WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Parents Just DO Understand

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat up date, Oh today is a serious one

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<v Speaker 1>email from a dude for the second day Update today,

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<v Speaker 1>and it said that he met the woman of his

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<v Speaker 1>dreams and that he swears he is madly in love

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<v Speaker 1>and that they're gonna get married and grow old together

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<v Speaker 1>and he just knows it. It's like I can hear

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<v Speaker 1>the eye roll in your voice. It's not an eye roll,

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<v Speaker 1>it's stress because now I have to talk to him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone while holding back vomit, and that's difficult

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<v Speaker 1>for me, but I'm gonna try anyway. Tyler, what's up? Hey? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry to make you vomit, but I am definitely head

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<v Speaker 1>over him. Why would you do that to me? Right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I just scotten over that little tingly feeling in your

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<v Speaker 1>throat and it's back now. I hope you have a

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<v Speaker 1>toilet nearby because this is Oh my god, that's so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you fall in love after one date? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we did go on one date, but I actually spend

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of time with her before the date.

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<v Speaker 1>We sat next to each other on an airplane. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>kids met very much, so I think so. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was gorgeous a second I saw her

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<v Speaker 1>walking on the aisle. I couldn't believe it when she

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<v Speaker 1>actually sat down next to me. I know, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>best feeling. It's only ever happened to me one time.

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<v Speaker 1>But you see, like, someone attractive, please sit next to me,

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<v Speaker 1>Please sit next to two. I mean they always pass

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<v Speaker 1>you by. One time it happened, and it was the best.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her out. Yeah, she's sitting now, but apparently

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<v Speaker 1>this one said, yes, that's a really awkward plane ride.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you waited till the end, ask her. I

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<v Speaker 1>did good, But it was on the landing, so there

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<v Speaker 1>was still a decent amount of time to sit there

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<v Speaker 1>like idiot. Anyway, Tyler, you had the opposite experience, So

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<v Speaker 1>that was felt good. Yeah, it did feel really good

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<v Speaker 1>because we were getting our baggage together. I was super nervous,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she was turning to leave, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, this is like the moment I'm either

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lose her or I can put myself out there

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<v Speaker 1>and just go for it. And I asked her out

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, hold on a second, can I

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<v Speaker 1>actually see you again? I'd love to take you to dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, just straight like that. You just shot it

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<v Speaker 1>out there. Yeah, I did, because she was turning to leave,

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<v Speaker 1>and I like it was like in slow motion. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, so you seize the moment, man, And would

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<v Speaker 1>she say? I mean there's a there was a little

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<v Speaker 1>red flag at that moment because she kind of hesitated

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<v Speaker 1>a bit. But then she said, okay, so when you

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<v Speaker 1>asked her out there, that she hesitated and that's a

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<v Speaker 1>red flag to you. Yeah, she got kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if like she maybe wasn't into me

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<v Speaker 1>or I don't know, maybe she wasn't. I thought maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she like had a boyfriend or something. Well, how long

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<v Speaker 1>was the hesitation Like a few seconds. She just seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like like awkward about it. Okay, So what was it

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<v Speaker 1>like the first time you guys met up for dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>The dinner was amazing. It was so much fun. I

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<v Speaker 1>had the greatest time. We were hitting it off, laughing,

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<v Speaker 1>great chemistry. At one point we even had this moment

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<v Speaker 1>where we were feeding each other our food Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about that one. That's always kind of weird

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<v Speaker 1>to me. You who initiated the food feeding? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>who do you think? I mean it was. It was

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<v Speaker 1>done like in a joking way, like I know it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds weird, but like I had a burger and she

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<v Speaker 1>had a crab sandwich and she asked me for a

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<v Speaker 1>bite and then I like held it out like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like, I like put it in her mouth. Basically, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it does mean that she's good with whatever's going on

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<v Speaker 1>in your mouth sharing that. I definitely took that as

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<v Speaker 1>a good sign. There was one kind of embarrassing thing

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<v Speaker 1>that happened, but besides that, it was like a perfect

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<v Speaker 1>first date. So what was the embarrassing thing? You blurted

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<v Speaker 1>out that you loved her right then and there, he

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<v Speaker 1>proposed on accident. I'm truly the way I was looking

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<v Speaker 1>at her that I really am into her. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>she said that she had jet leg and she said

