WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Bottom of the Bread Bowl 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:01.400 All right, we're starting off your week with a brand 0:00:01.440 --> 0:00:02.360 new episode today. 0:00:02.480 --> 0:00:04.680 Yay Second Date. 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:08.039 And I gotta say, this girl's hack for figuring out 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:10.119 if this guy was trustworthy or not is probably going 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:11.119 to be used by other people. 0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:12.760 Yeah, for sure. YEA a good one. 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:16.639 It's a little on the immortal side, just a tad 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:20.120 though not enough, not enough, not at no, okay enough. 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:22.800 Yeah, but before we get to it. 0:00:22.960 --> 0:00:24.640 Comments, we love to feature yours. 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:26.080 Yeah, heavenly said. 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:28.760 My town was out of internet for over twelve hours. 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:30.640 Oh and the only thing I wanted to do was 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:35.800 listen to y'all's podcast and it did not disappoint. Oh yeah, right, 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:37.680 it's just a twelve hour Wait what do you do 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:40.760 for twelve hours not internet on Alexis? 0:00:40.920 --> 0:00:44.040 I don't know, Yeah, I time, I guess, I don't 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:44.600 know what I do? 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.800 Yeah, all right, Your brand new Second Date starts right now. 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:53.240 The Second Date update it's broken Jeffrey in the morning. 0:00:53.280 --> 0:00:55.400 And if you didn't know, you can always hear our 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:59.840 Second Date updates on Apple, Spotify, wherever you get your podcasts. 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:01.960 Millions of people download him a month. 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:03.520 Yeah, I like this. 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:06.160 It's just the Second Date commercial happening. 0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:09.760 It's right, Brooke says you should download it too, or 0:01:09.800 --> 0:01:11.119 else I don't want. 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:12.720 To know what the or where else is. 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:14.800 May enjoy it? 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:20.199 Well, thank god, whatever it is, it's in your best 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.319 interest and not to defy Broke. But we do have 0:01:22.360 --> 0:01:24.640 a listener on the phone right now who's asked us 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:26.679 for a second date. And I didn't even get to 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:28.640 read his email ahead of time, so I don't know 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:32.040 much about it other than his name is Rick, and 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:34.080 hopefully I'm pronouncing that right Rick? 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:35.920 Is it Rick? Am I saying that right? 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:37.240 Of course? 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:37.560 Yep. 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:39.920 I think it's the only way to pronounce it. 0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:42.319 I feel like he's not emphasizing the C enough in 0:01:42.360 --> 0:01:42.720 your name. 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:44.920 Yeah, and it could be with a silent R. So 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:45.479 we don't know. 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:48.240 But let's get right into your date. Tell us about 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:49.720 the woman you met. What's her name? 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:53.720 So I met a girl named Brenda. I was trying 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:56.320 to find just find a way to meet people, and 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:58.880 my friend told me to join a running club. So 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:00.160 I joined this running. 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:04.680 Yeah, I've heard a lot of people doing that, I haven't. 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:06.160 It was really popular for summer. 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:07.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah, fun. 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:11.959 Now it's not anymore short just saying late to the trend. 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:15.520 I think it's fun. It's I mean, it's one a 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:17.360 good way to get healthy, so you're gonna get some 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.800 positive out of it. And then usually people meet up 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:22.400 for beers afterwards. Yeah, you meet to start and then 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:22.799 and there. 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:24.600 Yeah, did that happen on your date? 0:02:24.680 --> 0:02:28.000 Rick, No, there was no drinking at running club. 0:02:28.160 --> 0:02:30.040 Oh curious. 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:35.080 Yeah, I never heard of that, too healthy. 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:37.560 So how did you and Brenda hit it off? 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.880 We met at the back of the line. We were 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:44.320 jogging while everyone else was running. 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:48.960 That's kind of funny. You were the lazy ones who 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:50.639 weren't taking it very seriously. 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:52.920 You can take that slow, Jeff, you don't have to 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:56.160 speed shamey. Okay, they showed up. They're not that lazy. 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:59.720 I feel like being telling them me slow is more. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:01.840 Shame for people know when they're slow. I'm slow. 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:03.840 It's okay, all right. 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:06.440 So what did you and Brenda talk about at the 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:07.359 back of the line. 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:10.440 Well, we kind of bonded on the fact that we 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:12.680 were in running club but hated running club. 0:03:15.320 --> 0:03:16.720 It was like the cool kids at the back of 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:19.959 the bus. Why didn't even sign up for this dumb thing? 