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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm always too prideful that story from Oddity Central.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we did some of the roast stuff this morning.

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Speaker 1: Bobby has everything money can buy, accept the ability to

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Speaker 1: You're being a fit in my computer here. Amy has

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Speaker 1: The nurse story about all the nurses getting the brain tumors.

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Speaker 1: I've thought about this and I love the wheel and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but if I wasn't brave enough to share my

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's like he earned.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's a little sympathy too, right, Like he got

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Speaker 3: Actually, I told you he's sorry.

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Speaker 2: He likes talking about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like he was, you know, he was anxious to

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Speaker 1: I can do East infection too.

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Speaker 3: We can do so three three triangles.

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Speaker 4: You didn't understand that. You said whoever loses is going

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Speaker 4: I was all in until you start talking. You did

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Speaker 1: Said, I googled it what would happen? And then you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, honestly it probably would have been bad for his

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Speaker 1: That was okay. But he made sixteen hundred bucks and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, pay for hospital bills.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So Amy says three squares of the twelve square wheel, Eddie.

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Speaker 2: I say, no squares?

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, I was gonna say half.

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Speaker 2: No, keep it the way it is the answer punishment.

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Speaker 3: Jeil free three in a row or three scattered, not

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Speaker 5: We're not going to take a little segment out.

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Speaker 3: Bobby's gonna yeah, like I mean geese.

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Speaker 1: It's up to lunchbox, who's like three in a rower.

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Speaker 1: Would you like him spread out? Because we still have

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Speaker 1: I have a list here.

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Speaker 4: That's a good question. Let me hear the punishments.

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Speaker 1: So the punishments are number one.

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Speaker 4: Let me think about this.

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Speaker 1: Truck nuts. We're gonna order a pair of trucknuts from Amazon.

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Speaker 1: You know they usually hang off the back, but you're

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Speaker 2: A week and this is everywhere he goes.

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Speaker 1: No, just show when he's up here in the mid

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Speaker 4: I was like, man, that's a long time to be

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Speaker 2: My doesn't he already have truck nuts?

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Speaker 1: Do those on his neck?

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Speaker 4: Those are in my pants?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, those are called truck truck it's a little geometro. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So that's one. Number two is puzzle in the dark.

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Speaker 1: We put lunchbox in the dark room and he has

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Speaker 1: And he's got fifty pieces thirty minutes to an hour

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Speaker 1: if he doesn't do that, then he has to wear

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Speaker 1: But if he doesn't complete the task.

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Speaker 4: So we went puzzle then so it's a double punishment.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's if you don't succeed in your game,

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Speaker 2: The puzzles like a chance to get out of your punishment.

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Speaker 4: Yes, doing the puzzles of punishment.

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Speaker 2: Nah, puzzles are fun.

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Speaker 1: And so what's the other one I liked here? Uh

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Speaker 1: the episode of Friends where Ross gets spray tanned four times.

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Speaker 2: That would be hilarious.

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Speaker 1: Where that's what we do to lunchbox. He has to

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Speaker 2: And how long does that last?

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Speaker 1: Five? Six days? He can't watch You can't shower for

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Speaker 3: Or just go to sleep and then when you wake

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Speaker 4: Gonna be all my sheets.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what happens. But then you wash your sheets,

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Speaker 1: fourth one is upper body waxing. Hold on from his belly,

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Speaker 1: everything gets waxed. No, that's my armpits too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, stream guys, this was one silly game, and we're.

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Speaker 1: If it was you two, he'd be on doing sure. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: Everybody goes love it, Like everywhere he goes, let.

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Speaker 2: Pick up his kids from seat, everywhere.

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Speaker 1: The trucknuts must be on it all time.

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Speaker 2: This is awesome.

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Speaker 5: Okay, And so where does he want the free spaces

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I need to do my research on

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Speaker 4: scientifically which one's.

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Speaker 2: Better, like odds and probability. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't really think there's going to be an answer

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Speaker 2: What are we doing with lucky charms? Like, what are

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Speaker 1: This is trash, trash, they're probably so old. They're probably

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Speaker 1: so old at this point. Yeah, what a waste. I've

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Speaker 1: never heard of a lavender marriage. Amy, Yes, so walk

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Speaker 3: I saw that it was something they did way back

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Speaker 3: So he wasn't like he could be who he was

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And so sometimes even the woman might be gay

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Speaker 3: You have this living person that likely loves fashion, can

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Speaker 1: I could see that that would seem nice if you'd

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Speaker 1: But he was like, I don't. I still want to

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Speaker 3: He likely loves to benefits, host dinner parties and he'll

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know why I said that.

442
00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:02,480
Speaker 1: I don't know.

443
00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:04,680
Speaker 3: I just thought it was interesting. Obviously times are different,

444
00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:07,400
Speaker 3: but this was just a gay guy on social media

445
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,360
Speaker 3: and he was campaigning like he wants to bring.

446
00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:10,200
Speaker 1: It back, got it?

447
00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:13,000
Speaker 3: I mean, but he's open. He's like, I'm open gay,

448
00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:16,639
Speaker 3: but I just love to have like my girl Beff

449
00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:17,399
Speaker 3: be my partner.

450
00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:21,960
Speaker 1: Remember Chuck and Larry when Adam Sandler and Kevin James

451
00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:23,600
Speaker 1: did the movie where they got married, So they could

452
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Speaker 1: like it was some sort of like financial.

453
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Speaker 2: Is it we now pronounced?

454
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know.

455
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Speaker 5: My dad had a friend that was gay and he

456
00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,080
Speaker 5: was married with kids, and we just never understood how

457
00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:35,720
Speaker 5: that all worked.

458
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Speaker 1: Was he gay before? And he probably gay always? But

459
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Speaker 1: I'm saying, was he openly gay to his wife before

460
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Speaker 1: he had the kids, because I've known people who had

461
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Speaker 1: kids and then later were like, I'm gay and they

462
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Speaker 1: had a wife and kids.

463
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Speaker 5: No, well, I don't know, but I think he met

464
00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 5: him already while he was gay and married.

465
00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 2: So we don't know how it all started.

