1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Hello, Chip, Hello, Happy Friday. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 2: Happy Friday. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 3: I mean, it feels like I talk to you every week, 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 3: but I feel like I haven't seen you in so 5 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 3: long because. 6 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 1: I'm out the world or the world. 7 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 2: How has your mouth been? 8 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 3: At the beginning of this month, in January, we introduced 9 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 3: our words of the Year, and we don't usually have 10 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 3: its theme of the month, but we did in this year, 11 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 3: and so I was kind of thinking it might be 12 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 3: nice to look back on telling the word, which we 13 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 3: asked the listeners to also like make their own words, 14 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 3: and we like to set intentions for the year, not 15 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 3: New Year's resolutions, but a word of the year. And 16 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: so Chip said his, I said mine at the beginning 17 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 3: of the month. If you guys haven't listened to that podcast, 18 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 3: go check it out. It'll help you kind of figure 19 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 3: out if you want to do that for yourself and 20 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 3: set intentions. But you set your word up to be 21 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 3: explore for this year and kind of give us a 22 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 3: little rundown of how you meant it, because it was 23 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 3: a little different than what. 24 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, so it wasn't just like, of course, there is 25 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 4: the like sort of physical manifestation of it of exploring 26 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 4: things and like going on the world, but I wanted 27 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 4: to dive a little bit deeper and explore the undersides 28 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 4: of things too, like whether it was like an interest 29 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 4: that I, you know, sort of had been dabbling with, 30 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 4: Like I really kind of want to learn a foreign language, 31 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 4: so I'm like exploring that. But like when I go 32 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 4: to a place, like I want to do things that 33 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 4: aren't necessarily tourists driven and sort of explore the place 34 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 4: on a cultural level and get a better understanding of 35 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 4: why I'm there and why you know, people choose to 36 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 4: live there and that kind of thing. And so I've 37 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,839 Speaker 4: I've you know, been grateful or I've been really lucky 38 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 4: to sort of start the year off, like fucking Christopher Carlos. 39 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 2: Oh, I feel like you have you been in Nashville 40 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 2: this month? 41 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: Barely? 42 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 4: So, yeah, I had a work travel trip to Maui 43 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 4: and you know, he stayed at this at the Ritz Carlton, 44 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 4: and it was like this lovely resort. And it's obviously 45 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 4: like Maui is a you know, a haven in and 46 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 4: of itself, is just a beautiful island, but it's like 47 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 4: that's a microcosm of it, right, because it's not the 48 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 4: real world. There's a lot of people that still struggle 49 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 4: on Maui, including the people of Lahina who lost everything 50 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 4: in the fire, and a friend of mine who lives 51 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 4: who lived in Lehina. She still lives on Maui and 52 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 4: I got to spend some time with her, and because 53 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 4: she was a resident of Lehina, she has a drive 54 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 4: on pass and I got to like go in and 55 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 4: see the devastation, like up close and personal, which is 56 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 4: just unbelievable, Like and I was a little hesitant to 57 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 4: do it because it felt a little gauwkery, but I'm 58 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 4: also like, so few people in the world are gonna 59 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 4: have the opportunity to do this and to really understand 60 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 4: what happened and see the devastation. And it was just unbelievable. 61 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 4: It looked like a bomb went off. Like I just 62 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 4: can't even explain it. But I got to see the 63 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 4: Banyan tree, which is kind of cool because it's you know, 64 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 4: it's coming back. 65 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 1: To the Bandon tree. 66 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 4: Is the big tree that was down on in the 67 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 4: square on Front Street that was like given by I 68 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 4: don't even I can't remember who it was. It was 69 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 4: a foreign dignitary gave it. I can't remember. It was 70 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 4: like Egypt. No, it was India gave it to Maui. 71 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 4: And it's like this massive tree that kind of takes 72 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 4: up a whole block and it was like this a 73 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 4: symbol of Lahina and everyone was really worried that it 74 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 4: was lost. But it looks like it's coming back to life, which, 75 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,519 Speaker 4: you know, I forget what the meaning of the bandon 76 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 4: tree is, but like there's like a lot of spiritual 77 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 4: meaning to it too. So the fact that it's coming 78 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 4: back to life and people are hopeful that it's going 79 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 4: to live is a really good thing. So getting to 80 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 4: see that was kind of cool because it's still in 81 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 4: you know, you can still see that it had suffered. Yeah, 82 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 4: and so and I, you know, I she took me 83 