WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: My Ex Can't Let You Go 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:01.520 All right, we got some drama for you today. 0:00:01.520 --> 0:00:03.120 It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning on the Second 0:00:03.200 --> 0:00:08.960 Date Podcast because it's awkward Tuesday. Yes, I mean, honestly, 0:00:09.039 --> 0:00:12.959 today is a lot this poor girl and the DM 0:00:13.080 --> 0:00:16.959 she received from a complete stranger. So to that in 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:19.240 just a second. But first we need to rewind. We 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:21.960 need to go back to yesterday and talk air friers. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:24.560 Oh yeah, we do, because you guys were talking air 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:29.280 friers in the comments that lit up our comments section yesterday's. 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:29.640 Second Date update. 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:31.160 We live in a world. 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:35.240 Wow, you're on her side? Send yeah, okay, okay, okay, 0:00:35.240 --> 0:00:35.800 what do you see it? 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:36.040 Like? 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:38.360 Honestly, it was funny. It was really like fifty to fifty. 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:39.760 There was a lot of like, you know, she doesn't 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:42.880 have emotional maturity, blah blah blah. But then these ones 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:45.440 were my favorite I got. I don't usually comment, but 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:47.720 I felt compelled to on this one. Air Friers are 0:00:47.800 --> 0:00:51.520 awesome and as you guys were recording this, I'm making 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:54.760 myself a four course meal in both of my air Friars. 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:59.880 And finally, Airfriar's rock. He should be in the hospital 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:01.720 as m h. 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:04.800 Oh my god, I don't have one still maybe I 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:05.560 should get one. 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:06.399 You're pretty cool. 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:09.560 They're nice, but they take up so much space on 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:10.080 your counter. 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:14.000 It's true, they're not like aesthetically Yeah, okay, all right, 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:16.440 well maybe talking about air friars for another attend week. 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:17.839 We really could, but we won't. 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:20.640 Let's get into the new awkward Tuesday phone call happening 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:21.120 right now. 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.440 Don't you hate it when a random thing pops up 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:30.360 that instantly reminds you of your ex It could be 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:33.560 like a certain song, or a funny meme, or the 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:34.959 smell of an old dumpster. 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:38.600 At least, that's what reminds Brook of all of her exes. 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:43.280 But one of our listeners says she literally hadn't thought 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:46.280 about her old boyfriend in years till she got a 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:50.600 random DM from a complete stranger, and what it said 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:53.640 left all of us shocked. So she sent us an 0:01:53.760 --> 0:01:56.840 urgent email asking for help. You're gonna hear why and 0:01:56.920 --> 0:01:59.279 your awkward Tuesday phone call next. 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:01.560 It's awkward. 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:02.840 It's Tuesday. 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:05.520 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:09.200 You ever have someone from your past suddenly pop up 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:13.200 again out of nowhere like a giant ZiT right before 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:17.120 your wedding day? And now you got a dilemma where 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:19.440 it's like, do I just ignore this thing and let 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:22.520 it hopefully go away on its own, or do I 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:25.720 bust out the tweezers and hydrogen peroxide and attack this 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:26.640 ZiT head on. 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.160 You're not supposed to, but you probably are going to 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:29.640 attack it. 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:31.000 There's something well. 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:33.680 One of our listeners is dealing with that issue where 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:38.080 somebody from her past has suddenly resurfaced in her life 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:43.880 and she's decided she needs help popping that zits. 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:46.360 Jose is the only one that likes that stuff. 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:50.519 It's only analogy I could think of, But let's talk 0:02:50.560 --> 0:02:53.080 to Amanda about it. Amanda, welcome to the show. 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:56.120 Hey, thanks so much for having me. I appreciate it. 0:02:56.200 --> 0:02:58.200 Can't wait to hear who the pus filled person is. 0:02:59.520 --> 0:03:03.000 We're like, yeah, we'll try to help you. 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:05.680 Tell us who from your past is suddenly back to 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:06.680 haunt you. 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:10.360 So I dated this guy a while back, but we've 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:10.960 broken up. 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:13.160 It's an X Well. 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.880 I get a d M from a random woman and 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.600 she asked me, how are you dating this guy? 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:22.200 She's asking if you're dating your ex boyfriend now. 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:25.880 She said, if I had dated this guy. 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:28.079 She's asking it past ten okay, so maybe she's doing 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:29.679 some research or something. 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:32.160 You know, right, which I mean, it's weird, but I 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:36.160 had no reason to laugh where I said, yes old. 