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Speaker 1: Hello, my love, it is Lala Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode, but give them a La

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Speaker 2: podcast before we jump into it.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Dress? Hi? Nothing is up. I had a

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Speaker 1: nice weekend. I'm looking at your hair and I'm obsessed.

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Speaker 1: You guys, we chopped it. You chopped it this weekend.

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Speaker 1: I put up my Christmas tree already.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I Kyle wasn't happy about it, but I convinced him

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Speaker 1: too because we're hosting Thanksgiving it our place, so I

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Speaker 1: was like, we need the holiday stuff up. And we

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Speaker 1: had a friends giving.

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Speaker 2: Well that's right, you had a friends giving over in

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Speaker 2: this area.

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Speaker 1: Over Well I thought it was, but it was more.

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Speaker 1: It was probably like fifteen minutes away from here. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but it was cute. It was really nice. We had

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Speaker 1: a beautiful, beautiful time. We showed up five minutes early

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Speaker 1: and ended up because of Kyle and ended up help

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Speaker 1: setting up because you're so early. So how was your weekend?

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Speaker 2: I always tell people, I'm like, just so you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm a really bad helper. I'm not gonna help you

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Speaker 2: set up. I'm not gonna help you cook, but I'm

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Speaker 2: more than happy to venmo you free anything you need supplies.

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Speaker 1: See the You're the kind of people I love because

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Speaker 1: I'm a control freak. If i'm setting up, don't touch anything,

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Speaker 1: but just sort of be there to talk to me

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Speaker 1: if I need you. And if someone were to be

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Speaker 1: like I'm not gonna help it, I'll venmo you yes please.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny because so I'd be perfect for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because I'm hands off. I'm a hands off type person,

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Speaker 2: but i'll offer. Like my friends who know me really well,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, can I do anything? They're like, bitch, shut up.

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Speaker 1: Sit down, what are you doing? Shut up?

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Speaker 2: Yes. I had a really great weekend before we jump

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Speaker 2: into this. I got this cute book for Ocean and

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Speaker 2: I highly recommend it because she's obsessed. She loves books

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Speaker 2: more than anything. So I found this book that I

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Speaker 2: knew that she'd be obsessed with. It's called What Do

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Speaker 2: the Stars See on the Farm, And it's written and

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Speaker 2: illustrated by a woman named Molly Smith. And if you

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Speaker 2: have a little one, I highly recommend it. It's so cute,

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Speaker 2: and especially because it has farm animals. So now when

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Speaker 2: I get to the lamp page or the cow page,

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Speaker 2: she makes the sounds. It's that cute.

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Speaker 1: BA and her no way, it's ba moon Nay, I

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Speaker 1: can't get over here.

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Speaker 2: She's Every time I ask her what a pig says,

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Speaker 2: she goes oh. I like, I've tried to teach her

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Speaker 2: how to say oink, but then when I say what

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Speaker 2: does solely say? She goes rash. Yeah, so we've added

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Speaker 2: solely to the list of what do animals say?

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Speaker 1: Who's solely solely from monsters inc? Solely from monsters inc?

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Speaker 1: Duh okay perfect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So there's that. The weekend was great. I had

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Speaker 2: my friend's little boys third birthday party yesterday. And because

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Speaker 2: la is like Groundhog's Day and it's seventy degrees in

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Speaker 2: fucking November, I just like I lose track of the day,

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Speaker 2: the month, the year, just all of it, because it's

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Speaker 2: like another glorious morning makes me sick type weather every

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Speaker 1: So glorious morning makes me sick type day.

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Speaker 2: And so I get a text from her on where

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Speaker 2: to park, and I was like, that's today. So I run.

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Speaker 2: We get in the car, me and my rid die

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Speaker 2: co parent mom slash.

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Speaker 1: Wife lie my obviously Lisa.

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Speaker 2: We get in the car. We go to the grove.

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Speaker 2: There's this woman. It's a hot mess yesterday, all right.

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Speaker 2: I find this girl walking to her car, so I'm

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Speaker 2: been following this girl, like we're gonna take this spot,

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Speaker 2: out to like tell the girl like, hey, we're going

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Speaker 2: to park here, and she's like, great, I saw you following. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And my mom I was like, can you get out

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Speaker 2: we're taking this spot. The woman proceeds to in what

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Speaker 2: I saw remove my mother with her car stop. Yes, bumps,

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Speaker 2: my mom's leg with her car runs over. Thank god.

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Speaker 2: My mom said these shoes are too big. Well, thank

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Speaker 1: Wait what I'm actually I swear to God, because you guys,

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Speaker 1: this is the first time I'm hearing this. The usually

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Speaker 1: like Laala will tell me what happened over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: I'm wait, so did anyone video because did you get out?

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Speaker 1: Or you're like, what the fuck? No?

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Speaker 2: This woman was like obviously. She kept yelling you're a

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Speaker 2: out of her window. She's got a little kid in

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Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, I hope I cannot put

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Speaker 1: man over your mom's phone.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And then as we're walking to the elevator, she

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Speaker 2: circles around again, rolls down her window calls us vile bitches. Again.

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Speaker 2: I tell my mom like, don't engage. The police are coming.

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Speaker 2: We're waiting by the elevator where the police tell us

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Speaker 2: to wait. The woman is walking in with her child,

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Speaker 2: continuing to call us vile bitches. I'm like, I said,

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Speaker 2: She said, I don't care and leaves. So the cops

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Speaker 2: come and she's facing a hit and run.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so they didn't find her. You didn't like lead

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Speaker 1: them to her. Did she just so she left in

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're doing? No, she went she went

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Speaker 2: shopped the masked Where is the woman? I said, she's

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Speaker 2: shopping here? She is. I took a picture of her

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Speaker 2: license plate, her entire car, her face.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good, good, So you got a lot on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I'm still in shock, like the fact that your mom's

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Speaker 1: foot got run over. What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank god? Can I tell you what's so crazy

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Speaker 2: is my We're in my parking garage going to the car,

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Speaker 2: and she says, should I run back up and change

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Speaker 2: my shoes? These are these are too big?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And I said, we don't have time, like just fucking

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Speaker 2: wear the shoes, all right, Like I gotta go get

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Speaker 2: a gift.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And because of this debacle, I had to arrive to

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Speaker 2: my friend's little boy's birthday party with his toys in

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Speaker 2: a giant Nord Strum plastic bag.

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Speaker 1: That's fine. Kids don't care. Kids do not give a shit.

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Speaker 1: They would. I feel like a lot of them would

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Speaker 2: I was like, are you kidding? I can't even wrap it.

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Speaker 2: Q I look like, let's pull it a little bit.

