1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife. 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: She couldn't She cleaned and cared for her children and 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:08,879 Speaker 1: the man of the house, and of course she didn't 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature. 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices. 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 2: Shaped that ship off. We're good mom's bad choices? 7 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 3: Who single mom? Who said, but the patriarchy shared all 8 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 3: their bad choices. Sound out they were so bad after all, 9 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 3: we're experts overchairs and your new vesties. 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: Sit back and annoy her eyes. 11 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 3: I can do, bet mon, you have a very special 12 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 3: guest tonight. 13 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 2: We have the incons. 14 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 4: Beautiful, the goddess, the rat priestress herself, Lizzie, motherfucking Jeff, 15 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 4: founder of Zann and Cush. 16 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 5: Once again, it is a true honor to sit in 17 00:00:53,600 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 5: the presence of two real life goddesses powerhouses is, confident women, mothers, muses, inspirations, 18 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 5: self awareness, self knowledge, grace, energy, intellect, mindset, personality, all 19 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 5: of that. 20 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:17,839 Speaker 6: It's just so. 21 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 5: Beautiful and I'm honored. So thank you to pleasure is 22 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 5: all mine for real. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 23 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 3: I always you know when you come through, I always 24 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: feel you, like so on the soul level. Tonight, it's 25 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 3: a full moon. It's late night at the studio, you know, 26 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 3: with some moms, so we usually be we usually be 27 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 3: here in the afternoon, but you know, because the line 28 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 3: and the stars in line, it just happens that way, 29 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 3: and of course it always happens that way. So we're 30 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 3: here manifesting, drinking some organic wine because Luzie Jeff only 31 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 3: drank organic. 32 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: Wine only exclusively. 33 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 3: But thank you every time I'm in your presence, because 34 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: you're such a goddess, you remind me that I'm a goddess, 35 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 3: and I'm like, yes, it's such. 36 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 2: A mirror, the mirror energy of goddess reflection. 37 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 6: That's powerful. I receive it. 38 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 5: It's a good season for us to come here and 39 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,399 Speaker 5: celebrate each other and speak life into each other. 40 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 6: So thank you. I receive it. It feels like it. 41 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 5: I've been really on my path, doing the work, putting 42 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 5: that time in, putting that energy in. 43 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 6: A lot of light work, a lot of shadow work. 44 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 5: So it's always so beautiful for it to be perceived 45 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 5: by other goddesses because that means, okay, I must be 46 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:33,679 Speaker 5: doing all right. 47 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 3: This season is about like all path leading to all 48 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 3: pastilely to you, And I'd like to also the term 49 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 3: like all passily to God, because you know, there's all 50 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 3: types of religion, there's all types of beliefs, but like 51 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 3: who cares? All paths lead to God, and I feel 52 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 3: like that's the same as all past lead to you, 53 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 3: because we are God, you know, and our goddesses and 54 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 3: just now and you're just like singing our praises and 55 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 3: you know, spitting all the great adjectives. I was just 56 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 3: thinking about like my perception of the word goddess and 57 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 3: that it's like this mystical ancient archetype and like when 58 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 3: I think of goddess, I think of like literally some 59 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 3: ancient Egyptian goddess. And I was think, what does it 60 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 3: look like and feel like to embody a goddess of 61 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 3: this time? And like, because if there was a goddess, 62 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 3: then there's a goddesses walking amongst us now absolutely, And 63 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 3: like I just never really truly considered and embodied it. 64 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 3: And in that moment I was like, huh, oh, well, it's. 65 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 4: This, it's us right now, truly deep except the goddesses 66 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 4: of that time knew they were. 67 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 3: Goddesses, right, and that is the deep deception and honestly. Also, 68 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 3: this is. 69 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 2: A direct colonization of just everything. 70 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like honestly, like recently, I've been thinking. We 71 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 3: are in the first week of February, We're only thirty 72 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 3: days really into the new year, and I've just been 73 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 3: thinking deeply about perceptions shift. And it's just like the 74 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 3: like it's just like you could have one idea and 75 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: somebody come have one conversation with you, and your whole 76 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 3: fucking shit can be blown up, you know, like that 77 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: is the beauty and magic of information and of like 78 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 3: a malleable mind, but just like perception, and like just 79 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 3: solely focusing on shifting my perception. And like when you 80 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 3: said that, I was like, I am a modern goddess. 81 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 3: I am the goddess of my time. We are goddesses 82 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 3: of our time. And that's why I feel when you 83 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 3: speak to me, I'm like, oh yeah, but I just 84 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 3: want to encourage anyone listening, because this is my first 85 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 3: time ever really doing it. I said the word around 86 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 3: a lot. Goddess, my god, you know, like really really 87 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 3: like thinking of like what is your perception of goddess? Yeah, 88 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 3: with that power, because if you don't know who the 89 00:04:57,360 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 3: fuck you are, that is the biggest fucking fuck of life. 90 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 3: That is the biggest programming. And like that they've they've 91 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 3: cloaked us with so we don't know our power. We're 92 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 3: constantly questioning it, and like, thankfully the goddesses are awakening 93 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 3: and their wombs are awakening their power. Yeah, we're reclaiming it. 94 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 3: And so now it's like you speak to me and 95 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I'm listening, but yeah, thank you for that. 96 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 5: It was a beautiful breakdown break break Like you could 97 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 5: study all the goddesses, you could listen to all the 98 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 5: goddess music, you can read all the books, you could 99 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 5: do all the meditations, and all of that is beautiful. 100 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 5: But it really does mean something when you know, when 101 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 5: you have that knowing that you are divinity. 102 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 6: And because it literally. 103 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 5: It's like turning on a light switch and it changes 104 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 5: everything to walk in that immininity, to walk in that essence. 105 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 5: Y'all know, I'm not telling you anything you don't know. 106 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 5: And that's part of why I love speaking that life 107 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 5: and reminding women when I'm in their presence, because I 108 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:19,479 Speaker 5: always imagine a world full of activated women, you know, 109 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 5: rather than a world full of women that are depressed 110 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 5: or Yeah, or shame, or walking in shame or trauma. 