WEBVTT - Miss Unfiltered  With Kaitlyn Bristowe

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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for doing this. I really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 3>Have we ever met, I've only well, I went to

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<v Speaker 3>one of the Dancing with the Stars shows when you

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<v Speaker 3>were there, but we never like officially met.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was there for two weeks. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I loved watching you though, and I love Pasha so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I had known you before because then I

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<v Speaker 1>could have gotten some tips on what to do.

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<v Speaker 3>I just would have said, don't injure yourself. That was

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<v Speaker 3>like my main focus was to stop getting injured all

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<v Speaker 3>the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you get injured? I mean you won? So I

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<v Speaker 2>worth the injuries or no?

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<v Speaker 3>Worth the injuries? Yes, but like I'm still suffering years

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<v Speaker 3>later from cracked ribs and like pulling a muscle that

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<v Speaker 3>was under my ribs and my tendonitis will fly every

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<v Speaker 3>time I wear heels now I'm still but I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll do it again.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so crazy, And those are things they do

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<v Speaker 1>not tell you when they're like you should sign on

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<v Speaker 1>and like you can do as much training as you want,

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<v Speaker 1>as little training as you want, you know, whatever makes

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<v Speaker 1>you comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's crazy because one of my girlfriends had won

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<v Speaker 3>it from the season before, and I was like, why

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<v Speaker 3>did you not prepare me? And she was like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think people should prepare them because then they won't

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<v Speaker 3>do it. Because the amount she just sent me like

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<v Speaker 3>a foot massage bath thing that I just like would

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<v Speaker 3>soak my feet in. But she's like, it's so worth it,

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<v Speaker 3>but like it would be scary to know how much

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<v Speaker 3>work and like injury you go through to get to

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<v Speaker 3>the end, Like it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>To get to the end.

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<v Speaker 1>I was voted off first, and I had pulled out

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<v Speaker 1>my shoulder already and no one knew.

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<v Speaker 2>God, oh my god. It was like.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know you were voted out first.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it was a double elimination, like no one was

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<v Speaker 1>eliminated the first week, second week double elimination.

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<v Speaker 2>That boom, I know. And I was having so much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah it is. I mean, it's so nice when you

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<v Speaker 3>have like a good partner and you guys have like

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<v Speaker 3>a good, good chemistry and a good bond, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>the live tapings are so much fun. I'm like so

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<v Speaker 3>jealous because mine was during COVID, so we didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>a live audience, and I'm like what does that feel like?

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<v Speaker 3>The like energy in the room from the audience.

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<v Speaker 2>Sister, I would have loved that live audience. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>There is something about the performance and having people there

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<v Speaker 1>cheering you on. But it was, oh my gosh, it

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<v Speaker 1>was so scary. Yeah, yeah, I think I would have

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<v Speaker 1>been Did the nerves ever go away? Or you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have nerves?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I definitely had nerves. I just I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I would have had ten times more nerves if there

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<v Speaker 3>was a crowd and they're watching, or like if my

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<v Speaker 3>friends and family could be in there watching. But for

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<v Speaker 3>some reason, knowing that, like however many are watching at home,

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<v Speaker 3>like didn't phase me as much. I'm like, I got

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<v Speaker 3>some people right there like watching. But I do think

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<v Speaker 3>I perform better under pressure, and like the more nervous

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<v Speaker 3>I get, the better I perform because I grew up dancing.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm like, it felt like I felt like something

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<v Speaker 3>was missing with.

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<v Speaker 2>The energy, right, I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that by the way I got to say

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<v Speaker 1>at being in the entertainment industry and being an actress

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<v Speaker 1>and having no training, and I think it's very unfair

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<v Speaker 1>the people have different levels.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I agree, you know what, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Like professional dancers, athletes. It's just a different mindset. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>especially like Olympians.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like uh okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, and I also Bachelor's Bachelorettes. You guys are all

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<v Speaker 1>on fire.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what.

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<v Speaker 3>There's the Bachelor Nation, like fans are really loyal. I

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<v Speaker 3>will say that I definitely feel like well with my

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<v Speaker 3>dance background, training like that had to have helped me

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<v Speaker 3>in some capac right. And then I feel like this

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<v Speaker 3>season there's so many TikTok dancers and like the two

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<v Speaker 3>girls from the Mormons show, I feel like all people

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<v Speaker 3>from you talk and dance better than anyone I've ever met.

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<v Speaker 2>What is that?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. They're all talented and good looking and

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<v Speaker 3>like nice. It's bizarre.

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<v Speaker 2>They look like they have perfect lives, don't.

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<v Speaker 3>They perfect lives of the Mormon wives?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, And they're all virgins. Maybe that's something.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's the glow. They're all virgins. They got to

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<v Speaker 1>get it out somehow. Yeah, exactly, Oh my gosh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is true. Yeah, this season, I don't know. I'm there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of Are there any like big actors like

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<v Speaker 1>Academy Award?

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<v Speaker 3>When do they announce? I think they announced the cast

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<v Speaker 3>tomorrow morning. Yep, Oh, that's exciting. Yeah, because all I

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<v Speaker 3>know right now is Alex Earl, the Two Right Mormon Wives.

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<v Speaker 3>And there's one actor guy that I saw. Think he's

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<v Speaker 3>an actor, but I don't remember his name.

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<v Speaker 2>Zach Efron's brother Dylan Efron's on it right or is

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<v Speaker 2>he alleged?

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<v Speaker 3>Alleged? But I feel like that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, they keep talking about Corey Feldman. Oh really, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to see that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would see that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm there for that.

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<v Speaker 3>I for the cast announcement.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Tony. Is that his name? The singer?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, maybe that's who I saw? Is he blonde?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably hatcheting his name, but yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know how to say his name either. But

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I always get so excited for the

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<v Speaker 3>cast announcement because I've been watching the show since I

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<v Speaker 3>was oh gosh, since it came on with my mom

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<v Speaker 3>and so like it was so surreal being on it,

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<v Speaker 3>but then also like just still watching now knowing behind

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<v Speaker 3>the scenes, I've root for everybody so much harder because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I know how hard you're working.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's the thing. The audience will never know how

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<v Speaker 1>crazy it is. It's intense. Are you still in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with Ardam?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I just talked to him. How long, maybe like a

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<v Speaker 3>couple months ago. I feel like we just you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like when I was on the show, it was like

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<v Speaker 3>we couldn't really bond because nobody could hang out outside

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<v Speaker 3>of the season because of COVID's because if you had COVID,

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<v Speaker 3>you were out of the competition. Oh my god. So

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like me and Ardam's relationship was like so

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<v Speaker 3>strictly dance and then we went on tour together and

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<v Speaker 3>we finally got to like build a friendship. So then

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<v Speaker 3>that was so nice. And so yeah, we we just

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<v Speaker 3>every once in a while just kind of check in,

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<v Speaker 3>how's it going.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so crazy because I felt like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't on it that long obviously, but like Pasha

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<v Speaker 1>became my like everything. Yeah, it was like we were

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship and not in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>I totally get that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm like, does everyone feel that way? Like, and

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<v Speaker 1>then once you're off, like you keep in touch, like

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<v Speaker 1>we're still friends. I'm still friends with Pasha and Danielle.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean it's like all of a sudden, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, wait, where's the late night text?

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<v Speaker 2>Like not in a weird way, but like no, same,

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<v Speaker 2>I totally get like.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was fine not like dating during that time,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you were so yeah, he like replaced that everything

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<v Speaker 1>I had, like professional, I had someone there that was

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<v Speaker 1>caring for me, nurturing.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like I had it all. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need sad.

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<v Speaker 3>They really do take on a lot as the pros, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>they really do take on a lot mentally, professionally, like

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<v Speaker 3>emotionally with because by the end, like Hardam would get

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<v Speaker 3>so mad at me, He's like, you can't cry every

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<v Speaker 3>time we talk. This was so tired, and I was

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<v Speaker 3>like I was like ready to be done with him

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<v Speaker 3>by the end. And then after like two days, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I was just about to ask where

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<v Speaker 2>your mirror ball is?

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<v Speaker 1>But it's right behind you always, always, always, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Your finger goes right up to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, I'm very proud of that thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I binge watched are you my first? Did I did?

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<v Speaker 3>What did you think?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's so good weight. So this is

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<v Speaker 2>the tough thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of old schools, so I really enjoy Like

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<v Speaker 1>back when We used to wait a week to see

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<v Speaker 1>like what would happened, and now everything on streamers. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's on Hulu. Everything's released. Came out on August eighteenth,

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<v Speaker 1>so I could just watch the whole season, which I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what I like better, the Weight or just

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<v Speaker 1>being like I can't stop watching it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking the same thing because when they said

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<v Speaker 3>all ten episodes were coming out, I was like, am

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<v Speaker 3>I sad about that? Or am I excited about that?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I do as well love the Weight so hate

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<v Speaker 3>the Weight. It is like a love hate relationship, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I love Binginga's show. But I was like, I

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<v Speaker 3>wish we would have put out two and then waited

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<v Speaker 3>a bit and then put out like the other seven

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<v Speaker 3>and then done the like finale and then have done

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<v Speaker 3>a reunion or something. But I never know the behind

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<v Speaker 3>the scenes of the whys. I'm just like, just tell

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<v Speaker 3>me where to go and I'll be there and I'll

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<v Speaker 3>do my job really well. But like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>how these the business minds think behind the scenes.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there are no business minds anymore. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>creatives are taking over. So Caitlin brist I think you

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<v Speaker 1>could run a network.

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<v Speaker 2>You should run.

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<v Speaker 1>Hulu, because I think that's the way it should be done.

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<v Speaker 1>You get just enough and then you're like, sorry, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to wait a beat? Yeah, because I mean not

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<v Speaker 1>wait a long beat, like waiting for Wednesday to come out.

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<v Speaker 2>Season two for like what three four years? Didn't do

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<v Speaker 2>it for me?

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<v Speaker 3>That's fair. You know what season I'm waiting for? What

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<v Speaker 3>is this show called? Did you get into Severance?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I hear. It's fabulous.

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<v Speaker 3>It's I didn't think I would get into it. I

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<v Speaker 3>watched the first four episodes and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think this is for me. And then on episode

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<v Speaker 3>five it was when I was like, I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I would have keep trying, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I was in. And now the fact that they waited

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<v Speaker 3>like three years in between season one and two, and

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<v Speaker 3>then I got to Binge season one and two, and

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<v Speaker 3>now I'm waiting for season three and I'm like very

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<v Speaker 3>excited about it. But yeah, I can't decide if I

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<v Speaker 3>like the big people or the way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I did start Severance, but I only did two.

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<v Speaker 2>Episodes, so I got to stick it out to number five.

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<v Speaker 3>Try again, Yeah, try again, because that's it. First few episodes,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, not the same for me, but I

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<v Speaker 3>really battled through.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, So are you the first? You filmed

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<v Speaker 1>in Costa Rica?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, which is so funny because we were like calling

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<v Speaker 3>it an island and it's not, but we're just going

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<v Speaker 3>with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait it's not. What is it a jungle?