466
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Speaker 3: If he just, oh, he met a man after he

467
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Speaker 3: was gay.

468
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Speaker 1: Married, because I know a guy who did that, who

469
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,880
Speaker 1: like and probably had known he was gay the whole

470
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Speaker 1: time but never acted on it or maybe even or

471
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Speaker 1: maybe even you know, within himself. Yeah, and then he

472
00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:15,359
Speaker 1: met a guy, but he'd already had two kids and

473
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Speaker 1: they were almost adult kids, and he was like, I

474
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Speaker 1: think I've been gay the whole time.

475
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Speaker 2: So then he got a divorced.

476
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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, this one wasn't lavender.

477
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Speaker 3: Do you feel like this one was lavender?

478
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

479
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,960
Speaker 5: They just like he was married and he continued to

480
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Speaker 5: be married, and he was openly gay. And I had

481
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Speaker 5: asked my dad to him, like, Dad, like, what's going

482
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:35,240
Speaker 5: on here?

483
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Speaker 6: Right?

484
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Speaker 1: I was like, we don't really talk about that, and

485
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Speaker 1: he just had an arrangement. Maybe he felt he could

486
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Speaker 1: sure he was gay after having kids being married and

487
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Speaker 1: felt and then his wife's like, well, why we even

488
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Speaker 1: get divorced. I already I don't want to get remarried.

489
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Speaker 1: We'll just be friends. Yeah, possibly live in the house. Yeah,

490
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Speaker 1: I remember that very well. Okay, I have a couple

491
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Speaker 1: other things here. Oh I did listen. Did see me

492
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,120
Speaker 1: wearing a shirt somewhere and it was a woman's shirt,

493
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Speaker 1: And I know is woman's shirt. I just I don't

494
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Speaker 1: mind wearing a woman's shirt. There's a no. I also

495
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Speaker 1: will buy women's shoes, like tennis shoes, but buy them

496
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Speaker 1: in size like fourteen or fifteen if I really like them.

497
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Speaker 1: What Yeah, so, and I'm not going to point out

498
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Speaker 1: point it out.

499
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Speaker 2: How do you know it's a woman's shirt.

500
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 1: Like woman's I got from a story the only woman's clothes,

501
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 1: got it? Yeah? God, I kind.

502
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Speaker 3: Of have a store where they only have women's clothes.

503
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Speaker 1: Yeah. I love the shirt. I'll wear the shirt again

504
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Speaker 1: many times. But I don't think it's not like it

505
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:38,159
Speaker 1: doesn't have like a plunging breastline or anything like that.

506
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: It's just a shirt I really like. But a listener said, hey,

507
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Speaker 1: I saw you wearing this shirt. I know that's a

508
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Speaker 1: woman's shirt and I saw on DM and I reply

509
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 1: back gut like, you're exactly right, it is, but I

510
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Speaker 1: got it way large. And I also will buy shoes.

511
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Speaker 1: I like pink a lot, so I have tennis shoes

512
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Speaker 1: that are pink, and I can't find specific colors, so

513
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Speaker 1: I'll just try to find fourteen's. I think it's fourteen

514
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Speaker 1: that I wear in women's shoes.

515
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Speaker 2: Fourteens do a lot of those. But yeah, it's a

516
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Speaker 2: big foot.

517
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Speaker 1: It's a woman's fourteen. I'm pretty sure eleven translates to

518
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,439
Speaker 1: but yeah, I know if anyone else has seen whatever

519
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: that is, and I will not draw attention to it

520
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 1: because I just don't want to deal with it. I

521
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,160
Speaker 1: will probably wear the shirt again. I really love the shirt.

522
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 1: But yes, if you're asking, it was definitely a woman's

523
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:22,120
Speaker 1: shirt and.

524
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Speaker 3: I'm not suppressing anything.

525
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, And how you can tell a woman

526
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 1: absolutely it is. The buttons they're backwards, right, they're on

527
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Speaker 1: the other side.

528
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's tough. That did you have a hard time

529
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 2: button that?

530
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Speaker 1: I knew it was oneman short. I'm used to it,

531
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 1: so it's easy.

532
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Speaker 3: Well, so it wasn't even a woman's tear. You got

533
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Speaker 3: a woman's button down? Is it fitted?

534
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: Hey? Who knows? Not embarrassed of it?

535
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 3: Wait, okay, pink woman's But I.

536
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Speaker 1: Didn't say the shirt was pink. I said, I like

537
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Speaker 1: to wear pink. I like pink and tennis shoes.

538
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:51,920
Speaker 3: Oh I thought, I thought I took that as.

539
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 1: It could be pink. I don't have pink, any pink shirts.

540
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Speaker 1: I don't think.

541
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Speaker 2: I haven't seen you wear pink.

542
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Speaker 3: Pink.

543
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Speaker 1: I love that one. That's a dude shirt. But you Yeah.

544
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,119
Speaker 1: You know who was extremely complimentary of that shirt was

545
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: Deebo Samuel. We sat down. He was like, that's the

546
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: most legit shared ever. I was like, yeah, it's Selene.

547
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 1: He was like, bro, I never seen it in that color.

548
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,719
Speaker 1: I was like, for sure, And so Deebo sayuels give

549
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: me a shout out. What are you guys gonna do?

550
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 1: By the way, Deebo Samuel. Deebo Samuel played for the

551
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 1: forty nine Ers Forever now plays for Washington. Yeah, D

552
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: nobody calls him D. Yeah, I do you do debo? Yeah? Okay,

553
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:33,479
Speaker 1: mid roll back, m hm. So you saw Karen from

554
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 1: a little big town where Amy.

555
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:43,360
Speaker 3: At a basketball game playing her son. Yeah, no, her son,

556
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 3: her son was playing?

557
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 1: Got it? How old is he now? Thirteen or something?

558
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 3: Junior high going into I guess next year maybe he'll

559
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 3: be going into either eighth or ninth grade.

560
00:23:56,160 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 1: And so you guys cool, Yes, why was there a few?

561
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 3: No?

