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Speaker 1: Second date Update date. Man, we've been hearing from our listeners,

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Speaker 1: especially in the last couple of years, that the dating

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Speaker 2: But like this is the theme song for it.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, we know what I do. Appreciate the guys out

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Speaker 1: there who aren't backing down and aren't giving up. For sure,

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Speaker 1: it's tough for them to land a date, but when

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Speaker 1: they do, they get creative with it.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Like a dumpster diving dinner date.

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Speaker 2: We did have that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that was misguided effort but unique.

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Speaker 1: Or a blindfolded romantic trust walk across a freeway. Okay,

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Speaker 1: nothing brings you together like that type of experience.

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Speaker 2: You're very far apart. Depending on who gets.

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Speaker 1: Hit, well, it'll bring you together in the same hospital room.

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Speaker 1: And one of our listeners, Ben said he went creative

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Speaker 1: with his date idea and before we even hear it,

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Speaker 1: Brook's gonna give her sign of approval just for trying. Oh, Ted.

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Speaker 4: Whenever you ask for my approval before I hear something,

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Speaker 4: it's usually because something is not a good idea.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what the date is, so you don't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, then I think it's good for you.

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Speaker 1: Ben.

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Speaker 3: I love the.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I thought I was getting tricked by Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: That happens a lot on the show.

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Speaker 1: You don't trust any man.

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Speaker 2: Ben, No, I just don't trust him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. We want to hear what was this

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Speaker 1: creative date idea that you came up with?

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Speaker 3: So in order to understand this date, you kind of

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Speaker 3: have to understand, like how we bonded. Okay, so Amanda

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Speaker 3: and I we met on an app and we bonded

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Speaker 3: over movies, like we both really love movies.

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Speaker 4: If you were about to say you took her to

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Speaker 3: But yeah, so I had this idea that our first

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Speaker 4: Theme a movie theme date, not going to the movies,

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 3: Well, out about it. I wanted to have something to

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so you did Air Force one together and

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Speaker 3: That's fine. Yeah, well you know I was thinking like

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Speaker 3: date movies, but I like your ideas too, But what

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what'd you pick?

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Speaker 1: The recreating famous date movie scenes.

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Speaker 3: Like iconic scenes from movies like for example, the first

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Speaker 3: thing we did was we had a Shrek themed picnic in.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think that's a cute thing.

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Speaker 1: Of course, Brook thinks a swamp date is cute as

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Speaker 2: She figures out the movie associated with it.

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Speaker 5: She got it.

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Speaker 2: She got it right away.

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Speaker 3: Well it helped. I was talking like Shrek too, you know,

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Speaker 2: So what was next? What happened for the Shrek picnic?

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Speaker 3: They I wanted to do like an activity and it

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Speaker 4: Like Patrick Swayze, ghost is what you're saying.

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Speaker 5: Sexy pottery, That's exactly it. So we had the potter wheeling.

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Speaker 1: Well, hold on, did you die and come back as

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Speaker 3: No, I kept my shirt on.

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Speaker 2: You didn't awkwardly go behind her? Did you die?

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Speaker 3: So I think she said, are you really doing this?

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Speaker 1: Are you really doing this? As in like, wow, this

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Speaker 3: She even said that Ghost was one of her favorite movie.

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Speaker 2: How would you do that?

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Speaker 1: Pulled her upside down?

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Speaker 3: There was a tree out there with a branch there.

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Speaker 2: It is did you really hang upside down from a tree?

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Speaker 1: Which one did? She choose act.

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Speaker 3: She didn't choose either one.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know, I don't remember.

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Speaker 3: In other words, she just gave me a handshake. It

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Speaker 1: With a firm handshake?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was it. And she thanked me for the dates.

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Speaker 3: let's see if we can make that happen.

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Speaker 1: We just went over a list of things that people

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean you put in a lot of effort.

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Speaker 1: Whether or not we agree that they were great ideas

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Speaker 1: You're even this He's on a radio show to get

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Speaker 1: go full sleepless on this girl when your second date update.

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Speaker 2: I do kind of remember that.

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Speaker 1: Now we're going to hook you up on top of

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Speaker 1: the Empire State Building when we come.

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Speaker 2: At least the end is definitely Empire State Building. Make

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Speaker 2: a new movie. I mean, if you haven't seen it,

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Speaker 1: Leave the room. We're gonna do a second date update

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Speaker 1: right after that second date update. Three romantic movie scenes

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Speaker 1: recreated in one very steamy.

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Speaker 2: Date because the pond next to them love.

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Speaker 1: Them moisture coming up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Our listener Ben bonded with a woman named Amanda over

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Speaker 2: It's actually really cute.

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Speaker 1: The pottery scene from Ghost and after she rejected the

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Speaker 1: upside down spider Man kiss, they settled on a regular handshake.

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Speaker 2: Okay, very business like Wolf of Wall Street.

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Speaker 1: That's right hot. Now, did something happen in the middle

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Speaker 1: But Ben, I need to ask you when you were

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Speaker 2: Oh god, Jeff what?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah?

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Speaker 2: What you mean?

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Speaker 4: Brook?

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Speaker 1: You know how these go?

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Speaker 2: I mean we had not asked that question, but.

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Speaker 1: You understand the physical reaction that pottery has on a man.

