WEBVTT - Personal Mission Statements with $Pro Scott Rieckens #054

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How to Money. I'm Joel and I'm Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>and today we're discussing creating a personal mission statement with

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<v Speaker 1>money Pro Scott Rickens. Joel money Pro, you would explain

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<v Speaker 1>to our listeners, but this is all about Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is a new show that we're putting out once

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<v Speaker 1>a week, and we thought it would be really interesting

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<v Speaker 1>to bring together some of the finest personal finance minds

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<v Speaker 1>from around the nation and some of them around the world,

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<v Speaker 1>to to bring onto the show to discuss the topic

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<v Speaker 1>that they're passionate about, that they're an expert on, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you and I were going to kind of unpack

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<v Speaker 1>some of the things that they have to share with

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<v Speaker 1>our audience. I think it's just gonna be a really neat, interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of different way to get a super relevant personal

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<v Speaker 1>finance topic out there for our listeners. But before we

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<v Speaker 1>get to that, Matt, I want to tell you about

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<v Speaker 1>a historical event that I had never known existed until

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<v Speaker 1>just the other day. Yeah, so you dropped this down

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<v Speaker 1>and I have never heard of it either, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited to hear man. Okay, So, there was this thing

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<v Speaker 1>called the London beer Flood of eighteen fourteen, we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about beer on our show. We drink a beer on

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<v Speaker 1>our show, and I just thought, London beer flood, that's

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<v Speaker 1>something I have to tell everyone about. Just I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know anything about it until recently. And so it happened

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<v Speaker 1>in eighteen fourteen in London, and there was I gathered

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<v Speaker 1>that from the title, right, the London beer flood. And

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<v Speaker 1>so there was a huge vat that had a hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and thirty five thousand imperial gallons of beer ruptured and

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<v Speaker 1>it caused all the other vats of beer in the

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<v Speaker 1>same building to also rupture. Domino effect, right, Yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>there were over three hundred and twenty three thousand imperial

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<v Speaker 1>gallons of beer that gushed into the streets. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a true tidal wave of beer that destroyed homes, crumbled walls,

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<v Speaker 1>and actually killed multiple people. Uh. Yeah, beer should not

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<v Speaker 1>be used for death. Let mean, come on, if that's

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<v Speaker 1>how you're gonna go, though, that's a good point, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good point. If I was going to go,

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<v Speaker 1>I would choose beer flood. But but yeah, sadly people

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<v Speaker 1>were were killed in the flood back in fourteen. But

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of a crazy thing to think about that

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that happened back then and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>different time and obviously just huge bats of beer just

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<v Speaker 1>randomly rupturing at times, and it's just an interesting story.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, Yeah, I love that. Man. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>it's sort of a made up thing, right, like you

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<v Speaker 1>hear like small town is getting engulfed by whatever it

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<v Speaker 1>is that they that one small town happens to make.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, but I love that this is a real

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<v Speaker 1>thing that happened. But I want to know, is what

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<v Speaker 1>exactly is an imperial gallon. That's a good question. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know either. I know that just mean British, like

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<v Speaker 1>it must like a British gallon, but I know that

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<v Speaker 1>an imperial pint is twenty ounces versus an American point,

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<v Speaker 1>which is sixteen ounces. I was shut up. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was actually more than that. I'm imagining that it was

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<v Speaker 1>more than a regular gallon. But I'm sure one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners knows, and they'll shoot us an email and

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<v Speaker 1>and tell us that's right, because our listeners pay attention,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've had multiple folks actually message us about this

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<v Speaker 1>program man called every Kid in a Park, which is

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<v Speaker 1>this fantastic program with the National Park Service where every

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<v Speaker 1>fourth grader gets a free pass to go to national

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<v Speaker 1>parks for an entire year, and not just the kid,

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<v Speaker 1>but their entire family. And so this is in response

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<v Speaker 1>to our episode where we did taking advantage of free

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<v Speaker 1>stuff and we talked about getting into national parks, how

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<v Speaker 1>there are certain days in the year where you get

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<v Speaker 1>in for free. But you and I, I I guess we

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<v Speaker 1>just weren't pretty overlooked. Yeah. I didn't know about this. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a fourth grader yet, so we didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>And so a couple of our listeners wrote in and

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, you dummies, how did you Yeah? So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we really appreciate anytime we miss something or there's valuable

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<v Speaker 1>information for the rest of the audience that we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get to. We'd love to hear your input. We'd love

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<v Speaker 1>for you to reach out to us, because then we

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<v Speaker 1>can let everybody know. So, now, everybody listening, if you

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<v Speaker 1>have a fourth grader, or you have a younger kid

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<v Speaker 1>who's going to be a fourth grader one of these days,

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<v Speaker 1>start making plans, make plans to go visit a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of national parks that year, because you get in for

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<v Speaker 1>free for all three sixty five calendar days of the

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<v Speaker 1>year while your kids a fourth grader. Ye, man, and

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<v Speaker 1>I got three kids, which means that for three years,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna be able to go to all the parks

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<v Speaker 1>for free. And I was joking that in we got

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<v Speaker 1>plans and one other. I don't know. You could tell

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<v Speaker 1>me whether this is cheaper, frugal or not. But what

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<v Speaker 1>if my youngest when she gets to fourth grade, what

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<v Speaker 1>if I just continually hold her back so that we

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<v Speaker 1>can keep going to national parks for free every year.

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<v Speaker 1>Frugal or cheap? Yeah, cheap, I would I would say

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<v Speaker 1>dishonest as well. Okay, all right, I'll avoid that then.

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<v Speaker 1>And there are hundreds of national parks out there. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you have a favorite of all the ones that you've

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<v Speaker 1>been to? All Right? So, if I had to pick

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<v Speaker 1>one national park, favorite one that I've been to, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a tough question because they're all so unique. Yeah, there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many, and I've only been a few. But my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite at this point in my life has to be

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<v Speaker 1>Glacier National Park. Dude, Yeah, Glacier Glaciers very nice. Mine

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<v Speaker 1>is Yosemite even there twice. Now, my question for you

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<v Speaker 1>is when your oldest is in fourth grade and you

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<v Speaker 1>start going to the parks, are you gonna go straight

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<v Speaker 1>to Glacier? Like, are you the kind of guy that

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<v Speaker 1>goes to your favorite and it's all sort of downhill

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<v Speaker 1>from there or do you kind of like to build

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<v Speaker 1>up to it and sort of say the best for last.

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<v Speaker 1>So I do have a problem with when I travel,

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<v Speaker 1>if I've gone somewhere before, I want to go back

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<v Speaker 1>and do the same things that I enjoyed, so so

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<v Speaker 1>that that's definitely like my bent um and I love

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<v Speaker 1>exploring new things, but if I'm anywhere in the vicinity,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to choose something that I've done before that

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<v Speaker 1>I if I absolutely loved it, so try to like

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<v Speaker 1>challenge myself to do something else. But I there are

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<v Speaker 1>so many national parks that I haven't been to that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would have any trouble. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go to Yellowstone, I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to Joshua Tree. They are all these racial parts that

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't even visited. So I would definitely like Glacier

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<v Speaker 1>is last on my list for a while. I'd love

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<v Speaker 1>to go back someday, but but it's probably like twentieth

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<v Speaker 1>on the list right right, do let's take a how

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<v Speaker 1>the money trip to uh Joshua Tree, because I've never

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<v Speaker 1>been there either, and that's that places awesome I'm in.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awesome in the pictures, that's all I know. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>right right, Well I mentioned that because I I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the slow burn kind of guy, and so so

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm gonna make my family go to like

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<v Speaker 1>all the smaller, crappier national parks and they're gonna be like,

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<v Speaker 1>why are we here? And I'll say, oh, there's a reason,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we got to build up before we

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<v Speaker 1>get to the Pinnacle National Park, at least my favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>So because you can't handle it yet exactly, you're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna waste our time. It's not gonna nearly mean nearly

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<v Speaker 1>as much to you if you've only been to like

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<v Speaker 1>the best places. Yeah. I don't know what that says

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<v Speaker 1>about me, but that's just sort of how I see things.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I don't know, we might end up going

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<v Speaker 1>to some of the crappier national parks before we get

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<v Speaker 1>to the really nice ones. That being said, there aren't

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<v Speaker 1>that many crappy national parks, man, They're they're all good.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you been Have you been to Alcatraz. I have

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<v Speaker 1>been to Alcatraz, really, yeah, I've never been there. It's

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's technically a national park though, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't really want to go to Alcatraz when

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<v Speaker 1>I was in San France, but I'm so glad I did.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fascinating. Sean Connery is the rock. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>I could pick. Go truly the whole time with Sean Connery.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Matt, onto the beer that we're drinking today,

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<v Speaker 1>Highland Brewing Cold Mountain Winter Warmer. Yeah, technically it says

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<v Speaker 1>legendary spiced Ale. This beer was actually donated to us

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<v Speaker 1>by our friends Clark and Nancy up in Asheville, North Carolina.