562
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

563
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 3: Oh no, I ran into Karen and yeah, I hadn't

564
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 3: seen her in a really long time, I guess. So

565
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,199
Speaker 3: the last time I ran into Karen was out to

566
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 3: eat and it was February of twenty twenty four.

567
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: So, oh, Karen's a brown haired one of the two

568
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 1: ladies in little big towns.

569
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Speaker 3: A little big town.

570
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 2: Yes.

571
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 3: So I ran into Karen back then at a restaurant

572
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 3: and she was like, Hey, there's this guy I want

573
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 3: to introduce you to. And I was like, oh, because

574
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 3: I had I had just started dating at that point,

575
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 3: like on hinge, and so I wanted to hear more

576
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,120
Speaker 3: about what she had to say. And she was like, yeah,

577
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 3: he's in our dad group, like our kids go to

578
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 3: school together, and I guess he had asked her like, hey,

579
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,719
Speaker 3: do you know Amy Brown? I heard she go divorced,

580
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 3: da da da, And so she started showing me all

581
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 3: these things about him, and then I was like, oh, okay, well, yeah,

582
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,360
Speaker 3: I'm interested. And then she goes, there's just one catch,

583
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 3: and I was like, well, what's the hatch.

584
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:54,160
Speaker 1: She goes, he's gay.

585
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 2: He's gay?

586
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 3: No, she said that. She said he's a widow were

587
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 3: and I said, with three kids? And she's like, yeah,

588
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 3: his wife died a few years ago from cancer. And

589
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, okay, I'll circle back, like I

590
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 3: just started dating, and I just didn't think that that

591
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 3: was something that I had the bandwidth for at the

592
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: time because I was still going through a lot. And

593
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 3: so then fast forward to like the summertime, like June

594
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,479
Speaker 3: or July. She messaged me and was like, hey, that

595
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 3: guy still would love to take you out. And I

596
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 3: had started dating somebody else, so I was like, eh,

597
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 3: I'm I just moved, so I need some more time.

598
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 3: I'll circle back. Well, then that guy that I was dating,

599
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 3: is this the boy toy? No, this is somebody else.

600
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 3: I was like getting ready for a date with him

601
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 3: and my friend called me and she said, hey, are

602
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 3: you still dating da Da Da Da? I said, yeah,

603
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 3: he's about to come pick me up. She goes, well,

604
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 3: I'm at dinner right now with a girl that has

605
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 3: a date with him tomorrow.

606
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, but what did you think

607
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 1: you guys were only dating? Because if not, then that's okay.

608
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,040
Speaker 3: Well, I guess we hadn't had that talk, so I

609
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 3: couldn't be upset. I wasn't upset. I think my ego

610
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 3: was hurt like I was. So I found myself getting emotional,

611
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 3: but then I knew I did. I couldn't say anything

612
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 3: to him because we weren't exclusive. But remember back I

613
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 3: went to the US open with him, like so I

614
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 3: kind of just thought, well.

615
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: This is like, you know, I remember that, yeah, my

616
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: wife's purse. I saw it on Instagram, yes, and I

617
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: was like, she's my wife's purse.

618
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 3: Well, because I didn't, I was nervous what to wear

619
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 3: to open.

620
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: Because I remember that's what's funny.

621
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 3: Yes, And so Caitlin actually helped me. She's like, oh, yeah,

622
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 3: where this where this will be cute and I was like, oh, okay,

623
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 3: you know, like and yeah. We So it was a

624
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 3: group that all went to New York. But anyway, I

625
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 3: just kind of thought, I don't know. I just I

626
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 3: didn't think we were dating other people, especially on an app,

627
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,439
Speaker 3: because he met her on an app and I was like, okay.

628
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 3: So then he picked me up and we went out

629
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 3: and it was so awkward. I tried to be cool,

630
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,159
Speaker 3: we cool, be cool, be cool. And then I couldn't

631
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 3: take it anymore and I was like, I know you

632
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 3: have a date tomorrow.

633
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 4: Oh wow, Oh that's how you do it.

634
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 3: But I didn't say it in a like mad way.

635
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 3: I just said, I need you to know. I didn't

636
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 3: ask for this information. I shouldn't even know it, but

637
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,679
Speaker 3: I do. And now I feel awkward and I know

638
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 3: that you have a date tomorrow. So I guess I

639
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 3: just want to have an open, an honest conversation with you,

640
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 3: like are we Yeah, we haven't been had an exclusive talk.

641
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 3: But this is the guy now, No, this is but

642
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 3: I this is what led to the guy now, because.

643
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 1: How did that gut react?

644
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 3: First of all, he said, he just sort of goes.

645
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 1: Oh oh, So he felt guilty.

646
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 3: Until I said, yeah, my friend, and he knew the

647
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 3: friend because he had met her, and so I said

648
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 3: you know my friend you met the other night, she's

649
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:38,320
Speaker 3: at she's at dinner right now with your date tomorrow.

650
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: And he was like, wow, smart, I know one of

651
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: the odds, I'm busted man. And the thing is, really

652
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: wasn't doing anything anything wrong, but I understand the guilty.

653
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 3: I promise. My demeanor wasn't like you've done anything wrong.

654
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 3: I just said I have information that now is making

655
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 3: me feel weird right now. And he said the way

656
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 3: I communicated it, however I did. He was like, hey,

657
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 3: you're you're a good communicator. Okay, so but still I'm like, well,

658
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 3: so my therapist has been talking to me about adult dating,

659
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 3: so I guess if you want to keep dating, we can.

660
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 3: But I just need you to know, like, okay, so

661
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 3: you're going to date other people and we'll keep getting

662
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 3: to know each other, I said, because I I have

663
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 3: people that want to date me, Like I didn't really

664
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 3: have anybody else.

665
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 2: ID like, yeah, I have.

666
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 3: I have a guy once it's been trying to date

667
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 3: me for months, but like I kept denying him or whatever.

668
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 3: So then the next day I texted Karen and I

669
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 3: was like, hey, the guy still available, because now it's

670
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 3: like October. So it's like February to October. That's when

671
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 3: I circled back to Karen and she's like, well, let

672
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 3: me check. And so I went out with this guy

673
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 3: mostly because I just needed to practice dating because now

674
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 3: I was adult dating, which is dating multiple people.