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Speaker 1: So Lisa is okay, though, so her because of the

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Speaker 1: big shoes. Nothing happened, no, no.

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Speaker 2: Thank God. But like I literally watched it, Like this

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Speaker 1: Vehicle and you didn't freak out. I would. I think

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Speaker 2: I have to be honest with you. Yeah, I could

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Speaker 2: feel myself getting to that level that if I were

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Speaker 2: to get out of the car, not good.

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Speaker 1: So you stayed in the car.

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Speaker 2: I stayed in the car. I like asked God, please

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Speaker 2: but it's like, if this woman is willing to like

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Speaker 1: You're unsafe. I feel heartbroken for that child who had

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Speaker 1: to witness that, because, let's be honest, if she does

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Speaker 1: that so easily over that situation, it's happened before most likely,

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Speaker 1: So you have this child who probably has to witness

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Speaker 1: all these dramatic situations all the time. I can't believe

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Speaker 2: I know, weird, right, Holy shit? Yeah, it was a lot.

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Speaker 1: What a day it was a was a lot. Was

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Speaker 1: Les emotionally shaken up or was she liked No.

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Speaker 2: She was she was shaken up. Okay, I was shaken

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Like I almost was like, I can't go to this birthday,

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Speaker 2: Like I can't feel like I can't even drive a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so over a fucking parking spots and fuck you

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Speaker 2: What now, I'm totally like, I'm the type of person

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Speaker 2: following this person, Like great, it's yours. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Did the woman whose spot you were both going after?

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Speaker 1: Did she was she like, oh my god, what the fuck?

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Speaker 2: No, she said to me, because my mom got out

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Speaker 2: you can totally take it. I saw you, guys.

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Speaker 1: But when this crazy lady hit your mom's leg, did

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Speaker 2: She was in her car, windows up, ready to like

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Speaker 2: worked it out. Anyway, that's what happened. That happened yesterday.

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Speaker 2: But then it made it all okay, because last night

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Speaker 2: we're getting ready to watch our show, Me and my

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Speaker 2: mother slash wife slash co parent, and we're so engaged

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Speaker 2: in this show that we're watching. We were watching the

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Speaker 2: Bling Ring Heist documentary, and I've always told people I

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Speaker 2: put vaciline around my eyes to prevent fine lines and wrinkles,

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Speaker 2: while I learned that from my mom. My mom is

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Speaker 2: so into the show, and she has her reading glasses

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Speaker 2: on that she dips and watching it in real time,

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Speaker 2: dips her fingers into the vasiline and rubs them on

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Speaker 2: her reading glasses.

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Speaker 1: No, I knew that's what you're gonna say.

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Speaker 2: And then she looks at me and goes, I didn't

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Speaker 1: I about are you dying?

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Speaker 2: I was losing my mind. I was like, the day

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Speaker 2: was great just because of that moment.

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Speaker 1: I love her because I could see that and then

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Speaker 1: her turning to you with the smudged glasses. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: didn't even realize.

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Speaker 2: I didn't even realize. No, you did not, clearly, that's

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Speaker 2: so lunatic.

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Speaker 1: I love her, and I don't get a show just

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Speaker 1: simply for me. If I don't get a show of

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Speaker 1: you too, a fucking reality show within the next few years.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself because

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Speaker 1: I can't get enough. And I'm with you guys five

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Speaker 1: days a week pretty much. Yeah, so I just need something, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I need something.

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Speaker 2: Lisa is pure gold entertainment gold. And she thinks her

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Speaker 2: comebacks are so good. Like we went to dinner with

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Speaker 2: Katie and we were talking about like this guy not

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Speaker 2: remembering someone and like how like it shouldn't be embarrassing,

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Speaker 2: that sleuth you meant slute whatever?

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00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 1: Got it?

437
00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 2: It sounds calling these people internet worse.

438
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,280
Speaker 1: That's hilarious. But Okay, it's either because I've seen both

439
00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 1: This Is Life with Lisa Ling season one, episode one.

440
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:06,479
Speaker 1: It's called Sugar Daddy's Sugar Babies, so I've seen that.

441
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: It's either that one or it is there's an MTV

442
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,679
Speaker 1: True Life episode and I think it's called like, I

443
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 1: don't know sugar Baby's MTV True Life Google.

444
00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 2: I think I've seen that one.

445
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,680
Speaker 1: I've seen. Yes, So I've seen both of these. Thank

446
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 1: you guys and everyone who's asking and really want to

447
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,680
Speaker 1: watch it, which is so many. That's what it is.

448
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,679
Speaker 1: This is Life Lisa Ling or the MTV one. So

449
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 1: Happy sugar Baby watching.

450
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:33,920
Speaker 2: Happy sugar Baby watching. Also, I'm really bummed at myself

451
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:37,040
Speaker 2: because I did not watch last week's episode of Freaking

452
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 2: Salt Lake. You didn't, no, So I have no tea

453
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 2: to spill on my thoughts. But next week I'm gonna

454
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 2: make Easton watch both episodes with me.

455
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 1: You are yes, and then he can talk about what

456
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,360
Speaker 1: he thinks. Yes, he doesn't watch it regularly.

457
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 2: Hold On, So how far behind him? I because a

458
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 2: new episode is going to air tonight on Monday. So

459
00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 2: I'm one behind, You're one behind? And then well, what

460
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 2: airs on Wednesday night. So when this comes out, I'll

461
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 2: have a new episode. Okay, So by the time Eastern

462
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 2: comes out, I think I'll have two episodes to catch

463
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 2: up on and talk about. For salt Lake.

464
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 1: Well, no, because if Eastern comes Sunday, all you'll have

465
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,440
Speaker 1: is this. Oh, because you're talking about last last.

466
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 2: Week too, got it? However, I did see this morning

467
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:24,719
Speaker 2: on No Filter with Zach his Instagram page, this footage

468
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 2: in Salt Lake of Jenshaw with a group of people

469
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:33,360
Speaker 2: screaming at each other. All I could really make from

470
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 2: it was fuck and then someone says your husband, and

471
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 2: it looks very intense.

472
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,240
Speaker 1: We're talking about show footage or behind the scenes.

473
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 2: We're talking about like someone with a cell phone in

474
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 2: the streets of Salt Lake filming them. There's like no

475
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 2: one around except them, just out on the street.

476
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:53,400
Speaker 1: Wild.

477
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,479
Speaker 2: I wonder who this person was. Then, I don't know,

478
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 2: but I'm eager to like deep dive if you guys know.

479
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 2: I mean, by the time this maybe we'll be over it.

480
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 2: But I love me some news on Jenshaw.

