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Standard message and data rates may apply. 11 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 2: All thanks to Live Nation. Bread Show is on now. 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 2: Hold on a minute. I'm looking back on this text 13 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 2: exchange here, and I know that I can't take everything 14 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 2: that's texted in here at face value, but I'm I'm 15 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: gonna just trust this person and believe that this is true. 16 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 2: But there was a text back in January. Someone texted 17 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 2: said romance novels are the best. I'm a man and 18 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 2: I read them NonStop. Win locked up. So then someone 19 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 2: was o'kalin You responded like locked up, locked up? 20 00:00:57,800 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: That was in January, And. 21 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 2: Then the person said yes, sadly said where he was 22 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 2: locked up, They were the best books. Ever, and then 23 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 2: this text right now in two thousand, when I was 24 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 2: in prison, same guy in twenty four hour segregation, twenty 25 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 2: four hour lockdown. The guards let us lower our chuck holes, 26 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 2: which is the door to get food, set up mirrors 27 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: so that we were able to watch the Super Bowl 28 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: in the cell next door by the reflection from another 29 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 2: person's mirror to mine. I'm believing this. I don't know 30 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: if I'm trusting you, prison man. 31 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: I trust you. 32 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 3: He wass to be like a part of the show, 33 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 3: like I want to know more Lockdown, twenty four hour Lockdown. 34 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 2: I watched that show. Jason and I used to watch 35 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 2: the show at MSNBC in the middle of the night. Yeah, 36 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 2: that's bad and had to be a bad boy. 37 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: He did. 38 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: He did. 39 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 3: Hey, you always need someone in your crew. That's a 40 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 3: little bit harder than the rest. You need cops, you 41 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 3: need people who have been to prison. Like there's a 42 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 3: lot of people you need in the car and we 43 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 3: need to talk to him. 44 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, but he made it happen. He made it. 45 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 2: If he wanted to, he would the biggest stories of 46 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 2: the day if he wanted to, he would. 47 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: Period. I hate that. 48 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 2: I hate that one. If he wanted to, he would. No, Okay, 49 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 2: I mean I don't. I don't know what people are 50 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 2: expecting when they say that, Like, if he wanted to, 51 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: he would what bang your door down? Like literally just 52 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: chase you hard, because guess what, the vast majority of 53 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 2: women wouldn't like that either. 54 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: They wouldn't like that either. 55 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: The thing is, if he wanted to, he would applies 56 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: to the one guy who you want to would yes. 57 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 2: The problem is, as men, we don't know if for 58 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 2: the guy who you want to would so and so. 59 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: What you're saying is you penalize. 60 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 2: And I don't mean like women in general, but I 61 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 2: would say men can be penalized for trying too hard 62 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 2: if not the right guy. So I think many of 63 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: us are conditioned to just sort of don't not go 64 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 2: all in. 65 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 3: I think it's just like the guy you like, like, 66 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 3: if he wanted to see you, he would, If he 67 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 3: wanted to answer you, he would, If he wanted to 68 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 3: text you he like. I think it's more of like 69 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 3: a broad not like any random guy. If he wanted to, 70 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 3: he would. 71 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: That's not what I'm saying though. 72 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 2: What I'm saying is we as men don't know if 73 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 2: we're the guy who you want to would. 74 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 3: Well, I'm saying when you're already dating, though, that's that's 75 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 3: usually when I hear the phrase. 76 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: I don't think it's like four oh. 77 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 2: I hear it about like before that phase, because if 78 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 2: he already diets, if you're dating, then he did well. 79 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 2: But like if you're it's usually like early in the 80 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 2: early phases, like before you're dating, like before you lock 81 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 2: it down. Is that I haven't heard from this guy 82 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 2: and if he wanted to, he would. Yes, some guys 83 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: are lazy, Yes, some guys are juggling. Yes, some guys 84 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 2: are scumbags. But I do think in general men are 85 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: looking for a little bit of a dance. And I 86 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 2: was reading all about this yesterday. Somebody was on TikTok 87 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 2: was talking about this. It was all men need to 88 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 2: be coddled now, men need to be babied. 