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:40.800 She tells me that she's dating him now, which cool, okay, great? 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:46.680 Is that the one sentence response she said, because that's awkward. 0:03:49.240 --> 0:03:52.680 He's mine now, you should know that. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:59.080 But yeah, objectively, that's weird. We agree, well, and. 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:00.800 That's kind where I thought it would stop. But she 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:04.760 starts asking me all of these personal questions about myself, 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:09.520 like what just kind of things, I like, style questions, 0:04:09.560 --> 0:04:10.600 and I'm sort of like. 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:13.680 Oh, like personal stuff, not like questions about you and 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:15.440 your relationship with your ex. 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:19.680 Exactly, huh, which I don't know that. I don't know 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:22.400 this person at all. So I said, why are you 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:23.880 asking me this? What's going on? 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.920 Maybe she's just a really bad stalker, like too upfront 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.279 about getting all the information. 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:30.400 Save me the time from scrolling, and. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:33.480 Just tell me now, I'm going to find out this 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:36.040 information one way or the other, so just out with it. 0:04:36.440 --> 0:04:37.440 What does she say to you? 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:41.640 Well, she tells me that he still had my picture 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:45.039 up in his place. Oh wow, so she's wondering there's 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:47.240 something going on between us. Still are we hooking up? 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:48.200 Texting? 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:49.440 What's the deal? 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:52.800 Oh god? He still has your photo? Why did you 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:54.440 guys break up? Have we asked that? 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:57.560 It's been a few years, and that's my order. I 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:00.040 was like, look, I haven't spoken to that guy. I 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.240 thought about him. I'm like one hundred percent moved on. 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:06.679 Were you like freaked out or what is your reaction 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:08.360 to him still having your photo up? 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:09.080 That is so bizarre? 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:10.520 Freaked out or flattered? 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:15.320 I was a little shocking. I mean, yeah again, I'm like, 0:05:15.400 --> 0:05:18.200 I'm totally done. I've moved on. It's years, So. 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:20.600 Why is it still bothering you? Like, shouldn't you just 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:21.520 be like, oh weird? 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:22.080 Move on? 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:24.440 I mean I thought that would be the end of it. 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:27.080 I told her nothing's going on, and then a few 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.360 weeks later, I get another message from her saying that 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:32.440 she's at a bar right by my place and wants 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:34.039 to know if I can meet with her to chat. 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:37.160 What oh god, what is she doing? 0:05:38.000 --> 0:05:38.200 Wait? 0:05:38.960 --> 0:05:40.240 Like, is this a girl thing? 0:05:40.560 --> 0:05:45.479 Like, it's not your problem, this would be it's weird 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.520 of her. Did you go to drinks with her? 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:50.719 Well? I was pretty hesitant, but she promised me it 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:52.800 was going to be quick, and she said she really 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:55.600 needed to talk to me. 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:58.159 If it's quick, if you're paying, let's go in and 0:05:58.200 --> 0:05:59.279 out what the heck is going on? 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:00.839 And you want to see what looks like in real life? 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:04.080 I mean. 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:06.640 This when I'm just curious. 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:07.720 Right, that curiosity? 0:06:09.480 --> 0:06:10.080 So how to go? 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:11.120 Happened? 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:14.800 So I went down there. She's already sitting down having 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:18.200 a drink by herself at the bar. I walk over, Stay, hi, 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:20.480 you know, I'm a little nervous, and she just jumps 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:22.400 up and gives me this like weird hug. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:28.240 I mean maybe, like sometimes when I feel uncomfortable, I 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:29.400 will hug people. 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:32.000 Better than a handshake. 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:34.920 Yeah, for sure, punch to the chin. 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:36.680 There. 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:40.000 Okay, that's obviously a weird start, but not the worst thing, 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:40.560 I guess. 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:42.680 Yeah, it's sort of like what does she want? Does 0:06:42.720 --> 0:06:44.440 she want to know more about this guy? 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:44.680 Like? 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:48.520 Is she? And turns out we just have this incredibly 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:53.159 awkward conversation where she's asking me about my skincare and 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:56.240 my hair routine, what kind of music I like? 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:57.360 No? 0:06:57.680 --> 0:06:59.440 Is she like trying to be more like? 0:06:59.680 --> 0:06:59.880 Yeah? 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.880 I said, because I was thinking that it just seemed 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:05.000 like maybe she doesn't have a ton of friends and 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:08.320 a girlfriend. 