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Speaker 1: All right, stee, this is from OC on Steve barbfm

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Speaker 1: OC says, over the last few weeks, I've Takenshaw.

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Speaker 2: That's his name, OC is short for that.

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Speaker 1: He said, Over the last few weeks, I've taken a

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Speaker 1: step back and realized that my kids are doing extremely

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Speaker 1: well for themselves and they don't need me. So I

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Speaker 1: rewrote my will and decided that I would rather spend

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Speaker 1: my money to make my remaining years amazing rather than

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Speaker 1: put it away for them, especially since they don't need it.

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Speaker 1: My kids have seen the plans I've been making, and

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Speaker 1: they know that things.

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Speaker 2: Like trips and cruises aren't cheap.

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Speaker 1: They voice their concerns, but it's becoming clear that their

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Speaker 1: fears don't have anything to do with my well being.

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Speaker 1: They're worried about what will be left for them. I

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Speaker 1: feel like it's my money and I can do with

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Speaker 1: it what I want. I don't feel wrong. But why

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Speaker 1: are they tripping?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, hey, don't live your life. Me and margin

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Speaker 3: made just said we're spending eighty five percent of all

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Speaker 3: the time. I ain't leaving nothing behind nothing. Everybody at

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Speaker 3: my funeral gonna be cryed. Kids Visa American Express, Thank

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Speaker 3: the muggage company.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry for your.

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Speaker 3: Loss, employees, everybody, Yes, I'm man, I'm with you because

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Speaker 3: you know what, Look, man, our obligation to our children

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Speaker 3: is to do the best we can when we are here,

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Speaker 3: to be there for him, to offerm love and guidance.

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Speaker 4: Your job ain't to leave them nothing.

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Speaker 3: But now, let's say that you do really, really well,

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Speaker 3: and you can leave something for your grandkids or something

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Speaker 3: to give them a leg up in life, which other

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Speaker 3: people do for their children.

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Speaker 4: It's okay to do that.

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Speaker 3: So in your laptoy, you know, like when they become

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Speaker 3: a certain age, they get you know, ten thousand or

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Speaker 3: twenty whatever, you leave something like that, you know, trust fund.

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Speaker 3: It's okay to make sure that the legacy continues, that

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Speaker 3: they get a leg up. Other people do it. It's

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Speaker 3: a really cool thing to leave something to give them

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Speaker 3: a leg up in life. But you ain't got to

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Speaker 3: give them the life you have.

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Speaker 2: His kids are, yeah, doing very well for themselves.

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Speaker 3: Hey man, I'm proud to say that all mine is

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Speaker 3: doing well for themselves too.

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Speaker 4: And continue, please continue.

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Speaker 2: That's a great thing. Yeah, okay, he continued.

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Speaker 3: You right, Tommy's going balling.

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Speaker 2: Why are his kids tripped, and though.

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Speaker 4: Well they can trip, what they gonna do?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And the words of Slick Harvey you can get

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Speaker 3: over it or die.

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Speaker 4: Made you want to do it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Alright, you just stay mad till you leave here if

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Speaker 3: you want to get over it or die.

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Speaker 4: May Okay.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Ricky and Steve, Harvey says I accidentally

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Speaker 1: ruined my sister's gender reveal. First off, no one told

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Speaker 1: anyone it was a gender reveal, so it was apparently

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Speaker 1: supposed to be a surprise. Secondly, when I went to

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Speaker 1: the bathroom, I caught a glimpse of a bedroom with

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Speaker 1: a door open, and it was filled with baby stuff,

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Speaker 1: predominantly blue baby stuff. So when I left the bathroom

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Speaker 1: and said, so is it a boy? The room got silent,

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Speaker 1: and my sister was almost in tears, accusing me of

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Speaker 1: making it all about me and never wanting to have,

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Speaker 1: never wanting her to have any happiness. I get that

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Speaker 1: gender reveals are the big thing now, and perhaps I

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Speaker 1: couldn't have I couldn't have been so quick to blurt

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Speaker 1: that out.

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Speaker 2: But I am failing to see how this is all

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Speaker 2: my fault.

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Speaker 3: Well, dog, you failing to see it, don't make it

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Speaker 3: not your fault.

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Speaker 4: Dog, you're not kidding.

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Speaker 3: About you failed to see no man, people kill me

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Speaker 3: becoming the victim of circumstance that they create themselves.

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Speaker 4: Thank you Bischard Bonne for that, because it's taught me

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Speaker 4: so much. Bro.

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Speaker 3: All you have to do is come out of there

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Speaker 3: and keep your mouth shut. That's all you had to do.

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Speaker 3: But because you blurted it out, you ruined.

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Speaker 4: A surprise surprise When the last.

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Speaker 3: Time you've been to a general revealed party and you

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Speaker 3: ain't know it's a gender revealed what did they tell

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Speaker 3: you the parties?

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