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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for doing this. I really appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Have we ever met, I've only well, I went to

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Speaker 3: one of the Dancing with the Stars shows when you

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Speaker 3: were there, but we never like officially met.

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Speaker 2: When I was there for two weeks. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I loved watching you though, and I love Pasha so much.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: I wish I had known you before because then I

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Speaker 1: could have gotten some tips on what to do.

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Speaker 3: I just would have said, don't injure yourself. That was

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Speaker 3: like my main focus was to stop getting injured all

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Speaker 3: the time.

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Speaker 2: Did you get injured? I mean you won? So I

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Speaker 2: worth the injuries or no?

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Speaker 3: Worth the injuries? Yes, but like I'm still suffering years

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Speaker 3: later from cracked ribs and like pulling a muscle that

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Speaker 3: was under my ribs and my tendonitis will fly every

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Speaker 3: time I wear heels now I'm still but I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I'll do it again.

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Speaker 1: That is so crazy, And those are things they do

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Speaker 1: not tell you when they're like you should sign on

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Speaker 1: and like you can do as much training as you want,

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Speaker 1: as little training as you want, you know, whatever makes

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Speaker 1: you comfortable.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's crazy because one of my girlfriends had won

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Speaker 3: it from the season before, and I was like, why

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Speaker 3: did you not prepare me? And she was like, I

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Speaker 3: don't think people should prepare them because then they won't

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Speaker 3: do it. Because the amount she just sent me like

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Speaker 3: a foot massage bath thing that I just like would

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Speaker 3: soak my feet in. But she's like, it's so worth it,

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Speaker 3: but like it would be scary to know how much

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Speaker 3: work and like injury you go through to get to

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Speaker 3: the end, Like it's crazy.

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Speaker 2: To get to the end.

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Speaker 1: I was voted off first, and I had pulled out

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Speaker 1: my shoulder already and no one knew.

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Speaker 2: God, oh my god. It was like.

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Speaker 3: I don't know you were voted out first.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: Oh it was a double elimination, like no one was

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Speaker 1: eliminated the first week, second week double elimination.

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Speaker 2: That boom, I know. And I was having so much fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it is. I mean, it's so nice when you

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Speaker 3: have like a good partner and you guys have like

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Speaker 3: a good, good chemistry and a good bond, and it's

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Speaker 3: the live tapings are so much fun. I'm like so

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Speaker 3: jealous because mine was during COVID, so we didn't have

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Speaker 3: a live audience, and I'm like what does that feel like?

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Speaker 3: The like energy in the room from the audience.

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Speaker 2: Sister, I would have loved that live audience. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: There is something about the performance and having people there

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Speaker 1: cheering you on. But it was, oh my gosh, it

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Speaker 1: was so scary. Yeah, yeah, I think I would have

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Speaker 1: been Did the nerves ever go away? Or you didn't

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Speaker 3: No, I definitely had nerves. I just I feel like

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Speaker 3: I would have had ten times more nerves if there

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Speaker 3: some reason, knowing that, like however many are watching at home,

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Speaker 3: like didn't phase me as much. I'm like, I got

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Speaker 3: some people right there like watching. But I do think

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Speaker 3: I perform better under pressure, and like the more nervous

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, it felt like I felt like something

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Speaker 2: The energy, right, I understand.

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Speaker 1: I understand that by the way I got to say

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Speaker 1: at being in the entertainment industry and being an actress

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Speaker 1: and having no training, and I think it's very unfair

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Speaker 1: the people have different levels.

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Speaker 2: Like I agree, you know what, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Like professional dancers, athletes. It's just a different mindset. I think,

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Speaker 2: It's like uh okay.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and I also Bachelor's Bachelorettes. You guys are all

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Speaker 2: I don't know what.

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Speaker 3: There's the Bachelor Nation, like fans are really loyal. I

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Speaker 3: will say that I definitely feel like well with my

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Speaker 3: in some capac right. And then I feel like this

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Speaker 3: from you talk and dance better than anyone I've ever met.

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Speaker 2: What is that?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. They're all talented and good looking and

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Speaker 2: They look like they have perfect lives, don't.

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Speaker 3: They perfect lives of the Mormon wives?

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Speaker 2: Right, And they're all virgins. Maybe that's something.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's the glow. They're all virgins. They got to

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Speaker 1: get it out somehow. Yeah, exactly, Oh my gosh, this

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Speaker 1: is true. Yeah, this season, I don't know. I'm there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of Are there any like big actors like

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Speaker 3: When do they announce? I think they announced the cast

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Speaker 3: tomorrow morning. Yep, Oh, that's exciting. Yeah, because all I

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Speaker 3: know right now is Alex Earl, the Two Right Mormon Wives.

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Speaker 3: And there's one actor guy that I saw. Think he's

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Speaker 2: Zach Efron's brother Dylan Efron's on it right or is

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Speaker 3: Alleged? But I feel like that is.

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Speaker 1: Yes, they keep talking about Corey Feldman. Oh really, I

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Speaker 1: want to see that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I would see that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm there for that.

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Speaker 3: I for the cast announcement.

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Speaker 2: I'm Tony. Is that his name? The singer?

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Speaker 3: Oh, maybe that's who I saw? Is he blonde?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Probably hatcheting his name, but yeah, I know.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know how to say his name either. But

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Speaker 3: I feel like I always get so excited for the

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Speaker 3: cast announcement because I've been watching the show since I

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Speaker 3: was oh gosh, since it came on with my mom

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Speaker 3: and so like it was so surreal being on it,

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Speaker 3: but then also like just still watching now knowing behind

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I know how hard you're working.

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Speaker 1: No, that's the thing. The audience will never know how

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Speaker 1: crazy it is. It's intense. Are you still in touch

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Speaker 1: with Ardam?