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<v Speaker 3>I think?

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<v Speaker 2>So it looked like an island. Google.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know, it looked like an island, but we

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<v Speaker 3>wanted it. I think we originally really wanted the show

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<v Speaker 3>to be like Virgin Island because it's from the producers

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<v Speaker 3>of Love Island, but then they went with the name

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<v Speaker 3>are You My First? But yeah, it was. It was

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<v Speaker 3>just so fun to be there and be a part

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<v Speaker 3>of that show because you know, like usually people on

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<v Speaker 3>The Bachelor or The Bachelorette or these other dating shows,

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<v Speaker 3>like they're all very advanced in their dating life. They're like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, on their third love stories or they've like

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<v Speaker 3>fully made out before. But these people are all on

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<v Speaker 3>their first for like some people are having their first kiss,

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<v Speaker 3>some people were having their first date. It's their first

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<v Speaker 3>time on TV, and so everything about it was just

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<v Speaker 3>so like pure and awkward and dramatic and sweet. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like everything mixed into one that you'd want in a

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<v Speaker 3>dating show.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, I found that we are we allowed to say it,

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<v Speaker 1>but are Michael and Rachel still together?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I'm allowed to say, because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>still waiting to hear if we're going to do a reunion?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh, I'm also I'm having Rachel on my podcast

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<v Speaker 3>I think in like three days.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you'll let me know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll let you know. I've heard mixed things, and I've

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<v Speaker 3>also I've just heard mixed things in general about the cast,

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<v Speaker 3>like I know some of them are mad at each other,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, what is happening? I need all the tea,

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm going to get it, hopefully for my podcast,

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<v Speaker 3>and then I'll tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, So I did a dating show where I hosted

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<v Speaker 1>as well, and it tell me about the experience. How

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<v Speaker 1>long were you actually there in Costa Rica?

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<v Speaker 3>It was about six weeks?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Yeah? And were you always on call?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Because what would happen and they'd be like, hurry, get

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<v Speaker 1>down here, something's happening exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, always on call, especially like Colton, and I really

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to make sure that the cast knew that we

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<v Speaker 3>were also like there for them as tours and friends,

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<v Speaker 3>and we're not just like these hosts that like are

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<v Speaker 3>having a producer edit, you know, like we're not in

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<v Speaker 3>with the We're really genuinely there for them and helping

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<v Speaker 3>them guide them along this journey. So we were like

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<v Speaker 3>telling them you can call us in the middle of

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<v Speaker 3>the night. I'll show up with like no glamor on

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<v Speaker 3>in front of the camera. I don't care, Like, whatever

0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:45.840
<v Speaker 3>you need, We're here for you. But so there's that

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<v Speaker 3>only happened once where Rachel pulled me aside to have

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<v Speaker 3>a conversation, but we were also just always on call

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<v Speaker 3>because as you know, things can always change and happen,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like we're filming seventeen hours of the day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's literally like in our world there's like turnaround

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<v Speaker 1>times where you have to like have time to go

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<v Speaker 1>home and go to sleep, and that does not exist

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<v Speaker 1>when you're filming a show.

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<v Speaker 2>Like this, a dating competition. It's like twenty four to seven.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it really is. I mean we I we had

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<v Speaker 3>it pretty easy, I will say, because I mean we

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<v Speaker 3>we worked so hard, but I'm like, this is a

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<v Speaker 3>dream job because we got I think because I'd been

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<v Speaker 3>on the other end of reality TV where I've been

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<v Speaker 3>a contestant, and I know how stressful that is. Like

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<v Speaker 3>the show is not about me and Colton, It's about

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<v Speaker 3>the virgins. So we're like we get to come in

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<v Speaker 3>and just like say what we need to say and

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<v Speaker 3>be there for them. But then we get to go

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<v Speaker 3>like eat fish tacos and hang out on the beach

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<v Speaker 3>and wait for the next round of you know, glam

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<v Speaker 3>and wardrobe and being on camera. But it was like

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<v Speaker 3>really really fun. It was a really fun experience compared

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<v Speaker 3>to being a contestant.

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<v Speaker 2>I imagine. So how hot was it?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? It was. It was dream storm season as well,

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<v Speaker 3>so it was like so human And then we had

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<v Speaker 3>to hold so many times for rain and storms, and

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<v Speaker 3>it was like like flooding where the crew would go

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<v Speaker 3>to eat and set up flood almost every day and

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<v Speaker 3>we'd have to like wait it out and it was

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<v Speaker 3>like one of the camera crew tents and cameras. Luckily

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<v Speaker 3>nobody got hurt, but they got struck by lightning and

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<v Speaker 3>so the cameras were all down for like, oh my god, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it was crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I just kept focusing in on your hair and makeup

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<v Speaker 1>because having been on that side of it hosting, like

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't keep my hair. It was like frizzing, but

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<v Speaker 1>your hair looked immaculate the whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, you pissed at you know, every we

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<v Speaker 3>would like do our or what we needed to do,

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<v Speaker 3>and then I'd run into a room with ac and

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<v Speaker 3>I'd have all fans like blowing on me, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was dripping like down my chest, in my back like

0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:53.640
<v Speaker 3>I had butt sweat the whole time. I usually look

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<v Speaker 3>like a drown rat in heat, like I'm I don't

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<v Speaker 3>look cute. I always said, like if I went on

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<v Speaker 3>Bachelor in Paradise, people will be like ough, like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not cute in the heat, and I was just I

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<v Speaker 3>would always have people with fans near me or doing

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<v Speaker 3>something to keep me looking. But my glam makeup artists

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<v Speaker 3>and hair artists did such a good job with helping

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<v Speaker 3>me stay dry.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you looked great, Hey you. I hope there's a

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<v Speaker 1>season two. I'm very excited.

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<v Speaker 3>I really hope so too. I feel like it would

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<v Speaker 3>be I mean, we have Colton and I have a

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<v Speaker 3>virgin sliding into our dms being like take us for

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<v Speaker 3>season two, and it's just so funny because I think

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<v Speaker 3>they really saw that. You know, there's jokes to be made.

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<v Speaker 3>There's they're virgins and we're making virgin puns and we're

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<v Speaker 3>narrating a funny show. But it's also like really sweet

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<v Speaker 3>and people are on this self discovery journey where like

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<v Speaker 3>from them from the beginning to them at the end

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<v Speaker 3>are a complete different person And I love that part

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<v Speaker 3>of it. And so for season two, I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so into that, as long as we have a lie

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<v Speaker 3>detector test at the beginning, because how do you vet

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<v Speaker 3>for if they are virgins or not?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know, that's right, lie detector test.

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<v Speaker 3>You're right, I should be running Hulu. Absolutely, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think that would be really funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, did you think it was fair that

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<v Speaker 1>a bachelor was on?

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<v Speaker 3>I always I actually wonder if that helped or hurt

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<v Speaker 3>him because he came in, like I feel like everybody

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<v Speaker 3>almost looked up to him as a big brother, like

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<v Speaker 3>they're like, oh, he's done this before, he's a bit older.

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<v Speaker 3>He's telling us like, well, this might happen, and this

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<v Speaker 3>might happen at this time, Like everyone kind of looked

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<v Speaker 3>up to him instead of like he didn't feel like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, one of them. He felt a little more experienced,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think they almost looked up to him like

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<v Speaker 3>a big brother instead of a romantic connection.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta be honest, I didn't find anything sexy about him.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that bad to say?

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's I love on, I will drink of water,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful eyes, kind of kind of funny, said all the

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<v Speaker 1>right things, and I just felt like, no, well, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Sexuality because I feel like there's a lot of like

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<v Speaker 3>destigmatizing virgins in this where I'm like, Rachel is sexy,

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<v Speaker 3>like there are sex absolutely, we're no, And Mike really does,

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<v Speaker 3>I think because I had hosted his season of that

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<v Speaker 3>Bachelorette season as well, so I feel like I also

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<v Speaker 3>get like brother vibes from him because I was I

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<v Speaker 3>felt like I was looking out for him on Katie's season.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, maybe he just like needs to put out

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<v Speaker 3>a little more of a sex appeal vibe. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I hear you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, or maybe he's just say sexual he doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>You never know. There's a I'm telling you this self

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<v Speaker 3>discovery journey from that show. I we need a reunion

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<v Speaker 3>for a lot of reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was fascinating when they were like, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a cult, but is it a cult? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so fucking cool.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, well I again, like you come into a reality.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh and I feel like if you watch Bachelor Bachelorette,

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<v Speaker 3>the virginity talk is always like you save it for

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<v Speaker 3>a one on one date and it's this big announcement

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<v Speaker 3>and everybody's shocked and it changes like somebody's perspective and

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<v Speaker 3>they think, oh, this is a really big responsibility. Am

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<v Speaker 3>I going to be there first? Are they going to

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<v Speaker 3>like fall in love with me? Because they've never done

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<v Speaker 3>it before? Like this is a really big thing where

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<v Speaker 3>everybody came into are you my first? On the same

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<v Speaker 3>like same common ground, you know, right, Like they like

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<v Speaker 3>almost did feel like this immediate bond with one another

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<v Speaker 3>that they're like, yeah, we're we're all virgins.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that they like Gang's not like the Spock.

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<v Speaker 3>Super virgin, But yees.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you still believe in love?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Great question? My immediate response wanted to be no,

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<v Speaker 3>I understand that. I just I feel like so many

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<v Speaker 3>of people I mean, so many people I know have

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<v Speaker 3>been through heartbreak, but the people I surround myself with

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<v Speaker 3>I look around. I was just actually with some of

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<v Speaker 3>my best friends yesterday and they all have such healthy

0:19:11.520 --> 0:19:13.359
<v Speaker 3>versions of love that I get to look up to.

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<v Speaker 3>And I actually thought about it yesterday watching my best

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<v Speaker 3>friend Kat and her husband Worth, and they have two kids,

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<v Speaker 3>and they just they do it with so much ease,

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<v Speaker 3>but they're also very honest about their tough times. I

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<v Speaker 3>always think about being from a small town where I

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<v Speaker 3>grew up. I feel like I had the smallest circle.

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<v Speaker 3>I had really great parents. Even though my parents divorced,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like they still had healthy love and they

0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:41.600
<v Speaker 3>gave healthy love. And as much as the divorce still

0:19:41.600 --> 0:19:44.400
<v Speaker 3>affected me, like I just feel lucky for how I

0:19:44.480 --> 0:19:49.080
<v Speaker 3>was raised. And then moving to you know, the La

0:19:49.200 --> 0:19:51.720
<v Speaker 3>to be on the Bachelor and then the Bachelorette, and

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<v Speaker 3>my bubble was a bit burst with not trusting people,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I went in with so much trust, and I

0:19:59.200 --> 0:20:02.360
<v Speaker 3>went in just thinking like producers would never screw me over.