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<v Speaker 1>They were kind of enough to, yeah, hook us up

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<v Speaker 1>with one of these over Thanksgiving. Actually, we were up

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<v Speaker 1>there visiting, and you know, Clark was my first introduction

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<v Speaker 1>to sort of real estate. He was getting into real estate.

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<v Speaker 1>They moved into a triplex right when I had finished

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<v Speaker 1>graduating college, and so Clark hired me to do a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of work around his house and getting the place

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<v Speaker 1>fixed up. So I created them with my sort of

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<v Speaker 1>introduction to real estate and specifically house hacking. Oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's something else. Too. They do a camping trip over

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<v Speaker 1>the summer, and we need to talk about that because

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<v Speaker 1>they get a bunch of friends together and last year,

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<v Speaker 1>over the fourth of July they got the sweet campsite,

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<v Speaker 1>super cheap vacation. Kids are running around in the woods.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? Does that sound a little too

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<v Speaker 1>a little too wild and free? Well, you know how

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<v Speaker 1>I like my all inclusive vacations, Matt, right now, totally kidding, No,

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<v Speaker 1>camping sounds so much better than an all inclusive I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally I totally be down with a camping trip

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<v Speaker 1>with good friends. Yeah, I mean it. So let's dive

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<v Speaker 1>into this beer. What do you think? Yeah, I just

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<v Speaker 1>took a sip, Matt and cold Mountain Man. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a tradition in Nashville. This beer gets released every

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<v Speaker 1>year and it's one of the quickest sellers. This period.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't last on store shelves very long because everyone looks

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<v Speaker 1>forward to it. And that's because it's so interesting and

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<v Speaker 1>it's so the word I'm gonna use distinct nice man.

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<v Speaker 1>My ward will be chewy, and we will share more

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<v Speaker 1>of our thoughts on this beer at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>this episode. All Right, Matt, but let's get onto the

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<v Speaker 1>topic at hand, and we're talking about creating a personal

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<v Speaker 1>mission statement. And this is the first episode of what

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<v Speaker 1>we hope to be a weekly episode featuring a different

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<v Speaker 1>money pro. And most of these people that we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be featuring are either our friends or kind of

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<v Speaker 1>heroes in the money space, people that we look up

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<v Speaker 1>to and we appreciate their thoughtfulness about money. And Scott Rickens,

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna be the first money pro that we have

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<v Speaker 1>on and in each of these episodes, we're gonna bring

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<v Speaker 1>them on for five minutes to talk about one subject

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<v Speaker 1>that they're super passionate about, and then you and I

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<v Speaker 1>will kind of break it down, right, we'll give our

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts on kind of what they brought to the table.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I'm really excited. I think this is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be like just a really fun way to tackle really

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<v Speaker 1>interesting and diverse subjects that that other people are really

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<v Speaker 1>passionate about. And Scott so he is a film producer,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a director, filmmaker, and he's had Emmy nominated stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>He does commercial work with Wired with Taylor Guitars. He's

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<v Speaker 1>all been to that filmmaking stuff, right, which resonates with

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<v Speaker 1>me right as a photographer. But what we're specifically going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about is his journey with Fire, which is

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<v Speaker 1>financial independence retire early. Yeah, and Scott stumbled onto this

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<v Speaker 1>movement not too long ago, just a few years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and it completely changed his life. It up ended his

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<v Speaker 1>life and in a good way though, right, And so

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<v Speaker 1>ever since Scott discovered the idea of financial independence, it's

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<v Speaker 1>changed the way he looks at life really, and that

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<v Speaker 1>led him to creating a full length documentary called Playing

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<v Speaker 1>with Fire, as well as a book by the same name,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's about to come out with a podcast as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So Scott has been hard at work ever since kind

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<v Speaker 1>of figuring out that financial independence could change lives. And

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<v Speaker 1>what I love too about what Scott's doing is in

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<v Speaker 1>the movie and in the book, Scott's really just documenting

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<v Speaker 1>exactly how it has changed his family. So there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many people blogging, writing, talking about the tenants of financial independence,

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<v Speaker 1>and Matt right, we talked about some of those right

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<v Speaker 1>year on the show. We try at the same time

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about how it's affecting our lives. And Scott

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<v Speaker 1>his book that you and I both devoured very quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing because it reads more like a diary. You're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing the emotions, You're seeing the way that the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of financial independence affected his relationship with his wife, his

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<v Speaker 1>young daughter, his family as a whole, and the changes

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<v Speaker 1>that it led them to make, and then the financial

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<v Speaker 1>and lifestyle changes that they decided to make based on

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<v Speaker 1>discovering those tenants. So the book, it's called Playing with Fire.

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<v Speaker 1>It is out now, so you can I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>can buy that right now, which is awesome. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cool that something that a friend of ours wrote

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<v Speaker 1>that you can buy and read. And the documentary that

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<v Speaker 1>you mentioned, it'll be out soon. I don't think there's

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<v Speaker 1>a specific date yet, but you can go to Playing

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<v Speaker 1>with Fire dot c o and you can learn all

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<v Speaker 1>about the documentary there, you can learn all about the book,

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<v Speaker 1>or you can just go straight to Amazon and buy it.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I love what you said about it being

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<v Speaker 1>sort of a diary, right. It's about their personal journey,

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<v Speaker 1>their discovery of fire and financial independence. One of the

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<v Speaker 1>things he said in the book was that he's not

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<v Speaker 1>looking to set a standard or what fires should be,

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<v Speaker 1>but to basically do their part to get people talking

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<v Speaker 1>about money in our everyday lives. And that totally resonated

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<v Speaker 1>with me because obviously that's what we like to do, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>big reason that we have this podcast is because we

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<v Speaker 1>like talking about money. We wanted to be part of

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<v Speaker 1>our our daily conversation. It needs to be something that

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<v Speaker 1>is a common topic, not something that you only talk

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<v Speaker 1>about with HR when you're deciding how much you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna set aside towards your four ohn k. It

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be something we talk about with our friends

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<v Speaker 1>and with our families. Yeah, Matt, And when reading his book,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite things it stuck out to me

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<v Speaker 1>just instantly, it leapt off the page was Scott's passion

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<v Speaker 1>when he talked about creating a personal mission statement, and

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<v Speaker 1>that seemed to change his life in a major way,

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<v Speaker 1>actually putting pen to paper and coming up with a

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<v Speaker 1>personal mission statement of his own. And it's been kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a guiding light for him and for his family.

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<v Speaker 1>And and Matt, you and I, based on based on

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<v Speaker 1>Scot's advice, we've created our own personal mission statements that

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<v Speaker 1>will share later in the show too. Yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just excited for Scott to share his his wisdom

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<v Speaker 1>with with our listeners and with us. Yeah, too often

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<v Speaker 1>in life, right, it's like we're just sleepwalking. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Life is sort of more whatever is happening to us,

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<v Speaker 1>versus proactively taking control and feeling like you have a

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<v Speaker 1>say in the direction of your future. And so Scott's

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<v Speaker 1>here to change that with his approach to creating uh

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<v Speaker 1>that personal mission statement? All right, Matt, So I'm excited

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<v Speaker 1>about this first Money Pro episode with Scott Rickens. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get five minutes with him and then you and

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<v Speaker 1>I will unpack his wisdom right after this break. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's time now to hear from Scott Rickens, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about creating a personal mission statement. Hi, gents,

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<v Speaker 1>Scott Rickens coming at you here from Bend, Oregon, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just cracked a crux fermentation project. Fresh Hop I

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<v Speaker 1>p A. Gets his name Fresh Hops because they pick

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<v Speaker 1>these hops the same day they brew them for maximum freshness.

