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Speaker 1: Break out a weekend morning. You got to recharge your crystals.

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Speaker 2: You recharge your no wonder direct if my crystals have

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Speaker 2: been empty for my whole life, I never recharge you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, come on Fred. Fred's show is on the formula.

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Speaker 1: So the perfect start to your day.

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Speaker 2: Someone figured this out, okay, and I read about it

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Speaker 2: this morning, And if you can hear us now, then

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Speaker 2: unless you're listening to us later on the podcast, then

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Speaker 2: we've all already screwed this up. So if you want

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Speaker 2: to start the day right according to this, you want

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Speaker 2: to get out of bed at seven twelve am and

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Speaker 2: then exercise for exactly twenty one minutes.

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Speaker 1: I'm done. I have a job. No, it's an exercising

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Speaker 1: part for me. I wish I could do that.

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Speaker 2: I wish that I could get up an hour earlier

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Speaker 2: and get my workout done first thing. I wish I could,

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Speaker 2: But that's would mean getting up at three instead of like,

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Speaker 2: there's just no way, there's.

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Speaker 3: No way that show, the morning show, the one that

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Speaker 3: you guys are watching nis waking up and going to

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Speaker 3: like on a peloton at three am because she worked

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Speaker 3: a morning show. Yeah, And I was like, that is

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Speaker 3: so unrealistic, Like we're not doing that.

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Speaker 2: Like I read somewhere that George Stephanopolis, the guy who

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Speaker 2: hosts GEE Good Morning America. I heard he gets up

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Speaker 2: at like three and meditates for thirty minutes or something

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Speaker 2: before he does anything. I'm like, dude, you want me

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Speaker 2: meditative state and not fall asleep.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like I don't.

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Speaker 2: I would fall asleep, even though it's uncomfortable. If if

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Speaker 2: I sat there, had to close my eyes and think

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Speaker 2: about nothing or whatever, I would, I would. You'd be

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Speaker 2: calling me at six o'clock every day going do where

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Speaker 2: you done? Like I'm meditating, I'll get there when I'm done. Aka,

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Speaker 2: I fell my ass asleep. You're supposed to spend ten

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Speaker 2: minutes in the shower, eighteen minutes for breakfast. They talked

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Speaker 2: to two thousand people, and they analyzed all the results.

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Speaker 2: A mathematician did the average answers show the optimal time

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Speaker 2: of the showers ten minutes. People preferring eight hours in

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Speaker 2: bed waking up. This is preferring. This is waking up

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Speaker 2: at six forty four, but not getting up until seven twelve.

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Speaker 1: Now I do that.

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Speaker 2: I get up at four, but I don't get out

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Speaker 2: because I just sit there and do all my stuff

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Speaker 2: in my bed. Okay, yeah, and so I guess there's

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Speaker 2: a way to calculate this mathematically. So to calculate if

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Speaker 2: your routine will put you in a good mood, double

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Speaker 2: the time you spend on breakfast, Then add the minutes

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Speaker 2: spent exercising and showering. Now work out the difference between

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Speaker 2: how long you slept and the optimum eight hours. For example,

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Speaker 2: if you got six and a half hours and the

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Speaker 2: I supposed to guess you're supposed to minus that.

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Speaker 1: So the total this is very complicated.

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Speaker 2: The total minutes for breakfast doubled exercise and showering, divided

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Speaker 2: by the sum on sleeping and getting up times. Then

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Speaker 2: and doing a crossword. If the numbers higher than thirty seven,

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Speaker 2: then you have the best morning. I'm not doing any

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Speaker 2: of this. Oh, that's a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 4: I would like to see the correlation of that to

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Speaker 4: their bank account, Like, yeah, none of it's like millionaires

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Speaker 4: just do that all day, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: But I think this was based on like having a

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Speaker 2: good day. What is just based on the perfect start

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Speaker 2: these people get rich. It just means that this is

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Speaker 4: But I feel like the rich people have that time.

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Speaker 4: You know, this time I got breakfast, breakfast in the morning.

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Speaker 4: What I know for breakfast as a minute shower? What thirtyntes

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Speaker 4: Jeff Bezos doesn't. His first meeting is at ten am.

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Speaker 4: He doesn't schedule a single meeting before at ten am.

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Speaker 4: And he says he likes to get up at like

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Speaker 2: My putter is I'm sleeping. Yeah, Like I don't if

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Speaker 2: I can just screw around like I'm stay in bed,

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Speaker 2: you know. But then again, he's in gazillionaire and I'm not, so,

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Speaker 2: you know, maybe he's doing something right.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 2: He's the friend Shiel Good Morning on the radio and

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Speaker 2: the iHeart app as well. Search for the Fred Shiel

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Speaker 2: on demand. What is this on our sheet today, Paulina

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Speaker 2: about meeting Hobby's grandparents their dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they passed like four years ago.

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Speaker 2: You wrote on this thing, and you're gonna have to

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Speaker 2: explain this to me because it's not something that I

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Speaker 2: know about. I met Hobby's grandparents at the cemetery and

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Speaker 2: it was a party.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a really like bold statement sentence that I wrote.

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Speaker 3: So basically, yeah, they passed four and five years ago,

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Speaker 3: and you know, rust and peace.

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Speaker 1: So I never got to meet them obviously, right, So

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Speaker 1: they're in the ground. They are they're buried.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, they're buried in the ground, right, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And Hobby was very very close to his grandparents, like

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Speaker 3: kind of grew up with them, like grandmother get yeah,

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Speaker 3: I got the tattoos and everything for them, the whole family,

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Speaker 3: like they you know, because they come from a big family,

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Speaker 3: so like everybody got together and it was their anniversary

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Speaker 3: of Grandpa's death. On April thirtieth, so we went yesterday.

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Speaker 3: We went to mass first a church, and then we

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Speaker 1: Know Mexicans like people like the party.

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Speaker 3: So essentially it turned into like there was food and

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Speaker 3: there was like they had some music playing.

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Speaker 1: Really yes, love that. At the cemetery. I was here

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Speaker 1: for it. They were like grilling things. Yeah, grilling, but.

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Speaker 3: They had like tamalis in a bad they had jealous

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Speaker 1: They did. They put food down for them too.

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Speaker 3: No, I saw flowers down there because it's like, how

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Speaker 3: do you call them? Like one of those walls. That's

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Speaker 3: where they're buried.

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Speaker 1: In masoleum, so they're above the ground.

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Speaker 3: They well, yeah, because they were creemated.

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Speaker 1: Is that what it is.

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Speaker 3: I'm not too sure but maybe. But basically they were

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Speaker 1: But then there was like the whole Okay, so this

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Speaker 3: So unfortunately the family was typed as well, and so

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Speaker 3: the security came up and said, do you guys have

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Speaker 2: We do. What do you mean, what's the problem? Would

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Speaker 2: you disrespect others? Would you disrespect Calvin Harris in this way?

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Speaker 2: Mister security guard?

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Speaker 1: No security, So we want to see Molly security guard.

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Speaker 2: We offered him food because he came by again. So

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Speaker 2: another another group that was there had a band that

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Speaker 3: Well, no, it's very common for certain cultures when they

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Speaker 3: in Poland we have like a whole like band, like

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Speaker 1: And the accordion and all of that. We have everything going. Like,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, we're doing death wrong.

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Speaker 1: I think death should be a party and a celebration.

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Speaker 3: But I know a lot of Mexicans do, like we'll

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Speaker 3: bring the mariacci there, you know what I'm saying, So

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Speaker 3: like that's I guess what a lot of people have done.

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Speaker 1: Security assume that's what maybe we were gonna do.

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Speaker 2: So you brought food and booze and maybe there was

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there was no band coming, but now makes me

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and so but that's very common though.

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Speaker 3: People do that, like they get together this idea and

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Speaker 3: you know, they make it all day, like not all day,

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Speaker 3: but they make it like an event. So like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Hold on a second, eight five five five n one

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Speaker 2: dead people party, because this is this is more like

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Speaker 2: what I would want. But I don't think. I don't

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Speaker 2: I don't think I want to be in like a

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Speaker 2: my grandparents are in some sort of my mom calls

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Speaker 2: up their condo, but it's like this bougie and then

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Speaker 2: it was so expensive. It's like it's by where they

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Speaker 2: it has these little glass boxes and then their ashes

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Speaker 2: go to this thing, which is my point. They they

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Speaker 2: She's like, but this was a premium condo and now

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they passed, you know, so I think that's why

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Speaker 1: are we spending all this money on there?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 4: That's what I said to like when my mom passed,

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Speaker 4: My my my mom's out of their family, my dad,

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Speaker 4: they all went to this.

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Speaker 1: They haven't at funeral homes.

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Speaker 4: Like it's like a mausoleum for for earns and it

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Speaker 4: just sits there and you could like decorate it. I'm like,

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Speaker 4: why am I gonna pay? Why are we gonna pay money?

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Speaker 4: Like and I got to make an appointment to see

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Speaker 4: my mom.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. They were like business hours only I'm like, right, and.

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Speaker 4: You could put like you could give them like a

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Speaker 4: flash drive, and so when you come in, like the

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Speaker 4: pictures come on the TV. It's like, why were I

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Speaker 4: was just like I want my mom to be at

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Speaker 4: say like, oh, why we're going to pay money, And

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Speaker 4: I got a schedule an appointment to see my mom.

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, No.

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Speaker 2: I can also see why people spread the ashes too,

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Speaker 2: because it's like, if it gives you comfort to have

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Speaker 2: them in the house, the ashes, like maybe it does

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Speaker 2: for you. Refeel like that's fine, but they're not there.

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Speaker 2: It ain't them, you know what I mean, Like they're gone,

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Speaker 2: They're long gone. It's now, it's just an item. And

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it's a big party. So we actually it

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Speaker 2: It has to be there because that's where their remains are,

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Speaker 1: Used to be or something. You know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So we cleaned. So that's the first thing we

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Speaker 5: And then the bike club comes out, okay, the parents

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Speaker 2: I like it, and I don't want to be wrong

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Speaker 2: Like I don't want any problems.

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Speaker 1: I don't want any problems our demo.

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Speaker 2: But like they'll build these hole and and people can

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Speaker 1: Does he have like furniture? And I don't know, but

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Speaker 2: Who they're looking that up to? Where are you stealing

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Speaker 2: them from? Hey Lindsay, good morning, Lindsay Lindsay, Okay, no

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Speaker 2: I don't know what happened, it says one. It's the

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Speaker 2: Zoey Show. You guys are having an up, you're having

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Speaker 1: We are damn.

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Speaker 8: What is it?

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Speaker 10: What happens so normally, like my dad's University of July thirtieth,

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Speaker 10: I give a prayer and then once that's done, you know,

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Speaker 10: and then we'll have food and we'll have a group

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Speaker 10: I mean, we make it a pretty much like they said,

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Speaker 10: Father's Day is coming, so that'll probably be you'll go

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I just like I have not been back to the

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Speaker 2: don't see a purpose in going there. It seems very

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Speaker 2: like it's a spiritual relationship. I don't need to go

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Speaker 3: Know, why not like celebrate them though there, Like I

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Speaker 3: mean obviously that's where they are, right, so why not party.

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Speaker 4: It sucks now, that's why why don't you go there

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, girl.

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Speaker 2: Them out in the town. Yeah, yeah, like do your

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Speaker 1: Because they're not there. Look if you fight comfort in that,

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Speaker 1: I respect it. But they're not there. I think it's

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Speaker 1: funny to bring her around. It's small enough that I

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Speaker 2: No, it's fine, Thank you, Zoe, have a good day,

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Speaker 2: my bit. No, I said, however you do it is

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Speaker 2: all you. I just I told my mom, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: you spend all this damn money. I think it's just

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Speaker 2: I don't know what she's gonna do. You know, it's

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Speaker 2: like exc I think people want what to do with it? Really, Tiffany, Hi, Tiffany,

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Speaker 2: how are you guys?

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Speaker 1: Tiffany? What what is going on? You did?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: At a funeral?

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Speaker 11: So my I actually wasn't there, but my mom's father,

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Speaker 11: he was were Puerto Rican, so they had his funeral

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Speaker 11: in Puerto Rico. So at his funeral, they had a

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Speaker 1: Nice. I've be into one of those in the Philippines.

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Speaker 1: It's a wild time.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Wow, okay, Hey, I mean.

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Speaker 2: By all means I said, I don't think it's humane,

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Speaker 2: but you know, hey, that's what you want, then, so

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Speaker 2: It's a wild no. I mean, I've never.

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Speaker 12: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I shouldn't say I've never intended one. I don't know

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Speaker 1: I think it would be. Yeah, what were you doing

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Speaker 1: to our time? Is that this weekend? To touch it?

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Speaker 1: How many were there?

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Speaker 1: This is too easy. These jokes are going to write?

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Speaker 8: Was there?

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Speaker 1: They both win? How many winners were there? How do

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Speaker 1: you decide who the winner is? Ose? Now that's I

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Speaker 1: want that at my funeral pods. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I got a little distracted by the Puerto Rican tradition apparently,

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Speaker 2: a new wish. So what happened you guys. Uh, I'm

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Speaker 2: learning this morning. Like I I understand that different cultures

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Speaker 1: I have not heard that.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, that's actually something like in the Mexican tradition that

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Speaker 1: Do that, Okay, And so like you you went to

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Speaker 14: It was actually like maybe I would say, I do

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Speaker 1: Bond that can you get that taco guy to come

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Speaker 1: I do have a taco taco guy to come. Like

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Speaker 4: Like I'm into it, but I would just feel bad,

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Speaker 4: right and there's other people around, you're.

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Speaker 2: Trampling on other people. Yeah, No, you're trampling on other.

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Speaker 4: People's so only problem like the ground and then the

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Speaker 4: then you're stepping on.

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Speaker 1: Other people's The neighbors are calling. They're like town understand,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. You're not knocking other people's braves. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like if you go out there and you're having a

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Speaker 2: is amazing, good do it, but like someone's dead underneath you.

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Speaker 1: Well, everyone's dead at the cemetery. Yeah, I don't ever

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Speaker 1: want That's what I'm saying. Right, Like you want to

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Speaker 3: Ea, getting hammers at the table you like, drop some

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Speaker 3: You're like, that's for you.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you're getting hammer the cemetery. It's all

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Speaker 1: a good time. Thank you, Jose, have a good day.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 3: I don't want somebody I saw on my funeral now.

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Speaker 3: I want to party like I always said. I wanted

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Speaker 3: now I just want like a party.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I want you guys to ball your eyes

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Speaker 1: out pissed. I'm in the ground here, you know, and

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Speaker 1: I'm going to figure out, you know what. This gives

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Speaker 2: Now, I if I'm going to be buried somewhere like

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Speaker 2: post it up somewhere, I need to know who my

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Speaker 2: neighbors are going to be, because what if they are,

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Speaker 2: like what if they're awful?