89 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: No, it's not that. I just think, like y'all, y'all 90 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: want to be women real bad these days. 91 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 4: You want to be the boys. Who's going to be 92 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 4: the boys? 93 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, but you know, I'm not offended. I 94 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: just don't know what you mean. 95 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 3: I feel like, uh, men want to be treated like 96 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 3: they want to be courted like women. 97 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: Used to want to be courted. 98 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 3: Interesting, I feel like they require a little bit more 99 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:34,159 Speaker 3: they want. It's not so much like I'm the hunter, 100 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 3: I'm gonna like I'm going to try. 101 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 1: To get you. 102 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 3: It's more so like you need to be having us 103 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 3: try to get you too. 104 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 1: I mean it's chased me. Yeah, I don't want to 105 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: be chased. 106 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 2: I do want someone who meets me in the middle, 107 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 2: at least in the beginning. And I think I think 108 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 2: the reason that a lot. And again there are exceptions, 109 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 2: the ones I named lazy people and whatever, But I 110 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 2: also think that, like if you go online, you see 111 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: guys getting shamed left and right for Oh, he walked 112 00:04:58,360 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 2: up to me and talked to me. 113 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 3: It's like, but you can't let that change how you move, 114 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 3: you know, move in the way that you feel is 115 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 3: right for you. 116 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: You can't let like all the noise. 117 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 2: But tell that to like all of society, because I 118 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 2: do think that there is a that there was a 119 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 2: shift in when I was growing up, the way that 120 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: you pursued someone. And then I think, you know, whether 121 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 2: men abused it or whether you know society, I don't 122 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: know the reason why, but lately it became don't talk 123 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 2: to me, don't look at me. I mean, I saw 124 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 2: one the other day. It was a guy opened the 125 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 2: door for me and smiled. That was creepy, But no, 126 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 2: that was what I was taught. Well, okay, you think that, 127 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: But like, I don't think. 128 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: That's necessary strangers think. 129 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:39,559 Speaker 2: Because I don't think that's just one or two people 130 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 2: thinking that. I think there is a movement towards that. 131 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 2: I think there's a whole generation of people that wants 132 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 2: to be pursued in a different way. I think there's 133 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 2: a whole generation of people that doesn't really even want 134 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 2: to be spoken to. And so I think that some 135 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: men in general are conditioned to say, I don't want 136 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 2: to wind up on some website, I don't want to 137 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 2: wind up on TikTok, I don't want to wind up 138 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 2: on this or that. I don't want to be rejected 139 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: rudely whatever, And this is not the plight of the man, 140 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: Like I'm just thinking in this particular case, I do 141 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 2: think that it has something to do with shifts in 142 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 2: how people say they want to be pursued and how 143 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,039 Speaker 2: they're actually pursued. And yes, there are examples of guys 144 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 2: who abuse this yeah, and are creepy and rude and 145 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 2: weird and whatever, but there is that there's got to 146 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 2: be a reason why, generally speaking, men have taken a 147 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 2: bit of a step back. 148 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 3: I just feel like, if you move correctly, you're not 149 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 3: gonna get put on a website. Like, I don't know, 150 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 3: I just feel like, why why don't you just like 151 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:32,559 Speaker 3: wait for signals from women? 152 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: Do it that way? Like, I don't think if you're 153 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: being a good dude, you're not gonna put on a website, 154 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: So why would you be scared of that? I'm not 155 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 1: sure if that's true. I really don't know. 156 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: I don't know that every good dude out there has 157 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 2: had a good response to pursuing a woman. 