0:20:02.480 --> 0:20:04.600
<v Speaker 3>They're not just trying to make TV. They really want

0:20:04.640 --> 0:20:07.600
<v Speaker 3>me to find love. Like I was so nice everything

0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:09.879
<v Speaker 3>that I feel like my bubble got burst, and then

0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:12.320
<v Speaker 3>I got engaged, and then that engagement didn't work out,

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<v Speaker 3>and then I feel like he kind of bamboozled me.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the second engagement, I was like, wait, that

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<v Speaker 3>is the complete different person than who I thought I met,

0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:23.280
<v Speaker 3>And then I got so jaded. But again, I've just

0:20:23.359 --> 0:20:25.920
<v Speaker 3>found such a good core group of friends and people

0:20:25.920 --> 0:20:28.399
<v Speaker 3>that I surround myself with. And all of my best

0:20:28.440 --> 0:20:31.320
<v Speaker 3>friends are married with kids, and I look up to

0:20:31.359 --> 0:20:34.520
<v Speaker 3>them so much because they do make me believe in love.

0:20:34.720 --> 0:20:37.920
<v Speaker 3>And I just feel like my parents found their healthiest

0:20:37.960 --> 0:20:40.879
<v Speaker 3>love in their remarriages when they were like in their fifties,

0:20:41.320 --> 0:20:43.840
<v Speaker 3>and I just feel like it's never it's never too late.

0:20:44.000 --> 0:20:45.800
<v Speaker 3>It's just I am a bit jaded because I have

0:20:45.920 --> 0:20:46.600
<v Speaker 3>trust issues.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand. How old were you when your parents got divorced.

0:20:51.080 --> 0:20:55.159
<v Speaker 3>I was eight almost eighteen, so okay a bit later.

0:20:55.400 --> 0:20:59.639
<v Speaker 3>And they always like we had I always tell people this,

0:20:59.680 --> 0:21:03.199
<v Speaker 3>We had feelings meetings growing up as families, so like

0:21:03.240 --> 0:21:05.320
<v Speaker 3>if my parents got in an argument, we would like

0:21:05.400 --> 0:21:07.119
<v Speaker 3>all sit down as a family and talk about our

0:21:07.119 --> 0:21:09.600
<v Speaker 3>feelings and why it happened and like what they could

0:21:09.600 --> 0:21:12.120
<v Speaker 3>have done better. Like we were really open about all

0:21:12.160 --> 0:21:14.160
<v Speaker 3>things in our family, which I think helped a lot.

0:21:15.240 --> 0:21:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Same I'm yeah, growing up, it was not like that

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<v Speaker 1>in my family, so I made a conscious effort to

0:21:20.720 --> 0:21:24.200
<v Speaker 1>do that with my kids. Yes, I think perhaps I've

0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:27.240
<v Speaker 1>told them too much or done too many feelings, but

0:21:28.560 --> 0:21:30.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's possible, I said, no one ever.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Yeah, I think that's really important. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I would want to be the same way if I

0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:36.760
<v Speaker 3>ever have children, I would want to be the same

0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:39.399
<v Speaker 3>way because I think that really allows them to feel

0:21:39.440 --> 0:21:42.760
<v Speaker 3>safe as well to talk about feelings. And like, I've

0:21:42.800 --> 0:21:46.920
<v Speaker 3>always felt like such an open book with I mean strangers,

0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:49.240
<v Speaker 3>all all open up to them. And when I went

0:21:49.280 --> 0:21:54.720
<v Speaker 3>on TV, I got absolutely destroyed online because I didn't

0:21:54.800 --> 0:21:58.720
<v Speaker 3>understand that not everybody is so open about every detail

0:21:58.760 --> 0:22:01.840
<v Speaker 3>in their life. And I got really like slutshamed for

0:22:02.000 --> 0:22:05.719
<v Speaker 3>talking about sex. And I was like, wait, what, Because

0:22:05.760 --> 0:22:07.520
<v Speaker 3>I've just always been very open.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's what I love about you, and I

0:22:12.680 --> 0:22:14.600
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm like that too.

0:22:15.280 --> 0:22:19.600
<v Speaker 2>But do you feel like you're very polarizing? Yes?

0:22:19.920 --> 0:22:22.560
<v Speaker 3>I really, which is just so funny because I would

0:22:22.600 --> 0:22:24.640
<v Speaker 3>have never in my life thought that until I went

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<v Speaker 3>on TV.

0:22:25.600 --> 0:22:28.040
<v Speaker 1>And that's funny it's the word we grow up thinking

0:22:28.200 --> 0:22:31.639
<v Speaker 1>has a negative connotation, except when it's said about you.

0:22:31.640 --> 0:22:34.480
<v Speaker 3>You're like, well, I was like, I guess I could

0:22:34.480 --> 0:22:38.720
<v Speaker 3>see that. I'm also a Gemini, So like, yes, are.

0:22:38.560 --> 0:22:40.280
<v Speaker 2>You a Gemini? When's your birthday?

0:22:40.640 --> 0:22:41.520
<v Speaker 3>June nineteenth?

0:22:41.960 --> 0:22:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, my daughter's June ninth.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Gemini, And but a lot of cancer in my chart.

0:22:47.680 --> 0:22:51.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm a very sensitive, spicy lady.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good balance.

0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:55.000
<v Speaker 3>It's a good balance. It's a lot, but it's good.

0:22:56.160 --> 0:22:56.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:22:56.400 --> 0:22:59.919
<v Speaker 1>I mean I think you being authentic just paved the

0:23:00.080 --> 0:23:01.040
<v Speaker 1>way for everybody.

0:23:01.080 --> 0:23:02.880
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you changed reality TV.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

0:23:04.200 --> 0:23:06.480
<v Speaker 2>I think so.

0:23:05.720 --> 0:23:07.960
<v Speaker 3>That's like one of the nicest things anyone could ever

0:23:08.000 --> 0:23:10.960
<v Speaker 3>say to me, just because I have realized from going

0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:14.720
<v Speaker 3>on reality television how much I crave authenticity in people,

0:23:15.160 --> 0:23:18.919
<v Speaker 3>and how again I had never surrounded myself with anyone

0:23:18.960 --> 0:23:22.080
<v Speaker 3>other than my little Canadian small town friends. So going

0:23:22.080 --> 0:23:25.080
<v Speaker 3>into the big city of LA and getting into that

0:23:25.160 --> 0:23:28.320
<v Speaker 3>world of TV and I was like, oh my gosh,

0:23:28.920 --> 0:23:31.359
<v Speaker 3>it like broke my spirit a little bit to see

0:23:31.359 --> 0:23:33.000
<v Speaker 3>how many fake people there were.

0:23:33.800 --> 0:23:35.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, you're the filly that can never be broken.

0:23:36.040 --> 0:23:38.119
<v Speaker 2>Be proud of that. I will think that's why you

0:23:38.160 --> 0:23:39.280
<v Speaker 2>still have a beam of light.

0:23:40.000 --> 0:23:44.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh thank god. I remember Reagan Fox talking about how

0:23:44.840 --> 0:23:48.160
<v Speaker 3>people took away her sparkle and I was like, I

0:23:48.240 --> 0:23:50.879
<v Speaker 3>hate that for her. I don't want anybody to use

0:23:50.880 --> 0:23:52.159
<v Speaker 3>their little sparkle that they have.

0:23:52.920 --> 0:23:57.280
<v Speaker 2>I know it happens, though, it of course does.

0:23:57.440 --> 0:23:59.520
<v Speaker 3>I mean I can see why. And the Internet is

0:23:59.560 --> 0:24:02.680
<v Speaker 3>even worse. It's the worst it's ever been with bullying.

0:24:02.760 --> 0:24:04.080
<v Speaker 3>And it's awful out there.

0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:07.880
<v Speaker 2>It's crazy. Where in Canada are you from exactly?

0:24:08.320 --> 0:24:11.200
<v Speaker 3>So, it's called La Duke. It's just outside of Edmonton

0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:15.359
<v Speaker 3>and Alberta. And then I moved to Vancouver. I had

0:24:15.400 --> 0:24:17.360
<v Speaker 3>a dance scholarship, so I got to go to Vancouver

0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:19.960
<v Speaker 3>and dance out there. I've met a few kitty Canadians.

0:24:20.000 --> 0:24:21.400
<v Speaker 3>I will say that.

0:24:21.400 --> 0:24:22.439
<v Speaker 2>It's a good bunch out there.

0:24:22.520 --> 0:24:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Are you on dating apps?

0:24:34.320 --> 0:24:38.600
<v Speaker 3>I've never been on a dating app, and I feel

0:24:38.640 --> 0:24:41.160
<v Speaker 3>like I really did miss out on a little era

0:24:41.359 --> 0:24:45.320
<v Speaker 3>there because I one of my best friends is married

0:24:45.359 --> 0:24:48.880
<v Speaker 3>to her first Tinder swipe. Really yeah, and that's how

0:24:48.920 --> 0:24:52.120
<v Speaker 3>my mom and my stepdad met was on well they

0:24:52.160 --> 0:24:54.600
<v Speaker 3>will never admit this, but it was on seniors dot com.

0:24:54.600 --> 0:24:57.119
<v Speaker 3>Because if you were like over fifty, it's considered like

0:24:57.200 --> 0:24:59.240
<v Speaker 3>seniors dot com and that's where they met.

0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:03.760
<v Speaker 1>So id seniors dot com. Because I'm fifty two, I

0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:05.480
<v Speaker 1>don't I can't fight.

0:25:05.680 --> 0:25:06.119
<v Speaker 2>I have to go.

0:25:06.840 --> 0:25:11.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, look amazing. I honestly, I just turned forty and

0:25:11.440 --> 0:25:13.879
<v Speaker 3>I am like not phased at all about that. I

0:25:13.920 --> 0:25:16.879
<v Speaker 3>feel like forties are so exciting, and then I feel

0:25:16.880 --> 0:25:19.399
<v Speaker 3>like everybody. I think it's because we grew up with

0:25:19.440 --> 0:25:22.879
<v Speaker 3>a generation where our parents at fifty they just didn't

0:25:22.880 --> 0:25:25.840
<v Speaker 3>seem they seemed older than that, you know, so now

0:25:25.880 --> 0:25:28.600
<v Speaker 3>we realize, oh my gosh, it's all about our energy,

0:25:28.680 --> 0:25:32.560
<v Speaker 3>our like spirit and how we feel rather than ages.

0:25:32.800 --> 0:25:36.080
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I never still hurt a little bit.

0:25:37.720 --> 0:25:40.560
<v Speaker 3>I will always understand that. I've I totally talked myself

0:25:40.560 --> 0:25:42.679
<v Speaker 3>into loving forty before I was forty. So then I

0:25:42.680 --> 0:25:43.960
<v Speaker 3>got there and I was like, yes, I love it.

0:25:43.960 --> 0:25:47.080
<v Speaker 3>I've already convinced myself. But yeah, I've never I never

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:49.080
<v Speaker 3>got to do the dating OUTSI I've just watched friends

0:25:49.119 --> 0:25:51.480
<v Speaker 3>do it and it always seems so fun. But they

0:25:51.480 --> 0:25:52.840
<v Speaker 3>scare me. They scare me a little bit.