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 4: on some guided tours that I got to read about 84 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 4: like special places in Maui. And you know, it's funny 85 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 4: because historically when I've traveled, it's just been about having 86 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 4: a good time. Like I've never really been like a 87 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 4: museum person where I go and I read all the shit, 88 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 4: Like I'll go to a museum and look at paintings 89 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 4: and look at artifacts, but I. 90 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: Never really like dive in and like learn about it. 91 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 1: And I don't know, it just made me. 92 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 4: It makes me feel sort of like base level sometimes, 93 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 4: like because it's there to learn, not just to see. 94 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 4: So and you know, when you're in a place like Maui, 95 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 4: it's so beautiful, you just kind of want to take 96 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 4: it in. I'm like, what do I need to learn? 97 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 4: It's just fucking gorgeous. But there's a lot of heritage 98 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 4: and a lot of spiritual to a lot of spirituality, 99 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 4: and you know, lots of wars have been fought over 100 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:43,280 Speaker 4: the land and they're still you know, like the natives 101 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 4: are still fighting for their lands. So you know, it's 102 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 4: I want to respect the places that I'm visiting, so 103 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 4: I feel like I owe it to those places to 104 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 4: at least explore. 105 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: You know. 106 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then I went to I had a vacation 107 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 4: plan too, and I went to i Arta, and that, 108 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 4: I mean, it's a little harder to explore there because 109 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 4: that city is sort of set up to be just 110 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 4: sort of like a party city and a romantic city too, 111 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 4: like the zone that we stayed and was called the 112 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 4: Zona Romantica. And I was there with my boyfriend Mark, 113 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 4: and it was just a vacation for us to get away. 114 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 4: So there was some things that I wanted to do 115 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 4: that he wasn't interested in doing, and so we didn't 116 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 4: do it. You know, Like there's this little village called 117 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 4: Barde Navedad that my parents used to go to. They 118 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 4: went for like thirty five years and now they're too 119 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 4: old to travel that far. But it was like a 120 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 4: three and a half hour bus ride. And he's like, yeah, 121 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 4: I would have done it in a heartbeat, but I 122 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 4: couldn't do it without him, Like it would have been 123 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 4: a full day that we weren't together, and that's kind 124 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 4: of shitty. 125 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: But so yeah, I've done some physical exploring. I've also. 126 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,479 Speaker 4: I finally have hunkered down and decided that I'm gonna 127 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 4: have a physical journey this year and I'm gonna explore 128 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 4: that side of my will power. And I've hired a 129 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 4: virtual trainer for six months. 130 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 2: I love this virtual idea, Like, so what is tell 131 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 2: me about that? 132 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 4: So his name is Will. His name is Will Vargas. 133 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 4: And I found him because my friend Ben posted that 134 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 4: he'd been using this physical trainer and it was like, 135 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 4: I think at that point it only been a month, 136 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 4: and he did like a starting photo and his results 137 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 4: photo in a month, and he was like this guy's amazing. 138 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 1: He's doing it. 139 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 4: And this was Black Friday, so like, this is how 140 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 4: long I've sort of been sitting on it. He was 141 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 4: doing a Black Friday sale where you can get six 142 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 4: months for three months price. 143 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 2: Oh damn. 144 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 4: So I reached out to my friend Ben. I was like, 145 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 4: is this worth it? And he's like yeah, he's fucking great. 146 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 4: So basically it's a it takes the guesswork out of it, 147 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 4: and that's really the struggle for me is like I'm 148 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 4: not the type it's going to read mental health and 149 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 4: figure this out on my own. 150 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 1: I want someone to be like, this is. 151 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 4: What you're going to eat, these are the foods that 152 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 4: you can eat, this is your dietary plan, and this 153 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 4: is what your workout is going to be, and someone 154 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 4: just to hold me accountable. So he's based in Vegas, 155 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 4: but there's an app and he he does everything in 156 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 4: like five months of startady five week increments because he 157 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 4: wants to switch it up so that your body doesn't 158 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 4: get used to it, you shock your body. And he's 159 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 4: also like, it gives it gives us a window to 160 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 4: like look for sort of threshold and goals to be met. 161 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 4: And it's just I told him, I think I can 162 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 4: promise three days a week, I'll work out with an 163 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 4: optional fourth doing weight training, but I have to do 164 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 4: two hours of cardio a week, and I can spread 165 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 4: it out like over three days, four days, five days. 166 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 2: It's like a total of two hours. 