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Speaker 1: My wife's parents are threatening to bring a lawsuit against me.

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Speaker 2: For an underage marriage. Oh dear, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Very curious to, like, like, what you would do with

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Speaker 1: this situation, because it's weird.

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Speaker 2: I'm mentally prepared. Now go ahead.

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Speaker 1: I realize this is going to sound like a troll post,

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Speaker 1: and I promise it's not. My wife was adopted from

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Speaker 1: Russia when she was three years old. Okay, a few

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Speaker 1: years ago we were looking into finding more information about

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Speaker 1: her biological family and John, what have we learned about

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Speaker 1: twenty three and ME tests.

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Speaker 3: We have learned that they only improve the lives of

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Speaker 3: people who take the sea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what.

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Speaker 1: We've got Your family and relationship to stay in tact.

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Speaker 1: Just don't look there, don't Fandora's box and run away

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Speaker 1: will fuck up your life.

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Speaker 3: Take the box, like, get a cruise to Antarctica and

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Speaker 3: throw it off, like just majestically looking at it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they sink to the bottom of the marriage trench.

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Speaker 1: Twenty three and Me's new slogan is we ruin families.

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Speaker 3: That would That's honestly what they need to do.

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Speaker 1: Hey, if you want to sponsor us, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: My wife was adopted from Russia when she was three

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Speaker 1: years old. Okay, yeah, so she were looking at more

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Speaker 1: Biletic family bab Sure. We looked over the document with

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Speaker 1: a translator who said that it looked like her birth

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Speaker 1: date was translated incorrectly and the actual birthdate was about

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Speaker 1: a year and a half later than what was told

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Speaker 1: to our parents and also what ended up on the

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Speaker 1: American paperwork. So this means that she wasn't three years

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Speaker 1: old when she was adopted. She was actually eighteen months old.

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Speaker 1: Her parents were surprised, but not shocked by this, because

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Speaker 1: she was delayed as a child, but they thought that

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Speaker 1: it was just because she was in an orphanage and

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Speaker 1: that it would even out when she was older, which

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Speaker 1: it didn't. Here's where it gets dicey. Oh, my wife

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Speaker 1: and I started dating when we were sixteen and eighteen,

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Speaker 1: and we got married at eighteen.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, when when she was eighteen?

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Speaker 1: I believe so when she was eighteen if this is all,

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Speaker 1: they were dating for two years. If this is true,

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Speaker 1: we actually started dating at fourteen and eighteen, and she

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Speaker 1: would have been just short of seventeen when we got married.

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Speaker 1: This would obviously not be legal. I wouldn't have gotten

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Speaker 1: married that early or encouraged it. But I obviously wouldn't

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Speaker 1: have been dating someone that young in any case if

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Speaker 1: I had known. Right, But what's done is done. We're

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Speaker 1: both in our late twenties now, right.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, Wow, this is a long time.

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Speaker 1: So they've never liked that we left the church. I

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Speaker 1: guess they are part of a church, okay, and have

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Speaker 1: since moved out state.

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Speaker 2: Oh no.

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Speaker 1: But now what they're trying to do is they're trying

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Speaker 1: to show this evidence to the police to get me

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Speaker 1: arrested for statutory and saying that our marriage isn't legal

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Speaker 1: because she was possibly under age and didn't have the

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Speaker 1: parental consent that would have been required arrested as come on,

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Speaker 1: come on, So this is on legal advice, OPI is like,

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Speaker 1: how much do we have to worry about here?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: I think I don't false, op, because like literally everyone

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Speaker 3: thought like it was like they said, it was written

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Speaker 3: incorrectly on the American paperwork. Yeh. Everyone thought from the

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Speaker 3: American documents that she was older than she actually was.

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Speaker 3: So like and they're now and they're now in their

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Speaker 3: you know, like twy twenty is where it doesn't really

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Speaker 3: matter make a difference. So it's like it sucks, but it.

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Speaker 2: Is what it is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it is what it because if you think about it,

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Speaker 3: if they had met now when there he's let's say

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Speaker 3: he's twenty fine, let's say he's like twenty nine and

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Speaker 3: she's like twenty five, fine, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, screw those parents. They suck, They said so awful.

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Speaker 1: So so there is a lawyer that responded and they said,

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Speaker 1: I think in the absolute worst case, your marriage is void,

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Speaker 1: which means you would have to get remarried, right right.

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Speaker 1: I doubt you'd be convicted or successfully sued for underage

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Speaker 1: marriage based on the bilateral mistakes. Everyone thought she was

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Speaker 1: older than she actually wash and you had no intent

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Speaker 1: to violate the law. But I would still talk to

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Speaker 1: a lawyer.

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Speaker 2: That makes sense.

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Speaker 3: So it's like, okay, basically, the worst case scenario is

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Speaker 3: you have to get remarried because any legal action the

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Speaker 3: parents take, it's like there is no there is none

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Speaker 3: because everyone thought it was the.

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Speaker 2: Mistakes that caused it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wow, weird though, right, scruisy those parents, Yeah, they talk