158 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: I think for sure. 159 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 2: I think if it's the right woman and the right guy, 160 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 2: then the guy who goes all in and really really 161 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 2: pushes and really pursues and really romanticizes in the whole thing, 162 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 2: that it works. But I think that's hard to know 163 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: if as a man, if I'm supposed to be doing 164 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 2: that with you, if the feeling is reciprocated. So I think, 165 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: if anything, maybe people want to know a little more 166 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: before they really make themselves vulnerable. Think it's about vulnerability. Honestly, 167 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 2: I think people don't want to be vulnerable because for 168 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 2: whatever reason, high sensitivity, rejection. It's not all about the Internet. Yeah, 169 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 2: you're being talked about. But I do think that I 170 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 2: think that the way that my mom taught me to 171 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: pursue women and be romantic and be thoughtfully kind and respectful, 172 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 2: and the way that there's a generation now, the way 173 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 2: that they expect to be pursued, they would think that 174 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 2: that way is old timing or antiquated or weird. 175 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: Yes, for sure, Yeah, I and that's what I'm getting at. 176 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I get that. 177 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 3: I do think like rejection sits with y'all a little 178 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 3: bit harder too. And I can't speak from that place 179 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 3: because I'm not like hitting on people but sorry peak. 180 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, well I'm always hitting on people, but I'm just kidding. 181 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 5: But no, I feel like we're talking about like a 182 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 5: generation and I hate to say it, but like almost 183 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 5: like a gen zs. They are the ones I feel like, 184 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, my love, but like they're the ones that like, 185 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 5: unfortunately I've implemented these or like feelings, like unless you're 186 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 5: just fully creepy, then like that's a different story. But 187 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 5: you know, just saying hi or waving to somebody or 188 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 5: opening the door isn't by any means somebody doing too 189 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 5: much or being creepy like jen Z came order a 190 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 5: pizza so on the phone. I can't trust them when 191 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 5: it comes certain dating advice. You get what I'm saying, Like, yeah, 192 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 5: baes and all that, I understand. 193 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: That's why I don't. 194 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 2: I don't blame a generation for weakness or strength, and 195 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 2: that's that's not what I'm getting. I think it's just 196 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 2: a different way of communicating. It's a different expectation, you know. 197 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 2: And if someone texted and only have themselves to blame 198 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 2: for women being defensive, hold your homies accountable for bad behaviors. 199 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: Kind of agree, Oh girl, you await. 200 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 3: I think that we're this way because we've been through 201 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 3: so much, generation after generation after generation, so we've all 202 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 3: had a creep. 203 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 1: We've all had this. 204 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 3: But I do think if if someone can at you 205 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 3: for opening the door, it's them probably. 206 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 2: Understands to you the same way that you responded to me. 207 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 2: Then while at one person affect the way that you 208 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 2: view all men because you just a creep, we've had it. 209 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I'm just that's what you just said. 210 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 3: So, but I'm saying, like back in the day, like 211 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 3: we've all been through it from multiple men, like it 212 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 3: was a whole way of life, and now we're finally 213 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:08,680 Speaker 3: like speaking up, and I think it scares y'all sometimes. 214 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, I guess I'm not scared of you 215 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 2: calling up people who were actually creepy or predatory or 216 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 2: but the number was inappropriate. But I have to say, 217 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 2: I think most men aren't. I think the vast majority 218 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 2: of men are. I do not believe the vast majority 219 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 2: of men are creepy and predatory. 220 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:28,680 Speaker 3: The vast majority I'm not saying currently. I'm saying for 221 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 3: a while it was. It's a more common story than 222 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 3: you think. And I think we just got tired as 223 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 3: a group and started talking to each other and change 224 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 3: the way that we were talking to you guys. I'm 225 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 3: not saying all of men are creeps, but there was 226 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 3: enough data to go, hey, like this happened to you, 227 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 3: This happened. 