WEBVTT - Sisters by Chance… Friends by Choice

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<v Speaker 1>This is Take twenty with Maddie and Kenzie Ziggler, an

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<v Speaker 1>I Heart radio podcast. Oh my gosh, what is happening?

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<v Speaker 1>This is scary but so exciting. We're definitely getting the

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<v Speaker 1>giggles right now. We have a podcast, How Crazy Kenzie? Yes, Mannie,

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<v Speaker 1>We're finally doing it. This is really exciting. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we've needed this for like a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>just to you know, vent vent Let go talk about

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<v Speaker 1>what we need to talk about. I feel like this

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<v Speaker 1>has been such a long time coming. People have grown

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<v Speaker 1>up watching me and Kenzie like on camera most of

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<v Speaker 1>our lives, and I feel like now we really just

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<v Speaker 1>want to like share a more personal, relatable side to

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<v Speaker 1>us and show our weird selves. Yeah, this is like

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm kind of worried. People are like, oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>who are they? This is the real then I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>Hopefully they like us. Hopefully you stick around, Please stick around?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we please talk about the episode name? Please? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh. Okay, we we've obviously grown up watching Live

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<v Speaker 1>in Maddie the show on Disney Channel, and who hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>though it's so good. It's such a good show. Shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to dev Cameron no, but um, we what was

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<v Speaker 1>the one of the lines in the show. Okay, So basically,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've seen it, you know that the whole premise

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<v Speaker 1>around the show is just just by chance, friends by choice. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we said it as a joke. We we

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<v Speaker 1>literally are sisters by chance, friends by choice. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like so funny that it's living Maddie. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>why we named the episodes sisters by birth. That's by choice.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little it's a little backstory. And I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we were in the car, We're trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what to name this podcast, Like we were going

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth trying to figure it out, and then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, in my head, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>Kenzie choice, that has been a joke for this whole month.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. And it's not probably not funny too literally

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<v Speaker 1>anyone else but us we are. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why we find that so funny, but it's just because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like from our childhood. We find it nostalgia. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not that long ago. We're like still babies, but I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we had to do a little nod to

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<v Speaker 1>that just because it's a cute memory. Yeah, and we

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<v Speaker 1>seriously are like we've It's like I said, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a long time coming with our friendship because you can explain.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's like a long long way back. Um, well,

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<v Speaker 1>when we first started dancing together, Um, we actually hated

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<v Speaker 1>each other just because don't. I wouldn't throw the word hate,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say, justlike we'd we'd argue. No, okay, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just we spent so much time together that it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like we didn't have time to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>be on our own and like actually develop as different people,

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<v Speaker 1>like really like it was just the worst thing ever

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<v Speaker 1>for sisters to do. Also, mind you, Kenzie and I

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<v Speaker 1>are twenty months apart. If you didn't know that, that's

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<v Speaker 1>extremely close. We're like, like you said, we didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>have time to develop our own identity. We were very

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<v Speaker 1>much just one and the same, which is honestly, like,

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<v Speaker 1>looking back, I feel like we needed each other more

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<v Speaker 1>than anything. Because friends come and go, your teammates come

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<v Speaker 1>and go. Sisters stay forever, and that was the most

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<v Speaker 1>important friendship to maintain. Um, And as we got older,

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<v Speaker 1>it was, you know, we started hanging out more and

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<v Speaker 1>doing things together, but it was still just like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think it wasn't until we cut off

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<v Speaker 1>working together because we both shared dance and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>most of you know that we grew up. We grew

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<v Speaker 1>up dancing together, competing with each other, but also a

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<v Speaker 1>few times against each other, which is kind of toxic

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<v Speaker 1>for a sister relationship because it's like we want to

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<v Speaker 1>boost each other up, we want to bring each other

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<v Speaker 1>confidence and like love, and that was like, nope, you're competing.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be better than one another, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like not how it's supposed to be. We're family exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I think it was so important that once

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<v Speaker 1>we actually branched off and did our own thing. You

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<v Speaker 1>found singing and you still act, but like not as

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<v Speaker 1>much as you it's your thing. I started acting more,

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<v Speaker 1>Kenzie started singing more, and like then we stopped working together.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we'd be like, oh my gosh, we like

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<v Speaker 1>miss working together. So this is fun. Well this doesn't work.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just this is literally us now, Like this

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<v Speaker 1>is all we do is we just like sit and talk,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, for hours. But I think when our friend

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<v Speaker 1>Chip just to blossom blossomed was when you moved out,

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<v Speaker 1>which is so I mean, like it sounds so horrible,

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<v Speaker 1>Like every time I'm like, oh, yeah, Maddie and I

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<v Speaker 1>are best friends now that she's gone, it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>but that, like don't you want your sister with you?