167 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, a total of two hours. And it's got to 168 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 4: be like were my heart rate really increases? He goes, 169 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 4: walking is good for you, but it is not heart 170 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 4: rate increasing unless you're walking uphill for twenty minutes. And 171 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 4: I have a peloton, so I'll be able to do 172 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 4: that quite easily. I think you know, I can hop 173 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 4: on for twenty minutes a day, thirty minutes a day 174 00:07:55,720 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 4: pretty easily and knock that out. So yeah, and he 175 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 4: sends like a dietary plan, and I'll check in with 176 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 4: him a few times a week. We'll have zooms. He 177 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 4: asked me to like video myself when I'm at the gym, 178 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 4: take pictures. There's a whole app that he's got set 179 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 4: up so I can send pictures of the meals that 180 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 4: I'm eating. 181 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: There's a there's a. 182 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 4: Board like a community board where all the guys that 183 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 4: he's oh and this is for he specifically trains men 184 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 4: over forty. 185 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 3: Oh. 186 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 2: I love that. 187 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so especially the age piece of that, right, right, 188 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 3: because everything's just different. I mean, our bodies are different, 189 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 3: the way you produce muscle is different. 190 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:38,719 Speaker 2: Yeah. 191 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, so, and you know it's a sort of terrifying thing. 192 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 4: Like I've I've gained weight and I've lost weight several 193 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 4: times in my life and kind of on my own, 194 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 4: just like one time I read the zone and I 195 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 4: stuck to it and it works, and so I know 196 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 4: I can do it. 197 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: There's the one time you got really into berries. 198 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 4: For me, I got really into berries and I lost 199 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 4: a ton of weight and and you know, I know 200 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 4: I can do it. But this time, I think I'm 201 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 4: going to do it a little more educated so it's sustainable. 202 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 4: So it really is exploring, you know, the real like 203 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 4: sort of science behind you. 204 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: Know, physical education. 205 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 4: And I think it's like I haven't done it this 206 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 4: way before because I'm I like to pinch a penny, 207 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,079 Speaker 4: you know, and this wasn't cheap. 208 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: So the money is. 209 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 4: Making it accountable, making me accountable to it. But I 210 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 4: feel like I'm gonna have someone sort of holding my 211 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 4: hand through and I'll be able to ask questions and like, well, 212 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 4: why am I doing that, and why does this work 213 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 4: better than that? And those sorts of things. 214 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: So I think it's super important. 215 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 3: I love that you're getting like the accountability for one, 216 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 3: but then too, like you said, making it more of 217 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 3: a lifestyle. In fact, on the podcast last week, I 218 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 3: had talked to doctor Cheti Perak is how you say 219 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 3: her name, and she wrote a really great book called 220 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 3: Intentional Health. I'll show it to you after the podcast, 221 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 3: But she was just talking about too, like sometimes we 222 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 3: get on these like fad diets, and you know, maybe 223 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 3: you can, like you said, lose weight right away, like 224 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 3: have that immediate kind of reaction, but when unless you're 225 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,599 Speaker 3: like actually getting to know your body and your rhythms, 226 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 3: and like she even talked about the times of day 227 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 3: we eat and kind of being consistent across the board 228 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 3: with certain things, but not making it about deprivation as 229 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:28,199 Speaker 3: much as like changing the lifestyle and figuring out what 230 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 3: your body actually needs and wants and all the things 231 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 3: and responds to you. Well, like because we talked about 232 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 3: like the gluten thing with me or dairy or whatever, 233 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 3: and how that's shifted my whole life. But so much 234 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 3: of what she says gets to the root, which is 235 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 3: what I really like versus, hey, let's just throw something 236 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:48,200 Speaker 3: at this to do a temporary fix, and then before 237 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 3: you know it, a year later, you're back in the 238 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 3: same position. Right, It's like you kind of got you're 239 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 3: just doing that like yo yo thing. 240 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 4: Well, and it's it really is about habit forming too 241 00:10:57,320 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 4: right now. Like and one of the things that he 242 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 4: said is like, you know, he sent me, which I'm 243 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 4: sure he sends to everybody his daily schedule, and he 244 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 4: has his day mapped out, like almost to the minute. 