675
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 4: It was a spie date to get back your oh yeah, And.

676
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 3: I didn't really think it was going to turn into

677
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 3: anything because again the whole the window or piece. But

678
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 3: I had sort of gotten over that because I think

679
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 3: from February to October I had had a lot of

680
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 3: healing and there's some space that had opened up within

681
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 3: me that suddenly that didn't seem overwhelming. And so yeah,

682
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 3: that's how I have a boyfriend now. And so that

683
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 3: was from October to now.

684
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: How's the so I was.

685
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 3: Able to see Karen. My point is I saw Karen

686
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my gosh, like thank you

687
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 3: for introducing us. Like I went out with him not

688
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 3: thinking it would turn into anything, and then now here

689
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 3: we are running into each other at y'all's kids basketball game.

690
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: Did you tell her the part where you're got a

691
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: compliment after you called him out.

692
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 3: Such a communication, Well, this is a basketball game, so

693
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 3: I didn't give.

694
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: You get rid of all the other dude.

695
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:52,440
Speaker 3: Oh so yeah. So then I was trying to date

696
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 3: both of them at the same time, and that was

697
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 3: I wasn't good at that, like that in you know

698
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 3: they knew though you were honest, no knew. Get this

699
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 3: the dating pool at forty in Nashville forty fifty. Because

700
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 3: these guys are in it's small.

701
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 2: I wouldn't think it's big.

702
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 3: It's small. And they know each other and we've already

703
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 3: run into him. We've yep, their kids are going to

704
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 3: be going to school to get it. Gets a small world.

705
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 3: So I'm like, well, we're going to run into him

706
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 3: a lot. So once I decided I was going to

707
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 3: be exclusive with who I'm with now, I called the

708
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 3: guy that thinks I'm a good communicator and I communicated like, hey,

709
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 3: I am dating somebody now, and I'm going to give

710
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 3: this a go. I don't like dating multiple people. Da

711
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 3: da da, And I said just a little. And he goes,

712
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 3: are you talking about Alex? And I was like, you

713
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 3: know him and he's like my brother. So then they

714
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 3: know each other and they actually dated this other same girl.

715
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 3: So yeah, and guess what, we've run into her too.

716
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 1: Show Man what's the really could how has it been

717
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: dating somebody whose wife has died?

718
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 3: Because I that's a lot. Well, we have therapy today

719
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 3: because there's just some things. Yeah, with our kids that

720
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 3: it's a lot. So he's got a twelve year old

721
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 3: of fifteen year old to sixteen year old. My kids

722
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 3: are cool there. They've lost their mom, Like the youngest

723
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 3: one doesn't really remember. My kids are like, take it

724
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 3: look like their dad had a girlfriend for like a

725
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 3: year they broke up, but like they have experience as

726
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 3: before for his kids, their dad has dated a lot,

727
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 3: but not serious enough to bring the kids around someone.

728
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 3: And so I am now in their life. And the

729
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 3: younger one is very attached, like because he's he doesn't

730
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:45,479
Speaker 3: he hasn't his mom died five years ago and he

731
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 3: was seven at the time, and she had cancer for

732
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 3: two years before that, so he's wanting that mom figure

733
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 3: and so that is it's really sweet, but I got

734
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 3: to be careful because he's so attached. And then rightfully,

735
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 3: so the sixteen year old, it's a lot because she

736
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 3: was very very close to her mom. And I'm towing

737
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 3: that line of like, you know, I've even had a

738
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 3: conversation with her of like, no part of me is

739
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 3: coming in here and wants to replace your mom in

740
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 3: any way, Like I want to honor her and come

741
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 3: alongside and just support you how you need support. But

742
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 3: it's tricky. It's tricky navigating and merging our kids together.

743
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 3: And then yeah, without it's his story too. There's a

744
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 3: lot that's just easy at times between us, like we're

745
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 3: very compatible, but then also we're both experiencing things for

746
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 3: the very first time that are tricky, and so we're

747
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 3: trying to get third party input so that we can

748
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 3: navigate at the best that we can. And that's what

749
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,719
Speaker 3: today's therapy session will be about. Kind of just some

750
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 3: I got to know how to handle some stuff.

751
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: Ah free, I couldn't handle it. I wouldn't have the

752
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: emotional intelligence to date somebody whose partner.

753
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 3: Has died and they were very much in love.

754
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think I would compare myself to them,

755
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,479
Speaker 1: or if I weren't comparing, I would think that they

756
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: were always comparing me to them, or that they were

757
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: always going, well, it's never going to be as good

758
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: as it once was. So this is like, that's all

759
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: the thoughts that I would have that I would have

760
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: to have somebody work me out of those thoughts.

761
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I love that he still loves her it,

762
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 3: you know, it's that's that's not really the problem. But

763
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 3: he has dated some girls that straight up were like

764
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 3: I can't I can't handle that that or how it

765
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 3: might be with your kids. And I think I was

766
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 3: really really scared of it, which is why I told

767
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 3: Karen initially like, oh, well, that's that's a problem. But

768
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 3: we're we're working through it, and I think it could

769
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 3: be a beautiful thing, but we're day by day like it,

770
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 3: so I don't know what's going to happen.

771
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 1: Not good for you for putting in the work though.

772
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

773
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: I was a therapy of the day, just trying to

774
00:33:58,360 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: figure out to eat breakfast at lunch?

775
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 3: How do eat?

776
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yea, yeah, because you like going for like

777
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: real and I'm my therapist going, man, that's why eat pancakes.

778
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: Everybody else's in a sandwich.

779
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 2: Well, they're both real problems.

780
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, they are.

781
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 1: They are.

782
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 3: We've never done it together though, Like I've done my

783
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 3: own therapy, but this is our first time doing something together.

784
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 3: So oh really today literally coincidentally today, so you have

785
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 3: the same therapist.

786
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, you have to go to a different

787
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: one because our couples counselor is different than my therapist.

788
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 2: So how do you.

