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Speaker 1: second day. I feel like super important. When you're first
Speaker 1: starting to date someone, you need to be able to
Speaker 1: keep the momentum going. Yeah, Like after a good first date,
Speaker 1: you need to see him again sooner rather than later?
Speaker 1: Is key? Not too soon? Yeah? Wait too long? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because if you wait, the spark could fizzle out or
Speaker 1: somebody else could swoop in. Where in my case, your
Speaker 1: mom calls and asked, why aren't you going out with
Speaker 1: that person again? I've already FaceTime multiple pictures of you
Speaker 1: as a baby if you want them. That legitimately checks out. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: your message me at two am the other day. You're
Speaker 1: not getting an old video of you? Did you get
Speaker 1: that too? Yeah? And you're not even a romantic interest
Speaker 1: I'm talking about Oh yeah, not yet. But anyway, Isabella
Speaker 1: emailed the show Isabella, I'm hoping your mom isn't involved
Speaker 1: in your dating life like mine usually is. Yeah, not
Speaker 1: so much. You're lucky, Isabella, I have a chance there. Well,
Speaker 1: we want to hear all about your romantic ball and
Speaker 1: how we can keep it moving, So tell us about it.
Speaker 1: That was that, bro, That was pretty much the smoothest
Speaker 1: transition I've ever done. Okay, it's a romantic ball. Yeah,
Speaker 1: where where are you at the ball of romance with
Speaker 1: the ball? Well? I just went on a date with
Speaker 1: this guy named Jason that I met on an app Okay,
Speaker 1: and it was a pretty good date, like first date
Speaker 1: all around. Um, he had this interesting idea to go
Speaker 1: to this place that I've never heard of before. It's
Speaker 1: like a hole in the wall place, but it's very
Speaker 1: to drink and play a bunch of board games. Oh
Speaker 1: that's so fun. I'm just saying four games run goods.
Speaker 1: But anything different, like a different theme of a bar,
Speaker 1: a different you like. Yeah, like my husband and I
Speaker 1: once tried to do a board game bar place and
Speaker 1: we walked in and it was way more serious than
Speaker 1: we were expecting. Like, I don't know, it was like
Speaker 1: one of those where it's like, this is an eighteen
Speaker 1: round game where you make up things I don't know risk. Yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: You know. This isn't your dating life. This is about Isabella.
Speaker 1: I'm relating, Jeff, Okay, you relate. You were saying your
Speaker 1: experience wasn't very fun. Isabella was yours. Well, this place
Speaker 1: was a little different. Like when you go in, they
Speaker 1: make you fill out a survey about your personality. Oh
Speaker 1: board games and surveys. Yeah, so this seems kind of weird.
Speaker 1: H they need your Like why would they need to
Speaker 1: know your personality because they want to pick a board
Speaker 1: game for you based on your personality. The rat track game,
Speaker 1: it would kick you out and then you know someone
Speaker 1: else would get like sorry, it's like the algorithm in
Speaker 1: real life. Okay, so you filed out that what what
Speaker 1: board game did the survey come back and tell you
Speaker 1: to play? Well, they were picking out really weird ones
Speaker 1: that I'd never heard of, something about tadpoles and weird
Speaker 1: weird game. So we just went with, you know, a
Speaker 1: classic taboo, taboo hippos. It's taboo. Fun to play with
Speaker 1: only two people. We had to make up our own
Speaker 1: roles a little bit, but it was kind of a
Speaker 1: good way to kind of learn about each other a
Speaker 1: little bit. Okay, can you explain really short because I
Speaker 1: don't think I know. So, Like I would pick a
Speaker 1: card and then try to get him to guess the
Speaker 1: word on the card by not saying certain words. Oh
Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah. It's like it's like you need to
Speaker 1: guess Christmas, but you can't say Santa Clauses. It's like
Speaker 1: charades but you're using talking. Oh yeah, it's pretty fun.
Speaker 1: And then we made a little bet. Oh cute, Okay,
Speaker 1: what was it? We were like, whoever loses the next
Speaker 1: round has to go around and bust everyone in like tables,
Speaker 1: like their drinks and there's fun. Also helps the bar.