481
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:07,199
Speaker 1: Well, if Easton's gonna watch and he hasn't like watched

482
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: a ton, then I'm gonna watch too, so I know

483
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,639
Speaker 1: what you guys are talking about, just to see so

484
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,439
Speaker 1: I can like hear, because if I just have to

485
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 1: watch the past few episodes, I can do that in

486
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,160
Speaker 1: a freaking weekend. Easy, breezy.

487
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 2: You don't need to twist my arm to watch any

488
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 2: sort of Real housewives. OG knew. I'm currently watching season

489
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 2: three of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, which is Kim

490
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:37,120
Speaker 2: Richard's sober It's fucking incredible and inspiring and I love

491
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 2: it so much just to see her and when she

492
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 2: talks about sobriety, just her feeling towards it amazing. There

493
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 2: was also Bethany Frankel coming out with her I think

494
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: it's called Rehousewives where it's a podcast with iHeart where

495
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 2: she only talks about housewives.

496
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 1: I literally I didn't know this, but I was just

497
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Speaker 1: about to say, Lala, have you ever thought about starting

498
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: a podcast where you just talk about housewives? You know?

499
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: I don't know that people. I think it's more interesting

500
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 2: for an ex housewive to talk about housewives. I mean,

501
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 2: Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra two point three million downloads in

502
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 2: one month.

503
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: What do they talk about?

504
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:20,920
Speaker 2: Just how housewives I've never listened to the podcast, which

505
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 2: clearly they don't need my download or listenership. Yeah they're

506
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 2: killing it, but I need to start listening, and they're

507
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 2: killing it. So a lot of people had a problem

508
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:33,120
Speaker 2: with Bethany Frinkel because she's slammed the show so much

509
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,479
Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden she's capitalizing on a

510
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 2: podcast based on housewives.

511
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask about that.

512
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 2: So a lot of her former castmates have like thrown

513
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 2: some shade and some digs, and her response was basically,

514
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 2: I hope they feel better. It's a brilliant idea. I've

515
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 2: always had brilliant ideas, like you're a fucking savage.

516
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: And also, this is a necessarily then this is a

517
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,679
Speaker 1: perspective that we're not going to get if there's all

518
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 1: these housewives I don't know if there are but all

519
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: these housewives starting in pop culture podcasts that have podcasts

520
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: just about talking about housewives. We don't necessarily have the

521
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 1: perspective of an ex housewife who maybe has thrown shade

522
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 1: at the show who's now going to be talking about it.

523
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: I'm sure we'll get some opinions from Bethany that we

524
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 1: won't won't have gotten from anyone.

525
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 2: Else, of course not. And she's so unfiltered and she's

526
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 2: interesting to listen to, and she argues very intellectually, and

527
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: I just I enjoy her. So whether she's thrown shade,

528
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 2: it's like Lauren Bostik said, I'm changing all the time.

529
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 2: Today I may love ice cream and tomorrow I may

530
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 2: hate it. Well, Bethany may have thrown shade, and today

531
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 2: she's appreciating house. If so, fuck it.

532
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 1: Let her do her, Yes, exactly, what do you say?

533
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: I reserve the right I used to.

534
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: I reserve the right to evolve.

535
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:50,919
Speaker 1: That's what it is. I love that. I want that

536
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 1: on a T shirt.

537
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 2: I can't take credit for it. My plastic surgeon's nurse

538
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 2: actually said it to me, okay, and I said to her,

539
00:25:58,800 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 2: just so you know, I'm using that.

540
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: Wait, what was she talking about.

541
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 2: I think we were having a conversation after my breakup

542
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 2: or something. Maybe I had gone in and we were

543
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 2: just going in depth and she was talking about her

544
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 2: relationship status and she just said that to me, and

545
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 2: I was.

546
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: Like, whoa, it's so good.

547
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 2: It's so good, and I'm using it. So if you

548
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,879
Speaker 2: hear it, just know like I respect it. Came from you,

549
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 2: but I'm going to take it on like it came

550
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 2: from me.

551
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 1: All right, all right.

552
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:30,879
Speaker 2: I also went in for a booby doctor appointment.

553
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 1: Yes, you did a mammogram.

554
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 2: So I have yet to have a mammogram. Oh I have.

555
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 2: I've only had ultrasounds. So I got a lot of

556
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 2: people sliding into my DM, which I thought was really interesting.

557
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 2: A lot of them, a lot of them were saying, yes,

558
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: I'm so happy that you're shedding light. But a lot

559
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 2: of people were saying where they lived, their doctors won't

560
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 2: give them to their like, give them a scan until

561
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 2: they're forty or fifty. Some women even said to me,

562
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 2: why are you doing it so young? You don't need

563
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: to do it until you're this age. I personally have

564
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 2: a friend who was in her mid thirties. Yeah, and

565
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:15,120
Speaker 2: just beat cancer last year. Yeah. And I remember at

566
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 2: a very young age, I was in I think junior

567
00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:23,439
Speaker 2: high maybe even elementary school, and my grandmother had just

568
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 2: passed away from breast cancer. My aunt was bad, no,

569
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 2: both I had two aunts that were battling it. And

570
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 2: my mom's my mom's aunt, Yeah, your mom's aunt. A

571
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 2: lot of people in my family and I remember feeling

572
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 2: my boobs and feeling like some sort of fatty thing

573
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: in the left one, and I made my mom take

574
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 2: me in because I was so freaked out. As you should.

575
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 2: So I got my very first ultrasound on my boobs.

576
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 2: Was at a very young age. Then I started going,

577
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,399
Speaker 2: I want to say in my twenties, just because it

578
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,800
Speaker 2: runs on both sides of my family. But I thought

579
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 2: a lot of these like this woman said, yes girl.

580
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: I was thirty six now thirty seven when I was

581
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:11,439
Speaker 2: diagnosed with stage two breast cancer and I had just

582
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 2: finished nursing my six month old son. Thank you for advocating,

583
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 2: because early detection is key. I finished sixteen rounds of

584
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 2: chemo in June, had a bilateral mass sectomy in July,

585
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 2: finished thirty rounds of radiation in October, and I'm currently

586
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 2: doing another six months of chemo followed by reconstruction and

587
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: ten years of meds. So thank you again for advocating.

588
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 2: I saw it would never happen to me.

589
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:34,959
Speaker 1: Wow.

590
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's important.

591
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: I'm very confused. Maybe it goes by state with like

592
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: health insurance and all that.

593
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: But that could very much be it health insurance.

594
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: I've gotten a mamma because a mammogram is where you

595
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: put your boob on that thing and then it pushes

596
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: it right, Yes, and it hurt me. And my friends

597
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 1: were like, but this was in New York and I

598
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: got it. I think I was probably maybe this was

599
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: in Tennessee. Either way, I was like twenty and it

600
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 1: was just like part of my maybe annual exam or something, right,

601
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 1: and now with my annual with my gynecologist, I mean,

602
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 1: they feel my boobs, but I don't know if that's

603
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: that's just a quick feel.