789
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 4: Agree on a couple counselor? Though, like who picks it well?

790
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 3: So to your point, yes, that's true. Oh my ring

791
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 3: came off. If if if we were doing full time

792
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 3: couples counseling, we would have to find someone separate. I

793
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 3: had to sign a waiver to allow him to join

794
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 3: in with my.

795
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can bring someone that's a therapist, but it's

796
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 1: not permanent.

797
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 3: That's what's happening today. And then to Lunchbucks's point, if

798
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 3: we were to decide to continue, then we would have

799
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 3: to find our own and we would just do recent.

800
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 4: But any nervous that your therapist is gonna be on

801
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 4: your side.

802
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 3: No, because it's not about a side thing. I think

803
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 3: we're trying to just learn the We need tools to

804
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 3: navigate certain things. It's not about someone being right or wrong.

805
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 3: It's like, how can you help us navigate this because

806
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 3: we're it's we just want it to be a little

807
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 3: bit smoother or I.

808
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 1: Got for you. I try to win our counselor.

809
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

810
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 1: I'm in there trying to win you, but ours was

811
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 1: we went and completely unrelated to our own therapists, like

812
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 1: I didn't know them. So the thing about a therapist

813
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 1: too is it's kind of like dating because you may

814
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: go to I've been a therapist that I just did

815
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 1: not vibe with, like their style, their communication, so I

816
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: would just Okay, well thanks, let me move on to

817
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 1: the next one, not the personal, and so that that's happened.

818
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: We got very fortunate with our because we started going

819
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: as soon as we got married, and it's awesome. So

820
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: and he's great, but I do try to win, not

821
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: the argument, but I try to like win his favor.

822
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,480
Speaker 1: So I get like, feels good when you wink yeah, yeah,

823
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: that feels good.

824
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, like I'm right.

825
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, or like it kind of pump your yeah. I try. Yeah.

826
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 2: But Ami, who's whose idea was the therapy?

827
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 4: It's a great question. How do you say, hey, let's

828
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 4: go to therapy together.

829
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 2: I'm assuming it's you, but I'm just asking.

830
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:17,240
Speaker 3: I'll give you one guess. But it was after well, okay,

831
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 3: we have like summer vacation coming up and just trying

832
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 3: to figure out some some things and our kids. It's

833
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 3: mostly about our kids were very both very protective of

834
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 3: them and how they feel with certain things, and it

835
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 3: was great. We're just trying to figure it out. And

836
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 3: then we realized there's other little things. I don't know

837
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 3: how to explain it because I don't want to tell

838
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,240
Speaker 3: all the kids problems.

839
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

840
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 3: So yeah, but it was me. He processes really well,

841
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 3: So that's great. And even in the loss of his wife, so,

842
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 3: like his wife died, and then a few months later

843
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 3: his wife's mom, so his mother in law died, and

844
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 3: then a few months after that, his mom died.

845
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 1: So their grandma's died, and both.

846
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 3: The grandma's and the mom said the kids lost basically

847
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 3: all the women in their life, and then he lost

848
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 3: the women in his life, all back to back. So

849
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 3: he experienced that and and went through and did the work.

850
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 3: But he I can tell how he handled that.

851
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 2: He is a.

852
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 3: Processor. He's like a deep thinker. He's very respectful and

853
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:18,919
Speaker 3: listens and.

854
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: You know, you probably won't try to win.

855
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 3: Then I don't think he's going to try to win

856
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 3: because there's nothing to win.

857
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: But are you kidding?

858
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 3: What's there to win? We're not going to like he

859
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 3: he has told me before. He said something the other day,

860
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 3: like I'm not talking about this right now, and I

861
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 3: was like, well.

862
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: Good, Uh try your boundary, bro, that's what I say.

863
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: What's wrong with that?

864
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 2: What is wrong with that?

865
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 1: One to talk about life? Meets me with that though,

866
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: because I'll do that, be like I do not feel

867
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 1: have the capacity to talk about that now, And she'll go, Okay,

868
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: what time would you like to talk about and I'll

869
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: go what what? And she'll go, I'm happy to walk

870
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,439
Speaker 1: away from this. She's like, I don't want to press

871
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: on it if you feel for whatever reason, sometimes I

872
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: don't feel good, like sometimes I don't feel good or

873
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 1: or I want time to think about it. She goes,

874
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: but give me a time, and then I'll hit her

875
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: with July third, and then she's like, don't do no stupid, Yeah,

876
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: give me a time, child, I'm a child.

877
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 2: July third, two o'clock.

878
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm a child. Still the calendar July.

879
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 3: Third, Yeah, But do you know like a kinder way

880
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 3: to say that, Bobby might be instead of saying I'm

881
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 3: not going to do this right now or I'm not

882
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 3: I'm not talking to you about this like with that,

883
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 3: like I'm not doing this right now, say how exactly said,

884
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 3: that's how he said it to me, and just what

885
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 3: would have been helpful at that time instead of telling

886
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,479
Speaker 3: me this, we're not talking about this right now, just saying, hey,

887
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 3: can we come back to this at another time?

888
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 1: Oh? The problem with that is you're giving you the

889
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: right to say no.

890
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 3: And so I've also been taught I'm respectful too, Like

891
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 3: I would be like, oh, okay, now, it's not.

892
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: That I've been taught don't ask a question if you're

893
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 1: not going to accept one of the answers. And if

894
00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: I go, hey, can we talk about this later, she

895
00:38:58,200 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 1: says no, I have to respect the no one to

896
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 1: talk about it.

897
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:03,800
Speaker 2: So when my wife says can you do the dishes?

898
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:04,720
Speaker 2: I can say no.

899
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 3: No.

900
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: I think you're missing that you can say whatever you want,

901
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: because that's give opportunity consequences. What Amy's saying is a

902
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: better or a different way to say it that maybe

903
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:17,439
Speaker 1: comes off not as harsh, is can we talk about

904
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 1: this at a different time? And I think that's wonderfully soft,

905
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 1: and I like it. It's a nice cushion to land on.

906
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 1: But I've also been taught that if I offer a

907
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 1: question to somebody and I give them an option and

908
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: they choose an option, I have to go with that option.