111 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 5: When we think about a world full of activated women, 112 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 5: and we activate each other by reminding each other that 113 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,239 Speaker 5: we are beautiful. Because even though when I look at y'all, 114 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 5: I see nothing but beauty and beauty and. 115 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 6: Love and humor. 116 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 5: And adventure, I see like style and grace and just 117 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 5: the goddess energy. I know that you may have your 118 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,039 Speaker 5: days where you don't necessarily feel like that. 119 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 6: You know you might have we all do. 120 00:07:03,880 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 5: We have our times where we don't feel so, you know, 121 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 5: embolding in our confidence in those days. And so that's 122 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 5: why it is important for us to reflect what we 123 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 5: see and what we feel. And I'm not triggered by 124 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 5: you in any way. I'm inspired by you, and I'm 125 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 5: gonna let you know I'm gonna reflect that. And ultimately 126 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 5: it's universal law that we are reflections of each other. Right, 127 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 5: So if that's what I see when I look at y'all, 128 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 5: that must mean I'm doing alright in life. You feel 129 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 5: me better than all right? So this is what I needed. 130 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 5: This is like a check in, a checkpoint, a rendezvous 131 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 5: of goddesses to just check in with each other with 132 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 5: the roses and the flowers and the organic wine and 133 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 5: the tarroo and the books. 134 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 6: We needed this, so thank you for having me. 135 00:07:54,280 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, speaking of goddess energy and just like you know you, 136 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 4: like I said, you're like such a reflection of this 137 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 4: of this goddess archetype that really exists in every single woman. 138 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 4: But but a lot of women feel like this is like 139 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 4: the goddess is like an exclusive club of women, Like 140 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 4: it's like this specific archetype of bitches that are like 141 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 4: a certain way. And it's like, no, like the goddess 142 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 4: archetype lives in every single. 143 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 2: Warm men, you know what I'm saying. 144 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 4: And and and I think, I think when I look 145 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 4: at you online, like you you always exude that, and 146 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 4: like you said, like there are days and there are 147 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 4: times when you don't feel like that, Like it's hard 148 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 4: to connect back to that. So what does Lizzie Jeff 149 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 4: do when she's trying when she needs to like connect 150 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 4: back to that energy or she's not feeling feeling like 151 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 4: you know, like going through the motions of feeling like 152 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 4: I don't feel like a goddess today, or like even darker, 153 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:57,319 Speaker 4: there's shit, I know, there's days. I mean there's days 154 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 4: where like you have imposter syndrome, Like what am I? 155 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: Who am I? You know? I mean maybe not maybe 156 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 2: not you. 157 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 4: But I'm just curious what your practice is or what 158 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 4: you do to like get yourself into God's mode when 159 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 4: you're not feeling so gott to see. 160 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 6: Oh my goodness. That's a good question, thank you. 161 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: M M. 162 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, because I'd definitely be having those days. I'll be 163 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 5: in my feelings. I'm real sensitive, and I'm working on 164 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 5: what they say, don't take things personally. That was in 165 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 5: the four Agreements, and that's something that I always go 166 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 5: back to, is don't take things exactly. 167 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 4: Is there something I think it's in particular that like 168 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 4: trigger your sensitivity. 169 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 6: It's so many things. 170 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 5: It's so many things, Like because I'm very I consider 171 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 5: myself a very generous person. I love excuse me, I 172 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 5: love giving and sharing, but in like really intentional and 173 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 5: creative ways. And I think sometimes I might have a 174 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 5: little a bit of an expectation of people to be 175 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 5: that way, and sometimes they might just forget me altogether, 176 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 5: and that makes me feel some type of way. And 177 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 5: maybe they didn't forget me, they just didn't think about 178 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 5: me in that moment. But it might be someone that 179 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 5: I've been very intentional with that just makes me feel 180 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 5: the type of way or you know, even just being 181 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 5: a musician. Yeah, just going through moving through stuff. But 182 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 5: what I like to do, what I if I needed, really, 183 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 5: I like to move through it naturally. But what I've 184 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,439 Speaker 5: been very adamant and committed to is when I'm moving 185 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 5: through stuff because I'm always in my feeling. It's just 186 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 5: like my cosmic placements. I always go one hundred percent 187 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 5: on taking care of me no matter what, even when 188 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 5: I'm grieving really deeply. 189 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 6: I know, I ever let. 190 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 5: Myself get too deep where I just go days without 191 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 5: showering or eating, you know, shit like that. I've had 192 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 5: those moments. But once I'm through it, I'm ragged and 193 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 5: raw and ran through and it's like that doesn't do 194 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 5: anything for anybody. And so I've been very adamant on 195 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 5: my herbs every day, even if I can't brew up 196 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 5: my tea, I have my tinctures when I do the roses, 197 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 5: when I'm just in the presence of roses, because roses 198 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 5: have the highest vibration of any flower in the universe. 199 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 5: So sometimes I just like to put it in my 200 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 5: hand and twirl it, even if I'm so raw and 201 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 5: rugged in my feelings and I'm ugly crying. I'll bray 202 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 5: myself with rose water. I'll take a whiff of the roses. 203 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 5: And it doesn't take me to a hundred right away, 204 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 5: but it does help me climb back up the ladder 205 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 5: of confidence in goddess hood. And that's the beauty of 206 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 5: being a woman. That's the beauty of being a goddess. 207 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 5: You have access to all these mystical, miraculous rituals that 208 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 5: you can soothe your heart and soothe your body and 209 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 5: soothe your mind as you're moving through it. And yeah, 210 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 5: I might, you know, want to give me a scoop 211 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 5: of some vegan like salted caramel ice cream. But I'm 212 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 5: not gonna sit there and eat the whole damn jar. 213 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 5: I'm gonna have a couple, you feel me, And I'm an. 214 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna bad heart. 215 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 6: It is hard. 216 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 2: It's hard. 217 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 4: So goddesses honor where they are in the moment, and 218 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 4: they don't judge themselves. 