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:12.600 Because they have a common interest. No, I guess something 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:16.640 that they share. No, it's funny, but yeah, not exactly healthy. 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:19.400 I mean, you left that meeting feeling. 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:22.040 What it was so weird. I mean she was nice, 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:24.760 but I finally kind of got myself out of there 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:27.440 by saying I had to leave for work and she's 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:32.720 messaging me again. Now wow, Now what. 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:33.840 She's messaging you about? 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.679 What she wants to hang out? It sounds like hang out. 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:39.679 Yes, So I'm curious what made you email the show 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:42.320 for help today with your awkward Tuesday phone call? 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:43.440 What are you looking to do here? 0:07:44.160 --> 0:07:47.080 Well, at this point, I feel like I just need 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:49.040 to tell her. It's not that I have any ill 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.920 will towards her or towards my ex, but I just 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:54.200 don't want to be friends. And I feel like I've 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:56.720 tried to deliver this message and I just want to 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:59.880 be polite so that she doesn't think that were enemies. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:01.960 But right, totally, I don't know what to do at 0:08:01.960 --> 0:08:02.400 this point. 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:04.960 Oh my gosh, this is so. 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:06.800 Awkward, extremely awkward. 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:09.880 Oh, which makes me happy for the segment of the show, 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.680 But like for you, Amanda, I'm not sure how I 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.680 would feel if I was in your shoes right now, 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:17.280 I'd be extremely nervous to make this call for her. 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:19.560 She could possibly get her feelings hurt, and you don't 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:22.200 want that. Like, she's not a bad person, it sounds 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:23.360 like exactly. 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:26.360 So that's why I've reached out to you. I don't 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:27.480 I just don't know what to do. 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:30.240 Okay, man, Well, We're I going to try and think 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:32.480 of some advice for you and come back. Let you 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:36.559 make your awkward Tuesday phone call to your ex boyfriend's 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:40.480 new girlfriend. 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:42.800 A premature on that, but tell her I. 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:45.559 Don't want to be friends with you politely, Yeah, right 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:45.960 after this. 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:50.400 Hold on, it's awkward. 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:55.480 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. It's one thing to have 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:58.800 to tell your ex boyfriend, hey, stop texting me. 0:08:58.960 --> 0:08:59.760 Yeah, that's easy. 0:08:59.880 --> 0:09:03.479 It's a whole nother situation to tell your ex boyfriend's 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:05.640 new lady to leave you alone. 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:06.839 Everybody likes you. 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:10.800 Jame's lonely and needs friends like that's the hardest part 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:11.040 of it. 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:11.440 Yeah. 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:14.120 That's what brought our listener Amanda to the show today 0:09:14.120 --> 0:09:16.480 because she's been broken up with a dude for years, 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:20.079 but recently she's been getting text messages from the new 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:23.600 woman her ex's seeing, and this woman is asking Amanda 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:25.520 very personal questions. 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:27.440 She's wanting to grab drinks. 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:29.400 So they did grab drinks, just did wild. 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:32.599 She wants to hang out more and get matching Brazilians 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:35.439 with her together or whatever it is that girls like 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:38.880 to do. I don't know how the girl hangouts go, 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:42.720 but it's just getting super awkward. So she needs advice 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:45.920 on how to deliver the message I don't want to 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.960 hang out with the clingy new girlfriend of my crazy 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:49.880 ex boyfriend. 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:51.920 But how does she say that more gently? 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:55.920 Because, like Brook was saying, there's a chance this woman 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.240 is just super lonely and is looking for a friend 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:01.400 in her life. So, Jose, what's your advice to Amanda 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:03.040 before she makes her awkward call here? 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:04.000 Well, so you. 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:06.439 Don't sound so harsh like what we think is right, 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:09.720 she really just needs friends and she's lonely. Just blame 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:10.599 the situation. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:11.520 What do you mean? 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:15.199 No one should be friends with the person dating their ex, 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:19.120 just like ever, like anyone. So you don't dislike her, 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:20.719 It's just the situation you're in. 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:24.800 I'm sorry you don't make it personal about her. It's 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:29.760 just any situation involving crossover between xes and the new relationships. 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:30.520 It's a bad idea. 