604
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I think it's important for you

605
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: to be feeling yourself. If you feel any itching or

606
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 2: burning sensation, get your ass into a doctor. This woman

607
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 2: said you can't in Ireland until you're fifty six. I believe.

608
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: I wonder very I wonder if she means you can't

609
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 1: without paying, because.

610
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 2: That's what I'm wondering. No one said directly like, you

611
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 2: can't have your insurance won't cover it unless you're this age.

612
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's yeah, it's probably more because you can.

613
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: I feel like you can, but you might just have

614
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: to pay out of pocket. That is so wild.

615
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 2: Though. This woman said that her friend was diagnosed at

616
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 2: the age of thirty three. This woman, I was diagnosed

617
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 2: at thirty two with breast cancer. Wow, I would not

618
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 2: have had a man Graham until I was forty. This

619
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 2: person said, yeay, I'm so glad you're doing this long

620
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 2: before they recommend. I had breast cancer at twenty nine.

621
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: Holy moly, so recommend feeling your breast. But I have

622
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: a question for women with implants. Yeah, does that block

623
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: because the doctors always say feel your breast and if

624
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 1: you feel something that's alarming, go in. If you have implants,

625
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: because I don't know how it's does that would that

626
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 1: block your ability to feel anything alarming or do not know?

627
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 2: I've had breast implants since I was twenty so in

628
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 2: my own humble opinion, and I'm not a doctor, I

629
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 2: would think that that could act as like a barrier.

630
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 2: And I mean I just I would think right having

631
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 2: something inside where it wouldn't give you exactly what like

632
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 2: the feeling that you would need.

633
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: But then again, if you're gonna be because then my

634
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: brain goes I forever was like, oh, if you have

635
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: breast implants, you can't breastfeed. And my one friend who

636
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: as them, was like, that is so not true. What

637
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: are you talking about like, I love that you thought that.

638
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 2: But my mom taught me, and even at a young age,

639
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 2: because this is what I did. This is why I

640
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 2: made her, at the age of like twelve or something

641
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:21,479
Speaker 2: take me in for the ultrasound, because she said, and

642
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: correct me if I'm wrong, if there's like a doctor

643
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 2: and nurse out there who knows. I mean, my mom

644
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 2: is certainly not a doctor. But she said to lay

645
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 2: flat on your back and then use the tips of

646
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: your fingers to literally like make a pitter powder motion

647
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 2: all the way around, all the way around your boob.

648
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what my ghino does. Okay, surely, I mean

649
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: does your guano. Like every annual, my guino will check

650
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: my boobs and do the pitter patter motion around and

651
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 1: then they'll she'll say it like and then she'll go

652
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: do the deep dive into my vagina. But but yeah,

653
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Speaker 1: the pitter powder motioner, I've always learned. Yeah, I've learned.

654
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 1: If you can't lay down, you put your arm up

655
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: straight into it. Okay, yeah, I arm of the air, yes,

656
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: arm in the air.

657
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 2: Okay. So yeah, I've never done the mammogram. The last

658
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 2: however many times I've had this done it's always been

659
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 2: an ultrasound and I'm nice and clean and clear. And

660
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 2: people were saying when I posted that my voice broke

661
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 2: at the end and everyone was like, are you okay?

662
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 2: Oh no, And I was like, I think that was

663
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 2: just me being nervous. I was having an okay day.

664
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 2: But sometimes when I'm like, well, so many people from

665
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 2: like the video that we posted where I had a

666
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 2: mask on. In the video, We're like, might do you

667
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: have a mask on? I'm like, hello, it's not about

668
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: the mask. Yeah, it's about me telling you to go

669
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: out and vote. I have to be honest, like anybody

670
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: anywhere knows that when you go into a doctor's office

671
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 2: you got to put a mask on. Yeah, at least

672
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 2: in California.

673
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: In California for sure, and yes, and the voting boosts

674
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: because we went there. There's a lot of elderly people,

675
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: and I think people are just taking like extra precaution.

676
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 2: Well, by the way, I was just getting over being sick,

677
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 2: so I put a mask on. Say thank you?

678
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: Right?

679
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 2: How about that?

680
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: Missing the point? Like people are just d I mean,

681
00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: why do you have a mask on?

682
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,719
Speaker 2: But don't worry about what I put on my face

683
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 2: inject into my face.

684
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't worry about it.

685
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 2: When people get so upset, like when I get botox

686
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: and posts and they're like enraged by it, I'm like,

687
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 2: you've got to like, come off it. It's not your face.

688
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 2: Why are you so upset? It's why I'm not pinning

689
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: you down shoving botox into your face, even though I'm

690
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 2: pretty sure you want me to.

691
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: This is you being jealous, That's exactly it. And I

692
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: mean we've we you know, it's the same energy as Pam,

693
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: Like we've gone off on Pam, who you know, Thank

694
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: god it's not a real name, because she's gotten some

695
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: hate in the DMS.

696
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 2: Oh Pam, her ass has been laid on tide.

697
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: So no, what, it's a energy. It's like, you know,

698
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: there are a whole like which I don't go on Reddit,

699
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 1: but I've heard there are whole like Reddit threads designated

700
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: to talking shit about like celebrities with injections and botox,

701
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,760
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, Ah, get a life.

702
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 2: How sad does your world have to be to get

703
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 2: onto a Reddit thread and participate in that conversation.

704
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 1: In spew negativity about like even five minutes being like

705
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 1: disgusting botox blah, blah blah. It's like, are you okay?

706
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 2: It just it's like you hate yourself.

707
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 1: You hate yourself. Go to therapy. There's more to life.

708
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: Go to church, Go wherever you gotta go to like

709
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 1: fix that.

710
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 2: Yep, if you're scared, go to church. We don't hit

711
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 2: you where it hurt. That don't work, We'll put you

712
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:52,720
Speaker 2: in the dirt. Is that a Raba ice cube?

713
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: Oh?

714
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:58,399
Speaker 2: Fucking ice cube? I love it? Oh my god, he goes,

715
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 2: I'm Utah, I got more multiple bitches. That's what he

716
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 2: says from Utah gangster rap made me do it.

717
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: No oh.

718
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 2: People love to just talk about Utah and then associate

719
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 2: it with multiple bitches.

720
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: Apparently, Oh okay, I get it now. It's clicking now

721
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: because I was like, wait, what I'm like?

722
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 2: Good watch some documentaries that ain't hit in.

723
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: Last week was the gallery shoot. Last week was the

724
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: gallery shoot with your fabulous, fabulous fucking dress and your

725
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: amazing hair. We all saw a little teaser of it

726
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 1: on your Instagram story how to go.