219 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 6: They don't judge themselves. 220 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 5: Okay, it's just it's just should I be moving through 221 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 5: just like giving myself challenges to not go too deep 222 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 5: in it. But if I need to go deep in it. 223 00:12:56,679 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 5: Fuck it, That's where I'm at. I honor myself. But 224 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 5: that's the fun part is remembering the rituals, remembering who 225 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 5: you are, mirror work, getting in lingerie, taking a steam 226 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 5: shower with eucalyptus and peppermint oil, Rubbing your body down 227 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 5: in shade butter oil, you feel me, giving yourself a facial, 228 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:19,959 Speaker 5: making an avocado breast rub for them nipples like it's 229 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 5: full moon free bleeding on the earth. It's so many 230 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 5: ways you can like thrive as a goddess. And that 231 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 5: doesn't mean you have to go out and be the 232 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:31,680 Speaker 5: life of the party. You can still be in your sanctuary, 233 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 5: honoring where you are, in that raw season that you're in, 234 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 5: but still embodying what it means like to be a 235 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 5: goddess and move yourself through whatever it is you're moving through. 236 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 4: I guess I feel like activating the senses is like 237 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 4: such a major goddess heck, pretty like to really connect 238 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 4: to your body, connect like just your energetic body to 239 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 4: your spirit to your physical body, and like marrying those senses. 240 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 4: And I've been using rose oil too, and I've noticed 241 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 4: like how like it's different than any other oil it 242 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 4: is like it really makes me feel so feminine and 243 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 4: like immediately sexy, immediately sexy and immediately just like. 244 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 2: Desirable before myself. 245 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 4: It's like a personal desire that then I can extend 246 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 4: to someone else because there is that kind of desire 247 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 4: that comes with the red rose I feel like but activates. 248 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you can feel it. 249 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 5: You don't need to read too many books about it. 250 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 5: You just sit with it, and it's giving yourself that 251 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 5: connection with earth too in some way. So is there 252 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 5: one person on this earth who, if you shared something 253 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 5: that was real, raw and sensitive with you would care 254 00:15:01,240 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 5: about them validating your feelings. 255 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 3: Like I would what I expect and want them to 256 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 3: validate my feelings. 257 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? 258 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 5: Is there like one person that you can feel safe 259 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 5: and raw with sharing and then you actually care about 260 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 5: what they would share how or them validating your feelings? 261 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 3: Does that make sense? 262 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 6: Yeah? For sure. 263 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 3: I think it's Erica and Orlando. 264 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, that's beautiful. 265 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 3: I think like mostly I know I can go with 266 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 3: mostly anything, and honestly, to be true, like it's easier 267 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 3: for me to say things to Erica because this is 268 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 3: our space. Our space isn't talking and maybe not maybe 269 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 3: if it's like stuff with us Initially like maybe right, 270 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 3: maybe easier to go somewhere else, but like for literally 271 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 3: anything else, it's this is the easiest place. So I 272 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 3: know she's gonna be like, well, you know, that's okay, 273 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 3: or like you or like you're right okay, or at 274 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:59,360 Speaker 3: least yeah. It's a safe space. And I think I've 275 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 3: practiced space with her the most authentically, So there's a 276 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 3: level of expectation of like, I do know that you 277 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 3: know what I mean that I'm trying to practice. I 278 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 3: am practicing in my relationship, and I feel safe to 279 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 3: do it. But it's this is a muscle I've exercised 280 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 3: way more here. 281 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 6: That's deep. 282 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 5: I was thank you for sharing. I was asking because 283 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 5: there I have one or two people that I like, 284 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 5: I care about, you know, if I'm sharing something that's 285 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 5: raw and vulnerable, and I ask because, well, what what 286 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 5: how would I want them to validate my feelings in 287 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 5: this moment? What would I want them to say to 288 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 5: encourage me? And a lot of times I'll tap into 289 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 5: that energy if it's just me and my solitude and 290 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 5: my solo work, and say it to myself because I 291 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 5: am really sensitive. Like I said, I think many of 292 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 5: us are, but it's just a matter of that emotional 293 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 5: awareness maturity. And so somebody like Erica or Orlando, when 294 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 5: you're in your solitude, moving through that shit, you know, 295 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:13,800 Speaker 5: asking telling yourself what you will want to hear in 296 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 5: this moment, and that kind of soothes the. 297 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 6: Just a little bit. 298 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 3: And I think I've I've come to realize that a 299 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 3: lot of on top of that is like what I 300 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 3: would want to hear is not generally what I respond with, 301 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 3: not like maybe maybe not exactly like maybe if you 302 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:40,879 Speaker 3: came to me and said something to me, or you 303 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,199 Speaker 3: did something like how I would want you to respond 304 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:44,919 Speaker 3: to me may not be the way I respond to you. 305 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 3: That's not maybe in my nature what I what I 306 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 3: what I actually crave is not actually in my nature 307 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 3: to deliver. But probably because it's what I crave and 308 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 3: may not always have gotten, you know what I mean, 309 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 3: Like just because that's what you crave, isn't I mean, 310 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,439 Speaker 3: that's what you're that's your nature. In fact, our nature 311 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 3: is to be not be as compassionate, you know what 312 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 3: I mean. It's like, so it's always a work in 313 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 3: progress to be in solitude and say what would I 314 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 3: want to hear and so that you can when someone 315 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 3: comes to you with something also lead in this same 316 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 3: space in which you expect. But you have to be 317 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 3: in space with yourself to know what would I want 318 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 3: to hear in order to be able to be soft 319 00:18:25,760 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 3: with someone else. But a lot of times we're not. 320 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:33,400 Speaker 3: We're not being ourselves, which is a direct reason why 321 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 3: we can't show up that way for people. And there's 322 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:37,119 Speaker 3: a disconnect. 