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Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Cambridge Edge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Tea's and

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Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Hey, I'm so

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Speaker 2: Apparently Jim Bellino thought he would clear things up by

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Speaker 2: going on Kelly Dodd and her husband Rick Levinthal's Patreon,

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Speaker 2: which I'm a little bit confused by this because I

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Speaker 2: had thought that Kelly Dodd said she wasn't ever going

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Speaker 2: to recap Orange County anymore because it was so terrible?

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Speaker 2: Am I Am I wrong on that statement? No, right,

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Speaker 2: that happened, But yet here we are. Jim Bellino went

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Speaker 2: on their show. He's shared his thoughts on his ex

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Speaker 2: wife Alexis and on Jensen's relationship. He said, I'm devastated,

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Speaker 2: can you tell? He joked after being asked about Alexis

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Speaker 2: and John, and he said, honestly, I check in with

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Speaker 2: my children. I'm a good dad. What I really care

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Speaker 2: about is how the person that Alexis is with affects

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Speaker 2: my children. I hear nothing but good things. He's what

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Speaker 2: a gentleman? Well that's what I'm what a gentleman? Because

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Speaker 2: if there was ever a time to take a swing.

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Speaker 2: That was it, right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this guy's so far a class at Good for

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Speaker 3: you because what he said, you know, what I care

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Speaker 3: about is what you know how he is with my kids.

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Speaker 3: That's great, and you do want your exes to move on,

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Speaker 3: I mean.

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Speaker 2: But also he does have a little bit of a problem.

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Speaker 2: He does have a little bit of skin in the

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Speaker 2: game because he originally allegedly I don't know the exact amounts,

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Speaker 2: but sued Shannon and Tamra for going on a Heather

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Speaker 2: McDonald live show and for disparaging comments or whatever it

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Speaker 2: may be. So clearly he has a lot to gain

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Speaker 2: with showing that Alexis is doing the right thing once

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Speaker 2: again and blah blah blah, or you just do it.

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Speaker 2: I mean. But also, how can you say that somebody's

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Speaker 2: an opportunist or not when you're going on a podcast,

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Speaker 2: you're no longer having a platform and you're willing to share.

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Speaker 2: Are you talking about him? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well, look, if you don't want to be in it,

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Speaker 3: then you stop talking about it. The longer you talk

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Speaker 3: about it, the more life you give it. I think

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Speaker 3: that's true with anything, and certainly in the housewives world.

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Speaker 3: So anybody that wants to be on the show certainly

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Speaker 3: is welcoming that attention and welcoming that conversation to persist.

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Speaker 2: When Jim was then asked if he'd be happy when

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Speaker 2: Alexis and John Webb because it would mean he would

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Speaker 2: no longer have to pay her alimony, Jim seemingly denied

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Speaker 2: that was the case. That's actually something I can't comment

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Speaker 2: on regarding the alimony because that's an up in the

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Speaker 2: air subject whether alimony would stop or not. Isn't that

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Speaker 2: like in.

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Speaker 3: Law don't know, never got any so that lawsuits instead

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Speaker 3: and a whole lot of other shit, wouldn't know.

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Speaker 2: I do think in most I feel like I could

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Speaker 2: probably go into my prenup. I think that once you're married,

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Speaker 2: alimony stops.

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Speaker 3: In most cases, yes, you become the other guy's problem

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Speaker 3: with the other guy's expense.

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Speaker 2: Child support, however, does not stop until the age of

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Speaker 2: eighteen or twenty one, if they're going to call it

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Speaker 2: that's right or right? Okay, I mean not that I

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Speaker 2: not that I've researched brushed up on any honey, But yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I am quite aware.

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Speaker 3: Knowledge is power.

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Speaker 2: Knowledge is power. So we are on season eighteen, episode ten,

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Speaker 2: the girls get ready for dinner. Emily tells Alexis the

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Speaker 2: videos came up that the situation is getting dirty and mean. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Alexis says it's hard on her too, and everyone is

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Speaker 2: taking pity on Shannon. Alexis decides not to join everyone

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Speaker 2: at dinner. Did Alexis, in your opinion, make the right

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think that there's no winning with Alexis going to dinner.

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Speaker 3: Let Shinnon have a moment of peace, and you know,

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Speaker 3: the story'll still be there. It's not like it's going anywhere,

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Speaker 3: So that's that doesn't bother me.

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Speaker 2: But my favorite part was when Alexis says this. I

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Speaker 2: assumed Emily would have like been like, come on, let's go.

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Speaker 3: She said okay, which I kind of appreciated because I

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Speaker 3: wish that that would happen somewhere with me, Like yeah, girl,

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's also like when people run out and everybody

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and then they have the booms and people.

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Speaker 3: Are so yeah, you know the women on the show.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, just that broad run off, like can we

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I feel like Alexis wanted Emily to be like, no, please.

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Speaker 3: Well didn't happen, so you got to You got the

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Speaker 2: But I feel like she might have the rest of

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Speaker 2: the season off until the end because we don't see

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Speaker 2: her on the trip. I don't know this for a fact.

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Speaker 2: What trip are you talking about there, Alexis.

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Speaker 3: Well, but it's Shannon's trip and she said you're not

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Speaker 3: coming right. Well that's fair, I mean why should she look?

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Speaker 3: If I were Shannon, I wouldn't bite Alexis either. There's

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Speaker 3: no no good is going to come out of it.

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Speaker 3: What are we going to go to London and fight for?

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Speaker 3: However many you know those trips like seventy two hours

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Speaker 3: and with no food, bad food, liquor, and no sleep.

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Speaker 3: So I think that Shinna did the right thing.

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Speaker 2: But what are your thoughts on Granted, Alexis is not

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Speaker 2: a housewife, she's a friend of but.

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Speaker 3: I put in a lot of work for somebody who's

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Speaker 2: But I have kind I mean, I've done the map,

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Speaker 2: like showing up you're kind of You're still making decent

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Speaker 2: money if you show up consistently yeah, but.

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Speaker 3: Do you.

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Speaker 2: I guess My question is Alexis has put herself out

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Speaker 2: then it's going to stop. Yes, was it worth it?