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<v Speaker 1>And of course I do, But now it's so fun that,

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<v Speaker 1>like I can just drive over to your house and

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with you. Also, I feel like this is

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<v Speaker 1>a really fun podcast because as much as we are

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<v Speaker 1>one and the same, we are so polar opposite, Like

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<v Speaker 1>how would you describe how different we are? I this

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<v Speaker 1>is actually so random. I always say this to people,

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<v Speaker 1>like this is okay, this is really stupid. But you

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<v Speaker 1>were like very dainty like jewelry, and I were very chunky.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true, and I feel like that's a really good

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<v Speaker 1>way to describe our style and totally I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>our whole lives. I've been more timid in a way,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like a people pleaser, which you are too,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I feel I've always been like really worried

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<v Speaker 1>to mess up or fault, Like I always am a

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<v Speaker 1>rule followers actions. That's how and there's pros and cons

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<v Speaker 1>to that. But also i feel like I'm very like

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<v Speaker 1>light and whatever, and I feel like you are so

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<v Speaker 1>like incredibly strong, and you speak your mind and which

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<v Speaker 1>is always not good. Well, there's pros and cons to everything, right,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like we could. I would love Kenside

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<v Speaker 1>to take some of that from you, like I admire

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for that. Thank you. Oh I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I was a perfectionist like you and always had my

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<v Speaker 1>room clean and spotless. I was just gonna say, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I can't keep my room clean for a

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<v Speaker 1>day because I go through my closet throw everything around,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I don't feel like cleaning it up. You guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I will go to Kenzie's house and I will clean

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<v Speaker 1>her room and I will walk downstairs for a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of hours, or I'll leave and i'll come back the

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<v Speaker 1>next day. It is trashed again, but you're not gross.

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<v Speaker 1>You just leave your clothes everywhere. You're still it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a clean, messy Yeah. You know, I think the one

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<v Speaker 1>thing that we fight about, the only thing that we

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<v Speaker 1>fight out. I can't remember the last thing we thought

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<v Speaker 1>other than this, which I don't know how this is

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<v Speaker 1>even possible that we steal each other's clothes and we

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<v Speaker 1>don't even live together, Like she will leave something at

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<v Speaker 1>my house and I will obviously wear it because it's here,

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<v Speaker 1>so why not. And then she's like, on my live strip, Kenzie,

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<v Speaker 1>take off my shirt. Kenzie, take off my shirt. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's like the only thing we fight about. Really, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just glad that that's how we find about now. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>we've never thought about real things. It's always just been

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<v Speaker 1>like who gets what clothes, who gets like who uses

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<v Speaker 1>the hairbrush first? Like it's very m honestly, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's so weird? I don't know why I just thought

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<v Speaker 1>of this, but I feel like our dogs like are

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<v Speaker 1>the same way. They fight over the same way. They

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<v Speaker 1>fight way more than we do, but they fight over

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<v Speaker 1>like like we'll give them two bones. They only they

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<v Speaker 1>want to share the same bone. They're like, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>want They don't want their own. They need to like

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<v Speaker 1>have a competition to see you can get it first.

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<v Speaker 1>Boots literally, Boots is my dog, by the way, and

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<v Speaker 1>my dog's Ivy. My dogs like tiny and Boots is

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<v Speaker 1>like a medium sized dog. But Boots is scared of Ivy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how. I don't know why. He's the

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<v Speaker 1>weirdest dog. They're weird guys. We will talk probably a

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<v Speaker 1>lot about our dogs and definitely like an annoying amount.