245 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: Like he's like he wakes up at five thirty in 246 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: the morning, he. 247 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 4: Meditates, he drinks coffee, a protein coffee, which I need 248 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 4: to ask him. 249 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: What that is. 250 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 4: He he reads, he gets his kids to school, he 251 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 4: does like a body warm up thing. Then he works out, 252 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 4: like I mean, it is down to the minute ten o'clock, 253 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 4: at like nine o'clock, he's like, phone off, read ten o'clock, 254 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 4: bed and it's everything is And I don't have a 255 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,319 Speaker 4: habit like that, And it's it's been difficult because of 256 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 4: my job. But I feel like I'm far enough into 257 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 4: my job now, I'm old enough that I can say 258 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 4: no to a lot of things, whereas before I felt 259 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,479 Speaker 4: like I was building a career, I was building relationships, 260 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 4: I was doing all the things that I felt like 261 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 4: I needed to be at everything. And now that I'm 262 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 4: a little older and more settled in my career, I 263 00:11:56,360 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 4: think that I can now look at my life and 264 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 4: be like, Okay, I can I'm at a place where 265 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 4: I can have sort. 266 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: Of an habitual plan. 267 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 4: Yes, there will be curve balls because I'll have to 268 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,319 Speaker 4: travel and those sorts of things, but I feel like 269 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 4: I'm in a really good place to like make this stick. 270 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 271 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:14,199 Speaker 3: Well, I think everything you're saying this is so much 272 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 3: of what I talked about with that doctor too, because 273 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 3: it was about, like, you know, our day, like my 274 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 3: days are a lot like yours, and as much in 275 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 3: the way that nothing is ever the same consistent. Yeah, However, 276 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 3: when I'm in really productive headspaces too, like exactly what 277 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 3: you say with that guy having a schedule, I'm very 278 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 3: regimented like that. But then also it's like when I'm 279 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:38,319 Speaker 3: on the road, I still will crave my wake up 280 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 3: and do the meditation thing. Like we get in the 281 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 3: habit of something, you do start to crave that consistency. 282 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 4: Oh, I've traveled with you you're like got to meditate, work 283 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 4: it out. 284 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 1: But it's good about it. 285 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 4: It's good like I'm making fun, but like that's I 286 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 4: kind of know that I need that. 287 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 3: Well, because the thing is is if I don't do that, 288 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 3: then I feel like shit. And that was the big 289 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 3: thing she and I talked about was the more you 290 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 3: get into something like I don't crave gluten and dairy, 291 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 3: the way that I know that for all of y'all, 292 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 3: it's sort of like, man, that must be like a 293 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 3: really like bleak life. And I'm like, no, I'm good 294 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 3: because like right now when I eat it, I feel 295 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 3: so terrible that it's not the wind isn't worth it 296 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 3: to me, you know. And so once you get past 297 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 3: the hump of changing things, it's definitely like your body responds, 298 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 3: I think, and your mind kind of catches up to that, 299 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 3: and you want the things that are good for you 300 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 3: and that feel good and not the other things. 301 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 2: Not that we all don't, you know. 302 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 3: She was really good about being also like you know, 303 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 3: it's good to go on vacation and let yourself, you know. 304 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 3: She's like, on Thanksgiving, I let myself eat whatever I 305 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 3: want to eat, and then I just know that I 306 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 3: clean up my act the next week. It's all about balance, 307 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 3: you know, and and living your life and enjoying it 308 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:58,839 Speaker 3: and taking care of yourself. I don't know, I just 309 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 3: think we kind of we miss it a little bit. 310 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 3: But hopefully these kind of conversations are helping. 311 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 4: So's I could find that, like, this isn't possible, it's 312 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 4: not sustainable for. 313 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: Me, but I'm going to explore it and I'm going 314 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: to give it every Yeah. 315 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 3: I think it will be like and if it's not 316 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 3: specifically like exactly how he lives, you'll find ways that 317 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 3: work for you from what he's teaching you. 318 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 2: Right, it's not going to hurt anything. 319 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 4: It's certainly not going to hurt And what's funny is 320 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 4: you know I've been taking semi glue Tide and I've 321 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 4: lost a substantial amount of weight just. 322 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 1: Through doing me. 323 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 2: Is that Ozimpic's name. I love that you just tried 324 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 2: to throw that out like that was and it's not. 325 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 2: Everyone's going to be. 326 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, guide Tide. 327 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 2: That's what we're staying about the water cooler. 