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Speaker 1: waste time with the other. That's what Hannah did. Hannah,

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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? How are you doing good now?

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Speaker 1: Your email said that you went to the movies with

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Speaker 1: a guy named Nick. How'd you guys meet? Well, we

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Speaker 1: just met your friends, really casual. We were out one

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Speaker 1: asked me what I wanted? So I said what I wanted,

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Speaker 1: which was name is all right? And he said he

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Speaker 1: are you one of the types that talks a lot

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Speaker 1: What was his initial reaction when you suggested lay miss

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Speaker 1: Because it's fault for going to a musical. I'm just

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Speaker 1: saying it's kind of a selfish choice. I would I

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Speaker 1: Oh well, I really wanted to see it, and it's

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Speaker 1: go to the movies as you go out after anything. Well,

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Speaker 1: said he wouldn't call me. What made you decide to

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Speaker 1: the worst case scenario that he could say to you? Um,

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Speaker 1: I don't know that you found me boring or annoying?

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Speaker 1: I guess would do that work? You don't want to

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Speaker 1: it that I do? Maybe I'm saying something and I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Hannah, Now you're being annoying. Hold on, all right,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call him right after this and see we

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Speaker 1: hang five? Brooking jubil In the morning date, Hannah again

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Speaker 1: went out on a date with a guy named Nick

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Speaker 1: to the movies. She wanted to go see, le miss.

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Speaker 1: You really have no idea why he wouldn't have called

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Speaker 1: I thought it went great and he said you would,

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Speaker 1: so you guys met through friends. Has any of your

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Speaker 1: I like your backwards mind, Hannah. I'm gonna start calling

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Speaker 1: was looking for Nick. This is Nick. Hey, what's up? Man?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. What's

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Speaker 1: You end up taking her to the movies. You guys

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Speaker 1: I Well, she's the one that asked us. Or is

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Speaker 1: it embarrassing on your part? Well, no, I'm I'm not

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Speaker 1: Hanna's on the phone right now. Hell no, this is

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Speaker 1: getting back to you. Okay, Um, Nick, why haven't you

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Speaker 1: I don't have the flu. I'm taking care of myself

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I don't think Hannah thinks

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Speaker 1: much for you to get over. I mean, you obviously

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Speaker 1: But I you know what I think. I think that

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Speaker 1: I already know it is really clean, all right, because

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Speaker 1: what did you hear her? Did you hear her? Just

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Speaker 1: shut her? Like, I'm not doing that? So you're not

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Speaker 1: going to go out with her? Nick? No, I'm sorry, Hannah.

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Speaker 1: You're you're a great girl. I just I think we're

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Speaker 1: just worlds apart. You know. Well, if it makes you

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Speaker 1: feel any better, Hannah, you can come over to my

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