1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning show. 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 2: It's kind of funny. Every once in a while we'll say, oh, 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,880 Speaker 2: we have a guest on today. Oh it's you know, 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 2: an artist that has a new album out, or it's 5 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: an actor that has a new play out or whatever. Yeah, 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 2: today we have someone to hear that none of you 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 2: know at all. This is my favorite thing to do 8 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: in the world. Now we're having a person who is 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: here because she's lovely. She's got a heart the size 10 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 2: of the planet Earth. Her name is Kathleen. I don't 11 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 2: even know your last name. It's Maxwell, Kathleen Maxwell. Yes, 12 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 2: and your son Andrew is here. Yes, Andrew Maxwell, Andrew 13 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 2: high Andrew. 14 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 3: Hello. 15 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: How's it going. Okay, we're doing fine. So you're sitting there, 16 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 2: you know, in traffic whatever you're doing right now, saying well, okay, great, 17 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 2: Kathleen and Andrew are there? Why are they there? I'll 18 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 2: tell you the story, May I, yes? 19 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 3: Please? 20 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 2: I you know Odeon Downtown lunch there all the time, 21 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 2: one of her favorite places. This woman walks up to 22 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: me as we're at the bar eating, She says, I 23 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,319 Speaker 2: want to meet you. I listened to your show every 24 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: day I love everyone on your show. You've gotten me 25 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 2: through all sorts of things, and I want a job 26 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: on your show. 27 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 3: You said that, right, Yes, I did. 28 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 2: Okay, you thought I'm gonna go to this guy and 29 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 2: just say I want a job in your show, not 30 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 2: knowing what's going to happen. 31 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: It was not so much a job. 32 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 4: It was more of, well, the dream started out as 33 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 4: a job on the show, but then I wound up 34 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 4: going to the local community college because you guys started 35 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 4: talking about podcasts, and I thought, how can I contribute 36 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 4: to the show. 37 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 3: And I thought, oh, I could help him out with 38 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 3: a podcast. 39 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 4: But I didn't know how to mix, record, edit music, 40 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 4: or voice, and so I went to the local community 41 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 4: college at Bergen and learned how to do that from 42 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 4: twenty eighteen on. And then when I was just about 43 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 4: to get to have an internship or something, that's when 44 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 4: the pandemic hit and everything kind of shut down. 45 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it did. Yeah, And so that's how we met. 46 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 2: But I remember, I don't remember everything we talked about, 47 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 2: but I do remember it was just lovely speaking with you, 48 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 2: and you had nothing but glowing, wonderful, warm thoughts about 49 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 2: our show and us and whatever. 50 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 3: You know, well, because it's changed my life. 51 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 4: And you guys were there for me when I felt 52 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 4: so lonely when I was raising eye four kids, which 53 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 4: are all adults now, and I just felt so lonely. 54 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 4: I thought I was like the loneliest, busiest person on 55 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 4: the world in the world, and just listening to your 56 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 4: show made me feel not lonely. And I was so 57 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 4: grateful how you opened up and shared your lives and 58 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 4: your feelings and your heart and it gave me the 59 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 4: opportunity because I was so terrified of just showing any 60 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 4: emotion because I was trying to hold it all together 61 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 4: and I have like this perfection thing. And so once 62 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 4: I just heard you guys, I don't know why, but 63 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 4: it gave me permission to feel and to speak my 64 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 4: mind and to dream again. And I started dreaming and 65 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 4: look at where I am. I mean, I'm just I'm 66 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 4: so amazed. 67 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 3: Unfortunately, in the. 68 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 4: Morning Show some of my favorite people on the planet. 69 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 2: All right, So this is why we invited Kathleen up 70 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 2: here today. Did you understand when I'm talking about get 71 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 2: a drink of water? Get a drink of water now? 72 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 2: So we were talking a while, and then Andrew her 73 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 2: Son was in the car. You don't remember this? He 74 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 2: comes and said, Mom, we gotta go. I'm like okay. 75 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 2: So years went by, maybe two years, three, three years 76 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: went by, Yes, and I received an email from Kathleen 77 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 2: and please I gotta find I didn't I didn't plan 78 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 2: a hand for this, Kathleen search. How do you? Kathleen? 79 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: Well, you're searching. Can I ask her one question? 80 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 2: Please do? 81 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 3: Okay? 82 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: When you said you wanted to work here, what kind 83 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: of job would you want with the show? 84 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 4: See the magic of you guys is I can see 85 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 4: myself with practically anybody. I could see myself helping out Andrew, 86 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 4: the operations manager, and he's like, yeah, I would we 87 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 4: do that. To think about what a mother does. They 88 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 4: just pick up whatever needs to be done. You don't 89 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 4: you think so far ahead and you anticipate needs, or 90 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 4: at least that's what I did as a mother, and 91 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 4: so it became second nature to me. And when they 92 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 4: started growing up and leaving the house one by one, 93 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 4: that's when I was like. 94 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 3: What am I going to do? 95 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 4: And so I was trying to find my purpose and 96 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 4: I thought, wow, you guys seem like you have so 97 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 4: much fun. You're this big family who shares emotions. You laugh, 98 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 4: and you fight, and you love and you're sad together. 99 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 4: And I have a big family too, and I just 100 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 4: I don't know why. I just everything felt so normal. 101 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 4: You made me feel normal. 102 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 3: Wow, wow and safe? 103 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, before I read the email from Kathleen, what 104 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 2: is it like having a mom like your mom? Andrew? Seriously, Oh, 105 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 2: it's amazing. I'm the most caring person I could ever 106 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: heard ask for. And I'm no offense to your friends, 107 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: but I'm assuming that out of all your friends, you 108 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:08,919 Speaker 2: are the one that has the best mom. Absolutely competition. 109 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 2: So this is the email that came in from Kathleen 110 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 2: three years after we met, and we hadn't spoken at all. Now, Elvis, 111 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 2: almost three years ago May thirteenth, for my fifty second birthday, 112 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 2: I went to Odeon with the hope that you would 113 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: be sitting at the bar. I had rehearsed what I 114 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: wanted to say to you with my close friends for 115 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 2: days beforehand. 116 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: You really did that. 117 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 4: I really did that. They think you're a little nutty, 118 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 4: but yeah, they all do, and a lot of them 119 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 4: are listening right now. 120 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: All right, Well, look where nutty Kathleen is. She's with us, 121 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 2: and she's making us feel so great. Anyway, Surprisingly, Elvis, 122 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 2: you were there and I nearly lost my nerve. But 123 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 2: I had my best friend with me, my crutch, my lifeline, 124 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 2: and when I needed that courage to do what I 125 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 2: wanted to do in my heart but was lacking, I 126 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,799 Speaker 2: walked up and said hi. Our conversation was a dream 127 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 2: fulfilled for that day, but there was more dreams to 128 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: be born and pursued. Later. You offered ideas and a 129 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: possible in studio visit, but circumstances like pandemic prevented it. 130 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 2: Kathleen goes on to say, what stopped me the last 131 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 2: three years was what you said. Was I willing and 132 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 2: capable of changing my life so much that I could 133 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 2: work and succeed the hours it would take. At the time, 134 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:19,719 Speaker 2: I was unsure for many reasons, but a very large 135 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 2: one was an aging friend that needed me towards the 136 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 2: end of her life as much as I needed her 137 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 2: for mine. As she wrote this letter to me, she says, 138 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: yesterday I lost my best friend. She died in front 139 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 2: of me in the morning, and by sunset, my family 140 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 2: and I formed a circle of love around her and 141 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: we watched her body be buried. Pictures on my phone 142 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 2: walls and in my head and others who loved her 143 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 2: are all that is left. My love for her, my 144 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 2: love for us, will never die, and I carry her 145 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 2: now in my heart. Today day one, I find the 146 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 2: strength within to ask you may come finally get that 147 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 2: visit in the studio. I would love to see the 148 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 2: Morning Show in action and to pull back the curtain. 149 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 2: As an avid listener, the show has inspired me to 150 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 2: change my life, and I'm ready to see more and 151 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 2: see who the next step is all the best from Kathleen. 152 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 2: Oh wow, So that's why Kathleen's here today. 153 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 5: If you're wondering, I'm kind of worrying now what she's 154 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 5: gonna see behind the curtain. 155 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 3: Behind the curtain is amazing. 156 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 2: I wish everybody could see this wild What else shifted 157 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 2: in your life the day that your friend passed away 158 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 2: right in front of you? It must have been a monumental. 159 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 2: The plates of the planet just all shifted for you. 160 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 4: Well, a lot of what I had been anticipating for 161 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 4: the last several years. Because if everybody doesn't understand, the 162 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 4: person who passed away was my dog, Lily, and so 163 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 4: she was everything to me. She was like my right arm, 164 00:07:56,600 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 4: and I didn't really go anywhere without her. I've traveled 165 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 4: overseas with her. I've gone everywhere with her, and she 166 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 4: was always there for me. And I knew she was 167 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 4: getting old. She was fourteen and so, not that I 168 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:15,119 Speaker 4: needed any reminders, but I had a lot of people 169 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 4: reminding me that she was aging. And what was I 170 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 4: going to do once she passed? And I really didn't know, 171 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 4: but that anticipation, which like when you go on a vacation, 172 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 4: you're very excited about going on a vacation and actually 173 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 4: builds the excitement, well, the anticipation of her passing was 174 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 4: crippling me, and so I didn't know what else to 175 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 4: do except take care of her. So and I also 176 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 4: anticipated that her death would be horrific and morbid and depressing, 177 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 4: and that I would when I picture what I would 178 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 4: have been doing, it would have been like laying in 179 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 4: bed and not being able to get out of bed 180 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 4: and throwing the over my head and not wanting to live. 181 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 4: But the most miraculous thing happened when she passed. There 182 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 4: was this outpouring of love for me and for her, 183 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 4: and so everybody showed up and we literally sat around 184 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 4: her for over ten hours, and I never knew what 185 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 4: I wanted to do with her body. Nothing felt right, 186 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 4: and so they allowed me to have the time and 187 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 4: the space to figure out for myself, which was a 188 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 4: very unique and new experience for me. And so gradually 189 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 4: during the day. Thank goodness, she passed in the morning, 190 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 4: because I don't think I could have anticipated what I 191 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 4: wanted to do with her. And the nice thing was 192 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 4: is that I have a property that a couple feet 193 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 4: away is a corner that faces the ocean and at 194 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 4: the beach entrance, and so I decided what better place 195 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 4: than to keep her here with me, or at least 196 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 4: her body. 197 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:10,679 Speaker 3: And then to feed a tree. 198 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 4: And to allow her body to decompose and give something 199 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 4: else life, and to always have a reminder of her there. 200 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 2: Kathleen, you know what I'm going to say. 201 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: I know what you're gonna say. 202 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 2: I don't know if I can say it. Oh, can 203 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 2: you help me? 204 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 205 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 5: So Elvis is going through something right now with Max. 206 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 5: This Max has a cancer that he needs an operation, 207 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 5: and they've given him a couple of years, but hopefully, hopefully, 208 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 5: if everything goes well and he's in good hands, that 209 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 5: will happen, so right now, he totally understands exactly what 210 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 5: you're going through. 211 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: See what you're saying is, I've never heard anyone describe 212 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 2: letting go of such a treasured part of your life 213 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: such an elegant way. I Meanandhi, I mean I've been 214 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 2: watching Gandhi, and Gandhi's for once is speechless. 215 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I don't want. I am very impressed by 216 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: all of this. I lost a dog also, and it 217 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: is the worst thing. And thinking about being able to 218 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 1: have put his body in a place where a tree 219 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: could grow from it and I can always see that 220 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: and we give back to the earth would have been wonderful. 221 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: So what a great thing that you've done. And also 222 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: so sad. I'm so sorry. 223 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 2: Oh thank you, Wow, thank you. And what a day, 224 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 2: what a day you had, you know. So again you're 225 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 2: asking why is Kathleen there. I think you're figuring it out. 226 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 2: I had no idea three years ago when we met 227 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 2: each other it would our journey would end up here 228 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 2: with us altogether. 229 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 5: Froggy and Froggy and Lisa Franky as they went through 230 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 5: something similar with one of their dogs. 231 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 2: I mean, you could see from Kathleen. 232 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 3: Why Froggy, How you doing, Hi, Kathleen. 233 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 6: See, it just Kobe's been gone for almost nine years now, 234 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 6: and it just it takes me back to that day. 235 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 6: And I just right now, right now, is I miss 236 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 6: him as much today as I did the day that 237 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 6: we lost him. But the way you describe that, I've 238 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 6: never heard anybody describe it like that, and it's it. Really, 239 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 6: You're truly amazing. 240 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 2: You really are an amazing person. You should hear what 241 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 2: they're saying about you. Don't text messages. 242 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:16,599 Speaker 3: I'm overwhelmed. 243 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 2: They're pulling over because they can't see. Really, But we 244 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: love Kathleen, Kathleen, We love you. Kathleen Maxwell is my hero. 245 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 3: Look at that, I feel well, A love thank you. 246 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 4: Well. 247 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 2: Look, I don't know how this came to be, but 248 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 2: I'm so glad it did. 249 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 5: She came into your life again at a time when 250 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 5: you needed her. You know, it's kind of weird how 251 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 5: things line. 252 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 2: Up, you know, I truly believe that, you know what, 253 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 2: we come in here and talk about farting and vomiting and. 254 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 4: Just love sex with each other, some of my favorite conversations. 255 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 2: But once in a while, I mean, we come in 256 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 2: and we have we have these real moments and you you, 257 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 2: you have given the gift of very real today and 258 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 2: we appreciate that. 259 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. 260 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 2: So what now? What did this just recently happened? 261 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 3: Yes? 262 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:18,559 Speaker 2: So what now? Well, I'm where's this podcast? 263 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 3: I don't know? 264 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 4: And that's the most amazing thing. Going back to school. 265 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 4: I realized being an artist. And I consider all of 266 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 4: you here artists because you share yourself through voice, and 267 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 4: it's one of the hardest things. And I just have 268 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 4: to make that leap and I haven't made it yet, 269 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 4: and so I just need a little courage and a 270 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:47,599 Speaker 4: little I don't know, a little something. Remember Gandhi, I 271 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 4: heard you say one day that sometimes that step, that 272 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 4: next step is just too high. You can't see it. 273 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 4: So the step that I can see is just go 274 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 4: back to school. I mean, this past fall I was 275 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 4: so busy. I worked at the Williams Center in Rutherford. 276 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 4: I did technical theater and worked on a show at 277 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 4: the school called Harvey. I loved it and I was 278 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 4: the sound operator. So I don't know, I don't know what. 279 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 4: I'm open to whatever life brings me. And I am 280 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 4: so incredibly grateful to you, Elvis, and to everybody here. 281 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 3: I feel the love. 282 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 4: It's so wonderful and Froggy, it's so good to see you, 283 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 4: and thank you for sharing about all of your stories 284 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 4: about your dogs and everything. It's just it warms my heart. 285 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 4: It makes me feel so incredible. It's just hard to 286 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 4: explain with words. 287 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 2: Wow, well you did it. You paint many beautiful pictures 288 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 2: with your words. 289 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 3: Thank you. 290 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 2: So we wanted you to meet Kathleen, and of course 291 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 2: Andrew Andrew. Thank god Andrew's here Day's he's the official 292 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 2: driver today. 293 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 3: We met in the city. He's like the replacement for Lily. 294 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 3: Now you've got this. 295 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 2: For a while, so you know, if I had the 296 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 2: champagne fluid, I would raise it too, of course, Kathleen, 297 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 2: and Andrew, and to Lily, thank you, and to everyone 298 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 2: who's listening right now who may not be able to 299 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 2: explain exactly in words how they're feeling different about life 300 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 2: after hearing you speak to them as well. Yes, because 301 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 2: I know exactly how how I feel after listening to 302 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 2: your story. 303 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 3: Thank you. 304 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 2: Wow. 305 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 1: I know you're not looking for advice, Oh I love advice. 306 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: I think you should just jump whatever it is that 307 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: you think you want to do. You want to do 308 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: a podcast, just start recording the podcast. If you wait 309 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 1: for the time to be perfect, it's never going to come. 310 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 1: You're always going to doubt something. But as soon as 311 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: you just take that step, I think you'd be so 312 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: surprised how quickly you learn and things evolve and all 313 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: of a sudden you've got this thing that you've worked 314 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: on for so long that's ready to go. 315 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 3: Well, that's incredible advice. And thank you. 316 00:15:56,280 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 4: And I listen to your podcast, so I feel I 317 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 4: love your podcast and I want to help you do 318 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 4: one on choose. 319 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 3: Thank you. 320 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 5: I don't know what we would talk about with you. 321 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 3: Billions of combinations. 322 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 2: It's it's just an honor to have you here. Kathleen, 323 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 2: and you feel free to stick around. We're gonna we're 324 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 2: gonna keep on moving, but you stay right there. And 325 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 2: thanks for the cake. 326 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:24,000 Speaker 3: You're very welcome. 327 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 2: It brought scary some fruit. Yes, And you know what, 328 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 2: if you have a friend who you know needs to 329 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 2: hear what you just heard with Kathleen and us, you 330 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 2: know we're we're on demand. It's another podcast Elvister Elvistren 331 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 2: Show on demand. Wherever you get your podcast, especially with 332 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 2: the iHeartRadio app, tell them to go back and listen 333 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 2: to our time with Kathleen because I think that's very important. 334 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 2: You much love to you. Thank you for coming in 335 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 2: to see us, Kathleen Maxwell. 336 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 3: Thank you. 337 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 2: You are amazing and you know it now I do. Yeah, 338 00:16:58,400 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 2: thank you for coming in, Kathleen. 339 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 3: Thank you. 340 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 7: I want to hear all about the weird, wild stories 341 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 7: you didn't learn in school. 342 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:05,880 Speaker 2: Let my best friend. 343 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 7: Patty Steele and her podcast, The Backstory with Patty Steele 344 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 7: be your guide. 345 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 2: What are you working on, Patty? 346 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 1: Would you trust your mentor enough to let them brand 347 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 1: their initials on your naked body? 348 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:19,400 Speaker 2: Yikes? 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