328 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: Talking to you. 329 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 4: But when I signed so Yeah, we had did our 330 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 4: zoom I think yesterday the day before because I'm starting 331 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 4: on Monday when my program starts, and so we were 332 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 4: going through all the details and he was like, so 333 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 4: you're at two hundred and forty pounds, and I was like, actually, 334 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 4: I'm at two hundred and twenty four pounds now. So 335 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 4: between the time that I signed up and finally getting 336 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 4: on the zoom with him, I've lost sixteen pounds by 337 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 4: not doing anything other than ozempic, like and that included 338 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 4: going on vacation, going to Maui holidays. Oh yeah, I 339 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 4: mean I got shit faced on vacation. You know, it's 340 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 4: like casual. But the thing is is like the way 341 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 4: that that drug works is it makes me feel full. Yeah, 342 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 4: it's and so it really has the portion. Because I 343 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 4: had to be honest with him too, I was like, hey, 344 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 4: full disclosure, I'm doing this too. So it's like I 345 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 4: know that some of these like meal plans want me 346 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 4: to eat a ton of protein. Oh, just to get 347 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 4: to your calorie and take you have to eat a 348 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 4: lot more food. And I'm like, I'm worried that, like 349 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 4: my body response is going to be you're full, and 350 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 4: I'm only going to get five hundred calories a day. 351 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 4: So I was just like, I just I'm not ready 352 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 4: to come off of this shet because the results that 353 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 4: I'm feeling are great and I'm not having any negative 354 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 4: side effects. I want these things to work together. So 355 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 4: I had to be honest about that. But I was like, 356 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 4: he was like, wait, sixteen pounds. 357 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 358 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's amazing. 359 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can actually tell in your face. 360 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 4: I mean, technically I'm down forty five pounds, but those 361 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:26,160 Speaker 4: six those sixteen are just from since I signed. 362 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: Up at the end of November. Yeah, Jesus, Yeah, it's wild. 363 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 2: So good for you. 364 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 3: What I was sure then, I mean, it's kind of 365 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 3: interesting because my word was discipline, and a lot of 366 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 3: what we just talked about with you involves discipline too, 367 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 3: so there's a little bit of crossover with what we're doing. 368 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 3: But yeah, it's been interesting. Like my month January is 369 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 3: such a crapshoot in my job, Like sometimes it's just 370 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 3: completely crickets and dead, and then sometimes you come back 371 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 3: full force, and this was one where we came back 372 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 3: full force. And I've been crazy busy, and then we 373 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 3: had that weird ice storm here that we've mentioned a 374 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,399 Speaker 3: couple times on the podcast, but like everyone was locked 375 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 3: in their house for like seven days, which was wild, 376 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: but the locking in my house was like actually beneficial 377 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 3: to my word because I sat here. Yeah, and I 378 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 3: could have been like there was a lot of reason 379 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 3: that I wanted to just do nothing that week. But honestly, 380 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 3: the more I did nothing, the more depressed I got 381 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 3: just sitting in my house because you can't even get outside. 382 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 3: I didn't see a human for seven days. That was 383 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:38,880 Speaker 3: really hard for me. But I finally, finally, guys got 384 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 3: my upstairs at my. 385 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:43,359 Speaker 2: House sorted out. How many years have I've been talking 386 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 2: about this. 387 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 3: It's like embarrassing, but I got my closet organized. I 388 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:52,199 Speaker 3: gave away eight bags of clothes to two girls that 389 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 3: work in your office, actually, and I felt so good 390 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 3: about it. I have another five bags I'm giving to 391 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 3: this girl who does like closet sale type stuff and 392 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 3: we've been talking for a while, so I got rid 393 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 3: of so much shit. Is the point of that? In 394 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 3: my closet it feels so good, Like I literally felt 395 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:13,919 Speaker 3: so free. And then the next door to my closet 396 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 3: upstairs is my office, and I got that pretty much 397 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 3: set up. 398 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:18,360 Speaker 2: It's I told. 399 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 3: You you were like, let me see me, and it's 400 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,639 Speaker 3: actually right now it's a disaster because I have a 401 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 3: client that's going to be at the Gramies this weekend 402 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 3: and I'm in the middle of doing the returns from 403 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 3: our fitting. But for the most part, it's been great 404 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 3: because I've been working up here on my days at 405 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 3: my house that I'm doing like computer work and stuff, 406 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:38,320 Speaker 3: and it makes such a difference separating my living space 407 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 3: from where I go to work, you know, like I 408 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 3: can actually have a lot more discipline with turning off 409 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 3: when I need to turn off and then turning on 410 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 3: when I need to turn on, and it's just much 411 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 3: more consistent for me. And then today I was telling you, 412 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 3: I'm setting up this other little area to be my 413 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 3: recording room because the acoustics are really good in there, 414 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 3: and so I'm going to have an official space that 415 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 3: I do the podcast, which is going to be just 416 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 3: another helpful like getting the zone kind of thing for 417 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:09,719 Speaker 3: me instead of just doing it in my office or whatever. 