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<v Speaker 1>It's delicious, all right. Being an entrepreneur, I've drafted many

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<v Speaker 1>mission statements for various companies that I've started or been

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<v Speaker 1>a part of over the years. They're useful to guide

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<v Speaker 1>you and to know where you're heading as a team

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<v Speaker 1>or as a business. But somehow I had never created

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<v Speaker 1>one for myself, so I'd love to share my thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>on the personal mission statement. I was first introduced this

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<v Speaker 1>concept through Get Rich Slowly as jd. Roth. His post

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<v Speaker 1>titled how to write a Personal Mission Statement breaks down

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<v Speaker 1>four steps you can use to get started here. They are,

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<v Speaker 1>what are my lifetime goals? How would I like to

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<v Speaker 1>spend the next five years, how would I live if

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I'd be dead in six months? And my

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<v Speaker 1>most important goals? And we'll review this list in a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>but right now, let's talk about why you would do this.

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<v Speaker 1>It helps defind what you're trying to accomplish and why

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<v Speaker 1>you've chosen this pursuit. And I feel this is incredibly

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<v Speaker 1>helpful if you're on a path to financial freedom, fire,

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<v Speaker 1>or really any path you find yourself on. It gives

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<v Speaker 1>you tools to use in the beginning, middle, and end

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<v Speaker 1>of whatever journey you're embarking on. Knowing your what will

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<v Speaker 1>help see the strengths you possess and by default, the

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<v Speaker 1>weaknesses you'll need to account for. Knowing where your weaknesses

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<v Speaker 1>lie is a strength. Knowing your why helps define where

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<v Speaker 1>you're heading and how to make decisions to stay on course.

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<v Speaker 1>Think of it as a filter for choices, and this

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<v Speaker 1>framework will help you define your goals more clearly. And

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<v Speaker 1>when you're focused and you know your goals, it's easier

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<v Speaker 1>to start, stay on track, and be prepared when an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity arises. So when I sat down to do the exercise,

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<v Speaker 1>I used a few of j D's suggestions and added

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<v Speaker 1>a few of my own. Here's my recommended approach to

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<v Speaker 1>reaching your personal mission statement. First, what are my top

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<v Speaker 1>five most favorite things to do? Two? What are my

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<v Speaker 1>top traits or qualities that are repeatedly noticed by my

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<v Speaker 1>close circles? Three? How would I like to spend the

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<v Speaker 1>next five years? Four? How would I live if I

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<v Speaker 1>knew I'd be dead in six months? And finally, what

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<v Speaker 1>are my most important goals to achieve in my lifetime?

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<v Speaker 1>And I found it helpful to pull from the answers

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<v Speaker 1>I had generated to formulate the following equation. So it

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<v Speaker 1>starts out with what's your superpower plus who you're creating

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<v Speaker 1>it for plus what's your desired outcome? And that will

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<v Speaker 1>culminate an equal your first draft of your personal mission statement.

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought i'd give you an example of my

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<v Speaker 1>personal mission statement to help you if you end up

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<v Speaker 1>doing this exercise, and I quote, I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>present for those who love me and rely on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to live a rich, happy and fulfilled life

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<v Speaker 1>and empower others to do the same. Now j D

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<v Speaker 1>adds a disc alimor in that blog, and I quote,

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<v Speaker 1>your mission statement isn't permanent. As your priorities and tastes change,

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<v Speaker 1>and as new opportunities present themselves, your mission will adopt

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<v Speaker 1>and grow end quote. I plan to revisit this mission

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<v Speaker 1>statement once a year. Taylor and I have a journal

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<v Speaker 1>we write in every year during our anniversary where we

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<v Speaker 1>answer a series of questions about the previous year. We

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<v Speaker 1>hope our daughter will find value in our answers to

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<v Speaker 1>help guide her through the later years. I plan to

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<v Speaker 1>add this personal mission statement exercise to that tradition. Once

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<v Speaker 1>you get comfortable with your mission statement, it's also helpful

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<v Speaker 1>to run a SWAT or Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats analysis.

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<v Speaker 1>What are your greatest strengths, What are your largest weaknesses?

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<v Speaker 1>What opportunities are available to you or are you not

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<v Speaker 1>taking advantage of but should be? What threats currently exist

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<v Speaker 1>to prevent you from reaching your goal? This type of

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<v Speaker 1>clarity will immediately put you in a far better position

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<v Speaker 1>and to set your trajectory in an intentional direction, and

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<v Speaker 1>in my experience, the positive effects are immediate. So I

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<v Speaker 1>highly recommend rocking this exercise to get clear about your

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<v Speaker 1>direction and your future. This will help you be more

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<v Speaker 1>efficient with your time and provides focus on what you

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<v Speaker 1>want and how to get there. All right, thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>letting me ramble. You guys are doing a killer job.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep up the good work, all right, Matt. First thing

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<v Speaker 1>we have to note is way to go Scott for

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<v Speaker 1>knowing your audience, because drinking a beer on this show

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<v Speaker 1>gets you mad. Points. Yeah, that's how we do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think he wanted to uh kind of join

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<v Speaker 1>us in spirit. So he fits in nicely here, doesn't he.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get into the nitty gritty. I love

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<v Speaker 1>what Scott said about approaching life like you approach a business,

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<v Speaker 1>because typically businesses, they set out to be successful, and

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<v Speaker 1>anybody who wants to start a successful business comes up

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<v Speaker 1>with a business plan a way of doing things, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're taken seriously because of that. But it's just not

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<v Speaker 1>too often that we do that with our own lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes we drift. We move away from the things that

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<v Speaker 1>are meaningful to us. We don't apply ourselves towards things

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<v Speaker 1>that actually bring meaning in our lives. And it's not

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<v Speaker 1>because we don't want to. It's not for a lack

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<v Speaker 1>of desire, but it is for a lack of intentionality,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, And I think Scott made that point really nicely.

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't agree more that aspect about being intentional with

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<v Speaker 1>your life. Me naturally, I tend not to be intentional,

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<v Speaker 1>and so to hear that, like, I know that this

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<v Speaker 1>is something I need to hear. I know that I

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<v Speaker 1>need to be more intentional with my life because a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times I do sort of float through life.

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<v Speaker 1>I tend to just accept whatever sort of comes next.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's just my personality. But sometimes I wonder

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<v Speaker 1>too if it has to do with our schooling, like education,

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<v Speaker 1>because like for years, right, like we go through life

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<v Speaker 1>not having to make the next step intentionally. You just

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<v Speaker 1>get to go to the next grade. And the same

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<v Speaker 1>thing even with college. Sometimes like you graduated high school

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<v Speaker 1>and what's the next step. It's like, oh, by default,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna go to undergrad and so for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>over twenty years of our life. We're trained and not

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<v Speaker 1>really think about the next steps. That's how I feel,

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<v Speaker 1>at least. The first thing I thought of when you

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<v Speaker 1>said that is kind of the way we watch videos now,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's YouTube or Netflix. There's auto play, so the

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<v Speaker 1>next video just happens, and you know what, most of

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<v Speaker 1>us don't do anything to stop, and and so you

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<v Speaker 1>go from episode two, episode three, episode four, and by

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<v Speaker 1>the time you're done with it, you realize you just

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<v Speaker 1>spent two and a half hours, and then it's time

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<v Speaker 1>for bad. And I feel like that's the way so

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<v Speaker 1>many of us go through life. We can all probably

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<v Speaker 1>relate to having done that with Netflix at one point,

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<v Speaker 1>or YouTube or whatever and just getting lost in a

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<v Speaker 1>slew of cat videos or breaking bad. And for me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's more breaking bad. But it's gonna be one or

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<v Speaker 1>the other. You know, you can't fallow anywhere else on

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<v Speaker 1>the spectrum and just one or the other. There is

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<v Speaker 1>no way between. But we can all identify that that

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<v Speaker 1>and that is truly how we live life. Sometimes that

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<v Speaker 1>the next thing hits us and we don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to respond. We don't know what to say no to,

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<v Speaker 1>and we don't know what to say yes to. There's

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<v Speaker 1>just not much intentionality because we don't have a clear

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<v Speaker 1>mission statement about what we want to accomplish. And Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>for I don't know about for you, but but for me,

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<v Speaker 1>just hearing how much this meant is got and then

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<v Speaker 1>setting aside some time to do it myself it meant

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Thinking about what really matters to me, what

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<v Speaker 1>do I want my life to look like? And creating

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<v Speaker 1>that mission statement for myself was just a meaningful experience. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And so one of the reasons I think is because

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<v Speaker 1>creating a personal mission statement answers the why, and you

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<v Speaker 1>have to have that in order to stay on track

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<v Speaker 1>and be prepared. So there's so much power, right and

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<v Speaker 1>writing things down. When you write things down to become

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<v Speaker 1>more concrete, like you can physically see them. And so

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<v Speaker 1>having a mission statement does all those things. That provides

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<v Speaker 1>clarity and it just kind of gives you more direction. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Knowing dear why kind of helps to inform your what.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when you know what you're going to do,

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<v Speaker 1>you've just kind of created a filter that, like I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about just a second ago, helps you decide

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<v Speaker 1>whether or not to say yes or no. Two things

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<v Speaker 1>that pop up in your life. And I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about you, Matt, but I tend to be a people pleaser.