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Speaker 3: I just talked to him. How long, maybe like a

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Speaker 3: you were out of the competition. Oh my god. So

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Speaker 3: I feel like me and Ardam's relationship was like so

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so crazy because I felt like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't on it that long obviously, but like Pasha

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Speaker 1: became my like everything. Yeah, it was like we were

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Speaker 3: I totally get that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, does everyone feel that way? Like, and

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Speaker 1: then once you're off, like you keep in touch, like

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Speaker 1: But I mean it's like all of a sudden, I

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Speaker 2: Like not in a weird way, but like no, same,

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Speaker 2: I totally get like.

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Speaker 1: And I was fine not like dating during that time,

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Speaker 1: Oh you were so yeah, he like replaced that everything

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Speaker 1: I had, like professional, I had someone there that was

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Speaker 2: It was like I had it all. I was like,

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Speaker 3: They really do take on a lot as the pros, Like,

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I was just about to ask where

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Speaker 2: your mirror ball is?

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Speaker 1: But it's right behind you always, always, always, and.

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Speaker 2: Your finger goes right up to it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I'm very proud of that thing.

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Speaker 2: So I binge watched are you my first? Did I did?

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Speaker 3: What did you think?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's so good weight. So this is

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of old schools, so I really enjoy Like

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Speaker 1: it's on Hulu. Everything's released. Came out on August eighteenth,

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Speaker 3: Because I do as well love the Weight so hate

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Speaker 3: the Weight. It is like a love hate relationship, and

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Speaker 3: a reunion or something. But I never know the behind

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Speaker 3: do my job really well. But like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: I think there are no business minds anymore. It's the

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Speaker 1: creatives are taking over. So Caitlin brist I think you

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Speaker 1: Hulu, because I think that's the way it should be done.

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Speaker 1: You get just enough and then you're like, sorry, you

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Speaker 1: got to wait a beat? Yeah, because I mean not

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Speaker 1: wait a long beat, like waiting for Wednesday to come out.

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Speaker 2: Season two for like what three four years? Didn't do

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Speaker 2: it for me?

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Speaker 3: That's fair. You know what season I'm waiting for? What

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Speaker 3: is this show called? Did you get into Severance?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I know, I hear. It's fabulous.

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Speaker 3: It's I didn't think I would get into it. I

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Speaker 3: watched the first four episodes and I was like, I

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Speaker 3: don't think this is for me. And then on episode

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Speaker 3: five it was when I was like, I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I would have keep trying, and then

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Speaker 3: I was in. And now the fact that they waited

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Speaker 3: like three years in between season one and two, and

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Speaker 3: now I'm waiting for season three and I'm like very

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Speaker 3: excited about it. But yeah, I can't decide if I

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Speaker 3: like the big people or the way.

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Speaker 2: So it looked like an island. Google.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I found that we are we allowed to say it,

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, I'm also I'm having Rachel on my podcast

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Speaker 3: It was about six weeks?

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Speaker 3: Yes, always on call, especially like Colton, and I really

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Speaker 1: No, it's literally like in our world there's like turnaround

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Speaker 2: Like this, a dating competition. It's like twenty four to seven.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it really is. I mean we I we had

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Speaker 2: I imagine. So how hot was it?

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Speaker 1: I just kept focusing in on your hair and makeup

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you pissed at you know, every we

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Speaker 3: You're right, I should be running Hulu. Absolutely, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, did you think it was fair that

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Speaker 3: I always I actually wonder if that helped or hurt

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Speaker 2: I gotta be honest, I didn't find anything sexy about him.

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Speaker 1: No, that's I love on, I will drink of water,

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Speaker 3: You never know. There's a I'm telling you this self

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Speaker 2: Oh for sure.

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Speaker 1: And I was fascinating when they were like, it's not

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Speaker 3: It's like, well I again, like you come into a reality.

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 2: Do you still believe in love?

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Speaker 3: I understand that. I just I feel like so many

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Speaker 3: found such a good core group of friends and people

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00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,399
Speaker 3: that I surround myself with. And all of my best

445
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,320
Speaker 3: friends are married with kids, and I look up to

446
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 3: them so much because they do make me believe in love.

447
00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:37,920
Speaker 3: And I just feel like my parents found their healthiest

448
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,879
Speaker 3: love in their remarriages when they were like in their fifties,

449
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 3: and I just feel like it's never it's never too late.

450
00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:45,800
Speaker 3: It's just I am a bit jaded because I have

451
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 3: trust issues.

452
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,680
Speaker 2: I understand. How old were you when your parents got divorced.

453
00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:55,159
Speaker 3: I was eight almost eighteen, so okay a bit later.

454
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:59,639
Speaker 3: And they always like we had I always tell people this,

455
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,199
Speaker 3: We had feelings meetings growing up as families, so like

456
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 3: if my parents got in an argument, we would like

457
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,119
Speaker 3: all sit down as a family and talk about our

458
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,600
Speaker 3: feelings and why it happened and like what they could

459
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 3: have done better. Like we were really open about all

460
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:14,160
Speaker 3: things in our family, which I think helped a lot.

461
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 1: Same I'm yeah, growing up, it was not like that

462
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,560
Speaker 1: in my family, so I made a conscious effort to

463
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 1: do that with my kids. Yes, I think perhaps I've

464
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 1: told them too much or done too many feelings, but

465
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 1: I don't think that's possible, I said, no one ever.

466
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I think that's really important. I feel like

467
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 3: I would want to be the same way if I

468
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 3: ever have children, I would want to be the same

469
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,399
Speaker 3: way because I think that really allows them to feel

470
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 3: safe as well to talk about feelings. And like, I've

471
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 3: always felt like such an open book with I mean strangers,

472
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,240
Speaker 3: all all open up to them. And when I went

473
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 3: on TV, I got absolutely destroyed online because I didn't

474
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:58,720
Speaker 3: understand that not everybody is so open about every detail

475
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,840
Speaker 3: in their life. And I got really like slutshamed for

476
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,719
Speaker 3: talking about sex. And I was like, wait, what, Because

477
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 3: I've just always been very open.

478
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 1: I think that's what I love about you, and I

479
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 1: feel like I'm like that too.