323 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 4: And then there's people that are solved with other people 324 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 4: and they have no boundaries at all. 325 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 3: I feel like it goes both ways. That's true. That's true. 326 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 5: So you said there's self with other people, but brutal 327 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 5: with themselves. Now, I'll admit I'll be tripping sometimes I'll 328 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,360 Speaker 5: be tripping, But it comes with I feel like when 329 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 5: you wear a crown, which we all do, uh, and 330 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 5: when you step into a particular position of leadership where 331 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 5: people rely or come to you or inspired by it 332 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 5: does make you care a little bit more. But at 333 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 5: the same time, it's like, that's why the authenticity part, 334 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 5: that's why being true to yourself and who you are 335 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 5: is vital, so that nothing or no one's expectations of you. 336 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 6: I see you in your eyes. 337 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 3: Just like to make your breath. I'm just like taking 338 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 3: it like like, yeah. 339 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 2: There is a toxic goddess culture. 340 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 5: A TGC toxic god of course, duality, duality. 341 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 3: Can you give me some examples of toxic goddess culture? 342 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 4: Well, people that aren't really like it's not like that 343 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 4: you don't believe themselves. They're not really doing the work, 344 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 4: you really believe themselves, they're not indeed, they're not doing 345 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 4: shadow work or not. Even if they're not, they're not 346 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 4: doing shit. They're I mean, expecting themselves but posting. 347 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. 348 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 4: I just feel like they're just like in any genre 349 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 4: of whatever the fuck label version of it. 350 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 5: But with my particular music and lifestyle and body of work, 351 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 5: I'm I'm really I consider myself, you know, a OG. 352 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 5: I consider myself a real nigga. 353 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 6: You feel me. 354 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 5: I mean, y'all probably gotta bleep that out, but maybe 355 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 5: you know. But just how I was raised, who I 356 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 5: was raised by the time, the geographic location, and most 357 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 5: of my life I was leaning in my masculine energy, 358 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 5: just being having three brothers, like just being in the 359 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 5: streets playing ball, et cetera, et cetera. When I finally 360 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 5: tuned into my feminine energy. It was a real beautiful discovery, 361 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 5: and so I really do my best to balance it. 362 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 5: Now with that comes a lot of people who are 363 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 5: attracted to the light, who bring light, but also people 364 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:14,439 Speaker 5: who bring that dark energy as well, and we can't 365 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:19,800 Speaker 5: overlook the dark energy. But in the spiritual community and 366 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 5: the wellness holistic lifestyle community, whether it's the festivals, the conferences, 367 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 5: or the retreats, there's still a lot of that surface 368 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 5: layer toxic Goddess energy, toxic God energy, which is not 369 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 5: necessarily a negative thing because God is multidimensionality. 370 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:45,919 Speaker 6: Goddess is multidimensionality. 371 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 5: We can be so clean in pristine but at the 372 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,040 Speaker 5: same time humans can be filthy and dirty. 373 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 6: And so is balance and duality in all things. 374 00:21:55,200 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 5: But when that comes up, especially when I'm dealing with 375 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:08,239 Speaker 5: it from the masculine energy, I advocate for myself. I 376 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 5: speak up on it. But then it's like she's starting 377 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 5: a gender war. But it's like, no, all I'm doing 378 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 5: is holding this energy accountable and having a real conversation. 379 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,640 Speaker 5: So because I feel a certain type of way, I'm 380 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 5: hurt based on your behaviors or action. Other women are 381 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 5: hurt based on your behaviors and actions. So can we 382 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 5: bring certain conversations to the forefront of our culture to 383 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 5: really talk about stuff that's deeper than the surface layer, 384 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 5: so that we can move forward and move beyond it. 385 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 5: Because yes, there is what you said that God is 386 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 5: toxic culture. But it's like, okay, how do we Okay, 387 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,719 Speaker 5: this is what it is and it's going to always 388 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 5: be a part of it. But I think that us 389 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 5: raising those questions as to what it is to hold 390 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 5: ourselves accountable because because we all should be showing up 391 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 5: with a top tier mindset, a top tier way of integrity, 392 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,159 Speaker 5: and how we deal with each other and how we 393 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 5: speak to each other and move with each other, I 394 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 5: think that is important. So I'm glad you brought that up. 395 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 5: Maybe that makes sense, Maybe it doesn't. Maybe it's just 396 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 5: organic wine. 397 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 3: Organic line is hitting makes sense to me? 398 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:33,679 Speaker 4: Yes, So, Lizzie, we asked our community, our tribe, We 399 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 4: told them we were having you back on the show, 400 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 4: and we had a few questions. 401 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,919 Speaker 5: Okay for real, Yes, let's see what they got. 402 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. 403 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 2: How does how do you stay inspired? And what does 404 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:47,119 Speaker 2: inspire you? 405 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:53,120 Speaker 5: How do I stay inspired and what inspires me? I 406 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 5: love beautiful men. I love taking long romantic walks to 407 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 5: the bank. I love titty rubs, I love listening to 408 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 5: good music. I love just, you know, just indulging in 409 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 5: like the beautiful, sweet things in life. 410 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 6: That's what inspires me. 411 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 5: Always try to find inspiration and everything around me. 412 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 6: You said, what inspires me? 413 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:27,679 Speaker 2: And what inspires you? And what do you How do 414 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 2: you stay inspired? 415 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 6: Okay? 416 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:34,120 Speaker 5: I stay inspired by honestly, you know, and I say 417 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 5: this a lot in my music. But the fact that 418 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 5: we woke up today, the fact that we got another 419 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 5: opportunity to just breathe and enjoy life, is enough reason 420 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,920 Speaker 5: for me to be inspired. It don't matter what kind 421 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 5: of day I had yesterday, who I had to curse 422 00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 5: out with my how far somebody's tush, I had to 423 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 5: break my foot off, you feel me, It doesn't matter 424 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 5: what happened yesterday, last week, earlier today. The fact that 425 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 5: I woke up and I'm breathing, that's enough inspiration for 426 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 5: me to go and get it. And I find inspiration 427 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:22,479 Speaker 5: in books and music and people and the way I dress, 428 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 5: you feel me and how I cook my food. 429 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 6: Oh my goodness, come on, I would love to cook 430 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 6: for y'all that I would love that. 431 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 5: Because that's one of my love languages, is preparing alkaline, delicious, delectable, 432 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:43,400 Speaker 5: highly vibrational, inspirational meals for my homies. Okay, I'm gonna 433 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,160 Speaker 5: do that. Okay when y'all get back. Is that our 434 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:47,959 Speaker 5: six year anniversary? 