WEBVTT - The One About Bring Back RHONY & RHONJ 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:09.119 Hello, gorgeous. It is La La Kent. We're back at 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:12.760 it baby with t T just the two of us, 0:00:12.800 --> 0:00:16.959 just the best. It feels just like I'm right at home. 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:19.480 This is my favorite. 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:23.840 So yesterday, I've talked about tattoos a lot, and I 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:26.079 always feel like every time I get one, I'm like, 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:29.520 I'm done. I don't need another one. So yesterday we 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:33.200 had someone come to the house. His name's Ignausio Suarez, 0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:36.960 and I found him because Sheena has been getting a 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:40.839 lot of her tattoos done by him recently, and I 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:45.120 loved just like the crisp, fine lines. He's so good, 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:48.840 and I was picturing exactly how I wanted Sosa's name 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:53.159 and where, and he came over and I loved that 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:59.000 because like obviously for me, I am not a tattoo connoisseur. 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:02.000 I have a lot of tattoos that have just kind 0:01:02.040 --> 0:01:05.640 of like they bled just based off of me not 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:08.120 wanting to listen to the artist then being like that's 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:09.840 not a great spot for a tattoo, and I'm like, 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:13.039 just want it, and then they do it and it 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:16.280 doesn't turn out exactly how I want, but it's like whatever. 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.800 I just felt like yesterday I'm like, I'm gonna listen 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:23.240 to Yeah. So he goes by Iggy. I'm like, I'm 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:24.200 gonna listen to Iggy. 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:27.840 I told you what I wanted. His Instagram is c 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:30.759 a c Ho tattoo. 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:32.040 So how do you say that? 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:35.800 Ketchoketcho okay ketcho tattoo is his stag? 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:36.640 All right? 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:37.080 I love it. 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.199 So I got Sosa's name on my arm. It's still 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:39.800 wrapped up. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:43.319 And then I wanted La on my middle finger on. 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:46.520 My left hand for so long Eastern I was like, 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:49.920 I'm not going to get any tattoos on my left 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:53.040 hand because that's the hand that you put. 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:56.200 You said I would say this, I'm like your ring 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:57.000 finger hand. 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:58.760 Oh that's why this hand is clean. 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:01.000 I told you, like I wanted to one of mine 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:02.400 on my left but I was like, I just want 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:05.480 it for like, for clean hand for when I never 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:06.080 get married. 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:09.440 Well, it's always nice to just like know that there's 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:11.800 a possibility a fifty to fifty show it's. 0:02:11.600 --> 0:02:14.200 Clean if there is one, not to tattoo for the 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:17.639 wife or anything. I just want to clean reading fingerhead. 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:19.760 I totally get that. So is that whole arm clean? 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:21.840 The whole Yeah, I'm keeping the whole thing clean. 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:25.079 Yeah, my left arm is where I have the eight 0:02:25.080 --> 0:02:26.320 oh one tattoo. 0:02:26.080 --> 0:02:28.079 But that's on your shoulder, so that you're good. 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:29.200 I'm fine. 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:30.919 But I was like, you know what, I'm going to 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.520 get the LA on the left middle finger because it 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:36.000 looks cute. I like, drew it on with a sharpie, 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:39.520 loved it. I was like, I'm most likely never going 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:41.799 to get married, and even if I do have a 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:44.520 ring on the finger for like commitment purposes, like do. 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:48.480 I really care? No different thinking process. 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:50.440 So I tell Iggy, I'm like, this is where I 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:53.880 want it. He said, it's if you go deep into 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:54.600 the skin. 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:57.280 On the finger, it's going to blow out. 0:02:57.560 --> 0:03:00.240 It's not going to look like that sharpie does because 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:02.679 that sharpiet is basically a surface tattoo. 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:04.200 So he goes, So. 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.000 I'll go on more of the top of the skin. 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:07.680 I won't go deep. He goes, but then it's going 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:10.119 to fade very quickly. But if you want, I can 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:11.680 come back and touch it up whenever. And I'm like, 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:16.560 I don't like maintenance. I don't like maintenance. So I 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:19.040 put on my right hand just right there. He said 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:20.000 that was a good spot. 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:20.800 I like it. 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:22.240 Yeah, I really love them. 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.760 They're like super delicate and fine. And now I think 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:27.520 I am done unless I have a third kid. 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:29.440 So you're not done, which. 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.880 Is that very So we're not done with tattoos, is 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:33.520 what we just came to the conclusion of. 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:36.360 Mom loves to be like, why are you getting hand tattoos? 