480
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 2: But do you feel like you're very polarizing? Yes?

481
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 3: I really, which is just so funny because I would

482
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:24,640
Speaker 3: have never in my life thought that until I went

483
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 3: on TV.

484
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 1: And that's funny it's the word we grow up thinking

485
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 1: has a negative connotation, except when it's said about you.

486
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 3: You're like, well, I was like, I guess I could

487
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 3: see that. I'm also a Gemini, So like, yes, are.

488
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 2: You a Gemini? When's your birthday?

489
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 3: June nineteenth?

490
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 2: Okay, my daughter's June ninth.

491
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 3: Yes, Gemini, And but a lot of cancer in my chart.

492
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 3: I'm a very sensitive, spicy lady.

493
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 2: That's a good balance.

494
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 3: It's a good balance. It's a lot, but it's good.

495
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:56,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

496
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,919
Speaker 1: I mean I think you being authentic just paved the

497
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 1: way for everybody.

498
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 2: I mean, you changed reality TV.

499
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 3: Wow.

500
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 2: I think so.

501
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 3: That's like one of the nicest things anyone could ever

502
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 3: say to me, just because I have realized from going

503
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 3: on reality television how much I crave authenticity in people,

504
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 3: and how again I had never surrounded myself with anyone

505
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 3: other than my little Canadian small town friends. So going

506
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,080
Speaker 3: into the big city of LA and getting into that

507
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 3: world of TV and I was like, oh my gosh,

508
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,359
Speaker 3: it like broke my spirit a little bit to see

509
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 3: how many fake people there were.

510
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, you're the filly that can never be broken.

511
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 2: Be proud of that. I will think that's why you

512
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 2: still have a beam of light.

513
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 3: Oh thank god. I remember Reagan Fox talking about how

514
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 3: people took away her sparkle and I was like, I

515
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 3: hate that for her. I don't want anybody to use

516
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 3: their little sparkle that they have.

517
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 2: I know it happens, though, it of course does.

518
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 3: I mean I can see why. And the Internet is

519
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 3: even worse. It's the worst it's ever been with bullying.

520
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 3: And it's awful out there.

521
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,880
Speaker 2: It's crazy. Where in Canada are you from exactly?

522
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 3: So, it's called La Duke. It's just outside of Edmonton

523
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 3: and Alberta. And then I moved to Vancouver. I had

524
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,360
Speaker 3: a dance scholarship, so I got to go to Vancouver

525
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 3: and dance out there. I've met a few kitty Canadians.

526
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 3: I will say that.

527
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,439
Speaker 2: It's a good bunch out there.

528
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Are you on dating apps?

529
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 3: I've never been on a dating app, and I feel

530
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,160
Speaker 3: like I really did miss out on a little era

531
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 3: there because I one of my best friends is married

532
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 3: to her first Tinder swipe. Really yeah, and that's how

533
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 3: my mom and my stepdad met was on well they

534
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 3: will never admit this, but it was on seniors dot com.

535
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 3: Because if you were like over fifty, it's considered like

536
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 3: seniors dot com and that's where they met.

537
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: So id seniors dot com. Because I'm fifty two, I

538
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: don't I can't fight.

539
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 2: I have to go.

540
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, look amazing. I honestly, I just turned forty and

541
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 3: I am like not phased at all about that. I

542
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 3: feel like forties are so exciting, and then I feel

543
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 3: like everybody. I think it's because we grew up with

544
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 3: a generation where our parents at fifty they just didn't

545
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 3: seem they seemed older than that, you know, so now

546
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 3: we realize, oh my gosh, it's all about our energy,

547
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 3: our like spirit and how we feel rather than ages.

548
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 2: But yeah, I never still hurt a little bit.

549
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 3: I will always understand that. I've I totally talked myself

550
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,679
Speaker 3: into loving forty before I was forty. So then I

551
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 3: got there and I was like, yes, I love it.

552
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 3: I've already convinced myself. But yeah, I've never I never

553
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 3: got to do the dating OUTSI I've just watched friends

554
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 3: do it and it always seems so fun. But they

555
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 3: scare me. They scare me a little bit.

556
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 2: They're terrifying.

557
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 1: And I was married for eighteen years, together for twenty

558
00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:00,439
Speaker 1: so I missed that as well. I would be with

559
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 1: my friends and be like, let me swipe for you.

560
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 2: This is so fun. I'm never going to get to

561
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 2: do this.

562
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: And now I'm single again at fifty two with five kids,

563
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 1: and I'm.

564
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 3: Like, oh, it's in your stock Holm.

565
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 2: What's that senior Stockholm.

566
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 3: I feel like there's some like genuine people on there.

567
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like I want someone younger

568
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 2: this time.

569
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 3: Ah fair, Yeah, I feel like I want somebody older

570
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 3: this time.

571
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: How old would be the oldest you would date?

572
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, probably like late forties, I would say, okay, yeah,

573
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 3: Like I don't mind a ten year age gap. That

574
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 3: doesn't That doesn't scare me.

575
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 1: Here's the thing that worries me. This is this is

576
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 1: just a personal thing. But I want to see if

577
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: you relate to this. I feel like a woman that's

578
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: forty or a woman that's fifty and going into wanting

579
00:26:56,080 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 1: a new relationship is fine, but never been that's fine.

580
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: But like if a man is forty plus and has

581
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,600
Speaker 1: never been married, I feel like it's a little bit

582
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: of a different thing. And I don't know why it's

583
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: like that. I don't but it's concerning and I don't

584
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 1: know why.

585
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 3: And I find like my dream is a what do

586
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,679
Speaker 3: they call him? A divorce? Like a divorce a man

587
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,880
Speaker 3: who's I always I always hear that people's second marriages

588
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 3: are like they're happiest too, And so I'm like, if

589
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 3: I like a man in his forties who's been divorced.

590
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: Hot, okay with kids?

591
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 3: Sure? I love kids. I hope to have my own.

592
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 3: But again, I froze my eggs when I was thirty three,

593
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 3: So I'm good girl.