435 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,400 Speaker 4: A girls sleep We have just had a girls sleepover 436 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 4: the other night and it was so amazing. There was 437 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,239 Speaker 4: ten women at my house and almost I pretty much 438 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 4: all spent the night. And I was like, I wasn't sure, 439 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,640 Speaker 4: Like I was like like my space by myself Scorpio, 440 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,200 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you're very I. 441 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 3: Mean I was. 442 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:04,959 Speaker 2: I was. 443 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,919 Speaker 4: I wanted to do it, and I was happy to 444 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 4: do it, and then it got close to it and 445 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 4: I was like, oh shit, this is a big commitment 446 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 4: that I've signed up for. And then I loved every 447 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:17,399 Speaker 4: second of it, just seeing like all my bitches just yeah, 448 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 4: feeling sexy and cute. And then my girlfriend like it 449 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 4: was her birthday and she really needed, she really needed 450 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,879 Speaker 4: this girl's night, and we were all so happy to 451 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 4: like spoil her and celebrate her and make her feel 452 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 4: like the goddess that she is and remind her like 453 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 4: the moment she came in. It was like photos, she 454 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,639 Speaker 4: sits your ass down, put these pajamas on, like we had. 455 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:36,639 Speaker 2: It was beautiful. 456 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 4: It was very romantic, like we made it a very 457 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 4: romantic evening and it was just like ten of us 458 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 4: women and then we oh, God is good and. 459 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:47,479 Speaker 2: Then we ate this beautiful dinner. 460 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,640 Speaker 4: And then we had this miraculous idea to use all 461 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 4: our best resources as podcasters and good moms to make be. 462 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 3: As live performers, to call live for live entertainment, which 463 00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 3: was in the form of a sexy man named Rico, 464 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:07,120 Speaker 3: who was the top notch I mean honestly male male 465 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 3: performer I've ever seen in you know, the last ten years. 466 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 3: And we got actually because I know you've seen Rico, 467 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 3: I mean male entertainment, I haven't seen. Yeah, he is. 468 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 3: And he came to us and from God literally to 469 00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,439 Speaker 3: us literally with no hair on his shot towards us 470 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 3: but it's open and he was just like mesmerizing me 471 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,639 Speaker 3: and Erica and I was like, we're on mushrooms and 472 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 3: we're like, oh my goodness, I don't know, but probably all. 473 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:39,479 Speaker 3: And then we had this like this moment of this 474 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 3: light bulb moment. We're like and right, at the same time, 475 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 3: like he needs to perform our live shows, the show, 476 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 3: and I was like, I feel like he's gonna get 477 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 3: the job done. And he told us he was from Vegas. 478 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:50,640 Speaker 3: And when he said Vegas, I knew it. I knew 479 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,199 Speaker 3: was entertainment. He was almost like floating towards us like 480 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:54,920 Speaker 3: a mirage. 481 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 6: She knew what he was doing. 482 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,480 Speaker 3: Anyway, he did a great job at the live show. 483 00:27:58,480 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you were there. 484 00:27:59,560 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 6: Okay. 485 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 3: I was wondering, you know, you know the you know, 486 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 3: the vibes he was. 487 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,400 Speaker 6: That was a beautiful man. 488 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 5: I saw, I saw the moves and I said, okay, 489 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,200 Speaker 5: and y'all was really handling him. 490 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,400 Speaker 3: He was really handling y'all not new to I mean, 491 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 3: I was trying to hold my own. But you know 492 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 3: what I realized at the moment. First, I was like, 493 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 3: this is a really grown and sexy party, Like we've 494 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,399 Speaker 3: reached I was like, we lived our whole lives to 495 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 3: just have another slumber party, have matching pajamas and curated dinners. 496 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 3: But then when we had the golden idea to call Rico, 497 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 3: I was like, I love that this is my contribution, 498 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 3: Like I love that I'm the bit you can call 499 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,439 Speaker 3: the niggas. I'm like, oh, oh, the one, the one 500 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 3: we could just give the money and he leave like 501 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 3: I want to be. 502 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 2: It was a beautiful adult transaction. 503 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 4: It was we came over, he was prepared, he got, 504 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 4: he got, He's like, give me a glass of wine. 505 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 2: All right, let's get to it. 506 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 3: Boom, We made him a plate. 507 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 2: It was action based. 508 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 3: He got, he got his, he got his coins, and 509 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 3: we got our entertainment. He went on. 510 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 2: I was like and I was like, Wow, this is 511 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 2: the most mature transaction. 512 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 6: I love that for y'all. 513 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 3: And I was like, we're the cool moms. We know, 514 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 3: we know they don't entertainment. 515 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 4: So if you well, he's great. I think we should 516 00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 4: start selling this package. So if you want the Rico experience, 517 00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,160 Speaker 4: flash of Bougie. 518 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 3: We're bringing sleepovers back. Adult sleepovers are in. And if 519 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 3: you want a good mom's curated birthday party, divorce party, 520 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 3: bachelorette party, h fuck it, it's just time to have 521 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 3: a party party, call us Pleasure Party. We're the pleasure 522 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 3: party experts, experts, and we can curate it for you. 523 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 6: That's sexy, that's sensual. 524 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 2: Pleasure party experts. 525 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 6: I love that. 526 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 5: I just updated my e v K today and I 527 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 5: added a whole new section of pleasure parties, bachelor party, 528 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 5: bachel rep private events, curations. Just because I've been really 529 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 5: on one with my vixen's and all the different cities. 530 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 5: This is so in line, like. 531 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,640 Speaker 2: Yes, this is this is everything that you already know. 532 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 3: I'm here for this. Yeah, what were you gonna say? 533 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 3: I'm not telling I'm until the off camera. 534 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 6: Okay, I respect that. Make sure you remember that. 535 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 2: Listen. 536 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,320 Speaker 3: Me and Erica just were reminded recently. I mean, like, 537 00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 3: I know, we know that we're powerful manifestors, but I 538 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,200 Speaker 3: think sometimes God will like sprinkle some shit on you 539 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 3: just so you remember who the fuck you are. 540 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 6: Of course, and like. 541 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 3: Lily, we were here the other day, we spoke someone 542 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 3: up who's previously been on the show, and literally moments later, 543 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 3: like minutes later, he walked by the sidewalk and I said, 544 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 3: She's like, isn't that it was nineteen Keys And he's 545 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 3: like the nineteen She's like, we're like nineteen nineteen, like 546 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 3: fucking night crazy people, and he I was like, oh 547 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 3: my god, that's crazy. 