Speaker 1: Second date of date. They say in life, when one
Speaker 1: door closes, another door opens. Yeah, that's great unless you
Speaker 1: have some type of door phobia or if you're scared
Speaker 1: to leave your house now because of all the random
Speaker 1: doors that are opening and closing in front of you.
Speaker 1: I really but in the dating world, I think it's
Speaker 1: a little bit similar. When one date ghost is another
Speaker 1: date approaches. I was wondering why you're going with the
Speaker 1: ghost is stretched. You have to shoehorn the rhyme in there.
Speaker 1: But I think it works because that's what happened to
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Chase recently. So Chase, welcome to
Speaker 1: the show. And before we get into it, what's your
Speaker 1: stance on doors? You anti? I'm a pro door just straight.
Speaker 1: They are great. We don't even need to talk about
Speaker 1: your date if we come on it. You could just
Speaker 1: focus on doors for the next seven minutes. Welcome at
Speaker 1: segment or door. Well, honestly, let's hear about the woman
Speaker 1: that you went out with. What's her name, Tiffany? Tiffany?
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. Just the way you said
Speaker 1: it sounds like you like Tiffany obviously. What do you
Speaker 1: like about her? Well, you could say I used to
Speaker 1: like her. Oh, then why do you want to call
Speaker 1: her again? Yeah? What's going on? I don't Oh, I
Speaker 1: don't think you understand how the second dates have worked
Speaker 1: because we used to try and call the people that
Speaker 1: you went out with. All right, well, I guess I
Speaker 1: should start from the beginning. Yes, please, Tiffany. I met
Speaker 1: her online. She was pretty cute and I was excited
Speaker 1: to meet her. And first dates, I usually like to
Speaker 1: do activities rather than just sit around and have to talk.
Speaker 1: So I planned for us to play mini golf. Still
Speaker 1: want to do this date? Oh, I've never done a minigolf.
Speaker 1: It's a great first date. Nice SCRD. It go well.
Speaker 1: I got there like fifteen minutes early. I went and
Speaker 1: got the clubs and balls and paid for us could
Speaker 1: both to play. That's awesome. So she can just show
Speaker 1: up and play and Steve and have to wait and
Speaker 1: all that. That's good, that's thoughtful, gentleman. Move right. So
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there, I'm waiting. Five minutes goes by after
Speaker 1: she's supposed to be there, ten minutes, fifteen minutes. Oh no,
Speaker 1: the ghost is so I text her. I didn't get ghosted.
Speaker 1: I texted her and she apologized she had to cancel
Speaker 1: for whatever reason I don't even remember. But and you
Speaker 1: already bought the balls and the clubs and everything, already
Speaker 1: had the balls in clubs. So yeah, that's where things
Speaker 1: got interesting. I don't like Tiffany either. Screw Tiffany. A
Speaker 1: family member pass away or something, we don't know. Mini
Speaker 1: golf takes precedence over family members. Everybody knows this, being like,
Speaker 1: excuse you're telling me she doesn't text you until twenty
Speaker 1: minutes after she's supposed to be there, and it's a
Speaker 1: legit reason. Well what do you do at that point, Chase?
Speaker 1: Do you do two rounds of golf by yourself? Let
Speaker 1: two clubs? No? So yeah, I'm already be frustrated about
Speaker 1: the cancelation and stuff. I go return the balls and
Speaker 1: clubs and get my money back. Sad moment, can you do?
Speaker 1: I was going to ask that. The guy's like, no
Speaker 1: one's ever. There's like the sixteen year old kid working
Speaker 1: the counter, and he's like, oh, sorry, I can't give
Speaker 1: you your money back. So so I'm already frustrated or whatever.
Speaker 1: And I hate to be this guy, but I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: let me talk to the manager, Like oh man, oh wow,
Speaker 1: I mean they kid could barely drive. I kind of
Speaker 1: get it. Yeah, I'm still kind of confused about how
Speaker 1: this is a second date, Like what are we doing here? Answering? Now,
Speaker 1: we're getting there, We're getting there. Then the manager finally
Speaker 1: comes over, and that's where the story takes the turn.