Speaker 1: Like that's really and it's embarrassing. Yeah, yeah, I sorry,
Speaker 1: can I that's really fun? I won, and now we
Speaker 1: get to the reason why he's not calling you back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how did he handle losing? Was he a good sport
Speaker 1: about it? Well, he actually seemed to kind of enjoy it,
Speaker 1: like he was a really good sport about it, and
Speaker 1: he was kind of laughing and going around into the
Speaker 1: waitress was grabby and she just came to sit with
Speaker 1: me and cute. Yeah, that's funny. It was fun. But
Speaker 1: then when he came back, he made a new bet
Speaker 1: and said the next person that loses had to kiss
Speaker 1: the other person on the cheek and then the mouth,
Speaker 1: and then, well, at least someone's kind of romantic and
Speaker 1: not just embarrassing. Yeah, it's cute, and it's cute that
Speaker 1: he did on the cheek. You know, there's not a
Speaker 1: lot of pressure for that. So who won that bet?
Speaker 1: I went again? So he had to kiss you on
Speaker 1: the cheek. Yes, good. Whenever he went to kiss me,
Speaker 1: I kind of turned and then so we kissed on
Speaker 1: the lips and then they kicked her out here. Was
Speaker 1: it cute? Did he like that? Yeah? It was cute. Okay,
Speaker 1: it sounds good. Yeah, it's so super fun. You connected,
Speaker 1: you guys laugh together. You shared a kiss doesn't sound
Speaker 1: like you've been before. Afterwards, he texted me and said
Speaker 1: he wanted to see me again, and so I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean too. Okay, So that same night he texted
Speaker 1: you that he wanted to see you again. Yeah, oh
Speaker 1: all right, that's a good son. But then he had
Speaker 1: to head out of town for a week. And then
Speaker 1: when he got back from out of town, we made
Speaker 1: a plan to meet up at this bar and we'd
Speaker 1: only been there for about thirty minutes and he just
Speaker 1: kind of acting weird, and then he said he had
Speaker 1: to leave again. And then all of a sudden, he
Speaker 1: has to go out of town for a couple of
Speaker 1: more weeks and he doesn't know when he's coming back,
Speaker 1: and it's all it's all kind of weird, like he
Speaker 1: doesn't know when he's coming back. Yeah, yeah, you just iffy, Okay.
Speaker 1: I do know, I have fun. I do know of
Speaker 1: people that have jobs that will send them out and say, hey,
Speaker 1: what why when you're coming back? Why wouldn't he just
Speaker 1: say that if it was Yeah, I mean, what do
Speaker 1: you think? What's your theory? I mean, part of me thanks,
Speaker 1: he's meeting up for like another girl. Yeah, so how
Speaker 1: long has it been since you last saw him, since
Speaker 1: that last date. Um, it's been like two and a
Speaker 1: half weeks. Okay, So you guys, I feel like you've
Speaker 1: had one and a half dates because that second one
Speaker 1: sounded like it was so short that it doesn't even
Speaker 1: fully count. Yeah, the window you're talking about, she's I
Speaker 1: think like that windows like a week, a week and
Speaker 1: a half. Yeah, you're out of the like that romance
Speaker 1: ball is slowing down. We're gonna kick the ball and
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and get this romance going again, full schoolway. Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna kick it in the direction of love. Okay,
Speaker 1: the metaphor works, it doesn't, We're going to keep the
Speaker 1: ball of romance going with your second date update next
Speaker 1: second night to Bishop three, left foot red Professor Plum
Speaker 1: in the library, okay with the lead pipe. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1: The board game's not traditionally considered a sexy first date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: got me. Yeah. For Isabella, she was able to make
Speaker 1: it work when she went out with a guy named
Speaker 1: Jason and they played what did they play? Taboo, which
Speaker 1: is I guess sexy in itself just in the name. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But after the date, things have been cooling off a
Speaker 1: little bit. Jason has been in and out of town,
Speaker 1: hard to reach to figure out how to get that
Speaker 1: because I've gone on one and a half dates so far,
Speaker 1: hard to figure out how to get that second full
Speaker 1: date in. And she's hoping we can help her today. Isabella,
Speaker 1: how you feeling? I don't know us but okay, I
Speaker 1: mean it does sound like his interest is waning if
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, I'm just out of town, you know,
Speaker 1: like no information, So maybe this can get it back
Speaker 1: on track. I just kind of want to know what
Speaker 1: is happening, and I can find if he needs to go,
Speaker 1: but I would like to know why or just what's
Speaker 1: going on right. I feel like you've invested enough time
Speaker 1: and energy that you deserve that answer. Well, this is
Speaker 1: the good time to ask all those questions. We're gonna
Speaker 1: call his number right now and see what he has
Speaker 1: to say. Okay, okay, and if not, there's always Professor Plumford.