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:20.679 Why are we here? 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:23.519 So I ended up getting your number, which was cool. 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:27.720 So we started texting and then I worked up the 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:28.920 courage to ask her out. 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:29.800 Cute. 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.680 So how long of a friendship did you have before 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.000 you asked her out? 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:37.200 Maybe two months if I had to guess, somewhere around there. 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:42.120 Wow, you're a slow runner and a slow mover romantically. 0:03:43.160 --> 0:03:44.640 Yeah, your style. I like you. 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.040 But you were so nervous because you know, you don't 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:52.240 want to screw up run club, but you hate. 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.000 You gonna have to pick up the paste of avoiter practice. 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:57.040 So what did you do? I mean you went out 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:59.080 on an official date after this? Right? 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:02.280 Yeah, I didn't want to go somewhere too fancy, but 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:04.160 I also didn't want to go to like a Denny's 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:04.640 or something. 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:05.840 So I picked a like the. 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:08.680 Middle of the road Italian restaurant that I've been to before, 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:09.920 and I knew the food was good. 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:11.280 You could say Olive Gardens. 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:16.240 I mean we all have, no, it was definitely better 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:17.200 than Olive Garden. 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:18.000 Olive Garden is. 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:19.960 Like the fast food of Italian restaurant. 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:24.760 We love that Alfredo, yeah, but we love fast food, 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:25.520 so it's okay. 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:28.240 So you went to the Macaroni Bar and Grill and 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:29.880 how was it there? 0:04:30.440 --> 0:04:30.680 Oh? 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:32.400 God, we're just teasing you. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:35.120 We don't care about the actual Italian restaurant you win, 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:36.760 like a local time. 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:39.800 It's not important, guys. 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:42.080 We're more interested in your bond and connection with Brenda. 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:44.919 While you were there, I feel like the night was 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:47.520 going really good. Our conversation was good. I felt like 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:51.880 we clicked. And at some point, you know how they 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:56.480 serve bread and they have like a little fabric thing underneath. 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:59.960 It, napkin. Yeah, we're familiar with napkin. 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.240 Well, it's like a doily. 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:02.320 I think they call it. 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.000 Oh yeah, I can say that. 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:07.640 Oh yeah, we were still thinking olive gardens. 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:09.839 What happened with the doily? 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:13.600 So there was underneath it? There was like a half 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:16.320 ripped It seemed like a breakup note. 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.080 Oh my god, like a Dear John letter. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.080 It was strange. It was like only like half of 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:22.839 it though, and it was kind of smudgie, but you 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:25.720 could tell it was I don't know, it was like 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:27.800 a breakup note is the only way I could describe it. 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:30.039 So was that like a fun thing to talk about 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:31.560 on your date? No? 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:34.000 I mean I thought it was kind of funny in 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:37.599 a way. But she did not really react at all. 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:41.359 It changed the vibe for sure, because I went to 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:44.480 the bathroom and then when I got back from the bathroom, 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:48.479 I felt like the air had changed. She like didn't 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:51.200 want dessert. She's like, oh, okay, you could just take 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:53.320 me home, like real matter of fact. 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:55.719 No, oh god. 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:58.120 I mean, do you think it reminded her of a 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.520 past breakup and it made her sad? 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:02.680 I don't know if that's what it was. I'm just 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:06.760 like guessing here, but something happened that she didn't like, 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:09.279 and she kind of like ended it. 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:12.200 Well, clearly she understood that they sat you down at 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.640 the breakup table inside the restaurant. 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:17.640 She was upset you took her to a restaurant where 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:18.960 they don't clean the tables very well. 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.039 Geez yeah, I mean that sounds like it's kind of 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:25.400 like a bad omen for your first date. 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:27.120 But that's not your fault, Like I think you can 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:27.960 recover from that. 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:29.960 It's not like I think it'd be a good open. 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:30.360 I'd read it. 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:32.839 I try to find out whose couple is and I waiter. 