Speaker 1: And so the manager is this gorgeous woman. Oh oh,
Speaker 1: I did not see this coming. And suddenly you don't
Speaker 1: have a complaint anymore, do you? Because what are you
Speaker 1: going to tell sexy manager? I just got stood up
Speaker 1: money back? Well, it wasn't even really necessary. Actually, she
Speaker 1: was awesome and super friendly, gave me my money back
Speaker 1: right away, So that wasn't that part of the story
Speaker 1: wasn't even an issue anymore. So okay, so what did
Speaker 1: you do? Did you strike up a conversation with her?
Speaker 1: Is that who we're interested in now? Um? Well, we
Speaker 1: were just kind of friendly and cordial to each other there.
Speaker 1: But at that point, you know, I took the money
Speaker 1: I spent on golf, and I went over to the
Speaker 1: bar and got myself a drink, and I was just
Speaker 1: kind of hanging out over there, okay, with the manager
Speaker 1: or by yourself? Well, I was by myself, but then
Speaker 1: the manager actually approached me. Oh like, it's not a
Speaker 1: good look to have lonely men drinking in here. I
Speaker 1: better sit down that stea. Yeah, so she again apologized,
Speaker 1: you know that I couldn't get my refunded first, and
Speaker 1: she that she felt bad about what had happened and stuff,
Speaker 1: and so she gave me her business card that also
Speaker 1: had her personal cell phone number on it. Oh no,
Speaker 1: like she saw an opening, right, So, like she must
Speaker 1: have been attracted to you, saw you s and at
Speaker 1: the bottom and alone, and was like, this is my chance. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well that's what I thought. That was that for that night.
Speaker 1: And then a few days later I was like, since
Speaker 1: I didn't get the golf, maybe I could meet you
Speaker 1: and we could do a round of golf together. So
Speaker 1: a few days later we played a round of golf.
Speaker 1: Oh so you texted her and you guys actually went out. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I met her at her work. She had to hook
Speaker 1: up what's her name. I didn't even get the manager's name,
Speaker 1: did we. Her name is Kelly? Okay, okay, And so
Speaker 1: it was fun with Kelly, I'm guessing. Yeah, it was awesome.
Speaker 1: We got through the round of golf and she got
Speaker 1: busy and it was actually on one of her work
Speaker 1: days we met up, and so she had to get
Speaker 1: back to work. But yeah, since then, I kind of
Speaker 1: haven't really heard from her. So that's the story I see.
Speaker 1: So now we're going to be calling Kelly the mini
Speaker 1: golf manager. Yes, Kelly the mini golf manager. Okay, and
Speaker 1: have you texted her called at all? A little bit?
Speaker 1: But yeah, I haven't heard from her. Maybe it was
Speaker 1: a bad idea to meet her at her work, Like
Speaker 1: maybe I should have just been more forward and asked
Speaker 1: her out somewhere else. I don't know. Yeah, maybe she
Speaker 1: wasn't even thinking it was like a legit date or something.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, well, regardless, you can always bring
Speaker 1: the first girl back and make Kelly jealous. No, this
Speaker 1: is a win. Well, I guess the girls don't mind me.
Speaker 1: You don't want to get stood up twice and Kelly's golf. Okay, guys,
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and do our best to make sure
Speaker 1: that doesn't happen, do you. Yeah, we got your back. Okay,
Speaker 1: because we're playing a song, we're gonna come back. We're
Speaker 1: gonna call Kelly and try and get you a second date.
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Speaker 1: When you ask to speak to the manager nine nine
Speaker 1: hundred and ninety nine times out of a thousand, and
Speaker 1: that encounters not going to end in romance. For one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Chase, he's the one in a thousand wow,
Speaker 1: because he wanted to get a refund at the mini
Speaker 1: golf fund zone but ended up falling for the attractive
Speaker 1: manager who helped him. It's kind of cute, don't you think. Yeah,
Speaker 1: in like a weird, complaining type of way. But hey,
Speaker 1: he switched his too, and he got his refund, and
Speaker 1: he got a date, a date with Kelly. The two
Speaker 1: of them actually ended up playing a round of golf
Speaker 1: together a few days later. But all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: now she's ghosting. That sucks and we need to figure
Speaker 1: out why. I think he maybe, I think you maybe
Speaker 1: onto something. Honestly, that like meeting her on her day
Speaker 1: at work, was the bad call. I hope No. I
Speaker 1: just thought that'd be a nice way, you know. She
Speaker 1: kept saying she was felt bad I didn't get to
Speaker 1: play golf, so I was like, oh, we can play golf.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I get it, but most people don't want
Speaker 1: to have a first date at the place where they Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: it's like she made the opening, he took the opening,
Speaker 1: and then now maybe it wasn't as hot as it
Speaker 1: could have. Yeah, or maybe you're just a really bad golfer.
