assumed she was 38 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: checking for stains and smells, and I confronted her about it. 39 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: She tried to turn it around on me by saying 40 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be questioning her if I wouldn't be questioning 41 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: her if I didn't have something to hide. She started 42 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: taking my suits to the dry cleaners for me, and 43 00:01:58,000 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: I hope she's not pulling over on the side of 44 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: the rod to smell my clothes. She rode to church 45 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: with me Sunday and said my car had a strange smell. 46 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: I wish she would let me know what she's thinking 47 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: instead of sniffing around. How do I get her to 48 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: believe that I'm not going to hurt her? That is 49 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: that possible? Well, it's not impossible, but it's a lot 50 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: of pressure to put on a person. And like your wife, 51 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,519 Speaker 1: everyone has baggage because they've had a life before you, 52 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: before their partner. It's just that some are able to 53 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: leave the past in the past and some are not. 54 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: Your wife has not been able to do that, and 55 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: she's really getting a little crazy with this stuff. Her 56 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: slimy ex husband had someone in their bed, didn't have 57 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,799 Speaker 1: sense enough to wash and change the sheets and all 58 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: of that, and I'm sure that had to be devastating 59 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: for her. And after that, how can you possibly live 60 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: up to her expectations? 61 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 2: And that's the problem, isn't it. 62 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: The relationship is at a place where everything you do 63 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: is suspicious to her everything. Pretty soon you won't be 64 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: able to go anywhere or do anything without her being 65 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 1: suspicious of you. And that's pretty much what it is 66 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: right now. Her insecurities, her paranoia is going to ruin 67 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: this marriage. They're going to ruin this marriage if she 68 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,959 Speaker 1: doesn't get help. She has to learn how to get 69 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: past what happened to her in the past and move on. 70 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: I recommend therapy for your wife immediately. 71 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 2: She's got to get some therapy. She needs some help, Steve. 72 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 4: This is sad because this woman right here is doing 73 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 4: the most. I guess I could talk to this lady, 74 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 4: but I think I should do this and talk to 75 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 4: all women, ladies. 76 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 3: All men don't do wrong. All men are not in 77 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: this world to do you wrong. 78 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 4: True that there are some people here who are put 79 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 4: in your life to treat you right. There is one 80 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 4: person made specifically for you. That is God has created 81 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 4: to be your soulmate. You can find him if you 82 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 4: get out of the way. Now, how do you stay 83 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 4: in the way by making all these choices on your own? 84 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 4: You don't never confide in God. You don't ask God 85 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 4: to point him out show you. You just pick what 86 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 4: you won't, pick what you're like, and here you go. 87 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 4: I can't tell you how many women have let good 88 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 4: men go because they had a bad experience with a 89 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 4: bad one. I can't tell you how many women have 90 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 4: ran a man away because they won't accept this man's 91 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 4: goodness and graces. Because no matter what he do she 92 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 4: comparing him to somebody else. This woman in the letter 93 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 4: is no different this man that wrote this letter. So 94 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 4: it's getting to him. He's married, Uh, and he's a 95 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 4: person on the side. I don't know if that means 96 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,239 Speaker 4: he has another job and he personal trains or I don't. 97 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 3: Know what that means. But he a personal tray. 98 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 4: I met my wife at the gym, and we've been 99 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 4: together for three years total. We got married last de simmer. Now, 100 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 4: let me tell you something. If you're a personal trainer 101 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 4: and you meet a woman. 102 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 5: At the gym, this chick fine, yeah, yeah, she find 103 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 5: know this right here he at the gym. He and 104 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 5: the body shaping bis. He'dne met this girl at the gym, 105 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 5: had married her. 106 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 3: This girl find. 107 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 4: It next line. She is the most beautiful woman I've 108 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:51,919 Speaker 4: ever known. And I fell in love with her immediately 109 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 4: at the Jim. He didn't fall in love in the 110 00:05:56,200 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 4: parking lot. No, he came to work one day. She 111 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 4: was in there with them pats on them biker shorts. 112 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 4: That that that that that halted top. She was doing 113 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 4: dead lifts. Squatch sitting on that machine the women sit 114 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 4: on and they keep opening and closing. They leg that 115 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 4: machine that were right there. I don't know who you 116 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 4: are when you get on that one right there. Me 117 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 4: and me and me at hall for me and to 118 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 4: walk past that machine. 119 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 2: I'm just going to tell you, hang on, hang on. 120 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 3: Does it looked like you're waving at us? That's what 121 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 3: it looked like. 122 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 2: Anyway. 123 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty three minutes after uh, we'll recap 124 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: this letter. We'll hear Steve's response, and the subject of 125 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: today's letter is how do I keep her out of 126 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: my clothes? We'll get back into it right after this. 127 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 2: You're listening Morning show. 128 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 129 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,159 Speaker 1: The subject is how do I keep her out of 130 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: my clothes? 131 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 4: This man is dating this woman. He's married to her. 132 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 4: To be known each other three years. They got married. 133 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 4: Met at the gym, most beautiful woman he's ever met. 134 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 4: Noticed her immediately. She had all the tight gym office. 135 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 4: She was cut, she was fine. He wanted help right away. 136 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 4: They spent most of their time together, all the time 137 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 4: either at the gym or at his house. They went 138 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 4: on a couple of trips see her parents and mining. 139 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 3: That's when he noticed that she got some trust issues. 