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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Maria. Hi, Hi, welcome to the show. Of course,

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Speaker 1: this is waiting by the phone. What's going on with

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Speaker 1: you and this dude? Uh Clayton? I see on your

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Speaker 1: in the email here that you met on HNS. Then what,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we've met on HMS. Yes, and he went

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Speaker 2: out twice actually, and she's going to take me for

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Speaker 2: dinner and drink, which wasn't our standard and quite knight.

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Speaker 2: And then the second time I invited him over for

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Speaker 2: wine on a movie and I just hot. This is

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Speaker 2: such a man, you know, it's just a real guy's guy.

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Speaker 2: And he's exactly what I'm looking for. So he's not

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Speaker 2: ghosted me, and I just don't know why.

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Speaker 1: So what are we talking about? Like a man? Like

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Speaker 1: he comes over and he's like hairy and sweaty and

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Speaker 1: like has a like a beer like the BROWNI man, like,

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Speaker 1: where's flam? I mean, what's your definition? I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: visualize what this is. He's just a dude.

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Speaker 3: Well, he's yeah, this.

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Speaker 2: Guy's guy, you know, he's just like banily and he's

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Speaker 2: strong and okay, yeah, he was cool.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So you having a great time, you

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Speaker 1: felt a connection two dates. That's pretty good for a

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Speaker 1: dating app, and so things. We're heading somewhere, except now

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Speaker 1: he's not responding to you at all. I assume you've

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Speaker 1: reached out, you've called, you've tried to get a hold

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Speaker 1: of him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not replying. I'm not answering.

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Speaker 1: We'll call him right now. Good luck.

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Clayton? Yeah, Clayton, good morning Fred from

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Speaker 1: the Fred's show The Whole Cruise Here. I have to

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Speaker 1: tell you that we are on the radio right now

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Speaker 1: and I need you permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can we talk for a couple of minutes?

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Speaker 3: Of course?

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 1: woman named Maria who says she met you on Hinge

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Speaker 1: and you went on two dates. Do you remember her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I remember Maria.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, what what happened? Because she told us that

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Speaker 1: she liked you and felt a connection and was excited

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Speaker 1: to meet you and wanted to go out with you

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Speaker 1: again for a third date. But you're not responding to

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Speaker 1: her at all, she says, so can you tell us why?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I mean, she was great and all like she's really

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Speaker 3: nice and everything, but I think she was looking for

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Speaker 3: more of a handyman than like a like a partner

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Speaker 3: and all of this.

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Speaker 1: A handyman like is a role playing thing, like she

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Speaker 1: wanted you to show up in a tool bell to

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Speaker 1: like what what are we talking? Or like physically she

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Speaker 1: wanted you to fix stuff she wanted.

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Speaker 3: Me to fix us. We had the first eight.

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Speaker 1: That one great.

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Speaker 3: We agreed to a second one, which was at her house.

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Speaker 3: Like not even five minutes after I get there, she

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Speaker 3: pulls out this list of stuff that she needs done

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Speaker 3: around her house, like light bulbs, yeah, I like, hanging pictures,

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Speaker 3: checking some appliances, and but I was just like this is.

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Speaker 1: Funny, man Like what so five end of the date

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Speaker 1: she expects you to do maintenance around her home? O,

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Speaker 1: hold on, And I forgot to mention that she's here.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't that many things.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: It wasn't that there shouldn't be anything. The guys a

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Speaker 1: guess in your home, like.

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Speaker 3: To feel needed.

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Speaker 1: You know that's true. Yeah, but why don't you ask

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Speaker 1: him if he wants to feel needed or if he

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Speaker 1: wants to just get to know you. He didn't come

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Speaker 1: over to your house to fix your dryer.

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Speaker 2: You ask someone if they want to feel needed, you

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Speaker 2: make them feel needed when you need them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he doesn't have to do that. That's boyfriend's stuff.

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Speaker 1: You're dating. Neto's a test to us. See, you know,

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Speaker 1: if he could do these things on a regular this

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Speaker 1: is a painting party. I'm not having you over with

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Speaker 1: beer and pizza to paint my house, you know. And

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Speaker 1: telling you that, I mean, you could have said to him, hey,

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Speaker 1: would you mind coming over because I need this stuff.

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Speaker 1: You could have said that to him, and then he

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Speaker 1: could have had the option. And but you standed him

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Speaker 1: a list of things you.

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Speaker 3: Like it broken?

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Speaker 2: So I didn't want to cook anything. If easier to.

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Speaker 1: Just order him, do you make him fix the Garvera's

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Speaker 1: disposal to Yeah, under the sink, that's a whole that

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Speaker 1: would have been okay, by the way, that's a whole

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Speaker 1: different thing, all right. I don't think it's cool. I

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Speaker 1: think you're using him. It sounds like you're using him.

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Speaker 1: I would feel used.

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Speaker 2: I'm not using him. Her work is done now, I's

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Speaker 2: still want to see him.

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Speaker 1: You got more more light bulbs out? I know al

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Speaker 1: needs moments. I think you did this right, I really don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't really blame him, Clayton. Okay, so let's say

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Speaker 1: she doesn't give you a honeydew list the next time

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Speaker 1: you come over for your third date, Uh, would you

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Speaker 1: consider going out with her again?

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Speaker 3: Honestly no, because it really felt like I was just

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Speaker 3: being used for, you know, my knowledge and things, and

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Speaker 3: I for replacing all that stuff. It would have been

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Speaker 3: one thing if it was just like, oh no, this

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Speaker 3: light bulber, this one thing, can you mind helping me

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Speaker 3: out because I just need assistance with it? But it

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Speaker 3: was just so much stuff and it's found to happen again.

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Speaker 3: So no, thank you.

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't have to go to her. You shouldn't go

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Speaker 1: to her house and expect to be served. And if

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Speaker 1: it's like, oh my gosh, this light bulb is, how

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Speaker 1: can you help me? She handed a list to you? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean come on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I don't really blame him, But anyway, guys, best

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Speaker 1: of luck to both of you. Thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: Lo Gay