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Speaker 3: That's only only Alexis can answer that question. She has

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Speaker 3: to do what's right for her. This is what you

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Speaker 3: know when people say, well I wouldn't have done it, Well,

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Speaker 3: good for you. You're not Alexis, You're not Shannon, You're not

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Speaker 3: in these situations. I mean, each person has to decide

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Speaker 3: what's worth it to them.

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Speaker 2: What does she want?

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Speaker 3: I guess, and we won't. I mean, we're not asking her,

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Speaker 3: so we don't know. But if she wanted to come on,

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Speaker 3: and you know, I don't know what her goal was.

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Speaker 2: But what is your thoughts on a housewife refusing to

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Speaker 3: That's not okay, because it's like when Lisa Vanda pump

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Speaker 3: there were a lot of times I didn't want to film.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to answer a lot of questions, which

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Speaker 3: I honored my contract or. I should have packed my

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Speaker 2: Know what, I have to bow out. Yeah, I'm done.

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Speaker 3: I'm done. Not because I can't take it, but because

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Speaker 3: I can't take it, you know. Yeah, I don't think

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Speaker 3: that's okay. You can't refuse that. That's not a it's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think that's probably I think I wonder

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Speaker 2: if that was something that happened in previous years. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I'll never work with her. I mean, I think at

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Speaker 2: some point there has been some housewives that have been

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Speaker 2: like what's happening on New Jersey this year, where I

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Speaker 2: think they're hoping that they're going to push Teresa out.

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Speaker 2: And I just I personally, whether I think Teresa and

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Speaker 2: Louis are great or not, I personally think pushing her

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Speaker 3: I don't know enough about it to comment. I do

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Speaker 3: cast works very hard. Teresa, Margaret, Melissa, you know, they've

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Speaker 3: all been very friendly to me. Dolores, I mean.

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Speaker 2: I love her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, It's just I don't I have that is.

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Speaker 2: Above my pay grade, and she's She's like, not what

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Speaker 2: we're talking about, getting back to Ocie.

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Speaker 3: Getting back to this.

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Speaker 2: Then the women sit down for dinner. Heather reads a

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Speaker 2: text from Alexis saying she doesn't understand why Gina brought

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Speaker 2: up the videos when they aren't getting released. Shannon says

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Speaker 2: Alexis and John are strategizing and that she and John

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Speaker 2: used to do the same thing before filming.

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Speaker 3: Very telling, very telling. John and I used to do

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Speaker 2: It if you're if you're significant.

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Speaker 3: Strategize, be honest. There was a moment I didn't even

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Speaker 3: just gonna say, and truth was he didn't even know

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Speaker 3: my name sometimes, But that's another conversation. But Tom never

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Speaker 3: and just really sort of, you know, listen and try

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Speaker 2: Our strategy was only because our first time filming a date. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because because Edwin is like one of those people and

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Speaker 2: you know him now at this point where he just

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Speaker 2: they were you know, this was way before Dove, way

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Speaker 3: Talking about You've been talking about things that you've been

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Speaker 2: And so they're like, you should talk about if you

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Speaker 2: want to have another baby, and so we start talking

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Speaker 3: They let me ask you in them truthfully.

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Speaker 2: I honestly wanted to die in that moment. Well you

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Speaker 3: They they didn't show some things of Tom the way

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Speaker 3: he spoke down to me because it would have killed.

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Speaker 2: I mean killed him, it would had they shown that.

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Speaker 2: And then had we had car cams on the way home.

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Speaker 2: Oh did you let him have it? I mean I

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Speaker 2: real life. It's like imagine being on a double date

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Speaker 2: and your husband saying some shit like that, but you

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Speaker 2: kind of suck it up. I did it for years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just you smile and you're like off your shoulders

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Speaker 3: because it doesn't do anything for you in the moment,

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Speaker 3: and you're also on camera. Yeah, you guys, suck that

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Speaker 2: So I like sucked it up. And I was like,

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Speaker 2: I am disgusted that you said that. I'm furious that

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Speaker 2: you said that. You embarrass me, you hurt me, you know,

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Speaker 2: my past issues, like all of these things. And I

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Speaker 2: some dumbass men will.

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Speaker 3: Say more than I think you're willing to admit, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm drinking to to make it stop, Yeah, to numb myself,

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Speaker 3: And guess what, now that I'm healthy and now that

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Speaker 2: It was a different person than I've ever seen, a

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Speaker 3: You can't have it both ways. We're either gonna stand

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Speaker 3: Well, you tell me what you thought was in the videos?

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Speaker 3: My lovely Leanne Lockin, You're a legend?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like my panty liner is tired of the storyline

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Speaker 2: She's a fucking legend. But the women are splitting up,

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Speaker 3: I wish.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, you're told. And then that's why you have

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Speaker 3: I like Tamra, I like Emily. That's a bridge too

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Speaker 2: Listen, I like you a lot, but I'm not. I

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Speaker 3: That's the great part about shooting a season is you

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Speaker 2: Do you think she was stressed like they couldn't get

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Speaker 3: I let me not speculate.

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Speaker 3: But I know that there were times that I I'll

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Speaker 3: without a fight. You know, that was a struggle.

438
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,679
Speaker 2: And I just want to be clear. It's not that

439
00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 2: nobody is going to come in and wake you up.

440
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:45,720
Speaker 3: No, you have to get up on your own. Yeah,

441
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,639
Speaker 3: that you have a commitment to wake up and to

442
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 3: show up at the right time, and then if you

443
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:54,160
Speaker 3: don't show up, that's right, that's on you. That's on you,

444
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 3: and then that's on you. And I'm not And I'm

445
00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 3: also not going to go run after someone if they didn't.

446
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 2: Like we're ald adults, but I mean there were times

447
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 2: where we were told, like, you have ten minutes get

448
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 2: down to breakfast, and you do have ten minutes, and

449
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,360
Speaker 2: you have ten minutes and it's your job, and if

450
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 2: you're unable to do your job, I do think there's

451
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:15,879
Speaker 2: room for concern.

452
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 3: Yes, for sure, like if you're I mean again, we

453
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 3: weren't there, so let's not jump to conclusions.