0:25:53.400 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 2>They're terrifying.

0:25:54.359 --> 0:25:57.399
<v Speaker 1>And I was married for eighteen years, together for twenty

0:25:57.520 --> 0:26:00.439
<v Speaker 1>so I missed that as well. I would be with

0:26:00.440 --> 0:26:02.520
<v Speaker 1>my friends and be like, let me swipe for you.

0:26:02.600 --> 0:26:04.480
<v Speaker 2>This is so fun. I'm never going to get to

0:26:04.520 --> 0:26:04.840
<v Speaker 2>do this.

0:26:05.480 --> 0:26:08.320
<v Speaker 1>And now I'm single again at fifty two with five kids,

0:26:08.359 --> 0:26:08.840
<v Speaker 1>and I'm.

0:26:08.640 --> 0:26:11.160
<v Speaker 3>Like, oh, it's in your stock Holm.

0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:13.120
<v Speaker 2>What's that senior Stockholm.

0:26:13.880 --> 0:26:15.720
<v Speaker 3>I feel like there's some like genuine people on there.

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:17.399
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I feel like I want someone younger

0:26:17.440 --> 0:26:17.960
<v Speaker 2>this time.

0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:21.280
<v Speaker 3>Ah fair, Yeah, I feel like I want somebody older

0:26:21.320 --> 0:26:21.680
<v Speaker 3>this time.

0:26:24.000 --> 0:26:25.840
<v Speaker 2>How old would be the oldest you would date?

0:26:28.800 --> 0:26:35.320
<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, probably like late forties, I would say, okay, yeah,

0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:38.640
<v Speaker 3>Like I don't mind a ten year age gap. That

0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:40.480
<v Speaker 3>doesn't That doesn't scare me.

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:44.639
<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing that worries me. This is this is

0:26:44.680 --> 0:26:46.000
<v Speaker 1>just a personal thing. But I want to see if

0:26:46.000 --> 0:26:51.520
<v Speaker 1>you relate to this. I feel like a woman that's

0:26:51.560 --> 0:26:56.080
<v Speaker 1>forty or a woman that's fifty and going into wanting

0:26:56.080 --> 0:27:00.840
<v Speaker 1>a new relationship is fine, but never been that's fine.

0:27:01.080 --> 0:27:04.600
<v Speaker 1>But like if a man is forty plus and has

0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:07.600
<v Speaker 1>never been married, I feel like it's a little bit

0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:09.760
<v Speaker 1>of a different thing. And I don't know why it's

0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:13.480
<v Speaker 1>like that. I don't but it's concerning and I don't

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:14.159
<v Speaker 1>know why.

0:27:14.520 --> 0:27:17.720
<v Speaker 3>And I find like my dream is a what do

0:27:17.760 --> 0:27:20.679
<v Speaker 3>they call him? A divorce? Like a divorce a man

0:27:20.840 --> 0:27:24.880
<v Speaker 3>who's I always I always hear that people's second marriages

0:27:24.920 --> 0:27:27.960
<v Speaker 3>are like they're happiest too, And so I'm like, if

0:27:28.000 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 3>I like a man in his forties who's been divorced.

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:35.280
<v Speaker 2>Hot, okay with kids?

0:27:35.880 --> 0:27:39.359
<v Speaker 3>Sure? I love kids. I hope to have my own.

0:27:39.440 --> 0:27:41.720
<v Speaker 3>But again, I froze my eggs when I was thirty three,

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:42.880
<v Speaker 3>So I'm good girl.

0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:43.920
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna ask you that.

0:27:44.280 --> 0:27:45.919
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm really happy I did that, but I mean

0:27:45.960 --> 0:27:49.919
<v Speaker 3>it's also not a guarantee. But you know, I'm I'm

0:27:50.000 --> 0:27:52.520
<v Speaker 3>kind of dating right now. I always I feel weird

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:54.600
<v Speaker 3>saying it because I'm like, I'm trying to keep my

0:27:54.680 --> 0:27:59.000
<v Speaker 3>dating life like private. Yeah, it's like, so I'm like,

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:04.080
<v Speaker 3>good luck, Yeah, it's it's it's tricky. I'm trying really hard.

0:28:04.080 --> 0:28:05.679
<v Speaker 3>So I'm like sometimes I say things and I'm like

0:28:05.960 --> 0:28:08.479
<v Speaker 3>that doesn't add up, But then it doesn't feel authentic

0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:10.400
<v Speaker 3>because I'm like, am I being I douine right now?

0:28:11.160 --> 0:28:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Wait? Okay, wait how many did they?

0:28:15.040 --> 0:28:15.159
<v Speaker 3>So?

0:28:15.200 --> 0:28:17.200
<v Speaker 2>How many eggs did they? Were they able to freeze

0:28:17.200 --> 0:28:18.040
<v Speaker 2>when you were thirty.

0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 3>Three, so I got I think I got fourteen or thirteen.

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:26.240
<v Speaker 3>I think I got thirteen. And then they said anything

0:28:26.320 --> 0:28:29.840
<v Speaker 3>over ten for my age at thirty three was good,

0:28:29.920 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 3>So I was happy about that. But I don't know

0:28:32.320 --> 0:28:36.359
<v Speaker 3>how many are like good eggs, Like, I won't know

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 3>until they were fertilized and then you know, right because

0:28:39.720 --> 0:28:42.000
<v Speaker 3>it wasn't IBF, it was just freezing my eggs.

0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 2>Do you ever go visit them? No?

0:28:46.080 --> 0:28:49.880
<v Speaker 3>I just asked that that's actually funny to be babies.

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:52.600
<v Speaker 2>My guys check it in.

0:28:52.960 --> 0:28:55.880
<v Speaker 3>I want to hear. It's my best friend, one of

0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:58.480
<v Speaker 3>my best friends that I made friends with her on

0:28:58.520 --> 0:29:01.800
<v Speaker 3>The Bachelor. Actually she's a fertility nurse. So she did

0:29:01.800 --> 0:29:04.560
<v Speaker 3>it for me, and every time I visited, I was like,

0:29:04.560 --> 0:29:06.920
<v Speaker 3>how am my eggs doing? I should go visit them?

0:29:08.280 --> 0:29:09.960
<v Speaker 1>Wait, she did it for you, So are they like

0:29:10.000 --> 0:29:14.800
<v Speaker 1>in her freezer? Yeah, just chilling in my in my freezer.

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:17.200
<v Speaker 3>I mean, oh, really, what are you going to do

0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:19.760
<v Speaker 3>with it? I don't know, Oh yeah, because I heard

0:29:19.760 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 3>you can like make it into pills or do something.

0:29:23.440 --> 0:29:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I know my last one, well he's eight now, so

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know eight years. It's probably we did we

0:29:31.520 --> 0:29:34.920
<v Speaker 1>took a little piece of it right afterwards.

0:29:34.240 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 2>And my husband cooked it and you ate it, uh huh.

0:29:38.840 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because they say that's like so full of nutrients. Yeah,

0:29:43.480 --> 0:29:46.120
<v Speaker 3>that do breast milk right now is like being sold

0:29:46.120 --> 0:29:47.480
<v Speaker 3>on the black market for like.

0:29:47.520 --> 0:29:53.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it's crazy, Like that's the range is

0:29:54.440 --> 0:29:56.160
<v Speaker 1>the gold bodily fluids?

0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:57.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? What's next?

0:29:58.560 --> 0:29:59.880
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, and I don't know.

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:00.480
<v Speaker 2>I want to.

0:30:02.640 --> 0:30:05.120
<v Speaker 3>You never know what's coming next. Like not being phases

0:30:05.120 --> 0:30:07.640
<v Speaker 3>me at this point in my life, like after COVID

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:10.320
<v Speaker 3>and just so much like everything weird happening and like

0:30:10.960 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 3>people talking about aliens Like I'm like, nothing will phase

0:30:13.960 --> 0:30:16.440
<v Speaker 3>me ever again, Like there the tree could start talking

0:30:16.440 --> 0:30:17.960
<v Speaker 3>to me outside and I'd be like, sure, it's twenty

0:30:18.000 --> 0:30:18.480
<v Speaker 3>twenty five.

0:30:19.840 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 2>Do red roses phase you? No?

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:24.240
<v Speaker 3>I love you?

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:25.560
<v Speaker 2>Hate them? You love them?

0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 3>I love them. I feel like I went through a

0:30:27.760 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 3>phase maybe a while back where I was like no,

0:30:30.680 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 3>but then I realized that that was like the most

0:30:32.680 --> 0:30:35.640
<v Speaker 3>pivotal point in my life for like living a true

0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:37.960
<v Speaker 3>like dream of mine, And so I now have a

0:30:38.040 --> 0:30:40.120
<v Speaker 3>rose tattooed on me because I'm like, no, I want

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:40.960
<v Speaker 3>it to be positive.

0:30:41.320 --> 0:30:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh I love that where's your rose tattoo?

0:30:43.440 --> 0:30:45.560
<v Speaker 3>It's on on my arm right here.

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:49.840
<v Speaker 2>M yeah, there's your beebe peebe Hi.

0:30:51.960 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 3>You know she looks so gray right now. He's like

0:30:55.320 --> 0:30:56.480
<v Speaker 3>just starting to go great.

0:30:56.480 --> 0:30:59.880
<v Speaker 1>He's he's probably like sick.

0:31:00.920 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 3>I rescued both of them, so I actually don't know

0:31:03.040 --> 0:31:05.200
<v Speaker 3>how old they are, but I feel like he's probably six.

0:31:06.280 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. I can't wait till they can clone dogs.

0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:11.520
<v Speaker 3>Oh.

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:14.040
<v Speaker 2>I I don't care about but dogs like, oh no, no,

0:31:14.040 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 2>we don't get enough time with them.

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:17.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm the same. And I heard that they're coming out

0:31:17.640 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 3>with a pill in twenty twenty six that helps dogs

0:31:19.680 --> 0:31:20.280
<v Speaker 3>live longer.

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:21.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm there for that.

0:31:22.280 --> 0:31:26.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, take my money.

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 1>Isn't that Yes, Like there's so many things medically we

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:31.440
<v Speaker 1>won't do for ourselves, but our animals are hurt and

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:33.320
<v Speaker 1>you take them somewhere and they're like it's going to

0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:35.200
<v Speaker 1>be twelve thousand dollars.

0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 2>And you're like, yeah, it's my blood, take everything.

0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:41.560
<v Speaker 3>Do it. Monts of dogs about it, and I'm like, Hayley,

0:31:41.640 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 3>they are so expensive, and she's like, you know, a

0:31:44.560 --> 0:31:48.360
<v Speaker 3>single mom working jobs and doing just her absolute best.

0:31:48.360 --> 0:31:51.000
<v Speaker 3>But I'm like, dogs are expensive, but they're also the

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:52.480
<v Speaker 3>best thing that has ever happened to me.