594
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask you that.

595
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really happy I did that, but I mean

596
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 3: it's also not a guarantee. But you know, I'm I'm

597
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 3: kind of dating right now. I always I feel weird

598
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 3: saying it because I'm like, I'm trying to keep my

599
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 3: dating life like private. Yeah, it's like, so I'm like,

600
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 3: good luck, Yeah, it's it's it's tricky. I'm trying really hard.

601
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 3: So I'm like sometimes I say things and I'm like

602
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,479
Speaker 3: that doesn't add up, But then it doesn't feel authentic

603
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 3: because I'm like, am I being I douine right now?

604
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 2: Wait? Okay, wait how many did they?

605
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 3: So?

606
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 2: How many eggs did they? Were they able to freeze

607
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 2: when you were thirty.

608
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 3: Three, so I got I think I got fourteen or thirteen.

609
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 3: I think I got thirteen. And then they said anything

610
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 3: over ten for my age at thirty three was good,

611
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 3: So I was happy about that. But I don't know

612
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 3: how many are like good eggs, Like, I won't know

613
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 3: until they were fertilized and then you know, right because

614
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 3: it wasn't IBF, it was just freezing my eggs.

615
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 2: Do you ever go visit them? No?

616
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 3: I just asked that that's actually funny to be babies.

617
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 2: My guys check it in.

618
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 3: I want to hear. It's my best friend, one of

619
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 3: my best friends that I made friends with her on

620
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 3: The Bachelor. Actually she's a fertility nurse. So she did

621
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 3: it for me, and every time I visited, I was like,

622
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 3: how am my eggs doing? I should go visit them?

623
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: Wait, she did it for you, So are they like

624
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: in her freezer? Yeah, just chilling in my in my freezer.

625
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 3: I mean, oh, really, what are you going to do

626
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 3: with it? I don't know, Oh yeah, because I heard

627
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 3: you can like make it into pills or do something.

628
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 1: I know my last one, well he's eight now, so

629
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: I don't know eight years. It's probably we did we

630
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: took a little piece of it right afterwards.

631
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 2: And my husband cooked it and you ate it, uh huh.

632
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because they say that's like so full of nutrients. Yeah,

633
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 3: that do breast milk right now is like being sold

634
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 3: on the black market for like.

635
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's crazy, Like that's the range is

636
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: the gold bodily fluids?

637
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? What's next?

638
00:29:58,560 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 3: I don't know, and I don't know.

639
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 2: I want to.

640
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 3: You never know what's coming next. Like not being phases

641
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 3: me at this point in my life, like after COVID

642
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 3: and just so much like everything weird happening and like

643
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 3: people talking about aliens Like I'm like, nothing will phase

644
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 3: me ever again, Like there the tree could start talking

645
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 3: to me outside and I'd be like, sure, it's twenty

646
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 3: twenty five.

647
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 2: Do red roses phase you? No?

648
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 3: I love you?

649
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: Hate them? You love them?

650
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 3: I love them. I feel like I went through a

651
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 3: phase maybe a while back where I was like no,

652
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 3: but then I realized that that was like the most

653
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 3: pivotal point in my life for like living a true

654
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 3: like dream of mine, And so I now have a

655
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 3: rose tattooed on me because I'm like, no, I want

656
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 3: it to be positive.

657
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 2: Oh I love that where's your rose tattoo?

658
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 3: It's on on my arm right here.

659
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 2: M yeah, there's your beebe peebe Hi.

660
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 3: You know she looks so gray right now. He's like

661
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 3: just starting to go great.

662
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: He's he's probably like sick.

663
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 3: I rescued both of them, so I actually don't know

664
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 3: how old they are, but I feel like he's probably six.

665
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I can't wait till they can clone dogs.

666
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 3: Oh.

667
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 2: I I don't care about but dogs like, oh no, no,

668
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: we don't get enough time with them.

669
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 3: I'm the same. And I heard that they're coming out

670
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 3: with a pill in twenty twenty six that helps dogs

671
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 3: live longer.

672
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 2: I'm there for that.

673
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, take my money.

674
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: Isn't that Yes, Like there's so many things medically we

675
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: won't do for ourselves, but our animals are hurt and

676
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: you take them somewhere and they're like it's going to

677
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: be twelve thousand dollars.

678
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 2: And you're like, yeah, it's my blood, take everything.

679
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 3: Do it. Monts of dogs about it, and I'm like, Hayley,

680
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 3: they are so expensive, and she's like, you know, a

681
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 3: single mom working jobs and doing just her absolute best.

682
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 3: But I'm like, dogs are expensive, but they're also the

683
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 3: best thing that has ever happened to me.

684
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I should have followed my instinct at six to

685
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: be a VET because I'd be really wealthy now and

686
00:31:58,480 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: my life wouldn't be inconsistent.

687
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 3: But then you wouldn't be You're like such an icon

688
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 3: and such a legend, and I feel like you were

689
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 3: meant for that path. But also I could never handle

690
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 3: the heartbreak of being a vett. Think of how many

691
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 3: heartbreaks you have to experience.

692
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 2: I know, and I always ask them that too.

693
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, Like behind the scenes when

694
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 1: you're there, you're like, is this just it's the same

695
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: thing doctors often say, you know, in hospitals with children

696
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: and people.

697
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 3: It's just constant.

698
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: You have to like stop taking it home. Oh my gosh,

699
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: do you take on people's energy.

700
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 3: It's so much that it like frustrates me that I

701
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 3: actually find myself becoming so much more of an introvert

702
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 3: now than I ever have been, because I didn't realize

703
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 3: how much I do that until I started getting I'm like,

704
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 3: I'm pretty spiritual, and so I started really paying attention

705
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 3: to certain things, and I just I really do and

706
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 3: sometimes I won't even realize it, and I'll be in

707
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: the same room as somebody and like I'll like all

708
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 3: feel them, like feeling sick, Like I'll feel that. It's scary.

709
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 3: Almost Like my ex always called me a witch because

710
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 3: I was like, because of how much I feel witch.

