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Speaker 1: I'm excited about this episode.

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Speaker 2: I am G.

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Speaker 1: So you may or may not have heard either on

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Speaker 1: Diamond's cousin was on Love is Blind season seven. She

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Speaker 1: she do? Who is she? We're going to talk to

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Speaker 1: her today, but this is Diamond's cousin, so I feel

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Speaker 3: By ooh, okay. So her name is Monica Davis. She's

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Speaker 3: on season seven of Love is Blind. She got pretty

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Speaker 3: because she I almost said that she was edited to

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Speaker 3: look like a bougie girl. But she is a bougie bitch. Okay,

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Speaker 3: she found love on the show, was ready to walk

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Speaker 1: Quite the arc, quite the storyline. I think she had

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Speaker 1: the most interesting storyline of everybody. We're gonna find out

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Speaker 1: a lot of the behind the scenes, what happened, why

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Speaker 1: it was great. How did you feel that it's your cousin?

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Speaker 2: It was great.

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Speaker 3: I think that she shocked me with some of the

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Speaker 3: Oh I did, and it is what it is. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: she really did shock me with some of the things.

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Speaker 3: well get to I guess.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna have to find that out on off

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Speaker 1: What is going on?

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Speaker 3: They're cleaning the windows on the outside, and I guess

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Speaker 1: I wonder if it's whatever it is they've been doing

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Speaker 2: Oh, I love it, and you're.

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Speaker 1: Gonna jump in whenever you want to. Yeah, yes, okay,

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Speaker 4: Gandhi? Hi guys, this is so fun. I can't believe it's.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited too. I told Diamond I wanted to talk

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Speaker 1: Where do we begin? Monica? I would say, first of all,

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Speaker 1: So you're not bound by like any type of rules

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Speaker 4: The timing of this is perfect because the interviews or

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Speaker 4: And I had the attitude of, like, this could work

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Speaker 1: You're in these pods and you make a connection with Steven.

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Speaker 1: for it, but it did. It did seem that he

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00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:25,840
Speaker 1: was a little more interested and that was more important

437
00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:28,320
Speaker 1: to him as time went on than in the beginning.

438
00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:29,960
Speaker 1: When you guys are in the pods just talking about

439
00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:31,280
Speaker 1: life and everything. Then you get out of the pods

440
00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,600
Speaker 1: and he's like, well, oh, you have sex all the time?

441
00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:34,439
Speaker 1: What's going on?

442
00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:37,920
Speaker 4: One hundred percent? One hundred percent that was my experience.

443
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,080
Speaker 4: It felt like there's obviously a lot of things you

444
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:43,320
Speaker 4: guys also didn't see in terms of him talking sexually,

445
00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,880
Speaker 4: and that was probably for me, even starting in Mexico,

446
00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,840
Speaker 4: the biggest just it was turning me off, like I'm

447
00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 4: a whole woman, like I don't really, I don't like,

448
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,080
Speaker 4: why are we making sex jokes all night? Like weird?

449
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:55,440
Speaker 4: It's just it's not my style and not going to

450
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:59,640
Speaker 4: be flowers on top of that, right, come on, look alive. Yeah.

451
00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,680
Speaker 4: I felt he was starting to be like Breadcrumby. I

452
00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:04,879
Speaker 4: don't not in like a you know, little hints like

453
00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 4: are you down with that?

454
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:06,280
Speaker 3: Are you down with that?

455
00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:07,800
Speaker 4: Do you think that's cool? Or would you let me

456
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:08,879
Speaker 4: do that to you?

457
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:11,520
Speaker 1: You know the way you just said that made me

458
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,000
Speaker 1: want to puke a little. Would you let me do

459
00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:13,720
Speaker 1: that to you?

460
00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 3: Right?

461
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 4: That's how it felt. I was like, no, the answer.

462
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 1: Is now okay. So then the question I think everybody

463
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,439
Speaker 1: wants to know is you were very shocked that he

464
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:22,480
Speaker 1: did this to you, but he told you that he

465
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,840
Speaker 1: had done this to somebody else in the past. What

466
00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 1: was it that made you think, ah, this is going

467
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,159
Speaker 1: to be different.

468
00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,840
Speaker 4: That was my first watching that conversation between him and

469
00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:32,600
Speaker 4: I and the Pods where he tells me that that

470
00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 4: was my first experience with like, oh shit, this is

471
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,439
Speaker 4: coming off not the exact way that I experienced it

472
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:42,919
Speaker 4: in real life. Like you hear him tell me that he,

473
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 4: you know, cheated, but there was so much more to

474
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:48,160
Speaker 4: the conversation. You also hear me say at one point

475
00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:49,600
Speaker 4: where he says, you know, I cheated, and I say,

476
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,400
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. I want to confirm I would never

477
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:54,600
Speaker 4: in a millionaire or status someone, I'm so sorry when

478
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:56,800
Speaker 4: they told me they cheated. Okay, it was it was

479
00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:02,400
Speaker 4: how hard he worked and when he got caught, and

480
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,440
Speaker 4: the work that he put into it, how terrible he felt,

481
00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:09,200
Speaker 4: how bad he beat him himself up, and like, you know, yeah,

482
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 4: I've I've evolved a lot as an adult. When I

483
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,680
Speaker 4: was twenty seven, if someone told me they cheated, like ever,

484
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 4: I'd be like no, no, no. But now I'm like,

485
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 4: let's talk about it. It's not it's not something I'm

486
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 4: looking for as a partner, but like I have questions, like

487
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 4: you did it once, how you know?

488
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 1: What?

489
00:21:22,680 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 4: How do you feel now? How do you get caught?