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:38.000 I didn't even tell her I was doing the la one. 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:41.760 She's like, look at my hands. They're old and wrinkly 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.760 and have veins and spots. This is what it's going 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:47.560 to look like, Lauren. And I was like, I just 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:49.960 feel like those hands are not my hand's future. 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:54.920 And even if it's an exposure, I just have a 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:59.480 feeling that down the line there are gonna be tattoo 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:02.440 removals that don't hurt or are very easy. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:04.040 Well, like just like a cream or something. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:05.680 Yeah, or there's going to be a cream for your 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:08.080 hands not to look like a catcher's mit at sixty 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:10.640 years old. Oh, I love that, you know, Like there's 0:04:10.680 --> 0:04:13.720 gonna be some more like skin treatments. 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:16.680 And I think just down the line when I have 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:19.360 to worry, by the time you're over it, I'll there's 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:19.920 a solution. 0:04:20.640 --> 0:04:22.640 I fully agree with you, Like I'll be able to 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:24.000 just walk through a machine or something. 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:27.080 Yeah, right, I have to believe that because if I don't, 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:27.880 then I'll go crazy. 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:31.240 I don't like forever, so. 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:33.240 I'm a weirdness like I don't like commitment and I 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:34.560 don't like the thought of forever. 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:37.080 But just like, put this forever thing on my body. 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:38.120 I'm not kidding you. 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:40.719 When you were telling me about the botched tattoos that 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.440 you've seen and things like that, like did you start pacing? 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:48.320 Yeah, it's very important you make sure that all looks right. 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:51.400 He was starting to tattoo the numbers and I was like, oh, 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:53.880 what what have we got down there? Right? He was like, 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:54.800 do you want to take a look? 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:57.480 And I looked three times over again because I was 0:04:57.800 --> 0:05:02.720 so nervous. They're good though, They're good great. Still worried though, 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:03.920 I still look down and I'm like. 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:08.080 But are they I mean too late now, buddy, No, 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:09.039 it's never too late. 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:11.080 Did you watch Happy Gilmore too? 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:15.480 Let me put it to you this way. I have 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:19.360 troubles like just falling asleep. I have fallen asleep twice. 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.880 I've tried to watch it in the movie twice over, 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:24.880 and I've never had somebody. 0:05:24.440 --> 0:05:28.280 Put me in such a like zen state. 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:31.680 Yeah, Like so it wasn't boring. 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:33.679 No, it's it's amazing. I mean a lot of people 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:35.880 are like there's too much going on, and it's like 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:40.480 it's happy Gilmore too. We know that it's full of cameos, yeah, 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:46.280 of just random people, like it's his The thing is he's. 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.719 He kills his wife on accident, right I saw that? 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:53.719 Yeah, so just funny off the bat, But like he 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:55.640 has to go back and play because his daughter is 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:57.320 really good at ballet and dance. 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:00.560 So and his wife plays the ballet teacher. Yes, and 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:03.640 his actual daughter plays, and then his other. 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:08.359 Daughter plays the AA meeting. She's the drunk. 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:11.480 Oh really yeah, So like he goes to the AA 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:15.120 meetings that aren't like AA meetings, but his other daughter 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.919 in real life is like tattooed in it and like 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:20.440 telling him that it's going to be all right, and 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:23.600 then forgetting his name, but he was the. 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.760 Wow are you talking about Shooter McGavin. 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:34.600 No, the other one who played his grandma's and I'm 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:36.760 forgetting his name, but he's in everything. His dad is 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:41.400 in Seinfeld Stellar Ben Stiller still yea, So. 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.120 He plays like the AA guy. 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:46.960 So it's kind of like he put his Happy Gilmore's 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.200 grandma through hell and now. 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:52.800 He's putting Happy Gilmore through hell. So it's just like 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:53.800 a lot of fun things. 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.160 But it was like, what was Kid Cuddy's camp? Did 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:57.799 he have a cao or a pretty large. 0:06:57.600 --> 0:07:01.719 Part because Eminem, yeah, I haven't seen that cameo, but 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:03.840 like they're just face to face and Eminem just says 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.039 something and like a little hat and stuff, but like, yeah, 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:07.400 he's got a It's unreal. 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:08.279 And that's the thing. 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:12.960 Eminem doesn't do anything anything, Yeah, and I love everything 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:14.840 that he does, even in I. 