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:32.920 It could seem like she's not over the ex. 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:35.520 Then well he's saying like, don't do with the ex 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:37.440 either too. Yeah, what do you think, bro? 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:40.440 I think you need to blame somebody else. Yeah, and 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:42.960 you need to say that you've got a new man 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:47.520 who's super jealous and just just doesn't want you to 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:50.239 have anything to do with the ex or the girlfriend, 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:50.920 any of it. 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:54.559 Yeah, he's really rich, but I mean he totally. 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:55.360 Sucks what I'm dating on me. 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:56.959 When do you think of that, Amanda? 0:10:57.679 --> 0:11:02.080 I think you are both great ideas. So I'm hopeful 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:04.640 she'll be receptive to something. 0:11:04.679 --> 0:11:08.120 Just because you're not trying to crush her with this message. 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:11.080 You're just trying to politely back away from any interaction 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:12.079 with her or your ex. 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:16.360 Me some boundaries, and it seems like it needs to 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:17.920 be a really specific boundary. 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:20.720 Boundaries are a good word. Maybe you can throw that 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:23.040 in there. But I'm going to dial this other woman. 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:24.120 Her name is Courtney. 0:11:24.160 --> 0:11:29.880 You said, mm hmm, okay, you're so nervous you okay, okay, 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:30.439 thank you. 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.040 We're going to be waiting to jump in if we 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:34.640 feel like you need a little bit of help. 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:37.640 But this is all you. Good luck. I don't remember 0:11:37.720 --> 0:11:38.439 right now here we go. 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:56.960 Hello, Hey Courtney, this is Amanda, Amanda Seawan's ex. 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:04.240 Oh hey, I was gonna text you later. That's so funny. 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:08.320 Oh okay, what's up? What's going on? 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:10.920 Yeah? Because I have an extra ticket to the Sean 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.840 Paul concert next weekend, so I want to see if. 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:21.400 You could go with me. You know, I probably shouldn't, 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:23.200 but thank you. I appreciate it. 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:24.840 Oh why not? 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:28.880 It'll be fun. We can grab drinks before we can 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:29.360 get our. 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:33.760 Pre funk on you know by now. 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:38.920 That does sound fun, but I am gonna have to 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:48.880 pass ah shuck, And I don't know that we should spend. 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:49.400 More time together. 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:51.800 Wait, what do you mean. 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:56.600 I'm gonna be like completely honest with you. It just 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:59.960 feels really weird for me that my extoss current girl 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:06.560 and wants to hang out with me. Oh why, I 0:13:06.600 --> 0:13:11.000 don't know. I mean, it's not weird for you. 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:13.960 No, I think you're actually like really cool and like 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:15.160 I kind of want to be like you. 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:18.959 You want what? 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:23.760 Yeah? Like Sean stated a lot of girls. You and 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:25.920 I both know that, and out of all of them, 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:29.000 he only talks about you, and like he still has 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:32.360 your photo up in his room and everything so weird. 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:34.600 I don't think so. 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.000 I mean, you know, like sometimes that night, like will 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:39.960 stay up and he tells me stories about you. So yeah, 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:43.000 like he just says that you were like really special 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:45.440 and like, I don't know, maybe if we hang out enough, 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:46.839 I could be more like you. 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:51.200 You know, right, I know, I'm sorry. I don't like. 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:52.559 I don't like that at all. 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:55.720 I'm so sorry. Like I did not mean for it 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.080 to sound rude. It is one hundred percent of compliments. 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:02.240 No, it's it's that, And I don't want to give 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:05.240 you advice, especially because I know you very well, but 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:08.360 I didn't know each other well. To me, any guy 0:14:08.400 --> 0:14:11.480 that's keeping old photos up or can't get over an X, 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:13.360 I mean, isn't that just kind of a red flag? 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:19.400 Wait a second, why would you say that? Well, because 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:21.800 it's true. I mean, nobody should want to be around 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.400 someone who can't let go of an X. It's I mean, 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:24.920 I don't. 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:25.520 Think that's old. 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:30.120 On a second, hold, oh my god, are you saying 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:32.840 that because you're trying to break us up? 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:37.080 No? No, no, no, no, no no no no, I'm not 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:38.160 at all. I'm just saying this. 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:41.080 Oh my god, you are like totally still. 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:43.720 I knew it. You're still in love with him. 