711
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 2: Ex called you that.

712
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 3: One that would love if I kept bringing up his

713
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 3: name because he loves to be in the headlines.

714
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: So I had to copy that.

715
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 3: You'd be like, yes, I got talked about again, But

716
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 3: I actually I take it as a compliment. If you

717
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 3: think I have witchy vibes, I'm like, that's awesome. I

718
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 3: love I love being a witch.

719
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: That's so funny. Just from being on a zoom with you,

720
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: I was like, she's an EmPATH.

721
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 3: I can tell oh it, Yeah, it's I love it.

722
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 3: I love it because it's part of who I am.

723
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 3: But it's just it really is draining, and I I

724
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 3: sleep so hard when I get home from any Like

725
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 3: like yesterday I was at my friend's house and she

726
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 3: had some people over at her pool and I came

727
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 3: home and I like, I'm like, I need ten hours

728
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 3: of sleep.

729
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 2: Can you get ten hours to sleep?

730
00:33:59,000 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

731
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: What? Oh you're one of those Yes, I could sleep

732
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: you sleep anywhere.

733
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 3: I can sleep anywhere, and I can sleep like if

734
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 3: I was allowed because I have things to do, I

735
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 3: could sleep fourteen hours if I if I chose to.

736
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 2: That is wild.

737
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 3: I know. It's like I'm good at I do. Once

738
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 3: in a while, I'll wake up in the middle of

739
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: the night with some pretty intrusive thoughts, like very around

740
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:30,240
Speaker 3: my cycle. And so I've just like learned my body

741
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 3: so well that i can sleep anywhere and for a

742
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 3: long amount of time unless I'm in a certain phase

743
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 3: of my cycle where i have the worst depression and

744
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 3: anxiety and I spiral and then that's when I can't sleep.

745
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 1: Wow, you were just telling me that you know what

746
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: was going through my head that you should start a

747
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: vibrator line you think so yeah, red rose one.

748
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 3: Ah, that's kind of genius.

749
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,240
Speaker 2: That's a good one, right, that's.

750
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 3: A really good one because well, first of all, people

751
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 3: did know me as like the sexual bachelorette, right, I'm

752
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 3: so open about that kind of thing. And then you

753
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 3: put in a red rose and it's I mean, I'm

754
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 3: not mad.

755
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

756
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: No, if they ever replaced the rose, what would you

757
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: replace it with?

758
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 3: WHOA? Maybe like a glass of wine?

759
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:27,720
Speaker 2: Because you do have a marketing brain?

760
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 3: There you go, maybe a glass of wine or a

761
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 3: red Rose vibrator for all the girls.

762
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I like this red Rose vibrator. Wait, but

763
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 2: so you.

764
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: Have your wine line, which I really I want to taste.

765
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:44,760
Speaker 3: Oh, I will send you. It's actually I'm really depressed

766
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 3: because my wine line has to close down now. I

767
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:52,280
Speaker 3: want to pivot because the facility that makes my wine

768
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 3: they in the wine industry for over one hundred years,

769
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 3: and the facility shut down. So I didn't have a

770
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 3: choice but to. But I have so much of it

771
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 3: still where I'm like, please send me your address because

772
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 3: I will send you. It's so good. It's the only

773
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 3: wine I drink, and I love it so much, and

774
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm gonna have to start all over again

775
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 3: if I do continue to do it, because I'm like,

776
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 3: I worked so closely with this wine maker.

777
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

778
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 3: For ten years, I worked in a restaurant business, and

779
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 3: I worked under a somalier learning about wine, and then

780
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 3: I would train servers on their wine knowledge to like

781
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 3: pair it with food, and we'd go on these retreats

782
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 3: to like wine country, and I'd learn so much. So

783
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 3: I'm like very dialed in when it comes to wine.

784
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 3: And I'm so sad that this facility shut down because

785
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 3: I'm like.

786
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 2: It's gone. There must be a way.

787
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 3: I know.

788
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 2: I'm sure I can, Like I'll have to transfer the vines.

789
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: I know, somewhere near your eggs. She could grow both

790
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: with love.

791
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 3: You know what you really you've also got a market

792
00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:01,280
Speaker 3: like that. That's genius. Yeah, I should, I'll find something

793
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 3: to do. But I'm like, I'm pretty bummed out about it.

794
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry. Okay, it's it's you always find a

795
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:08,919
Speaker 1: way though.

796
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 3: Oh I do my brain, You're a warrior, thank you.

797
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 3: I do. I get excited to think about like, Okay,

798
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,359
Speaker 3: there's nothing I can do about that. What can we do?

799
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 3: Like how can I pivot? What's next? What can we make?

800
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: And I actually like that part of it. It's that

801
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:30,399
Speaker 3: ten years ago me would have spiraled, but ten years

802
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 3: of therapy Caitlin and learning how to cope has taught

803
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 3: me to be like, Okay, this is the universe's way

804
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 3: of showing me that it's just time for the next step.

805
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 1: Yep, you're being challenged, that's it. I believe that no

806
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: is the first word towards yes. Absolutely, And I live

807
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: by that.

808
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 3: Literally, I really believe that in that's such a powerful

809
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 3: way of thinking for anyone that's listening or watching, Like

810
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,760
Speaker 3: that really is a powerful, powerful way of thinking, because

811
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 3: every note in my life led me to somehow go

812
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 3: on television and then like get to have I always

813
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 3: manifested when I was in my young twenties. I always

814
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 3: wanted my own radio show. I'm like sitting here with

815
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 3: a podcast on your Tory Spellings podcast, Like this is

816
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 3: so crazy to me.

817
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I want to be on your podcast.

818
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 3: Oh please, I would love. Do you live in la

819
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 3: I do? Yeah, Okay, I come out there quite often

820
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 3: for podcasts. So we'll plan that. Because it's just like

821
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 3: every every no has has led me in the right direction.

822
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

823
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

824
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 2: Could you date a man that doesn't drink wine?