140 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 4: Then the woman finally opened up about him and told 141 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 4: her that she had an X that had a woman 142 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 4: in her bed, and she found out when she got 143 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 4: into bed and there was a big spot on the sheets. 144 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 3: God, not that spot though, don't nobody. 145 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 2: You don't know what I was waiting for your You. 146 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 4: Don't even like that spot when it's yours? Okay, spot 147 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 4: and that's yours. Get the spot. 148 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 3: God. 149 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 4: See Now what her ex did? Was he ignorant? Because 150 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 4: what I'd have done is burned the entire comforter, set 151 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 4: bed sheets, pillows, possibly that damn mattress too. 152 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 3: I have gone that far. 153 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'd have took a mattress off of bed 154 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 4: and set it outside up against the tree, like I 155 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 4: was gonna throw it away. Yeah, yeah, you can't have evidence. 156 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. Anyway, she sat messed up for life. 157 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 4: And she asked me to be patient with him, and 158 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 4: he said he tried to be, but now she ain't. 159 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 3: Never satisfied with none of his answers. 160 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 4: Try to answer the call on the second ring, try 161 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 4: to spun with all her text within five minutes, but 162 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 4: ain't nothing this man doing is enough. And she been 163 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 4: questioning me and checking up behind me. When I get home. 164 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 4: Then she started going through my dirty clothes last month. 165 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 4: She think, I don't notice when I go to wash 166 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,439 Speaker 4: my clothes, my briefs are turned inside out and. 167 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 3: Sew on my gym clothes. 168 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 4: I assumed she was checking for stains and smelled, so 169 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 4: I confronted her about it. She tried to turn on 170 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 4: me by saying I wouldn't be questioning her if I 171 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:19,199 Speaker 4: didn't have something to hide. 172 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 3: Lady, you over this man. 173 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 4: House, turning his drawers inside out. He's still washing his 174 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 4: own clothes. He come up you and say, somebody you said, 175 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 4: if you ain't had nothing to hide, you wouldn't be 176 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 4: questioning her. Lady you tripping. She tripping, and she gonna 177 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 4: mess this up. And she just started taking my suits 178 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 4: to the dry cleaners. I hope she's not pulling ok 179 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 4: on side of the road smell my clothes. She rode to 180 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 4: church with me Sunday and said my car had a 181 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 4: strange smell in it. Well, if you get in my car, 182 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 4: it ain't no telling what you're gonna swill tell I fish. 183 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 2: This is not about you. 184 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 3: I go fishing. 185 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,680 Speaker 4: I smoked cigars. It gonna be a strange smell and knockery, 186 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 4: So buckle up, get ready to hold on tight because strange, 187 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 4: strange smells just pulled up. I wish you would let 188 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 4: me know what she's thinking instead of sniffing around. How 189 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 4: do I get her believe that I'm not going to 190 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 4: hurt her? Is that possible? Well, all you can do 191 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 4: is with actions, man, but you need to have a 192 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 4: conversation with her. Say he listen to me. Stop stop 193 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 4: backtracking on me, because it don't feel good. It don't 194 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 4: feel good at all if a man don't like it 195 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 4: when he doing his very best, and that best ain't 196 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 4: good enough for you. So instead of you check it 197 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 4: on me, I wish you'd be appreciative of the way 198 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 4: I treat you. You don't say nothing when I answer 199 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 4: your calls on that second ring. You don't give me 200 00:10:55,920 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 4: no credit when I answer your text within five minutes. Yeah, 201 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 4: I don't get no nothing for just honoring you and 202 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 4: getting right back to you and showing you that I'm 203 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 4: concerned and I'm paying attention. But ah, no, all you 204 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 4: doing is flipping my drawers inside out, is flipping my 205 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 4: gym clothes, smelling my car, taking my suits to the cleaner. 206 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 3: You ain't got no appreciation for me, and I'm getting 207 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 3: tired of it. 208 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 4: So instead of you telling me how well I treat you, 209 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,079 Speaker 4: you sitting up here here finding a way to make 210 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 4: it look like how I don't treat you, and you're 211 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 4: messing up and I don't like it, and it's just 212 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 4: not a good feeling. 213 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 3: And I'm just gonna tell you that. 214 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 4: So now you can keep on doubt me if you 215 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 4: want to, and you can keep on running up behind 216 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 4: me and checking on me, but I'm gonna get tired 217 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 4: of that one day. I'm gonna get tired of that 218 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 4: because I want a woman that appreciates me and with 219 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 4: the show appreciation for all the good things I've done 220 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 4: for you. Now that's it right there. I ain't cheating 221 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 4: on you. He cheated on you. You got into bed 222 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 4: with him. You picked his ass, right, But see the 223 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 4: difference is I picked Q. You picked him. I picked you. 224 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 4: I wanted you, he was your boyfriend. I asked you 225 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 4: to marry me. I'd already made a commitment. His ass 226 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 4: never was willing to make you. So now why I 227 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:19,200 Speaker 4: got to be cheap? Keep on here, I'm going to 228 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 4: the jail, and this is what I'm wearing you can 229 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 4: smell it when I come back. 230 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: I'm cue, I'll pass. 231 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 4: I'll come in doing just strip ass, naked hand all 232 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 4: my clothes. Here you go, gonna start smelling. Yeah, I 233 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 4: am doing dead lift, said squash the day too. 234 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: Take a deep breath, ew leave your comments on Today's 235 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 1: Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM, and check us 236 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 1: out on the Strawberry Letter podcast. It is on the 237 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 1: free iHeartRadio app where free never sounded so good. Coming 238 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, 239 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: you're listening Hardy Morning Show. 240 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 3: Mmhm