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:34.560 With Alexis it be juicy gossip? 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:35.320 Talk about it? 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:38.040 You could bond over it, like as we're starting, somebody 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:38.560 else ended. 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:39.880 What was the ride home like? 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:44.560 In the car, awkward, quiet, like I was trying to 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:47.279 make conversation and it was just I don't know, Like 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:51.360 I said, the air change, the vibe was okay, interesting. 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:53.200 Have you seen her at run club since? 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:57.360 No, I've been back there a few times. I called her, 0:06:57.400 --> 0:06:59.720 I texted her, I messaged her on Facebook. 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:01.599 Oh wow, okay, yeah she is. 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:05.680 Yeah, she's definitely avoid of communication. 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:09.360 Brother. Okay, and now we're gonna call her. 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.760 He left smudge notes at every table that she was 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:14.320 gonna be at for every restaurant she was about to visit. 0:07:14.520 --> 0:07:16.880 Oh well, I mean, we may not know exactly what 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:19.119 it is, but we are committed to helping you figure 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:21.360 it out, Rick, because we're gonna call Brenda in just 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:23.480 a few minutes here and try and get you your 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:26.320 second date update right after this hold on. 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:28.600 Second date update. 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:34.080 Can you get blocked by somebody else's tragic breakup? 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:35.200 That's funny? 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:36.600 Oh my god, that's what. 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:39.360 Our listener Rick is wondering because he took a woman 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:43.760 named Brenda out to a mid tier Italian restaurant. His 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:47.840 description not ours, but at the bottom of their bread bowl, 0:07:47.840 --> 0:07:50.600 they found part of a breakup note that a previous 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:55.400 couple had apparently left underneath the doily if, which Rick. 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:57.080 Found kind of amusing. 0:07:57.320 --> 0:08:01.400 Yeah, but after that, he says, the whole mood suddenly shifted, 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:04.160 and Brenda asked if he could take her back home. 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:07.280 Yeah, and she's been avoiding him at all costs. 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.800 Yeah, so weird and take her home not in the fun. 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:11.760 Hey, let's go back to my place and I'll show 0:08:11.800 --> 0:08:14.240 you my fish tank kind of way that I'm ready 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:17.320 for the night to be over right now, kind of where. 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.280 You know, how to get to a girl. We love 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:20.160 seeing fish takes. 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:23.200 Oh yeah, any sort of pet you're all in. 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:26.240 Yeah, But, like Brooks said, the real red flag is 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:29.600 she stops showing up to Run club, which I guess 0:08:29.640 --> 0:08:32.080 she wasn't really a huge fan of anyway. But still 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:35.920 something's going on, Yeah, to make her totally disappear, and 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:37.520 we're trying to figure that out. 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:39.200 Rick, that's got to be it. 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:41.400 Like I remember going to see do you remember Jennifer 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:44.280 Andison's movie Breakup? I don't know if you guys remember it, 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:47.240 but I went with a date and we both left 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:51.079 being like, Ugh, this isn't gonna work. Oh yeah, I 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:53.040 just I don't know it Just like brought up all 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:55.839 these feelings of like I'm really settling right now? 0:08:56.080 --> 0:08:59.120 Does something bad happen in the breakup? 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:04.240 That's the whole fighting, the whole movie. Yeah, maybe that's 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:04.839 how she felt. 0:09:04.960 --> 0:09:07.240 The point is, Rick, we don't want any of those 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:09.440 bad vibes to happen on this call. 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:11.120 We're going to go to bat for you. Are you 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:11.880 ready to do this? 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:14.080 I'm ready as I'm ever gonna be. 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:15.439 Yeah, you're not. 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:17.760 The guy from that breakup letter. You're a great guy 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:19.120 that deserves a chance. 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:20.079 As far as you know. 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:23.720 Wait, it's not very reassuring, Rick, I know it's a joke. 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:25.079 That's it. Now is the time. 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:27.440 You're joking? 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:31.200 Yeah, of course I'm joking. Guys, Come on, you. 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:32.880 Have to be sure before we do there. 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:46.280 We'll find out here we go. Oho, Hey is this Brenda? 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:49.520 Yeah? This is who's calling? 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:52.800 Who's calling is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:53.280 in the Morning. 0:09:53.880 --> 0:10:04.320 Hello, good morning, Okay, a normal thing, we get it, Brenda? Yeah, Okay, 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:06.600 did I win something or what's going on? 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:07.920 Yeah? 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:09.559 It's always the hopeful response, isn't it. 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:09.840 Jeff. 