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Speaker 1: All right, we got some drama for you today.

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Speaker 2: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning on the Second

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Speaker 2: Date Podcast because it's awkward Tuesday. Yes, I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 2: today is a lot this poor girl and the DM

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Speaker 2: she received from a complete stranger. So to that in

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Speaker 2: just a second. But first we need to rewind. We

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Speaker 2: need to go back to yesterday and talk air friers.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we do, because you guys were talking air

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Speaker 3: friers in the comments that lit up our comments section yesterday's.

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Speaker 1: Second Date update.

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Speaker 4: We live in a world.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you're on her side? Send yeah, okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: what do you see it?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, it was funny. It was really like fifty to fifty.

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Speaker 3: There was a lot of like, you know, she doesn't

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Speaker 3: have emotional maturity, blah blah blah. But then these ones

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Speaker 3: were my favorite I got. I don't usually comment, but

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Speaker 3: I felt compelled to on this one. Air Friers are

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Speaker 3: awesome and as you guys were recording this, I'm making

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Speaker 3: myself a four course meal in both of my air Friars.

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Speaker 3: And finally, Airfriar's rock. He should be in the hospital

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Speaker 3: as m h.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't have one still maybe I

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Speaker 1: should get one.

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Speaker 4: You're pretty cool.

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Speaker 1: They're nice, but they take up so much space on

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Speaker 1: your counter.

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Speaker 3: It's true, they're not like aesthetically Yeah, okay, all right,

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Speaker 3: well maybe talking about air friars for another attend week.

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Speaker 1: We really could, but we won't.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into the new awkward Tuesday phone call happening

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 6: Don't you hate it when a random thing pops up

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Speaker 6: that instantly reminds you of your ex It could be

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Speaker 6: like a certain song, or a funny meme, or the

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Speaker 6: smell of an old dumpster.

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Speaker 4: At least, that's what reminds Brook of all of her exes.

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Speaker 6: But one of our listeners says she literally hadn't thought

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Speaker 6: about her old boyfriend in years till she got a

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Speaker 6: random DM from a complete stranger, and what it said

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Speaker 6: left all of us shocked. So she sent us an

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Speaker 6: urgent email asking for help. You're gonna hear why and

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Speaker 6: your awkward Tuesday phone call next.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward.

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Speaker 5: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 6: You ever have someone from your past suddenly pop up

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Speaker 6: again out of nowhere like a giant ZiT right before

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Speaker 6: your wedding day? And now you got a dilemma where

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Speaker 6: it's like, do I just ignore this thing and let

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Speaker 6: it hopefully go away on its own, or do I

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Speaker 6: bust out the tweezers and hydrogen peroxide and attack this

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Speaker 6: ZiT head on.

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Speaker 3: You're not supposed to, but you probably are going to

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Speaker 3: attack it.

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Speaker 4: There's something well.

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Speaker 6: One of our listeners is dealing with that issue where

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Speaker 6: somebody from her past has suddenly resurfaced in her life

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Speaker 6: and she's decided she needs help popping that zits.

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Speaker 1: Jose is the only one that likes that stuff.

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Speaker 6: It's only analogy I could think of, But let's talk

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Speaker 6: to Amanda about it. Amanda, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey, thanks so much for having me. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Can't wait to hear who the pus filled person is.

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Speaker 4: We're like, yeah, we'll try to help you.

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Speaker 6: Tell us who from your past is suddenly back to

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Speaker 6: haunt you.

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Speaker 5: So I dated this guy a while back, but we've

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Speaker 5: broken up.

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Speaker 4: It's an X Well.

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Speaker 5: I get a d M from a random woman and

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Speaker 5: she asked me, how are you dating this guy?

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Speaker 4: She's asking if you're dating your ex boyfriend now.

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Speaker 5: She said, if I had dated this guy.

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Speaker 1: She's asking it past ten okay, so maybe she's doing

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Speaker 1: some research or something.

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Speaker 5: You know, right, which I mean, it's weird, but I

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Speaker 5: had no reason to laugh where I said, yes old.

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Speaker 5: She tells me that she's dating him now, which cool, okay, great?

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Speaker 2: Is that the one sentence response she said, because that's awkward.

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Speaker 6: He's mine now, you should know that.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, objectively, that's weird. We agree, well, and.