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Speaker 1: When you stick your hands into that clay. You can't

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Speaker 4: What happened in your art class in high school, Jeffrey,

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'll ask my art teacher to send you the

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Speaker 1: video if you're really that interests. Yes, Ben, it was

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Speaker 3: It just pottery.

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Speaker 2: Pottery is really hard.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of us are feeling hot right now?

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Speaker 2: Do you not say anything?

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Speaker 1: Let's get more people in on this action. Dialing Amanda

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Speaker 1: right now, here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking to

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Hey Amanda, Amanda, good morning, don't hang up.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Hi, you're pretty chill, She's cool.

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Speaker 1: We're doing a segment called a second date Update, which

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Speaker 1: they've gone out with somebody and they'd like to see

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Speaker 2: Cool.

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Speaker 1: So basically we have heard from Ben about your guys

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Speaker 4: He put a lot of thought and energy into it

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Speaker 4: because he was really excited about you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We heard Shrek Ghost and then you guys settled on

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Speaker 1: a Wolf of Wall Street thing.

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Speaker 6: Yes, we keep the ghost pottery, which is.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, he pays you for your services.

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Speaker 6: Where he's a businessman and she's a hooker.

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Speaker 4: He wanted to be the person who took you shopping.

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Speaker 6: Even if he did mean I want to take you shopping.

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Speaker 6: That's a strange thing for a first date. And like

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Speaker 4: So wait, you're upset that he brought up pretty woman

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Speaker 2: Is that what it is?

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Speaker 3: It just was a little ugi.

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Speaker 6: Okay, his intentions didn't feel great, but.

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Speaker 1: Ogre Swamp Picnic felt right to you.

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Speaker 6: It multiple references to that, you guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I see what what you're feeling. Young people call

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Speaker 2: Very similar.

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Speaker 1: Before that when I don't want to like bring up

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Speaker 5: Benny there, I am here, and let me tell you,

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Speaker 5: I feel exactly like the guys from Dude, Where's My Car?

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 3: You're hungover on your back, you're high?

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Speaker 1: Like what?

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm just totally confused, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, confused or something that you know, liked confused.

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Speaker 2: In the title.

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Speaker 1: Why are you so confused?

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Speaker 5: Well, I just had no idea, Like, so when I

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Speaker 3: I forgot she was a prostitute. That's not why I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like the whole plot of the movie.

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Speaker 2: You could have chosen something better.

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Speaker 3: Well, it definitely was not my intention. I was not

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Speaker 4: That it's always a good things.

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Speaker 2: Not try to imply that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I totally get it.

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Speaker 1: Are you hearing him, Amanda? Do you see where he's

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Speaker 6: I don't know how you forget that part.

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Speaker 1: Escort thing.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's kind of the key pot.

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Speaker 2: So wait, are you not believing him, Amanda? Is that

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Speaker 1: Silence of the Lambs. Yeah, thank you and turn you

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Speaker 1: into there was no les.

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Speaker 6: Nor skin like. There were no buckets involved in the date.

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Speaker 3: I also kind of meant it as a compliment because

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Speaker 4: That's what a.

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Speaker 1: Lexus just said. She can hear what she's saying too,

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Speaker 1: So this is a little bit awkward.

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Speaker 3: Right now, A little yeah.

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Speaker 1: But the way that we can make this all better

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Speaker 1: is if Amanda, you're willing to give Ben one more

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Speaker 1: chance at another date. You could pick any other movie

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Speaker 2: You could do a do over and do fifty first dates.

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Speaker 2: You know where he forgets every time, So.

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Speaker 1: We're fifty shades first.

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Speaker 6: You know, you guys are going to send us to

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Speaker 6: Hawaiian then I'm in, but I have the money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well we'll pay for the taxi to the airport.

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Speaker 1: Then you handle the rest. But Ben, do you have

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Movies are kind of our thing. I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 4: What but that's like a scary stalker, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: He meant it as like she's pretty, She's beautiful, beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that.

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Speaker 1: This, Ben, I'm going to ask you again, maybe try

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Speaker 2: This time you started with Shreds.

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Speaker 1: Dude, I'm cute. What movie do you have in mind

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Speaker 3: Be honest, I keep thinking about this and how but

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Speaker 3: I don't know how we could turn it into a date.

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Speaker 3: But my favorite movie is Pulp Fiction. It's a dance scene,

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Speaker 1: You know, Ben, I think Harry Potter Day, like, what

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Speaker 1: I think your heart is in the right place for sure,

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Speaker 1: but your mind is.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just like a lot of movies.

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Speaker 1: I just like your mind is scaring.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Amanda, are you still there?

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure why.

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Speaker 1: Well, Amanda, I'm sorry for all of this, but best

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Speaker 1: lot of work to do. Yeah, man, I.

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Speaker 2: Go away from maybe coms dude, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can try that. I guess. I am really

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Speaker 1: The good news is a lot of single women are

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Speaker 2: And running.

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Speaker 1: At least they heard it. Yeah, looking Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 1: you know what, that could have been a really sweet

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Speaker 2: Mean, and she tried, she tried to like it, she

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Speaker 4: On with it, and then she's like, no, my gut

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Speaker 1: You know what. I do believe there is a woman

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm trying to relate a little more.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you somebody out there for everybody, and we

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