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Speaker 1: Second dat up date, Oh today is a serious one

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Speaker 1: email from a dude for the second day Update today,

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Speaker 1: and it said that he met the woman of his

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Speaker 1: dreams and that he swears he is madly in love

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Speaker 1: and he just knows it. It's like I can hear

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Speaker 1: the eye roll in your voice. It's not an eye roll,

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Speaker 1: it's stress because now I have to talk to him

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Speaker 1: on the phone while holding back vomit, and that's difficult

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Speaker 1: for me, but I'm gonna try anyway. Tyler, what's up? Hey? Man?

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Speaker 1: Sorry to make you vomit, but I am definitely head

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Speaker 1: over him. Why would you do that to me? Right now?

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Speaker 1: I just scotten over that little tingly feeling in your

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Speaker 1: How did you fall in love after one date? Well,

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Speaker 1: we did go on one date, but I actually spend

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Speaker 1: a little bit of time with her before the date.

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Speaker 1: We sat next to each other on an airplane. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: kids met very much, so I think so. I mean

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Speaker 1: I thought she was gorgeous a second I saw her

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Speaker 1: best feeling. It's only ever happened to me one time.

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Speaker 1: But you see, like, someone attractive, please sit next to me,

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Speaker 1: Please sit next to two. I mean they always pass

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Speaker 1: I asked her out. Yeah, she's sitting now, but apparently

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Speaker 1: this one said, yes, that's a really awkward plane ride.

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Speaker 1: like idiot. Anyway, Tyler, you had the opposite experience, So

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, just straight like that. You just shot it

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Speaker 1: The dinner was amazing. It was so much fun. I

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Speaker 1: I'm positive I kissed her. Okay, she didn't drive off

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Speaker 1: kissing the air imagining it was enough. I definitely thank

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Speaker 1: of pressure. Yeah cool, Well we'll play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: call her and get your second date up date? All right? Cool?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Hang on, Love back fucking jubile in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Update Tyler, before we make this phone call for your

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Speaker 1: What is it? Well? The girl that you want to

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Speaker 1: call today name is Vanessa? Right? Yeah, okay, So you

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Speaker 1: your first date. Yeah, I did. Okay, So my question

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Speaker 1: Feel like? Uh, feels like getting it? Happiness like this

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Speaker 1: it's like how I feel about money. Perfect. Now I

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Speaker 1: you must really like this girl. I'm sorry I didn't

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Speaker 1: then let's hurry up and get this phone call done. Man,

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Speaker 1: I have to hear all this ends. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: after this, I want to call my bank tell everybody

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Speaker 1: I love them, all right, just to remind everybody if

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Speaker 1: you're just joining us. Tyler met this girl while they're

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Speaker 1: on a plane. He asked her out at baggage claim.

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Speaker 1: They went on a date, and after the date, he's

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Speaker 1: just like, I love her. Now she is not calling

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Speaker 1: him back or anything. Okay, Tyler, I'm dialing her now

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Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, dude, she's probably gonna answer my phone

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Speaker 1: to talk again, honestly. So okay, well we're gonna be

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Speaker 1: talking to another man all time. Hey, he's got the

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Speaker 1: bar is set low for Tyler, which I like, you're

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Speaker 1: not expecting a lot. This is good. Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm dialing her front of her. Huh hi, going to

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Speaker 1: speak to Vanessa. This is Jewel from brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. This Vanessa. I'm sorry. If this is

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Speaker 1: a telemarketer, I'm not interested. No, he's not a telemarketer.

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Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, by the time this phone

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Speaker 1: is Jebil from brook and Jewbil in the Morning. It's

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Speaker 1: a radio show, okay. One of our listeners actually emailed

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Speaker 1: see if you answer. Gave you my phone number. Yes,

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Speaker 1: his name is Tyler, and you guys met on a

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Speaker 1: you remember Tyler. Yes, I remember Tyler. That's okay. Well,

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Speaker 1: Tyler definitely remembers you, and he's been trying to get

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Speaker 1: So oh, no, I'm sorry. You don't have to apologize

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Speaker 1: way I'd like to see him, but I can't. You

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Speaker 1: relationship or married or something. No, no, it's it's not that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: went blind, it's not that. Okay. Well, if you could

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Speaker 1: talk to him, because he said that he really liked

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Speaker 1: you a lot. Yeah, he's like smitten. Man. It's not

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Speaker 1: going to make a lot of sense to people. Well,

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Speaker 1: we're pretty weird, so try it. We might be like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that makes perfect sense. I wouldn't call that guy either.

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Speaker 1: Did he do something wrong? Not exactly. Um, it's it's

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Speaker 1: my parents, your parents. Yeah, how would your parents even

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Speaker 1: know about him? Haven't you guys only? I mean you've

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Speaker 1: been on one date. This is the part that I

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Speaker 1: know that people don't really understand. Your parents are private

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Speaker 1: investigators and they track down each of your dates and

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Speaker 1: find out about them. Not exactly. But wait, what, what

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Speaker 1: what you have to tell us? I mean, my parents

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Speaker 1: are just really protective. Okay, you know, they love me

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Speaker 1: and I really trust them. I respect their opinion. So

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Speaker 1: did you like give them information about him? Not exactly,

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Speaker 1: not exactly, not exactly. So how do they know about

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Speaker 1: this guy? Then? Well they were there? Wait, they were aware,

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Speaker 1: they were there at another table. They were at the

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Speaker 1: You're there still, I'm here. You're quiet. You're quiet? Oh

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Speaker 1: Very funny? Really, Vanessa, your parents were there watching us

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Speaker 1: pay for it, what I mean, we'll pay for your

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Speaker 1: I barely even serve any time. It was in the past.

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Speaker 1: a good decision for Vanessa to bring her parents along

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Speaker 1: kidding me? Well, yeah, they thought something bad about him,

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