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Speaker 5: That's kind where I thought it would stop. But she

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Speaker 5: starts asking me all of these personal questions about myself,

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Speaker 5: like what just kind of things, I like, style questions,

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Speaker 5: and I'm sort of like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, like personal stuff, not like questions about you and

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Speaker 2: your relationship with your ex.

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Speaker 5: Exactly, huh, which I don't know that. I don't know

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Speaker 5: this person at all. So I said, why are you

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Speaker 2: Maybe she's just a really bad stalker, like too upfront

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Speaker 1: Save me the time from scrolling, and.

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Speaker 6: Just tell me now, I'm going to find out this

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Speaker 6: information one way or the other, so just out with it.

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Speaker 4: What does she say to you?

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Speaker 5: Well, she tells me that he still had my picture

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Speaker 5: up in his place. Oh wow, so she's wondering there's

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Speaker 5: something going on between us. Still are we hooking up?

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Speaker 7: Texting?

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Speaker 5: What's the deal?

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Speaker 4: Oh god? He still has your photo? Why did you

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Speaker 4: guys break up? Have we asked that?

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Speaker 5: It's been a few years, and that's my order. I

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Speaker 5: was like, look, I haven't spoken to that guy. I

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Speaker 5: thought about him. I'm like one hundred percent moved on.

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Speaker 2: Were you like freaked out or what is your reaction

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Speaker 2: to him still having your photo up?

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Speaker 1: That is so bizarre?

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Speaker 4: Freaked out or flattered?

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Speaker 5: I was a little shocking. I mean, yeah again, I'm like,

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Speaker 5: I'm totally done. I've moved on. It's years, So.

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Speaker 2: Why is it still bothering you? Like, shouldn't you just

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Speaker 2: be like, oh weird?

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Speaker 1: Move on?

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Speaker 5: I mean I thought that would be the end of it.

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Speaker 5: I told her nothing's going on, and then a few

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Speaker 5: weeks later, I get another message from her saying that

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Speaker 5: she's at a bar right by my place and wants

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Speaker 4: What oh god, what is she doing?

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Speaker 5: Wait?

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Speaker 4: Like, is this a girl thing?

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Speaker 1: Like, it's not your problem, this would be it's weird

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Speaker 5: Well? I was pretty hesitant, but she promised me it

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Speaker 8: If it's quick, if you're paying, let's go in and

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Speaker 1: And you want to see what looks like in real life?

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Speaker 4: I mean.

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Speaker 5: This when I'm just curious.

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Speaker 1: Right, that curiosity?

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Speaker 9: So how to go?

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Speaker 5: So I went down there. She's already sitting down having

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Speaker 5: you know, I'm a little nervous, and she just jumps

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe, like sometimes when I feel uncomfortable, I

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Speaker 1: Better than a handshake.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure, punch to the chin.

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Speaker 5: There.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's obviously a weird start, but not the worst thing,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's sort of like what does she want? Does

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 5: Is she? And turns out we just have this incredibly

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 1: Is she like trying to be more like?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I said, because I was thinking that it just seemed

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Speaker 4: Because they have a common interest. No, I guess something

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Speaker 4: that they share. No, it's funny, but yeah, not exactly healthy.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you left that meeting feeling.

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Speaker 5: What it was so weird. I mean she was nice,

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Speaker 5: by saying I had to leave for work and she's

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Speaker 5: messaging me again. Now wow, Now what.

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Speaker 4: She's messaging you about?

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Speaker 1: What she wants to hang out? It sounds like hang out.

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Speaker 6: Yes, So I'm curious what made you email the show

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Speaker 6: for help today with your awkward Tuesday phone call?

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Speaker 4: What are you looking to do here?

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Speaker 5: Well, at this point, I feel like I just need

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Speaker 5: But right, totally, I don't know what to do at

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, this is so.

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Speaker 4: Awkward, extremely awkward.

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Speaker 6: Oh, which makes me happy for the segment of the show,

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Speaker 6: But like for you, Amanda, I'm not sure how I

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Speaker 6: I'd be extremely nervous to make this call for her.

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Speaker 2: She could possibly get her feelings hurt, and you don't

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Speaker 5: So that's why I've reached out to you. I don't

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Speaker 5: I just don't know what to do.