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<v Speaker 1>So hopefully there's a lot of dog lovers here. You

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<v Speaker 1>are welcome, You are very welcome this podcast. But it

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<v Speaker 1>is true they're kind of like us because at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the night they're literally snuggling together. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, how did it go from? Like wrestling? But

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<v Speaker 1>that is like us because we would get in a

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<v Speaker 1>fight when we were younger. We still kind of do

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<v Speaker 1>this now, and then we'd go into our rooms, shut

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<v Speaker 1>the door, slammed the door, and we'd just be whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>being annoying for a second, and then one of us

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<v Speaker 1>would go into the other one's room, like you would

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<v Speaker 1>come in and be like, Maddie, do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go get ice cream? I'm like yeah, sure, and we

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<v Speaker 1>just go like nothing happened, which is honestly the best way.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if it was an actually serious, like an actual

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<v Speaker 1>serious argument, we would work through it and talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Several times where we've had arguments for days long where

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<v Speaker 1>we don't talk to each other, and then it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it hurts, it hurts, But it's also like do I

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<v Speaker 1>say something like do I text her? Or like do

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<v Speaker 1>I wait for her to text me? It's almost like dating.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like who makes Like it's like, literally, should I

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<v Speaker 1>wait until they respond? Oh? She responded, and like it

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<v Speaker 1>took her thirty minutes. Was fun. I'm and it took

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<v Speaker 1>like fifty minutes exactly. It's it's like that, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>just how it is. Yeah. But also, like, deep down,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're so protective of each other and we

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to hurt each other's feelings, and like in

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<v Speaker 1>the moment maybe we were like we want to have

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<v Speaker 1>the last word or whatever, but deep down we're just like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wish we weren't fighting. And that's how I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes I'm like, sometimes you get the last word

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, ow, like that really hurt. Because Maddie

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<v Speaker 1>is so nice to every single person, so am I.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just like, if anyone messes with you, I

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<v Speaker 1>will literally I will yell at them because I am

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<v Speaker 1>so protective over you. But just like in a fight,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm always the more aggressive person. And

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<v Speaker 1>when Maddie just hits me with that, I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, that's my job. Literally, Yeah, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to tell me all the things that drive you crazy

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<v Speaker 1>about me. Mm hmm. Okay, you know what I'm gonna say.

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<v Speaker 1>This has been like top like top thing that drives

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<v Speaker 1>me crazy about you. No, but like bring it on.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone will probably get it. Okay. Um, so when you're

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<v Speaker 1>on your phone or doing something I don't know whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>just when you're like focused on something, you block everything

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<v Speaker 1>else out. Sometimes, like she'll be on her phone and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be like, Maddie, I need to get ready for this,

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<v Speaker 1>like I need you to help me, and she will

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<v Speaker 1>not respond for like maybe a minute, and then she'll

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<v Speaker 1>go huh, it's an ongoing cycle. And then I just go, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm over this, and then you get mad at me.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a really hard time like staying present sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>but not in like a serious way. I just like

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<v Speaker 1>really get in my own world and I zone out

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<v Speaker 1>for a little bit, and I feel so bad because

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<v Speaker 1>almost everyone says that about me, like friends not. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that with like strangers, but if I'm comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>enough with someone, I'll just like go into my own world.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's never personal. Sometimes I take it personal though

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, But most of the time you're

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<v Speaker 1>watching like like the weirdos, Like no, it's like pimple

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<v Speaker 1>popping videos and like guys things on TikTok, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, how are you so focused? Like I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's that's the only thing that drives you crazy

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<v Speaker 1>about me? M hmm. I actually can't think of anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's way more things you can think of.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just not coming to your head right now. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to think, stupid. I think something that's annoying is

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<v Speaker 1>when you used to drive me to pilates. You would

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<v Speaker 1>always give me your trash from your car when I

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<v Speaker 1>drop you off, this and this and this and this,

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<v Speaker 1>and I say, I'm like, no, no, no no, no, you

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<v Speaker 1>just drive away, just fully drive away. You're walking towards

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<v Speaker 1>a trash can, and it's like You're just this is

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<v Speaker 1>honestly just saving me a lot of time, so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to do it right, you know, gotcha? Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you need a help in hand. I'm trying to think

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<v Speaker 1>if there's anything that drives me crazy about you, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I do. It does drive me a little crazy that

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<v Speaker 1>you are so messy, but I know it's not intentional. Well, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's not that harsh, like I think mine was.

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty hard. Oh, I mean, but I actually like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't backtrack, no, no no, like there's actually nothing that like

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<v Speaker 1>drives me crazy anymore because I don't live with you.