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Speaker 1: What if they're terrible? Or if they're what they're too loud?

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? Come by, I'll hear them.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: This is a very good thought. Now I got to

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Speaker 2: think about this, like, I hope my grandparents have good neighbors.

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Speaker 2: What if their neighbors suck? I need to look into this.

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't even consider any of that. A party

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Speaker 1: is a party is a party. All are welcome. I

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Speaker 1: better go make sure all my grandplus Tito's to still there.

438
00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:20,000
Speaker 1: Maybe we want to.

439
00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:22,840
Speaker 2: Maybe he's got a neighbor with a banda and they

440
00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,240
Speaker 2: had driven, they ran a tequila or something, so they're like, here, hey, French,

441
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,600
Speaker 2: I gotta borrow those And then now we gotta replenish it.

442
00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:30,919
Speaker 1: They're all invited. Oh my god, that.

443
00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:34,280
Speaker 2: Would freak me out if if I went to the

444
00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:37,480
Speaker 2: my grandpa's condo mausoleum thing and the Tito's was gone.

445
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,119
Speaker 1: That would it would it would That would just be

446
00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:45,040
Speaker 1: like a security working overtime. No one ever comes to

447
00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,320
Speaker 1: visit this guy. So let me just drink this Titos.

448
00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,760
Speaker 2: It's gonna say if if he drank that Tito's, it's

449
00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:51,639
Speaker 2: like an airplane model. He's gonna be pissed because he

450
00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:55,040
Speaker 2: liked the much different drinks than that. He eats the

451
00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,359
Speaker 2: French Shiel Good Morning on the radio and the iHeart

452
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Speaker 2: app as well search for the frend Shiel on demand.

453
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Speaker 1: Helen and I A are the same in some ways.

454
00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,199
Speaker 1: A lot of ways, I'm like this too.

455
00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,840
Speaker 2: My therapist was asking me like, well, why don't you

456
00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:07,680
Speaker 2: find yourself, Like why don't you go on more dates?

457
00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:11,479
Speaker 2: Like well, because then I go through the whole thing.

458
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:16,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, Sunday through Thursday, I have to be

459
00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:20,520
Speaker 2: in my house at like seven ish, because if I'm not,

460
00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:24,520
Speaker 2: then the winding down process doesn't start. And like if

461
00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:26,639
Speaker 2: I'm out, and most people they don't, they can't if

462
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,200
Speaker 2: they have like a normal job, they can't go out

463
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,959
Speaker 2: until six thirty seven anyway, So now I'm out till now.

464
00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:35,479
Speaker 2: The dinner or whatever is going till nine. And then

465
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,359
Speaker 2: if there's some you know, extracurricular activities going on, then

466
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:42,560
Speaker 2: we're you know, at least nine fifteen, nine twenty two,

467
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:44,879
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, something like that, And then

468
00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:46,159
Speaker 2: I got to wind down and go to sleep, and

469
00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 2: then we have to wake up at four something and

470
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,359
Speaker 2: then go do so I don't know, and then I

471
00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 2: pay for it the next day. It's not worth it.

472
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,359
Speaker 2: So then then there's Friday. Well Friday is kind of

473
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Speaker 2: like I don't know what I'm going to feel like

474
00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,320
Speaker 2: on Friday, you know. And then so Saturday, it would

475
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 2: be the day for a date. Really, but then if

476
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 2: I say to someone like on Monday Saturday, let's go

477
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 2: on a date, Well, now I got to do that

478
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 2: all week. I got I'm committed and I don't have

479
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 2: a commitment problem with people. But what if Saturday comes along,

480
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 2: that's six days away, five days away?

481
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,119
Speaker 1: What if I don't want to do it? What if

482
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 1: I no longer want to do the thing?

483
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 2: And you were talking about your Instagram lives, that you do, Klin,

484
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,399
Speaker 2: and you're like, well, I don't tease them, because what

485
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,440
Speaker 2: if the day comes and I don't feel like, you know,

486
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 2: what if I don't want to do it, I've committed

487
00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 2: to it.

488
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:31,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.

489
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,640
Speaker 2: It gives me anxiety to put something way out there

490
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 2: that's elective, because dating is elective. It's not like I'm

491
00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,680
Speaker 2: putting out there going to see my sister or something,

492
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 2: you know, Like that's different. But what if Saturday comes

493
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 2: along and I'm like, you know, I don't really have

494
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 2: the words. I don't have the words for this social outing.

495
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,880
Speaker 1: Because you're a whole different person on Monday versus Saturday.

496
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:53,160
Speaker 1: Like my whole personality changes by it. I agree when

497
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:54,919
Speaker 1: I think it is a good idea on Monday may

498
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,160
Speaker 1: not be a good idea my Saturday exactly.

499
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 2: So then I kind of like to say, like, what

500
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 2: are you doing tonight? But it doesn't go over very well.

501
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 2: People are offended by that. It's like, what do you

502
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,119
Speaker 2: mean what am I doing tonight? You think I wouldn't

503
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 2: have any plans tonight. I'm like, I don't look at

504
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 2: it that way, right, you know, I just I'm just curious, what, like,

505
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 2: what are you doing tomorrow. You think i'd be available tomorrow,

506
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 2: It's like, real, are you? And then there are some

507
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,399
Speaker 2: people who believe in this whole concept that you're not

508
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 2: supposed to be available after Wednesday because if if I

509
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,239
Speaker 2: ask you out post Wednesday and you don't have plans yet,

510
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 2: then you're going to look like you didn't have plans,

511
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 2: like you weren't in demand. That's a real thing I've

512
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 2: heard before. I've read this place before, like the women

513
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,679
Speaker 2: are supposed to decline dates post Wednesday for the weekend

514
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 2: because you're in demand, ladies, and you would never be

515
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 2: available to anyone after Wednesday because because of course you've

516
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 2: already been asked out.

517
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,680
Speaker 3: Yes, I can see how that would work in a

518
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 3: woman's favor as far as, like, you know, I'm a

519
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,920
Speaker 3: woman in demand, you're the man right, you're coming from

520
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 3: me type thing.

521
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be available at the drop of

522
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: a pin.

523
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 3: But I always say this, if we're already talking, we've

524
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 3: established that we've hung out already and I'm interested, Like,

525
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 3: I think it's appropriate and fine to add ask like

526
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 3: what are you doing tonight tomorrow? Like that's fine, now

527
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,640
Speaker 3: it was our first date. What are you doing tomorrow.

528
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 3: I'd be like, sir, no, you got you gotta wait

529
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 3: a week for this.

530
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 2: I just recently had someone do this to me and

531
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 2: I was and honestly it turned me off. I was like, wait,

532
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 2: what you like? What are you talking about? Like, because

533
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 2: I met this person on a Thursday, and I'm gonna

534
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 2: go out this weekend.

535
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 1: Oh no, I have other dates this weekend. I don't

536
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: even know if it's true. That part is weird. They

537
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,199
Speaker 1: tell you like they have other dates or other men.

538
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 1: But that's what you're in, that's what.

539
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 2: That's what by saying that you're not available to a

540
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: guy you just met late in the week, isn't that

541
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 2: what you're implying? I don't have time for you because

542
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 2: there are other people that want to go out with me.

543
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 1: What are you then? I could be busy with my friends.

544
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 3: Maybe I'm gonna do this, maybe I got an event

545
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 3: at work, Like I don't think it necessarily means I'm

546
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 3: going on a date.

547
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,880
Speaker 1: And that's weird. They tell you that. That is weirdo

548
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: energy to me.

549
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,439
Speaker 2: If they're telling you that, girls like, yeah, I got

550
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: another date, Like why we're well, no, I met this

551
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 2: person in person, but nonetheless and then I told her

552
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 2: that I told her to cancel the day.

553
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 1: You should cancel the day. She wouldn't do that, so

554
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 1: that's okay.

555
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 2: But then I'm kind of turned off because I'm like, oh,

556
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 2: so I got to wait till you figure out if

557
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 2: you like the other guy first, like, oh no, that's okay.

558
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 2: And granted this other guy had asked her out prior

559
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 2: to me even meeting her, But of course I think

560
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 2: I'm better than him.

561
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,159
Speaker 1: So I think you should cancel. I thought that was

562
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: a good move. I was proud of you for that

563
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: whole scene.

564
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 2: Or at least I projected. I don't think I'm better

565
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 2: than anyone else. But I'm like, I'm I you should.

566
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:28,919
Speaker 1: You should. I'm standing right here.

567
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 2: You should say no to the other person go out

568
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 2: with me, and said, And at least I maybe it

569
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 2: comes off cocky, but at the same time as not,

570
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 2: what are you supposed to do when you ask someone that, like,

571
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 2: I have another date? What are you supposed to do?

572
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,400
Speaker 15: Be like, Okay, well we should all feel that way

573
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 15: about ourselves. We're the best option. Hello, it's right here.

574
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, But sometimes I think people they they I've never

575
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 2: once been like, hey, you want to go out tonight

576
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 2: or tomorrow, and if the woman is like, yeah, I've

577
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 2: never once thought like nobody wants this chick never mind

578
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,439
Speaker 2: sid Yeah, I just I.

579
00:24:58,480 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: Just want to see if anybody else want to do

580
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: over there. I've never once thought them, you can't play ladies.

581
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: We shouldn't play games like that.

582
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:05,400
Speaker 5: I don't.

583
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 16: I don't think it's necessary. Like if you it's mighty,

584
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 16: Actually you're actually free go.

585
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 17: Out, guine like you have honest answer, like why do

586
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 17: you want to start off an interaction train?

587
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, we all do with you.

588
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,920
Speaker 15: Guys are in long term relationships and things have really

589
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 15: changed down there with all of you.

590
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 1: Just in his defense, but I do I don't know that.

591
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 15: There should be I think everything is so situational. I

592
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 15: don't know it needs to be a rule that fits everything.

593
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 15: I hear what we're all saying now, I hear. The

594
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 15: only thing I'm saying is that I'm on soft girl

595
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 15: TikTok right now. That's my soft girl emma feminine, feminine

596
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 15: and energy.

597
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: How is soft girl TikTok? Here we go, Here we gon?

598
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 3: Basically, my algorithm is telling me that I have a

599
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 3: lot of masculine energy, which I know I do like

600
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,399
Speaker 3: I pick it up from my mother, just like the

601
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,439
Speaker 3: way that I am, Like my mom is very alpha

602
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 3: for sure.

603
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 7: So I know I am too.

604
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 3: And now I'm trying to be in my feminie. I

605
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 3: can't say that word my feminim era meaning your feminine.

606
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:03,199
Speaker 6: Yes.

607
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to lead with what does it have

608
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,239
Speaker 1: to do with TikTok? Well, that's my algorithm. I'm all

609
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: these videos are show algorithms, what I'm gonna say.

610
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 2: And so then you so all this stuff is coming

611
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 2: up on our Instagram that says like that you should

612
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 2: be more feminine.

613
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 3: Yes, and living in a feminine soft girl era, so

614
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 3: like not to be a hard ass blah blah blah

615
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 3: blah blah. But what falls into that is is kind

616
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 3: of like the whole like, no, you're worth thing as

617
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 3: a woman, which like I know we all do here

618
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 3: and I'm not saying we don't.

619
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 6: We all do.

620
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 3: No matter what you choose you, I know you know

621
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 3: you work, You're worth. What I'm trying to say is

622
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 3: that like you can't be so available to they're trying

623
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 3: to say to men, because it's not like a bad thing.

624
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 3: I don't think you sit there and go like wow,

625
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 3: like nobody wants you if you're if you're free tomorrow.

626
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 1: I don't think that.

627
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 3: That's not what I'm saying is that we're supposed to

628
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 3: come off and portray ourselves as not available at the

629
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 3: drop of a pin type thing that's supposed to put

630
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:51,479
Speaker 3: you in your soft girl era.

631
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't agree with that because, like, I don't know,

632
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 2: if this girl had been like, yeah, great, let's go,

633
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 2: like okay, cool, I wouldn't have thought two things about

634
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 2: would I just would have been excited the momentum is

635
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 2: moving forward, Like I was excited to meet her, and

636
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 2: now I'm excited to go out with her. You're not

637
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 2: gonna make me wait ten days because I don't know

638
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 2: I'm ten Like already, I'm turned off by that. What

639
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 2: the hell are you doing for ten days that you

640
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 2: can you know what I mean? This coming from the

641
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 2: same guy that doesn't actually want to commit to something

642
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:14,479
Speaker 2: ten days from now.

643
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 1: That's the other thing. One ten days. I don't know.

644
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 1: I might be I might be being uh, you know, Barbados.

645
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. I always go to Barbados. Everyone knows

646
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: that every ten days I'm there.

647
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 3: Ten days is kind of insane. But if it's like,

648
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 3: I don't know, four or five days, like you wouldn't.

649
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 3: I don't think you would say no just because she says.

650
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 2: But I just think it's silly to you'd rather go

651
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 2: home and sit at your house pretending to be in

652
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: demand than go out with someone because because you because

653
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 2: you've because you've projected onto them that they won't value you.

654
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 2: That doesn't I mean that honestly, that's more in your

655
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 2: head than it is in most other people's.

656
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

657
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe there are guys out there that are

658
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 2: like I couldn't get plan A, I couldn't get planned B.

659
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 2: So yeah, your plans C.

660
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: I don't know.

661
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 2: Maybe, but I guess I don't look at it that way.

662
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: I'm just a guy who doesn't plan well social outings

663
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 2: because I'm a moody guy. I'm a moody guy, and

664
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 2: I don't always, you know, sometimes I don't want to.

665
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: I don't know.

666
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe I want to go out tonight. Maybe I don't.

667
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 2: I haven't decided. But for me to say, for me

668
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 2: to say Wednesday, that Friday, at eight o'clock, I'm going

669
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 2: to meet you for a date seems worlds away, and

670
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 2: I understand that's a turnoff for a lot of people.

671
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 2: But I can also tell you that if I say

672
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:28,880
Speaker 2: to you tonight, hey, waiting to night, let's go to dinner,

673
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 2: that is not intended to be me saying that you

674
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:32,920
Speaker 2: weren't a priority.

675
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: That's just me saying I'm in the mood to go out.

676
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: Are you free? That's it? You are you or aren't you?

677
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: But if you tell me no and then go sit

678
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: on your couch and drink wine because you're trying to

679
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 2: send a message, I'm turned off.

680
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially if I find out you're assuming that she's

681
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: sending a message.

682
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 3: But sometimes people just want to be by themselves drinking

683
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 3: wine after a long week.

684
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: That's not a diss towards anybody, in my opinion.