727
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 2: It was amazing. I was a little bit annoyed. Why

728
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 2: because number one, if you work in this industry, you

729
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 2: should just know this. But some people just like I

730
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 2: guess I don't know what isn't firing, but on our

731
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 2: call sheet it says you are more than welcome to

732
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 2: post in the glamor room the moment you get on

733
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 2: set in your looks. There is no social media. Raquel's

734
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: hair girl and Raquel posted full looks on set of

735
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 2: what We're Doing, and Shina posted a photo of she,

736
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 2: Ariana and Raquel in their looks. I'm like, you, guys,

737
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 2: please stop, yeah, please just stop. It was she and

738
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 2: I love you. This is not me hating on you,

739
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,439
Speaker 2: but it's like they literally stated this on our call

740
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 2: sheet not to post, and then Raquel and her hair

741
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 2: girl post her on set of literally what we're doing

742
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 2: for our video of like a teaser high We're back.

743
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I saw it all and I even texted

744
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: you that day and said I can't wait to see

745
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: the final images. And then I saw a video and

746
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 1: I think it was on Raquel's Instagram where you are

747
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: in it, and I was like, oh, did you. I'm

748
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: curious because it's one thing. Again, I'm sure it infuriated production.

749
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 1: It's one thing to post behind the scenes, but it's

750
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: another thing to post someone else look without asking were

751
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: you asked, Hey, you're in this video. Can I post it?

752
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 1: It's your full look? No?

753
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 2: Oh, no, I wasn't. I love hera Raquel's hair girl.

754
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 2: She's very sweet.

755
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 1: I don't.

756
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 2: But it's just kind of like, come on, guys, come

757
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: to the party. What We've done this a lot of times. Yeah,

758
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 2: you've done this a lot of times. Like my my

759
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 2: glam and hair people were not posting me. I was

760
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 2: in a bathroom. You could see my face. It was

761
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 2: in the glamor room. So that happened. Anyway, everyone looked stunning.

762
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 2: Every time I see my cast, I'm like, even if

763
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 2: we're not connecting, y'all are a bunch of hot motherfuckers. Yeah,

764
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 2: good for us. We are killing the game.

765
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: You are You're all nice on the eyes.

766
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 2: Yes, So I take a picture or my glam person, Melissa,

767
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 2: who I love the way she did my makeup, takes

768
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 2: a picture of me. Okay. And I was bored one

769
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 2: night and just wanted to fuck around with the snow app.

770
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 2: And there's a lot of different apps that people use. Okay,

771
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 2: and remind me we have to post a side by

772
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: side because gonna die. Okay. So I was just fucking

773
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 2: with it. I was doing what like I think most

774
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 2: people do on their Instagrams because everyone's morphing into the

775
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 2: same person. Yes, and I start tweaking my face. I

776
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 2: really want you to see it.

777
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: No, I'm dying to see it. Can we post this

778
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: side by side? Yes, the Instagram, the podcast, Instagram story

779
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: or something one. Now that we're talking about it, you

780
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: know people are gonna want to see.

781
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 2: I also have people to see Lala.

782
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: Eventually, one day when you have the time, which is

783
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: not right now, you have to sit down and do

784
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 1: like a screen recording or something, or I'll video you

785
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: doing everything you do to your photos, because your photos

786
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 1: look flawless and not over edited. But I don't know

787
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: how you do that because I go to edit a

788
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: photo and I show Kyle and he's like, do not

789
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: do that? You really he can tell yes, And my

790
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 1: sister and my brothers are like, if I try and edit,

791
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: it looks fake. So I just really don't really edit.

792
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: But the way you do it tastefully. I think James

793
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: Charles did a video of him showing people how to

794
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: edit and like face tune or something.

795
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,280
Speaker 2: In like a way that's not like holy shit. Okay,

796
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 2: So Jess, I'm gonna show you my before okay, and

797
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 2: then after.

798
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: Okay, can I try and pick out what you did? Okay?

799
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 2: So we'll try and pick out what I did.

800
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,760
Speaker 1: This to you guys. Okay, that's after. I cannot fucking

801
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,720
Speaker 1: tell what you did, but I can tell it's like, okay,

802
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: hold on, it's did you send your nose a little?

803
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 2: I sinched the nose. Nothing with the brows. I did

804
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:32,720
Speaker 2: do something with the brows.

805
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 1: You did you make them?

806
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,720
Speaker 2: Thickened them and added length?

807
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: Could not see even there. I'm scrolling and you, guys,

808
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 1: if you want to follow along, we'll have this up

809
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: on the Instagram story before and after.

810
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 2: You're fine with that, Yes, I want people to see

811
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna tell you my thought process when I

812
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 2: stared at that shit too long?

813
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: Did you do something to your forehead or no, let

814
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 1: me the brows? Did you like?

815
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you everything I do.

816
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 1: Please tell me.

817
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 2: Okay, I shortened my face. I made my face more petite. Okay,

818
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 2: I made my lips more poudy, So I brought them

819
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 2: in and made them a little fuller. Okay. I thickened

820
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 2: my brows and brought them. Oh, I brought them out

821
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,840
Speaker 2: and a little bit in I tilted the eye shape

822
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 2: you know that thing that people are doing.

823
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: It's almost like a faceless.

824
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,959
Speaker 2: Almost like it gives you more of a cat ee right, Yes,

825
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: So I did that as well, and I started going, okay,

826
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,439
Speaker 2: this was just for fun, right. I started flipping back

827
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 2: and forth, going, but I want to look like that

828
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 2: like the one you edited.

829
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: Yes, did you start to feel bad about yourself? Because

830
00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 1: this is a very interesting thing to me.

831
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 2: I just kept thinking, like, oh my god, I like

832
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: my face so much more in that photo and it

833
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,280
Speaker 2: looks Can I tell you I look like every girl,

834
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 2: every blonde on Instagram?

835
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: Can I look at it again?

836
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 2: Now, insta on Instagram? I just morphed into I know,

837
00:40:59,160 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 2: I do.

838
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 1: Look at this with one app there's a bit of

839
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 1: just like a classic quote unquote alien look if you

840
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 1: think of like the classic alien cartoons where it's like,

841
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,280
Speaker 1: you know, the big eyes and the pointy chin that's

842
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: going around. See And then I look at it and

843
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 1: I see how like you look like you could be

844
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: a cartoon character in this in this editor it's a bratstall,

845
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: right bratstall, Yes.

846
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 2: Yes, but see. But I kept flipping back and forth,

847
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: and it did something to my brain like what Like,

848
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 2: I asked my mother, how what do you think I

849
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 2: could do to achieve this? Look? My mom goes, your

850
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 2: fucking nuts, put the phone away, and then I snapped

851
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 2: myself out of it. I was like, you've gone mad.