454
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 2: But if when we got to moments where Denise, oh

455
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:32,160
Speaker 2: my god, you know god, we got to moments where Denise, yeah,

456
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 2: welcome to life with me. We got to moments where

457
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,719
Speaker 2: Denise wouldn't show up to things, that was so frustrating,

458
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 2: and she would demand a hotel room even though we're

459
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 2: all filming in la and we're doing whatever.

460
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,640
Speaker 3: And at the Waldorf, at the fucking Waldorf, and they

461
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:46,360
Speaker 3: paid for it.

462
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 2: Do cut that out? Yeah, Like they put her in

463
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 2: a hotel to show up to the finale, and then

464
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 2: she never showed up to the finale. That's like to me,

465
00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 2: those are irritating things. And it's also signed of a

466
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 2: problem in your life. If you commit to something and

467
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 2: you can't show up, you got to show up.

468
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 3: But I do think that Shannon has real problems here.

469
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,680
Speaker 3: I don't think that she's making it up.

470
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:11,479
Speaker 2: Well, I don't think she's making it up.

471
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you don't, but but you know, yeah.

472
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: But it's but also do you think, Okay, let's say

473
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 2: I had a drinking or a pill or whatever problem.

474
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 2: Would you be mad at me if I I I

475
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 2: if it was years and years or would you try

476
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 2: to help me? Like, would you be going and getting

477
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 2: me up to go?

478
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:37,160
Speaker 3: You've touched on something years and years, So at first,

479
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 3: if you were going through a very stressful time, I'd

480
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,120
Speaker 3: be like, you know what, let's leave her be now.

481
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 3: Then after a while it becomes a problem. No, I'm

482
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,479
Speaker 3: not going to get you. No, I'm not checking on you.

483
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: We're all adults and you have to handle that yourself.

484
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 3: And if you can't, you need to speak out and

485
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 3: you know, maybe have somebody. You have to make the

486
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 3: right choices to succeed here, because shit's bad, life's bad,

487
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 3: You're under a lot of stress. You can't continuously make

488
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 3: bad decisions and expect a good result. That's what I'm

489
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 3: getting at. It's not being judgmental. It's just that, hey,

490
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 3: if you continue this behavior, you know, nothing good comes

491
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 3: from it. And if we really want to get out

492
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 3: of this place and not feel this way, we can't

493
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 3: have drinks.

494
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, that's not our best thing to do.

495
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 3: It's not the best decision. It's actually the complete opposite

496
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 3: for winning, you know.

497
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 2: Alexis then tells the woman she's willing to move forward

498
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 2: and find a way to coexist with Shannon, which I

499
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:41,160
Speaker 2: thought was nice. I thought that this was Alexis's best episode.

500
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, which I thought is you know. I mean, oh

501
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 3: my god, I'm such an ass to do strategize.

502
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 2: Sorry.

503
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, ah, the conversations in my head are lovely. Yeah,

504
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 3: I'm hoping that was from the heart. You know that

505
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 3: that comes from thoughtful like you know, I'm hoping.

506
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 2: So And then Tamra says it kills her to watch

507
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 2: Shannon order drinks. Gina tells Tarma she can't set the

508
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 2: boundaries for everyone else.

509
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 3: But she can't be annoyed. Yes, she can't express Look, no,

510
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 3: you can't set the boundaries for anybody else. At the

511
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 3: end of the day, people are going to do what

512
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 3: they want to do. But it doesn't mean that you

513
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:28,359
Speaker 3: can't say, hey, like you just said about our other friend,

514
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 3: that can't fuck everybody else up, you know, right?

515
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 2: And I mean, Alexis, I hate to break it to you,

516
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 2: but I I don't think that you're the one setting

517
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 2: the boundaries at this point. No, like you're You're just

518
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 2: you're playing along with whatever is going to happen with

519
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,360
Speaker 2: Shannon at this current time.

520
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: Yea.

521
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 2: Then Katie tells Heather that everything that happened was a setup.

522
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,120
Speaker 2: Heather says that will first year setup for We love it.

523
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 2: We love you first your setup, we love to do it.

524
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 3: We all have friendship going really thriving.

525
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 2: Heather says they're going backwards now and she doesn't want

526
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 2: to go there is there a different way Katie should

527
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 2: be playing this.

528
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 3: I take full responsibility for my part in what I did. Heather,

529
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 3: I'm very sorry.

530
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: Leave it.

531
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't bring it up with anybody else. If you

532
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 3: want to cuss out Gene on the side, that's fine,

533
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 3: But don't say the devil made me do it.

534
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I may have said that from time

535
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 2: to time.

536
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 3: I may take this as a growth moment.

537
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 2: We're growing here. We grow here on the growth mind.

538
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:40,639
Speaker 2: We're actually a motivational podcast. Now we've switched over. But

539
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 2: in golf terms, Katie took a whiff at this one.

540
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, just just just say I take responsibility for, you know,

541
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 3: my bad behavior, and move on.

542
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 2: Yeah. Then the women arrive at the family Equality event,

543
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:59,159
Speaker 2: which was nice. It was nice. Emily and Alexis are

544
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 2: wearing the same dress, which upsets Emily. The designer puts

545
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: Emily and she says in quotes oversized jacket and yeah,

546
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: and Emily is the one who had to bring her

547
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 2: own genes, which makes Emily feel not great. I'm gonna

548
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 2: pass this to you from somebody who has dealt with

549
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 2: an eating disorder and also having body dysmorphia. I think

550
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 2: it's very hard because people will say comments like, oh,

551
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 2: she said she's insecure about her arms, but then she's

552
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 2: wearing a tank top and all of her confessionals, or

553
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 2: she's her whole storyline is how she's being fit, but

554
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 2: now she's feeling insecure. I think that we can't control

555
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 2: how we feel in our own bodies. And there are

556
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 2: times in my life where my it doesn't matter like

557
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 2: the number on the scale. Truthfully, but if I'm in

558
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 2: a good place in my life and I'm feeling confident

559
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 2: and good, I can feel really sexy, I can feel

560
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 2: really attractive, i can feel really proud of how I'm doing.