228 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: To you, this happened to you, and that could be. 229 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: That could be. But I guess all of this combined 230 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 1: means if. 231 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 4: You want it so, you would you don't want to 232 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 4: so you don't. 233 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 1: I just don't know. I want to see me, You'll 234 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: see me. If you want to call me, you'll call me. 235 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 6: Were internal if it were me, and I really really 236 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 6: wanted this guy to call me or talk to me, 237 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 6: and he wasn't, And I'm like getting frustrated, Like it's 238 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 6: almost like something need to tell yourself, like, Okay, if 239 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 6: he wanted to talk to me, he would like. It's 240 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 6: more to be like, Okay, he's not, So I need 241 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 6: to move on him doing anything wrong. You're doing what 242 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 6: you want to do. You don't want to talk to me, 243 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 6: So I need to tell myself he doesn't want to 244 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 6: so I need to exit stage. 245 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 2: Love. The biggest issue I have with a lot of 246 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: these theories these days is there not and and I've 247 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 2: said this before, and Mel Robbins says this in the 248 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 2: Let Them book, which I think people read like two 249 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 2: chapters and then didn't read the whole thing. I really 250 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 2: don't think people read the whole book. I think they 251 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 2: stopped after the let Them part and then they but 252 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 2: there's a part where she talks about self awareness and accountability, 253 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 2: and I think that there with a lot of these theories, 254 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 2: it's it's all projection. It's it's if he wanted to, 255 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 2: he would, you know, I'm gonna I'm gonna do this 256 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 2: and they can do that. 257 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 1: But what are you doing? Is my question? Like? 258 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 2: Are you being vulnerable? Are you being fair? Are you 259 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 2: being communic? Are you being kind? And I don't just 260 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 2: mean women, I mean I mean people in communication, that's true. 261 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 2: So that's that's what I mean is a lot of 262 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 2: these things is let them Well, why let's take one second. 263 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 2: Why are they excluding you? You know, do you feel 264 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 2: like the guy that you like is not pursuing you? 265 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 2: Why is are you? 266 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: You know? 267 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 2: I think we have to both look at each other 268 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 2: and say like are we And again, I don't know 269 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 2: that this is me wanting to be pursued by a 270 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 2: woman because I don't want that actually, but I guess 271 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 2: when I am pursuing, I want to feel like that 272 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 2: pursuit is wanted. And I think the more the more 273 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 2: affirmation I get, the more that I'm going to return, 274 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 2: the more attitude I get, or the more sort of 275 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 2: game playing that I get, the less likely I am 276 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 2: to invest. 277 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: Totally fair, that's it. 278 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, And we can talk about a thousand different reasons 279 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 2: why that might be and they're all theories. 280 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,559 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's definitely nuanced. 281 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 3: Like people can't just take that and apply it to everything, 282 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 3: like she said, like, we can't just use it for 283 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 3: anything we want to. 284 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think it's hard. I think it's hard. 285 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 2: I think I think it's hard. These days, it's also 286 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 2: a numbers game. I feel like it's not like the 287 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 2: olden days where the only way I was going to 288 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: meet someone is if I walked up to her, and 289 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 2: then the only way she was going to meet somebody 290 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 2: is if they walked up to her. And then the 291 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 2: communication was personal in private, and the rejection was personal 292 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 2: in private, and that was kind of the end of it. 293 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 2: It was, Hey, yes I'm interested, No I'm not, and 294 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 2: then we respectfully hopefully walked away. Now there's just layers 295 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 2: on layers on layers of layers. 296 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 4: You know. 297 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 2: If I like someone on a dating app, let's say like, well, 298 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 2: I really want to I really want to hone in 299 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 2: on this, and then I really do hone in and 300 00:12:37,920 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 2: that person's talking to five other people and I'm not 301 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 2: their most I'm not the favorite of the five. Well 302 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 2: then I feel rejected because I wasn't at the top 303 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 2: of the numbers game statistically, and then I stopped trying 304 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 2: as hard because the last three times I really liked 305 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 2: to grow on the dating app. And I am talking 306 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 2: about myself here in some ways, but the last several 307 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 2: times I pursued someone and really tried, they were more 308 00:12:58,520 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 2: interested in someone else. 309 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: That's fair, but like. 310 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 2: I don't know, yeah, when I'm the guy to do it, 311 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? 