685
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 2: For you to for me to ask a woman out

686
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 2: to her face and for her to say maybe next

687
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 2: weekend says to me you're trying to send me. You're

688
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 2: telling me because I'm like, what about brunch?

689
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: What about you know? What about what about coffee? What about?

690
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: This doesn't have to be dinner. You don't have anything,

691
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: you can't do anything for eight days. I'm like, okay,

692
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: well this is how it's gonna be.

693
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 3: Well, what if she tells you, I mean, I'm sure

694
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 3: I know the answer to this. So she goes, I'm

695
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 3: out of town for the week. Obviously you're like, that's different. Okay,

696
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 3: but she didn't say that she's a guy.

697
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: I don't know.

698
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: I got a date on Saturday, and then I don't know,

699
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 2: maybe next weekend. And then so automatically I'm like, okay,

700
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 2: so we're gonna So now I gotta sit around wait

701
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: to see how your date goes and maybe next weekend.

702
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 2: And then apparently I was supposed to keep chasing. I

703
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: was supposed to keep asking yes over and over again.

704
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, I gave you three options, you

705
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 2: said no to all three, told me next weekend. Balls

706
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 2: in your court? Now, yeah, you know what I mean?

707
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 2: Like you would you respect me if I just kept

708
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 2: asking over and over again?

709
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 1: Wow?

710
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 2: Waneo, you already know you know? So at what point

711
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 2: are we talking about the your perception of my value?

712
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? If a guy's asking you

713
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: all the topic is needy or something? Yeah, yeah, all

714
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 1: the time, and I'm saying clearly I'm saying no at

715
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 1: that point, you know what I mean? So, yeah, Like

716
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: I get where you're say and you could argue she

717
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: didn't want to go out with me, Well, then just

718
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: say don't give me your number. You know, in that case,

719
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: Hey Ryan, how are you doing? Hey man? You planned

720
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: dates two weeks in advance. How you do that?

721
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 12: Well?

722
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 18: I was just I was just going to suggest that

723
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 18: if you did that, then be thinking, oh man, this,

724
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 18: this guy's got lots of plans all the time.

725
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: Two weeks.

726
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: I appreciate it, but I yeah, I don't even know

727
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 2: if a woman would commit to sign she might two weeks.

728
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 1: Thank you, Ryan, have a good day, you go.

729
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 7: Yeah.

730
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: Something, Yeah, he's girl. There you go.

731
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: Here's a text. No games in dating. You're too old

732
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 2: for that. If someone is meant to progress, everyone pulls this.

733
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 2: That's another thing. I was talking to a friend of

734
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 2: mine that night, and it's like, if she liked you,

735
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 2: she would have figured it out.

736
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: But maybe she did. But instead it was like, this

737
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 1: girl is.

738
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: Young, but this girl's really young, by the way, like

739
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 2: mid twenties young, and so yeah, and someone's like, she's

740
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 2: not interested.

741
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't, maybe not, I guess not. I

742
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: don't know.

743
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 2: It matter to me, but I mean I would much

744
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 2: rather somebody just honestly, I'd rather be ghosted. I'd rather

745
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 2: somebody does not respond to me than than to hang

746
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 2: me out there for weeks.

747
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? I don't, right, Why don't

748
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: you find another date until next week? I didn't about

749
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: Oh you think you think? I went home and just

750
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 1: said around no.

751
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 7: Yes.

752
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 1: So I didn't do that marking off the days in

753
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: this calendar, only four more days. You got a big

754
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: circle of it. Maybe she's not interested. I don't know.

755
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: I guess not. It's easy enough to just say I'm

756
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: seeing someone you know, I don't know.

757
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 2: There's a lot of ways to get someone to stop

758
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 2: asking or to say that you don't want to go

759
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: out with them without saying I don't want to go

760
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 2: out with you.

761
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: This proves my theory.

762
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 2: This is a text that girls think that guys are

763
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 2: more complicated than they actually are, so we make things

764
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 2: complicated because we think you are more complicated. In the end,

765
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 2: we need to drop all the silly expectations and be honest.

766
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: I agree.

767
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: Trust me, most guys are not thinking as far into

768
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 2: it as as you are. And I don't mean it

769
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 2: to make that a male female thing, because I obviously

770
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: have thought about this dynamic for ten days now. I

771
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 2: didn't get my way. But I think most people in

772
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 2: the moment are just they're just trying to get what

773
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: they want. They just they just you know, they're just

774
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 2: going with it right now and not thinking about, well,

775
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 2: you know, if she tells me no then or if

776
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 2: I better say no because I need to look into

777
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 2: man and I have plans and men want me and

778
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 2: women want me and all this stuff. It's like, you

779
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 2: know what, if you meet the right person, all that

780
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: goes out the window anyway, right, Like, if you're more

781
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 2: excited about then why we're not married?

782
00:32:56,040 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 1: Hey, Kiki, we're not married. That's right. Single More Fresh

783
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: show next.

784
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 2: So, a New Jersey woman woke up to find her

785
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 2: Chase bank account was overdrawn by nearly one hundred billion dollars.

786
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 2: What can you imagine your negative one hundred billion?

787
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 7: You know, it's not.

788
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: A billion.

789
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: A New Jersey woman, she woke up and this is

790
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 2: it was. I mean, I'm not even going to tell

791
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:37,120
Speaker 2: you the number. It showed a negative balance of nine

792
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: zero nine nine nine nine.

793
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: That's a lot of nights.

794
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 2: Representative for Chase said the woman's husband recently passed away.

795
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 2: The company would put a hold on the account until

796
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: they could speak to a living relative. I guess they

797
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 2: were able to straighten the whole thing out and they're

798
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 2: looking into what may have caused the uh, the overdraft,

799
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: but yeah.

800
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: Probably still charge with at thirty see what Like we've

801
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: discussed this before in Rufio over here.

802
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 2: He says that if it were to go sometimes it

803
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 2: goes the other way and you wind up with a

804
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 2: bunch of money in your account that isn't yours and

805
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 2: you've said before that you would spend it.

806
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 1: Oh no, I would withdraw all that money. So it

807
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: was never there. You know what I'm saying.

808
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because they're using pencils and hay change their bank.

809
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: No, never figure it out, you know what.

810
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 7: It's like the I R s.

811
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 2: They never forget, Like I owed money on my taxes

812
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: this year, which I don't. I need a new CPA.

813
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 2: This is wow, what's happening? Because I saw the number

814
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 2: I already gave them, and I'm like, that's not enough

815
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 2: for you. And so then I sent the check and

816
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 2: I was like, it's been like it was like six weeks.

817
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe they forgot, maybe they forgot to own it.

818
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 2: They didn't forget they cash it. Why I paid them?

819
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 2: You guys, look on our show, Jason is the rule follower.

820
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 2: I'm not a rule follower, but I pay my bills

821
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 2: because it drives me crazy to know that because it's

822
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,280
Speaker 2: not to our point on Friday, it's not going away.

823
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 2: The people who you owe money to will not just forget.

824
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: So I just pay it, and I just it just hurts. Right,

825
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 2: let's just make the hurt right now. Let's get it

826
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 2: out of the way. Rip the band aid off. And

827
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 2: people are like, well, what if you don't have the money, Well,

828
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 2: then I don't have a lot of money left. But

829
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 2: so the thing on Friday, and that's trying to rehash that,

830
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 2: but you're like, well I'm not ready to pay.

831
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: I'm not ready. Yeah, but it doesn't okay, Like it

832
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 1: doesn't make it any better, Like it's not going to

833
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: go away, there's no money. It's so like what am

834
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: I used to Well, I have no money left when

835
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: it's over, right, But it's over, you know.

836
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 2: So it's like but as opposed to me, it weighing

837
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,439
Speaker 2: on my brain because I have anxiety, so it would

838
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 2: just weigh on my brain that I still owe this money,

839
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 2: still owe this money, So I'd rather just take the hit,

840
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 2: you know now, and then at least I know where

841
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 2: I stand, because again, there's nothing worse like like for example,

842
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 2: this today is the fifteenth. Some of us get paid

843
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 2: in different cycles. I got paid on Friday, right because

844
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 2: I guess the money has to be there by the

845
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 2: fifteenth or whatever, So they paid us in the thirteenth.

846
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: So all weekend I think I'm balling. Guess what anything

847
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 2: I owe it today on the fifteenth comes out today?

848
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 1: Boom boom.

849
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 2: I'm not bawling. I am the opposite of balling. I

850
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: am deflated. Balls I could if you just take a

851
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 2: auto pay.

852
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 16: I thought it was a glitch though. I started doing

853
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 16: my taxes because I do them myself, right, and that

854
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 16: was adding up the numbers, and you know the little

855
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 16: number at the top, it started doing a subtraction like

856
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,439
Speaker 16: I owe, so I know that something had to be wrong,

857
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 16: and I just didn't feel like dealing with that at

858
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 16: that time.

859
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: I just closed the laptime. I'm telling you, it's because

860
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: the state is coming for their money.

861
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 7: Is that what it is?

862
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, not even the state, the state. They owed me

863
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 2: money somehow. Maybe that's why we're broke because they're handing

864
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: money out. No, but it was federal, federal, they got

865
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 2: more money out of me.

866
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, something going on, okay.

867
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 2: And by the way, I went and hired the most

868
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,399
Speaker 2: right wing account and I could find like this dude

869
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 2: is probably doing my taxes in a maga hat right now,

870
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 2: Like I don't see is right wing as I could

871
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 2: find because those dudes they don't want to spend your money.

872
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 2: They don't want to give your money to the government,

873
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 2: So I wouldn't. I'm like, pardon me, sir, don't. I'm

874
00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 2: just saying, man, there are certain people that you want

875
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 2: to do in your taxes, and people that don't think

876
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 2: the government or they think the government have enough money.

877
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 2: That's the guy you want doing your taxes. I don't

878
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 2: need the bleeding heart doing my taxes. Well, you know,

879
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 2: we could give a little more, you know what I mean,

880
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 2: it would come in handy.

881
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 7: No.

882
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 17: No, how many people did you tell yesterday that you

883
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 17: were syndicated. I mean a lot of people just knew

884
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 17: from whatever. But in my life I told a couple

885
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 17: people and they were like, you know, what does that mean?

886
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:45,479
Speaker 1: I don't really know what's for dinner.

887
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 19: I was like to him.

888
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't understand what this means. They're like,

889
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 1: well what does this mean? And I walk around the house.

890
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm syndicated, syndicated talent.

891
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 2: Well, you know me, I'll use any excuse soever to eat,

892
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: you know, food I'm not supposed to eat. So of

893
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 2: course we're syndicated now. So I had to go eat

894
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 2: chicken McNuggets yesterday because well that's what that's what you do.

895
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 1: You sell our movie.

896
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought so too, And so I had to

897
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 2: go down there and like lady was like, what do

898
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,240
Speaker 2: you want. I'm like, twenty piece nugget. I'm syndicated twenty

899
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,919
Speaker 2: nice And she was like, I don't know what that means.

900
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 2: What sauce you go with? Buddy, I'm a barbecue guy.

901
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 2: I'm you know, that's the og. Yeah, everything about McDonald's

902
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 2: is nostalgia. Everything about McDonald's to me, tastes like my childhood.

903
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 2: It's amazing the value of nostalgia. I still do things

904
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: to this day. I ordered the same thing at McDonald's.

905
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 2: Are to the same breakfast, I get some of the

906
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 2: same stuff because it reminds me for some reason, like

907
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 2: as soon as I take a bite I'm like brought

908
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 2: back to you know, a happy time. Yeah, yep, sometimes

909
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 2: not so happy man. So, you know, on honor of

910
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 2: you being a DoorDash driver, how would you have handled this?

911
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 2: A woman shared how she was asked to complete her

912
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 2: husband's door dash order despite being with him in the

913
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 2: emergency room. So the Texas based door dasher got into

914
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 2: an accident while working and rushed at the hospital. Miranda

915
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: was told that her husband had been in an accident.

916
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 2: He was okay, but the car, I guess, had been

917
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 2: completely destroyed, so none of the people involved in the

918
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 2: accident were seriously hurt, thankfully, and the couple were waiting

919
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,439
Speaker 2: for the doctor. He realized the DoorDash order was still

920
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 2: in progress, so he tried to cancel it, but it

921
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 2: was all over the place. He didn't know what he

922
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 2: was doing. He was obviously, you know, traumatized by what

923
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: happened to him. She said, I tried helping and accidentally

924
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 2: called the customer and let her know what happened. I

925
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 2: found a contact support button and it gave me a bot.

926
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 2: Eventually she winds up talking to an agent and the

927
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 2: person goes too bad to know about that situation, But.

928
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 1: Can you complete the order.

929
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 2: What my gosh, what this woman laughed and apparently a

930
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 2: spokesperson for doordask and the interaction with our support team

931
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 2: falls below the high standards we have set for ourselves

932
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 2: at DOORDSKH, especially during a dissing, distressing, and scary time.

933
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:57,240
Speaker 2: We take these matters seriously and are urgently investigating.

934
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:57,919
Speaker 7: Wow.

935
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, oh man, your husband, it's not okay. I

936
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 1: oh wow, that's a shame.

937
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 17: Right.

938
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: Anyway, it's the food.

939
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 17: Cold though, right. I had to call somebody once because

940
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 17: it was like a double order. So I was doing

941
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 17: the first delivery and then I went to go get

942
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 17: back in my car and the battery was dead and

943
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 17: I had their food, so I like was like okay, Well,

944
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 17: so I called the customer and I was like, well,

945
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,839
Speaker 17: you can either cancel the order or I'm like two

946
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 17: blocks over if you just want to come grab it.

947
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 17: So then she just came and got it, and I

948
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:25,399
Speaker 17: just told Customer Support like, sorry, like, my car's done.

949
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? Y? Do you want your

950
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:28,879
Speaker 1: food or do you not want your food?

951
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 2: Chef had that happened before the one, but I think

952
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 2: they were lying because I'll order some good and then

953
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 2: they're like I'm watching it on the tracker, It's like,

954
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 2: why are they driving away from my house? Like they

955
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 2: left the restaurant and went the opposite direction. I'm like,

956
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 2: that's not how you get here. And then and then

957
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 2: you get the message like it's taken a little longer

958
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 2: than expect. It's like, you're right, it is, they're going

959
00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 2: the wrong way.

960
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: Yeah.

961
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 17: The best is when people cancel. I ended up with

962
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 17: like two huge bags of ihop one time because people

963
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 17: just cancel it. And I was like, I got all

964
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 17: these things, like it took forever because the restaurant was

965
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 17: super slow.

966
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 1: So then by the time I got it and then

967
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: I was driving it there, I think they were just

968
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: like over and screw it. And then it's like, oh,

969
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 1: you can either keep it or like you know, give

970
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: it away.

971
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 5: What do you do?

972
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 6: What do you do with it?

973
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 1: Like yes, like it's yours? Yeah, pulled over and his

974
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 1: ateh that thing?

975
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:19,399
Speaker 7: I did?

976
00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: I feel like you would do that? Why you guys

977
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 1: gotta put tape on these bags? I just want to

978
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 1: fry it. Why is there Scotch table over? I don't know,

979
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: man ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

980
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: frend show. Marshall's here. How you doing. It's been better?

981
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: All right?

982
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 2: Well, welcome to waiting by the phone the whole cruise here,

983
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 2: ready to hear the story. You met Tina unhinged? Then

984
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:55,760
Speaker 2: what happened?

985
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I be.

986
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 19: Back and forth a little bit, and then we actually

987
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 19: went out for pizza and yogurt.

988
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: It was superflun, super casual, weird pizza and yoga. So

989
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 1: you got a little more healthy on the yogurt tips.

990
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: So I like his balance.

991
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 19: Yeah, And I mean it was great, Like I definitely

992
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:22,240
Speaker 19: got the feeling like there was potential in us dating,

993
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 19: you know, like we both really hit it off. And

994
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 19: I mean, I will say the only thing. I went

995
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 19: in to kiss her at the end, and she gave

996
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 19: me the cheek Okay, but I mean, you know it's

997
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 19: not that big of the deal. Some girls just don't

998
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 19: hit fifty.

999
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1000
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, So I texted.

1001
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 19: Her, you know, want to meet up again, and she

1002
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 19: just gusted me.

1003
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: I haven't heard from her, okay, So you get the

1004
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,360
Speaker 2: you get this sort of you know, turn for the cheeks,

1005
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 2: so you get the cheek kiss and now she's ghosting you.

1006
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:54,840
Speaker 2: But otherwise you thought everything was pretty good and you

1007
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 2: were hoping to hear from her or if nothing else.

1008
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 2: You know, people talk about this all the time. It's like, well,

1009
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 2: they don't know you, they don't have to go out

1010
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 2: with you again. You know, you go on one date,

1011
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 2: no one owes you another date. No, but I suppose

1012
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: you know, sometimes it's nice to know, if someone's willing

1013
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 2: to tell you, it's nice to know what happened and

1014
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 2: why it didn't work out. So you can kind of

1015
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: close that chapter right absolutely, All right, Well, let's see

1016
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 2: what's going on. We're gonna call Tina. You'll be on

1017
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 2: the phone. We'll see what she'll tell us at some point.

1018
00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 2: Definitely coming on a call, and hopefully we can straighten

1019
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:22,880
Speaker 2: this out, and if so, we'll set you guys up

1020
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 2: on another date that we pay for.

1021
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: Okay, awesome.

1022
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 2: Can you hang on for a second. Let's see what

1023
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 2: happens next. Part two of Waiting by the Phone after

1024
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 2: this song on The Fred Show. Good morning, It's the

1025
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 2: Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Part

1026
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 2: two Waiting by the Phone. Marshall, welcome back. Let's call Tina.

1027
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 2: You met on Hinge when on a date you thought

1028
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:47,439
Speaker 2: everything went great, you felt good about it, but she's

1029
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 2: ghosting you. Now you've reached out to try and schedule

1030
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,399
Speaker 2: another date, she's not responding. You want to know why,

1031
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 2: Let's call her now? Good luck?

1032
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 13: Hello?

1033
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 19: Hi?

1034
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: Is this Tina? Yes, Tina?

1035
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 2: Good morning Fred from The Fred Show, Jason Ruvill, Paulina

1036
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: Kle and everybody's here. I have to tell you that

1037
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 2: we are on the radio right now and I need

1038
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 2: your permission to continue with the call. Is it okay

1039
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 2: if we keep talking?

1040
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 7: Oh?

1041
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I know it's weird. We appreciate you for

1042
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 2: for taking the time, but I'll get right to it.

1043
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Marshall who

1044
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 2: reached out to us. Apparently you met him on Hinge

1045
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 2: and you guys went out on a date.

1046
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we did. Okay, so what Yeah? What happened?

1047
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 2: Because I think he was opening here for I know

1048
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 2: he was opening here from you again and go on

1049
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 2: another date and you're not responding, So what's the deal?

1050
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 6: That's weird? Yeah?

1051
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 5: Well we did.

1052
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 6: We went on a date. I was really looking forward

1053
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 6: to it and everything seemed pretty cool, like I was

1054
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 6: excited for like pizza and troio, you know, but there's

1055
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 6: there's just there was just some stuff that parceled it.

1056
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: That was definitely a turn off for me, Like, what

1057
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: what did he do?

1058
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 6: Okay, so we went to this pizza place and then

1059
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 6: he suggested that we share a pop which is which

1060
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,320
Speaker 6: is fine. It was self serve, and I thought it

1061
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 6: was like a very lady in the tramp kind of way.

1062
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 1: Okay, so you get a pizza but only on drink.

1063
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was weird. Yeah, that was kind of weird.

1064
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: But I was like, oh, this is romantic, you know.

1065
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 7: It was.

1066
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 6: That was very logical, but so yeah, romantic over and

1067
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 6: I was like, well, maybe this is kind of cute,

1068
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 6: but it was weird. But then we finished eating and

1069
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 6: as we were leaving, he just takes like a bunch

1070
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 6: of parmesan cheese packets and just stuffs them in his pockets.

1071
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 2: Oh all right, so we saved a little bit on

1072
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 2: the drink and now we got some parmesan to take

1073
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 2: home with us.

1074
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: Okay.

1075
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was very weird and I was like, okay,

1076
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 6: that's strange. And then I asked him. I was like,

1077
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:03,919
Speaker 6: what's going on. He's like, oh, this is from my house.

1078
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,359
Speaker 6: I take it from my house. Why buy it when

1079
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 6: you can get it for free, right, And I was like,

1080
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 6: this is not okay, So that's nothing wrong with that.

1081
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if that's everyone has that in

1082
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 1: their fridge. That's a first day move.

1083
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 2: You're right if you order food to your home and

1084
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 2: a bunch of stuff comes and you want to save

1085
00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:27,800
Speaker 2: some of it in case, in case, for some reason,

1086
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 2: they don't send it to you one time, fine, but

1087
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 2: I mean on a day taking a stuff home, I

1088
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 2: don't know or was there more?

1089
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:38,399
Speaker 6: No, there's there's one more. Well, we went to get

1090
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 6: some frozen yogurt and one of those like self serve places,

1091
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 6: and he asked for she kept asking for extra sample cups,

1092
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:50,840
Speaker 6: the giant samples, and then left without buying anything. I

1093
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 6: just find that's so cheap, you know, way like.

1094
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: You guys just had samples or did he buy you

1095
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 1: or no, for.

1096
00:46:56,800 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 6: Himself, just for himself, just for a giant samples he

1097
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 6: asked for, and let's say he just like ate them all.

1098
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 6: And he was like, I'm ready to go.

1099
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 2: Let me, let me bring Marshall into the cal I

1100
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 2: forgot to mention that Marshall's here, and you've been very

1101
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: patient throughout this martial. I mean, look, I'm all about

1102
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,320
Speaker 2: saving money where you can, but on a few I

1103
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 2: don't know. I mean, there's a few sort of tact

1104
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 2: tissues here. But also do you really want to to

1105
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 2: to sort of don't you want to spoil somebody on

1106
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 2: a first date?

1107
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 19: Yeah, well I'm being economical.

1108
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: Well, yes you are. I mean there's no real doubt. Yeah,

1109
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 2: that's a very frugal person. Yeah, but I mean you

1110
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 2: want to spoil somebody on a date. You want to

1111
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 2: make it feel special, and samples and and and sharing

1112
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 2: a drink is not special.

1113
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 19: Well I get that, but at the same time, like

1114
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 19: I want wealth, like that's a priority for me in

1115
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 19: my life. And in order to have money, you can't

1116
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 19: spend money.

1117
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's very true. I mean that is true.

1118
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 2: But aren't there sometimes when you splurge, like when you're

1119
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 2: trying to im as someone, when you're trying to make

1120
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 2: a good impression and get them to go out with

1121
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 2: you again, maybe marry you.

1122
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 19: I mean, I guess, but that's the big quality of

1123
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 19: my life and I don't like I would want my

1124
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 19: partner to know that. And in a way, that was

1125
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 19: me showing that.

1126
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 2: That I'm being well said, Okay, how about this isn't

1127
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 2: taking someone on nice dates and showing them a good time.

1128
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:21,760
Speaker 1: Isn't that investing in your future?

1129
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 2: Huh?

1130
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: You think of how much you could say if you

1131
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: marry this girl and she moves in pays half the rent.

1132
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 1: How about that?

1133
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 19: I mean that that is a good point, Peter. I

1134
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 19: don't want you to think that that I'm this like

1135
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 19: bastard guy.

1136
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 6: I'm not like.

1137
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 19: I just think.

1138
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 6: I mean, that's well, we're out together. At least pay

1139
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 6: for your hat, you know what I mean. It's a

1140
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,360
Speaker 6: little weird when you're trying to skimp over just to

1141
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 6: share a pop.

1142
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 19: It's just it, you know, I mean, I I understand.

1143
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well look, would you let me ask

1144
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 2: you this, Uh, Tina, would you consider another day with

1145
00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:02,439
Speaker 2: this guy? If maybe he I know, extends a little

1146
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 2: bit here, gets your own drink it last, I respect

1147
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 2: somebody who's trying to save money. I just think there's

1148
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:07,360
Speaker 2: a time and a.

1149
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:12,919
Speaker 12: Place like yeah, I mean, if he changes his ways

1150
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 12: a little bit, like listen, if we compromise here and

1151
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 12: you find the leveled ground, and yeah, wow.

1152
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: Wow, you can have your second day at Costco and

1153
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: get all the sampas. Ye don't don't listen to him.

1154
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't know that you a hot dog.

1155
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 2: And then the free drink comes with it, so get

1156
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: a drink everyone, he said, Wow, okay, so Marshall you

1157
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 2: get another chance.

1158
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 1: Were by the way, we're paying for it, so Jesus Marshall,

1159
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 1: this is a great success. Yes truly, okay, all right,

1160
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: well ill luck to you guys.

1161
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 2: Thank you for your time, and and I hope it

1162
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,720
Speaker 2: works out. It's the Fred Show, Good morning on the radio,

1163
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 2: and the iHeart app as well. Search for the Fred Show.

1164
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 2: Onto Linda, get out of the shower, because I'm about

1165
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 2: to tell you what you need to know, all right, Linda,

1166
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 2: So get the sun, Linda, get the SuDS off your

1167
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 2: naked body, and uh, I mean, don't act.

1168
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:17,840
Speaker 1: And we don't know what Linda looks like.

1169
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 2: You know, I think she's she's gorgeous if she listens

1170
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 2: to us, unbelievable, radiant. But like even if you got

1171
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 2: some shampoo left in the here, like get out, listen,

1172
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 2: you can get back in fix it later, you know,

1173
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 2: because because we need to make I don't I don't

1174
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 2: want any decks or tweets or smoke signals or or

1175
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,320
Speaker 2: faxes or I don't want anything later on today. Certainly

1176
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 2: not a fact because Jason will.

1177
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 1: Click on that. Well, don't flex me. I love how

1178
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 1: you almost.

1179
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,879
Speaker 2: Got scammed two weeks ago, and it was a woman

1180
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 2: from supposedly from our company emailing you a fax. You

1181
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 2: were I don't even questioned. I was like, this is

1182
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 2: a jet She's like sending me some document who it

1183
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: turns out to be a legitimate person. So whoever this

1184
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 2: scammer was like did their homework. But I just think

1185
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 2: it's funny that that you clicked on a link of

1186
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 2: a woman who works at the company who emailed you

1187
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 2: a fat.

1188
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, just saying what need she's faxing? This is really important,

1189
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 1: like hitting top secret stuff, you know.

1190
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,719
Speaker 2: Like like around the same time when I got a

1191
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 2: texture myself and I'm like, oh my god, wait what

1192
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 2: they're in my phone?

1193
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:33,319
Speaker 1: They're already in here.

1194
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 20: But see that.

1195
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: I was like, that's a bot.

1196
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 2: No, it's a scam. I didn't click on it. Though,

1197
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 2: you're better than me. I click on some stuff. I

1198
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 2: get into some stuff sometimes when I get in these

1199
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 2: rabbit holes and I just I wonder, I'm sure my

1200
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,360
Speaker 2: computer is just full of phone tracking device?

1201
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 7: Who knows?

1202
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 2: I mean at this point's like, I'm not doing anything illegal,

1203
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,800
Speaker 2: so just to have at it, I look at the

1204
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 2: same stuff as everybody else. You know, I would tell

1205
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 2: you maybe the tangent tangency today. I'll tell you what

1206
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 2: I got in a rabbit hole clicking on the other day.

1207
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 2: And I don't know if I'm someone should call me

1208
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 2: and tell the other viruses for your phone, Like, how

1209
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 2: would I know that? In my computer it has got

1210
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 2: the virus cleaner in it, right, and so I you know,

1211
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 2: it looks every now and again and supposedly takes the

1212
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 2: viruses away, supposedly, But my phone you don't have that,

1213
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 2: so I can can like if I click on the

1214
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 2: wrong stuff in my phone? Are they in my phone

1215
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 2: now any more so than Uber already is. I'm watching

1216
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 2: that super Pumped show on Showtime, and Uber is is

1217
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 2: or was in your phone? All the rest of these

1218
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 2: apps are too. They're looking at that, they're listening, they're

1219
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 2: looking at everything we do.

1220
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: They collect data that way.

1221
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they see everything. They're way past that. They're

1222
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,399
Speaker 4: in your mind, because I think they are. I thought

1223
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 4: of stuff, never said it out loud before, and it

1224
00:52:54,840 --> 00:53:00,080
Speaker 4: shows up. I think you're in my algorithm of Instagram, Like, I.

1225
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 1: Think you're right. Yeah, I think they could already see

1226
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: what's in your brain.

1227
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was always under the assumption. I don't

1228
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 3: know who told me this years ago. I'm talking like

1229
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 3: five six years ago, that MacBooks can't even get viruses.

1230
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:13,399
Speaker 1: That used to be true.

1231
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 2: I don't think that's true anymore, because I think it

1232
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 2: was like true, yeah, if somebody knows what the hell

1233
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 2: they're talking about, eight five five five and I won

1234
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 2: one three five. I think that was true because I

1235
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 2: remember a lot of people didn't have mac books for

1236
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 2: a while, right, and so it was like the viruses,

1237
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 2: it didn't make any sense to make viruses for them

1238
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:30,839
Speaker 2: because it wasn't there weren't that many people to pray upon.

1239
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: I thought that was the story. I could be wrong

1240
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: about this, And now I feel like everybody has a MacBook.

1241
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 19: Yeah I don't.

1242
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:39,400
Speaker 15: I've never gotten knock on Wood had anything on my

1243
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 15: Any of my max that you're aware of.

1244
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: Doesn't bother me. I have way bigger problems than who's

1245
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 1: watching me do what I can think.

1246
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:48,320
Speaker 2: The only thing that would bug me is if you

1247
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 2: got in my financial I don't care if you look

1248
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:51,720
Speaker 2: at me naked to the camera.

1249
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 1: Good luck that I cover enjoy that.

1250
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know who wants to see that,

1251
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 2: But I mean, like, the only thing that what bothered

1252
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 2: me is if you got into my financial or my

1253
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 2: identity stuff, because that's just a big pain in the

1254
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 2: butt for me. Yeah, even happens, that's the only thing

1255
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 2: that bothers me. You want to look and see what

1256
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 2: I'm searching, go ahead, it's not that interesting.

1257
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 1: I don't care.

1258
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, look, but I do want to know, and I'll

1259
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 2: tell you in the tangent how I got there. But

1260
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 2: I kind of think maybe if there's such a thing

1261
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 2: as people being able to look at your phone and

1262
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 2: or like virus up your phone. That's what it's called

1263
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 2: in the technical world.

1264
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 1: Virus. Yeah, that's what they call it, like the techie's

1265
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: call it.

1266
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:31,439
Speaker 2: Then, like on the black of the on the dark web,

1267
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:35,240
Speaker 2: I'm a virus up this guy's phone. Hold on a second,

1268
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 2: we got we got experts. Now look at this. I'm

1269
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 2: telling you.

1270
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 1: This is the best. This is one of the best parts.

1271
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 2: The best part of being a radio host is being

1272
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 2: able to talk to a bunch of people who you

1273
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 2: might never meet.

1274
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 1: That's the best part. The second best part.

1275
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 2: Is when you need an answer to a question and

1276
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 2: and you know your radio show airs in a big

1277
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:54,160
Speaker 2: enough city then like this one and you can just

1278
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 2: say I need to answer it, and somebody out there

1279
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 2: is the expert in it. Somebody knows the answer. Brendan,

1280
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 2: good morning. Hi Brendan. Hey yeah, Hi, Hey, Yeah, you're

1281
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 2: on the radio. Did you have like a voice? Are

1282
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 2: you like a dark web hacker with a voice tens to.

1283
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: Run or something? Is it anonymous?

1284
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:15,399
Speaker 7: No, you're a guy.

1285
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1286
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 2: For a minute, it sounded like I am anonymous, rush out,

1287
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:19,880
Speaker 2: watch out for me, and we protect you.

1288
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: That's what it sounded like. For a minute, We're gonna

1289
00:55:22,160 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 1: shut down all of your watch system. Okay, so you

1290
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 1: work in.

1291
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:27,239
Speaker 19: That's what you do?

1292
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 7: Well, I'm well, I'm an I specialist. So but what

1293
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 7: I do specialize in my job is making sure that

1294
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:39,200
Speaker 7: our where he's always working, the bows updating anything. So

1295
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 7: I can kind of talk about this for one, something

1296
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 7: I can actually talk about I don't sup about.

1297
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So what's the deal. So are there viruses on

1298
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 2: the phone on the iPhone? Can I get viruses there?

1299
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1300
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 12: You can get.

1301
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 7: Viruses anywhere, So you guy made a statement like a

1302
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 7: couple of moment to go saying that back in the

1303
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 7: day that mac uh used to be like invulnerable the

1304
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 7: viruses that used to.

1305
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 1: Be the case.

1306
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 2: And so.

1307
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 7: Probably about I say, about ten years ago. Uh, that's

1308
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 7: when virus started popping up because hackers back in the

1309
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 7: day started trying to find ways to just hack everything

1310
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 7: they can get their hands on, because they want to

1311
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 7: always get you know, people's money, people's you know, identity

1312
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 7: and things that I need.

1313
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 2: You Okay, well, how you know if I have a

1314
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,239
Speaker 2: virus on my phone though, because I'm not aware of

1315
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 2: any any you know, to app or anything that cleans

1316
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 2: it up.

1317
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 7: Actually, the best, the best pop a way to know

1318
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 7: that you have a virus on your like for instance,

1319
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 7: on your cellphone where there'd be an iPhones or Android. Uh,

1320
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 7: just fraend them pop up, start popping up.

1321
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:48,719
Speaker 1: How do you get out of it?

1322
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 7: You have to have you have to have antivirus software.

1323
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:56,799
Speaker 7: There's a bunch of cleaning software in the like.

1324
00:56:56,880 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 2: Has stores, Brandon, Now you got me, they got me

1325
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:04,840
Speaker 2: worried they might be looking at my wild Amazon purchases

1326
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:07,800
Speaker 2: and just you know, I'm out here looking at crazy

1327
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 2: stuff all the time.

1328
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 1: Reddy and I gotta go, I gotta go. I gotta

1329
00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 1: go find a thing. Thank you. Have a good day, right,

1330
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: extremely worried about this now, Katie.

1331
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 2: Ow, Hi Katie, you got three hundred and ninety viruses

1332
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 2: on your MacBook?

1333
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: Good morning? How you get three hundred and what are

1334
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: you looking at?

1335
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 2: Girl?

1336
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 4: Oh?

1337
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 13: I was watching fifty of Gray on my books.

1338
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 7: Virus.

1339
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 1: You were watching fifty Girls with Gray. That's what you

1340
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 1: were watching.

1341
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 2: You were watching You're watching something else in the in

1342
00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 2: the red room of paying my friend you that's not

1343
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 2: you are watching them.

1344
00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: You aren't on Netflix. I'll tell you right now. I

1345
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 1: was not on Netflix.

1346
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 6: I could tell you that.

1347
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 2: So you were watching fifty States of Gray you supposedly, Yeah,

1348
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 2: air quotes and laty and viruses.

1349
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 13: You know, back in college and my friend sent me

1350
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 13: a website could go watch fifty Shades of Gray when

1351
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 13: the new one just came out. So I put it

1352
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 13: on my MacBook and I got three hundred and ninety

1353
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:15,960
Speaker 13: eight viruses. Had to go to the Apple store and

1354
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:18,240
Speaker 13: the guy did not believe me that I was watching

1355
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 13: fifty Shades the Gray.

1356
00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 2: Those guys have got to be so desensitized at this point.

1357
00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 2: It's like I wouldn't even bother telling them a story.

1358
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 2: I'd be like, I don't know, fix it. Like it's

1359
00:58:26,640 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 2: like you and you already know, you already know how

1360
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 2: I got into this. Okay, so what did they They

1361
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 2: wiped it out for you and you'd get to start over,

1362
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 2: or what did you do?

1363
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 19: He had to just wipe my whole computer?

1364
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 2: Well, Katie, stop looking at that happened with the viruses? Like, yeah,

1365
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 2: did they get any information?

1366
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: They they did.

1367
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 13: He looked at me and he said, I don't think

1368
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 13: you were watching fifty Shades the Gray.

1369
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 5: Wiped my computer and.

1370
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 19: Told me have a good day, all right.

1371
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 2: Well he was probably right, Katie, and it's okay, don't

1372
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 2: be ashamed of it. S all right, have a good day,

1373
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:02,920
Speaker 2: you do for listening. When my sister was in college,

1374
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 2: and this.

1375
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:06,520
Speaker 1: Was before, I don't know, maybe this wasn't I don't

1376
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 1: know what this was.

1377
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: Oh, this was so when I was in college, we

1378
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:14,919
Speaker 2: had like Napster and those all those illegal music downloading sites,

1379
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 2: and it was before like they were cracking down on

1380
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 2: it before we sort of I don't know, manifested that

1381
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 2: it was wrong to be stealing music. Basically, it's all

1382
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 2: over college. Everybody was downloading stuff and sharing stuff whatever.

1383
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,440
Speaker 2: So like, I don't know, just seven years later, my

1384
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:29,600
Speaker 2: sister's in college, this stuff has all gone away now.

1385
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 2: But instead they had like internal ways of sharing music.

1386
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,880
Speaker 2: Now they had some other way among like the dorm

1387
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 2: of doing it. And so she had all the music right,

1388
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 2: and she has this massive library. So I'm like, hey, well,

1389
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 2: give me your computer. I'm gonna hook up to mind.

1390
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna download all your songs onto Mind because

1391
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 2: I want to see you know what you got and

1392
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 2: what I don't have and whatever.

1393
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: So we do it, and I find a.

1394
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 2: Folder among all this and it was like it was

1395
00:59:56,240 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 2: like hard hardcore adult like hard core like I can't

1396
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 2: describe to you at six thirty in the morning. When

1397
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 2: and I'm like a man, uh, what on earth? And

1398
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:11,919
Speaker 2: she's like this said has not mine. That's not mine

1399
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 2: like that, I don't know. Somebody must. That must have

1400
01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,439
Speaker 2: been like part of the downloads from the dorm or whatever.

1401
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, ahmn, dog oh, let me just drag and

1402
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 2: drop him on a copy of that.

1403
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 1: He's over here. It's in my computer too.

1404
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 4: Well.

1405
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 2: No, if they were infect hers, that's a little weird,

1406
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 2: like not hers, hers, but you know like if that's

1407
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 2: something that she watched for entertainment, then I yeah, like

1408
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 2: I don't need to see it. That's like if I'm like, like,

1409
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 2: don't ever share that stuff. Like that's like the old

1410
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 2: joke about back when when that stuff was on tape,

1411
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 2: Like you always hit rewind if you're if your buddy

1412
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 2: gives you a tape and it's like, this is really great,

1413
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 2: hit rewind because you know the right right where?

1414
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:53,439
Speaker 1: Then right? Why did it stop? Five minutes in time?

1415
01:00:53,560 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 1: Minutes long time? Anyway we found I like this storyline. Yeah,

1416
01:01:01,520 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 1: there has to be a really good plot. Get there? Yes,

1417
01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: why am I there be two people? I don't need this.

1418
01:01:08,760 --> 01:01:09,640
Speaker 1: The acting so bad?

1419
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 2: Isn't there an option on one of the sites where

1420
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 2: you can actually skip the plot?

1421
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 1: I want to say there was a there was a link.

1422
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 2: Maybe that's a virus and maybe that's what maybe like

1423
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 2: I want to say, recently I saw where there was

1424
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 2: a link where you can just get right to it,

1425
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 2: like you don't have to watch the setup.

1426
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 1: You don't need the setup, no, because.

1427
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 2: It's the acting is terrible. If they were good actors

1428
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 2: and actresses, they'd be in movies like real movies.

1429
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 1: Need to ye yourself up. You're here to see the house.

1430
01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:37,760
Speaker 1: I got it already, right, you know why are you feeling?

1431
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:37,960
Speaker 18: Oh?

1432
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 1: This is from my It's for my client. I look

1433
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 1: at right exactly so the producers are going to want

1434
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 1: to see.

1435
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 2: Come on, I can't look at it. I can't look

1436
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,160
Speaker 2: at a black couch the same way. Ever, I guess

1437
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 2: you just started a.

1438
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 1: Video where they're stuck in the watching machine.

1439
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:57,000
Speaker 2: I don't even know how they got its mystery always

1440
01:01:57,640 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 2: how did you get stuck out of this think? I

1441
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 2: have no Yeah, you can't get out the only way

1442
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 2: out anyway. I don't even know how we got here.

1443
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 2: I never know how we got anywhere. Each the Fred

1444
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 2: Show Good Morning on the radio, and the iHeart app

1445
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 2: as well. Search for the Fred Show on to make

1446
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:14,080
Speaker 2: I'm at to.

1447
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1448
01:02:15,560 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 2: Might be one of those days where I got to,

1449
01:02:16,880 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 2: like you see the words in my mind, you know,

1450
01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 2: and then like mouths you know what I mean, like

1451
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 2: wrap my mouth around the words.

1452
01:02:25,240 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 1: Do some vocal warm ups? I think I need to,

1453
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 1: like how do you me me me me me, me,

1454
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: me me me?

1455
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 7: What do they do?

1456
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 1: What do they say? Like red Cat dog.

1457
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they say they say red cat dog, red

1458
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:43,919
Speaker 2: cat dog.

1459
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: But I don't know. They say some weird stuff like that,

1460
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 1: red leather, yellow leather. No, yeah, is that what they say?

1461
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 1: I swear to god, I don't know.

1462
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 2: Do you think I would do the vocal warm up?

1463
01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 2: So before the program started, I shall be Shelly us

1464
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 2: here this morning.

1465
01:03:01,960 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 1: During nine. What is it? It's it's not red and cat,

1466
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 1: yellow banana? What is it? I forgot. I don't know,

1467
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 1: but I have heard people's that's what we normally do.

1468
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: It's a bunch of tongue twisters, right, yeah, yeah, I

1469
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: mean we normally out of here. Red, red leather, yellow leather. Yeah, hello,

1470
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 1: what was that? If I wasn't visible, I was just

1471
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 1: I'm making sure it was. I was saying it was right.

1472
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:40,439
Speaker 1: He was thankshaking news Unique New York. Oh you neque York.

1473
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: Because this is the kind of stuff I need to

1474
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: be doing before I come in here every day. Toy boat,

1475
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 1: toy boat, toy boat.

1476
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 2: But said in the first five seconds of the show,

1477
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 2: I just go like I was drinking on a Wednesday,

1478
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 2: binge drinking on a Wednesday.

1479
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 4: She makes a proper cup of coffee in a copper

1480
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 4: coffee cup.

1481
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say to see you another scene where what

1482
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to say?

1483
01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 11: Did you hear this one?

1484
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:06,880
Speaker 1: Red leather, yellow leather?

1485
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:07,440
Speaker 6: No?

1486
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:10,959
Speaker 2: I wish somebody had told me about that. I wish

1487
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 2: somebody had told me that it was red leather, yellow

1488
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 2: leather in that red banana, green monkey or something. Whenever

1489
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:20,760
Speaker 2: I was saying Jason Brown, Hi, good morning, rufio. Hey,

1490
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 2: did you hear this one? You could do is red leather,

1491
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 2: yellow leather, plina? Why didn't you tell me about that one?

1492
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 1: He beat me to it. He's just so quick, so fast,

1493
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 1: and so than me.

1494
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:35,959
Speaker 13: Today.

1495
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 1: Incibly. No, it's invisible, insible. So I could just watch

1496
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 1: you in your room. More fread show next right here.

1497
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 2: Fread show is a little recap of or an update

1498
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 2: I should say. Remember I told you on social media

1499
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 2: I saw a picture of a woman that I dated

1500
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:59,840
Speaker 2: like fifteen years ago with a woman that I would

1501
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 2: enjoy dating now, and so that we had a debate

1502
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 2: over whether or not I should contact woman I used

1503
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:10,919
Speaker 2: to date fifteen years ago who's now Mary, and asked

1504
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 2: her to hook me up with her friend woman I

1505
01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 2: would like to date now, and so I took Caylen's advice,

1506
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 2: and I was a little goofy about it, and she

1507
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 2: got back to me and said, you know what, you

1508
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 2: are like the thirtieth person today to ask me to

1509
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 2: do that. She said, but your approach is by far

1510
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:35,200
Speaker 2: the best. Oh, so she goes, I'll let you know. Now,

1511
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 2: I haven't heard anything, so I think she's seeing somebody.

1512
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 2: But it doesn't matter. I did actually reach out to

1513
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 2: the girl that I used to play the Boom Boom

1514
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 2: game with and asked her to allow me hook me

1515
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 2: up with someone else to play the Boomom game with.

1516
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 2: And I don't know what it's going to work out,

1517
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 2: but I thought the exchange went very well.

1518
01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, she didn't mind, and then she went and listened.

1519
01:05:59,360 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 1: I guess.

1520
01:05:59,880 --> 01:06:01,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, this did come up on the air today.

1521
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 2: So she went and listened. She was like, thank you

1522
01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 2: for being vague about who you're talking about. I'm like,

1523
01:06:06,560 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 2: you're welcome.

1524
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 1: We found her five seconds though. You didn't find the girl,

1525
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: yes girl, No, no, you're talking to your interest inspiration.

1526
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 1: You didn't. You didn't find me? No no, no, no, no,

1527
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 1: you're not that good. Maybe you were.

1528
01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 2: I'm not challenging you I'm not challenging you to it.

1529
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 2: So that was this interesting conversation. But it comes back

1530
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,440
Speaker 2: to do you ask somebody who you once dated to

1531
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:33,160
Speaker 2: hook you up with someone else that they know? And

1532
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 2: I guess the answer is, in some cases you can

1533
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 2: get away with that. We'll see if it works out.

1534
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 2: Though it's far fam I would love to have heard

1535
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 2: what that conversation was like, though, how do you know

1536
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 2: this guy?

1537
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 1: Well, well, it was a long time ago.

1538
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 2: It's the Fresh shel Good Morning on the radio and

1539
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:53,440
Speaker 2: the iHeart app as well search for the Fredshiel on demand.

1540
01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:54,760
Speaker 1: What made you think calen of this?

1541
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 2: Because we get together every morning around three point thirty

1542
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:00,440
Speaker 2: in the writers We haven't found the writers room yet,

1543
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 2: so we go to where we think the writers might

1544
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 2: might be and we still haven't found them, but we

1545
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 2: get together.

1546
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 1: We have deep conversation.

1547
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 2: Extreme When you listen to the show, you know it's

1548
01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:13,920
Speaker 2: it's well thought out and planned. It actually is. It

1549
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:17,920
Speaker 2: just doesn't actually usually go that way, believe it or not.

1550
01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:20,680
Speaker 2: Like people and this isn't us student, this is not

1551
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:23,440
Speaker 2: me shooting my own horn, but people are like, so

1552
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 2: do you guys, is it just like do you write

1553
01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 2: all this stuff or whatever.

1554
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:28,000
Speaker 1: It's like, Actually, we.

1555
01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 2: Spend hours every day thinking about the next day and

1556
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 2: what we're going to talk about, and we all share

1557
01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:37,040
Speaker 2: ideas and then Caitlin organizes them, and then I organize

1558
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 2: them one step further, and I actually have this entire

1559
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 2: sheet every single morning right in front of me of

1560
01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 2: the stuff that we're going to do, and we usually

1561
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 2: do about none of it, and we wind up talking

1562
01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:49,919
Speaker 2: about something entirely different and somehow it works. So it's fine,

1563
01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 2: But how did you think of this this teacher topic?

1564
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 6: Like, so.

1565
01:07:56,560 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 2: What you were talking, what you were referencing, is for

1566
01:07:58,920 --> 01:08:01,680
Speaker 2: some reason, you remembered some thing strange that a teacher did.

1567
01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 15: Yeah, So I was talking with one of my best friends,

1568
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 15: Ali about I feel like we all have these repressed

1569
01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 15: memories of like a teacher that had like a really

1570
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 15: weird thing that they did with the students, not like

1571
01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 15: in a bad way, but like that you just thought

1572
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:16,599
Speaker 15: it was normal at the time. So her teacher had

1573
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 15: potato Fridays and every Friday they would all bring in

1574
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 15: a potato.

1575
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm not even joking.

1576
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,360
Speaker 15: They would all take terms microwaving the potatoes, and he

1577
01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 15: would bring toppings like sour cream, and cheese and they

1578
01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:29,160
Speaker 15: would just like.

1579
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:31,599
Speaker 1: Really every Friday.

1580
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 15: And she thought, yeah, and she was like, I legit

1581
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 15: like thought that every teacher did that. Every class is

1582
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 15: very Midwest, by the way, but yeah, so she was.

1583
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 14: She just told me that.

1584
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,000
Speaker 1: And I had a teacher who would like literally let us.

1585
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 15: Take a twenty minute nap, like we would all get

1586
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,720
Speaker 15: on the floor. She had blankets and we would nap

1587
01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 15: during her class. So I just I was curious if

1588
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 15: anyone else has like a repressed memory of a teacher

1589
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 15: doing something that you thought you accepted at the time

1590
01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,799
Speaker 15: as normal, but then you're like, wait, or maybe.

1591
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 1: You're the teacher doing it.

1592
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:55,960
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1593
01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 1: Eight five is the number for the Fred Show.

1594
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:01,719
Speaker 2: Then that got me thinking of a lot of things

1595
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:06,680
Speaker 2: I remember, and this is mostly elementary school, but I

1596
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:11,880
Speaker 2: remember there was a lot of food rewards, like for

1597
01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:17,040
Speaker 2: some reason, it was Teddygrams. They still make those. This

1598
01:09:17,200 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 2: was maybe like second to third grade, and she had

1599
01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 2: a big, huge jar of them. And if you if

1600
01:09:21,479 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 2: you got a certain grade or something, you could have

1601
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 2: a Teddygram. And and I didn't usually get the grades,

1602
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:28,519
Speaker 2: but sometimes I did. And there was always that one

1603
01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 2: girl who like had like one hundred Teddygrams like stored

1604
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 2: because she's so smart or whatever. But I I don't

1605
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 2: remember why, but those Teddygrams tasted so much better than

1606
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:41,680
Speaker 2: the ones my mom would buy me. Could I come

1607
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:43,320
Speaker 2: home be like I didn't get a Teddygram today, She'd

1608
01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 2: be like, I'll go buy you like a buy So

1609
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 2: she'd buy me the box of them, but they didn't

1610
01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 2: taste The ones that you got from her tasted better

1611
01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 2: in the exact same ones. But it got me thinking

1612
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:55,640
Speaker 2: about like these ages, you can't even do that, like

1613
01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 2: the stuff that we used to eat at school, like

1614
01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 2: people would bring stuff in or we'd have just there's

1615
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 2: just food everywhere.

1616
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:02,519
Speaker 1: Food everywhere.

1617
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:05,040
Speaker 15: Also punishments too, Like I remember one of my teachers

1618
01:10:05,120 --> 01:10:07,640
Speaker 15: had like a literal like junk chair. It was like

1619
01:10:07,680 --> 01:10:09,519
Speaker 15: if you talk too much, like you would have to

1620
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:12,000
Speaker 15: sit in this chair and the face the corner. Like

1621
01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:13,880
Speaker 15: I feel like there are probably a lot of punishments

1622
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 15: that they can't do anymore now.

1623
01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, can you still do time out? I don't

1624
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:20,639
Speaker 2: know if you're allowed to do time out anymore.

1625
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:21,000
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1626
01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 15: And you know what they don't do anymore is I

1627
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:25,080
Speaker 15: don't know if you guys said, popcorn reading where they

1628
01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 15: would like randomly call on you to read a part

1629
01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:27,599
Speaker 15: of a paragraph.

1630
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 1: That's where my anxiety comes up exactly.

1631
01:10:29,439 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 15: They can't do that anymore because kids who you know

1632
01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:33,599
Speaker 15: have trouble reading, they have so much anxiety.

1633
01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:35,880
Speaker 2: I used to I would count, like if we were

1634
01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,679
Speaker 2: doing like paragraph for paragraph, I would count and see

1635
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:41,680
Speaker 2: where my paragraph was, and I would read it so

1636
01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 2: that just to make sure I didn't stumble on anything like.

1637
01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 1: Nilly like no on in the middle of a sentence.

1638
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 2: We had a Spanish teacher that used to attach like

1639
01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 2: little fake pesos to like if you got an A,

1640
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:53,640
Speaker 2: you got this many paces, we got a B got

1641
01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 2: this many pasos. And again there was always like there

1642
01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:58,400
Speaker 2: are two kids that had like a million pesos, and

1643
01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:01,400
Speaker 2: then we would have like an auction. I don't even

1644
01:11:01,400 --> 01:11:04,080
Speaker 2: know if this is like allowed anymore, because of course

1645
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 2: some kids who don't get good grades wouldn't have any

1646
01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:08,280
Speaker 2: and then it would be like it wouldn't be inclusive,

1647
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 2: but you could you could bid on better grades, but

1648
01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:14,880
Speaker 2: the problem was the kids that you had all the

1649
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:18,280
Speaker 2: peso has already had the best grades, so.

1650
01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: There was like nothing, Yeah, how can you get if

1651
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:22,640
Speaker 1: you had like.

1652
01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:24,960
Speaker 2: Fifty pesos because you got like all the a's, Like

1653
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:27,160
Speaker 2: I don't know what you're bidding on now, you know,

1654
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 2: like can I And then so it was like can

1655
01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 2: you can I get my friend the better?

1656
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 1: Can I use my payels?

1657
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:32,639
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1658
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I remember the rewards for some reason,

1659
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 2: and the same kids had all the rewards. I remember,

1660
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:41,640
Speaker 2: Oh I remember that. But it got me thinking of

1661
01:11:41,680 --> 01:11:45,280
Speaker 2: all these different things. Heyddra hi there, Hey, good morning.

1662
01:11:45,320 --> 01:11:45,640
Speaker 18: How are you.

1663
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 1: Very well?

1664
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 2: So you're a fifth grade teacher? Do you do your

1665
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:52,560
Speaker 2: students bring potatoes on Friday? And then we make like,

1666
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:53,880
Speaker 2: you know, potato bar stuff.

1667
01:11:55,240 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 7: No, not bite.

1668
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:59,160
Speaker 9: But my investrators, who I love more than anyone on

1669
01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:03,200
Speaker 9: the planet, are spectacularly annoying, like most of the day, right,

1670
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 9: they can be just they're creators. I decided that very quietly,

1671
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:09,559
Speaker 9: I was going to be really annoying back to them,

1672
01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:14,280
Speaker 9: and so, starting at like five minutes before dismissal, every

1673
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:17,480
Speaker 9: single day I play if I had a million dollars.

1674
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:19,880
Speaker 7: By the bare naked lady nice, just to bother them the.

1675
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 9: Way that they bother me every day.

1676
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:21,679
Speaker 6: Wow.

1677
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:24,160
Speaker 1: But they have no idea why I do it?

1678
01:12:24,439 --> 01:12:27,120
Speaker 9: But I do it every single day because I want

1679
01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:29,760
Speaker 9: them to know that I'm well aware how annoying they are,

1680
01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 9: and I can be as an annoying back.

1681
01:12:32,120 --> 01:12:35,760
Speaker 2: It comes from a place of love, though. Yeah, if

1682
01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 2: you wanted, by the way, if you wanted to do

1683
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:40,759
Speaker 2: food in your class, I mean, what would be the process,

1684
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:43,920
Speaker 2: Like I guess I remember there was always food in

1685
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 2: the class.

1686
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:46,439
Speaker 1: And we had like wild animals in the class too.

1687
01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 2: I remember we had like, yeah, they were like lizards

1688
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:50,880
Speaker 2: and fish and and yeah, he had a crap it

1689
01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:52,800
Speaker 2: so we had a rat. I don't know if they

1690
01:12:52,840 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 2: still do that. I'm sure there's some liability with that too,

1691
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:56,720
Speaker 2: Like what if the rabbit bite somebody and then we

1692
01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 2: got to put it down or whatever?

1693
01:12:58,439 --> 01:12:59,200
Speaker 1: Should be a real bummer.

1694
01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:01,479
Speaker 5: My first year, my first year's.

1695
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:04,040
Speaker 9: Teaching, we had shup I think there were like frogs.

1696
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 9: Then we raised his tadholes and we call them pea

1697
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:07,920
Speaker 9: paint and Lil Wayne.

1698
01:13:08,160 --> 01:13:10,799
Speaker 1: I love that. And within like weeks sea paint.

1699
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:12,759
Speaker 9: And little way both sides. And so I'm not puting

1700
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:13,880
Speaker 9: animals or anything like that.

1701
01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 1: So yeah, and food is this kind of.

1702
01:13:16,400 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 9: The kids bringing food and they eat it and class

1703
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:19,559
Speaker 9: without permission, and that's annoying too.

1704
01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 2: So it's just but like now it's like, well, I

1705
01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:25,680
Speaker 2: remember the biggest problem when we were young, and think

1706
01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 2: kind of makes me sound so old, but the biggest

1707
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:28,560
Speaker 2: problem was that like there had to be enough for

1708
01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 2: everybody that was like that you couldn't have favorite. Yeah,

1709
01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:33,920
Speaker 2: but now it's probably like what's in that and their peanuts,

1710
01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:34,679
Speaker 2: is their flowers?

1711
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:36,880
Speaker 1: Their gluten? Is this vegetarian? Is it vegan?

1712
01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:39,560
Speaker 2: You know, Joey's mom says, you can't eat this, and

1713
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 2: Cindy's mom says she can't.

1714
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:42,240
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't imagine.

1715
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:45,320
Speaker 9: I was for my first year is teaching. I used

1716
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:47,200
Speaker 9: to make a rule that the only way you were

1717
01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:49,639
Speaker 9: allowed to bring in cupcakes was if they had butter

1718
01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:52,280
Speaker 9: cream frosting, because I don't like WoT cream brosting, and

1719
01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:54,000
Speaker 9: so they get that was my rule. But that's just

1720
01:13:54,080 --> 01:13:55,960
Speaker 9: how I am as a teacher, So that's not a

1721
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:57,759
Speaker 9: rule around. I just don't like what crimp frosting.

1722
01:13:57,760 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 2: But don't think they were like, well there you go,

1723
01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:01,639
Speaker 2: fair enough. Well, thank you so much, thanks for listening.

1724
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 2: Have a great day. I don't know why I'm reminded

1725
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:06,679
Speaker 2: of this, but I remember there was some point, maybe

1726
01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:08,960
Speaker 2: it was like fourth fifth grade, where you know, you'd

1727
01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:10,519
Speaker 2: ask to go to the bathroom and the teacher would

1728
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:12,559
Speaker 2: say no because they knew you were like wasting time.

1729
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:15,080
Speaker 2: And then some girl found out that it was illegal

1730
01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:17,280
Speaker 2: for a teacher to tell a girl that she couldn't

1731
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:19,040
Speaker 2: go to the bathroom, and so like that was the

1732
01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:21,160
Speaker 2: thing was every girl would be like, I got to

1733
01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:22,559
Speaker 2: the bathroom and then it was like, well, we're doing

1734
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:24,720
Speaker 2: a test right now, and then you know, well you

1735
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 2: can't tell me I can't Okay, you're oh laurd yeah,

1736
01:14:27,439 --> 01:14:29,160
Speaker 2: oh yeah, I don't remember. Why why are we remembering

1737
01:14:29,200 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 2: all of this? But that became a thing.

1738
01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:35,400
Speaker 1: Hey Thomas, good morning, Frey, good morning everyone. Hi Thomas.

1739
01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 1: So you're a self proclaimed boomer, which is fine.

1740
01:14:38,120 --> 01:14:39,240
Speaker 7: We love we love you for that.

1741
01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:41,280
Speaker 1: What what do you remember about school?

1742
01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:42,000
Speaker 2: School?

1743
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:44,599
Speaker 21: Okay, nineteen seventy four.

1744
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:45,759
Speaker 19: I was in the sixth grade.

1745
01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:49,040
Speaker 21: My fixth grade teacher her name was Miss East When

1746
01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:50,479
Speaker 21: I still remember it to this day.

1747
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:52,120
Speaker 1: She used to keep a bottle of.

1748
01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:55,799
Speaker 21: Crown Royal out on the windowsill Athletic School.

1749
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,599
Speaker 1: I love her when she opened, like when she drank

1750
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:01,000
Speaker 1: it during the day or what I mean.

1751
01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:02,880
Speaker 19: She would periodically.

1752
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:06,480
Speaker 21: She had a copy mug on her desk, and she periodically,

1753
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 21: like you know, over to the window, pretend she's looking

1754
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:14,280
Speaker 21: out there, put a little bit for coffee, and continue

1755
01:15:14,320 --> 01:15:15,120
Speaker 21: on with the class.

1756
01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 2: I love it, Thomas. You're gonna wind up on inside

1757
01:15:17,439 --> 01:15:19,960
Speaker 2: edition if you do that. Now, Thank you, have a

1758
01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:22,920
Speaker 2: great day. Glad you called him, You too, Thomas. I

1759
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,320
Speaker 2: love Thomas. Kind of sounded like the prison line a

1760
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 2: little bit was calling from a landline. Honey, definitely, Yeah,

1761
01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:31,799
Speaker 2: he's not only is it boomer, he found a payphone

1762
01:15:31,800 --> 01:15:38,400
Speaker 2: to call from you may, good morning, Hey, thanks so

1763
01:15:38,479 --> 01:15:41,519
Speaker 2: much for calling, Thanks for listening. So apparently Caln was

1764
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:43,160
Speaker 2: reminded of a time when.

1765
01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 1: What grade was this? It was third grade Potato Friday.

1766
01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 2: Potato Friday is bringing potato and microwaved and put topics

1767
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:53,400
Speaker 2: on it. Yeah, what do you remember from from school?

1768
01:15:54,840 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 8: So I had mine was from second grade, so right

1769
01:15:57,400 --> 01:16:00,200
Speaker 8: around the same era, oor time frame, kind of thing.

1770
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:04,640
Speaker 8: My teacher had her own little classroom store with her

1771
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:07,640
Speaker 8: own little classroom bucks, so kind of like Fred you

1772
01:16:07,720 --> 01:16:10,120
Speaker 8: had your your teddygrams. If you did well in tests

1773
01:16:10,240 --> 01:16:13,599
Speaker 8: or something, well, ours was you would earn classroom bucks

1774
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:16,080
Speaker 8: for like a's and b's and then at the end

1775
01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:18,679
Speaker 8: of the week you could buy stuff from her classroom store,

1776
01:16:18,680 --> 01:16:21,439
Speaker 8: and she had everything from like little Indie Bady Jolly

1777
01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 8: Ranchers to like King sized Reese's peanut butter cups and

1778
01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:27,680
Speaker 8: like trapper keepers and all kinds of stuff. And it

1779
01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:30,160
Speaker 8: was like a bragging point to be in her class

1780
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:34,040
Speaker 8: because you had all this like whole plusor of stuff

1781
01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:36,400
Speaker 8: at your fingertips if you did well. So it's like

1782
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:39,560
Speaker 8: seems super cool and how it's like that's kind of

1783
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:41,360
Speaker 8: weird but still kind of cool.

1784
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 2: But you remember, Nate, all that stuff, Like you could

1785
01:16:43,920 --> 01:16:46,000
Speaker 2: have gone your mom or you could have gone to

1786
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:50,200
Speaker 2: know CVS or whatever and bought the Jolly ranchers and

1787
01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 2: you had a whole bag of them. But for some reason,

1788
01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 2: the ones that you got from school were better. Oh

1789
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:59,360
Speaker 2: my god, Yes, I don't know why exactly. It was

1790
01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 2: like I don't know. You're right, Thank you, Nate, have

1791
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 2: a good day. Thanks good I love you too. This

1792
01:17:05,400 --> 01:17:06,800
Speaker 2: is a lot of stories there. We may have to

1793
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:11,120
Speaker 2: come back to us. Hey Tadya, Yes, hey morning, how

1794
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:11,639
Speaker 2: you doing.

1795
01:17:13,120 --> 01:17:13,439
Speaker 12: Great?

1796
01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:14,719
Speaker 11: Great to talk to you guys.

1797
01:17:14,840 --> 01:17:17,120
Speaker 1: Hey, thanks for listening, Thanks for calling. What's your story?

1798
01:17:18,760 --> 01:17:19,640
Speaker 2: So both my.

1799
01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:23,280
Speaker 22: Husband and I are teachers, and that is stressful sometimes

1800
01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 22: as a parent. And about fifteen years ago, my son

1801
01:17:27,320 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 22: was in private school and he would come home and

1802
01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 22: be like, I was in the doghouse.

1803
01:17:32,680 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 1: Today, and he was real excited.

1804
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 22: But it turns out the doghouse was a punishment for

1805
01:17:38,600 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 22: kids that were misbehaving, and it was one desk next

1806
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:46,280
Speaker 22: to the teacher's desk, and the kids all thought, you know, oh,

1807
01:17:46,320 --> 01:17:48,479
Speaker 22: it was a special thing. But in reality, all the

1808
01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:51,600
Speaker 22: parents were like, I don't think that you should be

1809
01:17:51,640 --> 01:17:52,000
Speaker 22: able to.

1810
01:17:52,080 --> 01:17:53,400
Speaker 1: Do that in real life.

1811
01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:55,519
Speaker 2: I thought you were going to tell me it was

1812
01:17:55,520 --> 01:17:58,200
Speaker 2: an actual doghouse and she was taking people sit in a.

1813
01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:00,439
Speaker 1: Nap.

1814
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:04,360
Speaker 22: There was a dog, a dog like on her desk.

1815
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:07,559
Speaker 1: Oh wow, it was very.

1816
01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:09,840
Speaker 11: Not appropriate.

1817
01:18:10,880 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 1: You can't do that. Can't do that, I guess, yeah, Tanya,

1818
01:18:14,200 --> 01:18:17,640
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Have a great day. Isn't that

1819
01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:20,680
Speaker 1: like an adult term too, like doghouse? Like if you're

1820
01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:22,400
Speaker 1: in the doghouse, like you're in trouble with your wife

1821
01:18:22,479 --> 01:18:24,320
Speaker 1: or husband or why the who is she doing that

1822
01:18:24,400 --> 01:18:24,920
Speaker 1: with the kids.

1823
01:18:26,640 --> 01:18:28,800
Speaker 2: She's teaching them about later life, later in life when

1824
01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:30,599
Speaker 2: you grew up at home and you're in the doghouse.

1825
01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:35,320
Speaker 2: Hey Erica, Hi, good morning, good morning, Thank you for calling,

1826
01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:37,960
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening. So what what's your school story

1827
01:18:38,040 --> 01:18:38,679
Speaker 2: that comes to mind?

1828
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:41,640
Speaker 1: So I'm actually a.

1829
01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:46,160
Speaker 23: Middle school teacher and like, you know, a lot back then,

1830
01:18:46,320 --> 01:18:48,400
Speaker 23: I guess when I was like ten years ago, when

1831
01:18:48,439 --> 01:18:53,280
Speaker 23: I was a student. Like, my kids now are ruthless,

1832
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:58,519
Speaker 23: like they roast me all the time. So now I've

1833
01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:00,840
Speaker 23: gotten into the habit where everyone, you know, while they

1834
01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:04,360
Speaker 23: like to like roast me, and I'll be like, okay,

1835
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:08,960
Speaker 23: did I ask? And the reactions are priceless, Like this

1836
01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 23: one time one of my kids was trying to tell

1837
01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:14,559
Speaker 23: me a certain middle of me teaching eleven. I literally

1838
01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:16,320
Speaker 23: stopped in the middle of it and I looked at

1839
01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:18,599
Speaker 23: him and I was like, when did I ask?

1840
01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:22,559
Speaker 22: Like everybody in their room was like, oh my god,

1841
01:19:23,560 --> 01:19:24,240
Speaker 22: I like him.

1842
01:19:24,479 --> 01:19:26,439
Speaker 9: They tried to like do that back to me, and

1843
01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:28,840
Speaker 9: I'm like, you guys act like this is not new

1844
01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:31,360
Speaker 9: to me, Like keep trying to roast me, because I'm

1845
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:33,200
Speaker 9: just Sickkay.

1846
01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:34,760
Speaker 2: I'm the roastmaster over here. Y'all knew to this world.

1847
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:36,000
Speaker 2: I've been around for a minute.

1848
01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:38,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, It's really.

1849
01:19:37,920 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 23: Hard when like they say something really funny and I

1850
01:19:41,120 --> 01:19:43,400
Speaker 23: try to be serious, and again.

1851
01:19:43,280 --> 01:19:44,040
Speaker 5: I just lose it.

1852
01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:47,120
Speaker 2: That's fund I can't imagine. And how old are the

1853
01:19:47,240 --> 01:19:47,960
Speaker 2: kids that you're teaching?

1854
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:51,120
Speaker 6: I take sixth grade, so are you.

1855
01:19:52,760 --> 01:19:55,840
Speaker 2: I'm I will be twenty four, you're twenty four in

1856
01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:58,360
Speaker 2: the sixth grade, You're like, what twelven eleven?

1857
01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:00,880
Speaker 1: They're not that much yea than you if you think

1858
01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:03,240
Speaker 1: about it. I mean, they are, like they are in maturity.

1859
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:04,760
Speaker 2: But I was thinking about that the other day, Like

1860
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 2: when I was in high school, I had a twenty

1861
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:08,680
Speaker 2: three year old math teacher. Yeah, and I'm twenty four,

1862
01:20:08,800 --> 01:20:10,680
Speaker 2: twenty three. Shees just out of college, and I'm you know,

1863
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:13,960
Speaker 2: you're eighteen the seventeen like that woman because I looked

1864
01:20:13,960 --> 01:20:16,000
Speaker 2: her up on Facebook recently because I do that stuff,

1865
01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:18,120
Speaker 2: and she is not that much older than me.

1866
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:20,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, I could date this woman now, and I might.

1867
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 2: Eric.

1868
01:20:21,280 --> 01:20:24,720
Speaker 1: I have a good day. Dank you, great day.

1869
01:20:25,960 --> 01:20:30,400
Speaker 2: Carlos says had to go over homework first thing, so

1870
01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:33,200
Speaker 2: all the kids would copy the same one. Now fourth

1871
01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 2: grade teacher reward would get dried spaghetti as a snack.

1872
01:20:36,240 --> 01:20:39,080
Speaker 2: Maddie said that Robin said teacher was sending students out

1873
01:20:39,120 --> 01:20:42,160
Speaker 2: of the principals to get a wooden paddle and Adriana

1874
01:20:42,240 --> 01:20:44,240
Speaker 2: teacher had twenty to thirty guinea pigs.

1875
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:45,920
Speaker 1: They wanted guinea pigs.

1876
01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:48,920
Speaker 2: Damn, it's the Friend Show, Good Morning on the radio

1877
01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:51,160
Speaker 2: and the iHeart app as well, search for the Fredshiel

1878
01:20:51,200 --> 01:20:54,040
Speaker 2: on to may right. We all have that person in

1879
01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:58,040
Speaker 2: our life who really it's almost no fun to play

1880
01:20:58,080 --> 01:21:03,479
Speaker 2: games with in our family here it's Ruveo. It's really

1881
01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 2: it's nearly impossible to compete with this guy because if

1882
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,400
Speaker 2: he doesn't win, he's pouting in mad and if he

1883
01:21:09,520 --> 01:21:10,879
Speaker 2: does win, then he gloats.

1884
01:21:11,520 --> 01:21:14,479
Speaker 1: But eight five nine, one three five, who is it?

1885
01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:15,320
Speaker 1: Who is it?

1886
01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:18,920
Speaker 2: In your house? Everybody's got one. It's no fun to

1887
01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:22,639
Speaker 2: play a game with this person because they can't be wrong,

1888
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 2: or they can't lose, or somebody's cheating or whatever. It's

1889
01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:30,200
Speaker 2: definitely the throwback thrown out in here is about the

1890
01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:32,720
Speaker 2: most intense twenty minutes of the week every week, and

1891
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:35,760
Speaker 2: like last week, the look of venom in his eyes

1892
01:21:35,840 --> 01:21:39,599
Speaker 2: when there was a question about a call, the look

1893
01:21:39,720 --> 01:21:42,200
Speaker 2: of I mean it was it was like I had

1894
01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:44,360
Speaker 2: people later in the day say to me like that

1895
01:21:44,520 --> 01:21:46,040
Speaker 2: was borderline uncomfortable to listen to.

1896
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 7: Like he was really.

1897
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:52,400
Speaker 2: Like, is everything okay with that guy? I'm like, no,

1898
01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 2: it's just as just who he is. Hey, Sergio, Hey,

1899
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 2: good Mark, you guys, Hey, good morning. We all got

1900
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:03,240
Speaker 2: that all always that person. Every family, Every family has

1901
01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:06,360
Speaker 2: the pooper, the person who can't you just can't be

1902
01:22:06,439 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 2: competitive with them because they take it too far.

1903
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:09,160
Speaker 1: Who is it for you? Is it you?

1904
01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:13,599
Speaker 18: Yeah, it's me and it's Mario Party. Unfortunately that makes

1905
01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:17,639
Speaker 18: me become a little toxic. I get Rufio stans Warrio chief,

1906
01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:20,040
Speaker 18: but you know what, I become the toxic one.

1907
01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 1: And so who are we playing with children or other adults?

1908
01:22:24,560 --> 01:22:26,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's other adults.

1909
01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:28,920
Speaker 18: They will see the toxicity come out on me. Whenever

1910
01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:32,240
Speaker 18: I gain an advantage on a game, a mini game,

1911
01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 18: or even like land on a hidden block Squerre, I

1912
01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,639
Speaker 18: will be I will legitimately go up in their faith

1913
01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 18: and be telling them skill teck skill tech.

1914
01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:44,519
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, okay, all right, So you're that guy and

1915
01:22:44,600 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 2: it's a child's game, but you're playing with other adults,

1916
01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:49,560
Speaker 2: and it's not good enough just to win. Sergio, you

1917
01:22:49,640 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 2: got to You've got to really like, you got to

1918
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:52,840
Speaker 2: be animated about it.

1919
01:22:54,080 --> 01:22:54,840
Speaker 1: Well, it could be fair.

1920
01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:58,479
Speaker 18: After playing a while with the computers and winning, especially

1921
01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:01,480
Speaker 18: if they're on hard mode, just boosts up your confidence.

1922
01:23:01,600 --> 01:23:04,160
Speaker 2: You know I can understand. Okay, Sergio, thank you, have

1923
01:23:04,240 --> 01:23:05,400
Speaker 2: a great day. Thanks for listening.

1924
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:06,560
Speaker 7: Thank you.

1925
01:23:06,640 --> 01:23:07,519
Speaker 1: You got to okay.

1926
01:23:07,680 --> 01:23:12,120
Speaker 2: Juliana, Hi, Juliana, good morning, Good morning. So who is

1927
01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:14,519
Speaker 2: he in your family? You just can't play game with him?

1928
01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 1: My four year old brother? Okay, your own four year

1929
01:23:20,200 --> 01:23:20,639
Speaker 1: old brother.

1930
01:23:21,800 --> 01:23:26,360
Speaker 6: Yes, because even if he's not, like, for some reason,

1931
01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:29,599
Speaker 6: at four years old, he's really good at psyching people out.

1932
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:31,800
Speaker 1: How does he How old are you?

1933
01:23:33,320 --> 01:23:34,000
Speaker 6: I'm eighteen?

1934
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:36,000
Speaker 1: And how does a four year old psych you out?

1935
01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 1: As an eighteen year old?

1936
01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:43,080
Speaker 10: We'll be playing like he's really great at like general Monopoly,

1937
01:23:44,080 --> 01:23:45,840
Speaker 10: and he'll be like, he'll be like, are you sure

1938
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:46,760
Speaker 10: that's the right move?

1939
01:23:47,000 --> 01:23:51,800
Speaker 1: Are you? And he has he has he has this

1940
01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:54,800
Speaker 1: little demon stare and he'll just spare you down like

1941
01:23:54,920 --> 01:23:58,400
Speaker 1: he knows, like I don't know, man, Wow, at four

1942
01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:00,240
Speaker 1: years old, already got it? Gual.

1943
01:24:00,240 --> 01:24:04,519
Speaker 2: What's going to happen when when he gets bigger? Man,

1944
01:24:04,600 --> 01:24:07,760
Speaker 2: I don't know you and use that to your advantage. Yeah,

1945
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:09,880
Speaker 2: thank you Juliana, thanks for listening. Have a great day.

1946
01:24:11,040 --> 01:24:15,160
Speaker 2: She's eighteen getting schooled by a four year old. Hey, Lizzy, Hello,

1947
01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:17,320
Speaker 2: it was so so the same thing with you, Lizzie.

1948
01:24:17,600 --> 01:24:20,519
Speaker 2: You got a five year old kid, it's your kid. Yes,

1949
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:22,560
Speaker 2: my kid too competitive.

1950
01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:24,840
Speaker 12: It's very competitive.

1951
01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:27,879
Speaker 22: You play anything, Fortnite, Mario anything.

1952
01:24:28,240 --> 01:24:30,559
Speaker 5: They're always cheating. We're always cheating. For some reason.

1953
01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:31,880
Speaker 1: He could never lose.

1954
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:34,960
Speaker 2: Wow, So do you I assume you just beat him

1955
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:37,000
Speaker 2: when you can, because you got to teach him a lesson, right,

1956
01:24:37,000 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 2: You can't let him win every time. He's going to

1957
01:24:38,560 --> 01:24:39,200
Speaker 2: lose sometimes.

1958
01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 22: Well, I don't play, but my build in law, my husband,

1959
01:24:43,320 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 22: they all beat him and for some reason.

1960
01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:46,080
Speaker 6: Nope, they all cheated.

1961
01:24:48,439 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 1: Where do you think he gets him from your husband?

1962
01:24:50,800 --> 01:24:54,040
Speaker 22: Oh yeah, definitely when they are hand and my other

1963
01:24:54,200 --> 01:24:55,000
Speaker 22: two kids played.

1964
01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:55,840
Speaker 11: They're always fighting.

1965
01:24:56,200 --> 01:24:58,599
Speaker 1: That's funny. Lizzie, Thank you so much. Have a great day.

1966
01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:04,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, glad you called. Hey Joe, But hi, Joe, who's

1967
01:25:04,240 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 2: the super competitive person in your house? It's almost no fun?

1968
01:25:08,080 --> 01:25:08,439
Speaker 5: Okay?

1969
01:25:09,040 --> 01:25:12,920
Speaker 13: It is my brand news of June son in law,

1970
01:25:13,439 --> 01:25:14,759
Speaker 13: who I love dearly.

1971
01:25:14,960 --> 01:25:19,080
Speaker 10: But he is so damn smart that he's always thinking like.

1972
01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:22,760
Speaker 7: Three or four steps ahead of you, and he does

1973
01:25:22,960 --> 01:25:25,759
Speaker 7: he clothes when he knows, like he knows.

1974
01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 19: Like three or four steps ahead that he's got you.

1975
01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:30,000
Speaker 6: And he's just very well.

1976
01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:33,280
Speaker 7: He's starting to be a lawyer, so he's incredibly smart

1977
01:25:33,360 --> 01:25:35,599
Speaker 7: and I love him to death, but I absolutely will

1978
01:25:35,640 --> 01:25:36,280
Speaker 7: not play with him.

1979
01:25:36,400 --> 01:25:38,120
Speaker 2: Okay, you see that's a tough thing because you come

1980
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:40,280
Speaker 2: into the family. It's like, do you beat him so

1981
01:25:40,360 --> 01:25:42,240
Speaker 2: show him that you're strong and smart or do you

1982
01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:44,080
Speaker 2: let them win so that they like you, but then

1983
01:25:44,120 --> 01:25:45,000
Speaker 2: they might think you're weak?

1984
01:25:45,439 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 1: So how do I? I think you gotta beat him?

1985
01:25:48,320 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 11: Oh he kicks everybody, it's ass.

1986
01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:52,120
Speaker 10: He doesn't care who.

1987
01:25:54,720 --> 01:25:56,840
Speaker 1: But he's already in the family, right, they're married, so

1988
01:25:56,920 --> 01:25:58,000
Speaker 1: you can't then what are you gonna do?

1989
01:25:58,640 --> 01:25:59,080
Speaker 6: That's right?

1990
01:26:01,040 --> 01:26:03,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, Joe. I'm glad you called at day.

1991
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 23: Tom.

1992
01:26:06,400 --> 01:26:12,839
Speaker 2: Hi Tom, Hello Tom, the sore loser, the overly competitive

1993
01:26:12,880 --> 01:26:13,599
Speaker 2: person in your group?

1994
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 7: Who is it? My wife?

1995
01:26:16,160 --> 01:26:18,200
Speaker 1: Man? My wife man?

1996
01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 6: What does she do?

1997
01:26:20,280 --> 01:26:22,400
Speaker 1: You have you see holding your hostage now like my

1998
01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:24,600
Speaker 1: wife mad? Or what does she do?

1999
01:26:24,880 --> 01:26:25,040
Speaker 7: Hey?

2000
01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:28,720
Speaker 20: Hey, it's not fun at all. So when we met,

2001
01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:32,560
Speaker 20: I see some clues or I did, that will be

2002
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:36,560
Speaker 20: the case. But I didn't follow. When we're playing like

2003
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:40,240
Speaker 20: card games or some board games. Every time she's winning,

2004
01:26:40,560 --> 01:26:45,640
Speaker 20: she's all laughing, all jokes, you know, the minute the

2005
01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:50,320
Speaker 20: minute she started losing. Oh man, she turns like into.

2006
01:26:50,160 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 1: Your gremlin or something.

2007
01:26:56,360 --> 01:26:57,400
Speaker 10: And and the clues.

2008
01:26:58,080 --> 01:27:03,280
Speaker 20: When I met her, we went for small weekend tennis tournament.

2009
01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:06,240
Speaker 7: We were just playing a tennis ball, right.

2010
01:27:06,560 --> 01:27:07,719
Speaker 18: And she was winning.

2011
01:27:07,800 --> 01:27:11,080
Speaker 20: She was all the time, Like I said, Suddenly I

2012
01:27:11,200 --> 01:27:14,200
Speaker 20: started playing a little bit hard and I got advantage

2013
01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:17,080
Speaker 20: like two points or something. She broke the tennis walking.

2014
01:27:19,720 --> 01:27:21,400
Speaker 4: She said that.

2015
01:27:21,560 --> 01:27:25,160
Speaker 20: It's unfair that I'm stronger, that I shouldn't play that

2016
01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:27,559
Speaker 20: on that competitive level.

2017
01:27:28,000 --> 01:27:32,920
Speaker 2: I like, you wanted to play, you wanted to Well,

2018
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:36,280
Speaker 2: you still married her, so she has another side then, right,

2019
01:27:38,520 --> 01:27:42,120
Speaker 2: our hope you married to her.

2020
01:27:42,280 --> 01:27:44,080
Speaker 1: Tom Yew.

2021
01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:47,599
Speaker 20: Hopefully I'm not sleeping garage today.

2022
01:27:48,840 --> 01:27:49,280
Speaker 1: Garage.

2023
01:27:50,280 --> 01:27:52,080
Speaker 2: As long as not playing tennis, I guess you're all right.

2024
01:27:53,160 --> 01:27:56,040
Speaker 2: Have a good day time. I keep recalling, thank you,

2025
01:27:56,280 --> 01:28:00,920
Speaker 2: No more tennis for Tom his wife. She has another side.

2026
01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:06,960
Speaker 2: I more Fread Show. Next, The Fread Show is on

2027
01:28:07,840 --> 01:28:10,200
Speaker 2: Fread's Fun Fact Fred.

2028
01:28:16,600 --> 01:28:17,080
Speaker 1: So bad?

2029
01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:26,240
Speaker 2: Did you know it is illegal to die in one

2030
01:28:26,640 --> 01:28:27,760
Speaker 2: Scandinavian town.

2031
01:28:27,880 --> 01:28:32,960
Speaker 17: We're Scandinavia, Scandinavia. Yeah, it's a region per se.

2032
01:28:33,400 --> 01:28:34,920
Speaker 1: Oh it's not a country. No, it's not.

2033
01:28:35,160 --> 01:28:37,639
Speaker 2: No, Scandinavia is not. It would include a few countries.

2034
01:28:37,800 --> 01:28:38,879
Speaker 2: What would you where.

2035
01:28:38,680 --> 01:28:42,479
Speaker 1: Would you say? It's probably like Europe area, not bad

2036
01:28:42,760 --> 01:28:45,080
Speaker 1: which countries though? By what countries?

2037
01:28:45,320 --> 01:28:45,439
Speaker 23: Well?

2038
01:28:45,479 --> 01:28:49,439
Speaker 2: Which countries would include Scandinavian which us a region? Geography

2039
01:28:49,479 --> 01:28:51,639
Speaker 2: with Jason, because you're the geography and the sports. Yeah,

2040
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:57,160
Speaker 2: it's probably like Spain in India Spain there.

2041
01:28:57,320 --> 01:29:01,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a big section cover. Yeah, it's a big skin. Yeah.

2042
01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:05,120
Speaker 2: Right off the coast of Norway, about halfway to the

2043
01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:07,560
Speaker 2: North Pole lies in archipelago.

2044
01:29:08,240 --> 01:29:09,400
Speaker 1: I'm not even going to ask you about that.

2045
01:29:09,920 --> 01:29:12,200
Speaker 2: It's so far north that it's completely dark for four

2046
01:29:12,280 --> 01:29:14,000
Speaker 2: months out of the year, and it's so cold that

2047
01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:17,640
Speaker 2: anything buried in the ground won't decompose. For example, in

2048
01:29:17,720 --> 01:29:20,320
Speaker 2: nineteen ninety eight, scientists extracted a live sample of the

2049
01:29:20,479 --> 01:29:24,000
Speaker 2: nineteen eighteen flu virus from buried bodies. Because of this,

2050
01:29:24,360 --> 01:29:28,120
Speaker 2: the two two thousand person town there, I might even

2051
01:29:28,160 --> 01:29:31,479
Speaker 2: to try and say this long you're buying has made

2052
01:29:31,520 --> 01:29:35,840
Speaker 2: it illegal to die or be buried there during those times.

2053
01:29:35,920 --> 01:29:36,760
Speaker 1: During those four months.

2054
01:29:37,040 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 2: It's illegal to die, so if you think you're going

2055
01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 2: to die, you have to fly to the mainland of

2056
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:43,639
Speaker 2: Norway and die there.

2057
01:29:45,160 --> 01:29:49,280
Speaker 1: You're not allowed to die there. Whoah, very rude. Yeah,

2058
01:29:49,520 --> 01:29:51,320
Speaker 1: that's a fun fact. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

2059
01:29:51,640 --> 01:29:54,000
Speaker 1: Tick the Vikings, right? Is that right? I don't know.

2060
01:29:54,120 --> 01:29:55,360
Speaker 1: Isn't that like where they were?

2061
01:29:56,400 --> 01:29:58,439
Speaker 2: I'm not sure where you're asking that now that this

2062
01:29:58,560 --> 01:30:00,160
Speaker 2: is beyond the scope of my fun fact, I mean,

2063
01:30:00,160 --> 01:30:00,559
Speaker 2: I don't think.

2064
01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:04,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I don't know everything. More Fred

2065
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Speaker 1: Show next