WEBVTT - I Reserve The Right To Evolve

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, my love, it is Lala Kent.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to another episode, but give them a La

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<v Speaker 2>podcast before we jump into it.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Dress? Hi? Nothing is up. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>nice weekend. I'm looking at your hair and I'm obsessed.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, we chopped it. You chopped it this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I put up my Christmas tree already.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I Kyle wasn't happy about it, but I convinced him

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<v Speaker 1>too because we're hosting Thanksgiving it our place, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, we need the holiday stuff up. And we

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<v Speaker 1>had a friends giving.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's right, you had a friends giving over in

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<v Speaker 2>this area.

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<v Speaker 1>Over Well I thought it was, but it was more.

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<v Speaker 1>It was probably like fifteen minutes away from here. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was cute. It was really nice. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful, beautiful time. We showed up five minutes early

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<v Speaker 1>and ended up because of Kyle and ended up help

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<v Speaker 1>setting up because you're so early. So how was your weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>I always tell people, I'm like, just so you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a really bad helper. I'm not gonna help you

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<v Speaker 2>set up. I'm not gonna help you cook, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>more than happy to venmo you free anything you need supplies.

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<v Speaker 1>See the You're the kind of people I love because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a control freak. If i'm setting up, don't touch anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but just sort of be there to talk to me

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<v Speaker 1>if I need you. And if someone were to be

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not gonna help it, I'll venmo you yes please.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so funny because so I'd be perfect for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because I'm hands off. I'm a hands off type person,

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<v Speaker 2>but i'll offer. Like my friends who know me really well,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, can I do anything? They're like, bitch, shut up.

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<v Speaker 1>Sit down, what are you doing? Shut up?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. I had a really great weekend before we jump

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<v Speaker 2>into this. I got this cute book for Ocean and

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<v Speaker 2>I highly recommend it because she's obsessed. She loves books

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<v Speaker 2>more than anything. So I found this book that I

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<v Speaker 2>knew that she'd be obsessed with. It's called What Do

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<v Speaker 2>the Stars See on the Farm, And it's written and

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<v Speaker 2>illustrated by a woman named Molly Smith. And if you

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<v Speaker 2>have a little one, I highly recommend it. It's so cute,

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<v Speaker 2>and especially because it has farm animals. So now when

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<v Speaker 2>I get to the lamp page or the cow page,

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<v Speaker 2>she makes the sounds. It's that cute.

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<v Speaker 1>BA and her no way, it's ba moon Nay, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't get over here.

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<v Speaker 2>She's Every time I ask her what a pig says,

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<v Speaker 2>she goes oh. I like, I've tried to teach her

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<v Speaker 2>how to say oink, but then when I say what

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<v Speaker 2>does solely say? She goes rash. Yeah, so we've added

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<v Speaker 2>solely to the list of what do animals say?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's solely solely from monsters inc? Solely from monsters inc?

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<v Speaker 1>Duh okay perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So there's that. The weekend was great. I had

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<v Speaker 2>my friend's little boys third birthday party yesterday. And because

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<v Speaker 2>la is like Groundhog's Day and it's seventy degrees in

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<v Speaker 2>fucking November, I just like I lose track of the day,

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<v Speaker 2>the month, the year, just all of it, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>like another glorious morning makes me sick type weather every

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<v Speaker 2>fucking day of my life, every time.

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<v Speaker 1>So glorious morning makes me sick type day.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I get a text from her on where

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<v Speaker 2>to park, and I was like, that's today. So I run.

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<v Speaker 2>We get in the car, me and my rid die

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<v Speaker 2>co parent mom slash.

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<v Speaker 1>Wife lie my obviously Lisa.

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<v Speaker 2>We get in the car. We go to the grove.

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<v Speaker 2>There's this woman. It's a hot mess yesterday, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>I find this girl walking to her car, so I'm

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<v Speaker 2>following her, and as I'm doing it, this Mercedes pulls

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<v Speaker 2>up and I say to the woman like, oh, I've

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<v Speaker 2>been following this girl, like we're gonna take this spot,

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<v Speaker 2>and she shakes her head at me, pulls up closer

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<v Speaker 2>to where she's blocking the girl. So my mom gets

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<v Speaker 2>out to like tell the girl like, hey, we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to park here, and she's like, great, I saw you following. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And my mom I was like, can you get out

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<v Speaker 2>with this Mercedes blocking you? And she's like no, she's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have to move. So my mom's standing in the

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<v Speaker 2>spot and says, like, we've been following her. She knows

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<v Speaker 2>we're taking this spot. The woman proceeds to in what

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<v Speaker 2>I saw remove my mother with her car stop. Yes, bumps,

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<v Speaker 2>my mom's leg with her car runs over. Thank god.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom said these shoes are too big. Well, thank

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<v Speaker 2>god they were too big because the woman you could

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<v Speaker 2>see tire marks on the toe of my mom's shoe.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what I'm actually I swear to God, because you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the first time I'm hearing this. The usually

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<v Speaker 1>like Laala will tell me what happened over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wait, so did anyone video because did you get out?

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<v Speaker 1>Or you're like, what the fuck? No?

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<v Speaker 2>This woman was like obviously. She kept yelling you're a

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<v Speaker 2>vile bitch your mom to me and my mom like

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<v Speaker 2>out of her window. She's got a little kid in

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<v Speaker 2>the car. The woman can't back out, so she's got

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<v Speaker 2>to the Mercedes has to back up. We get the

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<v Speaker 2>parking spot and I called the police.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna say, I hope I cannot put

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<v Speaker 1>man over your mom's phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, And then as we're walking to the elevator, she

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<v Speaker 2>circles around again, rolls down her window calls us vile bitches. Again.

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<v Speaker 2>I tell my mom like, don't engage. The police are coming.

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<v Speaker 2>We're waiting by the elevator where the police tell us

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<v Speaker 2>to wait. The woman is walking in with her child,

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<v Speaker 2>continuing to call us vile bitches. I'm like, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>the police are coming. I think you might want to stay.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, I don't care and leaves. So the cops

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<v Speaker 2>come and she's facing a hit and run.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so they didn't find her. You didn't like lead

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<v Speaker 1>them to her. Did she just so she left in

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<v Speaker 1>her car.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you're doing? No, she went she went

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<v Speaker 2>shopped the masked Where is the woman? I said, she's

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<v Speaker 2>shopping here? She is. I took a picture of her

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<v Speaker 2>license plate, her entire car, her face.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good, good, So you got a lot on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still in shock, like the fact that your mom's

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<v Speaker 1>foot got run over. What?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank god? Can I tell you what's so crazy

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<v Speaker 2>is my We're in my parking garage going to the car,

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<v Speaker 2>and she says, should I run back up and change

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<v Speaker 2>my shoes? These are these are too big?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And I said, we don't have time, like just fucking

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<v Speaker 2>wear the shoes, all right, Like I gotta go get

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<v Speaker 2>a gift.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And because of this debacle, I had to arrive to

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<v Speaker 2>my friend's little boy's birthday party with his toys in

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<v Speaker 2>a giant Nord Strum plastic bag.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine. Kids don't care. Kids do not give a shit.

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<v Speaker 1>They would. I feel like a lot of them would

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<v Speaker 1>rather just get the toy.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, are you kidding? I can't even wrap it.

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<v Speaker 2>Q I look like, let's pull it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>So Lisa is okay, though, so her because of the

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<v Speaker 1>big shoes. Nothing happened, no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank God. But like I literally watched it, Like this

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<v Speaker 2>woman bumped my mother's leg with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Vehicle and you didn't freak out. I would. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to watch.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to be honest with you. Yeah, I could

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<v Speaker 2>feel myself getting to that level that if I were

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<v Speaker 2>to get out of the car, not good.

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<v Speaker 1>So you stayed in the car.

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<v Speaker 2>I stayed in the car. I like asked God, please

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<v Speaker 2>remove the fire that's about to like erupt within me

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<v Speaker 2>and onto this woman and just wait for the police

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<v Speaker 2>to get here. And I hate to be that person,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's like, if this woman is willing to like

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<v Speaker 2>use her vehicle to remove someone over a fucking parking

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<v Speaker 2>spot with your kid in the car, like you're unsafe.

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<v Speaker 1>You're unsafe. I feel heartbroken for that child who had

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<v Speaker 1>to witness that, because, let's be honest, if she does

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<v Speaker 1>that so easily over that situation, it's happened before most likely,

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<v Speaker 1>So you have this child who probably has to witness

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<v Speaker 1>all these dramatic situations all the time. I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>that happened.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, weird, right, Holy shit? Yeah, it was a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>What a day it was a was a lot. Was

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<v Speaker 1>Les emotionally shaken up or was she liked No.

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<v Speaker 2>She was she was shaken up. Okay, I was shaken

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<v Speaker 2>up by the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I almost was like, I can't go to this birthday,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I can't feel like I can't even drive a

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<v Speaker 2>car right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so over a fucking parking spots and fuck you

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<v Speaker 1>and guess.

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<v Speaker 2>What now, I'm totally like, I'm the type of person

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<v Speaker 2>where if someone's following in, they're like, hey, I've been

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<v Speaker 2>following this person, Like great, it's yours. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Did the woman whose spot you were both going after?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she was she like, oh my god, what the fuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did she not see anything?

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<v Speaker 2>No, she said to me, because my mom got out

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<v Speaker 2>of the car, Yeah, to block the park way. The

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<v Speaker 2>woman said to my mom, Yeah, I saw you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you can totally take it. I saw you, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>But when this crazy lady hit your mom's leg, did

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<v Speaker 1>she see it?

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<v Speaker 2>She was in her car, windows up, ready to like

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<v Speaker 2>start backing out, thinking like, oh, these two people have

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<v Speaker 2>worked it out. Anyway, that's what happened. That happened yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>But then it made it all okay, because last night

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<v Speaker 2>we're getting ready to watch our show, Me and my

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<v Speaker 2>mother slash wife slash co parent, and we're so engaged

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<v Speaker 2>in this show that we're watching. We were watching the

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<v Speaker 2>Bling Ring Heist documentary, and I've always told people I

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<v Speaker 2>put vaciline around my eyes to prevent fine lines and wrinkles,

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<v Speaker 2>while I learned that from my mom. My mom is

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<v Speaker 2>so into the show, and she has her reading glasses

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<v Speaker 2>on that she dips and watching it in real time,

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<v Speaker 2>dips her fingers into the vasiline and rubs them on

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<v Speaker 2>her reading glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I knew that's what you're gonna say.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she looks at me and goes, I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>even realize, was just smeared fucking vasoline reading glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>I about are you dying?

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<v Speaker 2>I was losing my mind. I was like, the day

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<v Speaker 2>was great just because of that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I love her because I could see that and then

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<v Speaker 1>her turning to you with the smudged glasses. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even realize.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even realize. No, you did not, clearly, that's

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<v Speaker 2>so lunatic.

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<v Speaker 1>I love her, and I don't get a show just

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<v Speaker 1>simply for me. If I don't get a show of

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<v Speaker 1>you too, a fucking reality show within the next few years.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself because

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get enough. And I'm with you guys five

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<v Speaker 1>days a week pretty much. Yeah, so I just need something, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I need something.

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<v Speaker 2>Lisa is pure gold entertainment gold. And she thinks her

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<v Speaker 2>comebacks are so good. Like we went to dinner with

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<v Speaker 2>Katie and we were talking about like this guy not

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<v Speaker 2>remembering someone and like how like it shouldn't be embarrassing,

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<v Speaker 2>like if someone doesn't remember meeting you, and my mom goes,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know what I would have said. I've

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<v Speaker 2>had senior moments too. I go ooh, ooh, what a

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<v Speaker 2>burn mom?

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<v Speaker 1>What the fuck you got them? Lady?

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<v Speaker 2>And she delivers the lines like such burns.