418 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 3: And I know that sounds to the listeners maybe like 419 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 3: small stuff, but for me as a person who you know, 420 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 3: I'm either on set or I'm working at home, and 421 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 3: it's just like so freeing, and so it just feels 422 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 3: organization feels really good, like the structure of it, you know, 423 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 3: And as a creative it's not like my strongest suit 424 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 3: to be organized all the time. But when I get organized, 425 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 3: I'll stay organized, and it's like and then my creative 426 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 3: brain has more space to move too. So I'm really 427 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 3: I do feel like I'm putting the discipline thing to work, 428 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 3: and I've been working out consistently, Like I don't know, 429 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 3: it's like something about having a word and an intention 430 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 3: the days where I just want to sit on my 431 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 3: ass and do nothing or like, you know, it would 432 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,400 Speaker 3: be easy to go get distracted and go hang out 433 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 3: with friends instead of like really focused. I've been able 434 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 3: to be like no, you set the word and like 435 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,640 Speaker 3: really lean in. And it feels really good because it's 436 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 3: been a couple of years since I've just felt this flow. 437 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 3: So that's been great for me. And also I have 438 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 3: some exciting news. 439 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 1: What's up. 440 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 3: So we have been talking about this for another a while, 441 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 3: I guess probably like another year. 442 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 2: I think we mentioned it. You don't even know what 443 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 2: what else? 444 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: And now I know, but I thought it was something 445 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 1: I didn't know. 446 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 2: Oh you actually got really yeah. 447 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I thought you had a surprise 448 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 1: for me. 449 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 2: I thought you were acting. 450 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 1: That's why I started. I was like, you know what 451 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: it is, but. 452 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 4: No. 453 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 3: So we had mentioned doing this like a while ago, 454 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,399 Speaker 3: and I just couldn't wrap my mind around what that 455 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 3: was going to look like for some reason. But something 456 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 3: that I've really I've talked about this a lot, but 457 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,199 Speaker 3: one of the reasons I love doing this podcast is 458 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 3: connecting with people, like telling certain stories or interviewing certain 459 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 3: people and then having the listeners be like, holy shit, 460 00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:59,880 Speaker 3: thank you for saying that out loud because that's something 461 00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 3: I went through, or. 462 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 2: Just like hearing you guys stories in general. 463 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 3: Has always been really like I just love that feeling 464 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 3: of connecting with people that we would never otherwise get 465 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 3: to connect with, you know, like across the world. I 466 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,159 Speaker 3: feel like we're emailing with people from fucking Germany and 467 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 3: it's like great, I just how would I ever meet them? 468 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 2: You know. 469 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,240 Speaker 3: So that's a big part of why I like doing 470 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,119 Speaker 3: this podcast. And one of the things that I'm doing 471 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 3: this year is a solo podcast once a month where 472 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 3: I just come in and I talk about some of 473 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 3: the things that I've been mulling over in my brain 474 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 3: or going through or things that have come up in 475 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 3: my friend group. But what I really want to do 476 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 3: also is hear about what's happening with you guys, and 477 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 3: then chip You and I have always talked about like 478 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 3: we love getting listener emails and dms and then answering 479 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 3: the questions and things like that, even if we're not 480 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 3: experts either, but giving opinions on things and talking through 481 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:56,360 Speaker 3: how things. 482 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 2: Have worked out through our lives. 