561
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 2: And then there are times when I'm not doing well.

562
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 2: I may be the skinniest I've ever heard, but I

563
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 2: will see myself in a very ugly way. But also,

564
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: I think a part that's not being discussed, in which

565
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 2: we're all judging is comparison kills all joy. Yes, and

566
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 2: so if you're sitting there, and we have to also

567
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 2: remember Emily's significantly taller than the majority of the girls.

568
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 2: When you're put in clothing and you're and you're you know,

569
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 2: you're not forced, but you're asked to do a situation

570
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: where you show yourself off in a different way.

571
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 3: I say no, that's the thing. You're not forced, but

572
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 3: you can't say no. I don't know what that means.

573
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't think that we can, regardless of

574
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 2: how Emily the same way that you will say, how

575
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 2: many fucks do I give?

576
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 3: Zero?

577
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 2: None, not one, Emily will say the same thing when

578
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 2: it comes to her physical self, but clearly she's showing

579
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 2: now that she does. Well. You're look.

580
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 3: No one is one hundred percent all the time, confident,

581
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 3: comfortable in their own skin, and nothing everything just bounces

582
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 3: off them. I think that that's misleading. Yeah, human beings,

583
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 3: we are allowed to feel good, bad, mixed, confused, angry, sad.

584
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 3: So I understand what you said. One day I may

585
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 3: be feeling awesome, and the next day, even though I

586
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 3: may be the same weight or whatever, I feel disgusting.

587
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 3: Maybe not disgusting, just I don't feel confident. And I

588
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: have this too sometimes, like in costume on stage, you know,

589
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 3: I look at it. I was really thin for better

590
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 3: at all, and blonde on purpose because I knew that

591
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 3: we were making a doc and I wanted it to

592
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 3: look a certain way. So I really scaled down and

593
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 3: I'm glad. I did, because now when I look at it,

594
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, ah, I like the way I look, But

595
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 3: that doesn't mean that I liked the way my face looked. Yeah,

596
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 3: because I looked haggard when I saw you, you know,

597
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 3: in Vegas. I just looked tired and run down. That

598
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 3: being said, look, is there too much emphasis on us

599
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 3: as women and our appearance? Yes, but are we on

600
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 3: a television show that's about lifestyle and appearance.

601
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: Yeah?

602
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 3: Yeah. And it's okay to feel good, and it's okay

603
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 3: to feel.

604
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 2: Bad, And I think that it's okay to say, like,

605
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 2: from one season to another, it's okay to say, like, yeah,

606
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 2: I'm a fuck it, I'm gonna go in the sauna

607
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 2: and eat it. Because there was one point where like,

608
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: she goes in the sauna and sheats like a subway

609
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 2: sandwich and everybody's like laughing at her, and she's like,

610
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 2: I fucking own it. I wanted this sandwich. To then

611
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 2: go into the next season and be in a different

612
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: part of your life and you've changed so many parts

613
00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: of it, and then all of a sudden you see changes,

614
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 2: and then they're not quite the changes. Other people aren't

615
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 2: seeing the changes that you may be seeing. And so

616
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 2: then they say a word like oversized or I mean,

617
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 2: I know, even for me, if I go for a

618
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 2: photoshoot and I mean, I'm a million years past where

619
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 2: I was. But if I go for a photo shoot

620
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 2: and I'm a small like in general.

621
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 3: She's a small person and she's really tiny.

622
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 2: I am a small human in general. But I went

623
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 2: in for a photo shoot recently and I didn't fit

624
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 2: in scale size. I was too big, like my ribcage

625
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: was too big and they had to pin me.

626
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 3: Did that make you feel a certain way?

627
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: And it made, to be honest, Tamra did. Oh, And

628
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 2: there was a moment. I wasn't mad at Tamra. I

629
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 2: wasn't mad at myself, but there was a moment of like,

630
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed that, like we both sent our sizes and

631
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 2: they were the same, and yet I don't fit in

632
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 2: the dress that they sent for me. Sure, and Tamra

633
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 2: does I see. Yeah, I get it.

634
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 3: I get it, I really do.

635
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: And it's not that I don't like myself or I

636
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 2: hate myself, but I.

637
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 3: Think it's like a reminder of a wound that's there. Yeah,

638
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 3: you know, it's like just like poking a little sensitive

639
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 3: spot and I get that, and that that that still hurts.

640
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: And the thing is that you you know it, acknowledge it,

641
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 3: and how did you overcome it?

642
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 2: No? I just said to them, I said, hey, guys,

643
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 2: I'm fine to wear this dress, but yeah, can I

644
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: don't want to just leave it open. I'd prefer if

645
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 2: we could get hooks and pin it so it's tighter

646
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: against me. It gives you yeah, and and and then

647
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 2: I just pretty much had to like have a conversation

648
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 2: with myself, like Taddy this and I know this is

649
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 2: going to sound crazy to you guys, but like you

650
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 2: have a wide ribcage, you have broader shoulders. This is

651
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 2: who you are.

652
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, you're so tiny compared to me.

653
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 2: No, but like you see what I was saying, like

654
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 2: whatever it may be, like it, I had to like

655
00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 2: give myself that peptic to.

656
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 3: Give yourself some grace. You know, we all need to

657
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 3: like stop beating up on ourselves a little bit, like

658
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 3: it's not your fault.

659
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. But but do you think that Heather knew that

660
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: Emily was feeling that way because she kept asking if

661
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 2: she okay?

662
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,479
Speaker 3: I think the better question is is at what point

663
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 3: did Heather think Emily was not okay, I think that's

664
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 3: the better question. Like, did Heather think about it going

665
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 3: into the fashion show? I don't know when did she start?

666
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 3: Did she hear it from someone else? Like, I don't know.

667
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 2: It seemed like because she seemed very observant of Emily's

668
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 2: mental state around that. But if you're that aware of

669
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 2: it leading into it, you probably would have planned accordingly.

670
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 2: I would have.

671
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't know, Like, I don't know. I was

672
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 3: going to ask you that, do you think Heather had

673
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 3: a discussion with Emily free fashion show?