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<v Speaker 1>I love her. She was in the office the other

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<v Speaker 1>day and there's this mug, you guys, a coffee mug

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<v Speaker 1>in the breakroom and it's got like a big giant

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<v Speaker 1>pickle as the handle of the mug, and on the

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<v Speaker 1>mug it says, I'm kind of a big dill like

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<v Speaker 1>d illl and you would have thought it was just

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<v Speaker 1>it was the cutest thing. Lisa just loved it. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta see this smug.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta see this smug. She goes, you, guys, there's

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<v Speaker 2>this mug in there. It's got a pickle and it

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<v Speaker 2>says I'm kind of a big deal. And the way

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<v Speaker 2>she said it, though, I was like, that is so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. The way she said it, I

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<v Speaker 1>started cracking up. And if I just saw the mug,

0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:39.280
<v Speaker 1>I would have been like, oh, but Lisa pitching the

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<v Speaker 1>mug to us, I was like, that's the funniest thing

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Had, I've ever heard, and I want my coffee in

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<v Speaker 2>it every single day. Speaking of you having your Christmas

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<v Speaker 2>stuff up, which, by the way, I love that you

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<v Speaker 2>already have it up. I want to wait until this

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<v Speaker 2>weeknd Easton comes into town on Sunday, which I'm really

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<v Speaker 2>excited because he'll be on next week's episode family episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to get Lisa on two. Will she be

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<v Speaker 1>to shit?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think she'll do it amazing. I think when

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<v Speaker 2>she has Easton it like, but then she says she

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to do it, But then she's talking in

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<v Speaker 2>the background, so I'm like, just get on a mic

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<v Speaker 2>so people can hear you, or.

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<v Speaker 1>Just sit with us and she'll be talking like we'll

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<v Speaker 1>give her the mic that you could. Yeah, it'll be great.

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<v Speaker 1>I love family episodes because I feel like part of

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<v Speaker 1>the family.

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<v Speaker 2>You are part of the family. Ess. So I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>wait to put the Christmas stuff up while Easton's in town.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you're gonna do it early because I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were in December. Gal No.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm the type where I want it up, like

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<v Speaker 2>as soon as Halloween. Get it up. Let's like feel

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<v Speaker 2>the spirit of the Lord praison. But because I want

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<v Speaker 2>my family here while we do it. And my family's small,

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<v Speaker 2>but I just want Easton here. But by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>the second Christmas is over, I'm like, take get down. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's ready, like it's a new year.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up with my mom keeping Christmas up because

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<v Speaker 2>my dad was five star like keeping trees alive. It

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<v Speaker 2>was the most insane thing I've ever seen in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>You got a real tree. He had always the perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>We always went and picked out our tree at Cummings.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called coming, Okay. I think his name was like Hugh,

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<v Speaker 2>Hugh coming you coming in Salt Lake City, Utah. How

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<v Speaker 2>is it spelled see you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, oh no.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, And so that's where we would pick up

0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.040
<v Speaker 2>our tree. And my dad knew the perfect ratio between

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<v Speaker 2>water seven up, not sprite, and aspirin to give the

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<v Speaker 2>tree to where it just never died.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard of the seven up, not spread. I've

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<v Speaker 1>heard water and ass, but never soda seven up.

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<v Speaker 2>And my mom one year got very upset that the dog,

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<v Speaker 2>our big ass dog, tipped over the tree. Clearly, like

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<v Speaker 2>my mom said, clearly, they did not drill the whole

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<v Speaker 2>properly because the stand wouldn't have given way. Whole tree

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<v Speaker 2>falls over seven up, all over her brand new carpet.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>So that happened. What was the point of this?

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<v Speaker 1>The point of that was because one year, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like they kept it up for a while until my

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<v Speaker 1>brother's birthday, which is Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, time to take the tree down, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, no, we're going to decorate it in Valentine's

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<v Speaker 2>Day theme and birthday theme. I was like, no, we're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait. It was a real tree alive and it had

0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:40.200
<v Speaker 1>lasted that long. I swear to God. February fourteenth, that's

0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:43.920
<v Speaker 1>actually insane. That's actually pretty amazing. That's incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you don't get a real tree anymore, you do,

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<v Speaker 2>I forget. I think once I get us into a house,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll get a real tree. Okay, but right now, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going with just like the faky okay, the fakey

0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:56.640
<v Speaker 2>one okay, which is fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I just like the smell of a real tree.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too. That's why I burn my pine candles.

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<v Speaker 2>Will you send me a picture of which ones you use?

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<v Speaker 1>The candles? Yes? I will. Why because of the toxicity?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that where you're No?

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<v Speaker 2>I just love you think they smell good?

0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:15.680
<v Speaker 1>Then, oh, they smell so good because of like candles

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<v Speaker 1>being toxic. I've heard that. I don't know if it's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't give me another thing to obsess over and worry

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<v Speaker 2>about me sitting in my apartment being like, is that

0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:28.920
<v Speaker 2>candle intoxicating? What's it called? Is that candle intoxicating? Oh no,

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<v Speaker 2>that's hood though it's intoxicating.

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<v Speaker 1>Intoxicating is like positive?

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Oh, all right, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>People good with words, probably if they listen to this podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>are like, oh furious every time.

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<v Speaker 2>This girl's a dumb bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Both of us because I'm like, I don't know. You

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<v Speaker 1>ask me, and I'm like I know.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, it's like I always say I

0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:48.280
<v Speaker 2>didn't go to college. It's like, these are things you

0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.200
<v Speaker 2>probably should have learned in elementary school.

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<v Speaker 1>And again I went to college and I'm I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>as bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, who the fuck knows. So last week we spoke

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<v Speaker 2>about ocean and croup, so I got DMS. There were

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<v Speaker 2>so many people by the way, you guys showed so

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<v Speaker 2>much love. I couldn't believe it. Last week's episode was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of messages saying they cried when you cried,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was a lot of mamas that said, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know I'd be bawling in work this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks guys, but like in a sweet, funny way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, it's just one of those things where like

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<v Speaker 2>every parent has had that moment of going holy shit,

0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:22.440
<v Speaker 2>and it's gonna be that way. I'm gonna have many

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<v Speaker 2>more of those moments, Like the first time she gets hurt,

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<v Speaker 2>like kind of bad, like breaks the bone, Oh my god,

0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:31.200
<v Speaker 2>I can't even and if there's blood involved, I go

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<v Speaker 2>into full worthlessness.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's why you've your mom.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I have my mom, so I just got

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<v Speaker 2>really sweet messages. But I wanted to share this one

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<v Speaker 2>because someone sent this to me and it says, I

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<v Speaker 2>just listened to your podcast this morning and I am

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<v Speaker 2>so glad Ocean is okay. I recommend buying a pulse oximeter.

0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:52.640
<v Speaker 2>You can find them anywhere for twenty five dollars. You

0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:55.120
<v Speaker 2>can put it on Ocean's finger and see how how

0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:58.280
<v Speaker 2>much oxygen is going through her blood. We did this

0:16:58.320 --> 0:17:00.680
<v Speaker 2>for our daughter when she was two because she had

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<v Speaker 2>pneumonia in the past, and it saved her life when

0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:06.360
<v Speaker 2>she was two and a half. So I think I'm

0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:09.800
<v Speaker 2>saying it right, pulse oximeter, Okay, are you going to

0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:14.480
<v Speaker 2>get it? Yes, absolutely, I'm getting it. Apparently croup. Once

0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:18.640
<v Speaker 2>they have get croup, it's like a very high chance

0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:21.280
<v Speaker 2>they're going to get it again. Really, yeah, that's what

0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:22.040
<v Speaker 2>I've been told.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's so interesting, my little sister, because my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad and mom keep up with like news alerts

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<v Speaker 1>about you for some reason, and they were like, oh,

0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:33.520
<v Speaker 1>they called me immediately. They were like, how's Ocean. Oh

0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:35.359
<v Speaker 1>my god, I had no idea. Why didn't you tell us?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like it was like the day after

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast came out and I was like, oh, she's

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<v Speaker 1>she's fine now, and my mom, you know, went on

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<v Speaker 1>like this is what she's got to do. But she said,

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<v Speaker 1>my sister had croup once, never got it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, good to know.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's interesting that. I wonder why that is that

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<v Speaker 1>if you get it once, most likely you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get it again.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but all.

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<v Speaker 1>Croup an RSV, right, that's what's.

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<v Speaker 2>Really going around right now. An RSV is really freaking scary.

0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:06.520
<v Speaker 2>But I did have a nurse reach out. She said,

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<v Speaker 2>you'll never see this. I did see it. But your

0:18:10.280 --> 0:18:13.840
<v Speaker 2>most recent podcast mentioning how everyone's immune systems are horrible,

0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:16.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm a nurse and the last two years everyone has

0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:19.919
<v Speaker 2>been sanitizing everything. I've been the most sick from cold

0:18:19.920 --> 0:18:23.640
<v Speaker 2>slash tummy bugs I've ever been. Love your podcast from

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<v Speaker 2>an ausie that's in New Zealand. Hell, yes, so you

0:18:27.280 --> 0:18:32.120
<v Speaker 2>were right. It sounds I'm always right. Yes, same, you're

0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:32.880
<v Speaker 2>always right too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but just in conversations with Kyle, I'm smart.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a smart person. He's a smart person.

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<v Speaker 1>But so it must be that because cold and stomach

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<v Speaker 1>bug has been what I've been having this year. I

0:18:48.280 --> 0:18:50.720
<v Speaker 1>feel like you and your mom. It's like Kyle, everyone

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<v Speaker 1>and I haven't been sick in years.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. I remember going to the doctor when I

0:18:55.560 --> 0:18:57.840
<v Speaker 2>was super young, and I was terrified of needles, and

0:18:57.880 --> 0:19:00.639
<v Speaker 2>I was terrified of that sta that they put in

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<v Speaker 2>your mouth to push your tongue down because it made

0:19:02.760 --> 0:19:04.639
<v Speaker 2>you gas and it made me gag. So that was

0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:06.720
<v Speaker 2>like I remember them having to hold me down to

0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:09.720
<v Speaker 2>do it. And my doctor said, if you get sick

0:19:09.760 --> 0:19:12.719
<v Speaker 2>one more time, I got to take your tonsils out.

0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:15.480
<v Speaker 2>And then he recommended the Health and Wellness vitamins, which

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<v Speaker 2>I've posted before, and I literally did not get sick again. Really,

0:19:20.480 --> 0:19:25.280
<v Speaker 2>so this past year, the fact that I've been fighting sickness,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what is this? I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you took the Health and Wellness vitamins recently?

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<v Speaker 1>Did they help?

0:19:32.280 --> 0:19:35.000
<v Speaker 2>Those? Always help you take. They recommend you take one

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<v Speaker 2>a day, and then when you're feeling sick or you

0:19:38.200 --> 0:19:40.560
<v Speaker 2>are sick, you amp it up to four. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I also do the colloidal silver, which so many people

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<v Speaker 2>were like, be careful, it'll turn your skin blue. I'm

0:19:46.760 --> 0:19:49.359
<v Speaker 2>very well aware of this, but the amount you would

0:19:49.400 --> 0:19:51.360
<v Speaker 2>have to consume to start having blue skin.

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<v Speaker 1>I yeah, that's very high, not just like a few

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<v Speaker 1>squirts in the mouth wild. Oh speaking of dms, you guys,

0:19:59.440 --> 0:20:01.639
<v Speaker 1>so many of you DM to the podcast and me

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<v Speaker 1>personally with what's the sugar baby doc? Or Oh my god,

0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:09.560
<v Speaker 1>I know exactly what you're talking about. So the what

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<v Speaker 1>I think it is. I've seen both of these episodes,

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<v Speaker 1>so I haven't gone back to be like, oh, this

0:20:14.119 --> 0:20:17.160
<v Speaker 1>was the one, but it's either thank you guys for

0:20:17.240 --> 0:20:20.800
<v Speaker 1>like being sleuths and figuring it out. So it's sleuth,

0:20:21.359 --> 0:20:25.119
<v Speaker 1>like an internet sleuth, like it's like a private detective.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh detective. That's what Sophia Franklin calls all of her listeners,

0:20:30.359 --> 0:20:31.440
<v Speaker 2>and she calls them.