0:31:53.080 --> 0:31:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I should have followed my instinct at six to

0:31:55.680 --> 0:31:58.240
<v Speaker 1>be a VET because I'd be really wealthy now and

0:31:58.480 --> 0:31:59.840
<v Speaker 1>my life wouldn't be inconsistent.

0:32:01.600 --> 0:32:03.920
<v Speaker 3>But then you wouldn't be You're like such an icon

0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:05.920
<v Speaker 3>and such a legend, and I feel like you were

0:32:05.960 --> 0:32:10.000
<v Speaker 3>meant for that path. But also I could never handle

0:32:10.000 --> 0:32:13.240
<v Speaker 3>the heartbreak of being a vett. Think of how many

0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 3>heartbreaks you have to experience.

0:32:14.440 --> 0:32:16.520
<v Speaker 2>I know, and I always ask them that too.

0:32:16.560 --> 0:32:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my gosh, Like behind the scenes when

0:32:18.800 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 1>you're there, you're like, is this just it's the same

0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:24.280
<v Speaker 1>thing doctors often say, you know, in hospitals with children

0:32:24.360 --> 0:32:25.440
<v Speaker 1>and people.

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:27.320
<v Speaker 3>It's just constant.

0:32:27.440 --> 0:32:30.480
<v Speaker 1>You have to like stop taking it home. Oh my gosh,

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:31.800
<v Speaker 1>do you take on people's energy.

0:32:32.600 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 3>It's so much that it like frustrates me that I

0:32:35.840 --> 0:32:39.560
<v Speaker 3>actually find myself becoming so much more of an introvert

0:32:39.600 --> 0:32:42.640
<v Speaker 3>now than I ever have been, because I didn't realize

0:32:42.960 --> 0:32:46.200
<v Speaker 3>how much I do that until I started getting I'm like,

0:32:46.240 --> 0:32:50.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty spiritual, and so I started really paying attention

0:32:50.240 --> 0:32:54.520
<v Speaker 3>to certain things, and I just I really do and

0:32:54.600 --> 0:32:56.600
<v Speaker 3>sometimes I won't even realize it, and I'll be in

0:32:56.640 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 3>the same room as somebody and like I'll like all

0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:04.480
<v Speaker 3>feel them, like feeling sick, Like I'll feel that. It's scary.

0:33:04.560 --> 0:33:07.360
<v Speaker 3>Almost Like my ex always called me a witch because

0:33:07.400 --> 0:33:10.360
<v Speaker 3>I was like, because of how much I feel witch.

0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:11.280
<v Speaker 2>Ex called you that.

0:33:12.960 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 3>One that would love if I kept bringing up his

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:16.840
<v Speaker 3>name because he loves to be in the headlines.

0:33:17.920 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 2>So I had to copy that.

0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:23.560
<v Speaker 3>You'd be like, yes, I got talked about again, But

0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:25.840
<v Speaker 3>I actually I take it as a compliment. If you

0:33:25.880 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 3>think I have witchy vibes, I'm like, that's awesome. I

0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 3>love I love being a witch.

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:33.400
<v Speaker 1>That's so funny. Just from being on a zoom with you,

0:33:33.520 --> 0:33:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I was like, she's an EmPATH.

0:33:34.560 --> 0:33:38.520
<v Speaker 3>I can tell oh it, Yeah, it's I love it.

0:33:38.600 --> 0:33:40.720
<v Speaker 3>I love it because it's part of who I am.

0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:43.000
<v Speaker 3>But it's just it really is draining, and I I

0:33:43.920 --> 0:33:49.000
<v Speaker 3>sleep so hard when I get home from any Like

0:33:49.000 --> 0:33:50.560
<v Speaker 3>like yesterday I was at my friend's house and she

0:33:50.560 --> 0:33:53.520
<v Speaker 3>had some people over at her pool and I came

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.760
<v Speaker 3>home and I like, I'm like, I need ten hours

0:33:55.760 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 3>of sleep.

0:33:57.520 --> 0:33:58.960
<v Speaker 2>Can you get ten hours to sleep?

0:33:59.000 --> 0:33:59.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:03.160
<v Speaker 1>What? Oh you're one of those Yes, I could sleep

0:34:03.240 --> 0:34:04.160
<v Speaker 1>you sleep anywhere.

0:34:04.360 --> 0:34:08.000
<v Speaker 3>I can sleep anywhere, and I can sleep like if

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:11.360
<v Speaker 3>I was allowed because I have things to do, I

0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:13.719
<v Speaker 3>could sleep fourteen hours if I if I chose to.

0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:15.960
<v Speaker 2>That is wild.

0:34:16.360 --> 0:34:20.879
<v Speaker 3>I know. It's like I'm good at I do. Once

0:34:20.920 --> 0:34:22.080
<v Speaker 3>in a while, I'll wake up in the middle of

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:27.040
<v Speaker 3>the night with some pretty intrusive thoughts, like very around

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:30.240
<v Speaker 3>my cycle. And so I've just like learned my body

0:34:30.320 --> 0:34:33.600
<v Speaker 3>so well that i can sleep anywhere and for a

0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 3>long amount of time unless I'm in a certain phase

0:34:35.960 --> 0:34:38.719
<v Speaker 3>of my cycle where i have the worst depression and

0:34:38.800 --> 0:34:42.120
<v Speaker 3>anxiety and I spiral and then that's when I can't sleep.

0:34:43.800 --> 0:34:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Wow, you were just telling me that you know what

0:34:46.560 --> 0:34:49.680
<v Speaker 1>was going through my head that you should start a

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:54.120
<v Speaker 1>vibrator line you think so yeah, red rose one.

0:34:54.239 --> 0:34:56.480
<v Speaker 3>Ah, that's kind of genius.

0:34:56.560 --> 0:34:58.240
<v Speaker 2>That's a good one, right, that's.

0:34:58.040 --> 0:35:01.400
<v Speaker 3>A really good one because well, first of all, people

0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:04.520
<v Speaker 3>did know me as like the sexual bachelorette, right, I'm

0:35:04.560 --> 0:35:06.719
<v Speaker 3>so open about that kind of thing. And then you

0:35:06.800 --> 0:35:10.759
<v Speaker 3>put in a red rose and it's I mean, I'm

0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:11.160
<v Speaker 3>not mad.

0:35:11.719 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:15.319
<v Speaker 1>No, if they ever replaced the rose, what would you

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 1>replace it with?

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:23.400
<v Speaker 3>WHOA? Maybe like a glass of wine?

0:35:26.200 --> 0:35:27.720
<v Speaker 2>Because you do have a marketing brain?

0:35:29.120 --> 0:35:31.960
<v Speaker 3>There you go, maybe a glass of wine or a

0:35:32.000 --> 0:35:33.640
<v Speaker 3>red Rose vibrator for all the girls.

0:35:34.400 --> 0:35:37.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, I like this red Rose vibrator. Wait, but

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:38.319
<v Speaker 2>so you.

0:35:38.200 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Have your wine line, which I really I want to taste.

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:44.760
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I will send you. It's actually I'm really depressed

0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:47.920
<v Speaker 3>because my wine line has to close down now. I

0:35:48.000 --> 0:35:52.280
<v Speaker 3>want to pivot because the facility that makes my wine

0:35:52.520 --> 0:35:55.160
<v Speaker 3>they in the wine industry for over one hundred years,

0:35:55.200 --> 0:35:59.120
<v Speaker 3>and the facility shut down. So I didn't have a

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:01.480
<v Speaker 3>choice but to. But I have so much of it

0:36:01.560 --> 0:36:04.600
<v Speaker 3>still where I'm like, please send me your address because

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:07.239
<v Speaker 3>I will send you. It's so good. It's the only

0:36:07.280 --> 0:36:09.279
<v Speaker 3>wine I drink, and I love it so much, and

0:36:09.320 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm just I'm gonna have to start all over again

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:14.520
<v Speaker 3>if I do continue to do it, because I'm like,

0:36:14.920 --> 0:36:16.960
<v Speaker 3>I worked so closely with this wine maker.

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:36:18.080 --> 0:36:20.600
<v Speaker 3>For ten years, I worked in a restaurant business, and

0:36:20.680 --> 0:36:23.319
<v Speaker 3>I worked under a somalier learning about wine, and then

0:36:23.360 --> 0:36:25.960
<v Speaker 3>I would train servers on their wine knowledge to like

0:36:26.200 --> 0:36:28.600
<v Speaker 3>pair it with food, and we'd go on these retreats

0:36:28.600 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 3>to like wine country, and I'd learn so much. So

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:33.440
<v Speaker 3>I'm like very dialed in when it comes to wine.

0:36:33.800 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 3>And I'm so sad that this facility shut down because

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:36.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm like.

0:36:38.200 --> 0:36:41.920
<v Speaker 2>It's gone. There must be a way.

0:36:41.600 --> 0:36:41.880
<v Speaker 3>I know.

0:36:42.000 --> 0:36:46.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure I can, Like I'll have to transfer the vines.

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:51.440
<v Speaker 2>I know, somewhere near your eggs. She could grow both

0:36:51.520 --> 0:36:52.000
<v Speaker 2>with love.

0:36:52.360 --> 0:36:55.960
<v Speaker 3>You know what you really you've also got a market

0:36:56.719 --> 0:37:01.280
<v Speaker 3>like that. That's genius. Yeah, I should, I'll find something

0:37:01.320 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 3>to do. But I'm like, I'm pretty bummed out about it.

0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:08.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm sorry. Okay, it's it's you always find a

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:08.919
<v Speaker 1>way though.

0:37:09.480 --> 0:37:14.080
<v Speaker 3>Oh I do my brain, You're a warrior, thank you.

0:37:14.920 --> 0:37:17.400
<v Speaker 3>I do. I get excited to think about like, Okay,

0:37:18.400 --> 0:37:21.359
<v Speaker 3>there's nothing I can do about that. What can we do?

0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:23.719
<v Speaker 3>Like how can I pivot? What's next? What can we make?

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:26.719
<v Speaker 3>And I actually like that part of it. It's that

0:37:27.080 --> 0:37:30.399
<v Speaker 3>ten years ago me would have spiraled, but ten years

0:37:30.440 --> 0:37:34.359
<v Speaker 3>of therapy Caitlin and learning how to cope has taught

0:37:34.360 --> 0:37:36.920
<v Speaker 3>me to be like, Okay, this is the universe's way

0:37:36.920 --> 0:37:38.920
<v Speaker 3>of showing me that it's just time for the next step.

0:37:39.160 --> 0:37:42.279
<v Speaker 1>Yep, you're being challenged, that's it. I believe that no

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:47.200
<v Speaker 1>is the first word towards yes. Absolutely, And I live

0:37:47.280 --> 0:37:47.560
<v Speaker 1>by that.

0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:51.520
<v Speaker 3>Literally, I really believe that in that's such a powerful

0:37:51.520 --> 0:37:54.080
<v Speaker 3>way of thinking for anyone that's listening or watching, Like

0:37:54.120 --> 0:37:56.760
<v Speaker 3>that really is a powerful, powerful way of thinking, because

0:37:57.200 --> 0:38:01.000
<v Speaker 3>every note in my life led me to somehow go

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:05.799
<v Speaker 3>on television and then like get to have I always

0:38:05.840 --> 0:38:08.240
<v Speaker 3>manifested when I was in my young twenties. I always

0:38:08.280 --> 0:38:10.640
<v Speaker 3>wanted my own radio show. I'm like sitting here with

0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:14.480
<v Speaker 3>a podcast on your Tory Spellings podcast, Like this is

0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:15.360
<v Speaker 3>so crazy to me.

0:38:15.480 --> 0:38:18.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I want to be on your podcast.

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:21.080
<v Speaker 3>Oh please, I would love. Do you live in la

0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:23.759
<v Speaker 3>I do? Yeah, Okay, I come out there quite often

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:26.960
<v Speaker 3>for podcasts. So we'll plan that. Because it's just like

0:38:27.040 --> 0:38:29.920
<v Speaker 3>every every no has has led me in the right direction.

0:38:30.640 --> 0:38:31.480
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely.

0:38:31.960 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:38:39.680 --> 0:38:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Could you date a man that doesn't drink wine?

0:38:42.800 --> 0:38:45.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I could, because it would probably help me drink

0:38:46.040 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 3>less wine. You'd have to accept my wine drinking.

0:38:51.480 --> 0:38:57.480
<v Speaker 2>What what? Uh wait? I want to drink wine with you. Sorry,

0:38:57.520 --> 0:39:01.400
<v Speaker 2>that's all I'm thinking right now. I just want to

0:39:01.440 --> 0:39:02.239
<v Speaker 2>drink wine with her.

0:39:02.560 --> 0:39:03.600
<v Speaker 3>We'll do both.

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I find the older I get though,

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:09.080
<v Speaker 1>like I'm like a cheap drunk.

0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:13.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh oddly same. I used to be able to drink,

0:39:13.840 --> 0:39:15.640
<v Speaker 3>like I could drink a full bottle of wine and

0:39:15.719 --> 0:39:18.440
<v Speaker 3>be totally fine and function the next day. And I

0:39:18.560 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 3>still like and I have some sort of superpower there

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 3>where I actually really don't get hungover. But my problem is,

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:26.160
<v Speaker 3>I like, have two glasses of wine now and I'm like, whoa,

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:28.400
<v Speaker 3>which is so new for me? And I'm like, is

0:39:28.440 --> 0:39:31.879
<v Speaker 3>that it must be getting older? It's you just become

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:33.080
<v Speaker 3>a super drunk, which is fine.

0:39:33.600 --> 0:39:37.200
<v Speaker 1>That sucks though, Yeah, I get the slur now, like

0:39:37.280 --> 0:39:39.960
<v Speaker 1>after one or two glasses, and I'm like, oh no,

0:39:40.960 --> 0:39:42.640
<v Speaker 1>And then I have to keep saying like I only

0:39:42.640 --> 0:39:45.680
<v Speaker 1>get two glasses with dinner, like because I feel so shamed.

0:39:46.239 --> 0:39:49.560
<v Speaker 3>I don't feel shamed. You should bring the.

0:39:49.520 --> 0:39:52.200
<v Speaker 1>Slur is not cute? No that you're right, And I'm

0:39:52.200 --> 0:39:54.280
<v Speaker 1>single now, so I got to work on the slur.

0:39:54.760 --> 0:39:56.799
<v Speaker 3>Well, my favorite thing to do at a restaurant is

0:39:56.840 --> 0:40:00.239
<v Speaker 3>have it a gin martini now and then I just

0:40:00.280 --> 0:40:01.480
<v Speaker 3>sip that the whole time.

0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:03.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh see, I'm not a sipper.

0:40:04.440 --> 0:40:07.400
<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm a gin martini makes me a sipper.

0:40:08.560 --> 0:40:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh see, so I've tried that with a martini, but

0:40:10.719 --> 0:40:13.600
<v Speaker 1>vodka and I just drink it just as fast.

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:18.440
<v Speaker 2>And then I'm even more wasted. So well, I dried, like,

0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:19.360
<v Speaker 2>do you like saki?

0:40:20.080 --> 0:40:20.759
<v Speaker 3>I love soake?

0:40:20.960 --> 0:40:24.319
<v Speaker 2>Okay, same, Yes, I love it, but I shoot it.

0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:25.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't sip it.

0:40:25.880 --> 0:40:29.400
<v Speaker 3>Well, I think you're supposed to. Oh really, isn't that

0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:30.040
<v Speaker 3>the etiquette?

0:40:30.080 --> 0:40:32.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't know my ex for years he'd be like, oh,

0:40:32.960 --> 0:40:35.520
<v Speaker 1>she likes leans the whole thing back, and I was like,

0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:37.600
<v Speaker 1>I always thought you were supposed to.

0:40:37.880 --> 0:40:40.080
<v Speaker 3>I actually I'm going to look into this for you

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:43.120
<v Speaker 3>because I heard two things. One You're never supposed to

0:40:43.160 --> 0:40:45.279
<v Speaker 3>pour your own because it's bad luck the.

0:40:45.239 --> 0:40:48.399
<v Speaker 2>First one right first one yeah, And two.

0:40:48.360 --> 0:40:52.120
<v Speaker 3>That I don't think hot. You're supposed to sling back

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:54.799
<v Speaker 3>but cold in the little glass. I think you are

0:40:55.360 --> 0:40:57.560
<v Speaker 3>you sling back hot? That just hurts my thorough thinking

0:40:57.560 --> 0:40:58.360
<v Speaker 3>about it.

0:40:58.680 --> 0:41:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I know, impressive, thank you. I give it a few

0:41:04.640 --> 0:41:09.920
<v Speaker 1>blows and then that came out wrong, but then I

0:41:09.960 --> 0:41:10.480
<v Speaker 1>take it all.

0:41:11.080 --> 0:41:15.799
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm just kidding, but I love you.

0:41:17.560 --> 0:41:18.279
<v Speaker 3>I love you too.

0:41:20.600 --> 0:41:23.680
<v Speaker 2>We didn't after hours that podcast here.

0:41:23.719 --> 0:41:26.280
<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm talking about. Even with the Virgin show,

0:41:26.400 --> 0:41:29.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, what's happening like the tea behind the scenes,

0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:31.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, this is why we need a reunion because

0:41:31.800 --> 0:41:34.200
<v Speaker 3>there's so much tea happening by the scenes, and I'm like,

0:41:34.480 --> 0:41:36.480
<v Speaker 3>come on, this is the real show here.

0:41:37.080 --> 0:41:39.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's it. Tea.

0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:42.560
<v Speaker 3>Isn't that a weird word? Like that one came so popular.

0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:45.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't know where that started from. Don't you ever

0:41:45.120 --> 0:41:49.440
<v Speaker 3>wonder who started the sayings that become like so popular.

0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:51.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, where did that start?

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:54.760
<v Speaker 1>Because when I was young, you'd be like, who started

0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:58.480
<v Speaker 1>white out? They became so famous and so rich. And

0:41:58.520 --> 0:42:00.319
<v Speaker 1>now if I make that reference my kids, they're like,

0:42:00.320 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 1>what's white out?

0:42:01.360 --> 0:42:02.480
<v Speaker 3>What the heck is white out?

0:42:02.520 --> 0:42:04.840
<v Speaker 1>That's and I'm like, oh my god, I'm old, no archaic,

0:42:04.960 --> 0:42:09.640
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, whoever started the sayings? Nothing, it's just their legacy.

0:42:09.640 --> 0:42:11.680
<v Speaker 1>They'd make any money off of it, Yeah.

0:42:11.520 --> 0:42:13.279
<v Speaker 3>But they don't. They don't even get the credit for

0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:16.399
<v Speaker 3>it because nobody knows who. At least the white oat

0:42:16.400 --> 0:42:18.040
<v Speaker 3>guy gets gets billions.

0:42:18.120 --> 0:42:20.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like maybe it's on their tombstone like something.

0:42:20.719 --> 0:42:27.719
<v Speaker 1>I started this saying, Yay, that's funny. Wait, you said

0:42:27.760 --> 0:42:30.719
<v Speaker 1>you've got some crazy dms from virgins? But do you

0:42:30.760 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 1>get men sliding into your dms all the time?

0:42:33.239 --> 0:42:35.279
<v Speaker 3>No? And I always who did? I just talk to

0:42:35.239 --> 0:42:37.759
<v Speaker 3>you about this. Uh well, this is probably like a

0:42:37.840 --> 0:42:42.200
<v Speaker 3>year ago now, but I remember talking to oh Kristin Cavalary,

0:42:42.280 --> 0:42:46.360
<v Speaker 3>who she gets dms from guys like crazy, and I.

0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:48.239
<v Speaker 2>Was like like good dms, Like.

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:52.279
<v Speaker 3>Good, yeah, like she's like met some people that way.

0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:53.800
<v Speaker 2>What yeah?

0:42:53.840 --> 0:42:56.799
<v Speaker 3>And I am like, I have the only men that

0:42:56.880 --> 0:43:00.680
<v Speaker 3>slide into my dms are creep There's two creepy guys

0:43:00.680 --> 0:43:05.120
<v Speaker 3>that always want to talk about my feet. And I'm like, well,

0:43:05.160 --> 0:43:06.960
<v Speaker 3>that's not interesting.

0:43:08.160 --> 0:43:10.839
<v Speaker 2>And your response should be for how much?

0:43:11.160 --> 0:43:14.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well it is exactly where my brain goes. I go,

0:43:14.920 --> 0:43:17.920
<v Speaker 3>yeah much. But that's I also have, like if you

0:43:17.960 --> 0:43:20.640
<v Speaker 3>look at my stats on Instagram, it's like ninety eight

0:43:20.800 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 3>percent female, which I love, but yeah, I think the

0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:27.760
<v Speaker 3>like two percent just want to see my feet apparently.

0:43:27.440 --> 0:43:29.440
<v Speaker 2>So you have good feet. What's hisice feet?

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:32.040
<v Speaker 3>Six five six and a half?

0:43:32.160 --> 0:43:32.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh me too?

0:43:33.160 --> 0:43:34.320
<v Speaker 3>Oh we could hear shoes.

0:43:34.440 --> 0:43:37.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I have so many shoes because both my girls

0:43:37.480 --> 0:43:38.600
<v Speaker 1>outgrew my feet.

0:43:38.840 --> 0:43:40.719
<v Speaker 2>So I have like a collect I.

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Call it my art collection of like heels like since

0:43:43.560 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 1>the nineties, Oh my god, and no one can wear

0:43:46.000 --> 0:43:46.759
<v Speaker 1>them except you.

0:43:46.800 --> 0:43:49.080
<v Speaker 3>Apparently you need to send me a photo of that

0:43:49.120 --> 0:43:51.960
<v Speaker 3>because I never was a shoe girl until recently, and

0:43:52.000 --> 0:43:52.760
<v Speaker 3>now I love shoes.