Speaker 1: Let's just out of the number right now here we go. Hello, Yo,
Speaker 1: is this Jason? H Yeah? Who's this? Hey? My name's
Speaker 1: Jeff from Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hey, Uh
Speaker 1: what yeah, that's Brooks know where it wasn't Jeff? Good
Speaker 1: to tell people there's like a bunch of people on
Speaker 1: the front. Yeah. So you know, you know radio stations,
Speaker 1: there's hundreds of them all over the world. I know
Speaker 1: radio se sounds like you're talking down to him, Jason.
Speaker 1: We're a really really tiny one, Okay, not super respected
Speaker 1: in the industry, but we have four people on it, Alexis,
Speaker 1: jose Brook, and Eye and our show kind of specializes
Speaker 1: in doing dating stuff. Oh okay, Okay, I'm actually reading
Speaker 1: a lot about dating and I'm trying to get better
Speaker 1: at it. So it's actually kind of cool you're calling me, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's cute. You're doing little self help books for reading.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. Well, so, like I've been watching a lot
Speaker 1: of like relationship experts on YouTube and um trying to
Speaker 1: do this new strategy. What is its strategy? There's this
Speaker 1: one guy and he keeps talking about the difference between
Speaker 1: attraction and desire. Okay, and he's like, you can be
Speaker 1: attracted to someone when you're with them, but the only
Speaker 1: way to build desire is to spend time away from them.
Speaker 1: Oh like absence makes the heart grow fonder type of Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: exact pro I'm just warning you. I've heard this and
Speaker 1: I've spent like five years away from my age. She
Speaker 1: still has That's something that you're you're trying to practice
Speaker 1: in your life. Yeah. So there's this girl I've been
Speaker 1: hanging out with and I've been telling her I've been
Speaker 1: having to go out of town on business, but I'm
Speaker 1: actually just here at home. What so, so I can
Speaker 1: let the desire beilt. You know. No, that's kind of impressive.
Speaker 1: You have a job that you travel, because it sounds
Speaker 1: like you're an important person too. Well, I mean I
Speaker 1: work from home, but yeah, sounds cool. But you're telling
Speaker 1: her that you're going out of town because that makes
Speaker 1: you seem like, oh, I'm unavailable and you should desire me. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean you know it's like make in her want
Speaker 1: which she can't have. And how do you feel like
Speaker 1: that strategy is working for you? Um? I mean, she
Speaker 1: keeps trying to hang out with me, so it seems
Speaker 1: like it's the word go. It's interesting, Jason. You can't
Speaker 1: just lie about where you're gonna be. That's not what
Speaker 1: the advice is. Man. Well, I mean, but I have
Speaker 1: to come up with some reason for why I can't
Speaker 1: hang it out all the time and just say hey,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be at home, but I don't want to
Speaker 1: hang out like wee exactly exactly like you have to
Speaker 1: keep like momentum in dating, and it seems like you
Speaker 1: are giving big laws stretches of time in between where
Speaker 1: it feels like to these women that you're probably feels
Speaker 1: like you're ghosting them. So did you call it? It?
Speaker 1: Just like harassed me about my strategy here. I'll try
Speaker 1: to get it to work a little bit better for you, Jason.
Speaker 1: We just we want to help you, is really what
Speaker 1: it comes down to. I think, and I don't know.
Speaker 1: You said that you're like currently trying this on somebody.
Speaker 1: Do you mind if we ask her name? Her names
Speaker 1: is about Yeahsbella. That is so weird because Jason, you're
Speaker 1: not going to believe that. But there's an Isabella on
Speaker 1: the other line right now that's been listening to this
Speaker 1: entire conversation, burning with desire to talk. What oh there
Speaker 1: she is? Um, yeah, this is kind of not cool.
Speaker 1: YouTube page and find out what to do next, Jason. Oh, Jason,
Speaker 1: it is cool because she's interested in you. She wants
Speaker 1: to see you. Yes, your plan is working. Well. Now
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit weird. It out. This seems like game.
Speaker 1: I mean now, no, I mean it's it's not a game.
