WEBVTT - Call It Short & Sweet: The Last Straw

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<v Speaker 1>Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington,

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<v Speaker 1>an iHeartRadio podcast. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello everyone, and welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to another episode of.

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<v Speaker 2>Shut Short, Every Sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>This is about lastraw's.

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<v Speaker 2>When is a lastraw? And listen.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the holiday season and I think that oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>the last straw kind of lands at this you've had

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<v Speaker 1>it or at leased with the Luddington's. The Lutdingtons love

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<v Speaker 1>alastraw at Christmas. It's like we have turkey and a

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<v Speaker 1>cide mac and cheese and a side of whatever and

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<v Speaker 1>a side of the.

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<v Speaker 2>Lastra Yeah, I've had it. I'm done.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the call We're going to dive straight in because

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<v Speaker 1>the call It crew have sent us submission. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, I just want to say, well, I

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<v Speaker 3>was gonna say I do feel like I've evolved a

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<v Speaker 3>bit because I used to like, for me, a lost

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<v Speaker 3>straw would be you know, when you're having just one

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<v Speaker 3>of those really challenging mornings where just everything seems to

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<v Speaker 3>be going wrong, like you're alarm does and go off,

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<v Speaker 3>you sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Through it, you wake up, you don't have clean underwear.

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<v Speaker 2>You then go like all the things are just going wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>going going wrong, going wrong, and then it culminates and

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<v Speaker 2>you get into your car and you split your coffee

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<v Speaker 2>all over yourself and you're like yeah, and it's just

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<v Speaker 2>all over. And I've gotten better at that because I

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<v Speaker 2>have the moment where I'm like, this is it? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I calm the entertainments and I say, just wait

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<v Speaker 2>a minute, this is not it. It will never be it.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna take a breath, we're gonna collect ourselves, and

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to say I'm good until unless my last

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<v Speaker 1>straw ends up being a toe stub, a physical toe

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<v Speaker 1>stub will always be my last straw. And it happens

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<v Speaker 1>often to me. I feel like, if things are going wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>my toe is like I'm going to go this way,

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<v Speaker 1>run into that corner, and and it is refect. But

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<v Speaker 1>it happens.

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<v Speaker 2>It happens enough for me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Listen, if if your day's going badly and

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<v Speaker 1>then you stub your toe, you tell me that's not

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<v Speaker 1>your last straw. If you can survive that, Jess, you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're on You're on the next level. You're you're revolved

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<v Speaker 1>as a human being, as an entity.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get into the into the Colic crew talking about their

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<v Speaker 1>last straws. So Mary and Sally have written us and

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<v Speaker 1>they said, we both work at the same retail store,

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<v Speaker 1>and on Black Friday this year, they had us steaming

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<v Speaker 1>so many clothes, so many and eventually the steamer got

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<v Speaker 1>got as tired as us and exploded all over the place.

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<v Speaker 1>It burned Sally's arms and my chest. Safe to say,

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<v Speaker 1>we quit real quick because I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was the last straw.

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<v Speaker 1>That was their last straw. I mean, if you first off,

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<v Speaker 1>I hated working retail. I quit the first day of

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<v Speaker 1>the job.

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<v Speaker 4>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I hated it more than waiting tables.

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<v Speaker 2>I was to say. I never did do retail. I

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<v Speaker 2>only did service.

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<v Speaker 1>You're missing out on hell, seriously. And so if I

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<v Speaker 1>got burned in retail, hold.

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<v Speaker 2>Done, done done, just walking out right, it's over, yep.

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<v Speaker 2>I would I would, I would have. I would agree

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<v Speaker 2>with you. Yeah, all right. So Jenny wrote in and said,

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<v Speaker 2>my last straw was the head chef I work for,

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<v Speaker 2>telling me, oh boy, oh god, the woman's place is

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<v Speaker 2>at the sink, not cooking. And this was after I

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<v Speaker 2>caught the head chef doing drugs on the countertop where

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<v Speaker 2>we all prepared food. And after I informed the owner

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<v Speaker 2>of the restaurant about all of this, to which she

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<v Speaker 2>did nothing because they were both sleeping together. Astro. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta tell you that there's so many cliches in

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<v Speaker 2>this little, this little don't you always hear that, like

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<v Speaker 2>head chefs are, chefs are angry, and chefs do drugs,

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<v Speaker 2>and chefs are sleeping with everyone. Well, I mean, have

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<v Speaker 2>you watched The Bear? Yeah yeah, yeah, But I'm this

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<v Speaker 2>is you think it really is all just true? Like

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<v Speaker 2>that's like, now I'm gonna look at chefs.