Speaker 1: Either way, hopefully we'll get an answer from her. I'm
Speaker 1: going to call her number right now and we'll see
Speaker 1: what she has to say. You ready, I'm ready? All right?
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello. Hey is this Kelly? Um? It
Speaker 1: is Hey Kelly. I was hoping I could play a
Speaker 1: round of mini golf for a party of four coming
Speaker 1: up soon for free. Wait for free? You do that? Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not for free? Do you have to pay your manager?
Speaker 1: I'd like to speak to your manager? All right? What
Speaker 1: if the four people who want to play work for
Speaker 1: a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Um,
Speaker 1: I am still sure that you're gonna have to pay
Speaker 1: the credit card? You just pull the dude, you know
Speaker 1: who we are? And she said no, So, Kelly, look,
Speaker 1: we're doing something called a secon and date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with us playing golf at your establishment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're working. But one of our listeners played golf at
Speaker 1: your establishment recently, and you actually played with him. You
Speaker 1: remember Chase I do. Okay, Okay, this is weird. Wait,
Speaker 1: I'm a little confused. Well, we're just sorry. Chase told
Speaker 1: us about the two of you guys hanging out, how
Speaker 1: you met and that whole story, and he felt like
Speaker 1: the two of you had a nice little connection when
Speaker 1: you played golf together. But afterwards he's a little bit
Speaker 1: confused about why you're not responding anymore. I mean, from
Speaker 1: his side of things, it felt like you were pretty
Speaker 1: into him. You know. He told us about how you
Speaker 1: approached him at the bar, like gave him your personal
Speaker 1: cell phone number and card, and me. Yeah, we heard
Speaker 1: his side of it. We'd like to know, like, what
Speaker 1: was your impression of Chase. You know, I don't think
Speaker 1: he really knew that the person that he was dealing with,
Speaker 1: the young kid he was dealing with, came back and said, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: this guy got stood up and wants his money back.
Speaker 1: So I felt bad for him. Oh that's right, Like
Speaker 1: right at the beginning there, when he asked for his
Speaker 1: money back after his day stood him up. The sixteen
Speaker 1: year old teenager that helped him, he went back and
Speaker 1: rat it on Chase, dude, come good drama for the teenager. Okay,
Speaker 1: I mean, I felt bad, so I gave him his
Speaker 1: money back, and I saw the humans too could get
Speaker 1: a drink, so I thought I'd get him a drink
Speaker 1: because that's like the worst feeling in the world that
Speaker 1: happens to me. You know, you guys have great customer service.
Speaker 1: Please cry again. I'm sure they don't get many returns
Speaker 1: or refunds. Yeah, but did you think he was cute?
Speaker 1: I mean while he was crying, he wasn't cry Was
Speaker 1: he crying and he didn't say that, No, he wasn't crying.
Speaker 1: He just seemed like just a nice guy who got
Speaker 1: wet down. Yeah, So, like, I mean, I gave him
Speaker 1: my card just because, like I like, I felt that
Speaker 1: far him and like, if you need anything else or
Speaker 1: was coming back again, maybe I could help him out
Speaker 1: with a date, you know. Okay, but he told us
Speaker 1: that you actually did end up playing around at golf
Speaker 1: with him, Well, yeah, because he ended up checht me
Speaker 1: the next day. And so I didn't know if I
Speaker 1: don't know, I didn't know if there was like a
Speaker 1: date or not, you know what I mean, I wasn't
Speaker 1: really sure. I didn't know if he just wanted to
Speaker 1: be friends. Okay, he didn't make it, but it sounds
Speaker 1: like you were maybe open to it if it was
Speaker 1: a date, right, Like are you single? I mean I
Speaker 1: am single, yes, but like, okay, I was open to it.