825
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 3: Yeah? I could, because it would probably help me drink

826
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 3: less wine. You'd have to accept my wine drinking.

827
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 2: What what? Uh wait? I want to drink wine with you. Sorry,

828
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 2: that's all I'm thinking right now. I just want to

829
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 2: drink wine with her.

830
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 3: We'll do both.

831
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I find the older I get though,

832
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: like I'm like a cheap drunk.

833
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 3: Oh oddly same. I used to be able to drink,

834
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 3: like I could drink a full bottle of wine and

835
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 3: be totally fine and function the next day. And I

836
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 3: still like and I have some sort of superpower there

837
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 3: where I actually really don't get hungover. But my problem is,

838
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 3: I like, have two glasses of wine now and I'm like, whoa,

839
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 3: which is so new for me? And I'm like, is

840
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,879
Speaker 3: that it must be getting older? It's you just become

841
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 3: a super drunk, which is fine.

842
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: That sucks though, Yeah, I get the slur now, like

843
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: after one or two glasses, and I'm like, oh no,

844
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 1: And then I have to keep saying like I only

845
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: get two glasses with dinner, like because I feel so shamed.

846
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 3: I don't feel shamed. You should bring the.

847
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: Slur is not cute? No that you're right, And I'm

848
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:54,280
Speaker 1: single now, so I got to work on the slur.

849
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 3: Well, my favorite thing to do at a restaurant is

850
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 3: have it a gin martini now and then I just

851
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 3: sip that the whole time.

852
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 2: Oh see, I'm not a sipper.

853
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 3: Well, I'm a gin martini makes me a sipper.

854
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: Oh see, so I've tried that with a martini, but

855
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: vodka and I just drink it just as fast.

856
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 2: And then I'm even more wasted. So well, I dried, like,

857
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 2: do you like saki?

858
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 3: I love soake?

859
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 2: Okay, same, Yes, I love it, but I shoot it.

860
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 2: I don't sip it.

861
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 3: Well, I think you're supposed to. Oh really, isn't that

862
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 3: the etiquette?

863
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 1: I don't know my ex for years he'd be like, oh,

864
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 1: she likes leans the whole thing back, and I was like,

865
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: I always thought you were supposed to.

866
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 3: I actually I'm going to look into this for you

867
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 3: because I heard two things. One You're never supposed to

868
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 3: pour your own because it's bad luck the.

869
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 2: First one right first one yeah, And two.

870
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 3: That I don't think hot. You're supposed to sling back

871
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 3: but cold in the little glass. I think you are

872
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 3: you sling back hot? That just hurts my thorough thinking

873
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 3: about it.

874
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: I know, impressive, thank you. I give it a few

875
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 1: blows and then that came out wrong, but then I

876
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: take it all.

877
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 2: No, I'm just kidding, but I love you.

878
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 3: I love you too.

879
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 2: We didn't after hours that podcast here.

880
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 3: That's what I'm talking about. Even with the Virgin show,

881
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, what's happening like the tea behind the scenes,

882
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is why we need a reunion because

883
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 3: there's so much tea happening by the scenes, and I'm like,

884
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 3: come on, this is the real show here.

885
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. Tea.

886
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 3: Isn't that a weird word? Like that one came so popular.

887
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 3: I don't know where that started from. Don't you ever

888
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 3: wonder who started the sayings that become like so popular.

889
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, where did that start?

890
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 1: Because when I was young, you'd be like, who started

891
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 1: white out? They became so famous and so rich. And

892
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: now if I make that reference my kids, they're like,

893
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: what's white out?

894
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 3: What the heck is white out?

895
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 1: That's and I'm like, oh my god, I'm old, no archaic,

896
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 1: but yeah, whoever started the sayings? Nothing, it's just their legacy.

897
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 1: They'd make any money off of it, Yeah.

898
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 3: But they don't. They don't even get the credit for

899
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,399
Speaker 3: it because nobody knows who. At least the white oat

900
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 3: guy gets gets billions.

901
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, like maybe it's on their tombstone like something.

902
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 1: I started this saying, Yay, that's funny. Wait, you said

903
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: you've got some crazy dms from virgins? But do you

904
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: get men sliding into your dms all the time?

905
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 3: No? And I always who did? I just talk to

906
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 3: you about this. Uh well, this is probably like a

907
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 3: year ago now, but I remember talking to oh Kristin Cavalary,

908
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 3: who she gets dms from guys like crazy, and I.

909
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 2: Was like like good dms, Like.

910
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 3: Good, yeah, like she's like met some people that way.

911
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 2: What yeah?

912
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 3: And I am like, I have the only men that

913
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 3: slide into my dms are creep There's two creepy guys

914
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 3: that always want to talk about my feet. And I'm like, well,

915
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 3: that's not interesting.

916
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 2: And your response should be for how much?

917
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, well it is exactly where my brain goes. I go,

918
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 3: yeah much. But that's I also have, like if you

919
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 3: look at my stats on Instagram, it's like ninety eight

920
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 3: percent female, which I love, but yeah, I think the

921
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:27,760
Speaker 3: like two percent just want to see my feet apparently.

922
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 2: So you have good feet. What's hisice feet?

923
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 3: Six five six and a half?

924
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 2: Oh me too?

925
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 3: Oh we could hear shoes.

926
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have so many shoes because both my girls

927
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: outgrew my feet.

928
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 2: So I have like a collect I.

929
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: Call it my art collection of like heels like since

930
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: the nineties, Oh my god, and no one can wear

931
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 1: them except you.

932
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 3: Apparently you need to send me a photo of that

933
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 3: because I never was a shoe girl until recently, and

934
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 3: now I love shoes.

935
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 2: I could fill a tub. In fact, once I did

936
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: and took a photo in it with all my heels.

937
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 3: That's cute.

938
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 2: I like that, thank you.

939
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 3: Now I used to like chop at Payless and like

940
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 3: didn't care about shoes at all, and I just always

941
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 3: wore Converse. And now I'm starting to like bags and

942
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,720
Speaker 3: shoes I'm starting to like, which I never did before.