490
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,640
Speaker 4: So we talked through it, and he'd done a lot

491
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 4: of work and it was like the biggest regret of

492
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:33,679
Speaker 4: his life. And I felt totally comped. And I, by

493
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:37,679
Speaker 4: the way, throughout my entire time filming, I talked a

494
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 4: lot about how much I've been cheated on and like

495
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 4: these crazy experiences I've had with cheating, which my cousin

496
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:45,119
Speaker 4: knows all do well and so and I was almost

497
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,479
Speaker 4: afraid that was gonna be my storyline. And so we

498
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:50,200
Speaker 4: talked about that so much, and he promised to always

499
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 4: really protect me in that way, and that was nothing

500
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 4: I ever had to worry about. So when I say

501
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 4: I truly had no idea that that would be how

502
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 4: things founded, I really hadn't. I would have never expected that.

503
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,919
Speaker 1: I actually I felt really bad for you when you

504
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 1: said you took this experience for me, because you could

505
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 1: have very much found somebody else. Maybe you would have

506
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 1: ended up connecting with Nick, was it, p Yeah, maybe

507
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 1: that would have happened.

508
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 4: We actually dated afterwards, did you. No one knows that.

509
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: Yes, that's exclusive Monica and he dated. Okay, so that

510
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: didn't end up working out, But you were right, And

511
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,199
Speaker 1: I thought, Wow, that is so shitty of him to

512
00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 1: have done that and taken that experience from her when

513
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 1: he knew all along that he was gonna be a

514
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 1: little shithead about whatever it's in your history and now

515
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 1: in your present and most likely in his future. That

516
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,919
Speaker 1: was crappy. And I know a few people sort of

517
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,679
Speaker 1: went through that same thing, even Marissa with Ramses. It

518
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 1: was like, if you all of a sudden thought, oh,

519
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:44,399
Speaker 1: marriage isn't for me, and I don't know if I

520
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: want to do this? Why are you here? How do

521
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 1: you guys not want to punch these people in the face.

522
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 4: I think that would I think that with Stephen and Ramsas,

523
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 4: I do think it's a little bit different because Ramses

524
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,119
Speaker 4: actually did what you're supposed to do in the experiment,

525
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,200
Speaker 4: and it's like you get to know someone, you get

526
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 4: to know them well, but it doesn't mean you have

527
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 4: to get married. If he wanted to follow the experiment

528
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 4: truly all the way through, and it would have ended

529
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 4: up doing Marissa pretty dirty, he could have gone to

530
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 4: the altar and said no, and that's what a lot

531
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 4: of people have done in the past and what you know,

532
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 4: so he did her assault. Stephen, on the other hand,

533
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 4: was sloppy, messy, disingenuous, fraudulent, and I just think that

534
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 4: it's really it's really different.

535
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 1: Let's talk about the fraudulent part. Because one of the

536
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 1: things that I was so appalled about, because I'm texting

537
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: Diamond as this is going on, did that man have

538
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 1: a job or not? Because I don't believe that he

539
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: had a job. I know he said he lost the

540
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 1: job because he took so much time to come and

541
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 1: do this experiment that when he came back he thought

542
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: he was going to have work and they told him, oh,

543
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 1: you don't have work. Did he actually have a job

544
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 1: or not?

545
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 4: That was when outside of like the kind of intense,

546
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,879
Speaker 4: excessive sexual jokes and comments that weren't landing well with me,

547
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,199
Speaker 4: That was the second part of like, after leaving the

548
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 4: Pods and being on this high, realizing the actuality of

549
00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:07,199
Speaker 4: his professional and financial situation. It was very concerning for

550
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 4: me because he essentially he didn't come back to a job.

551
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,440
Speaker 4: And I believe he essentially knew that if he went

552
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 4: to go leave to do the show, that he knew

553
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 4: he'd be coming back to no job. And he took

554
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 4: that risk and he should have just been honest about that,

555
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 4: and he wasn't until he, you know, didn't have a job.

556
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 4: And what's hard about like as a viewer and fan

557
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,160
Speaker 4: of the show and then someone doing it. The thing

558
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 4: that I never really understood that I can appreciate so

559
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 4: much more deeply now is it's hard to understand that like,

560
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 4: when you get back from Mexico, you literally have a

561
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:44,439
Speaker 4: wedding date in three weeks. You've already picked out your music,

562
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 4: your flowers, your bridesmaid's dresses, you sent them a guest

563
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 4: list of everyone who's coming, Like, so you get back

564
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 4: and you get your phone back, and you know, people

565
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 4: like Diamond or my sisters and my mom are like,

566
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 4: holy shit, you're engaged. We have a wedding in three weeks,

567
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 4: Like should we fly in this day for your bachelorette?

568
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,400
Speaker 4: Should we do that? So all of this and you're

569
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 4: filming and you're doing dates and like it is so

570
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 4: hard to process everything, and it's so for me. It

571
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 4: was like, you have not been honest and I'm supposed

572
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 4: to be getting married to you in a couple of

573
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 4: weeks or walking down the aisle to say yes or

574
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,719
Speaker 4: no in a few weeks. Like it felt like a

575
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,719
Speaker 4: lot more information should have been divulged sooner, and it was.

576
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:24,679
Speaker 4: It was very scary.

577
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: Is he working now? Do we know?

578
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 4: I have no idea. We're not, we're not, we're not

579
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 4: on speaking terms post reunions. You thank you. It feels

580
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 4: really nice.

581
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 1: Would you go on another dating show?

582
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,959
Speaker 4: Well? No, because I'm madly in love with my boyfriend right,

583
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 4: So no, I wouldn't do another dating show if you

584
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:47,199
Speaker 4: were single? Would you do another dating show? Or was

585
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 4: this enough? And you're all set? I guess like, honestly,

586
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say no. I loved it I took so

587
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 4: much from it and it was such a cool experience

588
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 4: and like you know, meeting the women and it's like

589
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 4: free therapy. You know, you're doing these interviews. You guys

590
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 4: don't get to see a lot of like these deep

591
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 4: interviews that we do, talking about like our past traumas

592
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 4: and what we've been through. And I just I'm someone

593
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 4: who like has leads, tries to lead life with so

594
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 4: much gratitude. So I just felt so grateful to be

595
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 4: there and be doing this like once in a lifetime thing,

596
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 4: and so I would probably do it again.

