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Speaker 1: It's divide the internet's about a family vacation. So as

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Speaker 1: a woman that's looking for advice on this after her

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Speaker 1: husband booked a vacation for himself and their kids and

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Speaker 1: she's not going. He booked it without her, So she

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Speaker 1: posted on a mom's forum called Mom's Net that their family,

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Speaker 1: she her husband, and their teenage son and daughter. They

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Speaker 1: go on this family vacation every year every summer, but

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Speaker 1: this year they're doing a major home renovation, which they're

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Speaker 1: already thinking that they can't afford to do anyway, and

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Speaker 1: they're adding it to their mortgage. So she suggested a staycation.

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Speaker 1: Why at the extra expense of the normal vacation. The

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Speaker 1: husband said no, he wants the vacation anyway and wants

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Speaker 1: to go and wants to do it. The teenagers want

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Speaker 1: to go too, and they decide to book the trip

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Speaker 1: and go without mom.

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Speaker 2: Why can't mom come anyways? At this point if you already.

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Speaker 1: Booked it, well, she's torn. She doesn't know they booked

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Speaker 1: it without her, but she's torn. Does she go or

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Speaker 1: not go? Yes, because she thinks it adds to the

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Speaker 1: debt if she goes, So she's holding herself back so

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Speaker 1: that they can go. I mean, look, they booked it

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Speaker 1: without her, and she's saying, oh, I think I don't

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Speaker 1: know what.

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Speaker 3: Do I stay back because it does is an extra expense? Right?

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Speaker 3: Or is it rude that they booked all that they're

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Speaker 3: gonna go without me.

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Speaker 1: I think it's so rude. Everyone should stay cation.

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Speaker 2: It is rude that he that he just kind of

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Speaker 2: booked it. But sometimes you just have to just make some.

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Speaker 1: People or say, just take the vacation, just go life ashore.

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Speaker 1: Others are saying standard ground and you know, if you

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Speaker 1: feel like it's too much of an expense, don't go.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm torn on this one too. I

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Speaker 2: feel like I do this sometimes naturally though, because like

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Speaker 2: Michael will be like, no, we can't go on that

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Speaker 2: vacation when you save money, and I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: I already booked it.

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Speaker 3: I think, I think.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, but I think she stands around and they

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Speaker 1: need to adjust. They need to pivot. That's I think

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Speaker 1: that's the best solution.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 3: It's weird. It's weird that she wouldn't go on the vacate,

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Speaker 3: right that they would go. I don't think that will happen.

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Speaker 1: No, I think they'll she'll e to just go and

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Speaker 1: put them on debt, or she'll get them to pivot.

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Speaker 1: But the booking was done just like you do all

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Speaker 1: the time.

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Speaker 2: Apparently, Yeah, because you know what, in that relationship, there's

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Speaker 2: always one person that's always like we need to go

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Speaker 2: do it or and the other person's like we shouldn't

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Speaker 2: and it just needs to be done.

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Speaker 3: You know. It's funny. People always say to

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Speaker 1: Me, it to long life, and then they'll say life

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Speaker 1: is short yep, Like what which is it