909
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: So if I go, can I talk? Can we talk

910
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: about this later? My wife goes, no, I want to

911
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: do it now. Then I now have to do it

912
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: now instead of me just going, hey, I don't have

913
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 1: the capacity right now, so I'm gonna go and punt

914
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 1: on this. And used to I would just think and

915
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 1: definitely we never have to talk about it again. And then

916
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:42,439
Speaker 1: she got on me because I would never come back around.

917
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: It doesn't work, never come back around. And then she go, Okay, well,

918
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: would you mind giving me a time? And I'll be

919
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 1: like sure, July.

920
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:52,760
Speaker 2: Third, Yeah, that's so good.

921
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: Well it didn't work.

922
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I know I'm gonna try that one.

923
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 3: That doesn't work.

924
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: Good, I'm rooting for you.

925
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 3: Oh thank you? Yeah? No, see how well.

926
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: That leads me to two other things. I got like

927
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: four things to talk about left. Then what we've done.

928
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 1: I was talking. I did try to eat breakfast at lunch,

929
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 1: and this is such a stupid thing, but one of

930
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: the things I just cannot have not been able to do.

931
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, my mind doesn't allow me. I can't

932
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: eat a meal at a different time somebody else is

933
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 1: eating their meal and not even meaning at a different

934
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 1: time to actually eat the food. But if Eddie's eating dinner,

935
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,839
Speaker 1: I can't eat breakfast food. If he's gonna have dinner,

936
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 1: then I must have dinner food. Very strange at a

937
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 1: restaurant or at the house. If someone's gonna eat breakfast food,

938
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: even if it's at dinner time, I can't eat meat loaf.

939
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: I've also got to match that. So it's some irrational

940
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 1: part of my brain that really struggles. We went to

941
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: California and I had pancakes while they had lunch, and

942
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: I couldn't eat my pancakes. Eddie like, that's all you're gonnat.

943
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: He didn't know that was what the struggle I had

944
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 1: with it, but he was like that that's all you're

945
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 1: gonna eat. I had like four or five bites of

946
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: pancakes and I was like, I can't do this.

947
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 2: I didn't realize you were struggling.

948
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was in it. Okay, I was immersing myself.

949
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: I couldn't do it.

950
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 5: But again, like Amy said the first time we talked

951
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 5: about this, it's a good thing though, that you're not

952
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,879
Speaker 5: making everyone else change, that you are open to change.

953
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: Well, I would say this is as intense've amy situation.

954
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 1: Very yeah, it's very equal the other We have a

955
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: few minutes and I don't know this is the best

956
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: time to bring it up, but okay, sure, why not

957
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: Eddie thinks he has brain cancer. Here we go.

958
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 2: No, it's not second cancer, it's not.

959
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: Here we go.

960
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 3: I just sort of rolled my eyes in my head.

961
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 3: But I'm also gonna feel bad if he's right.

962
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 5: That is the danger of talking about this because if

963
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 5: I'm right and they laugh at me, Yeah, but.

964
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 1: You've also been very wrong many times. So we just

965
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: talked about somebody having cancer and dying and then all

966
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 1: of a sudden, he's got I got brains.

967
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 2: Not a joke though, last time porn that's what it was.

968
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,320
Speaker 2: He had had a hard to tech cancer.

969
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 4: Let's be real, like, I mean, the odds are very bloom.

970
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 5: I've just had a headache for like almost going on

971
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 5: two weeks now, and yeah, does tiland all take care

972
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 5: of it? Sure, it goes away, but then after the

973
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 5: four hours I get it back again.

974
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 1: But then, don't you think it's something that's in your

975
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 1: It's environmental. Maybe you're dehydrated. There could be a sinuses

976
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: that the allergies that you have could also be creating

977
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: like you.

978
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 3: If you cut back on caffeine at.

979
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 1: All, it could be a lot of things.

980
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 4: Are you drinking water?

981
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, chicking water To.

982
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: Go right to brain cancer feels a bit intense. Man.

983
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 2: You just hear the stories of like you, but no.

984
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: You hear them, but you're reading and you're chasing them,

985
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 1: and if you're pursuing them, that's why you hear them.

986
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 5: People say they have headaches and they're like, oh, it's

987
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,319
Speaker 5: just a sinus infection, and then turns out no, they

988
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 5: were had stage four brain cancer.

989
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't want to then go get checked.

990
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:37,760
Speaker 4: But in that expensive see here we go. Your life

991
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 4: worth it?

992
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: It's it is worth it. Then.

993
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 5: But do I go to the doctor and say I

994
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 5: think I have brain cancer? Or do I just say

995
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 5: I've had headaches for two weeks?

996
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: I probably lead with the second one.

997
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 4: Oh, I like brain cancer. That way they can just

998
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:49,359
Speaker 4: laugh at you.

999
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 2: Right on the machine.

1000
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: I would lead to the second one and say, hey,

1001
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 1: I have had these headaches nonstoft for like two weeks.

1002
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. It could be or

1003
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 1: brain cancer and just maybe just sloawed that out there

1004
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 1: and they'll say, we don't think it's brain cancer, but

1005
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: we'll do the test that show you it's not.

1006
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,320
Speaker 4: Do you have a stiff neck, no vision changes?

1007
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 2: Oh yes, I'm having to wear my readers.

1008
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 5: More numbness because you're getting older, dude, Well that could

1009
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 5: be two numbness where it.

1010
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 4: Just says numbness.

1011
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: I don't think you have brain cancer, but I would.

1012
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: It's probably sign us pressure. We're at a bad allergy time. Yeah,

1013
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 1: for us, that's probably what it is. But I would

1014
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 1: definitely get it checked if it's bothering you that much.

1015
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 4: Is it around your eyes?

1016
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 2: No, it's in my head.

1017
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 4: That's not a cluster headache.

1018
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 1: Another couple of things here, and then well we'll move

1019
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 1: on which one I want to do first. Okay, I'm

1020
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 1: going to make an offer. I was looking, by the way,

1021
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: why don't we have our YouTube follower plaque, Scuba or

1022
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 1: one hundred thousand follower plaque? Do you know do you

1023
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: know where that is? Because we have way more than that,

1024
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: but YouTube sends one. You get a plaque, yeah if

1025
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 1: you yeah, okay, left, Scuba, continue your mic on, Yeah,

1026
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: do you know where one hundred thousand? Because we have

1027
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 1: two hundred ninety four thousand followers on you tube. Plaques

1028
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 1: are given away when you reach one hundred thousand, a

1029
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: silver one we should which we should have, Yeah, a

1030
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 1: gold one for a million. But where's our silver plaque?

1031
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 7: Probably send it to our San Antonio corporate office and

1032
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 7: they took it.

1033
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 1: Can you track it down for us?

1034
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, we'll see.

1035
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 1: So it's somewhere we need it. I want it. I

1036
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:16,479
Speaker 1: met the corporate office.

1037
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 2: Probably got it or something.

1038
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: So right now we have two hundred and ninety four

1039
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: thousand YouTube followers.

1040
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 7: So you get him at what amounts one hundred thousand

1041
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 7: and what else? Well, we don't have a million yet,

1042
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 7: so just so next one will be a million, So

1043
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 7: one hundred thousands. Where we just want our hundred thousand

1044
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 7: subscriber plaque? Okay we want Yeah for years they've probably

1045
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 7: just been holding on to So see if you can

1046
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 7: track that down.

1047
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, So we have two hundred ninety four thousand,

1048
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: and basically our YouTube followers fall on Eddie and Morgan

1049
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:43,359
Speaker 1: as far as subscribers. So here's the deal that I'm

1050
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: gonna make. What are we Wednesday?

1051
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:46,760
Speaker 2: Who gets the plaquem here? Morgan?

1052
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: No?

1053
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 4: No, no, oh, who should get it.

1054
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: We have two hundred ninety four thousand followers. If we

1055
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: get three hundred thousand followers by the end of the week,

1056
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:58,240
Speaker 1: I'll give Eddie, Morgan and Lunchbox each one hundred dollars.

1057
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so six thousand follower that's it.

1058
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 2: Hang on, hang I'm in hang on why lunchs Yeah.

1059
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 1: Just because I don't want him crying about not making

1060
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: the money. And that's it.

1061
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna feed that.

1062
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's worth it to me not hearing to him cry.

1063
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 1: And maybe he's gonna help promote it. Who knows on

1064
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,800
Speaker 1: a social YouTube. So if we had three hundred thousand

1065
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: by the end of show Friday, I'll give each you

1066
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 1: guys a hundred bucks. Boom.

1067
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I'm just gonna start uploading everything everything. I'm

1068
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 2: going to unload my computer.

1069
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: It doesn't he upload if Morgan go ahead? No?

1070
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 2: What was that?

1071
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 4: Morgan go ahead?

1072
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 1: Noly.

1073
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 3: He gets mad at me sometimes when I add extra

1074
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 3: videos on our list, and now he's like, I'm gonna

1075
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 3: upload everything.

1076
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 2: Fair.

1077
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: I don't know what you guys do. Okay, here's the

1078
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:48,800
Speaker 1: other thing. What Today's April May, June July by August thirty. First,

1079
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 1: if we have five hundred thousand followers.

1080
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:54,359
Speaker 4: We get five grand each.

1081
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 2: That would seem fair.

1082
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 4: No, that seems about right.

1083
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't, see fir because I don't make any money.

1084
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 1: Well five hundred thousand, this is no.

1085
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 2: Do we make money, you make money? It's all.

1086
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 1: It's all same, tomatom Tomato right, No, because it's I

1087
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 1: don't own the YouTube channel. The company does, so that

1088
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: would be different. Oh, I will you guys can pick

1089
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 1: if we hit five hundred thousand.

1090
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 4: Fly away to Vegas.

1091
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 1: Let's go. I will either give each of you a thousand,

1092
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 1: or you can play a game to win three thousand,

1093
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:28,319
Speaker 1: all winner take all.

1094
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 2: I like that too. I'm good again.

1095
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Speaker 3: No, I won a thousand.

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Speaker 1: Well, well you have to get there. You have to

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Speaker 1: and you get to vote two out of three. So

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00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: but you have to get there.

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Speaker 3: You like to cheat at games.

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00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,399
Speaker 1: I'll trust it. So you're not there. You're not there, right.

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00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 2: But the whole lunchbox things throw me off. And I

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00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,760
Speaker 2: understand that you want to make him feel included in everything.

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00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 5: But if you take him out of the mix, would

1104
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 5: that mean more money for me and Morgan?

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00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 1: Probably?

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00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 2: But because I.

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00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: Will fight this I think you. I think two things

1108
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 1: are gonna happened. One, he's gonna cry about it.

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00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 2: But that's him anyways.

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00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,800
Speaker 1: Here, I'm not going to cry then. But I also

1111
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: think like for you guys to have his support, however

1112
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: he gives, it would probably be beneficial.

1113
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 2: He doesn't really give.

1114
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 1: He I greaks, But that's that's on you to create whatever.

1115
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: So that's the deal. However you see fit all right?

1116
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 1: So created just by the end of the week, you

1117
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: just need five hundred followers, subscribers.

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00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 2: Let's have a meeting.

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00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 1: Five thousand by the end. Oh my god, No, guys,

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00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 1: I thought you said five thousand. No, wait, thank you.

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00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: Everybody just out for one second.

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00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 2: Don't call me the idiot.

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00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 1: People. No one called anybody an idiot. Oh, everybody hold.

1124
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: Everybody hold. We have two ninety four points something, right,

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Speaker 1: So I'm doing the math here, So it's five thousand,

1126
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 1: whatever it is. If it's a three hundred thousand, I

1127
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: give each you one hundred bucks by the end of

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Speaker 1: the week. That's doable.

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Speaker 2: We can do that.

1130
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 1: But by August thirty, first you can eat you have

1131
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 1: a thousand, or you can play for thirty five hundred.

1132
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 4: Oh you just had a five hundred dollars.

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00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: Sure did cash.