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<v Speaker 1>that she's having trouble jest because she has a weird body. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, that's not true. You have an incredible body.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it got like really quiet, and she like

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<v Speaker 1>looked away, and then it got really awkward, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking of this kidding. It was a joke, like

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<v Speaker 1>you have a weird body. I was kidding, your body

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<v Speaker 1>is sotally weird. I could see how that could come

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<v Speaker 1>off as a little I mean, depending on your tone

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<v Speaker 1>of voice and your delivery, it could come off as

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<v Speaker 1>a little creepy. I was probably really intense when I

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<v Speaker 1>said it. Okay, Yeah, that was probably strange. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>intense with sweaty palms when you said it. Yeah. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that that's the reason she's not calling you back?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because when we said goodbye to each other,

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<v Speaker 1>similar to when we were when I asked her out

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<v Speaker 1>the first time, I was like, I had a great time,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks so much for going out. Looking at it, I

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<v Speaker 1>told her that night I really want to see her again,

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<v Speaker 1>and she kind of did that hesitating awkward thing again.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys didn't share a kiss or anything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we kiss? Oh you did? Okay, Okay? What was that like?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, your first kiss with the woman of your dream?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a fireworks moment? Oh? Nice? Was it long?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it short? Was it a pack? I need more

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<v Speaker 1>details song? I mean, honestly, I can't even really remember

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<v Speaker 1>the kiss, like, the whole thing was like a blur.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so I was having such an amazing time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like an out of body experience. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>sure that you actually kissed her? Who did you imagine it?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm positive I kissed her. Okay, she didn't drive off

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<v Speaker 1>and you were standing there in the parking lot just

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<v Speaker 1>kissing the air imagining it was enough. I definitely thank

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<v Speaker 1>you very much. Maybe she didn't like the way kiss

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe she just is awkward in conversation and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>has bad timing. I don't know. But it's been five days.

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<v Speaker 1>I've called, I've texted, I. I'm like freaking out here

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like this is a girl that I

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<v Speaker 1>could marry one day. I really really want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>back from her, and I really want to see her again.

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<v Speaker 1>So who if you guys can help me out, that

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<v Speaker 1>would be amazing because I don't want to let this

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<v Speaker 1>one go. No pressure or at all a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of pressure. Yeah cool, Well we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date up date? All right? Cool?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Hang on, Love back fucking jubile in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Update Tyler, before we make this phone call for your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Can I ask you a question first? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What is it? Well? The girl that you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call today name is Vanessa? Right? Yeah, okay, So you

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<v Speaker 1>said that you instantly knew that you loved her after

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<v Speaker 1>your first date. Yeah, I did. Okay, So my question

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<v Speaker 1>to you is what does love feel like? Oh? Sad?

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<v Speaker 1>Feel like? Uh, feels like getting it? Happiness like this

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<v Speaker 1>big swell in the chest. Huh yeah, okay, Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like how I feel about money. Perfect. Now I

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<v Speaker 1>can really put myself in your shoes and say congratulations. Man, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you must really like this girl. I'm sorry I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize it before. Yeah, I really like her. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then let's hurry up and get this phone call done. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to hear all this ends. Yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>after this, I want to call my bank tell everybody

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<v Speaker 1>I love them, all right, just to remind everybody if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just joining us. Tyler met this girl while they're

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<v Speaker 1>on a plane. He asked her out at baggage claim.

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<v Speaker 1>They went on a date, and after the date, he's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I love her. Now she is not calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back or anything. Okay, Tyler, I'm dialing her now

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sorry, dude, she's probably gonna answer my phone

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<v Speaker 1>call and not yours. Oh my gosh, don't rub it in.

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<v Speaker 1>This guy's already going to be crushed. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>in a second, I mean, I'll just be happy here

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<v Speaker 1>to talk again, honestly. So okay, well we're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>talking to another man all time. Hey, he's got the

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<v Speaker 1>bar is set low for Tyler, which I like, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not expecting a lot. This is good. Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dialing her front of her. Huh hi, going to

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Vanessa. This is Jewel from brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. This Vanessa. I'm sorry. If this is

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<v Speaker 1>a telemarketer, I'm not interested. No, he's not a telemarketer.