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:12.240 It's tough when people ask that because I don't know 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:14.720 the right way to respond. Other than to say no, 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:17.080 not really. This is a segment we do called a 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:18.079 second date Update. 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:20.359 Okay. 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:22.600 We try to help out a listener who's gone out 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:24.840 on a date with somebody recently, but they're not getting 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:27.680 a callback for a second one. We try to help 0:10:27.720 --> 0:10:30.480 step in and figure out the reason why, if. 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:31.000 There is a reason. 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:34.719 Yeah, this guy that reached out about you, his name 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:35.200 is Rick. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:38.000 Oh. 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.320 We're trying to help Rick figure out what's gone on 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:42.680 since your date because he says he hasn't even seen 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:43.600 you at run Club. 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:48.720 I mean, yeah, I haven't been there. 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:51.760 Did you quit because of him? 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:52.920 Yeah? 0:10:53.160 --> 0:10:58.760 All right, so it sounds like this isn't just a coincidence. 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:00.679 You're actually trying to avoid him. 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:03.720 I am avoiding him, yes, all right, okay. 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.800 So if you could help explain like why you're trying 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:09.319 to avoid him, because Rick is pretty clueless. 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:12.959 I mean, we had been talking for quite a while 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:16.120 at run Club and I thought he was different than 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:18.679 other guys, But after our date, I don't think he is. 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:20.400 What what do you mean? 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:22.160 What what are other guys like? 0:11:22.320 --> 0:11:24.360 I guess is maybe where we should start. 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:29.280 I mean, like just cheating on people. 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.559 And doing it. 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:33.400 You think Rick's a cheater. 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:38.079 Yeah, I don't understand this. Rick said, this was your 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:38.800 first date. 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:42.800 Yeah, so my friends who date a lot more than 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:45.840 I do, taught me this trick that like, you don't 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:48.760 want to like go in someone's phone because that's just 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:52.079 sort of rude. But when he went to the bathroom, 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:53.360 he left his phone on the table. 0:11:53.600 --> 0:11:55.360 Yeah, what you. 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:58.679 Do is you call the guy's phone when he goes away, 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:00.440 and you see name. 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:05.640 Popstep saved his phone. 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:09.040 Yeah, so when he went to the bathroom, I called 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:13.559 his phone. The name that popped up on the screen 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:15.720 for my number, said Matthew. 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:18.800 Matthew. 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:22.120 I mean, I don't know what conclusion would you guys 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:27.160 come up with if you saw that, Oh. 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:28.319 Exactly what I would see where you would jump to 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:31.959 that conclusion. The only time a guy would change a 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:35.120 woman's name in his phone to a male name is 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:39.520 so that his Yeah, other female in his life wouldn't 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:40.840 know who's calling, got it. 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:44.160 So that's the reason why you asked him to take 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:44.640 you home. 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:47.679 Yeah, when he came back, I wasn't in the mid 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:49.800 for dessert. I was just ready to go. 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:52.760 So so wait, but you never accused him. You never said, hey, 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:54.280 you're in a relationship with. 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:57.120 The heck yeah, because I mean it's only a first 0:12:57.240 --> 0:12:59.200 date and I don't know this person. 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:01.640 I don't believe also, just spent two months with him 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:03.280 at the run club, you know what I mean? Like, 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:05.920 I think you have every right to be angry. That's 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:07.319 two months of him lying to you. 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:11.120 Brook wants you to confront him right now, actually because 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:13.400 she does essentially. 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:13.920 What is happening. 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:16.840 She wants it to happen because we actually already have 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:19.880 Rick on the other line listening to this, waiting to 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:30.000 talk seriously. Yeah, Rick, Hi, yeah, yes, hello, I'd start 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:31.440 explaining yourself there, Rick. 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:36.080 What is there to explain the thing? 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:39.640 That's why would you call a radio show if you're 0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:41.079 in another relationship. 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:43.199 I'm not in a relationship. 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:46.320 Okay, why did you name me Matthew and your phone? 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:53.520 Because I just thought it was funny. There's just I 0:13:53.559 --> 0:14:00.040 have my reasons. 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:57.520 Reason, but it's not. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:13:59.839 But you think the reason you don't have an okay 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:01.080 right now is that. 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:03.760 Sounds like I can hear him thinking right now. 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:04.000 Yeah. 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:06.480 Literally, I don't have anything to have an excuse for. 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:11.880 I mean, I'm dating technically, I don't be a problem. 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:14.520 So there are other women that you're going out with. 0:14:14.480 --> 0:14:16.520 But no one that you call a girlfriend or you're 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:19.440 committed to wife. 0:14:19.800 --> 0:14:24.000 I'm seeing other people, and for their protection, I change 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:25.760 their names in my phone. 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:30.080 Oh wow, who else is texting you? 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:32.680 Not only do I have a Matthew, but I have 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:34.000 a John, I have a Mark. 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:36.280 I've got a lot of names. You got all the Apostles. 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:38.040 You're just going right down the New Testament. 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:42.800 You with Bible references. It's weird. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:45.440 I mean, you guys are laughing. But I'm going on 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:49.760 three dates in one week. I don't want these girls 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.080 to feel bad, so I want a guy's name to 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:55.400 pop up at my phone rings so none of them 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:55.840 feel bad. 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:58.240 See for me, that would spark a whole new round 0:14:58.280 --> 0:14:59.360 of suspicions. 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:08.160 Why does John keep asking what you're wearing? Times? 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:11.440 I don't know. He's spinning it like it's for our protection, 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:15.200 but I know that people very It just seems dishonest 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:16.880 and weird. 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:20.640 Not dishonest or weird. It's just the way that I date. 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:23.880 Okay, okay, anything, it's all the women going through his 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:25.560 phone there maybe a little dishonest. 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:27.320 Well let me let me try to clear things up here, 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:29.600 because Rick, you say you're seeing a bunch of different 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:32.080 women and you're dating around, and that's totally fine. But 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:34.880 can I ask you, are any of these ladies in 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:39.320 your life? Would any of them consider themselves as your girlfriend? 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:43.200 Or is this just like you don't see them as 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:43.560 your girl? 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:45.000 That's a good question. 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:46.680 He's like, well, I got a couple of clinging ones. 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:50.080 Yeah, a couple of them might. 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.560 A couple of them might say they're your girlfriend. 0:15:53.880 --> 0:16:00.400 Yeah, if you ask them, possibly, why would they say that? 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:00.800 Yeah? 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:04.160 Would they think that because you told them that? 0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:07.720 No, I've never used the term girlfriend in any of 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:10.040 my dating experience. 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:12.120 Okay, I mean at this point, we are running out 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:14.360 of time, so I do need to ask if you 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:15.480 want to go out on another date? 0:16:15.520 --> 0:16:18.320 But how many run clubs are you in right now? Rick? 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:18.560 Oh? 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:19.440 To meet all these men? 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:24.240 Yeah? I mean whatever, they are just the one all right? 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:25.960 But he's in a bowling league. 0:16:26.200 --> 0:16:29.680 He's also part of a white tasting club club. 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:32.360 And I know this is all looking pretty bad. But 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:35.360 despite what you've heard, would you be willing to give 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:38.440 Rick one more chance and go on another date with him? 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:39.400 Because we'd pay for it? 0:16:39.960 --> 0:16:43.120 No, I don't trust an You guys like well, you 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:44.880 shouldn't a guy agree with you right now? 0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:45.360 The text war. 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:47.160 When a guy says there's a couple of women who 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:50.120 think they're my girlfriend, it's usually a pretty big red flag. 0:16:51.280 --> 0:16:52.920 Yeah, well, Rick man, I'm sorry. 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:54.720 It looks like you're gonna have to block Matthew in 0:16:54.760 --> 0:16:57.080 your phone now, So darn I. 0:16:57.000 --> 0:16:58.400 Think Matthew's blocking him. 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:03.760 Double ye yeah whatever things anyways, I guess I don't know. 0:17:04.320 --> 0:17:05.520 Look how heartbroken he is. 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:09.200 This one hurts what girlfriend is? He's going to rush 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:11.120 home to let me get out. 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:15.880 The Bible and I'll find out. Gabriel. Oh no, he's 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:18.399 the saucy one. Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:21.200 I thought it was a good point Alexis brought up 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:28.280 because it saying, but you know, it does sound like 0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:30.840 it's an okay idea to do with just a couple 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:33.959 of names. But when you're juggling a bunch of different 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:37.560 dudes names, swapping him out for girls names, it's gotta 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:39.879