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<v Speaker 1>I tend to say yes to more things than I should.

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<v Speaker 1>And whether that's grabbing drinks with a friend and not

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<v Speaker 1>getting something done that I know I need to do,

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<v Speaker 1>or spending time with somebody else that I know needs me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just easy for me to say yes and become

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<v Speaker 1>less focused. And a personal mission statement can actually, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, help help us to say yes to the

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<v Speaker 1>right things, no to the wrong things, and just live

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<v Speaker 1>a more focused and intentional life altogether. Yeah, I love

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<v Speaker 1>what you said. There is is to say yes to

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<v Speaker 1>the right things. Right. It's not that you're gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>yes less often, but you're just gonna make sure that

0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:19.800
<v Speaker 1>you're saying yes to the things that actually matter. When

0:21:19.840 --> 0:21:22.240
<v Speaker 1>you sit down at the end of the day, you think, Okay,

0:21:22.359 --> 0:21:24.200
<v Speaker 1>should I have actually done that? Was that a waste

0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:26.159
<v Speaker 1>of time? Well, you know, may not have been a

0:21:26.160 --> 0:21:28.160
<v Speaker 1>waste of time, but there may have been other things

0:21:28.240 --> 0:21:30.399
<v Speaker 1>that you know you value more when you give it

0:21:30.480 --> 0:21:32.320
<v Speaker 1>some thought. Like I know there's things that I do

0:21:32.440 --> 0:21:36.080
<v Speaker 1>often where it's not necessarily a bad thing, but there

0:21:36.080 --> 0:21:37.879
<v Speaker 1>are better things, and there are things that I know

0:21:37.920 --> 0:21:40.600
<v Speaker 1>that I should spend my time on instead. But like

0:21:40.640 --> 0:21:43.240
<v Speaker 1>you said, it's easy to get distracted right a stage

0:21:43.240 --> 0:21:45.359
<v Speaker 1>in our life where there's just lots of things pulling

0:21:45.400 --> 0:21:47.760
<v Speaker 1>on us. We have lots of sort of distractions and

0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:50.800
<v Speaker 1>additional responsibilities and things that we could take part in

0:21:51.080 --> 0:21:54.520
<v Speaker 1>that again aren't necessarily bad. But what are we gonna

0:21:54.560 --> 0:21:56.040
<v Speaker 1>say yes to? What are we gonna say no to?

0:21:56.440 --> 0:21:59.280
<v Speaker 1>It sort of automates that decision making process. It's like

0:21:59.280 --> 0:22:02.560
<v Speaker 1>you're creating a miss gene that you have these things

0:22:02.600 --> 0:22:04.879
<v Speaker 1>that happened in life, and you can kind of enter

0:22:04.960 --> 0:22:06.800
<v Speaker 1>into the machine and kind of crank it, and then

0:22:06.840 --> 0:22:09.119
<v Speaker 1>the machine tells you yes or no, wait, like a

0:22:09.160 --> 0:22:12.800
<v Speaker 1>magic eight ball, exactly like a magic feel good. Okay,

0:22:12.920 --> 0:22:15.520
<v Speaker 1>that's actually what my mission statement is based on the

0:22:15.560 --> 0:22:18.000
<v Speaker 1>magic eight ball statements. Good minds of weaves you board

0:22:19.080 --> 0:22:22.040
<v Speaker 1>even better. But this is a machine that you've created, right,

0:22:22.080 --> 0:22:23.719
<v Speaker 1>and that I mean, that's what we're referring to, referring

0:22:23.760 --> 0:22:26.920
<v Speaker 1>to the personal mission statement. And so I love that

0:22:26.960 --> 0:22:29.280
<v Speaker 1>it helps us to create a process and a mechanism

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<v Speaker 1>for decision making to make sure that we stay focused

0:22:31.960 --> 0:22:34.359
<v Speaker 1>on the things that we actually care about. All right, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>So right off of the break, let's get to exactly

0:22:36.440 --> 0:22:39.000
<v Speaker 1>how to formulate your personal mission statement and guess what

0:22:39.080 --> 0:22:49.520
<v Speaker 1>we're going to share ours as well. All right, Joel,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go ahead now and run through Scott's five questions.

0:22:53.080 --> 0:22:54.840
<v Speaker 1>And these are there to guide us along in order

0:22:54.840 --> 0:22:57.720
<v Speaker 1>to help us to get started thinking about our own

0:22:57.960 --> 0:23:01.040
<v Speaker 1>personal mission statements. And so let you answer the questions.

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<v Speaker 1>This doesn't, you know, automatically mean that you have a

0:23:03.359 --> 0:23:07.520
<v Speaker 1>mission statement, but hopefully you'll identify a common thread and

0:23:07.520 --> 0:23:11.280
<v Speaker 1>this helps us to prioritize and to sort of actively

0:23:11.280 --> 0:23:14.080
<v Speaker 1>identify what it is that we care about the most,

0:23:14.520 --> 0:23:16.480
<v Speaker 1>sort of distills down to like a few things that

0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:18.960
<v Speaker 1>we know that our priorities for us, And some of

0:23:18.960 --> 0:23:22.280
<v Speaker 1>these questions that we're asking ourselves in this process are

0:23:22.680 --> 0:23:26.280
<v Speaker 1>existential questions. There are questions that cause us to do

0:23:26.320 --> 0:23:28.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot of soul searching. And this could take you hours.

0:23:28.600 --> 0:23:30.240
<v Speaker 1>This could take you a long time to think through

0:23:30.240 --> 0:23:32.200
<v Speaker 1>some of these questions and to really do some soul

0:23:32.240 --> 0:23:35.000
<v Speaker 1>searching to figure out what your priorities are, what you

0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:37.919
<v Speaker 1>derive meaning from in life. These are difficult things to

0:23:37.960 --> 0:23:39.919
<v Speaker 1>wrestle with. So I just want to prepare people for

0:23:39.960 --> 0:23:43.119
<v Speaker 1>that ahead of time. And the first question is the

0:23:43.400 --> 0:23:45.399
<v Speaker 1>one of the simpler ones actually, but it is what

0:23:45.480 --> 0:23:48.399
<v Speaker 1>are my top five favorite things to do? And I

0:23:48.440 --> 0:23:50.040
<v Speaker 1>love that. In the book that Scott wrote, he talked

0:23:50.040 --> 0:23:53.800
<v Speaker 1>about how this exercise doing that with his wife actually

0:23:53.800 --> 0:23:56.240
<v Speaker 1>helped get get them on board with the idea of

0:23:56.240 --> 0:23:59.520
<v Speaker 1>pursuing financial independence much more quickly. It turned out when

0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:02.199
<v Speaker 1>his I did this exercise, none of the things that

0:24:02.280 --> 0:24:05.280
<v Speaker 1>she wrote down had anything to do with with having

0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:07.639
<v Speaker 1>a lot of money, and the same thing was true

0:24:07.640 --> 0:24:10.199
<v Speaker 1>for him, and I think because of this exercise, they

0:24:10.200 --> 0:24:12.240
<v Speaker 1>were both able to say, let's look at the things

0:24:12.280 --> 0:24:15.000
<v Speaker 1>that are meaningful to us, and because of our pursuit

0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:19.600
<v Speaker 1>of a consumeristic lifestyle, we're actually missing out on opportunities

0:24:19.600 --> 0:24:22.000
<v Speaker 1>to partake in these things that we say that we love.

0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:25.359
<v Speaker 1>And that was an inspirational moment for them and it

0:24:25.400 --> 0:24:27.320
<v Speaker 1>was kind of a moment that spurred them on. I

0:24:27.359 --> 0:24:32.680
<v Speaker 1>feel like that conversation, that exercise of writing down their

0:24:32.760 --> 0:24:35.080
<v Speaker 1>five favorite things to do, and I feel like that

0:24:35.200 --> 0:24:37.960
<v Speaker 1>is helpful for any of us because I know that

0:24:38.040 --> 0:24:40.320
<v Speaker 1>when I did this, my favorite things to do are

0:24:40.480 --> 0:24:44.360
<v Speaker 1>also free or cheap, don't cost a lot of money, right, Joe,

0:24:44.400 --> 0:24:46.760
<v Speaker 1>would you put down as uh some of your favorite things?