1134
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:04,600
Speaker 2: Let's have a meeting after the show.

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00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 1: What the media is too probably be how you're gonna

1136
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: get the prescribers more than what you can do with

1137
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 1: the money.

1138
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 2: I got some ideas.

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00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 1: Don't want to throw that out there down there.

1140
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 2: Lunchbox, start thinking star rainstorming.

1141
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: You can't hire bots. I don't know how people do that.

1142
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: I don't know any bots.

1143
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, and now.

1144
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 2: We can do anything we want to do.

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00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,439
Speaker 1: First of all, no, I don't know what that means.

1146
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go know doing anything we want, like.

1147
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 2: Be creative and stuff.

1148
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: What are you talking within what we would do? You

1149
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 1: can do anything new, but it has to You can't

1150
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: be like, okay, scrow them off. You can't do stuff

1151
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 1: that we wouldn't that we wouldn't you think what T

1152
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 1: shirt cont mean?

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00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 2: I was just thinking leaving it open.

1154
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: But if you do stupid stuff, you're gonna make people unsubscribed.

1155
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 2: That's true. We don't want that.

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00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: Okay, to do one more things, thinking, no, I'll do

1157
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: one more thing.

1158
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 3: Do they make shorts?

1159
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 1: I do YouTube shorts?

1160
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 3: I know you do. But does the show?

1161
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 3: Okay, because I had you do a meeting yesterday with

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00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 3: iHeart and they said those are really good to do.

1164
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, they're they're good if you do them right.

1165
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 3: You to do them right, or just to get if

1166
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 3: you're trying to get new eyes. Short is like a

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Speaker 3: real or a TikTok video the studio.

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Speaker 1: I want to do one other thing before we go, So, Amy,

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Speaker 1: you know the guy that goes, let's get ready to rumble?

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00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: Do you know his name?

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00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 3: By the chance, I mean, give me a hint. No,

1172
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 3: I know, I want to figure it out.

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00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 1: I don't think you will first as Michael Michael. Yes, okay, Michael,

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Speaker 1: his name is Michael Buffer.

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Speaker 3: I definitely exactly.

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Speaker 1: And he goes, let's let's get trademarked. It's a massive

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Speaker 1: thing for him. So he has a brother, Bruce Buffer,

1178
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Speaker 1: who is the announcer for the UFC, and his thing

1179
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: is it's time and so you would think that they

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00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:14,359
Speaker 1: were brothers who grew up doing announcing together because they're

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00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:18,359
Speaker 1: both the biggest two announcers in sports. Basically, they didn't

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Speaker 1: even know each other until later, until their debt, until

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00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 1: one saw another one on TV and it was like dubber brother,

1184
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: that's this is a crazy story, so really weird.

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Speaker 4: Well, they didn't know Joe, I'll.

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Speaker 1: Play I'll play a clip. So I do a podcast

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Speaker 1: called Lots to Say That's out today with Matt Castle,

1188
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Speaker 1: the former NFL quarterback, and we had Bruce Buffer on

1189
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Speaker 1: and he did not know his brother's the most famous

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Speaker 1: announcer ever. He did not know his brother. They didn't

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Speaker 1: meet well into their twenties. And so here's Bruce at

1192
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Speaker 1: this like a minute clip telling the version of that.

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Speaker 6: We're long lost hap brothers. We met each other when

1194
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 6: I was twenty eight years old. I saw him on

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Speaker 6: TV being a huge boxing fan of my dad and

1196
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 6: my brother Brian and I, you know, watching boxing all

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Speaker 6: our lives. How came this handsome debonair, James Bond looking

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Speaker 6: individual with that famous words let's get ready to rumble?

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Speaker 6: And when they conrand his name on the screen, Michael Buffer,

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00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 6: I'm like, WHOA, who's this? Right before the Internet, I

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00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 6: never saw my last name in a phone book in

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00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 6: the United States, so it kind of really struck me. Funny,

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00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 6: my dad never told me that he had been married

1204
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 6: at the age of twenty when he was going over

1205
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 6: to serve in World War Two. It was a brief

1206
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 6: marriage and he came back a divorce en suit, but

1207
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 6: a child was born, and last time he saw the

1208
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 6: child was when he was two and a half. Michael

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00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 6: was raised under the name of Hubert by foster parents

1210
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 6: great as he calls it, leave it to Beaver upbringing.

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00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 6: And when he went in the army at twenty, they said,

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00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 6: your birth certificate says you're Buffer, because he was never

1213
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Speaker 6: formally adopted, so they said, you're not Michael Huber, You're

1214
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 6: Michael Buffer. And had that not happened, and the events

1215
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 6: had led him into being the legendary greatest announcer of

1216
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 6: all times. As I like to say, in most everybody believes,

1217
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 6: we wouldn't be sitting here talking right now because when

1218
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,640
Speaker 6: he did see him on TV and and my dad

1219
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 6: called a local arena here in Los Angeles to receive

1220
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 6: a country club left a message for Michael to call

1221
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,240
Speaker 6: him back, and Michael called him back. They got together

1222
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 6: for lunch and it turned out to be his long

1223
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 6: lost son, and we all got together and we got

1224
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:13,800
Speaker 6: along famously amazing.

1225
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 1: And so Bruce Buffer, the guy we're talking to, was

1226
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 1: not an announcer. He did that later. He was He

1227
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: was like studying how to fight. But they they were

1228
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:28,919
Speaker 1: half for others, didn't know each other, saw him on TV, crazy.

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00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:30,720
Speaker 2: And now they're both they're both the biggest announcers.

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00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's two biggest, but the whole we did like

1231
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:36,280
Speaker 1: a half an hour with him. It's on our podcast.

1232
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: Lots to say, but I thought that story was crazy

1233
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 1: because I just imagine they were both brothers growing up.

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00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:41,800
Speaker 1: Their dad was like an announcer, and they both.

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00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 2: Be Yeah, that's what I thought too.

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Speaker 1: There you go at the end, Thank you guys, We'll

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Speaker 1: see you tomorrow. I believe that's all we got for today. Goodbye, everybody.