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<v Speaker 1>I've known some. I've known some chefs that have been

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping with some some peeps, and I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>That like chefing was a sexy like getting you to.

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<v Speaker 1>You're wrong, You're wrong, because here's the thing. You got

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<v Speaker 1>to imagine this, right, you're a waitress. You're going you're like, god,

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<v Speaker 1>those people out there, and he's like, guess what, I

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<v Speaker 1>just made those fries on the fly for you because

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<v Speaker 1>you forgot to put them in. And you're like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>you just saved me. You just saved my tip. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. Like there are situations where the chef has control.

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<v Speaker 2>You got saved by fries.

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<v Speaker 1>No, this is what I'm saying. This is the situation

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<v Speaker 1>that's never happened to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually you're really good at these hypotheticals on the fly,

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<v Speaker 2>So I was waiting for no, no, no, I'm just saying, like, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I will tell you that if you've ever forgotten to

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<v Speaker 2>ring in a food order, and that chef can make

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<v Speaker 2>something on the flight to make it look like you.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this is a real life example.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, this is a real life example. Didn't end up

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<v Speaker 1>ahead chef was No, I did not bone the head chef.

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<v Speaker 2>You did. You went to bone town with someone who

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<v Speaker 2>put in an order for fries and saved your butt.

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<v Speaker 4>It was too specific a lamp. I'm sorry you've been gotten.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you saying that I slept with a head chef

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<v Speaker 4>of on the fly? I'm saying, yes, Listen, Bob and

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<v Speaker 4>I had a Oh, Bob, we had a connection. Don't

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<v Speaker 4>worry about it, Jess. The point is it's good of happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, Great, Sharon. My last straw was over the past

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<v Speaker 1>few years. I was really close to a guy friend.

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<v Speaker 1>We called each other brother and sister for ten years,

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<v Speaker 1>and his family was mine. He got married and instead

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<v Speaker 1>of asking me to be in his wedding on his side,

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<v Speaker 1>he asked a guy he knew for two years. I

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<v Speaker 1>found out that he didn't want to what.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh what?

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<v Speaker 1>I found out that he didn't want me in a

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<v Speaker 1>tuxt because he didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable. I

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<v Speaker 1>dropped that friendship.

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<v Speaker 2>M Yeah, I don't like Sharon. Sharon.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Sharon was going to look too hot in

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<v Speaker 1>the tucks and show him up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you're gonna outshine him. Yeah, it's a jerk.

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<v Speaker 2>Call him a jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's just petty.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like that. Nope, I don't like that either.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheryl says, I'd like to get your perspective on this

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<v Speaker 2>last straw situation. A twenty five plus year friendship ended

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<v Speaker 2>because I couldn't fully attend my friend's son's first communion.

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<v Speaker 2>My daughter had a basketball game and I told her

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<v Speaker 2>i'd come right after, which I did. My husband also

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't attend because he's working a side job after losing

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<v Speaker 2>his job, which my friend knew about. I gave her

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<v Speaker 2>a heads up through text, but she cursed me out

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<v Speaker 2>and hasn't spoken to me since. I was still invited

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<v Speaker 2>with my three daughters to attend the gathering, and she

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<v Speaker 2>spoke to me. Then I realized that I was cut

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<v Speaker 2>off after texting her to wish her happy birthday. Now

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<v Speaker 2>it's awkward when we see her and her kids. Her

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<v Speaker 2>eldest is my goddaughter, and my eldest is hers. Her

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<v Speaker 2>son won't even say hi to me or my husband anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Would love your thoughts this as bullshit? Yeah, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like something else is going on. I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because listen, I had my first communion. I barely

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<v Speaker 1>remember it. I mean, it's not it's not a wedding day.