0:24:47.320 --> 0:24:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Did you put a drinking beer? Well, that definitely made

0:24:51.080 --> 0:24:52.440
<v Speaker 1>the list. I feel like I had to stick that

0:24:52.520 --> 0:24:54.680
<v Speaker 1>on there, just sort of like a token thing. I'm like, well,

0:24:54.760 --> 0:24:57.879
<v Speaker 1>I do like doing that, certainly, but yeah, but I

0:24:57.880 --> 0:25:01.440
<v Speaker 1>think even that usually that's around owned friendship, it's around

0:25:01.560 --> 0:25:04.680
<v Speaker 1>people that I care about, and so yeah, for me, honestly,

0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:07.040
<v Speaker 1>so much of it comes down to relationships. I think

0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:09.480
<v Speaker 1>that's what most of us will likely find doing this exercise,

0:25:09.600 --> 0:25:12.200
<v Speaker 1>that that so much of what we value comes down

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:16.240
<v Speaker 1>to relationships, and actually our consumeristic tendencies cause us to

0:25:16.640 --> 0:25:20.399
<v Speaker 1>work more to earn more money to perpetuate the cycle.

0:25:20.600 --> 0:25:22.480
<v Speaker 1>And if we could pump the brakes on all of that,

0:25:22.760 --> 0:25:25.040
<v Speaker 1>we would realize that we might actually be able to

0:25:25.040 --> 0:25:28.080
<v Speaker 1>make some different choices and prioritize the things that we

0:25:28.400 --> 0:25:31.280
<v Speaker 1>actually say matter when we do an exercise like this.

0:25:31.680 --> 0:25:34.919
<v Speaker 1>And the next question that Scott mentioned was to ask yourself,

0:25:34.960 --> 0:25:38.159
<v Speaker 1>what are my top traits the best qualities that are

0:25:38.160 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 1>noticed by my close friends, and those are my circle,

0:25:40.520 --> 0:25:44.720
<v Speaker 1>which is an awesome question to ask yourself because oftentimes

0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:47.159
<v Speaker 1>we can be blind to the different qualities and the

0:25:47.160 --> 0:25:49.480
<v Speaker 1>talents that we possess. Personally, I have a hard time

0:25:49.520 --> 0:25:52.240
<v Speaker 1>assessing myself because maybe I don't know who I am,

0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:55.720
<v Speaker 1>And sometimes personality quizzes and things like that, when you're

0:25:55.800 --> 0:25:58.000
<v Speaker 1>answering for yourself, it could be kind of tricky, It

0:25:58.000 --> 0:26:00.639
<v Speaker 1>can be difficult. Yeah, I have the same problem. I

0:26:00.720 --> 0:26:03.200
<v Speaker 1>have to ask Emily when I'm taking a quiz like that,

0:26:03.400 --> 0:26:06.240
<v Speaker 1>because it is I feel like so much easier to

0:26:06.280 --> 0:26:08.440
<v Speaker 1>see other people that you're close to, and so much

0:26:08.480 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 1>harder to recognize your own gifts or abilities. And so

0:26:11.880 --> 0:26:14.720
<v Speaker 1>when someone else can call something out in you that

0:26:14.920 --> 0:26:17.600
<v Speaker 1>is there that you might be a little bit self

0:26:17.600 --> 0:26:20.719
<v Speaker 1>conscious of or even ashamed of, I feel like sometimes

0:26:20.720 --> 0:26:23.320
<v Speaker 1>we grow up with things and something that is actually

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:25.880
<v Speaker 1>an asset or a gift. Maybe at some point we

0:26:25.880 --> 0:26:28.399
<v Speaker 1>were growing up, we were shamed by someone because of it,

0:26:28.480 --> 0:26:31.280
<v Speaker 1>and it's something that we don't recognize in ourselves as

0:26:31.320 --> 0:26:33.480
<v Speaker 1>being a gift. And so when someone else can call

0:26:33.520 --> 0:26:35.960
<v Speaker 1>that out and say that is good about you, it's

0:26:36.040 --> 0:26:38.560
<v Speaker 1>meaningful and it draws us out of ourselves. And so

0:26:38.760 --> 0:26:41.959
<v Speaker 1>I think doing this exercise and involving other people, asking

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:44.919
<v Speaker 1>a close friend, someone you trust and saying, hey, what

0:26:45.119 --> 0:26:46.919
<v Speaker 1>is it? What are my best attributes? What are my

0:26:46.960 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 1>best qualities? And how how do you think I can

0:26:48.880 --> 0:26:51.439
<v Speaker 1>best use those? Those are great questions to ask from

0:26:51.480 --> 0:26:53.680
<v Speaker 1>people that you care about. Man, And again, I want

0:26:53.680 --> 0:26:55.520
<v Speaker 1>to mention to the I mean, the whole reason right

0:26:55.520 --> 0:26:58.920
<v Speaker 1>that we're asking these questions is to help give ourselves guidance.

0:26:59.240 --> 0:27:00.879
<v Speaker 1>It's not like by answering every single one of these

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:02.600
<v Speaker 1>questions that you can then just sort of line all

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:04.359
<v Speaker 1>these words up and all of a sudden boom, that's

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:07.879
<v Speaker 1>your mission statement. The idea is to think through what

0:27:07.960 --> 0:27:10.200
<v Speaker 1>your priorities are. And when you know what your priorities are,

0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 1>that helps to direct you and how you spend your money,

0:27:13.240 --> 0:27:15.280
<v Speaker 1>how you save and like what are you saving for?

0:27:15.800 --> 0:27:18.960
<v Speaker 1>Like these are all the things that inform the why.

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:21.439
<v Speaker 1>That's what a personal mission statement is. But sort of

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:24.000
<v Speaker 1>at a higher level in this episode, we're not only

0:27:24.040 --> 0:27:25.960
<v Speaker 1>talking about money. We're kind of stepping back a little

0:27:25.960 --> 0:27:28.440
<v Speaker 1>bit and talking about like an individual as a whole.

0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:30.159
<v Speaker 1>But do you know, keep these things in mind when

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:33.160
<v Speaker 1>it comes to personal finances and your money, the things

0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:35.120
<v Speaker 1>that you're pursuing and that will help you to make

0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:38.320
<v Speaker 1>decisions when it comes to what you're spending your money on. Yeah, man,

0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:40.879
<v Speaker 1>I feel like these these next questions kind of are

0:27:40.880 --> 0:27:42.760
<v Speaker 1>a little more rubber meets the road, like the last

0:27:42.800 --> 0:27:45.280
<v Speaker 1>couple were a little more touchy feely, which I think

0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:47.480
<v Speaker 1>is important to do as well. But the next question

0:27:47.520 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 1>is how do I want to spend the next five

0:27:49.320 --> 0:27:51.720
<v Speaker 1>years of my life? And that's an important question too,

0:27:51.760 --> 0:27:54.000
<v Speaker 1>because you know, we talked about investing for the long

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:56.520
<v Speaker 1>term and that's great, but looking at what you can

0:27:56.520 --> 0:27:58.639
<v Speaker 1>accomplish in the next five years can change how you

0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:02.119
<v Speaker 1>allocate your money now and also leads you to prioritize

0:28:02.200 --> 0:28:05.879
<v Speaker 1>investing potentially in yourself as opposed to investing in the

0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:08.879
<v Speaker 1>stock market. That's something we talk about from time to time.