943
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: So we're the polar opposites because I used to always

944
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: be into heels and bags and I have such a

945
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 1: huge collection that I don't wear or use anymore, and

946
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 1: now I just wear Converse.

947
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 2: Oh funny, isn't that weird?

948
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, Converser, I love They're the best.

949
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 2: That's my jam.

950
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm into that.

951
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, even with dresses, like I wear Converse.

952
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 3: I always said i'd if I get married, I'm gonna

953
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 3: wear Converse under my wedding dress. Oh I love that.

954
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 2: Well.

955
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 3: Color probably white or like go edgy and do like

956
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 3: a black leather.

957
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't have to. You don't have to wear white.

958
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 3: Nobody's gonna see them anyways.

959
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's after labor day. You're forty, you can do

960
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: whatever you want now, whatever I want.

961
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 3: And also I feel like I never thought I would

962
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 3: be the girl who would think about wedding dresses, and

963
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 3: now I'm like, if I get married, I want two

964
00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 3: different dresses, and I want like a short party skirt

965
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 3: for after, and I want a long, beautiful one of

966
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 3: the like I've never thought I would think about that.

967
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 3: I never cared before, and coming from engaged twice, that

968
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 3: doesn't make sense.

969
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 2: No, after everything you've been through, you deserve to have

970
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 2: whatever the fuck you want at your wedding.

971
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 3: I also picture a courthouse, so I'm really this is

972
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 3: where I'm a Gemini.

973
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:17,720
Speaker 2: I'm very courthouse hmm.

974
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 3: But you can have both exactly. That's that's what I

975
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 3: would do. I'll do both.

976
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: You can have everything. Okay, So would you ever be

977
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 1: on another dating show? Sorry, I know we have to

978
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 1: wrap up soon.

979
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,399
Speaker 3: Well, but I as a host, I would never never

980
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,880
Speaker 3: want a dating show again. As a contestant, I've I

981
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 3: had so much fun doing it. I had so much

982
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 3: fun on the Bachelor. The Bachelorette was hell and then

983
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:38,760
Speaker 3: I'm good now.

984
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: But what if?

985
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: Okay, it was a divorces all divorces, so it's your

986
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 1: type I'm just putting it out there because I never

987
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,879
Speaker 1: I didn't think i'd ever be on a dating show,

988
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 1: and I didn't think.

989
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 2: I'd ever be divorced, right.

990
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 1: I was like, if I could find a nice I

991
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: want a dad too.

992
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 3: So yeah, I feel that I know I still wouldn't

993
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 3: do it, though, I'm yeah, because I'm like, I think,

994
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 3: I think what really killed me with the dating and

995
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 3: being the bachelorette was how I constantly was hurting people's

996
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 3: feelings and I was just every day disappointing somebody and

997
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 3: it was the hardest thing ever. Because I feel like

998
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 3: I'm even more I'm like softer in my older years now,

999
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 3: where I'm like, I can't imagine just constantly disappointing people

1000
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 3: and hurting their feelings every week.

1001
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 2: That's really kind to you.

1002
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: What if it was a hidden camera show and you

1003
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 1: were just punking people like your axents that I would

1004
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:39,399
Speaker 1: get down with.

1005
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 3: That I would get down with absolutely. Yes, put me

1006
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 3: on a punk show any day of the week.

1007
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm obsessed with your Instagram by the way,

1008
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: are Yeah, it's very uh stimulating okaing good, that's not polarizing,

1009
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 1: it's stimulating.

1010
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 3: Uh.

1011
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 1: How long does it take you to do handle your

1012
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: social media day?

1013
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 3: I don't think twice about it.

1014
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 2: This is not fair. I know, it's a lot of gift.

1015
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 3: A lot of my friends are like, oh, you just

1016
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 3: do it and don't look back. I'm like, no, all,

1017
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:18,959
Speaker 3: I can put something together so fast, or I don't

1018
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 3: think twice, and then I just I like writing, so

1019
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 3: sometimes i'll like write out a good and then other

1020
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 3: times I just like to like say something inappropriate or

1021
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 3: make a joke. But I don't know. It must be

1022
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,240
Speaker 3: maybe a little bit of a skill because I really

1023
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 3: just do it and don't think twice and then carry

1024
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 3: on with my day.

1025
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:37,240
Speaker 2: Let me tell you have mad skills.

1026
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: I do all my social myself, and it takes me

1027
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 1: to put up one post like a whole day, like hours,

1028
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 1: Like oh you.

1029
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 3: Got to hire somebody for that, right. Yeah. I enjoy

1030
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,800
Speaker 3: doing it because I can just power through so quickly.

1031
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 3: It's like I don't overthink it at all.

1032
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: And you have no bad angle, so it's and you're

1033
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: not like I love how you're so unafraid.

1034
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the only thing I get terrified because

1035
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 3: I grew up doing musical theater and I love singing.

1036
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 3: And I've put out a couple songs, and that's when

1037
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 3: I get really scared. I get crippled with fear with

1038
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 3: putting out music or people hearing my voice.

1039
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 2: You haven't done mass singer, right, No? Would you?

1040
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 3: Yeah? I would totally do that show. I feel like that,

1041
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:27,879
Speaker 3: have you done it?

1042
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,399
Speaker 2: I have, I've heard.

1043
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 3: It's a really nice experience.

1044
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: I was on the first season of the US and

1045
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: then I've done different ones around the world. But the

1046
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: first season, I just had no idea because we didn't

1047
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: know what the show was. You didn't know what was happening,

1048
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: so it wasn't It was really scary, But for me

1049
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:48,280
Speaker 1: it was really freeing because people always judge me because

1050
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: of my name, you know, they see me and like

1051
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: instantly like, she can't do this, she can't do that.

1052
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 1: So it was so great to have a mask in

1053
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: front of me and it's like they don't know it's

1054
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:56,760
Speaker 1: Tory spelling.

1055
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: And I actually got compliments and I'm like.

