1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARBFM 4 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 6 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and 7 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: you never know, it could be yours. You never know. 8 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for 9 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank enough you. Subject 10 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: he has to step away to take calls. Dear Stephen Shirley. 11 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty six year old married woman and my 12 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: husband is thirty three. We've been married for almost eight years, 13 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: and he has told me that he regrets getting married 14 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,240 Speaker 1: so young. I asked him if he needed a break 15 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 1: from the marriage, and he said no. He told me 16 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: we could find ways to make our marriage work. So 17 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: we planned a trip back to our hometown and it 18 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:01,319 Speaker 1: didn't work out as planned. We went Thanksgiving and there 19 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: was a big game in town, so we barely saw 20 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 1: each other. I was busy with my parents and he 21 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: was out late every night. He came into my parents' 22 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: home late and I noticed on the third night that 23 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: his cell phone was off while he slept. I asked 24 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: him about it the next morning and he said it 25 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: must have died, but it wasn't dead because I turned 26 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: it on and back off that same night. After we 27 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: spent the time in our hometown, his attitude changed. He 28 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: started posting more pictures on Instagram, and he was constantly 29 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:37,959 Speaker 1: on his phone scrolling through social media posts. He also 30 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: started to get phone calls late in the evening, and 31 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 1: he would ignore them. I would check the phone when 32 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: he wasn't around, and I could see that he'd always 33 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: delete the incoming call log. Then, over the holidays, a 34 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: few calls came in and he had to step away 35 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,559 Speaker 1: to take them. It happened when we had company or 36 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: we were out, so I couldn't question him or cause 37 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: a scene. A New Year's Eve, we decided to stay 38 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: in and have champagne at home. He was distant and 39 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: he played with his phone all night. At the stroke 40 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: of midnight, his phone rang and he stepped outside to 41 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 1: take the call. He told me he was going to 42 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: see the firewall. Should I have confronted him at that 43 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: moment and ruined the beginning of a new year? What's 44 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 1: my husband up to? All right? Sis, this is bad, 45 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: This is really bad. He's really doing too much with 46 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: all of this. And yes, you should have confronted him 47 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: at that moment. Who says it would have ruined the 48 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: beginning of a new year. He's getting phone calls all night, 49 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: walking away from you to talk. It's like he hasn't 50 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: even told whoever it is, that he's got a wife. 51 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: You asked Steve and I what is your husband up to? Well? 52 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: What do you think he's up to? I mean, what 53 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: do you think he's doing. I think he's disrespecting you 54 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: right in your face. I mean, you have to say 55 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: something right then and there when it's happening. He gets 56 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: called out where the stuff happens, you know, that's when 57 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: he gets called out where he's doing it. That's it, period. 58 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 1: I get that you don't want to cause a scene, 59 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: you don't want to let people in your business and 60 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: all that, But when he's already doing that, he is, 61 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: he's already doing that when he steps away to take 62 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: a call. What do you think they're thinking when he 63 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: does that? The only thing he's trying to hide is 64 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 1: who it is. He's definitely not trying to hide the 65 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: fact that there's someone else he's talking to. Doesn't he 66 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: get that this is wrong? Doesn't he understand that? Is 67 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: that what he meant when he said he could find 68 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: ways to make the marriage work, or you guys could 69 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: find ways to make the marriage work. It sounds like 70 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: he thinks you're stupid because you even asked him before 71 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: all of this, did he need a break from the 72 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: marriage whatever that means? And he said no. I just 73 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: think you know, as you can see these calls and 74 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: your man or just out of control. You're letting him 75 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: do whatever he wants to do and you're not saying anything. 76 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's way past time for you 77 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: to let him have it. You need to shut it down. Uh, 78 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: start with this. You got a car, I'm sure you 79 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: have a car. Well, accidentally on purpose run over his 80 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: phone with your car today, okay, And then when he 81 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: asked you about it, do what he does. Just get 82 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: a phone call. Just get him. You heard me, You 83 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: heard me run over his phone with the car, all right, 84 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: walk away? Do what he does when he gets a 85 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: phone call when he asked you, just walk away, Steve. 86 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 1: Let me just address this last comment that crazy Maide 87 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: in the new year. Just phone, you're calling you're calling 88 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 1: me crazy. Don't be run over. Run over it with 89 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 1: your car. Yes, yeah, if you got to run over 90 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: your man's phone with a car problem, ain't the phone. Now, 91 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: let's go to the letter. He has to step away 92 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: to take calls. Now it's thirty six year old one. 93 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: He is married to a thirty three year old man 94 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: and they've been married about eight years. He made the 95 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: announcement that he regrets getting married so young. Did the math, 96 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 1: he's be got married at twenty five, that he is young. 97 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: He has regretted it. He didn't get the fool oats, 98 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: so in season end, he didn't get a lot of 99 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: stuff out of his system. He didn't get rid of 100 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 1: the things he needed to get rid of before he 101 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: got married. So when he got married, he did like 102 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: a minister taught me. He found out that the only 103 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: thing changes the day after you get married is the 104 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 1: appearance of your left hand third finger. I asked him 105 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: if he needed a break from the marriage. He said no, 106 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 1: that's because most men don't want to say let's take 107 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: a break from the marriage, or don't want to get 108 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: a divorce, or admit to defeat we just find ways 109 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: around it. He said. He told me he could find 110 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: ways to make our marriage work. That is the key 111 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: to this whole letter, because you should have asked what 112 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: all did he mean? You should have had a thorough 113 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: discussion about you gonna find ways to make our marriage work. 114 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 1: What you thought he said was he was gonna work 115 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: on the marriage. You interpret it as he said he's 116 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 1: gonna work on the marriage. You didn't explore fine ways 117 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: to make our marriage work, even though I regret doing 118 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: it so long. When I come back, I'll explain the 119 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: rest of it. Hold that thought, Steve. Coming up, we'll 120 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 1: have part two. If Steve's response too. He has to 121 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: step away to take phone calls. That is a subject 122 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: of today's Strawberry Letter. We'll get back into it at 123 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour right after this. You're listening, 124 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 125 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: The subject is he has to step away to take calls. Yeah, yeah, 126 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: he do. The reason he has to step away is 127 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: because is no way you need to heal these phone calls. 128 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: Let's just get with the obvious. Now, you can't get 129 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: a man, at least some credit. At least he's stepping away, 130 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: because let me tell you something. If he don't step away, 131 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: he just told you in the letter he was gonna 132 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: find ways to make the marriage work. Well the way 133 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: he found. You don't need to hear this now he 134 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: got married at twenty five. My answer, we'll see. But 135 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: see you don't like mine because my answer the truth. 136 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: Your answer was filled with speculation. And he runs over 137 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: phones and stuff. Yeah, phone out and try to run 138 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: over with the car. Yeah, that's them an ass ass 139 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: late response. Yeah, but you guys know how you are 140 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: about your But let's get to the car of what's wrong. 141 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: The problem ain't the phone. He getting new phone. See 142 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: him called all his stuff in the clouds. He'd get 143 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 1: a new phone by this evening. See now, because you 144 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: acting funky running over cars, he gonna fix your ass 145 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: because he gonna know. He gonna get track phone. See, 146 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: he gonna buy a phone at Walmart and put some 147 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: minutes on it. He run over all these you want 148 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: to that's for starters. See that's so let's just understand 149 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: that y'all ain't doing nothing with this phone, and you're 150 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: gonna mess around. Ain't gonna see what track phone. Do 151 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 1: ain't no clouds for that tracking now. So thirty six 152 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 1: year old woman married this board that he was twenty five. 153 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: He told her one day he regrets getting married so young. 154 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: I asked him if he needed to break from the marriage. 155 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: He said no, He told me find ways to make 156 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: our marriage work. What you should have did, like I 157 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 1: told you, was talk to him about what all he 158 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: meant by that, Because what he meant by that, you 159 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: thought he meant he was gonna work on the marriage. 160 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: Now he gonna find some ways to make the marriage 161 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: work for him. So we planned the trip back to 162 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: our hometown. Oh, you thought that was it. You thought 163 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 1: if y'all went back to the hometown, that was gonna 164 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: fix it. And then she said right away it didn't 165 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: work out his plan because that wasn't his play. See 166 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: that was y'all's planned. You said, let's go back to 167 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: where it all started. Well, where it all started. He 168 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 1: was twenty four. Where it all started, he was sowing oaks. 169 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: So you went to Thanksgiving and that was a big game. 170 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: In time, we barely saw each other. I was busy 171 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: with my parents. He was laid out every night. He 172 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: came into my parents' home late and I noticed the 173 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: third night that his cell phone was off while he slept. 174 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: I asked him about it the next morning. He said 175 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: it must have died, or he could have used another 176 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: excuse and says, I turned my phone off to give 177 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: it some rest. Because you turned this phone off at 178 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: night so it could recharge itself at a break every nine. 179 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: Then you have you know, you have to cut your 180 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: phone off and cut it back on again, off and 181 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: just let it needed a break because I needed to 182 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: reset it. So anyway, but it wasn't dead because I 183 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: turned it back on and off the same night. That's 184 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: why you used the other life fellas go with it. 185 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: I turned it off to reset it. After we spent 186 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: time in our hometown, his attitude change. He started posting 187 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: more pictures on Instagram. He was constantly on his phone 188 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: scrolling through social media posting. Then he started to get 189 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: phone calls late in the evening. He would ignore them, 190 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: but I would check the phone when he was at 191 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 1: around and I could see that he'd always delete the 192 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: incoming call. Law my dog, your dog? Well, he do 193 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: it all the right things to work on his marriage, 194 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:14,000 Speaker 1: to save his marriage. No, listen to me, I want 195 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 1: you all to hear me, so you learn how to 196 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 1: question your man. When he said he was gonna find 197 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 1: ways and make our marriage work, you should have asked 198 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: him exactly what he meant by that, because it damn show. 199 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: Wasn't a trip back to the hometime. That was part 200 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 1: of it. But who was at the hometown at the game. 201 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: It's what you didn't know. So now he racing call logs, 202 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 1: you can't track no calls. He ain't got no names listed. 203 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 1: Then over the holidays, a few calls came in and 204 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 1: he had to step away to take them, and it 205 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 1: happened we had a company or when we were out, 206 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: so I couldn't question him a cause of scene. Well 207 00:11:55,920 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: that's where being a little bit polite, because most women 208 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 1: I know would have opened up with where you're going? Yeah, yeah, 209 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: I get well, I will all be outside taking calls. 210 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: She'll walk out there with you and listen. So I 211 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: don't know him. On New Year's Eve we decided to 212 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 1: stay in have shamp champagne. He was distant. He played 213 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:23,959 Speaker 1: with his phone all night. That stroke of midnight, his 214 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: phone ring and he stepped outside to take the call. 215 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:28,599 Speaker 1: He you don't need to hear him wishing her a 216 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:37,439 Speaker 1: happy new I love you, I miss you. Happy New Year, 217 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 1: wish you was here. All that he working on the 218 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 1: staying with you, and this is the only way he 219 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: can do it. Don't you understand? You should have asked 220 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 1: him what I meant when he said, I'm gonna work 221 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: on making this work because he's doing something. Should I 222 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,719 Speaker 1: have confronted him at that moment of the New Year? Yes, 223 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: you should have. What's my husband up to? You're stupid 224 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: for asking the question. Post your comments on Today's Strawberry 225 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: Letter at Steve Harvey FM, on Instagram and on Facebook, 226 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now 227 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: coming up a forty six minutes after the hour, Sports 228 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 1: talk right after this, okay talk, right now, let me 229 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:22,079 Speaker 1: call you back. You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.