674
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 2: Hey? What do you?

675
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 3: But then that's awkward too, Hey what are you comfortable with?

676
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: Like? Do you you know? You want to make everybody

677
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 2: feel comfortable? You want to make everybody feel.

678
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 3: Like And I'm not saying that Heather did not do that.

679
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 3: Let's not don't jump to conclusions.

680
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 2: I just don't. We don't know. But then we hear

681
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 2: Emily saying I'm the only one wearing jeans. That being said, Emily,

682
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 2: I thought you looked freaking stunning walking down that runway.

683
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

684
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 3: I thought she did a great job, So.

685
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 2: You owned it. I think you're sexy, I think you're beautiful.

686
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 2: I think that you've worked really hard, and you deserve

687
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 2: to give yourself your flowers like you. Yeah, you should

688
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 2: feel great, but I also understand those moments when even

689
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 2: when you should feel great, that you don't.

690
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 3: That's yes, that's universal.

691
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 2: Then Heather tells Tama that she didn't let Katie talk,

692
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 2: and Tamra says Katie was set up and hung to dry.

693
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 2: Tamra says Gina is behind all of this. She says

694
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 2: Gina told Katie that she was probably right about the paparazzi,

695
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 2: but she can't go there with Heather because Gina has

696
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 2: to keep Heather closed for real estate connected. I love

697
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 2: it so much.

698
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 3: Yes, Now, then it gets into a little we get

699
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 3: into a little word situation here later A word salad,

700
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:22,680
Speaker 3: A word salad. I didn't say that. I said this.

701
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 3: Here's the problem. It may not be the exact verbiage.

702
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 3: If I'm using that correctly, what was the meaning the same? Like,

703
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 3: I don't know this is But do you think.

704
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:38,439
Speaker 2: That Katie may have been fibbing by backtracking, because later

705
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 2: in the episode, Katie backtracks on what she said to Tamra.

706
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 3: I think Katie is experiencing first season putting your foot

707
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 3: in it. That's what I think is happening. I really do.

708
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 2: I like Tina in general, but I don't need to

709
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 2: see this much of her storyline. You mean the what

710
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 2: is it like specifically? Is bothering you? It's bothering me

711
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 2: that I feel like we're seeing a lot of Gina

712
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 2: and not a lot of everybody else.

713
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 3: Like would you like to see more of pretty much anyone?

714
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: Oh, because we're hearing a lot about.

715
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 3: Travis, which I still don't quite understand because they're not

716
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 3: seeing Travis, but I don't understand why he's why they split?

717
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 3: What am I missing?

718
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 2: Financial? So they have eighty two kids and they lived

719
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 2: in a three bedroom.

720
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,959
Speaker 3: So he took himself and his children and moved somewhere else.

721
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 2: She wanted to buy a bigger she wanted them to

722
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 2: have more space. Okay, he couldn't afford to do that,

723
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 2: so she bought herself a place in the same community

724
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 2: that he has a place with his kids. So now

725
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 2: they're like communal, living back and forth between each other's place.

726
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 3: I so they didn't put the money together to get

727
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 3: the bigger place.

728
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 2: And no because potentially issues with an ex wife of

729
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 2: his or Okay, it's really unclear. My guess is she's

730
00:36:59,239 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 2: not that.

731
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 3: Into him, and it feels like she's very much focused

732
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 3: on her career and her future, which is great and

733
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 3: it's great. I'm just telling you that's how right.

734
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 2: But feel in that moment you can kind of get

735
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 2: to a place of some if that person that you're

736
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 2: with doesn't seem like they're as focused on their growth

737
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 2: and their career and financial to me, sometimes it can

738
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 2: be unattractive. I agree, I agree, But then all of

739
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 2: a sudden, when you pull away from it, then you

740
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 2: feel alone.

741
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 3: And you can't have it both ways either, it's not

742
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 3: like it's you can't be like a little bit pregnant

743
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 3: either are or not? You know, like, but it's true.

744
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 3: I mean, what are we doing here?

745
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 2: We're all adults, yeah, and so I but I have

746
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 2: to say I'm a little bit over the Katie Katie

747
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 2: situation of it all. But then, but what would we

748
00:37:56,640 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 2: do if we didn't have it right? We? I mean, we.

749
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 3: Need people to make mistakes so we can talk about it. Well,

750
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 3: add knows, I've made my verysure well other things and

751
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 3: y'all have talked about it, so fuck you.

752
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, I will talk about it in probably six

753
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:16,799
Speaker 2: weeks from now. Can't wait. But if you cannot name

754
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 2: Tamar in this, if you had to pick a best

755
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 2: friend from Mosci, who would have Heather? Have me over

756
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 2: to the Balbo Bay close over here.

757
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 3: To the fucking VH shit. Y'all got room. I'm gonna

758
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 3: hit all of you hoes up here. We got Kyle

759
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 3: dub you. I was going to do a whole tour

760
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 3: her over there. Just drive my ass back on home.

761
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 3: You know, well, I live in a cute neighborhood, but

762
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 3: I'm not flossing like the rest of the ladies.

763
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 2: Well you fla, you lost us for a lot of

764
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 2: I did real good for a long time. Then Tamar

765
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 2: tells Katie she told Heather, and Heather responded that Gina

766
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 2: will never get business from her, and Katie says Gina

767
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 2: is going to hate her forever. Then Alexis tells Heather

768
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,280
Speaker 2: that Emily asked her to talk to Shannon tonight. Heather says,

769
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,919
Speaker 2: this event might be the right moment since it's about love.

770
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 2: I know, I guess it's like the homeless not toothless.

771
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 2: For the record, at a group event, there's never a

772
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 2: right time.

773
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 3: No, But that's also what makes it so great is

774
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 3: that there's never right time, which is why it's the

775
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 3: right time to do these things, because you get the

776
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 3: best reactions and the most awkward of places.

777
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 2: Some of my some of my favorite moments of this night,

778
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 2: which is I feel like we may see Heather tipsy

779
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 2: for the first time, which is fun. Which she's like,

780
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: I need my readers and I'm not having this conversation tonight.