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Speaker 6: Okay, man, Well, We're I going to try and think

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Speaker 6: of some advice for you and come back. Let you

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Speaker 6: make your awkward Tuesday phone call to your ex boyfriend's

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Speaker 6: new girlfriend.

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Speaker 4: A premature on that, but tell her I.

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Speaker 6: Don't want to be friends with you politely, Yeah, right

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Speaker 4: Hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 6: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. It's one thing to have

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Speaker 6: to tell your ex boyfriend, hey, stop texting me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's easy.

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Speaker 6: It's a whole nother situation to tell your ex boyfriend's

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Speaker 4: Everybody likes you.

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Speaker 2: Jame's lonely and needs friends like that's the hardest part

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Speaker 2: of it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: That's what brought our listener Amanda to the show today

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Speaker 6: because she's been broken up with a dude for years,

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Speaker 6: but recently she's been getting text messages from the new

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Speaker 6: woman her ex's seeing, and this woman is asking Amanda

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Speaker 4: She's wanting to grab drinks.

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Speaker 1: So they did grab drinks, just did wild.

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Speaker 6: She wants to hang out more and get matching Brazilians

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Speaker 6: with her together or whatever it is that girls like

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Speaker 6: to do. I don't know how the girl hangouts go,

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Speaker 6: but it's just getting super awkward. So she needs advice

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Speaker 6: on how to deliver the message I don't want to

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Speaker 4: But how does she say that more gently?

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Speaker 6: Because, like Brook was saying, there's a chance this woman

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Speaker 8: Don't sound so harsh like what we think is right,

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Speaker 8: No one should be friends with the person dating their ex,

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Speaker 6: Then well he's saying like, don't do with the ex

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Speaker 2: I think you need to blame somebody else. Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's really rich, but I mean he totally.

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Speaker 5: I think you are both great ideas. So I'm hopeful

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Speaker 4: Just because you're not trying to crush her with this message.

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Speaker 6: You're just trying to politely back away from any interaction

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Speaker 6: Boundaries are a good word. Maybe you can throw that

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Speaker 6: Her name is Courtney.

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Speaker 2: You said, mm hmm, okay, you're so nervous you okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: But this is all you. Good luck. I don't remember

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Speaker 5: Hello, Hey Courtney, this is Amanda, Amanda Seawan's ex.

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Speaker 7: Oh hey, I was gonna text you later. That's so funny.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, what's up? What's going on?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Because I have an extra ticket to the Sean

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Speaker 5: You could go with me. You know, I probably shouldn't,

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Speaker 3: Oh why not?

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Speaker 7: It'll be fun. We can grab drinks before we can

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Speaker 5: Pre funk on you know by now.

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Speaker 9: That does sound fun, but I am gonna have to

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Speaker 5: More time together.

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Speaker 7: Wait, what do you mean.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be like completely honest with you. It just

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Speaker 7: No, I think you're actually like really cool and like

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Speaker 7: I kind of want to be like you.

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Speaker 5: You want what?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Like Sean stated a lot of girls. You and

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Speaker 7: I both know that, and out of all of them,

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Speaker 2: I don't think so.

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Speaker 7: I mean, you know, like sometimes that night, like will

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Speaker 7: like he just says that you were like really special

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Speaker 5: You know, right, I know, I'm sorry. I don't like.

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Speaker 5: I don't like that at all.

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Speaker 7: I'm so sorry. Like I did not mean for it

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Speaker 7: to sound rude. It is one hundred percent of compliments.

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Speaker 5: No, it's it's that, And I don't want to give

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Speaker 5: I didn't know each other well. To me, any guy

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Speaker 5: that's keeping old photos up or can't get over an X,

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Speaker 5: I mean, isn't that just kind of a red flag?

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Speaker 5: Wait a second, why would you say that? Well, because

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 9: Think that's old.

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Speaker 7: On a second, hold, oh my god, are you saying

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Speaker 5: No? No, no, no, no, no no no no, I'm not

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, you are like totally still.

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Speaker 5: I knew it. You're still in love with him.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, I knew it. You you want to

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Speaker 7: look up with him that you know, like you want

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Speaker 5: Up with him.

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Speaker 1: Courtney.

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Speaker 7: Hello, Yes, who is it?

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Speaker 4: Hey? Courtney? Uh, there's actually a whole.

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Speaker 7: Bunch of you.

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Speaker 4: Who's this?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Hi, Courtney, hold on and let him talk and

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Speaker 1: he'll tell you.

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Speaker 6: There's a whole radio show that's on this phone call

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Speaker 4: What why why boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: Nobody wants to date your boyfriend except for you, Courtney.

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Speaker 4: We were helping.

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Speaker 6: We all support your relationship with Sean. Amanda included this

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Speaker 6: is something called an awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 7: I don't an awkward What does that even mean?

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Speaker 6: Amanda reached out to our show because she was telling

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Speaker 6: and the ex Sean.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, why couldn't we know we're like friends?

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Speaker 7: She could have just confronted her.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think, Courtney, I think there's some boundaries that

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Speaker 2: have been cross that you just want to listen to

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Speaker 7: On the only boundaries being cross is from Amanda trying

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Speaker 4: Amanda talked to Courtney and explain the situation. Just just

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Speaker 5: I just it's been years since Sean and I were together.

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Speaker 5: I just don't have any interest in revisiting this part

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Speaker 5: of my life. And I just think it's such a situation.

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Speaker 2: Whatever you say, are you not listening to her?

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Speaker 7: Cortey, He's saying, she's it doesn't matter because it's not real.

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Speaker 5: What Look at this point, it's shocking to me that

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Speaker 5: you could possibly think that I would want to be

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Speaker 7: Well, I don't want to be friends with you anymore.

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Speaker 7: So I'll tell you that right now, because I don't

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Speaker 7: like to be friends with homewreckers.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, Courtney, she's got your best interest in mind. Like

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Speaker 1: Ex girlfriend to you. If she wanted act, she could

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Speaker 1: get them. That is not healthy.

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Speaker 7: It's research.

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Speaker 1: No, no, do not become Courtney be yourself and whoever

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Speaker 6: You were saying to her earlier, Courtney that you think

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Speaker 6: But he must like you if he's dating you right now,

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Speaker 6: you don't have to change yourself.

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Speaker 7: We're talking about all this and what we should be

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Speaker 2: If we're going to go that route, Amanda, you stay

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Speaker 1: Talk to her.

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Speaker 4: You you terrible woman.

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Speaker 5: You know what? That's fine with me?

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Speaker 6: Okay, you're willing to break off all communication with Sean

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Speaker 6: what you've already done, but you're gonna keep doing that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Courtney, is.

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Speaker 5: That cool with you?

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Speaker 7: Stay away from him, but we can still.

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Speaker 4: Be friend No, it's party.

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Speaker 1: There's no friendship between you and Shawn's X. It's just yep,

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Speaker 1: cut the cord here.

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Speaker 7: You're not in charge of my friendship with demand. Are

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Speaker 1: Now? Oh my god, just let people live.

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Speaker 5: Girl.

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Speaker 1: You need to block hers.

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Speaker 5: I've tried.

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Speaker 4: Itok Jeffrey in the morning, I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 6: But there's some people who, if there's just not enough

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Speaker 5: Yah.

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Speaker 3: Some might call them crazy to say that.

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Speaker 1: Some people know. If you say some people it okay.

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Speaker 4: I like it for Courtney to go from I want to.

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Speaker 6: Be exactly like you to clearly you're trying to break

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Speaker 6: me and my boyfriend up. Oh man, I mean, Alexis.

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Speaker 6: This is some Love Islands level drama that we're dealing with.

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Speaker 6: And I don't even watch that show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it gets.

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Speaker 3: Much crazier than this.

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Speaker 2: If anything, it sounds like Amanda's X really leveled up. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm not being sarcastic at all.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they're probably wild.

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Speaker 6: I can't believe it got there, and I'm not trying

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Speaker 6: to start any drama right now. But if you're listening

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Speaker 6: are you trying to cancel us?

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Speaker 5: You are? Are you? God?

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Speaker 6: I knew it's snaky snakes listening to us not subscribing.

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Speaker 4: I hate you?

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Speaker 1: Whoa go that far?

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Speaker 4: Unless you unless you hit subscribe is calling people crazy.

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Speaker 8: You're telling people you hate them.

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Speaker 4: Can I just say we actually like our listeners.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't me.

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Speaker 1: I said some people.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, some people aren't a fan of our listeners, just

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Speaker 6: some of us, just some people.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, we do like you. If you can want to subscribe,

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