852
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 2: You've gone mad because you show me this girl in

853
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 2: real life. Great for a photo, right, but it's so

854
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 2: unnatural looking.

855
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 1: It's very un natural looking.

856
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 2: But then I go into these young girls who are

857
00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 2: looking at photos of and it is you look at

858
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 2: it like, how am I gonna sit here and go

859
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 2: how do I make my face smaller?

860
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: Yeap?

861
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 2: What?

862
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 1: Yeah?

863
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,240
Speaker 2: I'm thirty two and I was having those thoughts.

864
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 1: Yes, and that is that gets into you because a

865
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: lot of people will go, how can I make my

866
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: face smaller? And if you have the funds and if

867
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: you have the doctors in mind, you a lot of

868
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 1: people these days will would take that photo into their doctor,

869
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 1: into their plastic surgeon and say, here's what I want

870
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: to do. This is this is what I want now.

871
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: Plastic surgeons like the ones you used would say get

872
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:35,120
Speaker 1: out of here, we're not doing that, but others would go, okay, great,

873
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 1: So we shaved the chin, the jaw, we pull back,

874
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 1: we do niptock, and that's how you get And I'm

875
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: telling you, it kind of freaks me out when I

876
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: do see people starting to all look the same.

877
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 2: How about you or do you?

878
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: Are you not?

879
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 2: No, that's I'm the type where it's like, if you

880
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: feel beautiful like that, then you should go and do

881
00:42:55,160 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 2: whatever you want to do. But it's important for other

882
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 2: women who maybe don't have the funds to go and

883
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,959
Speaker 2: do all of that, to say, this is what I've

884
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 2: done to my face, this is not the way I

885
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 2: look naturally, because it fucks with you. You see an

886
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 2: image over and over again and you start thinking, I'm

887
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 2: supposed to look like that, and then you don't like

888
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 2: your own face. Okay, Like that photo of me where

889
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 2: I'm just before I did all that shit, I was

890
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 2: looking at myself. I was like, damn, bitch, you look

891
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:31,959
Speaker 2: so good. Okay, and then I did all that shit

892
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 2: and I was like, no, it's not like I don't

893
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 2: feel hot there. I feel hot there. That's when I

894
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 2: had to put the phone down and regroup and I

895
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, We're going to talk about

896
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 2: this on the podcast. This is a learning moment.

897
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 1: I love that because I do look at that photo.

898
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: I mean I do see when I look and try

899
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,720
Speaker 1: and spot the difference, I can't pick it out. Maybe

900
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 1: that's just how my eyes are, but I see a

901
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: difference in the photos. I see a difference. Obviously you

902
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 1: look more like a Bradstall totally. But if you posted

903
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,919
Speaker 1: that edited photo of you, I'd be like, oh, this

904
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: isn't what you necessarily look like in real life.

905
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 2: Like no, if I post that on my Instagram. If

906
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 2: I edit my photos and I meet a guy through

907
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,879
Speaker 2: a DM and he wants to link up, that ain't

908
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 2: what he's getting right.

909
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: And there's something about I agree with you. Love, if

910
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,879
Speaker 1: you want to look a certain way and it makes

911
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 1: you more confident, go do it, Go be it. But

912
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: I think maybe because I'm in Like, there's something about

913
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,880
Speaker 1: like people's quirks in their face nowadays, where if I

914
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: see like uneven teeth, they're like just little or like

915
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:40,319
Speaker 1: a big forehead, not me, not me mentioning everything I have.

916
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,439
Speaker 1: But if I see that, I'm like, oh, that's kind

917
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 1: of cute, Like it's just like the uniqueness. And I

918
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: think it's because I watch so much fucking TV. Right,

919
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 1: And by season four everyone looks perfect totally, especially on sitcoms.

920
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: You see season one and you're like, oh yeah, and

921
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: then season four, I'm like, their faces can barely move

922
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, and I'm just like, it takes me

923
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: out of it.

924
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

925
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: No, again, it doesn't happen as much anymore, but it

926
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: used to happen a lot.

927
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 2: And I don't know.

928
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: There's something about like we don't want to all look

929
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: the same.

930
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,439
Speaker 2: No, I don't think we all want to look the same.

931
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 2: But if you feel hot, go inject your face. But

932
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 2: just like let people. I think I'm about transparency and

933
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 2: I think that I can fulfill all of my wants

934
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 2: and needs to feel confident while also you know, protecting

935
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: women around me and men by saying this is how

936
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 2: I edited this photo. This is the procedure I went

937
00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 2: and got today, so that you know that it's this

938
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 2: ain't natural. I'll never pretend like I had nothing done.

939
00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 2: And a lot of people say, you look so different

940
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 2: from season four. Yes, I'm not twenty four anymore. I'm

941
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 2: thirty two, So yes, that did happen. I do look different.

942
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 2: And when people say I miss your old face, I

943
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 2: miss my old face too. I would also like to

944
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 2: be look twenty four again, where this face isn't trying

945
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:05,280
Speaker 2: to be like, hey, we're getting older. We are fighting

946
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 2: fine lines and wrinkles. Like you see me in person.

947
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 2: There's something about a photo, like a frontward camera, Like

948
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 2: my lips always look bigger in pictures, which I love

949
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 2: they do. Yeah, because when I had no lip injections,

950
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 2: I would slide into the snow app and make them bigger,

951
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 2: make them bigger because I just like my bit. I

952
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 2: like fuller lips. But when people see me in person,

953
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 2: there's countless times where people have been like, you don't

954
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 2: look as as injected as you do on your Instagram.

955
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, if anyone said that to me, I'd be like,

956
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 1: fuck off.

957
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 2: Well I feel like they mean it as a compliment,

958
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 2: so I'm just like, well, thank you.

959
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's insane. Everyone I play around with I want.

960
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 1: I don't have a snow app.

961
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:52,439
Speaker 2: That overlining.

962
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: I will overline and sometimes I keep going and then

963
00:46:56,200 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: it's like, hey, if you want to see she's talking

964
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: about it's in my highlights on Instagram. I got a

965
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: little carried away one day with the lip liner and overlining,

966
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: and it just Kyle wasn't home Kyle wasn't home. I

967
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: was bored. But you want to know what's funny, Well,

968
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 1: the amount of DMS I got from I hate to

969
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: call you out women, but they're like women in their

970
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: fifties that say, this looks so bad. You cannot do this.

971
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: You look like a fucking clown. Ladies, I know it

972
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: is a show.

973
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 2: The fact that you have to explain that to people.