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:46.280 Oh my god, I knew it. You you want to 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:53.640 look up with him that you know, like you want 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:55.200 to keep being you and keep looking. 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:55.480 Up with him. 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:57.600 Courtney. 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:01.520 Hello, Yes, who is it? 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:04.240 Hey? Courtney? Uh, there's actually a whole. 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:04.440 Bunch of you. 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:04.960 Who's this? 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:07.640 Okay? Hi, Courtney, hold on and let him talk and 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:08.160 he'll tell you. 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:10.480 There's a whole radio show that's on this phone call 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:13.440 right now because you're on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:15:14.240 --> 0:15:17.520 What why why boyfriend? 0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:22.040 Nobody wants to date your boyfriend except for you, Courtney. 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:22.880 We were helping. 0:15:23.000 --> 0:15:27.120 We all support your relationship with Sean. Amanda included this 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:29.240 is something called an awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:33.840 I don't an awkward What does that even mean? 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:37.280 Amanda reached out to our show because she was telling 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:41.080 us about the situation going on with you and her 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:42.760 and the ex Sean. 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:46.440 Oh my god, why couldn't we know we're like friends? 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:47.880 She could have just confronted her. 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:51.240 Well, I think, Courtney, I think there's some boundaries that 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:53.640 have been cross that you just want to listen to 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:54.960 Amanda a little bit. 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:59.000 On the only boundaries being cross is from Amanda trying 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:00.400 to break up me and Sean. 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:05.120 Amanda talked to Courtney and explain the situation. Just just 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:07.120 be honest with her, courtey. 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:11.240 I just it's been years since Sean and I were together. 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:13.840 I just don't have any interest in revisiting this part 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:18.680 of my life. And I just think it's such a situation. 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:21.120 Whatever you say, are you not listening to her? 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:25.160 Cortey, He's saying, she's it doesn't matter because it's not real. 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:29.600 What Look at this point, it's shocking to me that 0:16:29.640 --> 0:16:31.600 you could possibly think that I would want to be 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:34.240 with Sean. I mean, you're the one that initiated this 0:16:34.440 --> 0:16:35.320 entire friendship. 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:38.440 Well, I don't want to be friends with you anymore. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:41.440 So I'll tell you that right now, because I don't 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:44.840 like to be friends with homewreckers. 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:43.280 Oh my god. 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:47.960 Honestly, Courtney, she's got your best interest in mind. Like 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:51.160 you're going to bed at night with your boyfriend, having 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:52.560 him tell stories of his. 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:54.760 Ex girlfriend to you. If she wanted act, she could 0:16:54.760 --> 0:16:57.920 get them. That is not healthy. 0:16:58.520 --> 0:16:59.320 It's research. 0:16:59.800 --> 0:17:05.159 No, no, do not become Courtney be yourself and whoever 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:13.000 you're sorry, I got the names mixed up between you two. 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:15.400 You were saying to her earlier, Courtney that you think 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:17.400 you want to change stuff about yourself to be more 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:20.440 like Amanda so that your boyfriend feels the same way. 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:22.920 But he must like you if he's dating you right now, 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:24.320 you don't have to change yourself. 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:27.720 We're talking about all this and what we should be 0:17:27.840 --> 0:17:32.040 talking about is Amanda coming for my man. 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:37.160 If we're going to go that route, Amanda, you stay 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:38.679 away from Courtney's manage. 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:41.360 Talk to her. 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:44.000 You you terrible woman. 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:46.280 You know what? That's fine with me? 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:50.440 Okay, you're willing to break off all communication with Sean 0:17:50.480 --> 0:17:52.320 what you've already done, but you're gonna keep doing that. 0:17:53.320 --> 0:17:54.879 Yeah, okay, Courtney, is. 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:55.720 That cool with you? 0:17:55.760 --> 0:17:58.359 Stay away from him, but we can still. 0:17:58.480 --> 0:18:03.280 Be friend No, it's party. 0:18:03.280 --> 0:18:09.080 There's no friendship between you and Shawn's X. It's just yep, 0:18:09.200 --> 0:18:10.120 cut the cord here. 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:12.359 You're not in charge of my friendship with demand. Are 0:18:12.400 --> 0:18:13.520 you trying to break us up? 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:16.560 Now? Oh my god, just let people live. 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:17.000 Girl. 0:18:18.960 --> 0:18:19.840 You need to block hers. 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:21.879 I've tried. 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:27.119 Itok Jeffrey in the morning, I don't know what it is. 0:18:27.160 --> 0:18:29.960 But there's some people who, if there's just not enough 0:18:30.040 --> 0:18:33.439 drama happening in their lives at the moment, they'll manufacture 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:35.919 it on their own just so that they have something 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:37.320