781
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 2: And then there was a moment where I think it's

782
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: prior to Alexis going up to Shannon to try to

783
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:59,320
Speaker 2: have that conversation. Does she say I think you look cute?

784
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 2: Then Shannon completely ignores her.

785
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,919
Speaker 3: You know, it's a long night.

786
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 2: But you know when you like, I'm that person that's

787
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 2: like at the grocery store and like, well awkwardly wave

788
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 2: if I think I see somebody I know, and then

789
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 2: if they don't see it, I'm like, do you really?

790
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't even bother way No, I mean.

791
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 3: That's such a weirdo. I'm like, is that who I

792
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 3: think it is?

793
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 2: And you know, but like it it was pretty I

794
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 2: mean it was pretty telling. Alexis got a talking to.

795
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: She's like, they're like, if you want to keep filming,

796
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 2: you're gonna you're nice. You're gonna be nice, and you're

797
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 2: going to clear this shit up with Shannon.

798
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 3: But I think, look, it is the right thing to do.

799
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 3: Clean it up with Shannon as much as possible, and also, like,

800
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 3: you know, we're on episode ten and let's.

801
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 2: Move along, right. But then Emily tells Shannon for the

802
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 2: sake of the group, they should have a conversation. Shannon

803
00:40:55,680 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 2: says no, right, and then Shannon tells Alexis she's not

804
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 2: interested in talking. I did appreciate that when Shannon said no,

805
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 2: Alexis didn't chase her.

806
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 3: I know that sounds crazy below, it's actually adult. It's

807
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 3: actually the right thing to do, which is no, Okay,

808
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 3: she tried, and you know, look, there's never a right

809
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 3: time to have these really weird conversations.

810
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 2: Is it's not.

811
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 3: But I do appreciate the fact that she didn't chase

812
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 3: after her. She didn't make a big deal.

813
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 2: Yeah. Then the women go bike riding to one last vineyard, Gina.

814
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 3: Toushian River, by the way, have you been there?

815
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: No?

816
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 3: But it looks pretty.

817
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 2: Let's go. Okay, let's do a pod from there. Can

818
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 2: we get in your rvy though the RV's sold. I

819
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 2: know did you get a bigger one?

820
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: No?

821
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,359
Speaker 3: No, let's get on your private plane and.

822
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 2: Let's do you know, let's go to Jez Sweet Axe

823
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 2: and see if we can find a vander Pumper rules plane.

824
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 3: Since they seem to stalk you.

825
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 2: Then Gina tells Katie she's upset that she's circling back

826
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 2: on the situation. Katie says she's heard she's calling her

827
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,760
Speaker 2: a liar. Gina says, she brought Katie into this group,

828
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 2: and she or, I'll check her out, nodding, but also

829
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 2: bringing people into the group really posses me off. What

830
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 2: do you mean by that? Because nobody brings anybody into

831
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 2: the fucking group? Like, did Eileen really bring you into

832
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 2: the group? No? It was Belande, Fine.

833
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,439
Speaker 3: Did you let's say she really did?

834
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 2: Sorry? Did Yolanda really bring you under the group? Really did?

835
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:34,240
Speaker 3: Though?

836
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 2: She did?

837
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

838
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 3: You don't know the story?

839
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 2: No, how I was out?

840
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll tell you, yes, tell it, Okay, I'm confused.

841
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 3: Tom and I went to visit David and Yolanda at

842
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 3: their house in Malibu, and Yolanda was sick and she

843
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 3: was We were talking and then she looked at me

844
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:53,959
Speaker 3: and she said, have you ever thought of being on

845
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 3: Your Housewives of Beverly Hills, and I said no, and

846
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 3: she pulled out her phone and she said, I think

847
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 3: you'd be great. Let me text my boss, which became

848
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 3: our boss, Alex Baskin, which we love who we love,

849
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 3: Hey Alex, And she set up a phone call and

850
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 3: I remember Alex saying, this can either be five minutes

851
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 3: or the rest of you know, however many years, and

852
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 3: it ended up being nine years now, So yeah, she

853
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 3: really did. But I will say this, you know, Lisa

854
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,839
Speaker 3: Renna knew everybody she brought. I mean, if you wanted

855
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:30,720
Speaker 3: Lisa Reynold is like the Lisa Rennet is like the portal.

856
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: But no real. But I think knowing somebody and giving

857
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 2: their name, like there's been a million people like.

858
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 3: Well you refer people.

859
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:42,800
Speaker 2: Even still to this day, I'm not even on the show,

860
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 2: and I still still get text message just like, hey Teddy,

861
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 2: is there anyone that you think that would be good?

862
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 3: And I say yes, and they asked me, and then

863
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 3: then I said I don't have friends, so they stopped

864
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 3: asking me.

865
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 2: They've all been fired.

866
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 3: Yes, I don't have friends, so and nobody asked me

867
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 3: for any recommendations on anything, and I'm okay with that,

868
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 3: but I.

869
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: Still send them. But I wasn't brought in in that

870
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: same way. So are you brought in by I was

871
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 2: brought in because I was on another reality television show,

872
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 2: but I don't know this. Oh yeah, this is the backstory.

873
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 2: It was on e produced by the same company that

874
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 2: does the Kardashians, and it was very It never aired.

875
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 2: I did the pilot and it was like one of

876
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 2: those situations where I was like, this is the worst

877
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 2: thing that I've ever done in my entire life. And

878
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 2: so I called my old boss at CAA that I

879
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,280
Speaker 2: was his assistant, and I said, I signed a contract

880
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 2: to do a show. I'm so scared it's going to

881
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 2: get picked up. Please help me. I did this all

882
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 2: this shit on my own. And he's like, no problem,

883
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to site you up with my junior who's

884
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 2: now like the head of talent or whatever, but it's

885
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 2: still my agent. And I said, please get me out

886
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:59,359
Speaker 2: of this. I can't, I can't, like my I'll die.

887
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 3: I never had these conversations and always like get me

888
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 3: in now.

889
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 2: This was really a doozy of a sage. And so

890
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 2: then at that point my eighth the lady that had

891
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 2: taken over getting me out of that contract said would

892
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 2: you ever do Real Housewives? And at that point, I

893
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:18,760
Speaker 2: truthfully had never watched.