974
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 2: I'm like you and I would not get along.

975
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: They're like, LA's got into your head?

976
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 2: How could you even take the video?

977
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 1: Seriously?

978
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 2: It was so funny you could tell that you were

979
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 2: being funny.

980
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 1: I know, I mean I just kind of laughed. But

981
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: we all do what you want to do. I think

982
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: it's I mean, I look at your nip, lips, nips,

983
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: you know. I look at your lips, and I think

984
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: they look natural. But it also could be because they've

985
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: always looked this way since I've met you, so I

986
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: don't know, like and also if they don't fucking look

987
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:01,560
Speaker 1: now and you want them to look fake and it

988
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 1: makes you happy, get on looking fake.

989
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 2: By the way, I've been looking at my face for

990
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 2: a long time now, and I feel like when you

991
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,680
Speaker 2: see it, like it's kind of like when someone wants

992
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 2: to lose weight, right, And because they're looking at themselves

993
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 2: every single day, they don't notice the change, right. But

994
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 2: people that you haven't seen in a while are like,

995
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, I notice.

996
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: Yes.

997
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:23,879
Speaker 2: So I've been looking at my lips and I said

998
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 2: to my mom like, yo, I gotta go back into Lee,

999
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 2: like I feel like I need them injected again. And

1000
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 2: she was like, you've gone insane, really yes, And I

1001
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 2: even said to Lee she was like, la, la, they

1002
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 2: look the same. And it's because I've been staring at

1003
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: for them, staring at them for so long that I

1004
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,919
Speaker 2: think that they're small. Do you know what's funny though?

1005
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: You Okay, well, you remember like months ago when you

1006
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: and your mom went and got your lips injected for

1007
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: the first time since before you were pregnant. Yeah, yeah,

1008
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:54,919
Speaker 1: I thought, I love seeing this happen because in my mind,

1009
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,320
Speaker 1: I was like, once you get start getting your lips injected,

1010
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: you have to do it every three four weeks, like

1011
00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 1: it has to be done. But you haven't gotten you

1012
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,280
Speaker 1: haven't gone back since, and to me, they look great,

1013
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:04,760
Speaker 1: So I'm.

1014
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 2: Like, huh, lips, lips and filler last a very long time.

1015
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 2: They do botox, you have to keep up on I

1016
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 2: think that's like I think she said three months.

1017
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: Oh see even that, I'm like, when you say keep up,

1018
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: I'm like every three weeks, every four weeks, no, like

1019
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: three months, and then you get injected again like hair.

1020
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: For me, yeah, like highlights pretty much.

1021
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: Huh.

1022
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 2: But I'm fine with that because if you saw my dad,

1023
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 2: my dad was his face had a lot of personality,

1024
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 2: we'll call it so sweet. And my mother also before

1025
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 2: we injected her, hers had a lot of personality. And

1026
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: those lines.

1027
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: Get deep to where you cannot reverse them. That's my

1028
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 1: that's my yeah, that's my smile lines right now.

1029
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So for me, I just don't like, I'm

1030
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 2: okay with some fine lines on the forehead, but I

1031
00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 2: mean those frown lines that genetically thick.

1032
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: No, they're like deep caverns.

1033
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 2: Yes.

1034
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,720
Speaker 1: No, if you see me in person, my eyebrow lines,

1035
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: because I'm very expressive with my face. Just I don't

1036
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: think only when you do that only well I've asked.

1037
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: I've gone in and asked before, like, oh what in

1038
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: what you know? I'm scared of needles because so that's

1039
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: a whole other story. I'll probably just I'll just age

1040
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:26,760
Speaker 1: and be wrinkled, and that's just what it is, because

1041
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: I'll faint. But I've went in and asked, and I've

1042
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: gotten people saying, oh, there are some lines that are

1043
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 1: in your face now that you just can't reverse. Like

1044
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 1: it's just not it's just not going to happen.

1045
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 2: No, but you could prevent them from becoming deeper.

1046
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: Yes, by doing the botox.

1047
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 2: Yach, and I want to do that.

1048
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:46,399
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1049
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 2: How funny that when I have to go to a

1050
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,920
Speaker 2: doctor's office to get my blood drawn to like make

1051
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 2: sure I'm healthy, I fully have to lay down and

1052
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 2: I almost pass out. And then when they're like, we're

1053
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 2: gonna do PRP where we take your bloods, spin the

1054
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 2: platelets and put it on your face, I'm like, okay,

1055
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 2: there's my arm.

1056
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: See that makes me dizzy. Do you think it's all mental?

1057
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 2: It's all mental. I mean, granted, even when I'm in

1058
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 2: the chair and they're taking my blood, they still have

1059
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 2: to tilt me back. Even talking about it, I'm starting

1060
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 2: to get like a little bit woozy.

1061
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:15,439
Speaker 1: What about lips and botox? You they have to tilt

1062
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 1: you back right or no.

1063
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 2: Well, my lips it's so painful. That I make her

1064
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 2: literally give me a dental block, Like I'm.

1065
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: Not the dentist, so that's like like numbing something.

1066
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 2: Oh, I can't feel shit. She puts needles in the

1067
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 2: back of my mouth and numbs me as if I'm

1068
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 2: having a root canal. Oh my god, So I can't

1069
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 2: feel my face's because I'll pass out. The pain is

1070
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:42,160
Speaker 2: excruciating lip pain. That's why if you're in LA and

1071
00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:45,000
Speaker 2: you want your lips done, go to my girl. Her

1072
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 2: name is Lee at skin tight Esthetics. I follow her

1073
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:52,280
Speaker 2: on Instagram. Katie just went to her. She talks about

1074
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 2: how the pain with lips is excruciating. Lee has these

1075
00:51:56,880 --> 00:52:02,560
Speaker 2: like they look like little drumsticks and they're steel, and

1076
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 2: she puts them in the freezer and holds it on

1077
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:08,800
Speaker 2: on the injection site. You can't even feel the needle

1078
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 2: going holds it on before yep, holds like the little

1079
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 2: silver drumstick, ice thing whatever on your lip and then

1080
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 2: puts the needle in and it's like you can't Katie

1081
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 2: was like, I could not feel a thing, And she

1082
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 2: didn't do any numbing cream and didn't obviously get a

1083
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 2: dental block because I'm a weirdo.

1084
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 1: No me I'd be like, put me under.

1085
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, for sure.

1086
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 1: Give me anesthesia.

1087
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 2: No. Even when I went in to get my boobs

1088
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:37,919
Speaker 2: done in my earpin back, I was like, while I'm out,

1089
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 2: can you remove these like little I just had like

1090
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 2: little skin things that I was not digging when I

1091
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,720
Speaker 2: got when I was pregnant. I was like, just save

1092
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:49,320
Speaker 2: me the mental torture of coming in here and you

1093
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 2: numbing me with a needle to remove this, like I'm out,

1094
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 2: just fucking take it off. I know, I know.