0:28:09.080 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 1>There's so much emphasis black and white in investing ten

0:28:13.080 --> 0:28:15.479
<v Speaker 1>percent of what you make in the stock market. And

0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:17.960
<v Speaker 1>you and I were all about investing for the long term,

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 1>but there are times too where you want to back

0:28:19.840 --> 0:28:21.680
<v Speaker 1>that off. If over the next five years you want

0:28:21.720 --> 0:28:24.439
<v Speaker 1>to see a small business of your own flourish and

0:28:24.440 --> 0:28:26.960
<v Speaker 1>take off, that might mean saving more right now and

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:31.160
<v Speaker 1>investing less, and that's okay, But doing this exercise kind

0:28:31.160 --> 0:28:33.560
<v Speaker 1>of helps you formulate a game plan of what you

0:28:33.600 --> 0:28:35.800
<v Speaker 1>want your next five years still, like that's gonna make

0:28:35.880 --> 0:28:38.240
<v Speaker 1>changes not only to how you act but also where

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:40.480
<v Speaker 1>you put your cash. Yeah, man, for me personally, like

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:42.800
<v Speaker 1>on this question, like a lot of the common themes

0:28:42.840 --> 0:28:45.120
<v Speaker 1>and sort of terms that rose to the top involved

0:28:45.200 --> 0:28:47.880
<v Speaker 1>my family, you know, my kids, my wife, but also

0:28:47.880 --> 0:28:49.840
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of words that sort of evolved around,

0:28:50.160 --> 0:28:53.680
<v Speaker 1>like autonomy and flexibility. And it kind of became really

0:28:53.680 --> 0:28:55.520
<v Speaker 1>clear to me that, man, these are things that that

0:28:55.560 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I value as a business owner. There are things that

0:28:58.080 --> 0:29:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I kind of currently have in some ways. There are

0:29:00.600 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 1>things I don't have in other ways. Right, Like there's

0:29:02.840 --> 0:29:05.479
<v Speaker 1>certain days that I have to be at certain places

0:29:05.480 --> 0:29:07.760
<v Speaker 1>and it's incredibly strict, But in a lot of ways,

0:29:07.800 --> 0:29:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of flexibility. I have a lot

0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:13.000
<v Speaker 1>of autonomy, and that's something that I see rising to

0:29:13.080 --> 0:29:15.240
<v Speaker 1>the top that sort of directs how I want to

0:29:15.240 --> 0:29:18.760
<v Speaker 1>pursue things specifically in the next five years. That's awesome, dude,

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:21.920
<v Speaker 1>It's such a useful exercise. And then the next question

0:29:21.960 --> 0:29:25.000
<v Speaker 1>that Scott prompts us to ask ourselves is how would

0:29:25.040 --> 0:29:27.360
<v Speaker 1>I live if I knew I'd be dead in six months?

0:29:27.840 --> 0:29:30.480
<v Speaker 1>And I mean, that's kind of a show stopper right there,

0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:32.600
<v Speaker 1>right that question is going to prompt us to do

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 1>I think a few things. The five year question is

0:29:35.440 --> 0:29:37.560
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a longer view, and six months

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:40.120
<v Speaker 1>is like, Okay, hey, I really don't have that much

0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:42.400
<v Speaker 1>time left. What are the things that matter the most

0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:44.200
<v Speaker 1>to me? Because I think obviously if we only had

0:29:44.240 --> 0:29:47.520
<v Speaker 1>six months to live, it would radically change the way

0:29:47.520 --> 0:29:49.760
<v Speaker 1>that we handle our finances. I think most of us

0:29:49.760 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 1>would probably stop contributing to a four O one k

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 1>I a any sort of retirement account like right now,

0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm not exactly sure if that one's perfectly like applicable

0:29:58.480 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 1>to the finances, right, but is that yeah, you would

0:30:01.200 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 1>just probably like light all your money on fire and

0:30:04.440 --> 0:30:06.640
<v Speaker 1>just burn it all and enjoy it. I tell you what,

0:30:06.680 --> 0:30:09.160
<v Speaker 1>I would stop aging craft beers. I would drink them all.

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:12.320
<v Speaker 1>But what it does do, though, man, is it shines

0:30:12.360 --> 0:30:14.320
<v Speaker 1>a light on the things that are truly important, because

0:30:14.320 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 1>if you only have six months to live, you don't

0:30:15.800 --> 0:30:17.880
<v Speaker 1>have time, right, and you don't have time to build

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:20.640
<v Speaker 1>a business exactly like. It really helps you focus on

0:30:20.800 --> 0:30:23.360
<v Speaker 1>people in relationships, I think even more so. Yes, Yeah,

0:30:24.120 --> 0:30:26.280
<v Speaker 1>and it puts an emphasis on those things and allows

0:30:26.280 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 1>you to keep those things in mind, right, Like, don't

0:30:28.360 --> 0:30:30.840
<v Speaker 1>lose sight of these things, because if you only had

0:30:31.120 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 1>six months left, like, these are the things that really matter.

0:30:34.000 --> 0:30:36.640
<v Speaker 1>So in the process of building these other things that

0:30:36.640 --> 0:30:39.160
<v Speaker 1>that you are trying to pursue in the next six years,

0:30:39.200 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>like the reason that you're doing them is for the

0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:44.560
<v Speaker 1>six month things. Exactly, Matt, Exactly. I think it's easy

0:30:44.600 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 1>to get caught up in your five year plan and

0:30:46.560 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 1>forget those really important things that you would focus on

0:30:49.920 --> 0:30:51.840
<v Speaker 1>if you only had six months to live. It kind

0:30:51.840 --> 0:30:54.480
<v Speaker 1>of helps you create a balance of being able to

0:30:54.640 --> 0:30:57.000
<v Speaker 1>prioritize both at the same time. And that's kind of

0:30:57.040 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 1>what I love about this exercise. It's helping you look

0:30:59.200 --> 0:31:02.640
<v Speaker 1>at both term and short term and incorporating them both.

0:31:02.840 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 1>So for me, meaningful work is super crucial autonomy, like

0:31:06.560 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 1>you mentioned, that's really important to me, but also a

0:31:09.000 --> 0:31:12.160
<v Speaker 1>time with my wife and my kids and my parents

0:31:12.320 --> 0:31:14.960
<v Speaker 1>and people that I love, my friends, my community those

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:17.320
<v Speaker 1>things are all important too. And so while I'm pursuing

0:31:17.360 --> 0:31:20.400
<v Speaker 1>meaningful work, if my family, my kids, my community get

0:31:20.440 --> 0:31:22.240
<v Speaker 1>lost in the shuffle, I feel like at that point

0:31:22.240 --> 0:31:24.200
<v Speaker 1>I've lost sight of the end goal. And I've lost

0:31:24.200 --> 0:31:26.760
<v Speaker 1>sight of that thing that I would spend all my

0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:29.320
<v Speaker 1>time doing if I only had six months left. Yeah, man,

0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I love that. You know, so much of what we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about does involve balance, and it sort of feels

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:35.120
<v Speaker 1>like this non answer to say that, like, well, it

0:31:35.160 --> 0:31:37.800
<v Speaker 1>all depends, but really this is no different Like you

0:31:37.880 --> 0:31:39.680
<v Speaker 1>have to maintain that balance. You have to have a

0:31:39.720 --> 0:31:42.560
<v Speaker 1>healthy view towards both in order to live a healthy

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:45.000
<v Speaker 1>life now. And so let's let's move on to his

0:31:45.080 --> 0:31:48.120
<v Speaker 1>last question, which was what are my most important goals

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:50.920
<v Speaker 1>to achieve in a lifetime. Some of these, dude, might

0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:54.440
<v Speaker 1>actually be easily accomplished within a year, but others might

0:31:54.480 --> 0:31:57.160
<v Speaker 1>take a decade or a lifetime. But you know, thinking

0:31:57.280 --> 0:32:01.600
<v Speaker 1>through those lifetime goals can help you sort of directs, uh,

0:32:01.640 --> 0:32:03.360
<v Speaker 1>and to help you to take the baby steps you

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:06.200
<v Speaker 1>need to take now to make sure that you are

0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:08.440
<v Speaker 1>headed in the right direction. Yeah. I love this too,

0:32:08.480 --> 0:32:10.400
<v Speaker 1>because when you write those down, some of them might

0:32:10.400 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 1>be quite a ways away, but you can start taking

0:32:12.520 --> 0:32:14.680
<v Speaker 1>some of those small steps in order to head in

0:32:14.720 --> 0:32:17.719
<v Speaker 1>that direction right now. And if it's a big, audacious

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 1>goal that's hard to achieve in all likelihood, you do

0:32:20.400 --> 0:32:23.480
<v Speaker 1>need to start right now, making small changes in order

0:32:23.520 --> 0:32:27.000
<v Speaker 1>to make sure that you prioritize the path to get there.

0:32:27.320 --> 0:32:30.240
<v Speaker 1>So if your goal has become a mediocre podcaster, you

0:32:30.320 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 1>might be there already, right, um, But if you want

0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:35.400
<v Speaker 1>to achieve, but if you want to become really good

0:32:35.400 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 1>at it, it's probably gonna take a lot more work

0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 1>and putting in a lot more hours of actually doing it. Right.