312 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, as women, if a man is being respectful and 313 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 3: kind and either hitting on you in an above board way, 314 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 3: we need to be kind about it, whether it be 315 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 3: letting someone down or you know you're open for it. 316 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 3: Like I definitely think we can't be like Ill dountaxed me, 317 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 3: but like you know, that's not true. 318 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 2: I just think some of these things they're just they're 319 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 2: you know, do you say this stuff? And it's like, 320 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 2: to Jason's point, you say these things that make yourself 321 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 2: feel better, but it's like we really like you can't 322 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 2: just make a blanket statement and then not maybe be 323 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 2: a little bit accountable yourself and say, well, how maybe 324 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 2: is there any part of this I can change or 325 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 2: any part of this? And that doesn't mean I want 326 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 2: people to chase me down. But if I if I 327 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 2: like someone, then maybe I can let them know that 328 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 2: a little better, or let them know that they're a 329 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 2: priority to me, or be a little more patient, or 330 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 2: try a little harder. Because again, it's just like I 331 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 2: don't I don't know. Everybody meets on dating apps, and 332 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 2: everyone's got ten matches that they're working at the same time, 333 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 2: because half of them are going to drop off, half 334 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,319 Speaker 2: of them are going to ghost. Half someone's going to 335 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,319 Speaker 2: meet someone, someone's someone's fake. 336 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. 337 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 2: I do think that the amount of information coming at us, 338 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 2: you know, interpersonally, is a problem. 339 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 4: Be it dating, be it politics. It's just too much natural. 340 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 4: We need to get back to passing notes. Do you 341 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 4: like meat circle? 342 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: Yes and no, it's next time. So you don't want 343 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 1: a woman to send you money to get your nails done, then. 344 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: Hold on, I need to get pedicure, so for the manicure. Okay, 345 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 2: let me tell these stories quickly. On the secondary market, 346 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 2: super Bowl ticket prices are exploding five thousand dollars five thousand. 347 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 1: Bucks in the secondary market. 348 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 2: That's I think the lowest price resale sites somewhere between 349 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 2: five and six grand. If you want to go to 350 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 2: the Super Bowl and up to twenty thousand dollars for 351 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 2: premium views and VIP packages. 352 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 3: Oh wow, Colleina, didn't you think you were going to 353 00:14:58,160 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 3: the Super Bowl or like, weren't you going to try 354 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 3: to pull I was going to apply for a job 355 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 3: at the Super Bowl. 356 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, I wanted to be one of bad Buddies' danswers. 357 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 5: But I had to be five to seven. I am 358 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 5: five to one on a bad day, five to two on. 359 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 1: A good day. So I am nowhere near five to seven. No, 360 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: I'm not going. Why does he hate short people? 361 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 2: Well? 362 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: I think actually I don't know. Good question. It's a 363 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: real shame. 364 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a bona pick with him. Y, there's 365 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 2: a football super fan making news. He attended games at 366 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 2: thirty NFL stadiums in seventy two days. His name is 367 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 2: Brian Follery earned a Guinness World record after attending fifty 368 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 2: six NFL games in a single season, the most ever, 369 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 2: smashing the previous record by more than twenty games. So 370 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 2: he criss crossed the country for months. Does he have 371 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 2: a job? Thursday, Sundays and Mondays? While proudly repping his 372 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 2: favorite team, the Raiders. So he was able to do 373 00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 2: that Wilbur the Bearcat in Nashville at the Nashville Zoo 374 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 2: has made his Super Bowl pick, and it's the Seahawks. 375 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 2: Which is the one that you picked? Yes, and he's 376 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 2: been right the last two years, by the way. Oh, 377 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 2: here are the prop bets that you can make on 378 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,040 Speaker 2: the Super Bowl if you'd like to. Will see I 379 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 2: will attempt to pass from New England's one yard line? 380 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 1: Ninety percent certain? This will not happen. 