894
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 3: I had not either. People do not believe you when

895
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 3: you say I knew who the players were, but I

896
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 3: had never walked.

897
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,960
Speaker 2: No, like The Bachelor, those types of shows were the

898
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 2: shows that I watched.

899
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 3: I really I remember the Real World in eighty nine

900
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:32,359
Speaker 3: and that was I was.

901
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 2: The Real World road Rules Challenge.

902
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 3: But I remember the original cast.

903
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 2: But I I was like, well, I guess I probably would.

904
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 2: And she goes, would you rather do OC or Beverly

905
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 2: Hills because you have a house with places? And I said,

906
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 2: what do you recommend? And she said Beverly Hills is essentially,

907
00:45:53,960 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 2: for lack of a better words, class here I cannot.

908
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 2: That is brilliant. That was how my first self cleaning started.

909
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 2: Well and here you yep, But either way, so I

910
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:14,439
Speaker 2: wasn't really brought in and then and that's how it goes.

911
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 2: But it is what it is. You know, it's hard

912
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 2: to find housewives.

913
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:21,760
Speaker 3: There are a lot of people that think they are housewives.

914
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 3: I'm going to tell you there are a lot of people.

915
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 3: Do you ever get this? You know, they asked me

916
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:27,200
Speaker 3: to do the show, but I just didn't.

917
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 2: Everybody says that everyone.

918
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,520
Speaker 3: So what I did was I picked up the phone

919
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:37,759
Speaker 3: a couple of times. I was like, I called math too. Oh,

920
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 3: I thought you were going to tell the person that

921
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,760
Speaker 3: we called. No, don't give that person. Don't out that person.

922
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 3: I called, and I was like, Hey, this person is

923
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 3: saying that you offered them the spot but that they refused.

924
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:50,359
Speaker 3: They're like, absolutely not no.

925
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 2: And also this is just like another little like behind

926
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 2: the scenes thing that won't get us ot in trouble

927
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 2: towards the end of every season. I don't know if

928
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 2: you remember this, but remember this season that Camille like

929
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 2: lost her ship at the agency event and they had

930
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,279
Speaker 2: us all walk over to that other girl. She was

931
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 2: like a brunette, and we all started talking to her

932
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 2: for a second. I have no memory. Was that there

933
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: you were what the.

934
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 3: City were we in?

935
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 2: We were in Los Angeles, but they had like a

936
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,839
Speaker 2: really beautiful brunette there, and they had us all walk

937
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 2: over and have little conversations with her. And I was like,

938
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 2: this is so weird. Why are we talking to this girl?

939
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 2: And then I asked the unnamed person, I'm like why

940
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 2: what are we doing? And they were like, we're thinking

941
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 2: of her for next.

942
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 3: Year, so they were testing her.

943
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, she didn't make it, but you do. A few

944
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 2: do and then not many of us make it nine years.

945
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 2: But this is the point.

946
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's something to be proud.

947
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 2: No I am.

948
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding nine years, no soul whatever, I am

949
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:52,560
Speaker 3: every years.

950
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 2: But then Heather brings up the real estate comments and

951
00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 2: Gina says.

952
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 3: Is Gina like balling like Mauricio? No, then don't worry

953
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 3: about it. Do you think Heather's going to give Gina

954
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:05,240
Speaker 3: her listing?

955
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 2: No, she's going to give it to the same She's

956
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 2: gonna want to be on selling Sunset or buying Beverly

957
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 2: Hills or whatever that other show. I know she doesn't

958
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 2: work for any of those companies.

959
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 3: Well, I also think, isn't she new in her She's

960
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 3: starting her career out right right, and also too just.

961
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 2: Starting it out at like a higher platform than most

962
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 2: really well, I mean most new real estate agents aren't

963
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 2: already on television show.

964
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 3: You want to know something funny, these real estate agents

965
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 3: be trying to hit me up. I'm like, bo, have

966
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 3: you looked at me?

967
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 2: Have you googled me lately, like, do you want to

968
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 2: try what score? Yeah?

969
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,280
Speaker 3: No, my credit score is good. I pay my bills,

970
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 3: but like by what? By what lunch?

971
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 2: Like?

972
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:56,960
Speaker 3: The fuck is wrong with you? So stop emailing me please.

973
00:48:58,239 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 3: I don't even know how you got my email.

974
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 2: Also, I need a new fucking email because it could

975
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 2: give me rage. The amount of spam emails that I get.

976
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 3: Every thousand and open messages, it makes me feel ill.

977
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 3: Makes me feel ill too. I wonder if there's like

978
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 3: a program that can go in and delete certain ones,

979
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 3: basically the political ones, and stop asking me for money.

980
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 3: I don't have any for you and your political campaign.

981
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 2: Also to my kids school, I only need one email

982
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 2: a week telling me what I need to do. I

983
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 2: do not at fifteen really is upsetting to me. Do

984
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,760
Speaker 2: you have to do? No? It could be fucking anything.

985
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 2: It's neon day Thursday, it's blah blah blah. Put it

986
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 2: all in one fucking email. Oh I didn't even know that.

987
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: Oh no, they spread it out my kids there, They

988
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 2: spread it out throughout the week. So you can get

989
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 2: multiple emails that you don't check. So you look like

990
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 2: an asshole all the time by not showing up but

991
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 2: then kids are expensive. Oh they're really. It's expensive to

992
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 2: be me.

993
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 3: It much more expensive to be you than me, honey,

994
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 3: let me tell you. Wow, I just thought of that

995
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 3: someone we talked about last week, like what private school

996
00:50:02,480 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 3: costs here in LA and you've got three.

997
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a real freaking problem. And then you have

998
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: to work, and then you have to place your kids

999
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 2: to make sure that you can work, So then really

1000
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 2: you're you're paying to work. But then Tamra says Gina

1001
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 2: is being so defensive that she looks guilty, and Gina

1002
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:25,479
Speaker 2: says she's being passionate. Heather believes Gina. At this point,

1003
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 2: we hear Emily being like, Gina's just going through the

1004
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 2: thick of things.