483 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:02,439 Speaker 3: So we finally find or I finally set up a 484 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 3: voicemail for Velvet Edge podcast, and so you guys can 485 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 3: go click the link on the bio in my Instagram 486 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 3: and you can leave us a voicemail, which is so 487 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 3: much easier than email, right because remember how I was like, 488 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 3: keep the email short, I can't reading them out loud 489 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 3: as weird, But now we'll be able to just listen 490 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 3: to the voicemail. They will all be anonymous, unless like, 491 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 3: if you want them to be you can just say that, 492 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 3: or we can play them without a name or whatever 493 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 3: and just have your voice if you want. We can 494 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,439 Speaker 3: also put voicebox on it if you need that. So 495 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 3: give us the tips of what you got in the podcast. 496 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 3: You can ask anything you want, or if you just 497 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 3: have a topic that you want me to like weigh 498 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 3: in on my take what you like and leave the 499 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 3: rest series I am. I would love the input of 500 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 3: what you guys are really like working through, or topics 501 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,440 Speaker 3: that are interesting to you or that you're struggling with, 502 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 3: or something that if you know it's something I've been 503 00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:01,160 Speaker 3: through or something I haven't. I can you lean into experts. 504 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 4: But I also just clicked on it just to explore it. 505 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 4: It looks like you when you record it, you can 506 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 4: listen back before you send it, so yeah, I not 507 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 4: happy with it. You can probably re record. 508 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you just do it through your computer or your phone. 509 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 3: You click the link on the bio and then there's 510 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 3: a place that says record and you say, hey Kelly 511 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 3: and Chip, like, I mean, one of the topics Ship 512 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 3: and I are discussing for next month is period sex. 513 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 3: So like, you have something you want to weigh in 514 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 3: on period sex. Hey, Kelly and Chip, I love period sex. 515 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 3: Here's why. Yeah, I feel like the vagina area, isn't it? 516 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? Pretty much? Pretty much? 517 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:45,159 Speaker 3: Way Yeah, and yeah, so I don't know. I'm just 518 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 3: really pumped about it. I'll post about it on my 519 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 3: Instagram too, But it is a great way to connect 520 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 3: with you guys. Or if you just have feedback that 521 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,439 Speaker 3: you want us to hear, feel free to do that 522 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 3: as well. But again, it's the link in the bio 523 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 3: on my Instagram, and my instagram is at Velvet's Edge, 524 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 3: so check that out. 525 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 2: I'm pumps. 526 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 4: I'm excited because I feel like, you know, sometimes when 527 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 4: someone sends an email, like they're not able to get 528 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 4: across like their sense of humor, yeah, the urgency or 529 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 4: like the level of embarrassment. And this, I think we're 530 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 4: going to like get some really fun stories. So I 531 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 4: hope people will lean in and do it. Yes, I 532 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:25,119 Speaker 4: know I would if I were a listener. 533 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,720 Speaker 3: And I mean it's like I get where people would 534 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 3: be like, oh, but I don't want to. But that's 535 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 3: why we If you say anonymous, guys, like, I'm going 536 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:36,000 Speaker 3: to keep it anonymous anonymous, I promise, So if you 537 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 3: don't care to be anonymous, I think lean in because 538 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:43,199 Speaker 3: it just will make it more exciting. But and especially 539 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 3: if we can play back the voicemail, it's more fun 540 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 3: that way. So we will respect your wishes. But I say, 541 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 3: let the freak flag fly, you know. Always sorry, I've. 542 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 1: Got my one hundred day cough. 543 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,199 Speaker 2: Still one hundred day cough? What is that? 544 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 4: Well, it's just this cough that I've had lingering, and 545 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,399 Speaker 4: apparently a lot of people have it, and the people 546 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 4: in the UK are calling it the one hundred day cough. 547 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 3: Actually dealt with a lot of people this week that 548 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 3: said they had a cough and they've had it forever. 549 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 2: That's weird. 550 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just can't get rid of it. I feel 551 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 4: fine otherwise, it's just related. No, I've I've tested. I 552 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 4: tested myself the other day. Wow. 553 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:23,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what it is. 554 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:28,479 Speaker 3: Times in twenty four anyway, leave us a voicemail, let's chat. 555 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,880 Speaker 3: I'm super pumped about it, and we're going to keep 556 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 3: on growing because I'm fucking disciplined this year. 557 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 1: Guys so disciplined. Watch out, watch out. 558 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,919 Speaker 2: And we're disciplined, so you never know what's going to. 559 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:46,880 Speaker 1: Happen to exploring some discipline. Oh I am yeh. Look 560 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,880 Speaker 1: what you married our words? 561 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 2: All right? 562 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 3: As I said before, you guys can hit us up 563 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 3: on Instagram. I am at Velvet's Edge. 564 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 1: Chip, I met Chip doorsh. It's ch I P d 565 00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 1: O R s H. 566 00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 3: And as you guys are going into the weekend and 567 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 3: you're living on the edge. Hope you'll always remember to 568 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 3: a casual bye