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:16.679 Can't remember the name of the video or the movie, 0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:18.560 but it's Interview. 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:21.560 Or something like that where they go over to North 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:27.320 Korea to like interview Jim but like no Ki Kim 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:31.360 jong un whatever. But in the movie he's talking to 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.320 Eminem and Eminem is like, he's like, yeah, you have 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:36.280 a lot of things that relate to you liking guys, 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:39.440 and he goes, yeah, I do, I do, and like 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:42.160 the part of him to play that like you never 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:43.560 get Eminem, and then he goes and. 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:45.640 Plays this part of like no, he's incredible. 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:46.240 Yeah, so he. 0:07:46.320 --> 0:07:51.000 Played in that they obviously, I you brought it up 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:55.960 to me, but I caught it was the Disney Channel Star. 0:07:56.480 --> 0:08:01.080 Yeah, because Happy Gilmour came out well before or The Descendants, 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:04.680 which was on Disney channels. So there was like in 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:10.880 a scene where Cameron Boyce is on the screen, it's. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:15.400 Let me put it this way, it's like a caddyshack. 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:17.480 Yes, that's exactly what it is. 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:20.000 And then like the screen is in the back of 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:22.480 it where the people are working, yes, and like on 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.480 the TV screen you see Cameron voice. 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:28.680 And he passed away a few years ago from complications 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:35.240 with epilepsy, and everyone was like beside themselves because he 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.880 was like the Disney heart throb, right. 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:40.640 I mean, he was the in my opinion, he was 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:41.760 going to be the zac Efron. 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:44.600 Yeah. He just had like a very bright future, and 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:47.640 I think a lot of people didn't know. It's so 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:50.520 interesting when you see someone who blows up and you 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:54.080 only know them for that and then you start seeing 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.160 them in things where you were like, I had no 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:57.240 idea that he was in this. 0:08:57.360 --> 0:08:58.520 It's like Michael B. 0:08:58.679 --> 0:09:03.680 Jordan, who I first saw him when he was in 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:07.440 Hardball with Keanu Reeves and then he just blew up right. 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:10.520 I had such a crush on him when he was 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:14.839 in Hardball. Oh my god, anytime it came to the 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:17.800 point where they kicked him off the team because he 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:22.760 was too old. I started the movie over the devastating 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:23.320 don't buy. 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:25.240 Come Back and player No, I can't even remember. 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:26.319 No, don't you remember? 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:28.760 He like gets caught up in like not a good life, 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:33.040 and then the shooting happens and g baby gets hit 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:37.319 by a ricochet bullet. No, the movie is heartbreaking. Oh 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:39.120 my god, how did that take a turn? There was 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:42.000 also you pointed this out to me that there was 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:43.800 a tribute to Chris Farley. 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:45.679 Were like at the end of Happy Gilbart too. 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:46.360 So it's. 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:51.160 Chris Farley and Tommy Boy and he's just walking by 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:52.319 himself down. 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:55.880 Just a street, like a dirt road. 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:57.080 Yeah. 0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:59.800 And in the end of the movie of Have You 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:02.000 Go Toppy Gilmore, he grabs his clubs out of the 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:04.000 back of the car and then it like switches to 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:05.360 the same camera angle. 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:09.280 So it paid tribute to Chris Farley. 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:13.320 Every time you guys I put Sosa in her sleep suit, 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:16.199 it's like this puff suit, like this. 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:20.440 Fat guy in a little kind and. 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:23.280 I feel it's so funny because she's just so big 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:23.800 and awkward. 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:25.240 Like I take her out and she's. 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:28.400 Just like this, and it's exactly like she has to 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:29.640 become a giant potato. 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:30.719 That's all. 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:33.760 She is, just a big potato that just doesn't move 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:34.280 here and there. 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:36.880 I know when she's pushing eleven months and I have her, 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:41.680 I have her in a sleep suit and a weighted blanket. 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:44.760 You put this girl in just her pjs, she stores 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:48.600 one or the other. She's up and bounces and you 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:51.000 can't get her to bed, like it wakes her up. 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:54.760 I finally got her down. She's teething right now, and 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:56.160 so I had to make her fat guy in a 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:56.760 little coat again. 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:59.800 I was like, you may need to get another coat 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:03.000 because I saw her on well, yeah, I saw her 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:03.880 on the. 