Speaker 1: It's I like you and I was trying to get
Speaker 1: you to like me too, And do you think it's
Speaker 1: like do you think that's a good strategy that you
Speaker 1: learned from YouTube? I mean, well, you called a radio
Speaker 1: station to find out what was going on with me,
Speaker 1: So it seems like defeated right now. She thought that
Speaker 1: you were like cheating on her something she had like
Speaker 1: a second family somewhere because she wants so bad. We
Speaker 1: only went on one date. I don't know how I
Speaker 1: could have been cheating on her, but you kind of
Speaker 1: went on one and a half dates from what Isabella
Speaker 1: told us. Yeah, why did you leave a half an
Speaker 1: hour into that second date? Jason? Yeah, well I thought
Speaker 1: it would be a good way to build anticipation for
Speaker 1: the next day, oh that night. Don't tell like you
Speaker 1: guys have a million subscribers like the guy I'm following
Speaker 1: on YouTube, so true. I don't really need to take
Speaker 1: it from you. We take it from Isabella. Isabella, are
Speaker 1: you enjoying him? Am pushing you away? I don't think
Speaker 1: your YouTube guy is very smart? I mean, is he
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Does he have a girlfriend several? Oh wait, okay,
Speaker 1: role model, if you were supposed to hear any of this,
Speaker 1: if you haven't been on the line, things would be
Speaker 1: going great. You'd still be easily anticipating our next day.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, should be confused though, Yeah, I wouldn't consider
Speaker 1: that going great. I mean, I just have the way
Speaker 1: two more days to get your desire to the peak level,
Speaker 1: and then I was gonna make plans. I said, make clans. Okay,
Speaker 1: after almost three weeks, I was almost about to call you, Isabella,
Speaker 1: you jumped the gun. Yeah, you're you're messing us off
Speaker 1: for both of us. I actually, Isabella, I think this
Speaker 1: is kind of sweet, Like he's obviously taking this advice,
Speaker 1: maybe a little too literally, but he put in a
Speaker 1: lot of effort to try to get you to like him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I think that's the sweet thing, Like you just
Speaker 1: need to be yourself, Jason, not listen to some YouTube dude. Possibly,
Speaker 1: but honestly, this this is working the evidence as a parent. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously it's kind of working on Isabella because
Speaker 1: she does seem still interested. But how many other women
Speaker 1: are you doing this too? Right now? Is Isabella the
Speaker 1: only one. No, yeah, I mean yeah, no, I'm not
Speaker 1: doing it to anybody, but Esca is the only person
Speaker 1: I'm seeing right now. Good. I don't know seeing you
Speaker 1: count because I haven't seen you in like two and
Speaker 1: a half a week. Well, we have the power to
Speaker 1: change that for you, because we will often to send
Speaker 1: you guys out on another date, and we'll pay for that.
Speaker 1: I mean I always wanted to go on another date.
Speaker 1: I just I just had to wait. Yeah, we promise
Speaker 1: not to leave during the date to hight her desire
Speaker 1: or whatever your goal is. I think I can. I
Speaker 1: just need to watch the next video in the series
Speaker 1: to figure out finished the series before you tested it. Okay,
Speaker 1: but he's saying yes to another date, Isabelle, are you
Speaker 1: still interested? Um? Well, it sounds like he actually likes you.
Speaker 1: He just doesn't know how to handle it. I'll give
Speaker 1: him a lease. He's putting some effort in dude, most
Speaker 1: dudes don't. Yeah, and it's kind of cute and kind
Speaker 1: of funny. But if you ditched the YouTube and whoever
Speaker 1: this guy is, then yeah, okay, well there you go.
Speaker 1: And well I just thought of something funny that you
Speaker 1: could do. You could leave halfway through the date now
Speaker 1: and have him burning with desire for you. It's called
Speaker 1: toxic cycle. It's called love, the romance ball of love
Speaker 1: and got it back in motion. Everybody broken Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning. We can hate on it all we want,
Speaker 1: but in the end, Jason's strategy to get Isabella actually
Speaker 1: worked fairly fairly separation to build up desire and she
Speaker 1: called us and then we got him another date. But listen,
Speaker 1: if she didn't listen to our show, right and she
Speaker 1: didn't know we were there to help, they would have
Speaker 1: never gone out again. I mean honestly, like she would
Speaker 1: have just lost interest and just let it go. You
Speaker 1: don't know that. I'm just us. Eventually, I'm just saying, terrible,
Speaker 1: there's something to this strategy. Oh, don't do that. If
Speaker 1: we go off the air for two weeks, what's going
Speaker 1: to happen, Brooke? God, I'd get a really great couple
Speaker 1: of nights to see you, Like I feel really good.
Speaker 1: But our listeners might want to listen to us even more.
Speaker 1: We build up the desire to hear us. Okay, pitch
Speaker 1: that to management. Screw two weeks, have about two months,
Speaker 1: decades no show for two centuries, and then we'll come
Speaker 1: back the long, slow place we might try. Look, we're
Speaker 1: already getting Texan of people who want to soft the air.
Speaker 1: I'm Shorky. You supposed to be telling us to stay anyway.
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