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<v Speaker 1>As a matter of fact, by the time this phone

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<v Speaker 1>calls done, you might want nothing to do with our

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<v Speaker 1>product at all. So, um, who are you? My name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jebil from brook and Jewbil in the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show, okay. One of our listeners actually emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us about you, all right, okay, and he gave us

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<v Speaker 1>your phone number, so I thought i'd dial it and

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<v Speaker 1>see if you answer. Gave you my phone number. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Tyler, and you guys met on a

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<v Speaker 1>plane and then had dinner a little while ago. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you remember Tyler. Yes, I remember Tyler. That's okay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Tyler definitely remembers you, and he's been trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you, but you haven't been calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>So oh, no, I'm sorry. You don't have to apologize

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<v Speaker 1>to me. You fine with it. No, I mean I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry to do that to him. So wait, so you

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<v Speaker 1>have guilt about it about not calling it back? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you do. Wait, like like in a way like, oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have called him back. I wanted to, and

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't gotten around to it, or in a didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to let him down. Way, like in a

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<v Speaker 1>way I'd like to see him, but I can't. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't see him. It sounds like maybe you're in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship or married or something. No, no, it's it's not that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're single, yes, but you can't see him. No, you

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<v Speaker 1>went blind, it's not that. Okay. Well, if you could

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<v Speaker 1>maybe tell us a little bit so that we can

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him, because he said that he really liked

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<v Speaker 1>you a lot. Yeah, he's like smitten. Man. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to make a lot of sense to people. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're pretty weird, so try it. We might be like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes perfect sense. I wouldn't call that guy either.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he do something wrong? Not exactly. Um, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>my parents, your parents. Yeah, how would your parents even

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<v Speaker 1>know about him? Haven't you guys only? I mean you've

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<v Speaker 1>been on one date. This is the part that I

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<v Speaker 1>know that people don't really understand. Your parents are private

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<v Speaker 1>investigators and they track down each of your dates and

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<v Speaker 1>find out about them. Not exactly. But wait, what, what

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<v Speaker 1>what you have to tell us? I mean, my parents

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<v Speaker 1>are just really protective. Okay, you know, they love me

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<v Speaker 1>and I really trust them. I respect their opinion. So

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<v Speaker 1>you told him that you met this dude on a

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<v Speaker 1>plane and they were like, no, Um, you're not exactly clearly,

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<v Speaker 1>but kind of How would they even know him? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did you like give them information about him? Not exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>not exactly, not exactly. So how do they know about

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<v Speaker 1>this guy? Then? Well they were there? Wait, they were aware,

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<v Speaker 1>they were there at another table. They were at the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant on your date. Yeah, purpose or on accident. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, they they're just very protective and it

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<v Speaker 1>was on purpose. I really, I really trust their opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know they care for me, so they wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be there. What where they were like sitting at

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<v Speaker 1>another table watching him to see if it was a

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<v Speaker 1>good date or whatever. Is this something you do often

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<v Speaker 1>with your parents, Like every time you go on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>you tell them where you're gonna go and they show

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<v Speaker 1>up too. Oh? Yeah, I mean, I just I really,

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<v Speaker 1>I really care about their opinion, and I know that

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<v Speaker 1>they care about me. Yeah, but like I care about

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend's opinion, and I want my mom's opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>But I trust that I can get their opinion without

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<v Speaker 1>them actually being on the date with me. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that this is hard to understand, but this is what

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<v Speaker 1>we do. I like that they're there. I like that

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<v Speaker 1>they're lurking out for me. Okay, so let's let's get

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<v Speaker 1>past that for a second. Just the whole situation of

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<v Speaker 1>you bringing your parents along. Yeah, I already got opinions

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<v Speaker 1>on that for sure, But I just want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Did they not like him? Is that why you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back? Yeah? I mean they said you seem nice, um,

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<v Speaker 1>but I hate to say this, um, but that he

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<v Speaker 1>dressed poor and that he didn't really put in much

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<v Speaker 1>effort um not very cultured. Your parents are conting and shallow.