381 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 2: The last time the Seahawks played the Patriots, Seattle tried 382 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 2: this instead of running the ball and it cost them 383 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 2: the game. Will a Patriots linebacker catch a pass? Let 384 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: me see here? Will Stefan digs proposed to Cardi b 385 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 2: after the game? Nine percent likely? Which celebrity Patriots fan 386 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 2: will be shown on camera first? This is all stuff 387 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 2: that you can bet on. Mark Wahlberg, Ben Affleck, Matt Damon, 388 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 2: John Cena or John Krasinski. Who's gonna be on TV first? 389 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: Which Bay Area landmark will be shown first? The Golden 390 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 2: Gate Bridge or Alcatraz? The safe bet is Alcatraz? 391 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: Oh really? 392 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 2: What color liquid will be poured on the winning coach? 393 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 2: Orange and blue or tied? At thirty? The official viewership 394 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 2: of the game will be over or under one hundred 395 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 2: and eighteen point five million. Smart money is on over 396 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: definitely because he averages like one hundred and twenty seven 397 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 2: million in any given moment during the game and the 398 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 2: peak is like records one hundred and thirty six million. 399 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that over on that? Who will the MVP 400 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:09,240 Speaker 2: mentioned first in his speech? 401 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:15,480 Speaker 1: God? Teammates or fans? Which comes first? God? I guess so. 402 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 2: A new national survey ranks Trader Joe's as the number 403 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 2: one supermarket in the US, edging out heavyweights publics in Costco. 404 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 1: Maybe I need to go and maybe this needs to 405 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 1: be documented. Yes, yes it is. Maybe I need to go. 406 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 1: May this happened for them? I actually work for them, Kiki, 407 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:32,639 Speaker 1: if you want to. 408 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 2: Disney is opening the gates to one of its most iconic, 409 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 2: haunted attractions for weddings. The Haunted Mansion at Disneyland will 410 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 2: soon be available as a ceremony venue, having couples the 411 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 2: chance to tie the knot inside the famously spooky ride. 412 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: Let's go, Kiki better, Poulleena, come on, let's go. I 413 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: am so dumb? Can I wed my wedding? You can't? 414 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 1: Why I will be pregnant this time. 415 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 2: And if you've been to Aikia, you might have tried 416 00:17:58,320 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 2: their Swedish meatballs. But now they have an extra long winer. 417 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 2: Oh it's two feet long and pretty thick. Apparently, I 418 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 2: don't know who wrote this. It's called that half meter 419 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 2: hot dog twenty inches long. 420 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 1: Five bucks. 421 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 2: It comes with the bun that's only half the size though, 422 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 2: so the hot dog sticks out of both sides. You 423 00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 2: can add a bunch of stuff to it. It's not 424 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 2: available in the US. I guess this is in what 425 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: I say, Abu dabi, you're not an Arab of Emirates. 426 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: Well I'm not going there, and you got an Arab. 427 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. It's too much hot dog. 428 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 1: No it's not twenty inches. Hey, I need more protein 429 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: than carbs right now. Okay, me and my GLP one 430 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: we are locked in. 431 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 5: However, it was just at Ikea, and their food pricing 432 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 5: is amazing. I didn't know they had a whole cafe 433 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 5: though upstairs. Oh it's lit. You can eat there like 434 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 5: like you can school with like a lunch tray. Yeah, yeah, 435 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:47,679 Speaker 5: that's so cool. No one told me this. 436 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: Yeah until I got there, I can get a hot dog. 437 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 2: I need the proportion though, Like I don't want to 438 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 2: eat just hot dog. I want hot dog and bun. 439 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:59,159 Speaker 2: Like just hot dog is gross to me. Like I 440 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 2: need the proportion, like the Chicago hot dog. Like at 441 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 2: the end of the hot dog, it needs to have 442 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 2: the same bite that I had to start. I need 443 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 2: the whole thing, like because if this thing is just 444 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 2: hot dog sticking out of both ends of the bun, 445 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 2: then you're eating like just raw hot not raw, but 446 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 2: you're you're eating just hot dog. And then you get 447 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 2: to the bun part and then your back, buddy, you're 448 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 2: just holding onto like a you're just gripping onto six 449 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:23,879 Speaker 2: inches of hot dog at the end. Yes, that's you. 450 00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:27,400 Speaker 2: After Pepe's on Friday night. Optimus Day is today, which 451 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 2: obviously is me. It's for me. It's positivity in twenty 452 00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 2: twenty six. That's what I'm about. National Shower with a 453 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 2: Friend Day, Hello, and National weather Person's Day. 454 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: Shout out to Jason. It's Jason's Day. Shout out to Jason.