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<v Speaker 1>Slutes like sluts. Oh okay, like salute, like a slang

0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:40.480
<v Speaker 1>for sloot, but sleuth with thh. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you can hear it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not I can hear it now, Yes, okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>glad you're clarified because I was like, oh, now that

0:20:45.440 --> 0:20:48.720
<v Speaker 2>makes sense, but I thought sleuth. I was getting confused

0:20:48.760 --> 0:20:50.520
<v Speaker 2>that sleuth you meant slute whatever?

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<v Speaker 1>Got it?

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds calling these people internet worse.

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<v Speaker 1>That's hilarious. But Okay, it's either because I've seen both

0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:02.840
<v Speaker 1>This Is Life with Lisa Ling season one, episode one.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called Sugar Daddy's Sugar Babies, so I've seen that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's either that one or it is there's an MTV

0:21:10.760 --> 0:21:13.679
<v Speaker 1>True Life episode and I think it's called like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know sugar Baby's MTV True Life Google.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've seen that one.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen. Yes, So I've seen both of these. Thank

0:21:19.680 --> 0:21:22.359
<v Speaker 1>you guys and everyone who's asking and really want to

0:21:22.400 --> 0:21:24.680
<v Speaker 1>watch it, which is so many. That's what it is.

0:21:24.720 --> 0:21:27.679
<v Speaker 1>This is Life Lisa Ling or the MTV one. So

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<v Speaker 1>Happy sugar Baby watching.

0:21:30.119 --> 0:21:33.920
<v Speaker 2>Happy sugar Baby watching. Also, I'm really bummed at myself

0:21:34.040 --> 0:21:37.040
<v Speaker 2>because I did not watch last week's episode of Freaking

0:21:37.600 --> 0:21:40.080
<v Speaker 2>Salt Lake. You didn't, no, So I have no tea

0:21:40.119 --> 0:21:42.800
<v Speaker 2>to spill on my thoughts. But next week I'm gonna

0:21:42.840 --> 0:21:44.600
<v Speaker 2>make Easton watch both episodes with me.

0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:47.399
<v Speaker 1>You are yes, and then he can talk about what

0:21:47.480 --> 0:21:50.360
<v Speaker 1>he thinks. Yes, he doesn't watch it regularly.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold On, So how far behind him? I because a

0:21:53.880 --> 0:21:56.600
<v Speaker 2>new episode is going to air tonight on Monday. So

0:21:56.640 --> 0:22:00.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm one behind, You're one behind? And then well, what

0:22:00.440 --> 0:22:02.359
<v Speaker 2>airs on Wednesday night. So when this comes out, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>have a new episode. Okay, So by the time Eastern

0:22:06.280 --> 0:22:08.560
<v Speaker 2>comes out, I think I'll have two episodes to catch

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<v Speaker 2>up on and talk about. For salt Lake.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, no, because if Eastern comes Sunday, all you'll have

0:22:13.960 --> 0:22:16.440
<v Speaker 1>is this. Oh, because you're talking about last last.

0:22:16.200 --> 0:22:19.560
<v Speaker 2>Week too, got it? However, I did see this morning

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<v Speaker 2>on No Filter with Zach his Instagram page, this footage

0:22:25.000 --> 0:22:28.280
<v Speaker 2>in Salt Lake of Jenshaw with a group of people

0:22:29.200 --> 0:22:33.360
<v Speaker 2>screaming at each other. All I could really make from

0:22:33.400 --> 0:22:38.680
<v Speaker 2>it was fuck and then someone says your husband, and

0:22:39.480 --> 0:22:40.840
<v Speaker 2>it looks very intense.

0:22:41.000 --> 0:22:43.240
<v Speaker 1>We're talking about show footage or behind the scenes.

0:22:43.359 --> 0:22:45.760
<v Speaker 2>We're talking about like someone with a cell phone in

0:22:45.800 --> 0:22:49.080
<v Speaker 2>the streets of Salt Lake filming them. There's like no

0:22:49.119 --> 0:22:52.520
<v Speaker 2>one around except them, just out on the street.

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<v Speaker 1>Wild.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder who this person was. Then, I don't know,

0:22:55.520 --> 0:22:58.840
<v Speaker 2>but I'm eager to like deep dive if you guys know.

0:22:58.960 --> 0:23:01.280
<v Speaker 2>I mean, by the time this maybe we'll be over it.

0:23:01.320 --> 0:23:03.120
<v Speaker 2>But I love me some news on Jenshaw.

0:23:03.359 --> 0:23:07.199
<v Speaker 1>Well, if Easton's gonna watch and he hasn't like watched

0:23:07.240 --> 0:23:09.280
<v Speaker 1>a ton, then I'm gonna watch too, so I know

0:23:09.320 --> 0:23:11.639
<v Speaker 1>what you guys are talking about, just to see so

0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:14.439
<v Speaker 1>I can like hear, because if I just have to

0:23:14.440 --> 0:23:16.280
<v Speaker 1>watch the past few episodes, I can do that in

0:23:16.320 --> 0:23:18.160
<v Speaker 1>a freaking weekend. Easy, breezy.

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:21.160
<v Speaker 2>You don't need to twist my arm to watch any

0:23:21.320 --> 0:23:26.240
<v Speaker 2>sort of Real housewives. OG knew. I'm currently watching season

0:23:26.400 --> 0:23:31.440
<v Speaker 2>three of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, which is Kim

0:23:31.560 --> 0:23:37.120
<v Speaker 2>Richard's sober It's fucking incredible and inspiring and I love

0:23:37.160 --> 0:23:39.720
<v Speaker 2>it so much just to see her and when she

0:23:39.800 --> 0:23:44.240
<v Speaker 2>talks about sobriety, just her feeling towards it amazing. There

0:23:44.320 --> 0:23:48.640
<v Speaker 2>was also Bethany Frankel coming out with her I think

0:23:48.680 --> 0:23:52.520
<v Speaker 2>it's called Rehousewives where it's a podcast with iHeart where

0:23:52.560 --> 0:23:55.240
<v Speaker 2>she only talks about housewives.

0:23:55.840 --> 0:23:58.159
<v Speaker 1>I literally I didn't know this, but I was just

0:23:58.240 --> 0:24:00.639
<v Speaker 1>about to say, Lala, have you ever thought about starting

0:24:00.640 --> 0:24:03.320
<v Speaker 1>a podcast where you just talk about housewives? You know?

0:24:03.520 --> 0:24:05.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't know that people. I think it's more interesting

0:24:06.000 --> 0:24:09.600
<v Speaker 2>for an ex housewive to talk about housewives. I mean,

0:24:09.920 --> 0:24:14.280
<v Speaker 2>Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra two point three million downloads in

0:24:14.400 --> 0:24:15.520
<v Speaker 2>one month.

0:24:15.800 --> 0:24:16.600
<v Speaker 1>What do they talk about?

0:24:16.640 --> 0:24:20.920
<v Speaker 2>Just how housewives I've never listened to the podcast, which

0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:24.640
<v Speaker 2>clearly they don't need my download or listenership. Yeah they're

0:24:24.720 --> 0:24:27.640
<v Speaker 2>killing it, but I need to start listening, and they're

0:24:27.760 --> 0:24:30.040
<v Speaker 2>killing it. So a lot of people had a problem

0:24:30.040 --> 0:24:33.120
<v Speaker 2>with Bethany Frinkel because she's slammed the show so much

0:24:33.160 --> 0:24:36.479
<v Speaker 2>and then all of a sudden she's capitalizing on a

0:24:36.520 --> 0:24:38.439
<v Speaker 2>podcast based on housewives.

0:24:38.560 --> 0:24:39.560
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna ask about that.

0:24:39.640 --> 0:24:42.600
<v Speaker 2>So a lot of her former castmates have like thrown

0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:46.000
<v Speaker 2>some shade and some digs, and her response was basically,

0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 2>I hope they feel better. It's a brilliant idea. I've

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:52.280
<v Speaker 2>always had brilliant ideas, like you're a fucking savage.

0:24:52.320 --> 0:24:55.280
<v Speaker 1>And also, this is a necessarily then this is a

0:24:55.359 --> 0:24:57.679
<v Speaker 1>perspective that we're not going to get if there's all

0:24:57.720 --> 0:25:00.159
<v Speaker 1>these housewives I don't know if there are but all

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:04.760
<v Speaker 1>these housewives starting in pop culture podcasts that have podcasts

0:25:04.880 --> 0:25:08.480
<v Speaker 1>just about talking about housewives. We don't necessarily have the

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:12.439
<v Speaker 1>perspective of an ex housewife who maybe has thrown shade

0:25:12.440 --> 0:25:14.200
<v Speaker 1>at the show who's now going to be talking about it.

0:25:14.240 --> 0:25:17.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure we'll get some opinions from Bethany that we

0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:20.080
<v Speaker 1>won't won't have gotten from anyone.

0:25:19.760 --> 0:25:22.560
<v Speaker 2>Else, of course not. And she's so unfiltered and she's

0:25:22.560 --> 0:25:27.280
<v Speaker 2>interesting to listen to, and she argues very intellectually, and

0:25:27.400 --> 0:25:30.800
<v Speaker 2>I just I enjoy her. So whether she's thrown shade,

0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:34.280
<v Speaker 2>it's like Lauren Bostik said, I'm changing all the time.

0:25:34.560 --> 0:25:37.160
<v Speaker 2>Today I may love ice cream and tomorrow I may

0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:39.920
<v Speaker 2>hate it. Well, Bethany may have thrown shade, and today

0:25:40.000 --> 0:25:41.720
<v Speaker 2>she's appreciating house. If so, fuck it.

0:25:41.800 --> 0:25:45.160
<v Speaker 1>Let her do her, Yes, exactly, what do you say?

0:25:45.240 --> 0:25:46.679
<v Speaker 1>I reserve the right I used to.

0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:48.800
<v Speaker 2>I reserve the right to evolve.

0:25:49.119 --> 0:25:50.919
<v Speaker 1>That's what it is. I love that. I want that

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:51.840
<v Speaker 1>on a T shirt.

0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:55.399
<v Speaker 2>I can't take credit for it. My plastic surgeon's nurse

0:25:55.720 --> 0:25:58.640
<v Speaker 2>actually said it to me, okay, and I said to her,

0:25:58.800 --> 0:25:59.879
<v Speaker 2>just so you know, I'm using that.

0:26:00.440 --> 0:26:01.720
<v Speaker 1>Wait, what was she talking about.

0:26:02.840 --> 0:26:07.960
<v Speaker 2>I think we were having a conversation after my breakup

0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:11.560
<v Speaker 2>or something. Maybe I had gone in and we were

0:26:11.600 --> 0:26:14.800
<v Speaker 2>just going in depth and she was talking about her

0:26:14.840 --> 0:26:17.080
<v Speaker 2>relationship status and she just said that to me, and

0:26:17.119 --> 0:26:17.440
<v Speaker 2>I was.

0:26:17.400 --> 0:26:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Like, whoa, it's so good.

0:26:19.720 --> 0:26:21.399
<v Speaker 2>It's so good, and I'm using it. So if you

0:26:21.440 --> 0:26:23.879
<v Speaker 2>hear it, just know like I respect it. Came from you,

0:26:23.880 --> 0:26:25.120
<v Speaker 2>but I'm going to take it on like it came

0:26:25.160 --> 0:26:25.399
<v Speaker 2>from me.

0:26:26.400 --> 0:26:28.359
<v Speaker 1>All right, all right.

0:26:28.560 --> 0:26:30.879
<v Speaker 2>I also went in for a booby doctor appointment.

0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:33.119
<v Speaker 1>Yes, you did a mammogram.

0:26:33.160 --> 0:26:36.520
<v Speaker 2>So I have yet to have a mammogram. Oh I have.