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<v Speaker 1>We both decided at some point without really communicating it

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<v Speaker 1>to each other, it's like we need separate groups of friends,

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<v Speaker 1>like absolutely, yeah, like it was vital for us, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was really beneficial because we were already

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<v Speaker 1>so close and like we had it was very like

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<v Speaker 1>suffocating at times, and so it was nice to break

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<v Speaker 1>off and like have our separate things. And we were

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<v Speaker 1>always like close with each other's friends, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>never like we wouldn't hang out with them one on one. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like it really depends on the friend. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's how it is. If you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's Jake, our friend Jake, like we can hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with him together together because it's more fun that way.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like, you know, my friends, I'm just like, no,

0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:33.080
<v Speaker 1>these are my friends, Like you can like them, you

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<v Speaker 1>can talk to them, but you can't hang out with

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<v Speaker 1>even if I really really love your friends, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>had a thought in my head where it's like you

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<v Speaker 1>might want to hang out with them one on one.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I've never felt that way about your friends either.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always like, if I'm going to see them, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be with Maddie. Obviously, I hope that everyone

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<v Speaker 1>like enjoys us because we have a lot to talk about,

0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:55.360
<v Speaker 1>for like the fact that we want to open up

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<v Speaker 1>about things, Like we obviously wanted to be lighthearted and

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<v Speaker 1>fun because that's who we are. We really are just

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<v Speaker 1>like two silly girls, Like I mean, at least that's

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<v Speaker 1>how I like to like say who we are, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like we also have never really opened

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<v Speaker 1>up on a personal level or talked like Also, now

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<v Speaker 1>that we're growing up, we're learning a lot at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time as like a lot of our like followers

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<v Speaker 1>and things. So I feel like it's really cool that

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<v Speaker 1>we're like growing up and learning together and we get

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<v Speaker 1>to educate each other. There's a lot that we've learned

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<v Speaker 1>in the past year with everything that's gone on in

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<v Speaker 1>the world, and I think it's so important that we

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<v Speaker 1>stay up to date with all. Okay, I actually wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about this though. I think your relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>mom also got really, really really good when you moved out.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it just it made us all like, so

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<v Speaker 1>so so close. I feel like you should talk about that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, uh well, I think for any parent it's

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<v Speaker 1>really hard for their first baby to leave, And it

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<v Speaker 1>was really hard for me to understand that. For a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, why isn't she letting me? Like

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<v Speaker 1>why doesn't she want me to leave? Like this is

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<v Speaker 1>bound to happen. She did it too when she was

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<v Speaker 1>my age and I and now moving out, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I so understand. Like we me and

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<v Speaker 1>mom really had a really good understanding of each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like we actually like because as a

0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.960
<v Speaker 1>and I think we both like established this like obviously

0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:31.080
<v Speaker 1>your parents sent boundaries with you, but once you reach

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<v Speaker 1>a certain age, of course you're allowed to have your

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<v Speaker 1>own boundaries as well with your parents. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was really cool that Mom and I really just

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<v Speaker 1>like worked it out and our relationship is so strong now.

0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:48.280
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't that you had a bad relationship. We're obviously

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<v Speaker 1>like the teenager you know, phase is just I feel

0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:55.520
<v Speaker 1>like it's probably awful for parents because it's like like

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<v Speaker 1>these kids they're going through like all these hormones exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So I felt it was just like a lot for

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<v Speaker 1>her having both like two teenagers, but now you guys

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<v Speaker 1>are like best friends. Like she's always like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to hang out with Mattie Boots and I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>like that would never like I don't know. Also, the

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<v Speaker 1>funniest thing is like I was so excited to move out,

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<v Speaker 1>and the second Mom left and I was in my

0:17:21.520 --> 0:17:26.440
<v Speaker 1>apartment alone, I literally called Mom. I think eleven told

0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:29.840
<v Speaker 1>me that I called her like probably eleven times that day.

0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:32.360
<v Speaker 1>It's like, Mom, how do you do this? And where

0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:35.080
<v Speaker 1>where should I put this? And I know that it

0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.359
<v Speaker 1>made her super happy, but it also made me super

0:17:37.400 --> 0:17:40.639
<v Speaker 1>happy because I was like, Wow, we're working together to

0:17:40.840 --> 0:17:44.119
<v Speaker 1>kind of like bond in a really special way. And

0:17:44.320 --> 0:17:47.320
<v Speaker 1>I think now our family, like us three together, it's

0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:52.080
<v Speaker 1>really special. Since you left, she has gone so obsessed

0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:55.320
<v Speaker 1>with me. I'm like, okay, this is this is a

0:17:55.359 --> 0:17:58.399
<v Speaker 1>lot like because she was so obsessed with you, she

0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:00.119
<v Speaker 1>was obsessed with me, but it was just like you're

0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:03.480
<v Speaker 1>the older one, you could talk about more things like Also,

0:18:03.520 --> 0:18:06.320
<v Speaker 1>the focus was like on me leaving. I feel like