0:43:53.280 --> 0:43:55.239
<v Speaker 2>I could fill a tub. In fact, once I did

0:43:55.320 --> 0:43:57.080
<v Speaker 2>and took a photo in it with all my heels.

0:43:57.320 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 3>That's cute.

0:43:58.200 --> 0:44:00.000
<v Speaker 2>I like that, thank you.

0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:01.840
<v Speaker 3>Now I used to like chop at Payless and like

0:44:02.120 --> 0:44:04.680
<v Speaker 3>didn't care about shoes at all, and I just always

0:44:04.680 --> 0:44:07.960
<v Speaker 3>wore Converse. And now I'm starting to like bags and

0:44:08.000 --> 0:44:10.720
<v Speaker 3>shoes I'm starting to like, which I never did before.

0:44:11.080 --> 0:44:14.120
<v Speaker 1>So we're the polar opposites because I used to always

0:44:14.200 --> 0:44:16.840
<v Speaker 1>be into heels and bags and I have such a

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:19.840
<v Speaker 1>huge collection that I don't wear or use anymore, and

0:44:19.880 --> 0:44:21.040
<v Speaker 1>now I just wear Converse.

0:44:21.440 --> 0:44:23.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh funny, isn't that weird?

0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:25.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Converser, I love They're the best.

0:44:25.880 --> 0:44:26.920
<v Speaker 2>That's my jam.

0:44:27.040 --> 0:44:27.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm into that.

0:44:28.520 --> 0:44:30.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, even with dresses, like I wear Converse.

0:44:30.840 --> 0:44:33.000
<v Speaker 3>I always said i'd if I get married, I'm gonna

0:44:33.000 --> 0:44:35.200
<v Speaker 3>wear Converse under my wedding dress. Oh I love that.

0:44:35.960 --> 0:44:36.160
<v Speaker 2>Well.

0:44:36.200 --> 0:44:40.040
<v Speaker 3>Color probably white or like go edgy and do like

0:44:40.080 --> 0:44:40.680
<v Speaker 3>a black leather.

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:42.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you don't have to. You don't have to wear white.

0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:44.360
<v Speaker 3>Nobody's gonna see them anyways.

0:44:44.640 --> 0:44:46.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's after labor day. You're forty, you can do

0:44:46.840 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 1>whatever you want now, whatever I want.

0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:52.000
<v Speaker 3>And also I feel like I never thought I would

0:44:52.000 --> 0:44:54.960
<v Speaker 3>be the girl who would think about wedding dresses, and

0:44:55.000 --> 0:44:56.560
<v Speaker 3>now I'm like, if I get married, I want two

0:44:56.600 --> 0:44:58.880
<v Speaker 3>different dresses, and I want like a short party skirt

0:44:58.920 --> 0:45:00.640
<v Speaker 3>for after, and I want a long, beautiful one of

0:45:00.719 --> 0:45:02.440
<v Speaker 3>the like I've never thought I would think about that.

0:45:02.920 --> 0:45:06.120
<v Speaker 3>I never cared before, and coming from engaged twice, that

0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:06.799
<v Speaker 3>doesn't make sense.

0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:09.160
<v Speaker 2>No, after everything you've been through, you deserve to have

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:11.320
<v Speaker 2>whatever the fuck you want at your wedding.

0:45:12.000 --> 0:45:15.080
<v Speaker 3>I also picture a courthouse, so I'm really this is

0:45:15.120 --> 0:45:15.960
<v Speaker 3>where I'm a Gemini.

0:45:16.000 --> 0:45:17.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm very courthouse hmm.

0:45:18.040 --> 0:45:21.160
<v Speaker 3>But you can have both exactly. That's that's what I

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:22.239
<v Speaker 3>would do. I'll do both.

0:45:22.560 --> 0:45:24.640
<v Speaker 1>You can have everything. Okay, So would you ever be

0:45:24.719 --> 0:45:26.360
<v Speaker 1>on another dating show? Sorry, I know we have to

0:45:26.360 --> 0:45:26.920
<v Speaker 1>wrap up soon.

0:45:26.920 --> 0:45:29.399
<v Speaker 3>Well, but I as a host, I would never never

0:45:29.440 --> 0:45:32.880
<v Speaker 3>want a dating show again. As a contestant, I've I

0:45:32.880 --> 0:45:35.040
<v Speaker 3>had so much fun doing it. I had so much

0:45:35.080 --> 0:45:37.560
<v Speaker 3>fun on the Bachelor. The Bachelorette was hell and then

0:45:37.600 --> 0:45:38.760
<v Speaker 3>I'm good now.

0:45:40.160 --> 0:45:41.040
<v Speaker 2>But what if?

0:45:41.840 --> 0:45:49.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay, it was a divorces all divorces, so it's your

0:45:49.200 --> 0:45:52.080
<v Speaker 1>type I'm just putting it out there because I never

0:45:52.840 --> 0:45:54.879
<v Speaker 1>I didn't think i'd ever be on a dating show,

0:45:54.960 --> 0:45:56.080
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't think.

0:45:55.960 --> 0:45:57.520
<v Speaker 2>I'd ever be divorced, right.

0:45:57.560 --> 0:45:59.239
<v Speaker 1>I was like, if I could find a nice I

0:45:59.320 --> 0:46:00.759
<v Speaker 1>want a dad too.

0:46:00.920 --> 0:46:03.600
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I feel that I know I still wouldn't

0:46:03.600 --> 0:46:06.720
<v Speaker 3>do it, though, I'm yeah, because I'm like, I think,

0:46:07.239 --> 0:46:10.680
<v Speaker 3>I think what really killed me with the dating and

0:46:10.800 --> 0:46:14.680
<v Speaker 3>being the bachelorette was how I constantly was hurting people's

0:46:14.680 --> 0:46:19.319
<v Speaker 3>feelings and I was just every day disappointing somebody and

0:46:19.360 --> 0:46:21.759
<v Speaker 3>it was the hardest thing ever. Because I feel like

0:46:22.040 --> 0:46:26.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm even more I'm like softer in my older years now,

0:46:26.360 --> 0:46:29.279
<v Speaker 3>where I'm like, I can't imagine just constantly disappointing people

0:46:29.280 --> 0:46:30.839
<v Speaker 3>and hurting their feelings every week.

0:46:31.400 --> 0:46:32.440
<v Speaker 2>That's really kind to you.

0:46:33.680 --> 0:46:35.239
<v Speaker 1>What if it was a hidden camera show and you

0:46:35.280 --> 0:46:38.879
<v Speaker 1>were just punking people like your axents that I would

0:46:38.880 --> 0:46:39.399
<v Speaker 1>get down with.

0:46:40.360 --> 0:46:43.000
<v Speaker 3>That I would get down with absolutely. Yes, put me

0:46:43.040 --> 0:46:44.480
<v Speaker 3>on a punk show any day of the week.

0:46:44.800 --> 0:46:48.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I'm obsessed with your Instagram by the way,

0:46:48.680 --> 0:46:56.279
<v Speaker 1>are Yeah, it's very uh stimulating okaing good, that's not polarizing,

0:46:56.320 --> 0:46:57.120
<v Speaker 1>it's stimulating.

0:46:57.640 --> 0:46:57.799
<v Speaker 3>Uh.

0:46:59.800 --> 0:47:02.040
<v Speaker 1>How long does it take you to do handle your

0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:03.000
<v Speaker 1>social media day?

0:47:04.360 --> 0:47:05.960
<v Speaker 3>I don't think twice about it.

0:47:06.400 --> 0:47:10.040
<v Speaker 2>This is not fair. I know, it's a lot of gift.

0:47:10.480 --> 0:47:13.080
<v Speaker 3>A lot of my friends are like, oh, you just

0:47:13.360 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 3>do it and don't look back. I'm like, no, all,

0:47:16.320 --> 0:47:18.959
<v Speaker 3>I can put something together so fast, or I don't

0:47:18.960 --> 0:47:21.640
<v Speaker 3>think twice, and then I just I like writing, so

0:47:21.680 --> 0:47:23.399
<v Speaker 3>sometimes i'll like write out a good and then other

0:47:23.440 --> 0:47:25.799
<v Speaker 3>times I just like to like say something inappropriate or

0:47:25.800 --> 0:47:29.120
<v Speaker 3>make a joke. But I don't know. It must be

0:47:29.200 --> 0:47:31.240
<v Speaker 3>maybe a little bit of a skill because I really

0:47:31.400 --> 0:47:33.560
<v Speaker 3>just do it and don't think twice and then carry

0:47:33.560 --> 0:47:34.200
<v Speaker 3>on with my day.

0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:37.240
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you have mad skills.

0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:40.560
<v Speaker 1>I do all my social myself, and it takes me

0:47:41.160 --> 0:47:44.800
<v Speaker 1>to put up one post like a whole day, like hours,

0:47:45.040 --> 0:47:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Like oh you.

0:47:45.920 --> 0:47:50.360
<v Speaker 3>Got to hire somebody for that, right. Yeah. I enjoy

0:47:50.400 --> 0:47:52.800
<v Speaker 3>doing it because I can just power through so quickly.

0:47:52.960 --> 0:47:55.000
<v Speaker 3>It's like I don't overthink it at all.

0:47:56.600 --> 0:47:59.520
<v Speaker 1>And you have no bad angle, so it's and you're

0:47:59.560 --> 0:48:01.960
<v Speaker 1>not like I love how you're so unafraid.

0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:07.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean the only thing I get terrified because

0:48:07.440 --> 0:48:10.600
<v Speaker 3>I grew up doing musical theater and I love singing.

0:48:11.000 --> 0:48:13.000
<v Speaker 3>And I've put out a couple songs, and that's when

0:48:13.000 --> 0:48:16.000
<v Speaker 3>I get really scared. I get crippled with fear with

0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:18.400
<v Speaker 3>putting out music or people hearing my voice.

0:48:19.760 --> 0:48:22.799
<v Speaker 2>You haven't done mass singer, right, No? Would you?

0:48:23.320 --> 0:48:26.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I would totally do that show. I feel like that,

0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:27.879
<v Speaker 3>have you done it?

0:48:28.440 --> 0:48:30.399
<v Speaker 2>I have, I've heard.

0:48:30.440 --> 0:48:31.880
<v Speaker 3>It's a really nice experience.

0:48:32.760 --> 0:48:34.440
<v Speaker 1>I was on the first season of the US and

0:48:34.440 --> 0:48:37.440
<v Speaker 1>then I've done different ones around the world. But the

0:48:37.480 --> 0:48:40.040
<v Speaker 1>first season, I just had no idea because we didn't

0:48:40.080 --> 0:48:42.080
<v Speaker 1>know what the show was. You didn't know what was happening,

0:48:42.160 --> 0:48:44.759
<v Speaker 1>so it wasn't It was really scary, But for me

0:48:45.080 --> 0:48:48.280
<v Speaker 1>it was really freeing because people always judge me because

0:48:48.280 --> 0:48:50.440
<v Speaker 1>of my name, you know, they see me and like

0:48:50.520 --> 0:48:52.480
<v Speaker 1>instantly like, she can't do this, she can't do that.