0:32:40.800 --> 0:32:43.120
<v Speaker 1>So that's one example. Yeah, Well another example too, and

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 1>this maybe goes back a little bit to the if

0:32:44.760 --> 0:32:48.040
<v Speaker 1>you're dead in six months question. But I'm just realizing

0:32:48.080 --> 0:32:50.440
<v Speaker 1>this now, which is a lot of times that our

0:32:50.520 --> 0:32:52.240
<v Speaker 1>work and the things that we do day to day

0:32:52.360 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 1>are sort of the means to the end. And in

0:32:54.160 --> 0:32:56.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot of times, the end is our family, the

0:32:56.440 --> 0:32:58.720
<v Speaker 1>relationships that we keep kind of going back to. That's

0:32:58.760 --> 0:33:01.400
<v Speaker 1>what's important. And and when we lose sight of that, right,

0:33:01.720 --> 0:33:05.560
<v Speaker 1>the means becomes the end. Our work and the pursuit

0:33:05.600 --> 0:33:08.120
<v Speaker 1>of money or status that becomes the goal. And we

0:33:08.160 --> 0:33:11.600
<v Speaker 1>don't even realize that we're not enjoying the end that

0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:13.760
<v Speaker 1>we actually sought out to to seek and that we're

0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:17.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to achieve. Alright, Matt, So, in particular because Scott

0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:21.200
<v Speaker 1>is part of the fire movement financial independence, retire early.

0:33:21.320 --> 0:33:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I have a question for you, So, if you had

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:27.440
<v Speaker 1>five million dollars in the bank right now, would you retire?

0:33:28.000 --> 0:33:31.640
<v Speaker 1>And what would your life look like? Okay, man, So, theoretically,

0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:33.960
<v Speaker 1>based on the things that you know by answering these

0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:36.520
<v Speaker 1>questions that I think I value, I think I would

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:40.240
<v Speaker 1>be pretty satisfied with focusing on my family, like focusing

0:33:40.240 --> 0:33:43.760
<v Speaker 1>on my wife and my kids and developing those relationships

0:33:43.760 --> 0:33:47.040
<v Speaker 1>and the relationships with my friends in my community. I

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 1>think a part of me would miss work, right, like

0:33:50.320 --> 0:33:54.840
<v Speaker 1>the actual tangible physical nature of work and providing value

0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:58.880
<v Speaker 1>to others around me. But I guess theoretically, what's most

0:33:58.920 --> 0:34:02.160
<v Speaker 1>important in the oldly role that I can play here

0:34:02.200 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 1>on earth that nobody else can play is a father

0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 1>to my children. There's no other father that they could have, right,

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:10.239
<v Speaker 1>And the same thing to my wife, like I am

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:12.279
<v Speaker 1>her husband, Like there's nobody else that is that is

0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:14.840
<v Speaker 1>her husband. I don't know, at least theoretically right, Like

0:34:14.880 --> 0:34:16.640
<v Speaker 1>you tell me, like what I quit work if I

0:34:16.680 --> 0:34:19.400
<v Speaker 1>won like five million dollars, I think I'd probably go crazy.

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:22.480
<v Speaker 1>So you mentioned existential earlier. Yeah, we're getting into some

0:34:22.520 --> 0:34:25.719
<v Speaker 1>pretty big questions unlike we normally do. We don't normally

0:34:25.760 --> 0:34:28.000
<v Speaker 1>do this, no, I know, right, Yeah, this is a

0:34:28.080 --> 0:34:30.400
<v Speaker 1>slight detour, but I like it though. I'll share my

0:34:30.440 --> 0:34:33.040
<v Speaker 1>mission statement first and hit it. I want to live

0:34:33.120 --> 0:34:35.799
<v Speaker 1>a rich life now in the areas that matter most.

0:34:36.040 --> 0:34:38.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to be present for my family and friends,

0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:42.280
<v Speaker 1>prioritizing relationships over things. I also desire to serve others

0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:46.160
<v Speaker 1>and help them find meaning and purpose. That's mine, Nice, dude,

0:34:46.200 --> 0:34:47.839
<v Speaker 1>I love it. That's freaking awesome. All right, So let's

0:34:47.880 --> 0:34:50.200
<v Speaker 1>go with yours, all right, man, here's mine. I want

0:34:50.280 --> 0:34:54.520
<v Speaker 1>to live a brave life full of adventure, creativity, and

0:34:54.600 --> 0:34:59.320
<v Speaker 1>service that prioritizes my family as well as my community

0:34:59.440 --> 0:35:02.239
<v Speaker 1>by using body as much as my mind in order

0:35:02.280 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 1>to leave a legacy of generosity and love, which you think.

0:35:06.239 --> 0:35:08.919
<v Speaker 1>That's great, dude, I have the word legacy in there. Yeah.

0:35:08.960 --> 0:35:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, especially having children, a legacy is something

0:35:11.640 --> 0:35:13.040
<v Speaker 1>that you kind of start to think about just a

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:16.080
<v Speaker 1>little bit more, and you want to leave something not

0:35:16.239 --> 0:35:17.960
<v Speaker 1>just for yourself, like the way you want to live,

0:35:18.000 --> 0:35:19.640
<v Speaker 1>but you want to lose. You want to live in

0:35:19.640 --> 0:35:23.200
<v Speaker 1>a way that other people would be energized to follow.

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:25.319
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like that actually lends, at the same

0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:27.840
<v Speaker 1>time kind of more gravity to everything that we that

0:35:27.920 --> 0:35:30.279
<v Speaker 1>we do, the choices that we make, because other people

0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:32.759
<v Speaker 1>are looking and watching, and we want those people to

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 1>feel like energized and encouraged to live a rich life

0:35:36.480 --> 0:35:38.799
<v Speaker 1>as well. Yeah, man, thanks, I appreciate that. What's really

0:35:38.840 --> 0:35:41.160
<v Speaker 1>cool about a mission statement too is that it can change.

0:35:41.200 --> 0:35:42.600
<v Speaker 1>Do you and I both spent some time, We spent

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:45.360
<v Speaker 1>a few hours on these this past week. Did you

0:35:45.360 --> 0:35:47.600
<v Speaker 1>talk with Emily about about yours trying to like help

0:35:47.640 --> 0:35:49.600
<v Speaker 1>shape it a little bit? You know, I didn't on

0:35:49.640 --> 0:35:51.760
<v Speaker 1>this because of the fact that it was a personal

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:55.920
<v Speaker 1>mission statement, and and although obviously my life involves her

0:35:55.960 --> 0:35:59.320
<v Speaker 1>life to a large extent, and we have talked about,

0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:01.960
<v Speaker 1>like I said, my personal qualities and gifts, and she

0:36:02.040 --> 0:36:04.600
<v Speaker 1>has been so helpful for me, and that I spent

0:36:04.719 --> 0:36:07.640
<v Speaker 1>time really doing this alone, which I felt to be

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:10.520
<v Speaker 1>really really helpful, And I can't wait to take this

0:36:10.640 --> 0:36:13.360
<v Speaker 1>to her and for us both to kind of say, Okay,

0:36:13.360 --> 0:36:17.240
<v Speaker 1>how does this fit into potentially a greater family mission statement.

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:20.279
<v Speaker 1>I started to talk to Kate about this and it

0:36:20.320 --> 0:36:22.640
<v Speaker 1>started to evolve more into sort of like a family

0:36:22.680 --> 0:36:25.839
<v Speaker 1>mission statement, like what do we do? Not only me

0:36:26.000 --> 0:36:28.000
<v Speaker 1>and her, but like what as the children? Like what

0:36:28.040 --> 0:36:30.120
<v Speaker 1>do you know? What do the girls do? But yeah,

0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:32.960
<v Speaker 1>our goal with this episode was to, like you personally,

0:36:33.000 --> 0:36:34.640
<v Speaker 1>like how is this going to mark you know, and

0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:37.120
<v Speaker 1>direct your life as an individual? When it comes to

0:36:37.600 --> 0:36:39.759
<v Speaker 1>how does it direct your time? The things that you

0:36:39.800 --> 0:36:42.680
<v Speaker 1>pursue and obviously you know what you spend your money

0:36:42.680 --> 0:36:45.399
<v Speaker 1>on as well. Our priorities change. There's things that maybe

0:36:45.480 --> 0:36:47.400
<v Speaker 1>we don't even think about. That's kind of what's so

0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 1>awesome about it is it's this alive, sort of flexible

0:36:50.239 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 1>thing that gives us direction now. But at the same time,

0:36:52.640 --> 0:36:54.799
<v Speaker 1>it's not so rigid and it's not so set in

0:36:54.840 --> 0:36:58.240
<v Speaker 1>stone that it doesn't allow us to change and evolve

0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:00.839
<v Speaker 1>over time. Yeah. I mean I if it changes week

0:37:00.880 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 1>to week, then you probably didn't do the exercise very well,

0:37:03.360 --> 0:37:05.719
<v Speaker 1>like right, I would say, But if it changes year