597
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 1: Okay, And after you do something.

598
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,719
Speaker 4: Like that, let's be honest, Like I love my boyfriend

599
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 4: so much, he's amazing. But then you have like guys

600
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 4: who pretty much every other day are asking me to

601
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 4: marry them in my dms and like being in touch.

602
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: So you know, I have so many questions about how

603
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 1: it works out. When you guys are in your room,

604
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: you're in your bed, people start making out and maybe

605
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: it starts getting to a point of your going to

606
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: hook up. That's what the cameras are showing. Are there

607
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 1: humans in there or do they set up.

608
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 4: Cameras there's humans in there?

609
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: There are humans in there watching you guys roll around

610
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 1: in a bed of rose metals. Oh my god, yeah,

611
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 1: I don't think I can do. That's where I would

612
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: be like, and I'm out.

613
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 4: I'm out. It's crazy how comfortable you get with the

614
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,919
Speaker 4: cameras because they're really out of your way. And after

615
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 4: the pods, every couple has their own dedicated crew, So

616
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 4: Steven and I had our own producer, you know, couple

617
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 4: camera people, lighting people, audio people, so you get to

618
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 4: know your crew really well. You get really comfortable with them,

619
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 4: probably too comfortable with them. It's crazy how comfortable you get.

620
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 4: The most uncomfortable thing camera wise is the reveal. You know,

621
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 4: so many people were like Mona, go like this girl's

622
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 4: so annoying. She's whispering. And I'm like, yeah, because I

623
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 4: walked into this hallway and this guy's kissing me and

624
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 4: I'm okay with him kissing me. But like there's cameras everywhere,

625
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 4: and I think I was like, oh, I can't hear,

626
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 4: but they can hear everything. I just sound like I'm whispering.

627
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just forget.

628
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 4: I'm just like, oh my god, I don't want them

629
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 4: to hear what I'm saying. But I forget that my

630
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 4: make song.

631
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 1: So do they leave at a certain point.

632
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 4: You know, they don't sit there? They eventually leave. Yeah,

633
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 4: they eventually leave.

634
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, hold on time, all guys, We're going to

635
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: pack up all the equipment. If you can just pause,

636
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna leave and you can get back to.

637
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 4: It and then you guys can continue.

638
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: So awkward, Okay, you mentioned you're in love. You have

639
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,360
Speaker 1: a new man. How did you meet him? I guess

640
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: he's not new at this point. You guys been together

641
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 1: for a while.

642
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, we started dating in January. I actually met him

643
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 4: in twenty twenty two, so before I left for the show,

644
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 4: we dated like casually for four or five months, never

645
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 4: like in a relationship for boyfriend and girlfriend, but we

646
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 4: dated and we met through hine. We broke up, well,

647
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 4: we didn't break up. We stopped seeing each other in

648
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 4: January of twenty twenty three, and then I left for

649
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 4: the show in October of twenty twenty three. But before

650
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 4: I left for the show, listen, I was like, I

651
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 4: was single, and I was out and having fun and

652
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 4: doing what you do when you're single. But I didn't

653
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 4: I didn't act like seriously. I was very focused on

654
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 4: the process, It was actually like, it's a crazy process

655
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 4: applying to be on a reality show, and it took

656
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 4: up quite a bit of my time on top of

657
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 4: having a full time job. Like this week you're talking

658
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 4: to a psychologist, and this week it's a personality test,

659
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 4: and this week we need you to send us pictures

660
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 4: of you, you know, with the alien friends. And so

661
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 4: after I just was saying, until I got engaged on

662
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 4: a show.

663
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: So when you say you guys didn't break up, but

664
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 1: you stopped seeing each other in January, what does that

665
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: mean one of you goes to the other one or

666
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: you just decided we're going to go our separate ways.

667
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 4: I think at that point I was ready for something

668
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 4: like more committed, okay, And I got the vibe really

669
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 4: quickly that he wasn't ready for that okay, And so

670
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 4: I was like, all right, well I'm going to move on.

671
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 4: And it was actually really hard to do because I

672
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 4: literally had such strong feelings for him, and I always

673
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 4: kind of thought we were meant to be, and I had.

674
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 4: When I met him, I had just come out of

675
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 4: another very serious relationship, and I met him a lot

676
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 4: more quickly than I typically would move on. So for

677
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 4: those like four or five months. When we were dating casually,

678
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 4: I wasn't my typical Monica where it was like after

679
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 4: two or three months, I'd be like, hey, what's going

680
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 4: on here? I was still healing from that breakup. I

681
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 4: moved across the country for that past past relationship. I

682
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 4: was going through a lot, So being casual actually worked

683
00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 4: really well for me. And then you know, after a

684
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 4: few months, I was like, Okay, I'm ready, and I

685
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 4: was just kind of surprised when he was like, oh,

686
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 4: you don't want more time, Like do we really wanted to?

687
00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 4: So I was like, all right, I.

688
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: Got engaged and then called off an engagement, and now

689
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 1: you're back with this guy. So let's talk about Internet detectives.

690
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: How is that working out for you? One the I

691
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: would assume somewhat newfound attention from strangers, But two are

692
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: they digging into your background and now your boyfriend's background

693
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: and making anything there weird? Because I saw them do

694
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 1: it with everybody on the show.

695
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 4: Absolutely they are and I and it's to be expected.

696
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 4: I think, like I am very honest. Note bit about

697
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 4: my boyfriend and I have passed, Like Diamond knows that

698
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 4: my mom knows that everyone in my life knows about

699
00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 4: kind of what I just described to you, but all

700
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 4: the details behind that, and so it's fine. Like we

701
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 4: he's the best guy I've ever dated. I think we're

702
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 4: going to be together forever. He's amazing, but like a

703
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 4: lot of relationships, it wasn't perfect getting to the point

704
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 4: of commitment. The only reason why I'm protected this new

705
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 4: like limelight and public, like I would share it all.

706
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 4: I would tell you every I have nothing to hide.

707
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 4: But he has a son who's like an innocent you know,

708
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:20,719
Speaker 4: sweet sweet sweet angel. He was married before, he's been

709
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 4: divorced for like eight years, and his son just turned nine.

710
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 4: So he's like, you know, it's fine, Like I knew

711
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 4: that by being with you things might come out and

712
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 4: people might know about my path and that's okay, but

713
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 4: I'm like, you know, we try to not feed into it.

714
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 4: His son's mom. So my boyfriend's ex wife is the

715
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 4: most incredible, amazing person who's been so lovely to me,

716
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 4: and like, out of respect for that, I'm just like,

717
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 4: you guys, leave him alone, Please leave him alone.

718
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you want to address that people

719
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: have been talking about or are you just saying I'm

720
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: not gonna address any of this stuff.

721
00:31:54,000 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 4: I think what I'll address is my boyfriend had you know,

722
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 4: a couple of years free getting into a committed relationship

723
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 4: you know with me where he like dated, he got

724
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 4: married really young, and then when he was you know,

725
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 4: out and not in a relationship, he kind of like

726
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 4: he never committed and cheated on anyone ever. He's never cheated,

727
00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 4: but he was. He will say he was really bad

728
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 4: at dating. And so people are finding that, like, you know,

729
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 4: half the guys on my cast have been posted in

730
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 4: those groups. Are we dating the same guy? Because if

731
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:32,000
Speaker 4: you're single now and you live in a metropolitan area,

732
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 4: you're probably going to be posted on that. And so

733
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 4: my boyfriend's been posted on that. Like I already knew

734
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 4: knew about it. I know all the details, Like he's

735
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 4: not a cheater, he's never cheated, but you know, he

736
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 4: wasn't a perfect dator. And it is what it is.

737
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: If people were to dig into my past and talk

738
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: to ex's of mine or people who feel that they

739
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: have been jilted in some way, it could be very

740
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: easy to paint me as a monster, the worst person

741
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: ever one we're all growing, you learn more. I'm the

742
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,239
Speaker 1: oldest I've ever and I'm also the youngest I'm ever

743
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: going to be. It's a weird place. Every day of

744
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: my life. I'm learning all the time. Well, thank you,

745
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to ever hurt anybody. But in

746
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: the process of finding yourself sometimes that means losing other people,

747
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 1: experimenting with other people and realizing this isn't the thing.

748
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: So to light people up for that is wild to me.

749
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: Unless there is actual fire burning, the smoke is so silly.

750
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 1: So you guys are just gonna look away, try not

751
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: to address that kind of stuff and move on.

752
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's one of those things what I'm realizing.

753
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 4: It's like, it's not it doesn't feel super heavy or

754
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 4: intent like what people are saying. It's not like people

755
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 4: are saying way worse things about me on the show,

756
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 4: and like just the type of like materialistic human than

757
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 4: I am if you knew me in real life. It's

758
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 4: not like some of the things you want answers to

759
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 4: her that you're trying to call me out for in

760
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 4: terms of my boyfriend or our relationship, some of it's

761
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 4: not true, but like the parts that are like oh yeah,

762
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 4: like that that is true.

763
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: I think it's really tough because these parasocial relationships are

764
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: created where people think they watch twelve episodes of you

765
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 1: on TV, they now know you as a person, and

766
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: they not only know you, they have a right to

767
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: your life and they have a right to get involved

768
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: in the things that they think are important and then

769
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: curse you out.

770
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 4: It's crazy. And by the way, you know, there's this

771
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 4: whole new dynamic and diamond knows this from this week

772
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 4: of like I think I'm really funny, like how the

773
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 4: people are mean to me, I like want to write

774
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 4: something like snarky back to them, or I had someone

775
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 4: this week and it was not real. I don't think

776
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 4: at all. I sent Diamonds a screenshot of it, but

777
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 4: threatened to sue me and said that they were going

778
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 4: to take legal action against me because I posted. They

779
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 4: sent me a DM telling me that I should die

780
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 4: and then I'm a piece of shit. And I happened

781
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 4: to pick one of the five that I'd received that

782
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:39,479
Speaker 4: week and just posted on my story because she also

783
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 4: had in her profile Jesus Lover Jesus loves you God,

784
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 4: and I was like, can you believe this? And the

785
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 4: only reason I actually responded and ended up taking it

786
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 4: down after a while, is because she claimed to be

787
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 4: a minor. But you know how these wook I have

788
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,320
Speaker 4: an entire team behind me, like Netflix and my production company,

789
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 4: and we have legal and all that, so of course

790
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 4: everything that I'm doing is by the book. And so

791
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 4: they're like, no, she would have no case. She's the

792
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 4: one online bullying you and telling you to But you know,

793
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 4: I'm just going to pretend in my head this girl's

794
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 4: fourteen years old, and obviously all the people who loved

795
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 4: me were like coming for her. So I was happy

796
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 4: to take it down. But you also kind of have

797
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,280
Speaker 4: to be careful about how you move and what you

798
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 4: You know, should I just talk crap about my boyfriend's

799
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 4: ex girlfriend and really speak No, there's repercussions now to

800
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 4: some of that, So.

801
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,399
Speaker 1: Absolutely I get that a lot. Actually, people will send

802
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 1: me a shitty DM and I'll repost it, and then

803
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 1: they will tell me that I'm being a bully. People

804
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 1: are starting to take legal action. I'm like, please, I

805
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: would love for you to waste your money on that.

806
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: Go right ahead, It'll be great. Hi, I'm putting this

807
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 1: offer out to you, minor or not If somebody comes

808
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 1: for you and they try to bully you, and you

809
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: want to be the bigger person and not post it

810
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: on your story. You can send it to me and

811
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 1: I will post it on my story because Okay, bullying

812
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: kids has really never bothered me. I think every now

813
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 1: and then they need it.

814
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love it.

815
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,240
Speaker 1: Okay sending that offer. You can absolutely have that anytime.

816
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,359
Speaker 1: Back to one of the things that you sort of mentioned,

817
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: people are coming for you because they think you're this

818
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 1: materialistic person, which is where the game comes in that

819
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: Diamond wants to play. One of the things that you

820
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:07,879
Speaker 1: are very famous for in this season is Steven's talking

821
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: about how he wants to treat you so well and

822
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: he wants to buy you all these nice things like

823
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: a Kate Spade bag, and you.

824
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 4: Say, don't never get me one of those.

825
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 1: But then we see this other side of you where

826
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: you find out he is now unemployed and you're taking

827
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: care of him. You're the sugar mama. How long did

828
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,479
Speaker 1: you take care of him? It was two days.

829
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 4: I offered to pay for things for maybe that sounds

830
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 4: about right. Like there was a big grocery shop and

831
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 4: bill because we were getting ready to like move into

832
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 4: you know, we're living in an apartment and like a

833
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 4: meal or two, yes, maybe two days.

834
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 1: How much did he venmo you?

835
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 4: He venmoed me four hundred, and.

836
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 1: He venmoed you because when you found out he was cheating,

837
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 1: you were like, fuck all that I've taken care of

838
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 1: you for the past two days. I need you to

839
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 1: take out your phone and then moment right now for

840
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: what I've taken care of So he venmoded you four

841
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: hundred dollars. I just need a breakdown of what that

842
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: four hundred dollars.

843
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 4: Was before I blocked him post for you in he's

844
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,800
Speaker 4: posted something that someone sent me on his story where

845
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 4: and he's actually right. So he said he owed me

846
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 4: like I think two thirty five, he said, which I

847
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 4: think that that was right. And then when you went

848
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 4: to go pay me, I did the math. You don't

849
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 4: see this, but it was on camera. I'm like, you

850
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 4: owed me two thirty five, and I was not happy.

851
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 4: I was really pissed. I was like, you can round

852
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 4: up if you want to call it two fifty. I

853
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 4: said something like that, and then he sends me four hundred,

854
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,800
Speaker 4: but it was really like two thirty five or something

855
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 4: that he actually owed me, and it was for we

856
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 4: did a huge stock of groceries because we moved into

857
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 4: this brand new apartment and I think a meal or

858
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 4: two and I said to him, hey, like, I'm happy

859
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 4: to you know, until you're back on your feet and

860
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 4: you have a job, I can cover the costs. The

861
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 4: reason why I was like, I will be collecting before

862
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 4: you leave is I have an ex who still owes me.

863
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:49,839
Speaker 4: I don't even want the money now, but a lot

864
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 4: of money when we broke up. He always said like,

865
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 4: I'm a payback, pay you back. And then we ended up,

866
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 4: you know, a year post breakup, getting into an argument

867
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 4: and then he was like, f you and you can

868
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,720
Speaker 4: eat the money. I'm never paying you back. So honestly,

869
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 4: if that hadn't happened, I probably wouldn't even thought to

870
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 4: But now I'm like, no, no, no, no, no. I know

871
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 4: I will not see this money again, or I don't

872
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 4: trust that I will, So I'm going to need you

873
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 4: to pay me before.

874
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: You I loved it. I was so happy that you

875
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 1: did that. I'm going to need you to take out

876
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: your phone right now and ven wo me. You resonate

877
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: with me a little bit because a lot of the

878
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: things that people are sort of vilifying you for one

879
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 1: I'm clapping, and two I see the same things in myself.

880
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: So I'm like, huh, don't come for her for that,

881
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: because they're coming for both of us. How dare you?

882
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, listen, I've worked really hard since I'm really proud

883
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 4: of the success that I've had and so yeah, like

884
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 4: I've been able to buy myself why I sell bags

885
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 4: and louly bags and all these things. And I have

886
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 4: a boogie somewhat boogie personality. That doesn't mean I have

887
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 4: like I have a huge heart as well. People out

888
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 4: there who like are my sense of humor and get it,

889
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 4: like really love me. And I even had an executive

890
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 4: producer on the show tell me before the show came out.

891
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 4: She was like, Yeah, we're showing this line about Kates

892
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 4: babe blah blah blah. And I was like, do I

893
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 4: look terrible? I thought I said it in the Pods

894
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 4: Like I was like, I literally was like, I say

895
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 4: something about Kate's spade in the Pods when I watched

896
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 4: in Mexico. I was like, oh, I had no idea,

897
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 4: but she was like, no, we kept it in because

898
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 4: it's funny, and she said I don't want a Kate's

899
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 4: Spade bag either, So like people, some people get it

900
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 4: and they're like, that's fucking hilarious. And then there's some

901
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 4: people who are like, you're a terrible person Kate's Spade employees,

902
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 4: and I'm like, I'm not. I just I don't want it.

903
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 4: I just don't want it. You can have it.

904
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 1: I don't want it. I hope that you have realized

905
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: after all this that you being successful and working really

906
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 1: hard and being proud of your success is not allowed

907
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 1: as a woman. You are a guy. And you said

908
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: something like that, people were like, yeah, oh my god,

909
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: this is amazing. As a woman. People are like, bitch,

910
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:42,760
Speaker 1: childish cat lady.

911
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:44,720
Speaker 4: It's crazy.

912
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 1: So again, don't stop. But back to the camp real

913
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: quick before we play this game, Diamond, are you ready

914
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: for the game? I'm really suspiciously quiet besides a.

915
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 2: Couple of cheer No, I'm just loving this.

916
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: But Monica, what is the problem with Kate Spade? Why

917
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: don't you want Kate space?

918
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 4: My Okay, here's how I think about it. If someone's

919
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 4: offering to get me something really nice, even if it

920
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 4: costs five dollars or five hundred dollars, if I'm never

921
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 4: gonna wear it. Then just don't get me any I

922
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 4: don't need anything else, Just don't get me that. And

923
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 4: so for me, it's like I don't have a problem

924
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 4: with Kate Spade, but I know Stephen's talking about like

925
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 4: I know, I don't have to get you something bougie

926
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 4: like a Kate Spade, and I'm like, oh, like, save

927
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 4: your money. You don't. You don't have to get me

928
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 4: a y sell or Wi Lee Vutan either, but don't

929
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,800
Speaker 4: go out and spend you know, a couple hundred bucks

930
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 4: or whatever on Kate's Spade. I don't want it.

931
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: Do you have a trashy purse for when you're doing

932
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: trashy things? Are they all very nice?

933
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 4: No? They're not all very nice. Like my favorite go

934
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 4: to person right now that I'm wearing all the time

935
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 4: is like a Amazon like cross body, you know, fanny pack. Okay,

936
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 4: but when I go out at night, like I like,

937
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 4: I do I wear I like when I say I

938
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,879
Speaker 4: have my Botega, I have my you know, Kucci, I.

939
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 1: Have all of which you vote for yourself, all of.

940
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 4: Which I thought for myself. I love every single one.

941
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you. Okay, So Diamond wanted to play

942
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:51,920
Speaker 1: a game with you. What do you want to call

943
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: this game?

944
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 3: Well or unwell? Oh okay, so it's basically a yes

945
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 3: or no. I already know the answer to the first one,

946
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 3: but we're gonna go along with it anyway. So Kate

947
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,120
Speaker 3: Spade bags well or unwell.

948
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 4: For menwelle for me?

949
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: I am unwell about that?

950
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, this is something that we talked about on

951
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,640
Speaker 3: the show the other day, and I'm almost positive I

952
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 3: know your answer, but I need it.

953
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 2: Uh.

954
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 3: Posting your cash app on your socials on your birthday

955
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 3: with hopes that someone will send you money absolutely unwell?

956
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: Oh yes, who snapping for you?

957
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 4: That is so unwell?

958
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 1: No to me, I'm like, that just gives like the

959
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,919
Speaker 1: person outside the office shaking their cup at you. Yeah,

960
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: talk about please help me get some soup. Unless you

961
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: are in that situation, and I understand people are by

962
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: all means. If that's you, go for it. If you

963
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: are employed and an adult, don't do that. It's very weird,

964
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 1: very creepy. Okay, very unwell about it?

965
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. Farting in front of your significant other well

966
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 2: or unwell?

967
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 4: Oh that's hard. I am an open book i'll do.

968
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 4: But I am someone that's like the one thing I

969
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 4: don't do. I don't like it.

970
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say what, Yes, Monica, I don't like

971
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:04,240
Speaker 1: that girl.

972
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: I'm shocked.

973
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 1: Do you know your cousin's habits? By the way, I

974
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:10,959
Speaker 1: assume you know Diamond's habits for the most part.

975
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 4: What is she farting in public?

976
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: Not only will she fart in public, she will announce

977
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,200
Speaker 1: that the fart is coming, and then she will release

978
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: the fart. She also has no problem talking about this

979
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: and doing these things with somebody that she's dating.

980
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't care.

981
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 4: No, I had no idea were having a conversation offline

982
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 4: about that. No, man, thank you.

983
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 3: You know you know Grandma's dad, No, Grandma's grandfather. No,

984
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 3: somebody in Grandma's family died from holding in his farts.

985
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 3: Go ask your mom.

986
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 4: I'm well, listen, I will I fart, but like you,

987
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 4: just like step away, go to the bathroom, like you

988
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 4: don't tell everyone he didn't die from because he didn't

989
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 4: tell people that he was. You're announcing it, all right.

990
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 1: Also, I have a lot of questions about if that

991
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,359
Speaker 1: actually is why he died, because I don't think i've

992
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,839
Speaker 1: ever heard of someone dying from holding in a fart

993
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: like maybe there were other things going on, but the

994
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 1: truth we all means that's her truth.

995
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 4: And I'll let you have our families. Our family is very dramatic,

996
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,879
Speaker 4: so like I have the dramas I know queen.

997
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,959
Speaker 3: Okay, speaking of drama saving your butt for marriage well

998
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 3: or unwell.

999
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 2: Well you can't say so.

1000
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 1: Oh you guy as well.

1001
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: Get it over with.

1002
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: Are you telling us something about yourself?

1003
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 3: No? No, no, but you might as well, Like if you

1004
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 3: think you're going to marry somebody, why not because you know.

1005
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: You thought she might marry Stephen?

1006
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 2: First, Oh, you're right.

1007
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 3: And then I had a question because you mentioned this,

1008
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 3: and this is the first time I've ever heard this.

1009
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 2: Who are the notable people in your dms?

1010
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I didn't say that they were notable?

1011
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 1: Okay, are there notable people in your dms?

1012
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 4: Listen? No one like, no one that's better than my

1013
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 4: boyfriend's Go damn sure.

1014
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that for you.

1015
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 1: Interesting.

1016
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 3: And then I have one last question because you mentioned

1017
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:55,919
Speaker 3: this earlier and I feel like we've talked about this

1018
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 3: or I've heard you mentioned this just like in private conversations.

1019
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,760
Speaker 2: But I think I need to know this.

1020
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 3: As a reality TV fan, was there anything that you

1021
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 3: saw of yourself on the show that has changed your

1022
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 3: perspective on not only you, but like the way that

1023
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 3: we judge people on these shows.

1024
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 4: One thousand percent one thousand percent. I think it's very

1025
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 4: It's just kind of like we probably don't have full

1026
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 4: context for some things. I will say, I do think

1027
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 4: it's very different being like a one season, one time

1028
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,400
Speaker 4: reality person. It's different than like some of the shows

1029
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 4: we watch on Bravo, where you know, if you've watched

1030
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 4: someone for nine seasons kind of behave the same way.

1031
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 4: It's a little bit different than a twelve episode show

1032
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 4: where like how many minutes was I featured on that show?

1033
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 4: So being kinder, having more empathy, you probably don't have

1034
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 4: the full story or context. But I would say in

1035
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 4: some cases also it's like, you know, it's it's different.

1036
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 4: You do get to know these personalities like they've been

1037
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 4: watching them for a year over year every year.

1038
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: Okay, and I think too to your point, which Diamond

1039
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: and I have talked about this before. Things can be

1040
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: taken out of context, of course, but you still said

1041
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:15,800
Speaker 1: the thing. So sometimes I'm like, ah, man, if somebody

1042
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 1: cut up the things that I said and did in

1043
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:20,360
Speaker 1: a day, ah, I would shudder. Sure they need context

1044
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: around them, but I still said those things like, yeah, so,

1045
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: how are you doing with everything?

1046
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 4: I'm doing well? Well, I think I'm doing well. I'm

1047
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 4: doing unwell. There's been moments of unwellness. I think that

1048
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 4: the hardest thing is just like the trolls and the negativity,

1049
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 4: it's already started to quiet down. I can't wait for

1050
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 4: all the people who don't like me to like unfollow

1051
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 4: me or stop what like. I just want people who

1052
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 4: like ride with me or think you know, And a

1053
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 4: lot of people have told me it'll it'll start to

1054
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 4: firm up that way. It's just the volume of everything.

1055
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 4: Like I'm so tired. I've been traveling here and doing

1056
00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 4: interviews and press and I'm just like tired, but I'm

1057
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 4: also just trying to enjoy it at the same time.

1058
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: Good.

1059
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 4: Also, I have a full time job. You know, I

1060
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 4: love my job. I love my career, So just managing

1061
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 4: all of it, it's a lot.

1062
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: How is the work atmosphere with this out in the ether?

1063
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 1: Do your coworkers have they watched it? Are they interested?

1064
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: Or is it just kind of like a whatever. Move on.

1065
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 4: A lot of people have watched it, and everyone in

1066
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 4: my company has been so supportive. There's been nothing weirder

1067
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 4: than showing up to a work meeting and people being like,

1068
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,919
Speaker 4: so I'm all caught up, and I'm like, oh great.

1069
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 4: Last night I said I was saving my bet for marriage,

1070
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,760
Speaker 4: so you know that now, Like that's weird. I got one.

1071
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 4: I'm in sales, so I got one email from a client,

1072
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 4: prospective client that I'm working with, and he was like,

1073
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 4: I just spit my teethpaste out all over the bathroom

1074
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 4: floor when I walked in last night, and I could

1075
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 4: have scorn. I saw you on the show my wife

1076
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:54,200
Speaker 4: is watching, and I was like, that's me.

1077
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: Maybe for the better. I hope he gets to the

1078
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,240
Speaker 1: saving your butt for marriage part and we get an update.

1079
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 4: I hope not all right.

1080
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. You've spent so much time with us.

1081
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: I've been looking forward to this for a while. Do

1082
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Speaker 1: you think we forgot anything? Is there anything that you

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00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: want toss out there or Diamond, any questions that you

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Speaker 1: feel like we didn't get to.

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Speaker 2: No, I think we got them all.

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Speaker 1: You got them all, Monica. How are you feeling?

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Speaker 4: I feel great? This was so much fun. I'm like,

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Speaker 4: so grateful. I've always wanted to meet you, Diamonds. That's

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Speaker 4: the best things about you. I'm so proud of her

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Speaker 4: and what she does. So this has been so much fun.

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Speaker 1: We have a famous family over there.

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Speaker 4: I can't tell you how many messages I get that

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Speaker 4: are like or comments that are like, Monica, I know

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Speaker 4: your cousin Diamond because I listened to her and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: oh oh.

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Speaker 1: When we started talking about you being on the show,

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Speaker 1: our text messages kept being like, which one is she?

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Speaker 1: Is it Alex? Which one is she? I need to know?

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Speaker 4: Oh funny, that's so so, so, so so funny.

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Speaker 1: But thank you so much, seriously for taking the time

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Speaker 1: to chat with us about this. I wish you the best.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like you need any wishes. You are

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Speaker 1: doing very well and I'm happy for you and your man.

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Speaker 1: And if you guys get married, I would love to

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Speaker 1: come to the wedding.

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Speaker 4: I'm just putting that amazing. You'll be there, yeah, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: of course, thank you so much. I love you guys,

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Speaker 4: love you Diamond so much fun.

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Speaker 1: All right, Diamond, how did you feel great?

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Speaker 3: I'm shocked that she doesn't fart in front of her

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Speaker 3: significant others.

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Speaker 1: I think she's shocked that you do.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what are you talking about? What the hell

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Speaker 2: is going on here?

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Speaker 1: I am so not a fart in front of your

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Speaker 1: significant other person, And I honestly don't appreciate when it

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Speaker 1: comes the other way either. I'm glad that you feel

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Speaker 1: comfortable enough around me to do it, but I'm kind

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Speaker 1: of like, Okay, what do you want me to do

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Speaker 1: with that?

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Speaker 2: You gotta let it go, you gotta let it go.

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Speaker 3: Well, actually, I'm probably gonna stop moving forward because my

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Speaker 3: hearts have been really bad up my fiber and they

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00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 3: smell really bad. So like, yeah, I warned people who

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Speaker 3: came into the bathroom the other day. I was like,

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Speaker 3: I don't think you want to come in here. I

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Speaker 3: didn't go all the way, but I farted.

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Speaker 1: Listen. I appreciate that. I would like to know that

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Speaker 1: before I enter, because you know, I'm really bad with

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00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: icky smells. I start gagging. I'm like a child. I

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00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 1: don't mean to. It's not even the smell itself that

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Speaker 1: is so damaging to me. It's the mental like the

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Speaker 1: process of what it is behind it. So in my

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00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 1: head I'm thinking, oh my god, what did they eat?

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00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm breathing it in. It gets bad,

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00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: It gets bad real fast. So you guys shocked each other.

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Speaker 1: That's great. How has the group chat been about her

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00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,359
Speaker 1: saving her butt for Mary?

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Speaker 3: Well, like I said, she has said this to us. Okay,

1140
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 3: she's been saying this for years. So when first of all,

1141
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 3: I didn't even remember that she said it on the show,

1142
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 3: because it didn't That didn't shock me. Okay, the conversation

1143
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 3: about the mac and cheese thing, I was like, okay,

1144
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 3: like very weird.

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Speaker 1: Very very for him. Yeah, from what we gather of him.

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Speaker 1: By the way, she picked a turd. Man, I understand

1147
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: why she picked him during it, and then after you

1148
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,719
Speaker 1: just see, wow, this is who this person really is.

1149
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: What a turd. Her cousin's a babe.

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00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 2: By the way, she's gorgeous.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and she's just so sweet, Like, yeah, she's a

1152
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:08,240
Speaker 3: bougie queen, but she's really the nicest person. She's really sweet.

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Speaker 1: If you work hard for something in your life and

1154
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,279
Speaker 1: you have built a certain life for yourself, you don't

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00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: have to feel bad about wanting what you want when

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Speaker 1: you're providing it for yourself. If she was going around

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00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: begging other people to take care of her, she wanted

1158
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 1: to be flout out and all that kind of crap.

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00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 1: It's a totally different thing. She takes care of herself.

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Speaker 2: It's great.

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Speaker 1: So props to you, Monica.

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 1: We love it. I don't think we even have time

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Speaker 1: really for and ask me anything. We asked her everything, everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I loved it. So I guess we're gonna put a

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Speaker 1: pin in that as they say, thank you for setting

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Speaker 1: this up.

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Speaker 2: Of course I thought she was awesome for being so

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Speaker 2: nice to her. Of course would not be people.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we know about what. But keep in mind,

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Speaker 1: when you are ripping into a stranger online because you

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Speaker 1: think you have some type of relationship with them that

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00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 1: entitles you to rip into them as though you are

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00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: friends and they have personally wrong, you're weird. Don't do

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00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: that weird. And I know it's becoming more and more popular,

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Speaker 1: so maybe we're weird for thinking that.

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Speaker 2: No, but you don't know these people.

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Speaker 1: You don't know their story, you don't know what kind

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Speaker 1: of day they're having, and you don't know what your

1180
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: comments are going to do to them. Yeah, leave it alone. Yeah,

1181
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 1: enjoy the show and move on with your lives exactly.

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00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, text your group chat about it.

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00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 3: Please don't like go and comment, especially when it's like

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00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 3: she said, twelve episodes over seven weeks exactly, like, let's

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Speaker 3: calm down.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what they could do to us if

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Speaker 1: they took twelve half hours of seven weeks with me?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: What would they call you? We'll a menace? But you are.

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Speaker 1: I think I'd be the super villain, like, without a doubt,

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00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: the super villain.

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Speaker 2: Maybe.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I got mad about something today and I

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Speaker 1: was really trying to keep my temper and my anger

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Speaker 1: and how I handled it in check.

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Speaker 2: You did a really great job, by the way, Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. I don't think I'm a mean person.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of things I do are interpreted

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Speaker 1: as mean or confrontational, so I'm really trying to manage it.

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Speaker 1: But also, you know me, I expect a certain level

1201
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: of things, and when it doesn't happen, I get mad.

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00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 2: But I think that.

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Speaker 3: You've never been the type of person to run around.

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00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 3: Like when people think of like someone being mad, they

1205
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 3: think of like someone yelling or cursing someone out or

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00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 3: something like that.

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Speaker 2: You don't do that.

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00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 3: So I don't think that you should tame yourself in

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00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 3: that way because at the end of the day, it's

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00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:29,880
Speaker 3: not like you were upset for no reason.

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00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:31,720
Speaker 2: You had every reason to be upset.

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Speaker 3: So thank you for validating yeh, because I say that

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00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 3: you have to say and if people can't take it,

1214
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 3: then they need to not necessarily build a thicker skin,

1215
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 3: but like understand, right is what it is.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 1: I AP actually went to our boss and I was like,

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00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: help me with some management issues. He said, what do

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00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: you want? I said, how do you convey I'm really

1220
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: fucking mad right now, but not say it that way

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00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:55,240
Speaker 1: and not hurt feelings And he was like, well, sometimes

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00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 1: you might have to.

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00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:57,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is what it is.

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00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 1: But everything specs now We're good And I think that

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00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 1: podcast was great, So thank you again for bringing that

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00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 1: to us. And you can follow Diamond.

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Speaker 2: At Diamond Sincere on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Where can we follow Monica at Monica J.

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Speaker 2: Davis on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Monica Jade J J A D E SOA Jade Davis

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Speaker 3: M O N I C A J A D E

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Speaker 3: d A V I S Good John and you.

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Speaker 1: Follow me at Baby Hot Sauce. And we still have

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00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: that talkback feature. If you are listening to this podcast

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00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,440
Speaker 1: on the iHeartRadio app, there's a red microphone. You tap it.

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00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:30,279
Speaker 1: You can leave us a message and we will get it.

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00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 1: I would love to hear from you. Until next time,

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Speaker 1: Say bye, Diamond Bye.