0:48:52.760 --> 0:48:54.800
<v Speaker 1>So it was so great to have a mask in

0:48:54.840 --> 0:48:56.080
<v Speaker 1>front of me and it's like they don't know it's

0:48:56.120 --> 0:48:56.760
<v Speaker 1>Tory spelling.

0:48:56.920 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 2>And I actually got compliments and I'm like.

0:48:59.880 --> 0:49:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, this feels nice to get compliments that

0:49:02.600 --> 0:49:04.160
<v Speaker 1>when I had to take off the mask, I'm like,

0:49:04.200 --> 0:49:04.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to.

0:49:05.560 --> 0:49:07.839
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would be the same way, Like, I even

0:49:07.880 --> 0:49:11.359
<v Speaker 3>feel more confident singing with sunglasses on, so I feel

0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:14.120
<v Speaker 3>like it really really helped me. Yeah.

0:49:14.280 --> 0:49:15.919
<v Speaker 2>What's your go to karaoke song?

0:49:16.400 --> 0:49:19.719
<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh, well, my go to is probably Shoop by

0:49:19.840 --> 0:49:23.319
<v Speaker 3>Salt and Peppa Nice. I know every word of that

0:49:23.360 --> 0:49:24.920
<v Speaker 3>song and I feel like I whip it out of

0:49:25.000 --> 0:49:27.760
<v Speaker 3>karaoke all the time. But I also love anything Alanis

0:49:27.760 --> 0:49:31.160
<v Speaker 3>Moore sat Nice. Yeah. What about you?

0:49:31.280 --> 0:49:35.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh, I don't. I don't do karaoke. What I know,

0:49:36.120 --> 0:49:38.719
<v Speaker 2>I love karaoke, I mean I will do it. I

0:49:38.840 --> 0:49:40.000
<v Speaker 2>like a good piano bar.

0:49:40.960 --> 0:49:44.480
<v Speaker 3>I love a piano bar. Oh my gosh, Dueling pianos

0:49:44.520 --> 0:49:46.640
<v Speaker 3>and a piano bar are my favorite things.

0:49:46.760 --> 0:49:49.200
<v Speaker 1>I like that, Like that's more my jam than like

0:49:50.560 --> 0:49:53.000
<v Speaker 1>because I don't know, karaoke can be a little bit

0:49:53.000 --> 0:49:55.160
<v Speaker 1>too cool for school and then I get nervous.

0:49:55.520 --> 0:49:57.120
<v Speaker 2>But if you can just like I feel.

0:49:57.000 --> 0:50:00.000
<v Speaker 3>Free, like with your friends, Like you just rent out

0:50:00.080 --> 0:50:02.840
<v Speaker 3>like a private room of karaoke with your friends. That's fun.

0:50:03.320 --> 0:50:06.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would do that. Yeah. Do you like pickles?

0:50:07.280 --> 0:50:07.600
<v Speaker 3>Yes?

0:50:09.120 --> 0:50:11.680
<v Speaker 2>Why do you say it like that? I don't know.

0:50:12.000 --> 0:50:13.560
<v Speaker 1>They're one of my favorite things, and we seem to

0:50:13.560 --> 0:50:14.839
<v Speaker 1>have a lot in common, so I just thought i'd

0:50:14.880 --> 0:50:15.840
<v Speaker 1>ask you if you like pickles.

0:50:15.880 --> 0:50:18.960
<v Speaker 3>No, that.

0:50:21.160 --> 0:50:21.799
<v Speaker 2>Really threw me.

0:50:22.000 --> 0:50:24.399
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I love this question though, because I

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:28.920
<v Speaker 3>was just in Canada with family and my girlfriend pickles.

0:50:29.120 --> 0:50:31.360
<v Speaker 3>That's what she loves, pickling things, and she gave me

0:50:31.400 --> 0:50:36.240
<v Speaker 3>a big spicy My mouth is watering. It's like spicy garlic.

0:50:35.840 --> 0:50:37.640
<v Speaker 2>Pickles that you know, not your lockjaw.

0:50:37.960 --> 0:50:42.440
<v Speaker 3>Uh huh. It's happening, and I yes, and I'm I

0:50:42.480 --> 0:50:44.319
<v Speaker 3>was trying to eat them all before I left because

0:50:44.320 --> 0:50:47.680
<v Speaker 3>I didn't know how to pack them.

0:50:47.760 --> 0:50:49.720
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I like pickling as well.

0:50:50.160 --> 0:50:52.960
<v Speaker 3>Do maybe that I should start that. I feel like

0:50:53.000 --> 0:50:54.719
<v Speaker 3>that's a habit. I could get down with the whole

0:50:54.719 --> 0:50:56.680
<v Speaker 3>pickling pickles.

0:50:57.200 --> 0:51:01.280
<v Speaker 1>I sorry the garden at this house, but I always

0:51:01.280 --> 0:51:02.080
<v Speaker 1>did have a garden.

0:51:02.400 --> 0:51:04.600
<v Speaker 3>I love a garden. That's my dream. In my next house,

0:51:04.640 --> 0:51:06.800
<v Speaker 3>I will have a garden. I want to become Anderson.

0:51:07.200 --> 0:51:08.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm like great at growing things.

0:51:09.200 --> 0:51:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm great at growing humans and animals, but not I

0:51:12.520 --> 0:51:13.640
<v Speaker 1>don't have a green thumb.

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:14.799
<v Speaker 3>I won't either.

0:51:15.400 --> 0:51:17.399
<v Speaker 2>That's a fan it is.

0:51:17.840 --> 0:51:19.839
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all my plants in my house are fake because

0:51:19.880 --> 0:51:22.840
<v Speaker 3>I also can't keep anything alive except a snake plant.

0:51:22.840 --> 0:51:24.520
<v Speaker 3>I feel like a snake plant I can keep alive

0:51:25.000 --> 0:51:26.319
<v Speaker 3>and I think that's it.

0:51:26.719 --> 0:51:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I don't know what a snake plant is.

0:51:28.920 --> 0:51:30.440
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I'll send you a photo.

0:51:30.520 --> 0:51:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I need that, okay, because I've even killed cactuses.

0:51:34.800 --> 0:51:36.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have two, okay.

0:51:36.400 --> 0:51:37.839
<v Speaker 2>Succulents, I kill them all.

0:51:38.280 --> 0:51:41.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's I I have to set a reminder in

0:51:41.880 --> 0:51:44.880
<v Speaker 3>my calendar to like, if I'm going to do anything,

0:51:44.880 --> 0:51:46.640
<v Speaker 3>it needs to be in my calendar because I am

0:51:46.719 --> 0:51:51.200
<v Speaker 3>so unorganized it's embarrassing and everything that if I'm ever

0:51:51.200 --> 0:51:52.640
<v Speaker 3>going to remember anything, I just need to write it

0:51:52.640 --> 0:51:54.960
<v Speaker 3>down or put it in my calendar or I will forget.

0:51:55.800 --> 0:51:59.239
<v Speaker 2>I just came up with another business for you. I'll

0:51:59.320 --> 0:51:59.839
<v Speaker 2>leave you with this.

0:52:00.680 --> 0:52:03.120
<v Speaker 1>When you grow your garden, I think you should have

0:52:03.200 --> 0:52:07.280
<v Speaker 1>your own variety of rose you should grow in your garden,

0:52:08.000 --> 0:52:10.640
<v Speaker 1>like a deep wine colored rose.

0:52:12.480 --> 0:52:16.080
<v Speaker 3>That's a good idea. I don't know, just for like

0:52:16.440 --> 0:52:18.959
<v Speaker 3>aesthetically pleasing Instagram posts or to sell.

0:52:20.080 --> 0:52:24.680
<v Speaker 2>No fuck that like for business. I mean it all

0:52:24.719 --> 0:52:26.399
<v Speaker 2>starts organically, right.

0:52:26.760 --> 0:52:30.239
<v Speaker 3>I have a rose from my Bachelorette season. Hold on,

0:52:30.239 --> 0:52:33.800
<v Speaker 3>I'll show you saved it. The one of my guys

0:52:34.360 --> 0:52:36.520
<v Speaker 3>brought it for me when he came on my podcast,

0:52:36.600 --> 0:52:39.279
<v Speaker 3>and look at it. It's just completely dried out and

0:52:39.440 --> 0:52:42.000
<v Speaker 3>still the magnet is over there from because when you

0:52:42.040 --> 0:52:44.840
<v Speaker 3>pin the roses on guys, it's a magnet.

0:52:46.160 --> 0:52:48.560
<v Speaker 2>Oooh yeah, a little known fact.

0:52:48.800 --> 0:52:50.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. People always are like, how do you get them

0:52:50.760 --> 0:52:52.240
<v Speaker 3>to stick like that? I'm like, it's a magnet.

0:52:53.280 --> 0:52:55.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that needs to be a forever rose.

0:52:55.960 --> 0:53:05.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it iss not moldy.

0:53:05.880 --> 0:53:08.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. Well, I want to meet you in

0:53:08.160 --> 0:53:09.200
<v Speaker 2>person and hang out with you.

0:53:09.160 --> 0:53:12.800
<v Speaker 3>Because absolutely is when I come to LA next, which

0:53:13.400 --> 0:53:18.839
<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure when I'm probably beginning of October, so

0:53:18.880 --> 0:53:19.840
<v Speaker 3>I will be here.

0:53:19.920 --> 0:53:21.000
<v Speaker 2>Do you like horror films?

0:53:21.640 --> 0:53:22.040
<v Speaker 3>I do?

0:53:22.960 --> 0:53:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, you said October, and it's like the spooky

0:53:26.040 --> 0:53:27.520
<v Speaker 1>season and that's when I come alive.

0:53:27.680 --> 0:53:30.680
<v Speaker 3>So spooky season is my favorite season as well.

0:53:30.960 --> 0:53:32.080
<v Speaker 2>Yes, oh my gosh.

0:53:32.160 --> 0:53:35.600
<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, so we'll have spooky night wine and podcast.

0:53:36.200 --> 0:53:40.160
<v Speaker 2>Perfect. This sounds like a great night in that everyone

0:53:40.239 --> 0:53:41.200
<v Speaker 2>will want to know about it.

0:53:41.320 --> 0:53:42.040
<v Speaker 3>So wonderful.

0:53:43.120 --> 0:53:45.640
<v Speaker 2>Thank you, so are you fun?

0:53:45.960 --> 0:53:46.879
<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much?

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:49.400
<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Okay, I'll see you soon then.

0:53:49.600 --> 0:53:51.520
<v Speaker 3>Okay, yep, I'll let you know. I'm gonna DM you

0:53:51.600 --> 0:53:51.919
<v Speaker 3>right now.

0:53:52.680 --> 0:53:55.799
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, you're sliding into my DMS, slid into your

0:53:55.960 --> 0:54:00.600
<v Speaker 1>m Okay, put something dirty too, Okay, well, night, leve five,