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Speaker 1: Second Date up dating.

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Speaker 2: They say finding love is like finding Wi Fi in

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Speaker 2: the desert.

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Speaker 1: It's rare, it's it's miraculous.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's slightly alarming when it actually happens to you.

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Speaker 2: And right now, our listener Dan is out in the

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Speaker 2: dating desert, wandering around holding his phone up in the air,

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Speaker 2: trying to get one bar of love.

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Speaker 1: Oh, there it goes.

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Speaker 2: Let's see if we can try and help strengthen that

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Speaker 2: signal today with this second date update.

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Speaker 3: Dan.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey guys, thanks for taking my call.

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Speaker 3: Man. Yeah, we're worried about you out there. He needs

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Speaker 3: some water. How are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Right now, you must be feeling okay because apparently a

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Speaker 2: woman has wandered into your desert of dating.

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Speaker 3: Are you sure it's Oh, yeah, it could be.

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Speaker 1: What's this girl's name?

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Speaker 4: Her name's Becca.

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Speaker 1: Okay, how did you meet Becca?

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Speaker 4: So we were at a friend's mutual gathering. Like it

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Speaker 4: wasn't anything crazy, it was just like a like a bonfire. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: So we ended up kind of sitting next to each other.

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Speaker 4: So we ended up chatting.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: Your producer asked me, like, what's stuck up about her?

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Speaker 4: Stuck out about her?

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Speaker 1: What But what is stuck up about her? That's also

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Speaker 1: a important question.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's what it is. She's not calling me back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she doesn't anything that costs less than fifty dollars totally.

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Speaker 1: What did you like about her?

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Speaker 4: Well, so, first of all, like the first thing I

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Speaker 4: noticed was she was wearing these like old Converse shoes

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Speaker 4: with like doodles on them. So it just real relaxed.

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Speaker 4: I didn't feel like she was trying too hard. She

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Speaker 4: had to kill her smile as well, so I was like, man,

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Speaker 4: this is like right up my alley.

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Speaker 3: That's cute. And the scenes kind of set for you.

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Speaker 3: You're at a bonfire, you know, everybody looks good under

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right, So we ended up chatting there, and as

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Speaker 4: the night was kind of getting getting done, I had

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Speaker 4: asked her if she was hungry, if she wanted to

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Speaker 4: go to eat, and so we went out to like

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Speaker 4: a little Mexican place.

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Speaker 3: Oh and it was just you and her that went

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Speaker 3: to the Mexican restaurant.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just the two of us. So, you know,

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Speaker 4: it was a real solid night and then kind of

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Speaker 4: cooled down. So I had given her my jacket and

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Speaker 4: I had walked her back to her car and I

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Speaker 4: told her, I said, you know, just hang under the jacket.

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Speaker 4: You don't give it to me next time.

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Speaker 1: Was that like a little plan for you to have it?

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Speaker 4: Then it was a little move? Okay?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: How did she react to you walking into her car

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Speaker 3: and giving her the jacket?

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Speaker 1: Was she like oh, thank you? Or was it like

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Speaker 1: ew no? Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: No, I mean it seemed like polite and it seemed

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Speaker 3: Okay, but I will say leaving something behind oldest trick

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Speaker 3: in the book when it comes to ladies. I know

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Speaker 3: that place.

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Speaker 4: Well, she definitely knew it because what it is like

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Speaker 4: she took the jacket to my buddy's place and dropped

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Speaker 3: Yeah, ahead of the game, head of.

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Speaker 4: The game, yea.

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Speaker 2: Or she's like really sweet and it's just like, oh,

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Speaker 1: No, she's not.

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Speaker 3: Wanted to see him again, you'd be like, sweet, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So I'm just wondering, you know, what's up? What's

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Speaker 4: the reason that I feel like I'm getting ghosted? Now?

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Speaker 3: I will say your impromptu date is pretty impressive. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like you were pretty smooth, like prepared with the Mexican restaurant.

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Speaker 3: Made it all happen that night, That's awesome.

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Speaker 4: I mean I was trying my best. I was trying

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, we're definitely going to try and help you

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Speaker 2: here in a second. But I do feel like we

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Speaker 4: Night, So really, the only thing that I can think

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Speaker 4: of was, like around the bonfire, people were telling like

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Speaker 1: She asked, okay, and froze.

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Speaker 4: And the only thing I could think of was, not

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Speaker 4: too long ago, the battery on my smoke detector died

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Speaker 4: and it started beeping in the middle of the night,

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Speaker 4: and it freaked me out.

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Speaker 3: Oh is that more of an annoying died and is

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Speaker 4: Dead, Like I said, I froze just that, like, and

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Speaker 4: I don't know why I told that story, but that's

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Speaker 1: And but did you guys laugh about it like we

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Speaker 4: Or she just kind of stared at me and like

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Speaker 4: we were just eating, like almost like oh, this is

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Speaker 4: a scary story, Like this.

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Speaker 1: Is maybe she actually was scared by it.

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Speaker 3: She was so frightened, you know what to.

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Speaker 2: Say, Like she it freaked her out for the entire

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Speaker 2: rest of the time and now she's worried about what

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Speaker 3: Or she was hanging out a bonfire expecting to meet

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Speaker 3: like a manly guy and excuse me, scared of you

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Speaker 3: can hear what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: I know, but he knows.

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Speaker 3: He knows as well, being scared of fire alarms going off.

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Speaker 4: To be fair, I'm not scared of a fire alarm.

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Speaker 4: I was frightened of a smoke alarm. There are two

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, because where there's smoke, there's fire, and

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Speaker 2: where there's fire, there's people hooking up.

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Speaker 4: With him.

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Speaker 3: It's just where there's smoke, there's a dead battery.

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Speaker 4: Jeff.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, now I feel like we've got the full

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Speaker 2: picture of the events that unfolded. There were some nice moments,

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Speaker 2: there was some awkward moments. There was some bad storytelling.

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Speaker 2: We'll figure out how it all comes together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you guys blame me all the time.

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Speaker 1: He's the one that said that.

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Speaker 3: How does it feel, Jeff, how does it feel to

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Speaker 2: It feels like I'm a man and this man is

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Speaker 2: going to really manly up what we Thank you, Jose.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call Alissa and try and get you your

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Speaker 2: second date update right after this.

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Speaker 1: Thanks you, hold on second date update. It was the

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Speaker 1: perfect date.

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Speaker 2: You had everything, a romantic bonfire, tasty Mexican food, even

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Speaker 2: a little clothing swap action right hello. He tried, that

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Speaker 2: is until Dan made his fatal mistake when he told

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Speaker 2: his scariest story about a smoke detector that ran low

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Speaker 1: It wouldn't stop.

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Speaker 3: Don't repeat it, Jeff, I'm gonna have nightmares forever.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 3: Sorry.

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Speaker 1: It should have earmuffed the children and the replacement batteries

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Speaker 1: were nowhere to be found.

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Speaker 2: Now that Dan admits wasn't his best moment. He kind

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Speaker 3: I wish he could have laughed it off like that

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Speaker 3: If you that was a moment for you to be

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Speaker 3: self deprecating. That was just missed.

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Speaker 2: But that shouldn't be so bad that Becca returned his

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Speaker 2: it to Dan face to face.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you get scared for real, buddy.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it wasn't that. Maybe Dan, it was that you

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Speaker 3: weren't respond possible enough to replace the batteries every year.

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Speaker 1: What do you think about that?

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Speaker 4: Dan?

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Speaker 1: You come across like any responsible guy.

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Speaker 4: That's maybe what that's exactly that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, maybe.

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Speaker 3: Yes, My dad tells me to do it on New

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Speaker 3: Year's Day because then you'll never forget that's your battery,

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Speaker 3: change your tradition.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, this segment has officially hit a new low.

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Speaker 3: Battery advice from Brooks Dawn call in, you need some batteries.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk batteries. Yeah, okay, smoke detectors. Are you ready

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Speaker 1: to call back here? We we got to move forward

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Speaker 1: from this, right Dan.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm ready. Let let's make it happen.

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Speaker 1: We'll just make him relive his trauma over and over again.

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Speaker 3: I was going to go to carbon monoxide coller. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you's got to make sure you have those as well, Okay,

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Speaker 3: save it for new it's a silent killer.

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Speaker 1: Let's just go here we go. I'm just calling back

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Speaker 1: right now. Hello, Hey, is this Becca who said.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is a radio show. We're called Brook and

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey back, good morning.

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Speaker 5: Is this really a radio show?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I exist, we're doing. We are also a podcast

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Speaker 1: if you wanted to know.

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Speaker 2: We're doing a p s A where we're calling everybody

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Speaker 2: in the area to make sure that they have changed

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Speaker 2: the batteries inside of their smoke detectors in their home.

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Speaker 1: Have you done that?

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Speaker 5: I don't need to do that.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, Oh you live in an apartment like me.

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Speaker 1: They change our batteries for that.

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Speaker 2: Must be nice, because apparently that wasn't the case with

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Speaker 2: the guy you went out with recently named Dan.

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Speaker 3: Okay, sideways for her like she doesn't know where yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we know the guy Dan that you met

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Speaker 2: at the bonfire recently.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, so here out to us about doing this

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Speaker 5: thing called a second date update.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to help him figure out why after you

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Speaker 2: two hung out at the Mexican restaurant and had a

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Speaker 2: pretty good time together, you are not talking to him anymore.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I think it feels like you really avoided

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Speaker 3: him because you even brought his jacket back to his

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Speaker 5: That was kind of a smooth move, but it kind

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Speaker 5: of backfired.

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Speaker 1: Why you said the jacket backfired?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, I put my hand in the pocket when

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Speaker 5: I got home and I found a receipt that was

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Speaker 5: from earlier in the morning the day at that same party,

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Speaker 5: and it was from a grocery store. But it was

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Speaker 5: for Cotex and Pampons.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay.

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Speaker 3: Products, yeahmine, hiking product.

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Speaker 1: That's how you say it. I don't even know how.

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Speaker 5: To say feminine hygiene products. Okay you're thinking.

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Speaker 3: I mean I would automatically jump to he's in a relationship.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, thank you exactly. So I called my friend who

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Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you just ask him?

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Speaker 3: But why would he he contacted us a huge public

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Speaker 1: Oh that's kind of overselling it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, obviously he had no idea that she would

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Speaker 3: It was totally innocent, and he doesn't care, like it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's not like come up with the answers that

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Speaker 1: Because he is on the phone right now.

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Speaker 3: I thought he was tracking his mother's cycle.

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Speaker 5: No, wait, a radio show or is this like a

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Speaker 2: No, he really is listening on the other line waiting

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Speaker 5: Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Dan, this is your moment jumping anytime.

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Speaker 4: Hey Becca, So, uh, it's for my mom.

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Speaker 3: The way you said it, it's really Why wouldn you

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry I am single, And it was for

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Speaker 2: We just and your voice keeps going up every time

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, it was it was it was for

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Speaker 3: Okay, now you're not being honest.

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Speaker 1: Stop messing around. What's really going on.

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Speaker 5: Let's be straight with us.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I like that we're together now with a listener.

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Speaker 5: We're a unit now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, God, are we all SYNCD up?

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Speaker 3: That works.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad that we have you as a listener now.

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Speaker 2: But I still want to hear from Dan about what's

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Speaker 4: Okay, you know, I said the other people because I'm

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Speaker 3: Worse than being in a relationship.

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Speaker 5: Who.

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Speaker 4: So, here's the I am single. Uh, it's relatively recent.

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Speaker 1: So that one I feel like.

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Speaker 3: When he says recently single, he's like, well, I literally

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Speaker 3: Why would you be going over to see your ex frequently?

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Speaker 4: I mean, because I'm single.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they're like friends with benefits now Like yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, that's it pretty much at this point.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you've bended the relationship, but haven't fully detached.

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Speaker 1: That's messy, beca to join it.

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Speaker 3: Well, does Becky even believe that? I mean, do you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And if you do believe it, how does it

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Speaker 5: Well, honestly, I'm kind of in a similar situation.

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Speaker 3: There's some truth. So what you're hooking up with your

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm single. He and I are broken up, but

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Speaker 5: occasionally we'll still, you know, like have dinner and oh

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Speaker 5: we become like friends with benefits.

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Speaker 1: You guys know each other and.

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Speaker 3: You trust each other, but have you dinner and then staying?

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Speaker 3: It sounds like a date, you know, like that's.

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Speaker 1: Not just a little more intimate romantic than.

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Speaker 3: Just elevated friends with benefits elevate.

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Speaker 5: I guess my question would be, if you are actively

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Speaker 4: I mean, if I'm dating someone and we're exclusive, we're exclusive.

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Speaker 4: That's the way it is.

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Speaker 3: So were we both giving up our exes to go

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Speaker 2: You should probably introduce your exes to each other because

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Speaker 1: Everyone can hug up.

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Speaker 3: Well, they don't want to ruin their fallback plan.

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Speaker 5: Jeff, Yes, I would definitely be willing to stop seeing

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Speaker 3: That's cute.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, wow, Dan, aren't you glad that you

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Speaker 1: Answer? That definitely wouldn't work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, friends, Yeah, I didn't know what she'd think about it.

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Speaker 4: It is the truth.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, in that case, we would like to offer

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Speaker 2: to send you to out on another date and Becca,

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Speaker 2: if you say yes, we are willing to pay for it.

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Speaker 5: Well, yes, oh.

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Speaker 3: Man, you could be in a relation ship soon with

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Speaker 5: That is nice. I do love that. Can we go

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Speaker 5: for massages?

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 1: What do you want.

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Speaker 3: Us to pay for massages?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Girl, this is like a dinner date.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, dinner date is a better idea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I just I was just a little I jumped ahead.

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Speaker 3: To what gift certificates we had available.

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Speaker 2: Then you can be in charge of the massage itself,

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Speaker 2: like right, Okay, just don't let any romantic candles around

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Speaker 2: it with that smoke detector.

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Speaker 1: That terrible dude.

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Speaker 4: I won't wait until New Years to change the smoke

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Speaker 4: detect batteries for you.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she heard that part of the segment,

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Speaker 2: so she doesn't know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: One that was scared. Yeah, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I have never seen a random grocery store receipt bring

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Speaker 3: But I just saying it was tampons that brought up together.

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Speaker 1: Really, it's amazing it bonded them.

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Speaker 2: They need to actually like save that receipt, put it

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Speaker 3: No, I mean, we'll see how easily they cut off

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Speaker 3: their exits before we get into a full relationship for them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 2: It is funny that they were both still messing around

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Speaker 1: They're both guilty of it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean when you're single, Yeah they are.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well it is a good life hack for all the

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Speaker 3: They are, They're ridiculous, right, Just so you know that's.

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Speaker 2: Why you want to there you go you learn something,

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