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<v Speaker 2>Although you are wearing a teeny tiny little wedding dress. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>let's talk about that. Well you're getting married.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I listen, I don't. It's fine. Life happens. If

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<v Speaker 1>you have a friend that can't handle the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>your life also happens at the same time as theirs does,

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<v Speaker 1>then but I agree, I think, but you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it was the last straw. You're right, there are odds there.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to know the other straws.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, something something, something's going on here. I mean, because

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<v Speaker 2>if that's that's it, then that's I'm sorry. I think

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<v Speaker 2>that's a little bit of an ever reaction. No, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>talk it out. I would.

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<v Speaker 3>I would.

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<v Speaker 2>I would go in with an attempt to talk it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and the first thing you say is what the

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<v Speaker 1>hell is wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's what Camilla would say. I would be like, hmmm, hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually the hm is worse than me saying what the

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<v Speaker 1>hell is wrong with you? If you call me so

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell is wrong and you're like, oh, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want, hey, Camilla, I'd be like literally pooping my pants.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like, oh my god, something terrible. I've done something

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<v Speaker 1>really bad, really bad, really bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, great, talk to me about Alice Alis said.

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<v Speaker 1>My last straw in my friendship was when I was

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<v Speaker 1>in hospital about to undergo surgery. My friend kept calling

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<v Speaker 1>and texting me frantically about sending through a recording for

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<v Speaker 1>a group project, telling me how unorganized and awful I was,

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<v Speaker 1>even though I had already emailed the teacher and she

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<v Speaker 1>was fine with it. I felt so disrespected. Major last straw. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a big last straw. I feel kind of stupid

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit because I said my last straw was

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<v Speaker 1>a toe stub, and everyone's last straws are way more

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<v Speaker 1>dat straws. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's absurd and I agree. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>these are not these are not great.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think these are like even bigger than.

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<v Speaker 1>Than a last straw.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a last like log, it's the last, Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 2>last stalk.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a bigger straw. Like, what's bigger than a straw?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a tree.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a last tree. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Sarah wrote in and said, my last straw that made

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<v Speaker 2>me and my relationship was my ex continued allowing his

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<v Speaker 2>mom to get involved in our reallylationship. Even after multiple conversations,

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<v Speaker 2>his parents would randomly appear at our date nights. What

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<v Speaker 2>we couldn't hang out on our own without him involving

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<v Speaker 2>his parents. The final straw was him lying to me

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<v Speaker 2>about not being able to have date night because he

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<v Speaker 2>was rained in at his house when it was only sprinkling,

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<v Speaker 2>to later find out his mom was there and didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want him to leave the house. So weird rained in

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<v Speaker 2>at your house. I'm sorry, I can't come. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it would have to just I'm sorry. I just thoughts

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<v Speaker 2>raining a little bit and I can't come.

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<v Speaker 1>It would have to be severe rain, Like I'm really worried.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, sprinkle, no, no, no, not sprinkling. Yeah, that would

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<v Speaker 2>be a last straw. I think that you well, the

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<v Speaker 2>last straw is lying almost you know, lying is definitely

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<v Speaker 2>gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Is gonna be always a last straw, the final Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not good. I don't you know what? And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not so sure about the whole, Like why are your

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<v Speaker 1>parents randomly appearing at your date nights? Why do they

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<v Speaker 1>even know where you're going? Like I'm not texting Martin

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<v Speaker 1>Luddington and letting going hdding up Chili's in an hour?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, because he would come, That's true, he

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<v Speaker 1>would show up, which is what I would tell him.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 2>And then.

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<v Speaker 1>But why you've been telling them where you're going? Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they have his location?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they shared locations. That's the thing. Do you share

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<v Speaker 2>your location with people?

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<v Speaker 1>I recently, recently, when me and you were somewhere, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>when we went to Palm Beach, I shared my location

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<v Speaker 1>with that.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I took you away, Like why you were

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<v Speaker 2>looking a little cause I did something to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was worried. I knew I was looking too

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<v Speaker 1>good that week, and I'm like, I don't trust her.

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<v Speaker 1>I would glow close this week. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>she might do take advantage of the club. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well carry on, Charlot said. Charlotte said, My last straw

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<v Speaker 1>was getting into a car accident, not my fault, and

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriend's first sentence being my fucking car immediately went

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<v Speaker 1>home and packed my bags with excruciating whiplash.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't be the first thing, is no, Yeah, you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously at some point you're gonna say, how's the car?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, but you know you gotta time that. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Well I think there also had to have been other

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<v Speaker 2>behavior that made this the last straw.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what did the last straw. That's what the

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<v Speaker 1>last straw is. We're not saying it's the first straw,

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<v Speaker 1>the only straw.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, sorry, sorry I didn't Yeah, that's the whole point

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<v Speaker 2>of this, Jess, So sorry, so sorry. I'm still clought

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<v Speaker 2>on you sent Matt Yourn. When I'm with you, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I've turned it off.

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<v Speaker 1>I've turned it off since I got back, and if

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<v Speaker 1>we're together, even just sometimes in the podcast, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta turn it on.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in the next room. But you never know, capable.

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<v Speaker 1>Of this girl is so powerful she sucked through the

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<v Speaker 1>screen like Poulter. Guys, Okay, I'm so stupid. Go on,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta read Phoebe last straw.

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<v Speaker 2>Phoebe wrote in and said, my last straw was my

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<v Speaker 2>friend of ten years missing my birthday for the sixth time.

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<v Speaker 2>The kicker is he told me he was too sick

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<v Speaker 2>to come to my birthday, and then I found out

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<v Speaker 2>he was out partying with some newer friends he met

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<v Speaker 2>because someone on his Instagram close Friends story screenshot at

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<v Speaker 2>his post and sent it to me. So not only

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<v Speaker 2>did he miss my day, he lied as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Gross, I mean six times in a row.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he only made four of the ten years that

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<v Speaker 2>you were friends.

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<v Speaker 1>That's annoying, yea, yeah, yeah yeah, that's where.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, all that social media can really bite

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<v Speaker 2>you on the butt. Yeah yeah, yeah, I'm also dumb.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, why weren't you on his close

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<v Speaker 2>friends if he's posting it to Instagram, didn't you know

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<v Speaker 2>you would?

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<v Speaker 1>Sku. You can go in and you can edit that.

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<v Speaker 1>You can figure out who's the not close friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I don't like that?

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, okay, Nicholas, last one from the crew, last

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<v Speaker 1>final straw, my last straw was when I was asked

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<v Speaker 1>by my best friend since childhood to do a guys

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<v Speaker 1>trip on a cruise, so I went with him without

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<v Speaker 1>my fiance. Well, he basically ditched me the entire cruise,

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<v Speaker 1>drank heavily every night, and ended up having a boat mance.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard that with a married woman twice his age.

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't comment on anyone's appearance. However, the woman he

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<v Speaker 1>slept with on the cruise was missing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh stop, Whenever you say I shouldn't comment on anyone's

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<v Speaker 2>appearance and then you continue, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but here we go, going in he's missing.

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<v Speaker 1>Up front two she had tattoos across her chest and

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<v Speaker 1>had leather skin due to sun damage. I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>were going to comment. Up, were going to comment, He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>but here's my list. Mind you My friend is thirty

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<v Speaker 1>two years old. She had to have been sixty. I

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<v Speaker 1>basically was on this cruise alone and he was nowhere

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<v Speaker 1>to be found. It was so rude and a waste

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<v Speaker 1>of money. Okay, before we get into this, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what this is. This is consensual, right and the aged

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<v Speaker 1>the sixty year old you know what? I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what she looked like to you, but she was having

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<v Speaker 1>her fun. The last straw is that you got ditched.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It does sound like your friend's clearly going through something.

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<v Speaker 1>He's drinking every day, so there's you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, you got ditched. Well, so it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>when you get asked to do something and it's very specific,

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<v Speaker 2>like's do the guy's trip and so that the friend

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't bring the girlfriend, and then this happens, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>it's the last straw.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard when you want a cruise too, because there's

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<v Speaker 1>nowhere to go. You're gonna go, Yeah, there's nowhere unless

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<v Speaker 1>I stop at a port.

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<v Speaker 2>So if I went on a cruise with you, would

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<v Speaker 2>you need to share your location with that?

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<v Speaker 1>I would always share it. I would always, honestly, even

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<v Speaker 1>if there was nowhere to go, like you could only

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<v Speaker 1>be up when I just come over to the house,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here, I'm going from the living room.

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<v Speaker 2>I know something new about you know. I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if I can unring this. You can't. You cannot

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<v Speaker 2>ring it. It is what it is, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. I hope that you guys don't have

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<v Speaker 1>many last straws. This holiday season. May the last straws

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<v Speaker 1>be but be non existent this day, the last straws

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<v Speaker 1>be in a beverage of your choice eggs. Jessica Capshaw,

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<v Speaker 1>your first copy, write it.

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<v Speaker 2>Make a T shirt, make a hat. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I love it. I love it when we do

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<v Speaker 1>these short Do you hear my dogs marking?

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<v Speaker 2>I did?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, Okay, I love this. I do love a short

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<v Speaker 1>and sweet. I love getting to hear from the crew.

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<v Speaker 1>Their stories are always you know what, they you never know.

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<v Speaker 1>They surprise us every time. They're all different, but I

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<v Speaker 1>love hearing their their finals, their last straws. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're all very different too, and they were big the

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<v Speaker 1>toe stub. I should not have started.

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<v Speaker 2>With no, It's okay. You got to have a starting point,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know what, there's no bad answer. We're all just,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, fre to free to have our feelings. I'd

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<v Speaker 2>like to on our next short and suite, I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>throwing it out there. We can, you know, do with

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<v Speaker 2>what you will. I'd like to talk about the no.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about side parts versus middle parts.

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<v Speaker 2>I do want to talk about that. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about that. I don't care about the whole skinny

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<v Speaker 2>jeans versus other jeens. I do care because I don't

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<v Speaker 2>need a scae gean coming back. No, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't really either, but I care less about it than

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<v Speaker 2>I care about the side part versus middle part.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's hear from the crew. We'll throw it out now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about a side part versus a

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<v Speaker 1>middle part? And what are things that you have been

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<v Speaker 1>told are out but you don't care about and will

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<v Speaker 1>always be in for you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Because, by the way, I'm noticing because I do

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<v Speaker 2>like a side part. I do, and I was. I've

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<v Speaker 2>trained myself against it now because you know it's not cool.

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<v Speaker 2>And that someone I don't know, I think I young

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<v Speaker 2>said they're disgusting. Side parts are disgusting. How can the

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<v Speaker 2>side part be discussed widely? Is rocking a side part

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<v Speaker 2>every single red carpet? See you complete me? I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to say. I see Blake Lively rocking a side

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<v Speaker 2>part all the time, literally all the time. Literally, Never

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<v Speaker 2>do I see her with the middle part. I see

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<v Speaker 2>her just with a tossled side part. Loveliness, Lively, loveliness. So, anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>do you stay true to who you are and keep

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<v Speaker 2>your hairdo the way that you want to do. Make

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<v Speaker 2>this so deep? Do you stay you have? It's part

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<v Speaker 2>of your identity?

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<v Speaker 1>BN.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you go with the trends and middle part it

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<v Speaker 2>even if it doesn't look good on you?

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<v Speaker 4>Mm?

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<v Speaker 2>Because remember we were having the conversation where I said

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wear a slick back ponytail and you can,

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<v Speaker 2>and you said you have tried, and I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>pretty sure it's not gonna look good. Good I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, when we back, when we went back to your

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<v Speaker 1>place and we had our sleepover and my location was

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<v Speaker 1>on and you did it.

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<v Speaker 2>It looked good. A mysterious car pulled up.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and it was mad because it's mad. It was

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<v Speaker 1>checking you out, making sure not thinking, yeah, this wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>a situation. I uh okay, I love this idea. So

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you guys drop us. We're gonna we'll put

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<v Speaker 1>this on social media when this airs, and we'll make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that you have the what's in, what's out? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you wish what's in right now that you wish

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<v Speaker 1>was out?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? See look I'm showing you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>She looks good right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>And and we'll have a poll. Should just have suit backle.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that Kimila needs to keep her location

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<v Speaker 1>on when she suggested, because like, you know what's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>happen the cruise, And I was like, yeah, she does knows,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's call it still.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just so us this episode. Call it and the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the episode

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<v Speaker 1>Mmmmmmm mm hmm