0:26:37.320 --> 0:26:41.600
<v Speaker 2>I've only had ultrasounds. So I got a lot of

0:26:41.600 --> 0:26:45.680
<v Speaker 2>people sliding into my DM, which I thought was really interesting.

0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:48.280
<v Speaker 2>A lot of them, a lot of them were saying, yes,

0:26:48.359 --> 0:26:50.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy that you're shedding light. But a lot

0:26:50.320 --> 0:26:54.440
<v Speaker 2>of people were saying where they lived, their doctors won't

0:26:54.480 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 2>give them to their like, give them a scan until

0:26:57.560 --> 0:27:00.879
<v Speaker 2>they're forty or fifty. Some women even said to me,

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:02.840
<v Speaker 2>why are you doing it so young? You don't need

0:27:02.880 --> 0:27:05.840
<v Speaker 2>to do it until you're this age. I personally have

0:27:05.960 --> 0:27:10.159
<v Speaker 2>a friend who was in her mid thirties. Yeah, and

0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:15.120
<v Speaker 2>just beat cancer last year. Yeah. And I remember at

0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:18.960
<v Speaker 2>a very young age, I was in I think junior

0:27:19.040 --> 0:27:23.439
<v Speaker 2>high maybe even elementary school, and my grandmother had just

0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:27.480
<v Speaker 2>passed away from breast cancer. My aunt was bad, no,

0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:30.240
<v Speaker 2>both I had two aunts that were battling it. And

0:27:30.480 --> 0:27:34.800
<v Speaker 2>my mom's my mom's aunt, Yeah, your mom's aunt. A

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:39.040
<v Speaker 2>lot of people in my family and I remember feeling

0:27:39.080 --> 0:27:43.120
<v Speaker 2>my boobs and feeling like some sort of fatty thing

0:27:43.160 --> 0:27:45.760
<v Speaker 2>in the left one, and I made my mom take

0:27:45.760 --> 0:27:48.439
<v Speaker 2>me in because I was so freaked out. As you should.

0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:52.880
<v Speaker 2>So I got my very first ultrasound on my boobs.

0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Was at a very young age. Then I started going,

0:27:56.119 --> 0:27:58.399
<v Speaker 2>I want to say in my twenties, just because it

0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:01.800
<v Speaker 2>runs on both sides of my family. But I thought

0:28:01.880 --> 0:28:05.520
<v Speaker 2>a lot of these like this woman said, yes girl.

0:28:05.560 --> 0:28:07.600
<v Speaker 2>I was thirty six now thirty seven when I was

0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:11.439
<v Speaker 2>diagnosed with stage two breast cancer and I had just

0:28:11.520 --> 0:28:14.679
<v Speaker 2>finished nursing my six month old son. Thank you for advocating,

0:28:14.680 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 2>because early detection is key. I finished sixteen rounds of

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 2>chemo in June, had a bilateral mass sectomy in July,

0:28:21.400 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 2>finished thirty rounds of radiation in October, and I'm currently

0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:28.480
<v Speaker 2>doing another six months of chemo followed by reconstruction and

0:28:28.600 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 2>ten years of meds. So thank you again for advocating.

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:33.800
<v Speaker 2>I saw it would never happen to me.

0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:34.959
<v Speaker 1>Wow.

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:37.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it's important.

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:41.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm very confused. Maybe it goes by state with like

0:28:41.280 --> 0:28:42.400
<v Speaker 1>health insurance and all that.

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:44.920
<v Speaker 2>But that could very much be it health insurance.

0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 1>I've gotten a mamma because a mammogram is where you

0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:50.800
<v Speaker 1>put your boob on that thing and then it pushes

0:28:50.840 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 1>it right, Yes, and it hurt me. And my friends

0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:55.960
<v Speaker 1>were like, but this was in New York and I

0:28:56.040 --> 0:28:58.760
<v Speaker 1>got it. I think I was probably maybe this was

0:28:58.800 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 1>in Tennessee. Either way, I was like twenty and it

0:29:01.240 --> 0:29:04.960
<v Speaker 1>was just like part of my maybe annual exam or something, right,

0:29:05.040 --> 0:29:08.400
<v Speaker 1>and now with my annual with my gynecologist, I mean,

0:29:08.440 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 1>they feel my boobs, but I don't know if that's

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:12.600
<v Speaker 1>that's just a quick feel.

0:29:12.760 --> 0:29:14.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but I think it's important for you

0:29:14.800 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 2>to be feeling yourself. If you feel any itching or

0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:21.360
<v Speaker 2>burning sensation, get your ass into a doctor. This woman

0:29:21.440 --> 0:29:25.040
<v Speaker 2>said you can't in Ireland until you're fifty six. I believe.

0:29:25.800 --> 0:29:28.760
<v Speaker 1>I wonder very I wonder if she means you can't

0:29:28.800 --> 0:29:30.480
<v Speaker 1>without paying, because.

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:33.440
<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm wondering. No one said directly like, you

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:38.560
<v Speaker 2>can't have your insurance won't cover it unless you're this age.

0:29:38.760 --> 0:29:41.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so it's yeah, it's probably more because you can.

0:29:41.200 --> 0:29:43.240
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you can, but you might just have

0:29:43.320 --> 0:29:45.840
<v Speaker 1>to pay out of pocket. That is so wild.

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:51.120
<v Speaker 2>Though. This woman said that her friend was diagnosed at

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:55.800
<v Speaker 2>the age of thirty three. This woman, I was diagnosed

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 2>at thirty two with breast cancer. Wow, I would not

0:29:59.400 --> 0:30:02.720
<v Speaker 2>have had a man Graham until I was forty. This

0:30:02.760 --> 0:30:05.000
<v Speaker 2>person said, yeay, I'm so glad you're doing this long

0:30:05.040 --> 0:30:08.440
<v Speaker 2>before they recommend. I had breast cancer at twenty nine.

0:30:09.000 --> 0:30:13.520
<v Speaker 1>Holy moly, so recommend feeling your breast. But I have

0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:18.120
<v Speaker 1>a question for women with implants. Yeah, does that block

0:30:18.200 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 1>because the doctors always say feel your breast and if

0:30:20.920 --> 0:30:24.920
<v Speaker 1>you feel something that's alarming, go in. If you have implants,

0:30:24.960 --> 0:30:27.280
<v Speaker 1>because I don't know how it's does that would that

0:30:27.400 --> 0:30:30.800
<v Speaker 1>block your ability to feel anything alarming or do not know?

0:30:31.200 --> 0:30:36.040
<v Speaker 2>I've had breast implants since I was twenty so in

0:30:36.080 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 2>my own humble opinion, and I'm not a doctor, I

0:30:40.440 --> 0:30:44.200
<v Speaker 2>would think that that could act as like a barrier.

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:49.440
<v Speaker 2>And I mean I just I would think right having

0:30:49.480 --> 0:30:53.600
<v Speaker 2>something inside where it wouldn't give you exactly what like

0:30:53.640 --> 0:30:54.920
<v Speaker 2>the feeling that you would need.

0:30:55.080 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>But then again, if you're gonna be because then my

0:30:57.360 --> 0:31:00.280
<v Speaker 1>brain goes I forever was like, oh, if you have

0:31:00.320 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 1>breast implants, you can't breastfeed. And my one friend who

0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:06.280
<v Speaker 1>as them, was like, that is so not true. What

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:09.160
<v Speaker 1>are you talking about like, I love that you thought that.

0:31:09.560 --> 0:31:12.240
<v Speaker 2>But my mom taught me, and even at a young age,

0:31:12.240 --> 0:31:13.600
<v Speaker 2>because this is what I did. This is why I

0:31:13.640 --> 0:31:16.360
<v Speaker 2>made her, at the age of like twelve or something

0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:21.479
<v Speaker 2>take me in for the ultrasound, because she said, and

0:31:21.520 --> 0:31:23.760
<v Speaker 2>correct me if I'm wrong, if there's like a doctor

0:31:23.840 --> 0:31:26.280
<v Speaker 2>and nurse out there who knows. I mean, my mom

0:31:26.360 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 2>is certainly not a doctor. But she said to lay

0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:32.680
<v Speaker 2>flat on your back and then use the tips of

0:31:32.720 --> 0:31:36.040
<v Speaker 2>your fingers to literally like make a pitter powder motion

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:39.440
<v Speaker 2>all the way around, all the way around your boob.

0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:43.040
<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's what my ghino does. Okay, surely, I mean

0:31:43.080 --> 0:31:46.640
<v Speaker 1>does your guano. Like every annual, my guino will check

0:31:46.680 --> 0:31:48.880
<v Speaker 1>my boobs and do the pitter patter motion around and

0:31:48.920 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 1>then they'll she'll say it like and then she'll go

0:31:51.920 --> 0:31:55.880
<v Speaker 1>do the deep dive into my vagina. But but yeah,

0:31:56.000 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 1>the pitter powder motioner, I've always learned. Yeah, I've learned.

0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:01.440
<v Speaker 1>If you can't lay down, you put your arm up

0:32:01.440 --> 0:32:04.680
<v Speaker 1>straight into it. Okay, yeah, I arm of the air, yes,

0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:05.360
<v Speaker 1>arm in the air.

0:32:05.680 --> 0:32:10.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay. So yeah, I've never done the mammogram. The last

0:32:10.560 --> 0:32:12.840
<v Speaker 2>however many times I've had this done it's always been

0:32:12.880 --> 0:32:18.040
<v Speaker 2>an ultrasound and I'm nice and clean and clear. And

0:32:18.120 --> 0:32:21.280
<v Speaker 2>people were saying when I posted that my voice broke

0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 2>at the end and everyone was like, are you okay?

0:32:23.320 --> 0:32:25.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, And I was like, I think that was

0:32:25.280 --> 0:32:29.480
<v Speaker 2>just me being nervous. I was having an okay day.

0:32:29.520 --> 0:32:32.520
<v Speaker 2>But sometimes when I'm like, well, so many people from

0:32:32.520 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 2>like the video that we posted where I had a

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:37.760
<v Speaker 2>mask on. In the video, We're like, might do you

0:32:37.840 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 2>have a mask on? I'm like, hello, it's not about

0:32:40.080 --> 0:32:42.160
<v Speaker 2>the mask. Yeah, it's about me telling you to go

0:32:42.200 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 2>out and vote. I have to be honest, like anybody

0:32:46.080 --> 0:32:48.880
<v Speaker 2>anywhere knows that when you go into a doctor's office

0:32:49.120 --> 0:32:51.600
<v Speaker 2>you got to put a mask on. Yeah, at least

0:32:51.640 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 2>in California.

0:32:52.480 --> 0:32:56.640
<v Speaker 1>In California for sure, and yes, and the voting boosts

0:32:56.680 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 1>because we went there. There's a lot of elderly people,

0:32:59.680 --> 0:33:01.960
<v Speaker 1>and I think people are just taking like extra precaution.

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:05.480
<v Speaker 2>Well, by the way, I was just getting over being sick,

0:33:05.560 --> 0:33:09.200
<v Speaker 2>so I put a mask on. Say thank you?

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:09.560
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:33:10.480 --> 0:33:11.000
<v Speaker 2>How about that?

0:33:11.560 --> 0:33:13.920
<v Speaker 1>Missing the point? Like people are just d I mean,

0:33:14.040 --> 0:33:14.960
<v Speaker 1>why do you have a mask on?

0:33:15.560 --> 0:33:18.719
<v Speaker 2>But don't worry about what I put on my face

0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:20.280
<v Speaker 2>inject into my face.

0:33:20.520 --> 0:33:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, don't worry about it.

0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:25.560
<v Speaker 2>When people get so upset, like when I get botox

0:33:25.560 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 2>and posts and they're like enraged by it, I'm like,

0:33:28.600 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 2>you've got to like, come off it. It's not your face.

0:33:32.480 --> 0:33:35.960
<v Speaker 2>Why are you so upset? It's why I'm not pinning

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 2>you down shoving botox into your face, even though I'm

0:33:39.080 --> 0:33:40.440
<v Speaker 2>pretty sure you want me to.

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:43.880
<v Speaker 1>This is you being jealous, That's exactly it. And I

0:33:43.920 --> 0:33:46.680
<v Speaker 1>mean we've we you know, it's the same energy as Pam,

0:33:47.000 --> 0:33:50.160
<v Speaker 1>Like we've gone off on Pam, who you know, Thank

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:52.040
<v Speaker 1>god it's not a real name, because she's gotten some

0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:53.000
<v Speaker 1>hate in the DMS.

0:33:53.200 --> 0:33:57.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh Pam, her ass has been laid on tide.

0:33:58.560 --> 0:34:01.600
<v Speaker 1>So no, what, it's a energy. It's like, you know,

0:34:01.680 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 1>there are a whole like which I don't go on Reddit,

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:08.799
<v Speaker 1>but I've heard there are whole like Reddit threads designated

0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:14.000
<v Speaker 1>to talking shit about like celebrities with injections and botox,

0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:16.760
<v Speaker 1>And I'm just like, Ah, get a life.

0:34:17.040 --> 0:34:19.839
<v Speaker 2>How sad does your world have to be to get

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:23.720
<v Speaker 2>onto a Reddit thread and participate in that conversation.

0:34:23.320 --> 0:34:27.000
<v Speaker 1>In spew negativity about like even five minutes being like

0:34:27.440 --> 0:34:32.120
<v Speaker 1>disgusting botox blah, blah blah. It's like, are you okay?

0:34:33.400 --> 0:34:36.360
<v Speaker 2>It just it's like you hate yourself.

0:34:36.840 --> 0:34:39.480
<v Speaker 1>You hate yourself. Go to therapy. There's more to life.

0:34:39.840 --> 0:34:42.040
<v Speaker 1>Go to church, Go wherever you gotta go to like

0:34:42.400 --> 0:34:42.920
<v Speaker 1>fix that.

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:45.880
<v Speaker 2>Yep, if you're scared, go to church. We don't hit

0:34:45.920 --> 0:34:48.520
<v Speaker 2>you where it hurt. That don't work, We'll put you

0:34:48.560 --> 0:34:52.720
<v Speaker 2>in the dirt. Is that a Raba ice cube?

0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:53.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh?

0:34:54.000 --> 0:34:58.399
<v Speaker 2>Fucking ice cube? I love it? Oh my god, he goes,

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:02.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm Utah, I got more multiple bitches. That's what he

0:35:02.680 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 2>says from Utah gangster rap made me do it.

0:35:05.760 --> 0:35:06.440
<v Speaker 1>No oh.

0:35:06.440 --> 0:35:08.880
<v Speaker 2>People love to just talk about Utah and then associate

0:35:08.920 --> 0:35:10.120
<v Speaker 2>it with multiple bitches.

0:35:10.280 --> 0:35:13.040
<v Speaker 1>Apparently, Oh okay, I get it now. It's clicking now

0:35:13.080 --> 0:35:14.600
<v Speaker 1>because I was like, wait, what I'm like?

0:35:14.680 --> 0:35:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Good watch some documentaries that ain't hit in.

0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:24.880
<v Speaker 1>Last week was the gallery shoot. Last week was the

0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:29.520
<v Speaker 1>gallery shoot with your fabulous, fabulous fucking dress and your

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:32.160
<v Speaker 1>amazing hair. We all saw a little teaser of it

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:33.799
<v Speaker 1>on your Instagram story how to go.

0:35:34.120 --> 0:35:36.800
<v Speaker 2>It was amazing. I was a little bit annoyed. Why

0:35:37.040 --> 0:35:40.719
<v Speaker 2>because number one, if you work in this industry, you

0:35:40.760 --> 0:35:45.040
<v Speaker 2>should just know this. But some people just like I

0:35:45.040 --> 0:35:50.319
<v Speaker 2>guess I don't know what isn't firing, but on our

0:35:50.400 --> 0:35:53.160
<v Speaker 2>call sheet it says you are more than welcome to

0:35:53.280 --> 0:35:57.160
<v Speaker 2>post in the glamor room the moment you get on

0:35:57.239 --> 0:36:02.120
<v Speaker 2>set in your looks. There is no social media. Raquel's

0:36:02.160 --> 0:36:08.440
<v Speaker 2>hair girl and Raquel posted full looks on set of

0:36:08.440 --> 0:36:12.759
<v Speaker 2>what We're Doing, and Shina posted a photo of she,

0:36:12.960 --> 0:36:16.400
<v Speaker 2>Ariana and Raquel in their looks. I'm like, you, guys,

0:36:17.480 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 2>please stop, yeah, please just stop. It was she and

0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 2>I love you. This is not me hating on you,

0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:27.439
<v Speaker 2>but it's like they literally stated this on our call

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:30.279
<v Speaker 2>sheet not to post, and then Raquel and her hair

0:36:30.400 --> 0:36:34.120
<v Speaker 2>girl post her on set of literally what we're doing

0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:38.400
<v Speaker 2>for our video of like a teaser high We're back.

0:36:39.120 --> 0:36:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I saw it all and I even texted

0:36:41.400 --> 0:36:43.120
<v Speaker 1>you that day and said I can't wait to see

0:36:43.120 --> 0:36:45.319
<v Speaker 1>the final images. And then I saw a video and

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:47.799
<v Speaker 1>I think it was on Raquel's Instagram where you are

0:36:47.840 --> 0:36:51.600
<v Speaker 1>in it, and I was like, oh, did you. I'm

0:36:51.640 --> 0:36:56.400
<v Speaker 1>curious because it's one thing. Again, I'm sure it infuriated production.

0:36:56.480 --> 0:36:58.719
<v Speaker 1>It's one thing to post behind the scenes, but it's

0:36:58.760 --> 0:37:01.759
<v Speaker 1>another thing to post someone else look without asking were

0:37:01.800 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 1>you asked, Hey, you're in this video. Can I post it?

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:05.120
<v Speaker 1>It's your full look? No?

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:09.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh, no, I wasn't. I love hera Raquel's hair girl.

0:37:09.640 --> 0:37:10.480
<v Speaker 2>She's very sweet.

0:37:10.520 --> 0:37:10.799
<v Speaker 1>I don't.

0:37:11.280 --> 0:37:14.759
<v Speaker 2>But it's just kind of like, come on, guys, come

0:37:14.760 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 2>to the party. What We've done this a lot of times. Yeah,

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:21.840
<v Speaker 2>you've done this a lot of times. Like my my

0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:25.759
<v Speaker 2>glam and hair people were not posting me. I was

0:37:25.760 --> 0:37:28.200
<v Speaker 2>in a bathroom. You could see my face. It was

0:37:28.200 --> 0:37:32.120
<v Speaker 2>in the glamor room. So that happened. Anyway, everyone looked stunning.

0:37:32.200 --> 0:37:34.080
<v Speaker 2>Every time I see my cast, I'm like, even if

0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:36.759
<v Speaker 2>we're not connecting, y'all are a bunch of hot motherfuckers. Yeah,

0:37:36.840 --> 0:37:40.120
<v Speaker 2>good for us. We are killing the game.

0:37:40.239 --> 0:37:41.920
<v Speaker 1>You are You're all nice on the eyes.

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:46.960
<v Speaker 2>Yes, So I take a picture or my glam person, Melissa,

0:37:47.160 --> 0:37:49.560
<v Speaker 2>who I love the way she did my makeup, takes

0:37:49.560 --> 0:37:51.880
<v Speaker 2>a picture of me. Okay. And I was bored one

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 2>night and just wanted to fuck around with the snow app.

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 2>And there's a lot of different apps that people use. Okay,

0:37:56.640 --> 0:37:58.960
<v Speaker 2>and remind me we have to post a side by

0:37:59.000 --> 0:38:02.680
<v Speaker 2>side because gonna die. Okay. So I was just fucking

0:38:02.719 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 2>with it. I was doing what like I think most

0:38:05.239 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 2>people do on their Instagrams because everyone's morphing into the

0:38:10.160 --> 0:38:16.799
<v Speaker 2>same person. Yes, and I start tweaking my face. I

0:38:16.840 --> 0:38:17.840
<v Speaker 2>really want you to see it.

0:38:17.920 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm dying to see it. Can we post this

0:38:20.200 --> 0:38:23.680
<v Speaker 1>side by side? Yes, the Instagram, the podcast, Instagram story

0:38:23.760 --> 0:38:26.440
<v Speaker 1>or something one. Now that we're talking about it, you

0:38:26.480 --> 0:38:27.680
<v Speaker 1>know people are gonna want to see.

0:38:27.840 --> 0:38:30.120
<v Speaker 2>I also have people to see Lala.

0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:33.640
<v Speaker 1>Eventually, one day when you have the time, which is

0:38:33.640 --> 0:38:36.120
<v Speaker 1>not right now, you have to sit down and do

0:38:36.200 --> 0:38:39.279
<v Speaker 1>like a screen recording or something, or I'll video you

0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 1>doing everything you do to your photos, because your photos

0:38:42.200 --> 0:38:44.319
<v Speaker 1>look flawless and not over edited. But I don't know

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:46.080
<v Speaker 1>how you do that because I go to edit a

0:38:46.120 --> 0:38:49.000
<v Speaker 1>photo and I show Kyle and he's like, do not

0:38:49.120 --> 0:38:52.040
<v Speaker 1>do that? You really he can tell yes, And my

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:55.000
<v Speaker 1>sister and my brothers are like, if I try and edit,

0:38:55.080 --> 0:38:57.640
<v Speaker 1>it looks fake. So I just really don't really edit.

0:38:57.760 --> 0:39:00.000
<v Speaker 1>But the way you do it tastefully. I think James

0:39:00.120 --> 0:39:02.960
<v Speaker 1>Charles did a video of him showing people how to

0:39:03.480 --> 0:39:05.440
<v Speaker 1>edit and like face tune or something.

0:39:05.239 --> 0:39:07.280
<v Speaker 2>In like a way that's not like holy shit. Okay,

0:39:07.280 --> 0:39:10.960
<v Speaker 2>So Jess, I'm gonna show you my before okay, and

0:39:10.960 --> 0:39:11.440
<v Speaker 2>then after.

0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:15.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay, can I try and pick out what you did? Okay?

0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:17.560
<v Speaker 2>So we'll try and pick out what I did.

0:39:17.480 --> 0:39:21.760
<v Speaker 1>This to you guys. Okay, that's after. I cannot fucking

0:39:21.800 --> 0:39:24.720
<v Speaker 1>tell what you did, but I can tell it's like, okay,

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:27.600
<v Speaker 1>hold on, it's did you send your nose a little?

0:39:27.960 --> 0:39:31.680
<v Speaker 2>I sinched the nose. Nothing with the brows. I did

0:39:31.760 --> 0:39:32.720
<v Speaker 2>do something with the brows.

0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:33.799
<v Speaker 1>You did you make them?

0:39:34.719 --> 0:39:36.720
<v Speaker 2>Thickened them and added length?

0:39:37.880 --> 0:39:42.040
<v Speaker 1>Could not see even there. I'm scrolling and you, guys,

0:39:42.040 --> 0:39:43.759
<v Speaker 1>if you want to follow along, we'll have this up

0:39:43.760 --> 0:39:45.680
<v Speaker 1>on the Instagram story before and after.

0:39:45.719 --> 0:39:47.719
<v Speaker 2>You're fine with that, Yes, I want people to see

0:39:47.760 --> 0:39:49.799
<v Speaker 2>because I'm gonna tell you my thought process when I

0:39:49.800 --> 0:39:51.040
<v Speaker 2>stared at that shit too long?

0:39:51.200 --> 0:39:53.239
<v Speaker 1>Did you do something to your forehead or no, let

0:39:53.320 --> 0:39:55.239
<v Speaker 1>me the brows? Did you like?

0:39:55.520 --> 0:39:56.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to tell you everything I do.

0:39:56.920 --> 0:39:57.480
<v Speaker 1>Please tell me.

0:39:57.560 --> 0:40:02.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I shortened my face. I made my face more petite. Okay,

0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:06.239
<v Speaker 2>I made my lips more poudy, So I brought them

0:40:06.280 --> 0:40:12.960
<v Speaker 2>in and made them a little fuller. Okay. I thickened

0:40:12.960 --> 0:40:17.120
<v Speaker 2>my brows and brought them. Oh, I brought them out

0:40:17.120 --> 0:40:19.840
<v Speaker 2>and a little bit in I tilted the eye shape

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:21.560
<v Speaker 2>you know that thing that people are doing.

0:40:21.600 --> 0:40:23.279
<v Speaker 1>It's almost like a faceless.

0:40:22.800 --> 0:40:25.959
<v Speaker 2>Almost like it gives you more of a cat ee right, Yes,

0:40:26.239 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 2>So I did that as well, and I started going, okay,

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:34.439
<v Speaker 2>this was just for fun, right. I started flipping back

0:40:34.480 --> 0:40:37.160
<v Speaker 2>and forth, going, but I want to look like that

0:40:38.400 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 2>like the one you edited.

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes, did you start to feel bad about yourself? Because

0:40:43.200 --> 0:40:44.759
<v Speaker 1>this is a very interesting thing to me.

0:40:44.920 --> 0:40:47.200
<v Speaker 2>I just kept thinking, like, oh my god, I like

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:49.640
<v Speaker 2>my face so much more in that photo and it

0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:52.280
<v Speaker 2>looks Can I tell you I look like every girl,

0:40:52.440 --> 0:40:53.840
<v Speaker 2>every blonde on Instagram?

0:40:53.840 --> 0:40:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Can I look at it again?

0:40:54.760 --> 0:40:59.080
<v Speaker 2>Now, insta on Instagram? I just morphed into I know,

0:40:59.160 --> 0:40:59.360
<v Speaker 2>I do.

0:40:59.480 --> 0:41:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Look at this with one app there's a bit of

0:41:02.080 --> 0:41:05.360
<v Speaker 1>just like a classic quote unquote alien look if you

0:41:05.400 --> 0:41:08.880
<v Speaker 1>think of like the classic alien cartoons where it's like,

0:41:09.200 --> 0:41:12.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, the big eyes and the pointy chin that's

0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:14.440
<v Speaker 1>going around. See And then I look at it and

0:41:14.480 --> 0:41:16.719
<v Speaker 1>I see how like you look like you could be

0:41:16.760 --> 0:41:19.560
<v Speaker 1>a cartoon character in this in this editor it's a bratstall,

0:41:19.719 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 1>right bratstall, Yes.

0:41:20.920 --> 0:41:24.920
<v Speaker 2>Yes, but see. But I kept flipping back and forth,

0:41:24.960 --> 0:41:29.560
<v Speaker 2>and it did something to my brain like what Like,

0:41:30.000 --> 0:41:33.400
<v Speaker 2>I asked my mother, how what do you think I

0:41:33.440 --> 0:41:37.520
<v Speaker 2>could do to achieve this? Look? My mom goes, your

0:41:37.640 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 2>fucking nuts, put the phone away, and then I snapped

0:41:43.040 --> 0:41:44.839
<v Speaker 2>myself out of it. I was like, you've gone mad.

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:48.360
<v Speaker 2>You've gone mad because you show me this girl in

0:41:48.440 --> 0:41:52.080
<v Speaker 2>real life. Great for a photo, right, but it's so

0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:53.200
<v Speaker 2>unnatural looking.

0:41:53.520 --> 0:41:54.800
<v Speaker 1>It's very un natural looking.

0:41:54.920 --> 0:41:57.040
<v Speaker 2>But then I go into these young girls who are

0:41:57.080 --> 0:42:01.000
<v Speaker 2>looking at photos of and it is you look at

0:42:01.040 --> 0:42:02.680
<v Speaker 2>it like, how am I gonna sit here and go

0:42:02.719 --> 0:42:04.840
<v Speaker 2>how do I make my face smaller?

0:42:04.920 --> 0:42:05.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeap?

0:42:06.040 --> 0:42:06.239
<v Speaker 2>What?

0:42:06.520 --> 0:42:06.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:42:07.160 --> 0:42:09.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm thirty two and I was having those thoughts.

0:42:09.760 --> 0:42:12.719
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and that is that gets into you because a

0:42:12.760 --> 0:42:14.279
<v Speaker 1>lot of people will go, how can I make my

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:17.000
<v Speaker 1>face smaller? And if you have the funds and if

0:42:17.000 --> 0:42:20.160
<v Speaker 1>you have the doctors in mind, you a lot of

0:42:20.160 --> 0:42:23.320
<v Speaker 1>people these days will would take that photo into their doctor,

0:42:23.600 --> 0:42:26.120
<v Speaker 1>into their plastic surgeon and say, here's what I want

0:42:26.120 --> 0:42:28.640
<v Speaker 1>to do. This is this is what I want now.

0:42:28.719 --> 0:42:31.799
<v Speaker 1>Plastic surgeons like the ones you used would say get

0:42:31.800 --> 0:42:35.120
<v Speaker 1>out of here, we're not doing that, but others would go, okay, great,

0:42:35.320 --> 0:42:39.359
<v Speaker 1>So we shaved the chin, the jaw, we pull back,

0:42:39.480 --> 0:42:42.040
<v Speaker 1>we do niptock, and that's how you get And I'm

0:42:42.080 --> 0:42:44.880
<v Speaker 1>telling you, it kind of freaks me out when I

0:42:44.920 --> 0:42:46.879
<v Speaker 1>do see people starting to all look the same.

0:42:47.440 --> 0:42:48.400
<v Speaker 2>How about you or do you?

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:48.880
<v Speaker 1>Are you not?

0:42:49.160 --> 0:42:51.640
<v Speaker 2>No, that's I'm the type where it's like, if you

0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:55.080
<v Speaker 2>feel beautiful like that, then you should go and do

0:42:55.160 --> 0:43:00.160
<v Speaker 2>whatever you want to do. But it's important for other

0:43:00.320 --> 0:43:02.719
<v Speaker 2>women who maybe don't have the funds to go and

0:43:02.760 --> 0:43:05.959
<v Speaker 2>do all of that, to say, this is what I've

0:43:06.000 --> 0:43:08.719
<v Speaker 2>done to my face, this is not the way I

0:43:08.760 --> 0:43:12.560
<v Speaker 2>look naturally, because it fucks with you. You see an

0:43:12.600 --> 0:43:15.239
<v Speaker 2>image over and over again and you start thinking, I'm

0:43:15.280 --> 0:43:18.680
<v Speaker 2>supposed to look like that, and then you don't like

0:43:18.760 --> 0:43:23.440
<v Speaker 2>your own face. Okay, Like that photo of me where

0:43:23.560 --> 0:43:26.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm just before I did all that shit, I was

0:43:26.120 --> 0:43:28.080
<v Speaker 2>looking at myself. I was like, damn, bitch, you look

0:43:28.280 --> 0:43:31.959
<v Speaker 2>so good. Okay, and then I did all that shit

0:43:32.000 --> 0:43:34.040
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, no, it's not like I don't

0:43:34.040 --> 0:43:36.320
<v Speaker 2>feel hot there. I feel hot there. That's when I

0:43:36.400 --> 0:43:38.040
<v Speaker 2>had to put the phone down and regroup and I

0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:39.160
<v Speaker 2>was like, you know what, We're going to talk about

0:43:39.160 --> 0:43:41.600
<v Speaker 2>this on the podcast. This is a learning moment.

0:43:41.960 --> 0:43:44.880
<v Speaker 1>I love that because I do look at that photo.

0:43:44.920 --> 0:43:47.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean I do see when I look and try

0:43:47.680 --> 0:43:50.720
<v Speaker 1>and spot the difference, I can't pick it out. Maybe

0:43:50.719 --> 0:43:52.560
<v Speaker 1>that's just how my eyes are, but I see a

0:43:52.560 --> 0:43:56.200
<v Speaker 1>difference in the photos. I see a difference. Obviously you

0:43:56.239 --> 0:43:59.400
<v Speaker 1>look more like a Bradstall totally. But if you posted

0:43:59.400 --> 0:44:01.919
<v Speaker 1>that edited photo of you, I'd be like, oh, this

0:44:02.000 --> 0:44:04.840
<v Speaker 1>isn't what you necessarily look like in real life.

0:44:04.880 --> 0:44:07.319
<v Speaker 2>Like no, if I post that on my Instagram. If

0:44:07.320 --> 0:44:09.000
<v Speaker 2>I edit my photos and I meet a guy through

0:44:09.000 --> 0:44:10.879
<v Speaker 2>a DM and he wants to link up, that ain't

0:44:10.920 --> 0:44:11.960
<v Speaker 2>what he's getting right.

0:44:13.400 --> 0:44:16.920
<v Speaker 1>And there's something about I agree with you. Love, if

0:44:16.960 --> 0:44:18.879
<v Speaker 1>you want to look a certain way and it makes

0:44:18.880 --> 0:44:21.440
<v Speaker 1>you more confident, go do it, Go be it. But

0:44:21.680 --> 0:44:25.520
<v Speaker 1>I think maybe because I'm in Like, there's something about

0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:29.880
<v Speaker 1>like people's quirks in their face nowadays, where if I

0:44:29.920 --> 0:44:33.279
<v Speaker 1>see like uneven teeth, they're like just little or like

0:44:33.320 --> 0:44:40.319
<v Speaker 1>a big forehead, not me, not me mentioning everything I have.

0:44:41.600 --> 0:44:43.439
<v Speaker 1>But if I see that, I'm like, oh, that's kind

0:44:43.440 --> 0:44:47.319
<v Speaker 1>of cute, Like it's just like the uniqueness. And I

0:44:47.320 --> 0:44:49.799
<v Speaker 1>think it's because I watch so much fucking TV. Right,

0:44:49.840 --> 0:44:54.400
<v Speaker 1>And by season four everyone looks perfect totally, especially on sitcoms.

0:44:54.440 --> 0:44:56.400
<v Speaker 1>You see season one and you're like, oh yeah, and

0:44:56.440 --> 0:44:58.920
<v Speaker 1>then season four, I'm like, their faces can barely move

0:44:58.920 --> 0:45:01.040
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, and I'm just like, it takes me

0:45:01.120 --> 0:45:01.520
<v Speaker 1>out of it.

0:45:02.280 --> 0:45:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:45:02.680 --> 0:45:05.880
<v Speaker 1>No, again, it doesn't happen as much anymore, but it

0:45:05.960 --> 0:45:06.759
<v Speaker 1>used to happen a lot.

0:45:06.800 --> 0:45:07.279
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know.

0:45:07.280 --> 0:45:09.600
<v Speaker 1>There's something about like we don't want to all look

0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the same.

0:45:10.880 --> 0:45:12.439
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't think we all want to look the same.

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:14.440
<v Speaker 2>But if you feel hot, go inject your face. But

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:19.759
<v Speaker 2>just like let people. I think I'm about transparency and

0:45:19.840 --> 0:45:22.000
<v Speaker 2>I think that I can fulfill all of my wants

0:45:22.000 --> 0:45:25.839
<v Speaker 2>and needs to feel confident while also you know, protecting

0:45:27.320 --> 0:45:30.480
<v Speaker 2>women around me and men by saying this is how

0:45:30.480 --> 0:45:33.160
<v Speaker 2>I edited this photo. This is the procedure I went

0:45:33.200 --> 0:45:37.440
<v Speaker 2>and got today, so that you know that it's this

0:45:37.560 --> 0:45:40.920
<v Speaker 2>ain't natural. I'll never pretend like I had nothing done.

0:45:41.560 --> 0:45:44.200
<v Speaker 2>And a lot of people say, you look so different

0:45:44.200 --> 0:45:48.080
<v Speaker 2>from season four. Yes, I'm not twenty four anymore. I'm

0:45:48.120 --> 0:45:52.120
<v Speaker 2>thirty two, So yes, that did happen. I do look different.

0:45:52.280 --> 0:45:54.440
<v Speaker 2>And when people say I miss your old face, I

0:45:54.520 --> 0:45:58.200
<v Speaker 2>miss my old face too. I would also like to

0:45:58.360 --> 0:46:02.520
<v Speaker 2>be look twenty four again, where this face isn't trying

0:46:02.560 --> 0:46:05.280
<v Speaker 2>to be like, hey, we're getting older. We are fighting

0:46:05.360 --> 0:46:08.320
<v Speaker 2>fine lines and wrinkles. Like you see me in person.

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:12.120
<v Speaker 2>There's something about a photo, like a frontward camera, Like

0:46:12.280 --> 0:46:15.160
<v Speaker 2>my lips always look bigger in pictures, which I love

0:46:15.360 --> 0:46:17.840
<v Speaker 2>they do. Yeah, because when I had no lip injections,

0:46:17.840 --> 0:46:20.040
<v Speaker 2>I would slide into the snow app and make them bigger,

0:46:20.120 --> 0:46:22.480
<v Speaker 2>make them bigger because I just like my bit. I

0:46:22.560 --> 0:46:25.600
<v Speaker 2>like fuller lips. But when people see me in person,

0:46:27.080 --> 0:46:31.120
<v Speaker 2>there's countless times where people have been like, you don't

0:46:31.160 --> 0:46:34.640
<v Speaker 2>look as as injected as you do on your Instagram.

0:46:34.680 --> 0:46:37.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, if anyone said that to me, I'd be like,

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:38.680
<v Speaker 1>fuck off.

0:46:38.840 --> 0:46:40.759
<v Speaker 2>Well I feel like they mean it as a compliment,

0:46:40.960 --> 0:46:42.279
<v Speaker 2>so I'm just like, well, thank you.

0:46:42.600 --> 0:46:47.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that's insane. Everyone I play around with I want.

0:46:47.760 --> 0:46:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a snow app.

0:46:51.160 --> 0:46:52.439
<v Speaker 2>That overlining.

0:46:53.280 --> 0:46:56.160
<v Speaker 1>I will overline and sometimes I keep going and then

0:46:56.200 --> 0:47:00.560
<v Speaker 1>it's like, hey, if you want to see she's talking

0:47:00.560 --> 0:47:02.920
<v Speaker 1>about it's in my highlights on Instagram. I got a

0:47:02.960 --> 0:47:05.880
<v Speaker 1>little carried away one day with the lip liner and overlining,

0:47:05.920 --> 0:47:09.000
<v Speaker 1>and it just Kyle wasn't home Kyle wasn't home. I

0:47:09.080 --> 0:47:12.000
<v Speaker 1>was bored. But you want to know what's funny, Well,

0:47:12.480 --> 0:47:14.840
<v Speaker 1>the amount of DMS I got from I hate to

0:47:14.880 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 1>call you out women, but they're like women in their

0:47:17.239 --> 0:47:21.880
<v Speaker 1>fifties that say, this looks so bad. You cannot do this.

0:47:21.960 --> 0:47:26.120
<v Speaker 1>You look like a fucking clown. Ladies, I know it

0:47:26.360 --> 0:47:27.080
<v Speaker 1>is a show.

0:47:27.560 --> 0:47:29.520
<v Speaker 2>The fact that you have to explain that to people.

0:47:29.600 --> 0:47:31.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm like you and I would not get along.

0:47:31.520 --> 0:47:33.960
<v Speaker 1>They're like, LA's got into your head?

0:47:34.360 --> 0:47:35.880
<v Speaker 2>How could you even take the video?

0:47:36.000 --> 0:47:36.560
<v Speaker 1>Seriously?

0:47:36.640 --> 0:47:40.040
<v Speaker 2>It was so funny you could tell that you were

0:47:40.080 --> 0:47:40.560
<v Speaker 2>being funny.

0:47:40.640 --> 0:47:42.799
<v Speaker 1>I know, I mean I just kind of laughed. But

0:47:43.360 --> 0:47:45.520
<v Speaker 1>we all do what you want to do. I think

0:47:45.560 --> 0:47:48.120
<v Speaker 1>it's I mean, I look at your nip, lips, nips,

0:47:48.160 --> 0:47:50.600
<v Speaker 1>you know. I look at your lips, and I think

0:47:50.640 --> 0:47:54.480
<v Speaker 1>they look natural. But it also could be because they've

0:47:54.520 --> 0:47:57.000
<v Speaker 1>always looked this way since I've met you, so I

0:47:57.000 --> 0:47:59.759
<v Speaker 1>don't know, like and also if they don't fucking look

0:47:59.840 --> 0:48:01.560
<v Speaker 1>now and you want them to look fake and it

0:48:01.560 --> 0:48:03.600
<v Speaker 1>makes you happy, get on looking fake.

0:48:03.719 --> 0:48:05.279
<v Speaker 2>By the way, I've been looking at my face for

0:48:05.320 --> 0:48:06.920
<v Speaker 2>a long time now, and I feel like when you

0:48:06.960 --> 0:48:09.680
<v Speaker 2>see it, like it's kind of like when someone wants

0:48:09.719 --> 0:48:14.120
<v Speaker 2>to lose weight, right, And because they're looking at themselves

0:48:14.200 --> 0:48:17.719
<v Speaker 2>every single day, they don't notice the change, right. But

0:48:17.840 --> 0:48:19.640
<v Speaker 2>people that you haven't seen in a while are like,

0:48:19.719 --> 0:48:21.160
<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, I notice.

0:48:21.360 --> 0:48:21.640
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

0:48:22.400 --> 0:48:23.879
<v Speaker 2>So I've been looking at my lips and I said

0:48:23.920 --> 0:48:26.920
<v Speaker 2>to my mom like, yo, I gotta go back into Lee,

0:48:27.040 --> 0:48:30.120
<v Speaker 2>like I feel like I need them injected again. And

0:48:30.160 --> 0:48:33.319
<v Speaker 2>she was like, you've gone insane, really yes, And I

0:48:33.360 --> 0:48:35.080
<v Speaker 2>even said to Lee she was like, la, la, they

0:48:35.080 --> 0:48:36.920
<v Speaker 2>look the same. And it's because I've been staring at

0:48:36.920 --> 0:48:39.560
<v Speaker 2>for them, staring at them for so long that I

0:48:39.600 --> 0:48:42.919
<v Speaker 2>think that they're small. Do you know what's funny though?

0:48:43.120 --> 0:48:45.600
<v Speaker 1>You Okay, well, you remember like months ago when you

0:48:45.680 --> 0:48:47.920
<v Speaker 1>and your mom went and got your lips injected for

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:50.560
<v Speaker 1>the first time since before you were pregnant. Yeah, yeah,

0:48:50.640 --> 0:48:54.919
<v Speaker 1>I thought, I love seeing this happen because in my mind,

0:48:54.960 --> 0:48:57.320
<v Speaker 1>I was like, once you get start getting your lips injected,

0:48:57.320 --> 0:48:59.440
<v Speaker 1>you have to do it every three four weeks, like

0:48:59.480 --> 0:49:01.839
<v Speaker 1>it has to be done. But you haven't gotten you

0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:04.280
<v Speaker 1>haven't gone back since, and to me, they look great,

0:49:04.320 --> 0:49:04.760
<v Speaker 1>So I'm.

0:49:04.600 --> 0:49:10.040
<v Speaker 2>Like, huh, lips, lips and filler last a very long time.

0:49:10.200 --> 0:49:12.880
<v Speaker 2>They do botox, you have to keep up on I

0:49:12.960 --> 0:49:15.360
<v Speaker 2>think that's like I think she said three months.

0:49:15.640 --> 0:49:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh see even that, I'm like, when you say keep up,

0:49:18.000 --> 0:49:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like every three weeks, every four weeks, no, like

0:49:20.680 --> 0:49:23.480
<v Speaker 1>three months, and then you get injected again like hair.

0:49:23.560 --> 0:49:26.080
<v Speaker 2>For me, yeah, like highlights pretty much.

0:49:26.440 --> 0:49:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Huh.

0:49:27.080 --> 0:49:30.319
<v Speaker 2>But I'm fine with that because if you saw my dad,

0:49:30.440 --> 0:49:33.520
<v Speaker 2>my dad was his face had a lot of personality,

0:49:33.640 --> 0:49:38.400
<v Speaker 2>we'll call it so sweet. And my mother also before

0:49:38.520 --> 0:49:42.480
<v Speaker 2>we injected her, hers had a lot of personality. And

0:49:42.600 --> 0:49:43.640
<v Speaker 2>those lines.

0:49:43.320 --> 0:49:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Get deep to where you cannot reverse them. That's my

0:49:46.880 --> 0:49:49.279
<v Speaker 1>that's my yeah, that's my smile lines right now.

0:49:49.520 --> 0:49:54.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, So for me, I just don't like, I'm

0:49:54.040 --> 0:49:56.400
<v Speaker 2>okay with some fine lines on the forehead, but I

0:49:56.440 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 2>mean those frown lines that genetically thick.

0:50:00.800 --> 0:50:02.640
<v Speaker 1>No, they're like deep caverns.

0:50:02.920 --> 0:50:03.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:50:03.760 --> 0:50:07.720
<v Speaker 1>No, if you see me in person, my eyebrow lines,

0:50:07.719 --> 0:50:11.440
<v Speaker 1>because I'm very expressive with my face. Just I don't

0:50:11.200 --> 0:50:13.920
<v Speaker 1>think only when you do that only well I've asked.

0:50:14.000 --> 0:50:17.160
<v Speaker 1>I've gone in and asked before, like, oh what in

0:50:17.800 --> 0:50:20.680
<v Speaker 1>what you know? I'm scared of needles because so that's

0:50:20.719 --> 0:50:24.080
<v Speaker 1>a whole other story. I'll probably just I'll just age

0:50:24.320 --> 0:50:26.760
<v Speaker 1>and be wrinkled, and that's just what it is, because

0:50:26.920 --> 0:50:29.680
<v Speaker 1>I'll faint. But I've went in and asked, and I've

0:50:29.719 --> 0:50:31.960
<v Speaker 1>gotten people saying, oh, there are some lines that are

0:50:32.080 --> 0:50:34.880
<v Speaker 1>in your face now that you just can't reverse. Like

0:50:34.920 --> 0:50:38.000
<v Speaker 1>it's just not it's just not going to happen.

0:50:38.280 --> 0:50:41.000
<v Speaker 2>No, but you could prevent them from becoming deeper.

0:50:41.200 --> 0:50:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Yes, by doing the botox.

0:50:43.160 --> 0:50:45.719
<v Speaker 2>Yach, and I want to do that.

0:50:46.160 --> 0:50:46.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:50:46.400 --> 0:50:47.799
<v Speaker 2>How funny that when I have to go to a

0:50:47.840 --> 0:50:49.920
<v Speaker 2>doctor's office to get my blood drawn to like make

0:50:49.920 --> 0:50:52.279
<v Speaker 2>sure I'm healthy, I fully have to lay down and

0:50:52.320 --> 0:50:54.719
<v Speaker 2>I almost pass out. And then when they're like, we're

0:50:54.760 --> 0:50:58.040
<v Speaker 2>gonna do PRP where we take your bloods, spin the

0:50:58.080 --> 0:50:59.800
<v Speaker 2>platelets and put it on your face, I'm like, okay,

0:51:00.000 --> 0:51:00.560
<v Speaker 2>there's my arm.

0:51:00.760 --> 0:51:05.080
<v Speaker 1>See that makes me dizzy. Do you think it's all mental?

0:51:05.239 --> 0:51:07.200
<v Speaker 2>It's all mental. I mean, granted, even when I'm in

0:51:07.239 --> 0:51:09.040
<v Speaker 2>the chair and they're taking my blood, they still have

0:51:09.120 --> 0:51:11.360
<v Speaker 2>to tilt me back. Even talking about it, I'm starting

0:51:11.360 --> 0:51:12.600
<v Speaker 2>to get like a little bit woozy.