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<v Speaker 1>They're judging people on what they're wearing. They're looking out

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<v Speaker 1>for my best interest, and trust me, a rich, cultured

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<v Speaker 1>man is the best and I want that for all

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<v Speaker 1>of us listening right now and in this room. So

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<v Speaker 1>why not just tell him that? Well, now you can't

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<v Speaker 1>tell that, But if you like him, can't you tell

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<v Speaker 1>your parents you're gonna give it another shot and they

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<v Speaker 1>could come along on another date. I mean, I trust

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<v Speaker 1>my parents' opinion. They've never been wrong. Like the one

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<v Speaker 1>time that I didn't listen to them in my college years,

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<v Speaker 1>I took on this roommate. They told me not to

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<v Speaker 1>be roommates with her, and she wound up being a

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<v Speaker 1>drug addict. So they were right, don't you think it is?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, as parents, shouldn't they raise you so that

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<v Speaker 1>you can be a confident young woman who they trust

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<v Speaker 1>in making decisions for yourself. I trust myself to bring

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<v Speaker 1>them along because I liked that they're there and their

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<v Speaker 1>opinion matters. Interesting. Okay, well, now that we've heard your parents'

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<v Speaker 1>opinion and the reason that you're not calling Tyler back,

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder what Tyler's opinion would be And the cool thing,

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<v Speaker 1>Vanessa is that he's actually on the phone listening to

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<v Speaker 1>this and wants to talk to you. Oh my gosh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we can get that opinion right now. Tyler, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>You're there still, I'm here. You're quiet. You're quiet? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, Tyler, you're there? Is it okay that we

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<v Speaker 1>have this conversation without your parents around? Mom and dad?

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<v Speaker 1>Very funny? Really, Vanessa, your parents were there watching us

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. I'm sorry, I know that's weird, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's just, you know, they've been there for me all

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<v Speaker 1>my life. I don't understand why you didn't tell me

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<v Speaker 1>that they were there. Why Why was it some secret? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel they were spying on us, which they were,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, I know. I'm sorry. It's just if you

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<v Speaker 1>knew if you were there, then you would act differently.

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<v Speaker 1>They needed to see how you would act if we

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<v Speaker 1>were alone. Dude, he was feeding her food in front

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<v Speaker 1>of her mom. Oh yeah, I didn't even think about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I'm sorry. And by the way, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>poor and I'm not uncultured. I'm actually a great guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a good job, I have my own condo.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in a little trouble, but that's in the past.

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<v Speaker 1>A little trouble, but that's in the past. Yeah, what

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean, Tyler? Yeah, what does that mean? It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter. It's in the past. It was six months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, were you arrested in the past? Six

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<v Speaker 1>months ago? I'm just being honest. It was six months ago.

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<v Speaker 1>It's I've moved on. I'm just saying that I have

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<v Speaker 1>my life together, and that's it. Hold on what happened

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<v Speaker 1>six months ago? It doesn't matter. I was. It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>Forget that. I forget that. I said, it does matter.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you do? I've served my time. I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>a different place now. I was roped into it with

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<v Speaker 1>from other people. It's not important. I'm just saying that

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<v Speaker 1>life together. Yeah, pyramids. I want to know now, Tyler.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody wants to know embezzelment. We close. I'm not telling

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, it was in the past. My point is

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<v Speaker 1>that it was a great day. I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>know if she likes me or not. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to either move on or not. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll help you here. Vanessa, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a second date with Tyler. We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it, what I mean, we'll pay for your

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<v Speaker 1>parents too? Why not so? I can't, especially knowing now

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<v Speaker 1>that there's some mystery that happened six months ago. It

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<v Speaker 1>was not even a big deal. It was the lowest

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<v Speaker 1>felony charge you could get. I was rope into it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of the biggest deal. That's as big as

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<v Speaker 1>it gets. It was the smallest felony you could get.

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<v Speaker 1>I barely even serve any time. It was in the past.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I said, Wow, my parents were right about you know, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I have to I was kind of skeptical at

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning of this call, but it may have been

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<v Speaker 1>a good decision for Vanessa to bring her parents along

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<v Speaker 1>on her dated vibe. Oh my god, are you freaking

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<v Speaker 1>kidding me? Well, yeah, they thought something bad about him,

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<v Speaker 1>and turns out he has as a pass to criminal history. Vanessa,

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry it didn't work out. I do have a question

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<v Speaker 1>for you, though, Um, do you think it'd be cool

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<v Speaker 1>if your parents came along on my next date? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I could really use their opinion. They'd like, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what they're talking about broken Jupil in the morning