Speaker 1: I mean it was fine, It was nice at first,
Speaker 1: and then things got a little weird, so I just
Speaker 1: preferred not to answer him. Well, yeah, do you mind
Speaker 1: telling us what was weird? There's some things like you
Speaker 1: all have played mini golf. I'm assuming yeah, so there
Speaker 1: is a bridge. It was like probably on the fourth
Speaker 1: hold of the bridge, and he was like, do you
Speaker 1: ever like after work bring your dates back here and
Speaker 1: like fool around under the bridge? And I'm like, what,
Speaker 1: udok it up on the golf course? Get any AstroTurf
Speaker 1: rug lerns. I'm curious, have you? No, don't ask that
Speaker 1: as not you don't do that? Okay, Well I said no,
Speaker 1: I don't. I brushed it off, but like, right, that
Speaker 1: would just be him like trying to be flirty and failing.
Speaker 1: If it happened once, I would understand, but it did not.
Speaker 1: Like everything he encountered after that, He's like, do you
Speaker 1: ever make out with anybody behind the windmill or pool
Speaker 1: around like behind the clown head or like on the
Speaker 1: octopus or you know what I mean? Is it weird? Weird?
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, not everything's mini on the mini
Speaker 1: golf course. So what are you talking about? The little
Speaker 1: tiny pencils? Do those turn you on to Yeah? Totally? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean that's too bad and you weren't able to
Speaker 1: like be like, hey man, knock it off. I know
Speaker 1: what I did is I tended to get a text
Speaker 1: message because I was still on my work and said, oh,
Speaker 1: they haven't. I don't blame me for that one. I
Speaker 1: don't know if we know if we are sorry that
Speaker 1: that happened to you. And I'm also sorry to tell
Speaker 1: you that Chase is actually on the other line listening
Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you. Course Chase, Hey, Kelly, Hi, Okay,
Speaker 1: are you listening to what she said? Yeah? I was okay.
Speaker 1: Do you have some like self reflection on that one explanation?
Speaker 1: I mean I was just playing around. I guess, like yes,
Speaker 1: like I said, at the time, when we started playing,
Speaker 1: I didn't really know much about Kelly except for she
Speaker 1: worked at a mini golf play. So that's what you asked.
Speaker 1: You can think of anything else to ask her other
Speaker 1: than you hooked up behind that things get to know
Speaker 1: you question is like, you know what hobbies do you like?
Speaker 1: Brother and sister? Well, hooking up on a golf course
Speaker 1: could be a hobby for some. I guess I think
Speaker 1: you owe her apology, Chase, You're probably right. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I me this whole time, like I now that I've
Speaker 1: heard your side and I explained my side of the story,
Speaker 1: just kind of this weird thing like is it a date?
Speaker 1: Is it not a date? So yeah, I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: you ever make out behind the clown yet? Like why
Speaker 1: are you saying it again? And it's very awkward. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm I don't think I'm the only
Speaker 1: one who's ever walked past the bridge at a mini
Speaker 1: golf places and be like, hey, if I had to
Speaker 1: hide somewhere on a mini golf course to do a
Speaker 1: little frisky business, that is called family fun sent I
Speaker 1: think I get where he's coming from. Now he's trying
Speaker 1: to be funny and honest. I think, Kelly, I mean,
Speaker 1: you liked him before he did all that weird questioning.
Speaker 1: I felt sorry for him. I'm not really quite sure
Speaker 1: that I actually liked him. Well, do you feel sorry
Speaker 1: enough for him to give him one more chance at
Speaker 1: another date, and maybe after that second date, you'll start
Speaker 1: to like him and we would pay for it. I'm
Speaker 1: going to say that I'm sorry, but I do not
Speaker 1: want to go on a second date, even if it's
Speaker 1: an after hours date at the mini golf course. Can
Speaker 1: show him what really happens behind the giant shoe. You
Speaker 1: guys saying that makes my skin crawling. Do people really
Speaker 1: want to hook up on a mini golf course? Well, me,
Speaker 1: I think about that sometimes they So it sounding like
Speaker 1: a no from from Kelly there. What it sounds like, Chase,
Speaker 1: You found yourself a new mini golf partner in jeff Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: You and I can go, or we might feel bad
Speaker 1: enough for you to send you out on a pity
Speaker 1: date with Alexis. You know she's done stuff on mini
Speaker 1: golf before. Anything but the Clown Anything Broke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning,