1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: I uninvited my fiance's best friend from the wedding after 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: he told him to get a paternity test. Am I 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: the a hole? 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 2: We've seen it happen a thousand times. Asking for a 5 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: paternity test most of the time does not end well. 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: But at least you know the kid's yours. 7 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: That's true. 8 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 1: My fiance, Mail thirty three, has a best friend, Jason, 9 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: who is the brutally honest type and tells it how 10 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: it is. In other words, he's a dick. He himself 11 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 1: admitted how he isn't good at keeping his thoughts in 12 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: his head and losing so much because of it. My 13 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: fiance says he loves him despite his flawed personality and 14 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: expects me to let it go whenever he makes a 15 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: backhanded comment about me and my past as a former 16 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: sex worker. He was the first to be invited to 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: the wedding, and my fiance promised to make him behave 18 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: My fiance and I have found out that we were expecting. 19 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: We visited my future in law's house to make the 20 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: announcement and Jason was already there. After dinner, my fiance 21 00:00:55,640 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 1: and I stood up and made the announcements. Everyone rushed 22 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: to congratulate us, except for Jason, who sat still and 23 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: admittedly kept looking me in the eyes in a strange way. 24 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 2: No, Jason, I. 25 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: Avoided him, but then he got up, hugged my fiance 26 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: and looked him deadly eye and says three wordsman, paternity 27 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: test pronto. 28 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 2: No. 29 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: I was completely floored. Oh, everyone was shocked, but tried 30 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: to act normal, probably to diffuse the situation. But I 31 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: walked up to Jason and asked him to repeat what 32 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: he said. He tried to back off because my face 33 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: was inches away from his. He was like, chill, it 34 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: was just a joke, God, But I kept asking him 35 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: to repeat what he said over and over again. My 36 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: fiance got in the middle and told me to take 37 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: a seat and calm down. I went off on Jason, 38 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: called him an insensitive asshole and that he was officially 39 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 1: uninvited from the wedding after he accused me of being unfaithful. 40 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: Boom my drop. 41 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 42 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: Jason shouted some stuff about how I was being a 43 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 1: drama Lama, that's what an insult above nama, I don't 44 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: care who here's it? And he meant no harm and 45 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: then left in a hurry. My fiance and his mom 46 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: agreed with me being upset, but said that uninviting him 47 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: from the wedding was me going too far. My fiance 48 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: said that Jason was just joking, and I blew up 49 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: over nothing. We went home and I kind of broke 50 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 1: down in the bathroom without letting my fiance see because 51 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,839 Speaker 1: he still thought I was overreacting after I told him 52 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: how I felt about his friend ruining my joy and 53 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: humiliating me in front of my in laws? Am I 54 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: overreacting and being too emotional here? I want to know 55 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: what all of you think if you had just announced 56 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: your pregnancy and the best friend of your fiance said 57 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: that made should get a pregnancy test or that should 58 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: get a paternity test, would you want to invite that 59 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: friend from the wedding? And what do you feel bad 60 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: about it? Put your answers in the comaege right now, 61 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,919 Speaker 1: right now? But John, what do you think? 62 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 2: I don't know why he's still friends with this guy 63 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 2: I know sounds like a dick bag. Clearly he sounds 64 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 2: so stupid, so just like he just he doesn't care 65 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: about people's feelings. And like also her fiance and the 66 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 2: mom aren't caring about her feelings, Like why would you 67 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 2: let him say that to. 68 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: Her, I know, like, and it sounds like he is 69 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: a pattern of this too. 70 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 2: Yes, like it is known that he does this, So 71 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 2: I don't understand, like what is he going to say 72 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 2: at the wedding? What's he going to say at the wedding? 73 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 1: And the best man toast ship? 74 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 2: Oh my god? And then just like generally in life, 75 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 2: like I don't I would never want someone treating my 76 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 2: wife to be like that. So, like, I don't know, 77 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: he was absolutely the ahole, op not the a whole. 78 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 2: Uninvite him? 79 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: Why wedding? 80 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 2: It's your freaking wedding. 81 00:03:55,160 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: Red flag a little bit though for the fiance, Yeah, 82 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: and the mom because you do. It's when they when 83 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: they when the crazy is gang up in numbers. 84 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 2: That's why it challenge. 85 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. 86 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 2: Shit. 87 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but we want to know what you think, so 88 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: put your answers in the comments right now. And we 89 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,839 Speaker 1: love reading the comments, especially from our public subscribers. Yeah 90 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: we do. 91 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 2: I'm going to read some right now. This is from 92 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 2: the video My wedding isn't vegan, she claimed vegan discrimination. 