1095
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 1: I remember asking you. I was like, can't you just

1096
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 1: stay awake?

1097
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 2: And You're like.

1098
00:52:57,480 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, out cold.

1099
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,360
Speaker 2: So wow, there's that. Wow.

1100
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:04,760
Speaker 1: We do you love a tangent? I love a good tangent.

1101
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 2: I'm excited to post the photo though, side by side,

1102
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,800
Speaker 2: so I know that we need to do that. Also,

1103
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 2: I want to repost this video that I saw Cardi

1104
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 2: b okay and because I'm not on TikTok and I'm

1105
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,879
Speaker 2: only on well, I am on TikTok, but I don't

1106
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 2: have the app on my phone, which I need to have.

1107
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 2: You sign me into Jess because I got so many

1108
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 2: people wanting me to watch TikTok's over the weekend.

1109
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: I was like, can't just a heads up? It takes

1110
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: it will take up more time than Instagram. It's the

1111
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 1: most addicting app. I'm telling you you can scroll for hours.

1112
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 1: You won't be that way because you're not. But I've

1113
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: never been the big Instagram gal. I'm like, eh, TikTok,

1114
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 1: I can scroll and look up in two hours. But

1115
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: I'll put it on your phone.

1116
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 2: But just now, or you'll just screen record the video

1117
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 2: for me.

1118
00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can ford it to me.

1119
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 2: You should go into your to do this. No, I

1120
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 2: can't get on. I don't even care. It is what

1121
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 2: it is. By the time we do it, I'm not

1122
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 2: gonna give a shit about these videos. Right. But Cardi

1123
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 2: B was in her kitchen looking super fucking fabulous and

1124
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 2: she was singing Wop, her song Wop, and she obviously

1125
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 2: heard pitter patter because her little girl walks in and

1126
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 2: she's like, no, no, no, no, like stops them, like

1127
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:17,800
Speaker 2: trying to like talk over the music is like pretending

1128
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 2: like everything's fine. And it just made me go into

1129
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 2: this moment of how so many people and I'm sure

1130
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 2: the Cardi B's of the world and all these people

1131
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 2: who are out here doing artistic things. I'm sure they

1132
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 2: get dms like this all the time. But people say like,

1133
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 2: would you want your kids seeing this like what I'm

1134
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 2: doing or what I'm saying, or your kid's gonna listen

1135
00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 2: to this one day? And here's my stance on that.

1136
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 2: Do I want my kid seeing this when she's in

1137
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 2: elementary school? No, absolutely not. But there's gonna be a

1138
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 2: time where my child experiences life, all right, and she's

1139
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 2: gonna be doing things that I've done in my lifetime before,

1140
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 2: she's gonna read things that she's gonna experience in her

1141
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 2: lifetime before. I hate to break into all of you,

1142
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 2: my daughter one day is gonna have sex. My daughter

1143
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 2: one day is gonna talk about giving a blowjob. My

1144
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:14,320
Speaker 2: daughter one day is gonna say the fuck word. Okay,

1145
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,480
Speaker 2: my daughter isn't going to be a year and a

1146
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 2: half or a child forever. So when you make comments

1147
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 2: like your daughter's gonna see this, no shit. But my

1148
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 2: daughter's gonna have life experiences. And I pray to God

1149
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:32,879
Speaker 2: that when she gets older and she has these experiences,

1150
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 2: she can go you know what, I feel comfortable with

1151
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 2: my mom because I remember her talking crazy this one

1152
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:40,799
Speaker 2: time on a podcast or I read this article, She's

1153
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 2: a safe place for me to go to.

1154
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 1: Yes, right, exactly. Yes, it's so much fucking pressure when

1155
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 1: you if you, I mean, that's a whole different thing.

1156
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: But like being a kid and having to grow up

1157
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 1: thinking your parents have never done anything wrong. That's so

1158
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: much pressure, and it will get to you and get

1159
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: to you mentally as you grow up and you fuck up,

1160
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 1: and it's like, oh my god, the end of the world.

1161
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 1: It's like, you want. I love that having there's especially

1162
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 1: nowadays with social media, there's moms out there. There's going

1163
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 1: to be moms out there that's it's like, you've done

1164
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,240
Speaker 1: the craziest shit or whatever. It's out there, even moms

1165
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 1: that aren't necessarily in the public eye like you, You're

1166
00:56:24,080 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: going to have crazy. It's the Internet. It lasts forever,

1167
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 1: it really does. So you're going to have your kid

1168
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: come across maybe crazy shit you did in college or

1169
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:37,439
Speaker 1: season six of vander Pump Rights, and yes, you want

1170
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 1: to be like, yep, mom, mom did that. Here's what

1171
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 1: I maybe regret, Here's what I don't, Here's what I

1172
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 1: learned from right, and the ocean's going to feel like, yeah,

1173
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 1: my mom was wild back in her twenties, so I

1174
00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:52,080
Speaker 1: feel comfortable enough being like, hey mom, I just did

1175
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:56,320
Speaker 1: this last night, and I feel kind of bad about it, right, Yeah.

1176
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 2: It just I thought it was a really sweet moment

1177
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,640
Speaker 2: Cardi B being Cardi B for all of us to

1178
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:05,319
Speaker 2: watch as she's singing wop, which is we and then

1179
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 2: to see her immediately go into protection mode of like,

1180
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 2: there's my daughter's in the room where one day her

1181
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: daughter is going to hear all of her mom's music,

1182
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 2: and I'm sure be proud because her mom's freaking Cardi B.

1183
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 2: But there's just there's such a separation between like I'm

1184
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 2: not I may be saying these things on a mic.

1185
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 2: I'm not going home with my one year old and

1186
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 2: talking about these things. I won't be talking about these

1187
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 2: things when my daughter's in elementary school, probably not even

1188
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 2: junior high. We'll see where she's at mentally and emotionally

1189
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 2: and what she brings to me where I have to

1190
00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 2: have certain conversations. But please don't waste your time with

1191
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:48,480
Speaker 2: sliding in my DM saying your daughter is gonna see

1192
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 2: this stuff.

1193
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:53,800
Speaker 1: I'm I'm well aware and I'm fully okay with it.

1194
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 2: Wow, that was like a really long podcast sorry, and

1195
00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 2: I went on a lot of tangents that was like this.

1196
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 2: I like this too because I had a lot of

1197
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 2: stuff to share. I hope you guys enjoyed it. You

1198
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 2: guys are amazing. Happy hump today and I'll catch you

1199
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 2: next week.