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:06.240 They don't make the most kids should be out of those. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:10.560 We got to get a weighted blanket. 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:12.520 But like when I saw her, I was on the 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:13.200 baby monitor. 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:15.679 You guys, obviously I've never seen it, but you guys 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:16.520 weren't freaking out. 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:18.760 I saw her and she was standing. 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:22.160 I sprinted upstairs to get her because I was like, 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:24.400 oh no, because you guys. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:25.000 Were like out at the pool. 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.120 But like you had just seen her like that, So 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:29.920 I was like, because I go, she was standing and. 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:30.840 You go, yeah, she does that. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:31.120 Now. 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:35.040 I was like, I thought she was gonna be and 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.880 she's chewing the wood, isn't she is? 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:39.400 She is? She? 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.000 Well, I think she needs her top teeth. 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:44.480 But I think that's why she was losing her mind 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:46.559 yesterday because she's in prime teething. 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.080 Well, I see like the little lights of them on 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:50.360 the top of her guns now. 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:51.880 And that before. 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:55.199 I texted Janet and I was like, I cannot kick 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:58.800 it today because my kid is beside herself and she goes, 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:01.120 did you have you felt any spikes? And I was like, 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:05.080 I just don't feel comfortable shoving these nails into her 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:09.880 mouth because even when you wash your hands thoroughly, like 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:14.319 these are fake nails, you don't know what what's happening. 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:17.720 I know that sounds horrendous. Most of us have fake nails, 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:20.040 but like, I just don't feel comfortable being like what's 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:21.040 going on in here? 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:23.760 I agree, but like, couldn't you do like the top 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:26.160 like stick it your finger just lightly and do like 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:29.480 the top knuckle where maybe it's not as filthy touching 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:29.959 and things? 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:30.680 Do you get what I'm. 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:31.319 Saying, you know what I did. 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:32.680 I wash my hands and then I put a little 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:35.560 glove on to feel around, and the gums just felt super, 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:36.400 super swollen. 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:40.240 It was her eyes are all red and her nose. 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:42.199 She's looked better, for sure. 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:43.640 She's going through right now. 0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:56.640 Yeah, I didn't have that problem with Ocean on the 0:12:56.720 --> 0:12:57.920 heels of this whole. 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.080 I was talking to mom about this the other day too. 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:05.800 The Brian Coburger and him taking the Plea deal and 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:09.440 getting life. Can I tell you so, we watched One 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:14.199 Night in Idaho and it's a docu series, four episodes 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:16.240 on Amazon. 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:16.920 Very well put together. 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:21.280 It was so well put together because for the first 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:29.840 time we were able to listen to Ethan Chapin's parents 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:33.160 and Mattie Mogan's. 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:35.680 Mom and dad, and the siblings and. 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:37.800 The siblings, and it was the first time that it 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:41.320 wasn't just an interview about what happened. 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:48.120 Was it wasn't just a murder case. I got to know, you. 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:49.480 Got to know the victims. 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:51.960 And on the other side, you got to see how 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:56.040 deeply affected all these people were with the media. 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.520 Yeah, I have a bone to pick with people. 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:02.720 Well, here's the thing that I was feeling a little 0:14:02.760 --> 0:14:05.640 guilty about a lot of a lot of guilt. You know, 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:08.320 we have a podcast where you talk about things that 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:12.280 are in the news. Right there are people who are 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:17.560 like internet sleuths who are out here to solve murders. 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:21.040 They're going in and like circling pictures and you know, 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:22.120 putting in and. 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:22.680 They do well. 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:24.800 Like I'm not going to say that they don't, but 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:29.120 like when you're bringing up twenty year olds and things 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.280 like that, and you're just the internet sleuth and saying, 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:37.400 are the two that survived Dylan and why aren't they getting. 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:39.880 Charged at the I'm saying, they're like, these two are 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:43.640 not innocent. And they had a psychologist on there who said, 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:46.440 you know, people want to talk about Dylan's behavior in 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:50.880 that moment, and what she did was actually very normal 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:54.160 for a person of her age when you start going 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:59.160 in to trauma. You know, she's opened the door, she's 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:02.440 seen someone she does not recognize, and she's heard voices. 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:05.320 You can't say what you would have done because in 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:06.400 that moment. 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:11.000 There are people who fight flight or freeze. 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:14.240 And I know, just based off of my mom when 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.120 things have happened, like she's a freezer. 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:17.680 She doesn't No, she can't move. 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:18.360 Yeah. 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:23.520 So we watched these episodes and I just like it 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:26.440 was so heartbreaking. 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:29.960 I didn't there were times where like I didn't want 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:31.480 to watch it, and I should have been honest and 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:34.080 been like, this is right, it's ruining my sleep in 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:34.560 a sense. 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:35.840 Yeah, I didn't say. 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:38.800 I was constantly it was wild that I would like 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:42.840 sometimes at night all wake up to certain noises. But 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:45.360 after watching that, it was the first time that I 0:15:45.480 --> 0:15:48.360 was actually feeling like if someone were in here right now, 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:54.080 I can't imagine the fear. I can't imagine living in 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:57.760 a place where like nothing really happens. You know everybody 0:15:57.840 --> 0:15:59.479 you go to the same place. 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:01.080 You leave it, you lock your doors. 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:04.640 Yeah, like I remember one of them said, I don't 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:09.680 remember ever locking my door behind me because everybody knew everybody. 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:10.480 Yeah. 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:12.840 Yeah, that's the weird thing. 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:14.560 And that's why I feel like I haven't been sleeping 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:18.200 is there's so many stories. Okay, there were four victims, 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:20.920 and it's like, Okay, I'm waking up and it's like, 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:22.320 am I the victim. 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:24.320 Or am I the person hearing the sounds of this? 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:27.360 So I'm like, because I saw so much, I'm when 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:29.320 I was sleeping. I was like getting up out of sleep, 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:32.440 like okay, okay, yeah. 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:34.080 And then I'd walk around just to make sure I 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:37.640 didn't see anybody, Like it really took a toll on me. 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:40.960 And let's also remember that it was a night of like, 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:43.800 they're college students, they were partying, it was Saturday night. 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:46.720 It was a Saturday night. Whether they were drinking, smoking. 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:51.160 Weed, vaping, taking a shop to who gives one shit? Right, 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:55.760 they were having fun, living a very normal college experience. 0:16:56.280 --> 0:17:01.040 So when Dylan opens the door, we don't know her 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:04.320 state of mind, right, No, she's a twenty twenty one 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:07.680 year old girl in college living her best life, being 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:10.120 a normal chit going to see. 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:11.680 Who thinks that this is ever gonna happen. 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:12.439 Ever in your life? 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:19.720 Right? And I love that. I loved the statements from 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:24.240 what is it called when you like the families can 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:28.160 stand up and address the killer of a victim statement, 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:31.240 it's a victim statement, the victim statements. 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:36.560 We're fucking off Kylie's sister, Kayleie, Kaylee Kaylee's sister. 0:17:36.560 --> 0:17:39.879 Olivia, where she was like, you came in in the 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:40.920 middle of the night. 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:43.080 Like a fucking pedophile. 0:17:43.960 --> 0:17:46.040 I'm like, get him. 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:46.359 No. 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:49.520 I loved when she just said, and if you, if 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:51.359 you would have attacked them and when they were. 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:54.520 Awake, yeah, Kaylee would have kicked your fucking ass and 0:17:54.600 --> 0:17:55.080 she would have. 0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:55.720 I could tell that. 0:17:57.119 --> 0:17:58.440 I was reading comments. 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:01.919 Okay, So I feel one of two ways, Like the 0:18:02.080 --> 0:18:05.080 Chapins didn't go. They didn't want to give him an 0:18:05.119 --> 0:18:07.760 ounce of time, and Mom was like, that's how I 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:10.399 would have been. I loved what Olivia said because she 0:18:10.440 --> 0:18:13.320 wanted him to know, like you, you're not going to 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:16.360 get through to someone like him who can literally stab 0:18:17.640 --> 0:18:21.600 Just the two victims were stabbed a total of eighty times. 0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:24.520 We don't know how many times the other two. So 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:26.800 when you're talking to someone like that, they don't care 0:18:27.359 --> 0:18:29.480 you saying you took someone that I loved. 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:31.800 He feels nothing. He's a fucking robot. He's a weirdo. 0:18:32.080 --> 0:18:34.560 Yeah. No, one kills four people the way he does 0:18:34.600 --> 0:18:35.320 and has feelings. 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:37.480 No, So the way you get to him is either 0:18:37.480 --> 0:18:40.320 giving him no attention at all or telling him like 0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:43.600