93 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 2: This is where OPI made his brother's vegan girlfriend feel 94 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 2: alienated at the engagement dinner. Ridiculous, ridiculous keeping it short 95 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 2: and so sweet. A public subscriber, Tristian Ball said, Opie 96 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 2: is not the a hole. Oh, Tristan Ball, You're a 97 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 2: person of of few but wise words, and we appreciate 98 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 2: all of your wise and beautiful words. If you want 99 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 2: to have your comment possibly read publicly subscribe, drop your 100 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 2: thoughts in this video. We'll read it. 101 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 1: Entitled mother calls me ignorant for not sharing my Nintendo 102 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 1: with our son, But the witnesses got my back. 103 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 2: That's right, he got witnesses, Baby, take you to court. 104 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: This just happened the other day. After sharing this story 105 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: with friends and family, a few of them suggested that 106 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: I share it here. The scene a Southwest Airline flight. 107 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: I was sitting in a window seat next to two 108 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,119 Speaker 1: lovely women, and directly horizontal from us was an empty 109 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: seat a mom and her son. The flight was taking off. 110 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: For those who don't know, you were required to stay set. 111 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: It didn't keep your seat belts fastened on the beginning 112 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: of the flight until the captain said otherwise. I was 113 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: strapped into my seat and decided to take out my 114 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: Nintendo switch for my carry on beneath my feet. Excuse me, ma'am. 115 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: I didn't realize at first that the mother in the 116 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 1: seats horizontal for me was trying to get my attention. 117 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: She had buckled her belt and moved to the empty 118 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: seat by the aisle closer to me. Hmmm, ma'am, ma'am, ma'am, 119 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: with the video game. I lift my head, but the 120 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: stranger next to me nudged me as well. That lady 121 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: wants your attention. The woman next to me muttered. I 122 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: turned my head to see this woman leaning across the 123 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: aisle with her hands in the arm rest of the 124 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: eyele seat in my row. Sorry, she began, I just 125 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: want to know if there's any way that my son 126 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: could use that game for a little while. Me. I'm 127 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: so sorry, I began. My Nintendo switch is just really 128 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: important to me. I don't feel comfortable giving it to anyone. 129 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:17,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't even let my sisters play 130 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: with it. I was going to continue, but the woman 131 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: cut me off. Oh my son's not like most kids, 132 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 1: she replied. He's not destructive. His cousin had one of those, 133 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 1: and he knows how to play. 134 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 2: Don't worry, he knows how to use it. 135 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: She smiled. And set her hand out. Hah, audacity, just 136 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,359 Speaker 1: go to me. The two women seated next to me 137 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: looked at me as if they were also in disbelief. 138 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I said again. I just don't feel comfortable. 139 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: I brought it for me. How old are you, the 140 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 1: woman said with a huff, retracting her hand and slapping 141 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: it on her lap. I'm twenty five, but I don't 142 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: see how that matters, are replied, growing exceptionally uncomfortable. Well, 143 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: she began clearly sounding ajut, my son is eight, this 144 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 1: is an hour and forty five minute flight, and he 145 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: just wants something to do. He can't see it for 146 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: a few minutes. 147 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: He deserves it. He just wants something to do. 148 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: If you want him to do something, buy it for 149 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: him yourself. 150 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 2: Literally. 151 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: Uh no, I am not comfortable with that. I'm sorry, 152 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: but I'm expecting you to understand since this is my property. 153 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: I put my head down and I unpause my game 154 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: as to ignore anything. She had to further say, Are 155 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: you serious? She seemed genuinely livid. Well entitled child, Sorry, buddy, 156 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: not everyone knows how to share, the woman said to 157 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: the kid next to her. Her child started whining and 158 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: kicking the seat in front of him. Thanks for this, 159 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: she said to me. A sweet kid just wants to 160 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: share with you, and you're being ignorant about it, you idiot. Also, 161 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 1: the kid seems pretty destructive. He's kicking the seat. 162 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, he seems not like the other kids. 163 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: Before I even open my mouth, one of the ladies 164 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: in my row snap back at her. How dare you 165 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: bring that energy on this plane? She told you so 166 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: kindly that she doesn't feel comfortable with passing her electronics 167 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 1: to a stranger. The mother wasn't having it. She's an 168 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: adult and can share with a child for a few 169 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: minutes of a nearly two hour flight. You should have 170 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: brought something for him to do, then, the woman in 171 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: my rowe responded, and it shut her up good. At 172 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: the end of my flight, the woman collected her luggage 173 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: when the overhead bins and said, I hope you're happy 174 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: going against God's words not sharing with a child. Send. 175 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: The people around us giggled. I'm sure all of them 176 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 1: overheard the drama at the beginning of the flight. I've 177 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: come across some entitled people in my life, but this 178 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: strange lady took the cake. 179 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 2: Well, guess what Karen, I'm going to share with you. 180 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 2: I'm going to share these hands with your face. 181 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: It's fast. 182 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 2: The end