548 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 6: Yeah. 549 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 3: Literally, we don't talk about nineteen Keys every day, but 550 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,840 Speaker 3: this particular afternoon and I was like, we gotta shut 551 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 3: the fuck up. I mean, it was great weat to 552 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 3: see him, But in general, you know, I just want 553 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 3: to remind we have to do affirmation. But if you 554 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 3: think of any inspiration from what I'm about to say, 555 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 3: just based on what we opened the show with Lizzie 556 00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 3: reminding us that we're goddesses, I just want to remind 557 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 3: everybody else that you are also a goddess or a god, 558 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 3: and everything that comes from you has vibration. Your every word, 559 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,960 Speaker 3: every energetic thought has vibration and is powerful. That's why 560 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 3: you have the power. But oftentimes we forget that and 561 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 3: we be thinking negative shit, saying whack shit, not remind 562 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 3: like looking at our friends and like damn she's fine, 563 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 3: and not saying just simply damn you're fine. Yeah right, 564 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 3: you know, and just forgetting to say the thing because 565 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 3: it's a muscle we have to exercise. But as magical 566 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 3: goddess bitches, I just I need everyone, Queen's and everyone 567 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:40,280 Speaker 3: to just remind yourself how powerful you are. And by 568 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,640 Speaker 3: utilizing your power and your frequency, you remind your sisters 569 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 3: and your lovers and your kids to do the same thing. 570 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,479 Speaker 3: And so that we can create a world that is 571 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 3: constantly frequently frequencies of love, which brings me to my 572 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 3: outphit today. 573 00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 5: Yes, preach this outfit almost go hagg go ahead e love. 574 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 4: From You're not drunk, We're not high, We're not high. 575 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 3: I mean I'm here for This is from our good 576 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 3: friend Gilly who is in pert of Aho, our second home. 577 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 3: This is his line called love is the Answer. 578 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 2: I love Gilly, and you look so cute at the top. 579 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 2: It's very cute. 580 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 3: I customize it. 581 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 6: It looks so cute. 582 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 3: Here's a lot of different like looks. But I mean ship, 583 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 3: love is the answer, and I think we forget that 584 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 3: love is the answer. Loving ourselves, loving each other, loving 585 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,479 Speaker 3: each other out loud, loving ourselves out loud and in loud. 586 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 3: I just made them very. 587 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 6: Loud like that. 588 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 2: I just made that. It's just so smart. 589 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 6: You're a genius. 590 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 3: That means a voice in your head. Okay, I got it. 591 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 5: You look good like in nineties. Yeah, that's what I 592 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 5: was thinking to It is definitely Janet. 593 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, like a moth to the flag by the fire. 594 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 3: That's a way love goes. 595 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 6: That's the way I love goes. 596 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 3: Let's go get your shells on you guys, love goes. 597 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 6: It goes, it goes right. I know that's right. 598 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 3: Orlando's hit that's way I love God. That's like literally 599 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 3: my favorite song of all time. That reminds me of 600 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 3: nineteen ninety five. 601 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 6: That's a good one. 602 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 4: My stepdad in that music video, I never show you. 603 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,960 Speaker 4: I can't see the dreadlocks. He's like Janet's like massaging 604 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 4: his head. 605 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 6: And now you're a video fix. 606 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 2: Now it's in the family line. 607 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 5: Powerful legacy. I'm gonna have to look out for him. 608 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 3: Maybe we could just like lead out the episode with 609 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 3: that song. Maybe we could just sneak and just like 610 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 3: we can, we'll do it. Maybe we put our own 611 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:58,880 Speaker 3: vocals over right. They won't get that's true. That's fine. 612 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 3: But before we started for my four rants, you picked 613 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 3: the cards. Wait, ladies, do we have affirmation? 614 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 2: Affirmation? 615 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 6: Hmm? Oh okay for me? 616 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:26,640 Speaker 5: Oh ship, that was a good catch. Oh no, oh, 617 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 5: my goodness, that's deep. That's abstract, that's abstract. 618 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:38,040 Speaker 6: I okay, my goodness. I am in alignment. 619 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 5: With my deepest desires, and when things try to distract 620 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 5: me and knock me off my path, I am still focused. 621 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 5: I am still guided in exactly where I need to 622 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,440 Speaker 5: be and I let's has to fit on a post. 623 00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 6: Oh shit, I was just okay, So tell me my affirmation. 624 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 5: I am a miraculous, divine reflection. 625 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 6: Of divinity. 626 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 3: I am a miraculous, divine reflection of divinity. 627 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 5: When I look in the mirror, Look in the mirror, 628 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 5: I see nothing but a luminous, luxurious and liberated goddess. 629 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 4: When I look in the mirror, nothing but a luminous like, 630 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 4: luxurious and liberated goddess. 631 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:59,359 Speaker 7: Liberated goddess, curious, liberating a paper at that, I don't 632 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 7: know if this is going to Actually, that's. 633 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 5: No way, okay, right, as long as you're not stressed out, 634 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 5: you never want to ask you you never seem stressed out. 635 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 3: Wow, that's deep. 636 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 2: I don't ask you. How the fuck are you floating 637 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:16,959 Speaker 2: all the time? 638 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 3: I feel on edge. 639 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,759 Speaker 5: I'm so happy to hear that from somebody else, because 640 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 5: I'll be really all. You're tripping, y'all, But thank you 641 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,040 Speaker 5: for I'm glad you perceived that. I'm glad you perceive 642 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,839 Speaker 5: that because that means a little bit of the work 643 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 5: that I do to remain stress free is working. But 644 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 5: it's a journey. I just looking at my grandmother, my 645 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:42,240 Speaker 5: great grandmother, my mother, and the women that came before 646 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 5: me in just the way that they had to deal 647 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 5: with a high, high level of stress. Breath work is 648 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:54,319 Speaker 5: like one of the greatest assets. But also especially as 649 00:36:54,400 --> 00:37:01,320 Speaker 5: melanated women, we process stress and so many seen ways 650 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,399 Speaker 5: that even if we be like, no, I'm good, I'm good, 651 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 5: I'm all right, I ain't tripping, I'm good. You mean 652 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:10,280 Speaker 5: I'm good, that's really just some toxic behavior patterns because 653 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 5: we're not really good and were telling ourselves we good. 654 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 5: So then that stress accumulates in ourselves and we start 655 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 5: dealing with those unseen illnesses emotional and spiritual. And so 656 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:29,680 Speaker 5: for me, although I, you know, do find myself having 657 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 5: those moments of high intensity and emotional distress, I do, 658 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 5: I just really do my best to breath work through it. 659 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,600 Speaker 5: You feel me, y'all doing an excellent job over there, 660 00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 5: breath work through it. That's the best working. One of 661 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 5: my young Goddess homegirls, she like twenty two, and she 662 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 5: knows you'd have thought she was yea, my y'all, and 663 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,760 Speaker 5: I'm like, damn, I wish I knew what you knew 664 00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:01,759 Speaker 5: at twenty two. But she always says her name. Her 665 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 5: previous name is Thora. She recently changed her name, but 666 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 5: I would have to double verify her new. 667 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 6: Name, but she always says Thora. 668 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 5: No, it was her given name. Yeah, and this was 669 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 5: a new season of yeah, I'm not right Christina today. Yeah. Okay, 670 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 5: see it was a goddess name. I just can't remember 671 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 5: in this moment because anyways, but she always says, I'm 672 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,600 Speaker 5: gonna breath work. I'm gonna cycle it out. I'm gonna 673 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,279 Speaker 5: cycle it out. So if anybody pisses her off, or 674 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,240 Speaker 5: if she eats like some fry food or something weird, 675 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,880 Speaker 5: she always says, I'm gonna cycle it out. And what 676 00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 5: she means is she's just gonna focus on her breathing 677 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 5: and literally breathworking. 678 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 6: And it does work like it does throw up, I mean. 679 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:56,279 Speaker 4: Can it can do so many things, even the awareness 680 00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 4: and the knowledge and this and the frequency of saying 681 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 4: I'm about to what is say, I'll cycle it out. 682 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 3: And then thinking about like literally physically thinking about cycling 683 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,360 Speaker 3: it out of your body. The visualized like weaving the 684 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 3: light in the sound is tantra, Like that's literally how 685 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:14,200 Speaker 3: you do it. You consciously say I'm leaving this shit 686 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:17,719 Speaker 3: here and then I or move it out with your 687 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,799 Speaker 3: body or like literally physically with your mental push that 688 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:25,360 Speaker 3: shit out or meditate that shit out. But we underestimate 689 00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,680 Speaker 3: our goddess power and we forget that we have the 690 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,360 Speaker 3: power to do this shit because that's what it means 691 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 3: to be a goddess. I can alchemize and transmute anything. 692 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,080 Speaker 3: And so we stay still and we stay stuck and 693 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,879 Speaker 3: eat the whole fucking thing of ice cream and shit, 694 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 3: and then we like drink and smoke and fuck and 695 00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 3: then we're like, we're fine. And then that trauma builds 696 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 3: and builds and builds, and that generational trauma also builds 697 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 3: when we're consciously because as black women, as melanated women, 698 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,440 Speaker 3: we're programmed to be like, I'm fine, I'm good, and 699 00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,239 Speaker 3: then you're like, am I good? Like you don't even 700 00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 3: know if you're good or if you're bad, because you 701 00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 3: have and had the conversation with yourself but actually reminding 702 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 3: yourself that it's literally literally just saying, let me meet 703 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:11,399 Speaker 3: this issue in this emotion and then let me body, 704 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,080 Speaker 3: sometimes do you want me to do with this? 705 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:17,480 Speaker 2: Give me a word? What does it feel like? 706 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,160 Speaker 3: And even asking that's good? What can I do for you. 707 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 3: How can I help you? How can I help you 708 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 3: move this out literally letting the feeling come out and 709 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,080 Speaker 3: then literally looking at it, you know. 710 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:32,040 Speaker 5: And just just and not judging yourself, because that's the 711 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,759 Speaker 5: hardest part. Yeah, And I'm not even going to apprehend 712 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:39,840 Speaker 5: you when I when I'm when I'm just in a 713 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:40,480 Speaker 5: in a. 714 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:46,040 Speaker 6: I mean, I'm rarely in a rage. I can't even 715 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 6: see I'm rarely. 716 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 8: But but I I be aby i abby, okay, ibby, 717 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,719 Speaker 8: but I'm feeling that because I'll go and have me 718 00:40:58,800 --> 00:40:59,840 Speaker 8: a fresh coconut. 719 00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,200 Speaker 6: Oh and I'm good. I'll go to I'll give me 720 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 6: a I'll fresh press juice of ginger shot and that 721 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,919 Speaker 6: takes me up. Yo. The Arawhine Juice Bar. 722 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 5: Not they should send me a check for you and 723 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 5: just mentioning their name just now, but they're a juice bar. 724 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:22,400 Speaker 5: They have a coconut Cloud smoothie with the coconut, the 725 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:27,360 Speaker 5: Blue Spire Allina coconut water, the dates, it's a vibe 726 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:32,279 Speaker 5: and stuff like that. It makes my cells rejuvenate. So 727 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,640 Speaker 5: when I need support emotionally and I just can't get 728 00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 5: over some shit a fuck boy did or said or 729 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 5: the or a fuck girl did or said, and I'm 730 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 5: just struggling a little bit emotionally. Then I go to 731 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 5: the rejuvenation of the cells, and then that helps bring 732 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,200 Speaker 5: balance and restoration back to my mindset so that I 733 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:57,680 Speaker 5: can proceed forward into the next chapter of my greatness 734 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 5: to live the life that I was all here to live. 735 00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,719 Speaker 3: You feel me now, without any bumps, without any pullbacks, 736 00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 3: without being caught up on some shit that's really not 737 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:07,760 Speaker 3: for you anyway. 738 00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,759 Speaker 5: It's not for me anyway. So I'm gonna continue to 739 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 5: push forward. And I love being here. I love the questions, 740 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 5: I love the conversation. I love the energy that y'all carry. 741 00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:24,319 Speaker 5: And I'm really glad that you're shifting how you do 742 00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 5: things creatively while still staying in your creativity. You're setting 743 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,560 Speaker 5: an example for a lot of women to not do 744 00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 5: so much all the damn time to make things exclusive. 745 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:43,120 Speaker 5: To understand that your vibe is a vibe, and sometimes 746 00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 5: you gotta pay for that. You feel me, sometimes you 747 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,440 Speaker 5: got to invest in that type of frequency to exist 748 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 5: in this space with us, because the energy is not 749 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,960 Speaker 5: always free. So thank y'all for constantly showing me, leading 750 00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,719 Speaker 5: the way uplifting other women. I resonate with your work 751 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,800 Speaker 5: so much. I think you're both amazing and beautiful women. 752 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,759 Speaker 5: I'm gonna always tell you this every time I see you. 753 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 5: But more than anything, I'm just very inspired and honored 754 00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,759 Speaker 5: to be in your presence. And I hope you continue 755 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:18,280 Speaker 5: selling your book. I hope you continue your friendship, longevity, 756 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 5: more success, more pleasure, more dope, ass next level opportunities 757 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 5: coming toward you. I wish all of that on you, 758 00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 5: and I'm excited for the next time we link up. 759 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:32,959 Speaker 5: So thank you so much. 760 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:37,719 Speaker 3: Yes, thank you. We love you, and it's always wonderful 761 00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:39,520 Speaker 3: to have you here and to be in your presence 762 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,880 Speaker 3: and to hear your vibrations because they're strong and they're powerful. 763 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 3: Thank you, radiate, thank you, speaking of vibrations. 764 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 6: Terran time. 765 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 2: Okay, Lizzie, you pulled the King of Cups upright right. 766 00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:05,680 Speaker 4: Emotionally balanced, compassionate, diplomatic. The King of Cups represents mastery 767 00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 4: over the realms of emotion, creativity, and the unconscious. When 768 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,560 Speaker 4: this card turns up into Tarot reading, you have gained 769 00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,320 Speaker 4: control over your feelings and can accept them without allowing 770 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,480 Speaker 4: them to get the better of you, even when life 771 00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,000 Speaker 4: throws you a curveball. You can draw on your emotional 772 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:21,960 Speaker 4: maturity and stability to help you navigate these challenges. 773 00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 2: You don't let. 774 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,080 Speaker 4: Things get to you, and you steer clear of the 775 00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:30,520 Speaker 4: drama instead choosing an emotionally balanced, calm approach. The King 776 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 4: of Cup embodies the perfect balance between the executive and 777 00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:33,279 Speaker 4: the heart. 778 00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 2: Not only are you. 779 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:39,960 Speaker 4: Not only are you able to assess and manage the 780 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 4: situation logically, but you can also draw upon your intuition 781 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:47,839 Speaker 4: and understanding of human interactions. As a leader, you care 782 00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 4: as much about achieving your goals and objectives as you 783 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 4: do about making sure everyone is happy and engaged along 784 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 4: the way. As a king, he is a masculine fatherly energy, 785 00:44:56,600 --> 00:44:59,280 Speaker 4: and as a Cups card, he brings his emo emotional 786 00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 4: self to the forefe He offers wise advice when it 787 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,919 Speaker 4: comes to feelings, emotions, creativity, and relationships, and can see 788 00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,840 Speaker 4: the human dynamic in its entirety. The King of Cups 789 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 4: is compassionate towards others, creating strong bonds and relationships based 790 00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,960 Speaker 4: on patience and understanding. He may appear in your life 791 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:19,680 Speaker 4: as a mentor coach, a spiritual guide, or you may 792 00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 4: step into this role yourself. 793 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:29,399 Speaker 5: You are such a wonderful narrator. Your tone is just superb. 794 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 5: Thank you for reading that. 795 00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:31,720 Speaker 2: Thank you. 796 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 6: I resonate with that. 797 00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,879 Speaker 4: I'm moving through the rest of this month with King 798 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 4: of Cups energy. By the time you listen to this, 799 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:44,040 Speaker 4: I will be on retreat, so I will be moving 800 00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:48,520 Speaker 4: with that energy. Feminine energy though, but you are being diplomatic. 801 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:52,759 Speaker 4: We are hopefully holding space for the women so that 802 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,920 Speaker 4: they can disarm. 803 00:45:54,960 --> 00:46:03,320 Speaker 3: And yes, yes, MLB beach side in the warm weather, 804 00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,840 Speaker 3: half naked, eating fresh fruit and real. 805 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,400 Speaker 2: Food, rejuvenating myself. 806 00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:13,480 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, I love that for y'all coming. 807 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:13,960 Speaker 6: Thank you. 808 00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:15,200 Speaker 2: Where can we find you? 809 00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:21,200 Speaker 5: Zen and Cush? Thank you for asking. They can find 810 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 5: me at the next Zen and Cush, which will be 811 00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 5: the Zen and Cush Fest in New Orleans this June, 812 00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:32,440 Speaker 5: and then we're gonna run it back in December in Miami. 813 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:36,239 Speaker 5: But for the most part, I exist on all the 814 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 5: music streaming platforms at Lizzie, jeff l I, z z 815 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:44,279 Speaker 5: y j e f F, social media, all of that. 816 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:49,359 Speaker 5: My new album, my new EP, Cush, Clouds and Coconut Water, 817 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:53,839 Speaker 5: is set to release on two to two, but right 818 00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:59,000 Speaker 5: now it's actually available for the exclusive pre release via 819 00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,759 Speaker 5: my website at Lizziejeff dot com and also the link 820 00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:07,240 Speaker 5: in my bio. It's a beautiful it's a beautiful body 821 00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:14,760 Speaker 5: of work. It's just a real special, smooth, medicinal, sensuous 822 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:19,480 Speaker 5: but raw and vulnerable expression of what I've been moving 823 00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:22,040 Speaker 5: through over these last few months, over this last year. 824 00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:28,000 Speaker 5: And it's it is raw, but it's also uplifting and 825 00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,440 Speaker 5: encouraging and inspiring, and I'm just so happy to be 826 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 5: sharing it with the world. So that's Cush Clouds and 827 00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:37,359 Speaker 5: Coconut Water. So that'll be coming out on two two 828 00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 5: to hold y'all over until the next Zen and Cush 829 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 5: experience takes place. But let's stay connected, let's keep building, 830 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 5: let's keep growing, And most importantly, this is something I 831 00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,759 Speaker 5: always tell myself. But if it's one thing you kept 832 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 5: with me, if you kept that you kept with yourself. 833 00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,920 Speaker 5: From this conversation, I just hope that everybody floats out 834 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 5: of this conversation feeling a little bit more inspired, more 835 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:09,960 Speaker 5: rejuvenated in their purpose, but also with the reminder to 836 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,920 Speaker 5: remember to just take care of yourselves. It's a lot 837 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,560 Speaker 5: going on in the world, and it's important that we 838 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:20,680 Speaker 5: do dive into those rituals of deep self care to 839 00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:26,839 Speaker 5: really navigate these interesting times and most importantly, stay hydrated. 840 00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:32,200 Speaker 5: L I z z y j E f F is up. 841 00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 5: I love y'all. I appreciate y'all. Good mom, mom smoking. 842 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. Make sure you check us out. We are official 843 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:44,840 Speaker 4: video models video fixens. 844 00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:50,200 Speaker 3: Yes yeah, check check in in order to find us 845 00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:55,080 Speaker 3: on Good Mom's underscore, Bad choices. I love you, love you, hie. 846 00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:57,320 Speaker 2: I can do that. 847 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:01,439 Speaker 3: I can't hold me back. 848 00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:02,480 Speaker 2: I can through a. 849 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 3: Fadel on my rain, turning back, end me my flowers. 850 00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:10,000 Speaker 3: I could blend it back. 851 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 5: It's one four hours flowers, as you know. 852 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:21,000 Speaker 6: And I said, I'm living so good. 853 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:22,960 Speaker 3: Cat to Sail might have been hurt. 854 00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,600 Speaker 4: I used to being seals. 855 00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:26,840 Speaker 3: Might be fa