0:37:05.760 --> 0:37:09.320
<v Speaker 1>to year in small bits and pieces or full sentences

0:37:09.400 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 1>change completely, I think that's okay. So I think it's

0:37:11.800 --> 0:37:13.840
<v Speaker 1>actually probably a really good exercise to go back to

0:37:13.880 --> 0:37:17.080
<v Speaker 1>your mission statement once a year, and that can kind

0:37:17.080 --> 0:37:19.880
<v Speaker 1>of again help reinforce as you make tweaks, as you

0:37:20.000 --> 0:37:22.560
<v Speaker 1>change that the things that you say yes and no

0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:26.400
<v Speaker 1>to the ways that you prioritize spending now versus saving

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:28.600
<v Speaker 1>for the future, and some of these questions, man, I

0:37:28.600 --> 0:37:31.279
<v Speaker 1>feel like they're really helpful in saying, Okay, do I

0:37:31.440 --> 0:37:33.279
<v Speaker 1>max out my four own K this year because I

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:35.759
<v Speaker 1>have the ability, or do I say no, I'm going

0:37:35.800 --> 0:37:39.279
<v Speaker 1>to prioritize investing myself and prioritize working a little bit

0:37:39.360 --> 0:37:41.960
<v Speaker 1>less so that I can prioritize some of these family

0:37:42.000 --> 0:37:43.960
<v Speaker 1>and community things that I want to be engaged in.

0:37:44.200 --> 0:37:46.959
<v Speaker 1>And a personal mission statement is so good at helping

0:37:47.040 --> 0:37:48.839
<v Speaker 1>us do that. And I just love how kind of

0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 1>how Scott kind of let us in this exercise, and

0:37:52.360 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 1>we will in the show notes have all these steps

0:37:54.800 --> 0:37:56.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of laid out for you so that you can

0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:58.680
<v Speaker 1>go through them one by one and create your own

0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:01.680
<v Speaker 1>personal mission statement. And we really do think that when

0:38:01.680 --> 0:38:03.960
<v Speaker 1>it comes down to brass tacks, it's gonna help you

0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 1>think through your finances, help think through how you allocate

0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:10.480
<v Speaker 1>your money really well too. All right, Joel Man, let's

0:38:10.480 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 1>get back to this beer. It is currently while we're

0:38:13.040 --> 0:38:16.480
<v Speaker 1>recording this cold is all get out outside here in Atlanta.

0:38:16.840 --> 0:38:19.680
<v Speaker 1>It's freaking January man, it's cold. Yeah, it's extremely cold,

0:38:19.680 --> 0:38:22.480
<v Speaker 1>so it feels very appropriate to have this cold Mountain

0:38:22.480 --> 0:38:25.960
<v Speaker 1>winter warmer style beer. It's delicious. So your word was

0:38:26.040 --> 0:38:28.840
<v Speaker 1>distinct You wanna explain that? Yeah, you know what I

0:38:28.880 --> 0:38:31.719
<v Speaker 1>love is a beer that tastes unlike any other beer

0:38:31.760 --> 0:38:34.400
<v Speaker 1>I've had before, and this beer was really distinct in

0:38:34.440 --> 0:38:37.080
<v Speaker 1>that way. It it really is its own style. It

0:38:37.160 --> 0:38:40.400
<v Speaker 1>has kind of some elements of like a Belgian quad

0:38:40.960 --> 0:38:43.480
<v Speaker 1>with some of those notes going on, like I feel

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:45.600
<v Speaker 1>it like a fig raisiny kind of thing going on,

0:38:45.680 --> 0:38:47.480
<v Speaker 1>but then some of the spice that they include in

0:38:47.520 --> 0:38:51.040
<v Speaker 1>the beer gives it something completely its own. It's unique

0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:53.879
<v Speaker 1>and it's also lighter in body at the same time.

0:38:54.040 --> 0:38:58.120
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, just a really interesting beer. Highland is kind

0:38:58.120 --> 0:39:00.279
<v Speaker 1>of one of the o g craft brewers. I've been

0:39:00.360 --> 0:39:02.759
<v Speaker 1>drinking their beers for years. Yeah, I was gonna say,

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:06.200
<v Speaker 1>I remember the Gaelic Ale well like years and years

0:39:06.200 --> 0:39:08.319
<v Speaker 1>and years ago, and this is I feel like one

0:39:08.360 --> 0:39:10.040
<v Speaker 1>of the best ones they make. So really excited to

0:39:10.040 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 1>be able to have a Cold Mountain this year. It's

0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:14.440
<v Speaker 1>so good. Yeah. Man, So my word was chewy, and

0:39:14.560 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 1>I completely resonate with you when you mentioned like that

0:39:16.960 --> 0:39:19.799
<v Speaker 1>dried fruit, that nuttiness to it. There's a dried sort

0:39:19.840 --> 0:39:22.640
<v Speaker 1>of figgy fruity flavor to it, and it just has

0:39:22.680 --> 0:39:26.719
<v Speaker 1>this multi backbone to it. Drinks real smooth. For me,

0:39:26.800 --> 0:39:29.000
<v Speaker 1>it was more of sort of that chewy, sort of

0:39:29.160 --> 0:39:33.200
<v Speaker 1>nutty nuttiness with with that dried fruit. Very delicious. Huge

0:39:33.200 --> 0:39:36.360
<v Speaker 1>things to Clark and Nancy for donating this beer to

0:39:36.400 --> 0:39:40.000
<v Speaker 1>the show. All right, Matt, So, instead of a final

0:39:40.040 --> 0:39:42.120
<v Speaker 1>thoughts like we usually do with our topics, I feel

0:39:42.160 --> 0:39:46.160
<v Speaker 1>like this episode it's appropriate, our first money pro episode

0:39:46.160 --> 0:39:48.960
<v Speaker 1>with Scott Rickens. It's really appropriate for us to kind

0:39:48.960 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 1>of finish this one up with a really with a

0:39:52.040 --> 0:39:54.360
<v Speaker 1>quote from him from his book that I feel like

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:58.040
<v Speaker 1>ties this whole concept together really well. Will you read

0:39:58.040 --> 0:40:00.160
<v Speaker 1>it for us? Yeah? Man, well, I'll preface it right.

0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 1>And so Scott's whole book in a documentary, it's all

0:40:02.120 --> 0:40:05.759
<v Speaker 1>about fire financial independence, and then specifically on our show

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:08.560
<v Speaker 1>for us, he's talking about mission statement. This right here,

0:40:08.600 --> 0:40:10.520
<v Speaker 1>it brings the two together and it helps us to

0:40:10.600 --> 0:40:13.880
<v Speaker 1>sort of reframe our finances, personal finance and lights of

0:40:13.920 --> 0:40:16.440
<v Speaker 1>a personal mission statement. And so towards the end of

0:40:16.480 --> 0:40:20.680
<v Speaker 1>the book, Scott said that fire is not about saving

0:40:20.800 --> 0:40:23.400
<v Speaker 1>every last penny and trying to reach retirement as soon

0:40:23.440 --> 0:40:27.040
<v Speaker 1>as humanly possible. It's about building a lifestyle that aligns

0:40:27.040 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>with your larger life purpose even while you are still working.

0:40:30.719 --> 0:40:34.879
<v Speaker 1>Retirement isn't the answer to every problem with fire. It's

0:40:34.920 --> 0:40:39.000
<v Speaker 1>just a natural outcome of aligning your values with your choices.

0:40:39.239 --> 0:40:40.840
<v Speaker 1>And I love that, man. I feel like it's it

0:40:40.960 --> 0:40:43.920
<v Speaker 1>sums up what he discovered, which was his new personal

0:40:43.960 --> 0:40:47.440
<v Speaker 1>mission statement. Obviously that had a direct impact on his finances.

0:40:47.440 --> 0:40:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Where they chose to live right because they moved from

0:40:49.400 --> 0:40:52.000
<v Speaker 1>a high cost of living city, and the things that

0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:54.040
<v Speaker 1>they're going to pursue with the rest of their life.

0:40:54.239 --> 0:40:56.759
<v Speaker 1>All right, that's it. You can find some show notes

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<v Speaker 1>up on our website at how to money dot com,

0:41:00.200 --> 0:41:03.360
<v Speaker 1>including some more information where you can find Scott's book

0:41:03.520 --> 0:41:05.640
<v Speaker 1>in that new movie that's coming out soon. If this

0:41:05.680 --> 0:41:08.439
<v Speaker 1>podcast has been helpful to you, Matt and I would

0:41:08.520 --> 0:41:10.200
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