0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:08.560
<v Speaker 1>she had to be able to close that chapter and

0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:12.280
<v Speaker 1>let it go. And then she's like my other b well,

0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:15.200
<v Speaker 1>I was also like I still am, but like I'm

0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:17.479
<v Speaker 1>more of an extrovert, Like I just always wanted to

0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:21.560
<v Speaker 1>not be home, and so now that like I'm home,

0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:23.720
<v Speaker 1>she's like, Kencie, what do you want to do? And

0:18:23.760 --> 0:18:26.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, like, what do you mean? What do

0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:29.160
<v Speaker 1>you think we're doing? But I do love her. She's

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<v Speaker 1>so funny. Yeah, she's actually so cute. I know she

0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:38.399
<v Speaker 1>looks so young now than she did I so we

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<v Speaker 1>better follow that same routine. I don't know what she's doing,

0:18:42.800 --> 0:18:46.000
<v Speaker 1>but I won't want to in her water. Let me

0:18:46.040 --> 0:18:48.240
<v Speaker 1>take a sip of that one. This is now just

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<v Speaker 1>an episode about our mom. She's gonna be so you

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<v Speaker 1>better be listening to this she are you kidding? She is?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably she's probably already listened to this four times crying.

0:19:02.520 --> 0:19:06.879
<v Speaker 1>Probably like recorded this snippet and put on Instagram and

0:19:07.040 --> 0:19:09.520
<v Speaker 1>was just like I love my kids, They're my whole world,

0:19:09.600 --> 0:19:13.760
<v Speaker 1>which is so cute, But her Instagram options she needs

0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:18.119
<v Speaker 1>like serious help. I'm worried how much she's obsessed with

0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:23.000
<v Speaker 1>our dogs and how she is their grandma and gandma.

0:19:23.119 --> 0:19:26.399
<v Speaker 1>That's what she likes to say, and it's I'm nervous

0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:33.200
<v Speaker 1>for out she's not gonna have a dog with her. Okay.

0:19:33.480 --> 0:19:36.560
<v Speaker 1>We talked about our mom a lot. We talked about

0:19:36.560 --> 0:19:39.600
<v Speaker 1>being sisters, we talked about fighting, But like, we just

0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:42.760
<v Speaker 1>want to say that this podcast is not just going

0:19:42.800 --> 0:19:46.040
<v Speaker 1>to be about siblings, Like, we actually have a lot

0:19:46.119 --> 0:19:48.320
<v Speaker 1>that we want to open up about and talk to

0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:52.240
<v Speaker 1>you guys about. Yeah, we're gonna be talking about relationships

0:19:52.280 --> 0:19:56.680
<v Speaker 1>and dating and friendships and mental health. I think is

0:19:56.760 --> 0:19:59.520
<v Speaker 1>the most important, and I feel like we need to

0:19:59.560 --> 0:20:03.040
<v Speaker 1>talk about that. Um. I feel like now more than

0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:09.520
<v Speaker 1>ever in this world, this generation of social media, online bullying, hate,

0:20:09.640 --> 0:20:12.719
<v Speaker 1>Like we really need to dive into that because we

0:20:12.760 --> 0:20:15.560
<v Speaker 1>are literally the target age for that, right. So, I

0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:17.520
<v Speaker 1>feel like and I've hoped that a lot of you

0:20:17.520 --> 0:20:20.560
<v Speaker 1>guys uh get to relate to us on a lot

0:20:20.560 --> 0:20:22.520
<v Speaker 1>of these topics, which I think you will, Like we're

0:20:22.560 --> 0:20:26.760
<v Speaker 1>all just like trying to figure it out, so all

0:20:26.800 --> 0:20:30.919
<v Speaker 1>growing up together. We're finally doing something together that's fun,

0:20:31.119 --> 0:20:35.359
<v Speaker 1>I know, And and it's actually really fun because I

0:20:35.400 --> 0:20:38.280
<v Speaker 1>feel like we'll learn about well, we'll learn more about

0:20:38.320 --> 0:20:40.520
<v Speaker 1>each other in this process. I know we're going to

0:20:40.640 --> 0:20:43.640
<v Speaker 1>become too close again and then we're gonna start fighting

0:20:43.640 --> 0:20:47.560
<v Speaker 1>anyway exactly We're gonna be like, let's live together. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you guys so much for listening and we will see

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<v Speaker 1>you next time too many. Thanks so much for taking

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<v Speaker 1>Hi h