1005
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 3: I do want to say something to Gina. Look, I

1006
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 3: understand being passionate because when you are accused of things

1007
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 3: you didn't do, and I'm gonna go out on a

1008
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 3: limb with you and say that you didn't do it, rage.

1009
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean somebody I didn't even know I was.

1010
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 2: But they might keep going. But I don't think Katie

1011
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 2: is making shit up as much as I think she's

1012
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 2: taking Gina's words out of context.

1013
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 3: I agree, I agree that's what we were talking about earlier,

1014
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 3: and I, yeah, like.

1015
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:04,040
Speaker 2: It's it's not necessarily that I think either one of

1016
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 2: them as being a liar.

1017
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 3: No, I think that it is out of context and

1018
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 3: possibly bent to someone's favor.

1019
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:15,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then Gina gets emotional and says the whole

1020
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 2: world fucked up. Gina tells them she's afraid Travis won't

1021
00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 2: be able to stay in their relationship, and then immediately

1022
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,280
Speaker 2: Katie asked to bury all of it, and they stop

1023
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 2: fighting and hug that. I'm sorry, No, no, no, that

1024
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 2: doesn't fucking exist, not to me. I we at least

1025
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 2: hold on for two to three episodes.

1026
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 3: Were talking around two to three episodes two three years. No,

1027
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 3: I don't agree with that. I will tell you this.

1028
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,799
Speaker 3: I don't agree in the whole. I'm sorry, and that

1029
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 3: makes us okay. No, that's not the way real life works,

1030
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 3: and that's not the way I'm going to be on

1031
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 3: a show. If you're asking me to be authentic. If

1032
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 3: we really have a problem, we really have a problem,

1033
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 3: and if we both agree to really bury it, then

1034
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 3: we really bury it.

1035
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:01,240
Speaker 2: But also at that point, if Katie really thinks that's

1036
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 2: how Gina is, I would have appreciated Katie going, you

1037
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 2: know what, Gina, I think you're opportunistic. Yep, I think

1038
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 2: you'll do anything for money. Like I needed her to

1039
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 2: come forward and really called Gina out on.

1040
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 3: What's so your style? So it's also you have experience

1041
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 3: in this area. Katie is new and she's going to

1042
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 3: grow a set of balls real fast next year, not

1043
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 3: this year. But that's something that you with experienced.

1044
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,439
Speaker 2: Is speaking about. Right, Okay, that makes sense.

1045
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:30,400
Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying? Like you have a

1046
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:31,920
Speaker 3: little bit of an edge, Well not a little bit,

1047
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:32,759
Speaker 3: you have a lot of edge on.

1048
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,880
Speaker 2: Her, but do you think so? Then we got into

1049
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 2: scenes for next week, we start to see shit really

1050
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 2: hit the fan. It seems like there's more stuff with

1051
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 2: Emily and what happened at the fashion show. It seems like,

1052
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 2: where do you think that goes?

1053
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 3: Do you think?

1054
00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 2: Who do you think that?

1055
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 3: I guess what I'm asking is in that preview? Where

1056
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 3: do you think Emily's hurt is coming from? It is

1057
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 3: where my guess is.

1058
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 2: It's my guess is that whatever relationship that she and

1059
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 2: I truly have no idea. Emily and I do a

1060
00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 2: podcast together and we've never once talked about Orange County.

1061
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 2: We really don't like she She's it's not even something

1062
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 2: like we're kind of it's you ever.

1063
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 3: Talked about your similar struggles.

1064
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 2: No, we actually haven't. Like it's not like us or

1065
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:22,720
Speaker 2: even like me and Tare or like me and Tarama

1066
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 2: where we kind of dig deep, like we're just we

1067
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 2: come and we shoot the ship and we talk about

1068
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 2: it's like watercolor talk. But we we haven't really gotten

1069
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 2: deep about that. But I do think that I think

1070
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:39,399
Speaker 2: it bothers her and my guess it's Heather. I think

1071
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 2: that she feels like she's being judged by Heather because

1072
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:47,240
Speaker 2: of the comment oversized I think. I think in general,

1073
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 2: I think that other than Heather, Emily is probably the

1074
00:53:54,480 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 2: most financially sound and so there that I don't have

1075
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,840
Speaker 2: that when it comes to finances. I have it with

1076
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 2: other shit.

1077
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 3: I want everybody to have as much as they can,

1078
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 3: because I feel like, yeah, when I'm around and abundance,

1079
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:11,959
Speaker 3: I love it more.

1080
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,720
Speaker 2: But I think she sees her best friend. I guess

1081
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 2: it would be like you and Renna, I guess, and

1082
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 2: then you add me into it, and then all of

1083
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 2: a sudden, you start choosing me because I have more

1084
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 2: money than Rena, which this is not as never happened

1085
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 2: in our group, which it's never happened because none of

1086
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 2: us care. Because but I think that's what she feels

1087
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 2: like Gina is doing, is my guess.

1088
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 3: I know it's quite obvious that's what they think. I mean,

1089
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 3: Gina the whole I want, you know, to be nice

1090
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 3: to Heather because she can help me with my real

1091
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 3: estate business, which is true. I mean, but you're going

1092
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 3: to get referrals on your own. And honestly, I would

1093
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 3: mix business with that show. That's a pure recipe for disaster.

1094
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 2: Never don't do it.

1095
00:54:55,320 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 3: Don't don't let everyone have their separate businesses, support, buy

1096
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 3: things if you want. But that kind of shit is

1097
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:04,879
Speaker 3: a recipe.

1098
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 2: No post shit. But you don't mix business relationships with

1099
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 2: the show.

1100
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,760
Speaker 3: A reality TV show that's just like fraught with danger.

1101
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:17,799
Speaker 2: No, it's beyond. It's never gonna end up good, never

1102
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,720
Speaker 2: gonna end up good. But I'm excited for next week,

1103
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 2: and I appreciate you guys for tuning in. I do too.

1104
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 3: Thanks for having me again.

1105
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:28,240
Speaker 2: We want to have you always because you're amazing.

1106
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 3: Well I have fun here. Thank you,