1056
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this feels nice to get compliments that

1057
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: when I had to take off the mask, I'm like,

1058
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to.

1059
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would be the same way, Like, I even

1060
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 3: feel more confident singing with sunglasses on, so I feel

1061
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 3: like it really really helped me. Yeah.

1062
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:15,919
Speaker 2: What's your go to karaoke song?

1063
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 3: Oh gosh, well, my go to is probably Shoop by

1064
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 3: Salt and Peppa Nice. I know every word of that

1065
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:24,920
Speaker 3: song and I feel like I whip it out of

1066
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,760
Speaker 3: karaoke all the time. But I also love anything Alanis

1067
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 3: Moore sat Nice. Yeah. What about you?

1068
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I don't. I don't do karaoke. What I know,

1069
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 2: I love karaoke, I mean I will do it. I

1070
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 2: like a good piano bar.

1071
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 3: I love a piano bar. Oh my gosh, Dueling pianos

1072
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 3: and a piano bar are my favorite things.

1073
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: I like that, Like that's more my jam than like

1074
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: because I don't know, karaoke can be a little bit

1075
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: too cool for school and then I get nervous.

1076
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 2: But if you can just like I feel.

1077
00:49:57,000 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 3: Free, like with your friends, Like you just rent out

1078
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 3: like a private room of karaoke with your friends. That's fun.

1079
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would do that. Yeah. Do you like pickles?

1080
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 3: Yes?

1081
00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 2: Why do you say it like that? I don't know.

1082
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: They're one of my favorite things, and we seem to

1083
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:14,839
Speaker 1: have a lot in common, so I just thought i'd

1084
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 1: ask you if you like pickles.

1085
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 3: No, that.

1086
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 2: Really threw me.

1087
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,399
Speaker 3: I was like, I love this question though, because I

1088
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 3: was just in Canada with family and my girlfriend pickles.

1089
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:31,360
Speaker 3: That's what she loves, pickling things, and she gave me

1090
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:36,240
Speaker 3: a big spicy My mouth is watering. It's like spicy garlic.

1091
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 2: Pickles that you know, not your lockjaw.

1092
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 3: Uh huh. It's happening, and I yes, and I'm I

1093
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 3: was trying to eat them all before I left because

1094
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 3: I didn't know how to pack them.

1095
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:49,720
Speaker 2: Yes, I like pickling as well.

1096
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 3: Do maybe that I should start that. I feel like

1097
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 3: that's a habit. I could get down with the whole

1098
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 3: pickling pickles.

1099
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:01,280
Speaker 1: I sorry the garden at this house, but I always

1100
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: did have a garden.

1101
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 3: I love a garden. That's my dream. In my next house,

1102
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 3: I will have a garden. I want to become Anderson.

1103
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 2: I'm like great at growing things.

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00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm great at growing humans and animals, but not I

1105
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: don't have a green thumb.

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00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 3: I won't either.

1107
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 2: That's a fan it is.

1108
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:19,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, all my plants in my house are fake because

1109
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 3: I also can't keep anything alive except a snake plant.

1110
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 3: I feel like a snake plant I can keep alive

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00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:26,319
Speaker 3: and I think that's it.

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00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't know what a snake plant is.

1113
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 3: Oh, I'll send you a photo.

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00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 1: I need that, okay, because I've even killed cactuses.

1115
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have two, okay.

1116
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:37,839
Speaker 2: Succulents, I kill them all.

1117
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I I have to set a reminder in

1118
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 3: my calendar to like, if I'm going to do anything,

1119
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 3: it needs to be in my calendar because I am

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00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 3: so unorganized it's embarrassing and everything that if I'm ever

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00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 3: going to remember anything, I just need to write it

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00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 3: down or put it in my calendar or I will forget.

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00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 2: I just came up with another business for you. I'll

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00:51:59,320 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 2: leave you with this.

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00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: When you grow your garden, I think you should have

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00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:07,280
Speaker 1: your own variety of rose you should grow in your garden,

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00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: like a deep wine colored rose.

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Speaker 3: That's a good idea. I don't know, just for like

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00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,959
Speaker 3: aesthetically pleasing Instagram posts or to sell.

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00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 2: No fuck that like for business. I mean it all

1131
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:26,399
Speaker 2: starts organically, right.

1132
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 3: I have a rose from my Bachelorette season. Hold on,

1133
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 3: I'll show you saved it. The one of my guys

1134
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 3: brought it for me when he came on my podcast,

1135
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 3: and look at it. It's just completely dried out and

1136
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 3: still the magnet is over there from because when you

1137
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: pin the roses on guys, it's a magnet.

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00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 2: Oooh yeah, a little known fact.

1139
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 3: Yeah. People always are like, how do you get them

1140
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:52,240
Speaker 3: to stick like that? I'm like, it's a magnet.

1141
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that needs to be a forever rose.

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00:52:55,960 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, it iss not moldy.

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00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Well, I want to meet you in

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00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 2: person and hang out with you.

1145
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 3: Because absolutely is when I come to LA next, which

1146
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 3: I'm not sure when I'm probably beginning of October, so

1147
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 3: I will be here.

1148
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 2: Do you like horror films?

1149
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 3: I do?

1150
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you said October, and it's like the spooky

1151
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: season and that's when I come alive.

1152
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 3: So spooky season is my favorite season as well.

1153
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my gosh.

1154
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so we'll have spooky night wine and podcast.

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00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 2: Perfect. This sounds like a great night in that everyone

1156
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 2: will want to know about it.

1157
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 3: So wonderful.

1158
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 2: Thank you, so are you fun?

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00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:46,879
Speaker 3: Thank you so much?

1160
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 2: Thank you. Okay, I'll see you soon then.

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00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 3: Okay, yep, I'll let you know. I'm gonna DM you

1162
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:51,919
Speaker 3: right now.

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00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, you're sliding into my DMS, slid into your

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00:53:55,960 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 1: m Okay, put something dirty too, Okay, well, night, leve five,