0:51:12.960 --> 0:51:15.439
<v Speaker 1>What about lips and botox? You they have to tilt

0:51:15.440 --> 0:51:16.440
<v Speaker 1>you back right or no.

0:51:16.880 --> 0:51:19.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, my lips it's so painful. That I make her

0:51:19.920 --> 0:51:22.200
<v Speaker 2>literally give me a dental block, Like I'm.

0:51:22.040 --> 0:51:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Not the dentist, so that's like like numbing something.

0:51:26.640 --> 0:51:28.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I can't feel shit. She puts needles in the

0:51:28.640 --> 0:51:30.279
<v Speaker 2>back of my mouth and numbs me as if I'm

0:51:30.320 --> 0:51:32.640
<v Speaker 2>having a root canal. Oh my god, So I can't

0:51:32.680 --> 0:51:38.160
<v Speaker 2>feel my face's because I'll pass out. The pain is

0:51:38.200 --> 0:51:42.160
<v Speaker 2>excruciating lip pain. That's why if you're in LA and

0:51:42.200 --> 0:51:45.000
<v Speaker 2>you want your lips done, go to my girl. Her

0:51:45.080 --> 0:51:48.920
<v Speaker 2>name is Lee at skin tight Esthetics. I follow her

0:51:48.960 --> 0:51:52.280
<v Speaker 2>on Instagram. Katie just went to her. She talks about

0:51:52.280 --> 0:51:56.839
<v Speaker 2>how the pain with lips is excruciating. Lee has these

0:51:56.880 --> 0:52:02.560
<v Speaker 2>like they look like little drumsticks and they're steel, and

0:52:02.600 --> 0:52:04.320
<v Speaker 2>she puts them in the freezer and holds it on

0:52:04.320 --> 0:52:08.800
<v Speaker 2>on the injection site. You can't even feel the needle

0:52:08.840 --> 0:52:11.880
<v Speaker 2>going holds it on before yep, holds like the little

0:52:12.120 --> 0:52:16.600
<v Speaker 2>silver drumstick, ice thing whatever on your lip and then

0:52:16.760 --> 0:52:19.600
<v Speaker 2>puts the needle in and it's like you can't Katie

0:52:19.680 --> 0:52:22.239
<v Speaker 2>was like, I could not feel a thing, And she

0:52:22.280 --> 0:52:25.360
<v Speaker 2>didn't do any numbing cream and didn't obviously get a

0:52:25.440 --> 0:52:26.600
<v Speaker 2>dental block because I'm a weirdo.

0:52:27.520 --> 0:52:29.880
<v Speaker 1>No me I'd be like, put me under.

0:52:30.320 --> 0:52:32.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, for sure.

0:52:33.120 --> 0:52:34.160
<v Speaker 1>Give me anesthesia.

0:52:34.280 --> 0:52:35.920
<v Speaker 2>No. Even when I went in to get my boobs

0:52:35.920 --> 0:52:37.919
<v Speaker 2>done in my earpin back, I was like, while I'm out,

0:52:37.960 --> 0:52:41.160
<v Speaker 2>can you remove these like little I just had like

0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:43.239
<v Speaker 2>little skin things that I was not digging when I

0:52:43.280 --> 0:52:45.720
<v Speaker 2>got when I was pregnant. I was like, just save

0:52:46.000 --> 0:52:49.320
<v Speaker 2>me the mental torture of coming in here and you

0:52:49.440 --> 0:52:52.040
<v Speaker 2>numbing me with a needle to remove this, like I'm out,

0:52:52.239 --> 0:52:54.279
<v Speaker 2>just fucking take it off. I know, I know.

0:52:54.360 --> 0:52:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I remember asking you. I was like, can't you just

0:52:56.400 --> 0:52:56.880
<v Speaker 1>stay awake?

0:52:56.880 --> 0:52:57.440
<v Speaker 2>And You're like.

0:52:57.480 --> 0:52:59.880
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, no, out cold.

0:53:00.480 --> 0:53:02.360
<v Speaker 2>So wow, there's that. Wow.

0:53:02.440 --> 0:53:04.760
<v Speaker 1>We do you love a tangent? I love a good tangent.

0:53:05.239 --> 0:53:08.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm excited to post the photo though, side by side,

0:53:08.680 --> 0:53:10.800
<v Speaker 2>so I know that we need to do that. Also,

0:53:10.840 --> 0:53:13.080
<v Speaker 2>I want to repost this video that I saw Cardi

0:53:13.160 --> 0:53:17.200
<v Speaker 2>b okay and because I'm not on TikTok and I'm

0:53:17.239 --> 0:53:19.879
<v Speaker 2>only on well, I am on TikTok, but I don't

0:53:19.920 --> 0:53:21.600
<v Speaker 2>have the app on my phone, which I need to have.

0:53:21.640 --> 0:53:24.560
<v Speaker 2>You sign me into Jess because I got so many

0:53:24.560 --> 0:53:26.640
<v Speaker 2>people wanting me to watch TikTok's over the weekend.

0:53:26.719 --> 0:53:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I was like, can't just a heads up? It takes

0:53:29.600 --> 0:53:31.759
<v Speaker 1>it will take up more time than Instagram. It's the

0:53:31.800 --> 0:53:36.160
<v Speaker 1>most addicting app. I'm telling you you can scroll for hours.

0:53:36.360 --> 0:53:39.120
<v Speaker 1>You won't be that way because you're not. But I've

0:53:39.239 --> 0:53:42.000
<v Speaker 1>never been the big Instagram gal. I'm like, eh, TikTok,

0:53:42.080 --> 0:53:43.799
<v Speaker 1>I can scroll and look up in two hours. But

0:53:43.800 --> 0:53:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I'll put it on your phone.

0:53:44.960 --> 0:53:48.200
<v Speaker 2>But just now, or you'll just screen record the video

0:53:48.239 --> 0:53:48.520
<v Speaker 2>for me.

0:53:49.160 --> 0:53:50.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can ford it to me.

0:53:51.160 --> 0:53:53.319
<v Speaker 2>You should go into your to do this. No, I

0:53:53.360 --> 0:53:55.160
<v Speaker 2>can't get on. I don't even care. It is what

0:53:55.200 --> 0:53:56.759
<v Speaker 2>it is. By the time we do it, I'm not

0:53:56.800 --> 0:53:59.560
<v Speaker 2>gonna give a shit about these videos. Right. But Cardi

0:53:59.640 --> 0:54:04.239
<v Speaker 2>B was in her kitchen looking super fucking fabulous and

0:54:04.280 --> 0:54:10.120
<v Speaker 2>she was singing Wop, her song Wop, and she obviously

0:54:10.239 --> 0:54:12.920
<v Speaker 2>heard pitter patter because her little girl walks in and

0:54:12.960 --> 0:54:15.640
<v Speaker 2>she's like, no, no, no, no, like stops them, like

0:54:15.680 --> 0:54:17.800
<v Speaker 2>trying to like talk over the music is like pretending

0:54:17.840 --> 0:54:20.560
<v Speaker 2>like everything's fine. And it just made me go into

0:54:20.600 --> 0:54:24.319
<v Speaker 2>this moment of how so many people and I'm sure

0:54:24.400 --> 0:54:26.680
<v Speaker 2>the Cardi B's of the world and all these people

0:54:26.760 --> 0:54:29.640
<v Speaker 2>who are out here doing artistic things. I'm sure they

0:54:29.640 --> 0:54:32.480
<v Speaker 2>get dms like this all the time. But people say like,

0:54:33.400 --> 0:54:36.080
<v Speaker 2>would you want your kids seeing this like what I'm

0:54:36.120 --> 0:54:38.560
<v Speaker 2>doing or what I'm saying, or your kid's gonna listen

0:54:38.560 --> 0:54:40.279
<v Speaker 2>to this one day? And here's my stance on that.

0:54:41.320 --> 0:54:43.799
<v Speaker 2>Do I want my kid seeing this when she's in

0:54:43.880 --> 0:54:48.080
<v Speaker 2>elementary school? No, absolutely not. But there's gonna be a

0:54:48.120 --> 0:54:52.600
<v Speaker 2>time where my child experiences life, all right, and she's

0:54:52.640 --> 0:54:55.560
<v Speaker 2>gonna be doing things that I've done in my lifetime before,

0:54:55.960 --> 0:54:59.120
<v Speaker 2>she's gonna read things that she's gonna experience in her

0:54:59.160 --> 0:55:01.759
<v Speaker 2>lifetime before. I hate to break into all of you,

0:55:02.239 --> 0:55:05.880
<v Speaker 2>my daughter one day is gonna have sex. My daughter

0:55:05.960 --> 0:55:09.319
<v Speaker 2>one day is gonna talk about giving a blowjob. My

0:55:09.560 --> 0:55:14.320
<v Speaker 2>daughter one day is gonna say the fuck word. Okay,

0:55:14.640 --> 0:55:17.480
<v Speaker 2>my daughter isn't going to be a year and a

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<v Speaker 2>half or a child forever. So when you make comments

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<v Speaker 2>like your daughter's gonna see this, no shit. But my

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<v Speaker 2>daughter's gonna have life experiences. And I pray to God

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<v Speaker 2>that when she gets older and she has these experiences,

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<v Speaker 2>she can go you know what, I feel comfortable with

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<v Speaker 2>my mom because I remember her talking crazy this one

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<v Speaker 2>time on a podcast or I read this article, She's

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<v Speaker 2>a safe place for me to go to.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, right, exactly. Yes, it's so much fucking pressure when

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<v Speaker 1>you if you, I mean, that's a whole different thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But like being a kid and having to grow up

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<v Speaker 1>thinking your parents have never done anything wrong. That's so

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<v Speaker 1>much pressure, and it will get to you and get

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<v Speaker 1>to you mentally as you grow up and you fuck up,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, oh my god, the end of the world.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, you want. I love that having there's especially

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<v Speaker 1>nowadays with social media, there's moms out there. There's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be moms out there that's it's like, you've done

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<v Speaker 1>the craziest shit or whatever. It's out there, even moms

0:56:20.239 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 1>that aren't necessarily in the public eye like you, You're

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<v Speaker 1>going to have crazy. It's the Internet. It lasts forever,

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<v Speaker 1>it really does. So you're going to have your kid

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<v Speaker 1>come across maybe crazy shit you did in college or

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<v Speaker 1>season six of vander Pump Rights, and yes, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be like, yep, mom, mom did that. Here's what

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<v Speaker 1>I maybe regret, Here's what I don't, Here's what I

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<v Speaker 1>learned from right, and the ocean's going to feel like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom was wild back in her twenties, so I

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<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable enough being like, hey mom, I just did

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<v Speaker 1>this last night, and I feel kind of bad about it, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It just I thought it was a really sweet moment

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<v Speaker 2>Cardi B being Cardi B for all of us to

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<v Speaker 2>watch as she's singing wop, which is we and then

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<v Speaker 2>to see her immediately go into protection mode of like,

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<v Speaker 2>there's my daughter's in the room where one day her

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<v Speaker 2>daughter is going to hear all of her mom's music,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm sure be proud because her mom's freaking Cardi B.

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<v Speaker 2>But there's just there's such a separation between like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not I may be saying these things on a mic.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going home with my one year old and

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<v Speaker 2>talking about these things. I won't be talking about these

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<v Speaker 2>things when my daughter's in elementary school, probably not even

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<v Speaker 2>junior high. We'll see where she's at mentally and emotionally

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<v Speaker 2>and what she brings to me where I have to

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<v Speaker 2>have certain conversations. But please don't waste your time with

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<v Speaker 2>sliding in my DM saying your daughter is gonna see

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<v Speaker 2>this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm well aware and I'm fully okay with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that was like a really long podcast sorry, and

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<v Speaker 2>I went on a lot of tangents that was like this.

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<v Speaker 2>I like this too because I had a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>stuff to share. I hope you guys enjoyed it. You

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<v Speaker 2>guys are amazing. Happy hump today and I'll catch you

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<v Speaker 2>next week.