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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 2: Hey everyone, welcome to the Almost as podcast. Today is me.

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Speaker 2: Ben is on a plane. He was delayed, so he

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Speaker 2: isn't able to make our interview with the beautiful, the

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Speaker 2: wonderful Latia Gar. Hello, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi Ashley, thanks so much for having me.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Oh my gosh, thank you so much for being here.

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Speaker 2: You were one of the cast members in recent memory

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Speaker 2: that I can actually feel being like very glued to.

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Speaker 2: I loved I actually enjoyed watching Grants season in episodes

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Speaker 2: because of you, because like I really started to feel

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Speaker 2: very attached to you. I guess like top six ish, okay,

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Speaker 2: and just like thank you for being such a compelling character.

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Speaker 2: I was really rooting for you. I think that you

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Speaker 2: just seemed like you were like fun and you're beautiful,

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Speaker 2: he had depth, and I don't know, you like kind

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Speaker 2: of felt like a character that we would have seen

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Speaker 2: years ago on the franchise. Not that like that's not

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Speaker 2: the poopoo on anybody right now, but it's just like

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Speaker 2: the investment that I had in your relationship was the

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Speaker 2: investment level that I was more used to having about

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Speaker 2: a decade ago.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's so nice of you to say.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I have looked out with the conversations

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Speaker 4: in time that I had, like serious, like compelling stuff

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Speaker 4: came up. I feel like, I mean, we really didn't

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Speaker 4: talk about it like anyone else in the house.

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Speaker 3: It was mostly just about me and him.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like it made it easier in that

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Speaker 4: way that most of our time was just about him

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Speaker 4: and I.

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Speaker 3: So that's nice of you. Thank you so much, thanks

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Speaker 3: for having me. I'm a course thanks.

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Speaker 2: So when you look back on your time on the season,

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Speaker 2: do you see it through totally different lenses? When you left?

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Speaker 2: Did you think, man, I am heartbroken and this pain

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Speaker 2: is going to last so long? Or did you have

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Speaker 2: some sort of like I always describe like the lifting

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Speaker 2: of the bachelor bubble kind of or you're all of

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Speaker 2: a sudden thinking like oh wow, like he was hot,

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Speaker 2: but I think it was just hot and I'm not

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Speaker 2: sure whether or not like I truly felt as intensely

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Speaker 2: because you're in this bubble, What do you was? What

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Speaker 2: was your thoughts?

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Speaker 4: I think I have looked at it from a few

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Speaker 4: different lenses, right, Like I think initially when I went

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Speaker 4: home and I'm like driving away in the car, I'm like,

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Speaker 4: what was that? Like, I'm so like confused, Like I

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Speaker 4: just had the rug pulled and I have no context

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Speaker 4: or anything. And I think like as I sat at home,

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Speaker 4: I was like, Okay, yeah, it was a little bit

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Speaker 4: of a bubble, and like I kind of it kind

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Speaker 4: of starts to click that like I really didn't have

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Speaker 4: that much time with him, so there really were so

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Speaker 4: many gaps that were like big, and I just missed

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Speaker 4: so many like parts of his person and there's just

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Speaker 4: like missing context for so much.

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Speaker 3: And then for sure watching it back.

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Speaker 4: And seeing like other people's conversations added even like a

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Speaker 4: different layer of perspective where I was like, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: like the conversations that he's having with other people are

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Speaker 4: not aligned with the version that I that I had

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Speaker 4: in my head while I was filming. And so it's

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Speaker 4: like you continue to learn. And I think that's like

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Speaker 4: with any breakup, you know, like you continued, like it

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Speaker 4: kind of continues to make sense more and more as

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Speaker 4: you get away from it, and as like your feelings

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Speaker 4: kind of like fade away, you know.

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Speaker 2: Can you give us an example, Yeah, can you give

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Speaker 2: us an example of like a conversation that you saw

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Speaker 2: and you're like, oh, this is totally different than what

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Speaker 2: I thought that guy was about.

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Speaker 4: I mean, any of his time with Juliana was just,

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Speaker 4: like I think, a different version of him than I saw,

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Speaker 4: you know, like I think, but that's also so fair,

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Speaker 4: because you know, different people bring out different sides of you,

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Speaker 4: and so like that's not to say anything about either

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Speaker 4: our relationship was so so different than theirs, and like

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Speaker 4: I just didn't you know, there were parts of it

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Speaker 3: Just like didn't recognize. I was like, oh, okay, Like

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Speaker 3: good to know.

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Speaker 2: There was some speculation during your season that if you

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Speaker 2: were to pick you, he was in it, he was

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Speaker 2: gonna have to long haul it. Take it seriously, Heaven

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Speaker 2: forbid you take an engagement sercialces. Oh yeah, yes, yes.

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Speaker 2: But if he went the Juliana route, she may have

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Speaker 2: he got the vibe that he could just like date

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Speaker 2: her in real life. What's your thoughts watching it back, especially.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I think that Juliana's timeline is different

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Speaker 4: than mine. I didn't really ever talk to her about that,

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Speaker 4: but mine wasn't news to him, Like we talked about

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Speaker 4: that during the Finance.

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Speaker 3: Date when Hannah Berner was on. He like, yeah, this

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Speaker 3: game too.

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Speaker 4: They didn't to show our conversation that night, but he

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Speaker 4: put this game together with different cards and asked about

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Speaker 4: my timeline when I wanted to have kids, and I

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Speaker 4: was like, well, once, I like meet my person like

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Speaker 4: within two years, and so if it's you, then like

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Speaker 4: two years from now is ideal. But that's like a conversation.

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Speaker 4: That's a lot of conversations that we have together, and so.

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Speaker 3: My religion and my timeline and all.

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Speaker 4: The rest of it seemed to be a big deal

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Speaker 4: for him at the end, but it wasn't new information.

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Speaker 3: He knew that week too, so I was kind of

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Speaker 3: like all right.

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Speaker 2: And to me, say I love you and said like

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Speaker 2: you're the one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah several times.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah it was that.

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Speaker 3: He said it the first time.

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Speaker 4: I think he said it on FaceTime to my mom,

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Speaker 4: and he said it like throughout the date, like the

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Speaker 4: puppy date. He said it like a bunch of times,

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Speaker 4: and I remember looking at it like like I literally

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Speaker 4: is you like allowed to say stuff like that?

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Speaker 3: And you know I was. It was just.

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Speaker 4: He continued to say it the whole time, whether or

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Speaker 4: not he was supposed to. And I know that they

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Speaker 4: talked to him about it several times, but yeah, he

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Speaker 2: What's crazy is like I know that multiple bachelors, my

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Speaker 2: co hosts included, have said I love you to two

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Speaker 2: people like that to me, like actually makes sense. What

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Speaker 2: doesn't make sense to me is him kept keep he

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: He's even more intense in the bachelor process totally.

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Speaker 4: I think, like it's so hard and like this is

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Speaker 4: dating in general, right, Like you are thinking, like when

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Speaker 4: they say something to me, that means something to me,

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Speaker 4: but I don't really know what that means to you,

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Speaker 4: and like you might be someone that they're like trying

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Speaker 4: You're the one that I'm like, oh my gosh, you

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Speaker 4: act like you know so in my mind you know

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Speaker 4: and so. But to them they're just like no, like

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Speaker 4: that's just like how I like approach dating, Like I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know, that's messed up.

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Speaker 3: It is, it's messed up.

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Speaker 4: But I like, I'm not going to pretend to know

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Speaker 4: But I think, like, you know, for whatever reason, it

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Speaker 4: like fine, I don't care, like it's you know whatever,

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Speaker 4: But I think that, yeah, he said it a bunch

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Speaker 4: first time actually to me and to like producers when

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Speaker 4: it was on the first group date when we did

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Speaker 4: like that R and B like my open mic thing,

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Speaker 4: when we had like our conversation and I was crying

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Speaker 4: about dating and he was like, I know that you're

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Speaker 4: my wife and then he like said it, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 4: I don't know he's where's this part on his sape?

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Speaker 3: I think is what he calls it.

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Speaker 2: I know that you're my wife from like week two.

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Speaker 4: Which is like so old red flag right like that

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Speaker 4: like normal people don't say stuff like that, Yeah that's true.

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Speaker 4: When is your wife after you know, fifteen minutes, thirty

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Speaker 4: he knows it's being filmed, and like he's actually actively

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Speaker 4: dating other people, so like there's a litmus test kind

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Speaker 4: of built into this process of like comparing everything and

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Speaker 2: It sounds way more intense to say that, yeah when

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Speaker 2: there's other people involved.

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Speaker 3: That's what I thought.

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Speaker 2: If you were like dating in real life and he

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Speaker 2: other better and it ended up not being the truth.

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Speaker 2: That would be like one thing, yeah, but for you

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Speaker 2: to just be in a competition and he crowns you

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Speaker 4: I think was the was, honestly, like the most like

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Speaker 4: I don't even I don't want to say deceiving part,

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Speaker 4: but like that's that That is what I felt let

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Speaker 4: and I was the you know, like he always called

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Speaker 4: like when they were leaving, like in their exit interviews

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Speaker 4: like it wasn't just like, oh, it's all in my head.

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Speaker 4: I was like, no, like I mean privately and publicly

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Speaker 4: like he like his actions match his words.

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Speaker 2: Just do you think there's love bombing? Like I don't

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Speaker 4: Hundred percent, but I think, like to say I love

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Speaker 4: you in eight weeks that's love, Like that's in my mind.

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Speaker 4: You know, that's like a very like accelerated like dating relationship,

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Speaker 4: from meeting someone to getting engaged like you, I kind

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Speaker 4: of like had already made my piece at that going in.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Like I was just like, yeah, yeah, the show goes,

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Speaker 4: I know that they get engaged at the end, So there.

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Speaker 2: Is like romance bombing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah exactly, like there like there's a love bomby like

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Speaker 4: aspect of this whole thing built into it.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm yeah definitely. So when do you think it's

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Speaker 2: switched to him choosing Juliana? Hey, I heard we all

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Speaker 2: heard here on this podcast. Did you hear about a

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Speaker 2: possible coin flip?

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Speaker 3: Oh I heard about the coin flip.

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Speaker 4: I didn't hear any like confirmation about that. Yeah, if

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Speaker 4: there was a coin flip, I'm grateful for however, it all.

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Speaker 2: Turned off, I know, because you would have gotten the

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Speaker 2: right side of the coin, that's for sure.

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Speaker 4: I think in my mind it's like God's plan, Like

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Speaker 4: I think I felt so like looked after and grateful

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Speaker 3: I did. I heard that. Yeah, good for him.

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Speaker 3: Are more drawn to other peoples.

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Speaker 4: I was very close to and Dina okay, and Zoe

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Speaker 2: Did you did you reach out at all after the breakup?

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Speaker 2: But then when the two of them broke up, Julana

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Speaker 2: Oh of course, of course, of course, yes, No, I

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Speaker 3: No, she doesn't even jealous. She's doing well, she's doing

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yes, So our next bachelorette, Taylor Friggy Paul is

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Speaker 2: Were you filming an episode of the show.

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Speaker 3: Know when people say it.

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Speaker 3: So that's why it is.

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Speaker 2: That shows I hope much take.

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Speaker 4: I honestly really commend Taylor for everything that she has

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Speaker 2: I think she's going to demonstrate a lot of what

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Speaker 4: You know, we believe in forgiveness and we subscribe to,

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Speaker 4: I don't get that part, But I know the parts

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Speaker 3: I don't think I've cut out for it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, do they ever approach you to be

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Speaker 2: but lo and behold, it is actually what we got.

441
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 4: I mean, I think saying like it's the same thing

442
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 4: every season, you know, like they kind of just put

443
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 4: feelers out and you go out for it and you

444
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:34,479
Speaker 4: talk to you know, Rob and whoever. And but then

445
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,160
Speaker 4: they fired all the producers. So I was like, oh, yeah,

446
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 4: doing the showing.

447
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 2: A bad time to be in contention to be the lead. Well,

448
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 2: you would be a fabulous lead, and we do hope

449
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,719
Speaker 2: that you're on something in the future because you'd be

450
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:52,239
Speaker 2: so so good you're just You're good at holding your

451
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 2: own and you're a good personality for this. You bring

452
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:59,200
Speaker 2: a lot of goodness to the franchise, So I hope

453
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 2: that you're around. But before we move on to talk

454
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 2: more about present day, I do just want to talk

455
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 2: about your epic departure from the show. I mean maybe

456
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 2: maybe the most memorable departure I could think of, since

457
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 2: like a Switcheroo type season really big, right, yes, because

458
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 2: we were floored that it wasn't you it was and

459
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 2: you just are such like you just delivered the perfect

460
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 2: amount of bitchiness that the situation called for. The way

461
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 2: that you're just like called the come on now hilarious?

462
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 2: Did you cringe a little watching it back?

463
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 3: I gotta be honest with you.

464
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:52,119
Speaker 4: I love watching it back, like literally, like I was

465
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 4: not actually I was not well, like when I tell

466
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 4: you they gave me so much medicine because I had

467
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 4: food poisoning, like I was not.

468
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 3: They gave me so much medicine.

469
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 4: To make sure that I was like I didn't have anything,

470
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 4: Like I was okay, walk down and like and stand

471
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 4: there for that I blacked out, Like I really don't

472
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 4: like I like watching it because it's like I get

473
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 4: to be like a viewer and just be like because

474
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 4: I don't remember a ton and like I I don't

475
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,919
Speaker 4: say that a lot in my normal life. I was

476
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,239
Speaker 4: just like I think I was so exhausted and so

477
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 4: just like I think it was like most of what

478
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 4: you saw there was me just being like that's okay,

479
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 4: Like it doesn't have to be me, but like be

480
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 4: so for real right.

481
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,160
Speaker 2: Now, like exactly.

482
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 4: Just literally level with me here, and like I was

483
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 4: just looking for traction, like just be a real person

484
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 4: and just like admit that, like you're going back on

485
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 4: what you said this whole time, that's totally fine, but

486
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 4: just like I like I want you to like just

487
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 4: say it, and he just like wouldn't and so I

488
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 4: was just like really like yeah, oh.

489
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 2: I would have were handled it the exact same way.

490
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 2: Maybe that's why I love it so much, Just like dude,

491
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 2: are you wait kidding me? Are you kidding me? Because

492
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 2: you never see that with people. You see them that

493
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 2: get like mad and sad but mostly quiet, and you're

494
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 2: so vocal, And I loved it so much.

495
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 4: When that conversation was so long, Ashley, like I like

496
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 4: we were sat there for probably forty five minutes, like

497
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 4: Paullie and ever like is like rushing us through. They're

498
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 4: like Grant, like you have to get in the car

499
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 4: like you had like okay, you guys gotta start walking now,

500
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 4: like you have to walk away. And he's like no,

501
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 4: like he was like getting mad. He was like no

502
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 4: a minute, like I have too much to say, and

503
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 4: like I think ultimately I think he just like didn't

504
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,360
Speaker 4: want me to like be mad at him, Like he

505
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 4: just like didn't want it to like end on bad terms.

506
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 3: And I was just like, well, you should have thought

507
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 3: about that.

508
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 4: The entire time when you were saying all this stuff

509
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 4: like I'm sorry, there's just like not a world where

510
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:11,479
Speaker 4: this ends well for you, like with and I like

511
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 4: I was just like after every yeah said, after all

512
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 4: of like the warnings and like how cautious I feel

513
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,239
Speaker 4: like I've been for both of us, and you just

514
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 4: like barreled.

515
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 3: Past them every time.

516
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 4: There's not like this was gonna be bad, Like It's

517
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 4: not like and I didn't want it to be mean either,

518
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 4: Like I I hope it didn't come across in that way.

519
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: It wasn't mean though because of what he did, it

520
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 2: was deserving.

521
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 3: I was just like accountable, like yeah, just be accountable.

522
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 3: It can be done, but he just wouldn't do it.

523
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 2: So I was like, well, so basically he was trying

524
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,159
Speaker 2: to keep you there for forty five five minutes, but

525
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: not at all admitting that like he said things that

526
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 2: he should have never said.

527
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, because he would be like, well do you think,

528
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 4: like do you think I've been misleading? And I was

529
00:26:59,840 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 4: like I literally I looked over to like the audio

530
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 4: people on the camera people, and I was like, shall

531
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 4: we run the tapes?

532
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 3: Like I don't have like I don't have.

533
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 4: The energy, and we don't have the time to like

534
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 4: really like express to you by.

535
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 3: Of course, like of course you've been misleading.

536
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 4: And I don't know how much of that is like

537
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 4: part of being the lead and how much of that

538
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 4: is because you thought it was me or you just

539
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 4: wanted me to like you or whatever it was. But

540
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 4: I was just like duh, like yeah, this is this

541
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 4: is not pleasant to your misfortune.

542
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 2: I would have loved to have the forty five minutes

543
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 2: aired because.

544
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 3: Oh I was just have them aired.

545
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 4: I would love to watch because I blacked out, Like

546
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 4: all I know is that like my like when I

547
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 4: got in the car and I was like, you know,

548
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 4: trying to like make sense of it.

549
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 3: She's like, I don't think.

550
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,959
Speaker 4: They've ever let anyone have that much time for like

551
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 4: the breakup before, Like I think typically it's like a

552
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 4: I have to ten minutes, like they like to like

553
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 4: rush it through so that it can be like happy couple,

554
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 4: you know. But they let me have the time, and

555
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 4: he insisted on the time.

556
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 2: I would have thought, and it seemed like on TV

557
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 2: that he just wanted to get you out of there.

558
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I wanted to get out, Like I

559
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 4: was like, I'm uncomfortable, like you think I want to

560
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,959
Speaker 4: be in this trust right now, Like I was like

561
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 4: I want to lay down, I want to take a nap,

562
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 4: I want to go home, like I'm ready to get

563
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 4: out of here.

564
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 2: So after a moment like that, I'm assuming that you

565
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 2: just probably weren't very surprised when he and Juliana broke

566
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 2: up so shortly after the finale.

567
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean I wasn't happy to see it,

568
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 3: like I think when we were.

569
00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 4: Wanted it, because you know, like they were like each

570
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 4: other's match and all the rest of it. So I

571
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 4: was like sad to see it, not work out because

572
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 4: I was like, he for sure wanted it, So I

573
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 4: was like, well, I want him to be happy, but yeah,

574
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 4: I gotta be honest, like, I don't know who he is,

575
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 4: Like I I thought that I did while it aired,

576
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 4: and then that we've seen, like, you know, a different

577
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:24,479
Speaker 4: persona online and so I think I wanted, you know,

578
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 4: to see him be happy and figure it out, and

579
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 4: he didn't.

580
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 2: So maybe his new social media content is that he

581
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 2: seems very very much interested in finding the one now

582
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 2: and I think that that a lot of people doubted

583
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: that desire about a year ago. And I don't really

584
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: know if I have a question about that, but just

585
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 2: a statement.

586
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I don't really see his stuff very often.

587
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 3: I did see.

588
00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 4: The celibacy thing and cheering them on in that regard,

589
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 4: but I really don't know anything else.

590
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 2: Alrighty, Well, have you dated at all since?

591
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 3: Yeah? I've dated a little bit here and there.

592
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: What's a date look like these days? It's been a

593
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 2: long time for me, Like, is it still sucks so bad?

594
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 3: It sucks so bad, Ashley.

595
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.

596
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 3: No, it's they're fine. They're fun.

597
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 4: There are good guys out there, and I think, like

598
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 4: I have definitely been on dates with good guys and

599
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 4: been on a date with a few duds. That's just

600
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 4: you know, the luck of the draw. That's how it goes.

601
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 4: But nothing to be jealous.

602
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 2: So okay, so no one out there of note right now?

603
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 4: There's a few of note I think, Oh okay, there

604
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 4: are until you know, you gotta keep hope. You know,

605
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:54,440
Speaker 4: you gotta stay possible.

606
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 2: Okay, good, okay, great, all right, so there's some guys

607
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 2: that you're still talking to. Oh yeah, okay, great. Have

608
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 2: you been interested or ever DMed with anybody from Brachelination?

609
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 3: I don't think so.

610
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 4: I think like friendly exchanges, but I haven't like been

611
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 4: on dates with anyone or like nothing romantic from anyone.

612
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 2: We thought you hung out with Alex, who is now

613
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 2: with Andrew. I just want to say that they're engaged

614
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 2: because they're so cute and I want them to be engaged.

615
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 3: I love them so much.

616
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 4: I love like, I truly like Alex is like my

617
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 4: little sister like I. We are so different, but we

618
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 4: are like bonded. I like, I don't know why, we

619
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 4: like text all the time, FaceTime every day, Like I

620
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 4: just I love Alex.

621
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 3: And when they came into town. I was like, like,

622
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 3: I really hope I like Andrew and I totally did.

623
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, he's wonderful. They're just the most cute

624
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 2: thing in the entire world. She was one of the

625
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: people that I felt like very similarly towards you, like

626
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 2: like I felt about you, but I felt mostly with

627
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 2: that with Alex when she was on Paradise, Like I

628
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 2: loved watching Alex on Paradise.

629
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 4: Yes, no, I feel like she really got to shine

630
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 4: on Paradise. I loved watching her on that. I love

631
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 4: watching them and Bailey and Risa and Zoe and Aliciat

632
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 4: like all, Like I just we got so lucky with

633
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 4: the girls on our season, Like I really like, we

634
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 4: got so so lucky. There's we got so many good ones.

635
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 2: Would there have been anybody from Vaccination that you would

636
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 2: have put on your list if you had gone to Paradise?

637
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 3: I don't think.

638
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 4: So That's why I didn't go, because I was just

639
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 4: kind of okay, like who am I going? Like that

640
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 4: was like the conversations that I was having is I

641
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 4: was like, not to be mean, but like, I like,

642
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 4: there's not anyone that I'm like, ooh, like I really hope,

643
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 4: you know, what I mean.

644
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well so you're open to it for the future. Sure, yeah, okay, cool,

645
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 2: Just wasn't a good time?

646
00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 3: All right?

647
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 2: Good? Well, I hope that this cass is full of

648
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: cute guys that you would like to date.

649
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 3: In Paradise the other day. No, they look great.

650
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, some of them are from Utah.

651
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 3: I know. I saw there's actually a few.

652
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it makes sense. I'm glad that they did that.

653
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 2: But then you could probably just meet those guys whenever

654
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 2: they go home.

655
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 3: No, I think I have actually a few.

656
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 2: Oh really just before they went to go film.

657
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 4: No. No, like just from living in Utah for like

658
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 4: forever and ever and ever.

659
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 3: It's just small. It's a small Wow, Ashley, you should come.

660
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 3: You have to come out one time.

661
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: I've been to Salt like once, and I've been to

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Speaker 2: which the other place an hour away, the bougie place

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Speaker 2: Parks Yeah, yeah, park City. Both are so nice. Yep,

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Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, so nice. The air is like

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Speaker 2: crisp there. It just like tastes like fresh.

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Speaker 3: Is It's like it's cold and it's sharp. No. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but it's it's a small, small place.

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Speaker 2: Do you have any thoughts of these guys that you see.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of cuties. Yeah. No, I'm excited for her.

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Speaker 4: I think, like I'm excited for her to kind of

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Speaker 4: like dip her toe in a fresh pool of different people,

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Speaker 4: kind of like outside of Utah, and I think.

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Speaker 3: It'll be good. Like I'm I'm so excited to watch.

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Speaker 2: So you're saying that you like feel like some of

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Speaker 2: those faces are familiar on the list, And my producer

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Speaker 2: and I were just speculating the other day that she

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Speaker 2: is going to have met some of these guys in

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Speaker 2: the past because of the small town vibes either.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think for sure.

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Speaker 4: I think there's no way with how many people are

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Speaker 4: from Utah in that cast that her path that their

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Speaker 4: paths haven't crossed before filming.

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Speaker 3: I could be wrong. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: And like that's on casting to see, you know, how

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Speaker 4: many mutuals they have and stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: So we'll see how good at digging they.

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Speaker 4: Did, because I think they like everybody to be pretty separate,

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00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 4: you know, like that it's like a pretty fresh thing.

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Speaker 3: So I'll be I'll be interested to see if she

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Speaker 3: knows any of them.

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Speaker 2: So you had a really cool ad over the summer

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Speaker 2: where your teas that you were getting married, but you

693
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Speaker 2: were actually walking down the frozen food aisle. Loved it.

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Speaker 2: It was perfectly teased. It really did make oh quite

695
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Speaker 2: many headlines. What are you working on these days? What

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00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 2: does life look like today?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: I got banks, that's new.

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Speaker 2: Cool curtain banks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I got a house. I love that.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, so great.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my life is pretty much the same as when

703
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 4: I loft, which I love. Like I have a good life,

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00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 4: but it's not I don't have a ton of new.

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Speaker 2: What are you doing for work? Is it mostly influencing.

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00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 3: Influencing right now?

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00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 4: Yep, I'm winding down on venture capital and just staying

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Speaker 4: open minded to see.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, good for you. Any plans for Halloween

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Speaker 2: before we let you go.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, one of my friends is hosting a night and

712
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 4: we're being Disney princesses.

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00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 3: So we're dressing up on so cute.

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Speaker 2: Who are you going to be?

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Speaker 3: Jasmine?

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Speaker 2: Yay, the best one there is. Yeah, I have been

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Speaker 2: Jasmine for I can't even tell you how many halloweens.

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00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 3: No, you're literally you are Jasmine.

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00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that you are too, So somehow we

720
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 2: can both be really good Jasmins.

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Speaker 4: The Brunette like Olive Complexion, girl Small, She's from.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well Lytia. It has been such a pleasure talking

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Speaker 2: to you, and I can't wait to hopefully see you

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Speaker 2: on our TVs at some other point because you're You're

725
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 2: great and wow. I regardless of how you find it,

726
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 2: I just want you to find love because you are

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00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 2: some wifey material.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: I just want to say to you and Ben for

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Speaker 4: having me on, but also because your podcast was one

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Speaker 4: of the few podcasts that was a safe space for

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00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 4: me to listen to in terms of recaph, so I

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Speaker 4: just want to say, like, as like someone that was

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Speaker 4: on the show, it's I love your takes. I'm sad,

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00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 4: I love I listened to like I still listen to it,

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Speaker 4: and I love you guys, and I'm so grateful for

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Speaker 4: you guys.

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Speaker 2: Latia, thank you. That's so sweet. The fact that you

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Speaker 2: even listened to a podcast while it was airing is scary.

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Speaker 4: It no, it was scary, but I like, consistently every

741
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 4: week it was a safe space and I loved hearing

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Speaker 4: your guys' opinions because you were always so kind and

743
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 4: like gave me so much grace and everyone so much grace.

744
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 4: So I just like, it's not easy in the reality

745
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 4: TV space to look at people as people, and you

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Speaker 4: both do such a good job.

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Speaker 2: So thank you so much, thank you so much. Ah

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Speaker 2: all right, well guys, until next time, I've been Ashley

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Speaker 2: and that has been Latia gar Bye.

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Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on

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00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah,