1 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: I found enough guts in my heart to bend over 2 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: and kiss that girl on the front row. There was 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 1: such a scream in this huge arena that the problem 4 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: the Commodore has had from that point on was Lionel 5 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 1: quit kissing the girls and sing the damn song. 6 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 2: Wow. Welcome to episode five point forty four with Lionel Ritchie. 7 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 2: We did this in a theater in Austin, Texas. Lionel 8 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: started in the band the Commodores. He was a saxophone player. 9 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 2: Originally didn't really want to sing or especially be the 10 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 2: lead singer, so and then he ended up kind of 11 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 2: becoming that, but still not fully. But that's where he started. 12 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 2: He graduated from Tuskegee University. That's where he met the 13 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 2: original Commodores, and we talked about in this you know, 14 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:57,319 Speaker 2: how he ended up going solo a little different than 15 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: you know other stories of lead singers going solo. And 16 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 2: this was all because he's doing a book. He's got 17 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 2: a book out called Truly That It's really great. Hope 18 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 2: you check it out. You can go to Linel Richie 19 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: dot com slash book. He at one point headlined the 20 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 2: Super Bowl halftime show nineteen eighty nine. I did not 21 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: know that. He also performed at the nineteen eighty four 22 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 2: Olympics closing ceremony, singing all night long to a crowd 23 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 2: of two point six billion TV viewers worldwide. That's when 24 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 2: everybody watched the same channel. Michael Jackson and Lionel Co 25 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 2: wrote We Are the World. They did the whole documentary 26 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 2: on it. He sold over one hundred and twenty five 27 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 2: million records worldwide. He's won multiple Grammy's, Golden Globe and Oscar. 28 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 2: This was a fun one and I encourage if you 29 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 2: know you like this, you go watch the video because 30 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 2: we shot the whole thing multi camera. It's over on 31 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 2: the Bobby Cast YouTube page, which is at Bobby Bone's channel. 32 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: We can see that over there. He's still a judge 33 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 2: on American Idol. He's got a residency in Vegas and 34 00:01:55,200 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 2: let's go now here. He is the great Lionel Richie. 35 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 2: I'm very fortunate that we've known each other for a 36 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: long time and you wrote all this about your life. 37 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: What did you remember? Because you're having to dig deep, 38 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: what did you remember? And go, oh my goodness, and 39 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 2: it moved you emotionally. 40 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: That's very nice, mister Bones. You started right with the 41 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 1: straight to the gut. I thought the book was going 42 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 1: to be all the fun things that happened to me 43 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: along the way. We are going to talk about the Commodores, 44 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: We're talking about Tuskegee. We're going to talk about the peak. 45 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:38,679 Speaker 1: We won this, we won that. And then they said, well, 46 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: what was the most exciting thing that ever happened to you? 47 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: I said, well, I was. I was in the Commodores, 48 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: but before that, I was a cup scout, and I 49 00:02:55,480 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: was a boy scout, got all my Merriat badges, and 50 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: then I uh, and the guy said, this is a 51 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: pitiful book. And then I met the Commodores in school, 52 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: and I knew I was on the right road because 53 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: my grandmother and my mother and my father came to 54 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 1: me and said, who the hell are these guys? I said, 55 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: you mean you don't like them? They said, well they 56 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: you know, are they going to be doctors and lawyers? 57 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: And I said, I don't think so them. And that's 58 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: when I realized I was on the right road, because 59 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: no one at Tuskegee could understand creative people. 60 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,160 Speaker 2: You understand that seemed to be a theme with your 61 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 2: life though, because Tuskegee, the album when it came out. 62 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 2: They also told you that was not going to work. 63 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 2: And you talk about in the book how you would 64 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 2: know when things were going to be successful by the 65 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 2: pushback at times that it would get. 66 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: When I knew I was on the right road, it 67 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: was and I realized that no one could ever imagine 68 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: me doing it, including me. And I'm going to give 69 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: you a hint of what this story that you're reading 70 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 1: or about to read really happened. How it happened. And 71 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: that was the person I discovered after writing this book 72 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 1: was me. I had no idea that I could do 73 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: something like this in my life. I was the shyest 74 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 1: guy in school, painfully shy. If you asked me to 75 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:46,359 Speaker 1: do a Easter speech, I had five people on the 76 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 1: front road going, you could do it, you can do it, 77 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: Come on. It was painful. And so it's a reluctant 78 00:04:54,640 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: story about a kid who had absolutely no idea that 79 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: this evening was going to happen, full of stories and 80 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: ups and downs and the craziness. And if you said 81 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: to me, how did you do it, the answer is, 82 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. Tell me about your mom and dad, 83 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: my mom. Well, let's start with mom and dad. Were 84 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: the co parents. The real power in the house was 85 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: Grandma Foster. Now, if you know anything about your grandparents, 86 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: they rule whatever your parents were thinking, and they can 87 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: overrule whatever your parents are thinking. So Grandma Foster Am Foster, 88 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: who was a I get this now. She was a 89 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: classical pianist. She taught classical piano and in nineteen thirty 90 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 1: something she decided she was going to make a career. 91 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 1: In nineteen teen thirty or something, she was going to 92 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: be a classical pianist when she grew up. Now, you 93 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: think being a commodore and being famous around the world 94 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: was ridiculous, being a concert pianist black in Nashville, Tennessee 95 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: was almost virtually impossible. So that's my grandmother. My father 96 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 1: was a systems analyst, was in the military when he 97 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: first did the army, and he was a part of 98 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 1: that wonderful squadron of Army and Air Force black guys 99 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: called the Tuskegee Airman. My mom, I don't know how 100 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: my dad talked my mom and to marry him. Why, 101 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 1: because he was the funniest guy I'd ever met in 102 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: my life. He was the only guy in the world 103 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: that would take my mother's refine aka Miss Tuskegee. My 104 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: mother was Miss Tuskegee. Can you imagine? All right? So 105 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: she would take all of that and say yes to 106 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: my father. And for the life of me, I kept thinking, 107 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: what did he say to get my mother? And finally 108 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: one day I asked her mom, what did he say? 109 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: And her answer was he made me laugh. We are 110 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: now at that point where my dad taught me something, 111 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: and my mom was the verifier of that. Mom was 112 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: by the book the rules, here's the etiquette, here's the 113 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: proper way to say things, the proper way to do things. 114 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: My dad taught me. He says, your mother's going to 115 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: teach you how to speak. Well, your mother's going to 116 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 1: teach you how to walk into a room and act 117 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: like you got some sense. I'm going to teach you 118 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: how to survive. And that's exactly what he did. Now, 119 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: you would think that course would be a very long course. 120 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: It was not a long course. My dad's line was 121 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: very clear, if you don't have a sense of humor, 122 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 1: they got you. And I realized at that point how 123 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: he survived, and my mother survived, and my grandmother survived. 124 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 1: There was nothing good about being black in the South 125 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: Jim Crow with all the degrees you could possibly ever 126 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: get and feel good about yourself. But for some weird reason, 127 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 1: the Tuskygee Airman my dad's squadron, not in the Air Force, 128 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: but in the army division of that my grandmother who 129 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: wanted to be the classical pianist. They didn't let us 130 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: know that that was the pressure. I heard laughter every 131 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: day on that campus in my house, and I never 132 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: knew that there was that much pressure on them. But 133 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: they were under a lot of pressure. But they raised 134 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: us with the possibility, just the possibility of hope, the possibility. 135 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 2: You talk about how back then there wasn't a lot 136 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 2: of diagnosis for ADD or ADHD and you were just different. 137 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:10,440 Speaker 2: Do you think that ended up being a. 138 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 1: Superpower of yours? 139 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 2: More so because it obviously in ways because it was 140 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 2: it was kind of unexplainable at the time. 141 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: You were just a different kid. 142 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 2: But do you think that allowed you to get to 143 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 2: places creatively that maybe you wouldn't have been able to 144 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 2: get to? 145 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: That was so nicely said. When I was growing up, 146 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: I was labeled as strange. Why we didn't know what 147 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: add was or ADHD or they just said, can you 148 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: read can you write? And can you just sit still 149 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: in your chair and not move? So they added one 150 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: more to it, hyper sensitive. Now, if you know anything 151 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: about being on a university campus, they have more doctors 152 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: and more people to analyze your ass and I was 153 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: the one they were trying to analyze. And the most 154 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: important part about this was I started believing that there 155 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: was something wrong with me, and so I went through 156 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:30,680 Speaker 1: life thinking, well, maybe I'm having a situation here where 157 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: maybe I can't track things properly. So then I tried 158 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: to read music and I know the notes, I'm looking 159 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: right at the notes, but I'm going that that that's 160 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 1: not working. And then I tried to read a passage 161 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: from the thing and it goes and the man walked 162 00:11:50,760 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: into the room. He went to the park lionel and 163 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: I froze. But then I took a speed reading course 164 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 1: and passed with honors. But they didn't give me credit 165 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 1: for getting the comprehension of the page. They gave me 166 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: credit for not They gave me the credit of not 167 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 1: being able to say word for word. So I had 168 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: a problem. The next thing was Bobby, this is first grade, 169 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 1: second grade, fifth grade, high school, college, to the point 170 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: where they would say, mister Richie, would you like to 171 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: join the rest of the class, And the answer was 172 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 1: I was not present. I was on the other side, 173 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 1: somewhere in my imaginary place, creating something. I'm on an 174 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: academic campus, get this, trying to create ate something when 175 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:03,439 Speaker 1: all I had to do was read the damn thing 176 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 1: out the book and I can get a A. But I 177 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:10,719 Speaker 1: liked what I was doing on the other side. 178 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 2: And that allowed you to do things to such a 179 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 2: bigger level on the other side. 180 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 1: I didn't know that at one point. I think it 181 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: got you there, right, you know, and it got me there. 182 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 1: But the story is so amazing because what I want 183 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 1: people to read from this book is not that I 184 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: made it, is how the hell did I make it? 185 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: Because there were so many things stacked against against my 186 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: conscious mind that I had to forget about what is 187 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 1: the proper thing to do? And so everything was going 188 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: well until I couldn't quite deal with it. I got 189 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:56,559 Speaker 1: to I got to my university. Now I'm going to 190 00:13:56,600 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 1: Tuskegee University for college. But I met these guys. I 191 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: met these wonderful guys, and you know what I liked 192 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 1: about him? They didn't grow up with me, you know 193 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: who the hell I was. They only asked one question. 194 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: Did you bring your horn to school? I said, I 195 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: sure did. He said, would you like to join a band? 196 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 1: I said I sure would. I didn't tell him I 197 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: could read or write music, and they didn't ask me. 198 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: The second thing was, i can play the piano by ear, 199 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: and i can play the saxophone by ear. But I've 200 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 1: never been in a band before, and I've never been 201 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: a lead singer. I didn't tell him any of that, 202 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 1: but I wanted to be in this band. You got it, 203 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: and I thought, as a backup, I might just be 204 00:14:47,400 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: a priest. What see, y'all didn't believe it even and 205 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 1: neither did I. But I thought most of the people 206 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: that actually talked to me all day long were people 207 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: of the clergy. I'm an episcopalia. I would love to 208 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 1: God bless us. And by the way, we don't get 209 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: that loud in church. So you understand, church was basically 210 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: standard operating procedure of worshiping while being silent. There was 211 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 1: no emoting whatsoever. Here is there a ta in emoting anyway? 212 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: A strong one. So I am now faced with my 213 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: backup is priesthood. And then I decided, Okay, I like 214 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 1: these commodoes so much. We're going to go to the 215 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: We're going to do clubs, We're going to hang out. 216 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: I've never been in the club before in my life. 217 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: I don't know what the club is right, and don't 218 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: have a clue as to what this is going to be, 219 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: but boy is it exciting. The greatest thing that ever 220 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: happened in my educational world was some lady on the 221 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: front row said say it, baby, say it baby, And 222 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: I went back to Father Caution and Bishop Murray Vernon 223 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: Jones looked across the desk and said, I don't think 224 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to be priest material. I have discovered something 225 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: that I don't want to let go. I touched somebody. 226 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: Now wait a minute, now you have to understand this 227 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 1: is a guy that never I was invisible. Invisible, somebody screamed. 228 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:04,399 Speaker 1: And then from there we went on to stand in 229 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 1: front of a stage and people were chasing me and 230 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 1: talking to me. And I had one problem though we 231 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 1: didn't have a record deal, and I'm in my junior 232 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 1: year in college and the Jackson five out of the 233 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: Cliblu Sky our manager at the time. We had a 234 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:28,639 Speaker 1: guy in New York City. Every year we go to 235 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 1: New York, but every year we go to New York summer. 236 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 1: And this time, not knowing that, Benny had a lady 237 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: named a friend of his named Suzanne de Paz, who said, 238 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:49,679 Speaker 1: I've got a new job, Uncle Benny. I'm going to 239 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: take this new group called the Jackson Five out on 240 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: their first tour across America. I'm looking for a front act, 241 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: an opening act. And Benny said, they're upstairs, under my 242 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 1: table and on my sofa and in my refrigerator in 243 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:10,399 Speaker 1: my apartment. And we walked out on stage and we 244 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 1: were the opening act. And I don't know what happened 245 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 1: at that point, but the opening act for our first 246 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 1: show was Madison Square Gardens. Madison Square Gardens, which means 247 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 1: we missed the Childlen circuit and went straight to Madison 248 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: Square Gardens. 249 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 2: You talk about Michael Jackson, and he was a bit 250 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 2: younger than you, but being surprised that and he said, 251 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 2: we have sold this out. 252 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 1: You got that. Yeah, okay, Michael was about that tall. 253 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 1: But to this day I would have loved to have 254 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: done a DNA test to find out just how old 255 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 1: this kid was. This was a full grown man. And 256 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:02,360 Speaker 1: he was doing stuff that I it was just stupid. 257 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 1: And we're backstage and he peeks around the curtain and 258 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: I peek around the curtain. He says, Lionel, Lionel, we 259 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 1: sold out Madison Square Guards And I said, you sold 260 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 1: out Madisine's great guy, I'm hanging with you. But what 261 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 1: did I learn backstage? What I learned was there was 262 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 1: there was limos everywhere, but the Jackson's only had one. 263 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking to myself, Okay, let me figure out 264 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: who these other people are. First limo was the trucking company, 265 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: the people who owned the trucking companies. Second one was 266 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: the lighting company, sound company, the publishers, the writers, the 267 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 1: record presidents, mister Gordy. I realized at that point there's 268 00:19:56,920 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 1: a business here. So je in case. By the way, 269 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm still the horn holder at this time. Because I 270 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 1: had no idea I could write a song. I had 271 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 1: two songs to sing in the show, and one of 272 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: them was little Green Apples. There is nothing, no, no, no, 273 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: there is nothing sexy about little green apples at Madison 274 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: Square Gardens. So I went out on stage and we 275 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: had to learn how to perform, and by midway of 276 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: the tour. We killed it from that point on. From 277 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 1: that point on, it became now clear to me this 278 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 1: is where I wanted to be. 279 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 3: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, 280 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 3: and we're back on the Bobby cast. 281 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:19,239 Speaker 2: On this tour, you guys had gotten so dynamic. You 282 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,639 Speaker 2: guys had had gotten so good. The newspapers were also 283 00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 2: complimenting you guys, and they'd. 284 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: Be the jack to five. They were good. 285 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 2: But holy crap, the commodores so much so that I 286 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 2: feel like there was maybe resentment from Michael's dad. 287 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:38,640 Speaker 1: You read the book, boy, Are you doing all right? 288 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: I like that? All right? So what happens is that 289 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: every thing that went it on at that time, you 290 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: have to understand it was all about protecting the Jacksons. 291 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:55,240 Speaker 1: We were just trying to make sure we killed every 292 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 1: night and every time they schooled them on what you 293 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 1: properly should do. We will listening. If you have a 294 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 1: song that's going to be the highlight song of the night, 295 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 1: play that first. Don't wait till the end because the 296 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 1: crowd won't be there. Now we're playing top forty. We 297 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 1: have no hit record, so we get to pick any 298 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: record we want. Well, we hit them with sly Stone. 299 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 1: We hit them with the Tempted, but we were killing 300 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: it and they were little boys, and we didn't have 301 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: any respect for them. 302 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 4: That should good TMZ guard right right, okay, until they 303 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 4: walked out on stage, and those little boys turned it 304 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 4: into a machine that would scare you to death to 305 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:43,120 Speaker 4: this day. 306 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:50,879 Speaker 1: Don't let anybody fool you. They came out to slay everything. 307 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 1: And at that point I realized, we are the luckiest 308 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: guys in the world to be in front of this 309 00:22:55,920 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 1: little school of preschoolers. And whatever I had to do 310 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 1: to tolerate the abuse for a year, I will take it, 311 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 1: because this is my ticket to somewhere. And finally we 312 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 1: ended up in the Hollywood buld in Hollywood, California, and 313 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 1: those little kids walked us right into Motown Records. 314 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 2: One of the interesting things about your story of going 315 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 2: solo wasn't you going I Am going to go solo. 316 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 2: It was the awkward predicament of them saying to you 317 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 2: and your band, you guys are now just going to 318 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 2: follow Lionel, and it put you in a very weird. 319 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 1: Place, ladies and gentlemen. I was perfectly happy being a 320 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 1: member of the Commodores and had no thought in my 321 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 1: life to leave this band. In fact, I wrote, I 322 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 1: think somewhere in the book, thank God for the comic 323 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: because without them, I would never have been Lionel Richie. 324 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 1: That is a true story. These guys, It's not a 325 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: band now. This is a group of brothers I never 326 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 1: had before. A group of brothers that didn't grow up 327 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:22,919 Speaker 1: on a university campus. These brothers grew up in real life. 328 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: Milon Williams Mississippi, Clyde the Drummer, and Tommy that's Florida. 329 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about the ritzy side of Florida. I'm 330 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 1: talking about Florida, Okay. And so when I tell you 331 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 1: William King, Birmingham, Alabama. They taught me more stuff that 332 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 1: I had no idea what survival was until I heard 333 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: their story. But more importantly, they taught me that I 334 00:24:53,320 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 1: can be me. I heard terrifying words from these guys, Lionel, 335 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 1: bend over on the stage and kiss that girl on 336 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 1: the front row. And I said to them, in my grandmother, 337 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: mother and father's training, I don't know the girl on 338 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:24,560 Speaker 1: the front row. And they said, fool, will you just 339 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 1: bend over and kiss that damn girl on the front row, 340 00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,679 Speaker 1: and so finally I found enough guts in my heart 341 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: to bend over and kiss that girl on the front row. 342 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 1: There was such a scream in this huge arena that 343 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: the problem the Commodore has had from that point on 344 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,919 Speaker 1: was Lionel quit kissing the girls and sing the damn song. 345 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: I had this discovered sexy, you understand, So everybody thinks 346 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 1: for a moment, the Lionel broke out being the lover 347 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,440 Speaker 1: he was when he was growing up and decided he's 348 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 1: gonna go solo. I did not want to go solo. 349 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:26,320 Speaker 1: I had the band, I had everything I needed. All 350 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: I needed to do is just stay in the band. 351 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: By this time, I discovered I could write. By this time, 352 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,240 Speaker 1: I didn't have to play the saxophone too long because 353 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: I had to be able to sing more than I 354 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: could play the sacks. This is good news. Now came 355 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: the problem reviews. Everything was fine until Lady. Now they 356 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 1: know me as the writer, and they don't know the 357 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: rest of the guys, but they know Lionel Riches and 358 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 1: the Commodores, and he wrote lady. So now you go 359 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:03,359 Speaker 1: back to the band to do interviews on behalf of 360 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:07,320 Speaker 1: the band, and here are the questions. So Lionel, tell 361 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: us when you started the Commodoes, tell us how you 362 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 1: did it? Well, I didn't start the book. I mean 363 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:20,080 Speaker 1: we started with the com Lionel, how does it feel 364 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 1: being the front man? This is not good? And then 365 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: finally the ultimate Madison Square Gardens, and then finally Lionel 366 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:43,400 Speaker 1: Richie set down to the piano and played his songs. 367 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 1: Here's the line that stabbed everybody in the in the chest. 368 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,879 Speaker 1: What's the guy like Lionel Richie doing in the funk 369 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 1: band like the Commodorees. Now try to go back to 370 00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 1: rehearsal after that, and that is not where you want 371 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:07,719 Speaker 1: to be. So from that point on, I felt this okay, 372 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: And no matter what I tried to do, no matter 373 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 1: how I tried to do it, no matter if I 374 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: stay on the road longer. But also was coming at 375 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 1: the same time was after three times a Lady, after Ceylon, 376 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: after Oh got it, and then Lady came out, The 377 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 1: checks were coming in. You know what keeps a band 378 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 1: together The word equal. It was not equal, and so 379 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: it became And I believe me, I'm telling you I 380 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: knew what was happening. I just was in denial. But 381 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 1: it was the hardest thing, and I knew eventually that 382 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: something had to happen, and it did. I had to 383 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: leave the Commodore's. 384 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 2: I want to talk about songs specifically, and let's bounce 385 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 2: around through some songs and lay. He is so interesting 386 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 2: to me because I love Kenny Rodgers. Yep, that's It's 387 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 2: like I got to know him a little bit before 388 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 2: he passed away a few years. Loved him. And you know, 389 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 2: he's known for that song that you wrote, but it 390 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 2: really wasn't lady. You had it as like baby and 391 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 2: you and he was just telling you a story and 392 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:18,960 Speaker 2: you're like, yep, it's a lady. 393 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 1: No, everybody, you have to understand something. You want to 394 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 1: be embarrassed and you want to get mad. Every guy 395 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: in the Commodos would bring in ten songs for the album, 396 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: and each one of us thought that their ten songs 397 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 1: was the ten that should be on the album. So 398 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 1: you do you don't need to finish the song totally, 399 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 1: because all you had to do is play and here's 400 00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: the first song. Nope, all right, here's my second song 401 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: to them. You know, so you don't write, you don't 402 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 1: f crap, You just hit the head of it. Go 403 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: to the verse, go to the hook. Then I get great. 404 00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 1: Kenny Rogers said, called me on the phone one day 405 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:16,040 Speaker 1: and said, I want one of those ballads. You got one? 406 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 1: And I said, yeah, I got one, and he said 407 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 1: I want you. How fast can you get me the song? 408 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: I said, well, I got a problem. I'm on my 409 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:32,959 Speaker 1: way on tour. We are just finishing up the album. 410 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 1: And now, of course I had a song called Baby 411 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 1: for the Commodore's album and they said to me when 412 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:49,000 Speaker 1: I walked in, we don't want another love song. And 413 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 1: I said, okay, that's pretty clear. So I decided to 414 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,960 Speaker 1: write a gospel song and I wrote, Jesus is Love? 415 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: Now all right? I got Jesus Love. I am not 416 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 1: going to be able to do this with Kenny because 417 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: we're going on tour. I said, when I get back 418 00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: off a tour, ton Kenny, I'll call you. And we 419 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 1: got it, no problem. Two weeks later, we're about to 420 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 1: go on tour. The drummer Clyde why he bought a motorcycle, 421 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 1: I'll never know his hope drummers and motorcycles. I'll never 422 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 1: figure fell off of his motorcycle and now has to 423 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 1: be off the road for a month and a half, 424 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:41,720 Speaker 1: maybe two months. Tours canceled and pushback. I called Kenny 425 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: on the phone and said, you want that song, he says, 426 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 1: I do. I said, I'm available, because that's Kenny Rogers. 427 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 1: You returned his phone call, you see, And so he said, 428 00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 1: meet me in Vegas. I get to bake, I guess. 429 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: And there he is in the dressing room, bigger than life, 430 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: and he starts telling me this story. He says, you know, 431 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 1: I just got married. I said, congratulations, I heard that. 432 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:17,719 Speaker 1: He says, you know I'm married a lady. I mean, 433 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 1: I'm from Houston, Texas. And I don't know why on 434 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: earth that. I mean, Maryanne is so refined. I have 435 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: no business being with a lady. This lady is so amazing, 436 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 1: linel she does things that I would have never has 437 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 1: taste I've never seen. He went on this lady, this lady. 438 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 1: He said, By the way, what's the name of the 439 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: song you wrote for me? I said, lady, he ain't stupid. 440 00:32:52,520 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 1: The brother ain't stupid, baby, lady, same damn thing. Right now, 441 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 1: he's excited because it's right on the story. He wants 442 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: to talk about it all right now, let me hear it. 443 00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 5: Wow. 444 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 1: Now this is commodore pitching one oh one. Lady, I'm 445 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 1: your nine and shining Ama, and I love you. You 446 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: have made me when I am I am. 447 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:41,480 Speaker 5: Your should have should have charged more money. 448 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 1: It's all right, it's all right. It was just that quiet. 449 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: And Kenny said, what's next? And I said, you like it? 450 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: He says, I think it's brilliant. What comes next? I said, 451 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: what If you like it, I'll finish it. And that's 452 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:15,240 Speaker 1: the beginning of lady. 453 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 2: The places that songs come from could be purposeful or 454 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 2: could be rare. 455 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: Can we take up a collection something that happened? That's 456 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: all right. The more you sing, the more. Yeah. Yeah, 457 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 1: if I got it? Hey hey hey hey hey hey 458 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,240 Speaker 1: hey hey hey. 459 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 2: Nothing felt as random to me as hello. How that 460 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:40,440 Speaker 2: song came to be? 461 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:46,759 Speaker 1: There are things what I love most about writing. It's 462 00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:52,399 Speaker 1: got to be simple. If it ain't simple, you won't 463 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: remember it, and neither will I. And when you have 464 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 1: a d D you need it simple. All right. Now. 465 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 1: I was playing around with my co producer, James Anthony Carmichael, 466 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 1: and he was late, and when he walked in, I said, hello, 467 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 1: is it me you're looking for? We need more money man. 468 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 1: We got to give my money anyway, He said, the 469 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:30,400 Speaker 1: damnedest thing I'd ever heard in life. Finished that song 470 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 1: and I said, wait, wait, wait, wait wait, I said, James, 471 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 1: that's the corniest line I've ever heard in my life. Hello, 472 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:43,839 Speaker 1: Is it me you're looking for? Can't be a song? 473 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 1: He says, I'm telling you. Finish the song, brother Richie, 474 00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 1: you got something. And I went back and reluctantly I 475 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:53,319 Speaker 1: put some chords to it, wrote the damn song. He said, 476 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 1: let's record it. I said, James, I'll be laughed out 477 00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:59,839 Speaker 1: of the business with Hello, is it me you're looking for? 478 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: He said, let's record it all right. We record the song, Lush, lush, 479 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 1: lush strings. It was just it was just amazing. And 480 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:24,359 Speaker 1: then I loved it and he hated it. Why it's 481 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 1: too heavy? It's too heavy. So I went off somewhere 482 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: and wrote a song to kick ladies ass. Excuse me, 483 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 1: Hello's ass, and wrote Truly. Now now wait now it 484 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 1: gets it gets, it gets scared before it gets good. 485 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:56,880 Speaker 1: Now I'm sitting there and I have Truly, And we 486 00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: threw some more songs off the record. Do I throw 487 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: off Hello and replace it with Truly? Or do I 488 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 1: keep Hello and put it out. At the same time, 489 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 1: we threw another song off because it was just too risque, 490 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:25,279 Speaker 1: call All Night Long. I ain't gonna sing that. It 491 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:30,480 Speaker 1: takes too long, but the point was to show you 492 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:36,960 Speaker 1: the insanity was I was trying. You know. My whole 493 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:41,680 Speaker 1: concept was, how do I get people's attention. You have 494 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: to do something crazy. I ain't taking off my clothes, 495 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 1: so I gotta shock you with something that you ain't 496 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:54,120 Speaker 1: ready for. And so I wrote this Calypso song and 497 00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 1: it's got the feeling and that thought. Okay, it was 498 00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 1: just too long and it was too much stuff, and 499 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,760 Speaker 1: it had too many layers. So we threw this off. 500 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 1: I'm walking down this hall one day at the studio. 501 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 1: This music is playing in the second thing. Oh my god, 502 00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:11,279 Speaker 1: it's just kicking and the thing is happening. And I 503 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 1: decided just to make sure I have that uptempo song covered. 504 00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,839 Speaker 1: I wrote Running with the Knight to cover in case 505 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:27,319 Speaker 1: we don't need All Night Long. Okay, to make a 506 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 1: long story short, Truly was the first single. Truly was 507 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 1: also my first Grammy Hello. We threw off the album 508 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,279 Speaker 1: the very last minute. We put All Night Long on 509 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 1: and Running with the night, and that was the national 510 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 1: anthem of my life story. Hello, all night long, Running 511 00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 1: with the night, Get out of town. 512 00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 2: You mentioned a Grammy, and we look at you, Lionel, 513 00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 2: the guy that's had it all, has done it all, 514 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,960 Speaker 2: has never lost. However, that is a bit revisionist history, 515 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 2: because you had a tough run at first, in. 516 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:15,359 Speaker 1: The midst of all of this, and he won and 517 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 1: he's doing this and Lionel and everything and he's this, 518 00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:24,600 Speaker 1: and Okay, the real life was things were falling apart. 519 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 1: The real thing was. What they don't teach you about success, 520 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 1: but they don't teach you about growth is outgrowing. They 521 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:43,359 Speaker 1: don't teach you that. They don't teach you that your 522 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 1: close friends, your family, your wife, your kids, your community, 523 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:56,799 Speaker 1: they don't teach you that. You come home one day 524 00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: and nothing makes sense because didn't have that flash. Nobody 525 00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:08,239 Speaker 1: did anything wrong it. You came home one day and 526 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:13,760 Speaker 1: Uncle Bill ain't famous and Uncle Bill is not funny anymore. 527 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:20,160 Speaker 1: And so Tuskegee, we got to get out of town. 528 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,960 Speaker 1: We got to go to LA because it's the studios 529 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,120 Speaker 1: right down the street and all the people I need 530 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:32,760 Speaker 1: to meet and know in the radio, television, movie business. 531 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 1: They live out there. They don't live next door to 532 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:40,400 Speaker 1: me in Tuskegee. Now, when you commit yourself to that, 533 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 1: hang on to your seat. When I first went to 534 00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 1: Los Angeles, California, I made a promise with my first wife, Brenda, 535 00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:54,560 Speaker 1: we are not going to be like those idiots that 536 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 1: I out here and they get married and divorced, and 537 00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:00,000 Speaker 1: then they do another movie. They get married and divorced. 538 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:04,440 Speaker 1: Get that's some LA stuff. We are not going to 539 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 1: do that. That's exactly what we did. I found out 540 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:16,320 Speaker 1: the secret to LA. They don't come after the artists. 541 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 1: They come after your family. They honor your mother, they 542 00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: honor your father. Guess who's showing up singing lady. They 543 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,879 Speaker 1: honor your kids, They honor your friends. And on top 544 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,040 Speaker 1: of honoring your friends, your new friends in the community, 545 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 1: they put a charity behind it and raise money on 546 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:46,200 Speaker 1: your friends. I'm not used to that. So the things 547 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 1: that were happening was things were growing and things were 548 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 1: falling apart. Things that I was trying to experience that 549 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 1: I thought was amazing. I couldn't fully enjoy it because 550 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 1: I'm losing stuff. Things are falling apart. And what you 551 00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,440 Speaker 1: saw during the most amazing period of my life was 552 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:14,160 Speaker 1: I lost the Commodorees lost, I lost Tuskegee, I lost 553 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:18,000 Speaker 1: my friends, I lost things that made sense to me. 554 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 1: And of course I knew something was wrong when I 555 00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,279 Speaker 1: decided that I Brenda and I are going to break up. 556 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,840 Speaker 1: And I called Father Jones where you saw that acolyte 557 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,640 Speaker 1: picture of me as an altar boy? And I called 558 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,279 Speaker 1: Father Jones on the phone and I said, I think 559 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: I think Brenda and I are going to get a divorce. 560 00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:45,520 Speaker 1: I'd like some counseling from you. And Father Jones said, 561 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:48,839 Speaker 1: I can't help you. And I said, I've never heard 562 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,760 Speaker 1: of such a thing in my whole life. You're the minister. 563 00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,799 Speaker 1: You supposed to be able to counsel me on this 564 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 1: moment in my life. Why can't you counsel me? He said, 565 00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 1: because in the history of Saint Andrew's Church, no one 566 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:10,680 Speaker 1: in the congregation has ever had a divorce that was Tuskegee. 567 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,000 Speaker 1: Your mom and dad were your mom and dad forever. 568 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,840 Speaker 1: In fact, everybody else's mother in town was called Mama. 569 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:23,480 Speaker 1: Everybody else's dad in town was called Dad. The idea 570 00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 1: that mister Boone and missus Boone were not together that's unthinkable. 571 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 1: I grew up like that in California. They leave every 572 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:41,279 Speaker 1: five minutes roll me. So I was a drift, and 573 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,480 Speaker 1: on top of that, not only a drift but completely. 574 00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:51,279 Speaker 1: I never understood the word lonely, but more than that, 575 00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 1: lonely and confused, because you go back to Tuskege to 576 00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,879 Speaker 1: tell folks about your problems, and the answer was, now 577 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,360 Speaker 1: how much money you make? Boy, you ain't supposed to 578 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 1: have no problems. The answer is money, power and fame 579 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:13,560 Speaker 1: does not change you. It only magnifies you. So if 580 00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:18,520 Speaker 1: you got a big problem, if you got a little problem, 581 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,880 Speaker 1: put money to that. And you got a big problem, 582 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 1: you in pain. You confuse Add money to that. It 583 00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,360 Speaker 1: ain't the same. And where's that village that raised me? 584 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:38,720 Speaker 1: There is no village in Hollywood, California. There's Westwood Village 585 00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: where you can go to c UCLA, but there is 586 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:47,879 Speaker 1: no village of people to help figure out your thing. 587 00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 1: And you read it in the book one of my 588 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 1: dear friends, just to show you the casualness of it. 589 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:59,080 Speaker 1: Didn't mean any harm. God bless Quincy Jones. But I 590 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,880 Speaker 1: went to Quincy and I said, Quincy, I got her 591 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 1: marriage problem. He said, line, how long? How many times 592 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:12,319 Speaker 1: have you been married? And I said, this is my 593 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:17,879 Speaker 1: first marriage all live. We got plenty more, plenty more. 594 00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,279 Speaker 1: And that's when I realized you can fall in love. 595 00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:29,759 Speaker 1: You can't afford to fall in love, not the second time, 596 00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, The first time is the hardest. The 597 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 1: second time you get a lawyer to cover in case 598 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:44,200 Speaker 1: that doesn't work out. Am I talking to you down here? 599 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:48,040 Speaker 1: I need an amen? I need amen, give her a kiss? 600 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:53,680 Speaker 1: I need no no, no no no no no no 601 00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:57,600 Speaker 1: no no no. See y'all, what's your bobby? You mess 602 00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 1: him up? Now you're messing see. Let me just explain 603 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,399 Speaker 1: to you, when you're twenty three years old, you can 604 00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:13,279 Speaker 1: bend over there to kiss. When you're ninety six, just 605 00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:19,480 Speaker 1: a squad alone. But anyway, I'm saying to you, I 606 00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:23,520 Speaker 1: had to get a lawyer. Now have you ever tried 607 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:29,399 Speaker 1: to tell the person you're marrying? I need to get 608 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 1: a lawyer before we could do this. What made me 609 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:44,760 Speaker 1: paranoid of this thing called marriage? I got suspicious because 610 00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:48,520 Speaker 1: I was in divorce court and I said, but God said, 611 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:53,280 Speaker 1: and the man said, let me remind you, mister Richie. 612 00:46:54,000 --> 00:47:00,080 Speaker 1: God has no voice in my courtroom, I said, So, 613 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:03,680 Speaker 1: let me get this straight. It took one country preacher 614 00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:07,560 Speaker 1: to get me in it and four Beverly Hills lawyers 615 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:11,080 Speaker 1: to get me out of it. Wait, half of my estate. 616 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,160 Speaker 1: I won't talk about that too much more. But Bobby, 617 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:20,719 Speaker 1: I got a listen. Here, I am being this love songwriter. 618 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:25,080 Speaker 1: Here I am people going Lilah's just the greatest lover 619 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,319 Speaker 1: of all times? How in the world could I be 620 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: paranoid of love? 621 00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:43,360 Speaker 6: The Bobby cast will be right back. This is the 622 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:44,560 Speaker 6: Bobby Cast. 623 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,800 Speaker 2: So I want to know because I love the documentary 624 00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 2: on Netflix. I thought it came together wonderfully. It made 625 00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:51,640 Speaker 2: me feel good. I thought you guys produced it. Well, 626 00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 2: the song's amazing. We Are the World like it lives? 627 00:47:55,080 --> 00:48:00,120 Speaker 1: It lives. What story didn't. 628 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 2: Get it told in that documentary, like a good one 629 00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,319 Speaker 2: that we didn't see that. You're like, oh man, that's 630 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:06,799 Speaker 2: a good one. 631 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,799 Speaker 1: Well, We Are the World had so many twists and 632 00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,439 Speaker 1: turns and things that you don't understand. But I will 633 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,880 Speaker 1: tell you a backstory, and God bless them when I 634 00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,000 Speaker 1: tell you this story. Now understand what I'm saying to you. 635 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:25,360 Speaker 1: We loved Algiero. Algio is one of the most talented 636 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:30,759 Speaker 1: singers in the world. And we touched on it just 637 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:34,000 Speaker 1: a little bit in the documentary, but we didn't go deep. 638 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:39,279 Speaker 1: So here's the answer. Al wanted to celebrate the song 639 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,879 Speaker 1: We Are the World before we recorded a damn thing. 640 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:51,160 Speaker 1: So Al started drinking about nine o'clock. By the time 641 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:55,279 Speaker 1: we got the one o'clock, Al was ready to celebrate. 642 00:48:56,920 --> 00:49:00,720 Speaker 1: And so what you didn't know was it came down 643 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 1: to his part in the show. And we got around 644 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:12,960 Speaker 1: and it's Dion Willie Nelson and and it comes into 645 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 1: Al and Al now opens his mouth, and what we 646 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:33,440 Speaker 1: heard from Al is why why why? Why? I was mh, 647 00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 1: holy shit. Okay, oh no. So I look over at Quincy, 648 00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 1: and Quincy looks over at me, and Diall is about 649 00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:51,279 Speaker 1: to kill him because she's got to harmonize with with Al. 650 00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:56,759 Speaker 1: So Quincy said, let's take a break, let's figure this out. 651 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:02,160 Speaker 1: So I go over to coincident. He says, okay, what's 652 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:06,200 Speaker 1: the problem. I said, he's getting some alcohol from somewhere. 653 00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:10,920 Speaker 1: We don't have any alcohol in the room. So I 654 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:15,839 Speaker 1: went out in the hall and there in the hallway, 655 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 1: his wife did not bring a bottle. She brought the 656 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:31,320 Speaker 1: damn case and he was on the second bottle. Okay, 657 00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:35,279 Speaker 1: so we went back when we did, we out the 658 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:39,840 Speaker 1: world and took every take we could find to get 659 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:45,360 Speaker 1: his part right. It's not in sync exactly, but we 660 00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:52,640 Speaker 1: found one. It was the early part of Bottle one. 661 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,640 Speaker 1: But you will never hear that story except on Bobby 662 00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:02,440 Speaker 1: Boone's podcast. But the truth of the matter was he 663 00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:06,480 Speaker 1: was a sweetheart, a sweetheart and talented as hell. But 664 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,560 Speaker 1: the point was that particular night we didn't need any 665 00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:12,160 Speaker 1: more surprises, and he was the biggest surprise of that evening. 666 00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:18,960 Speaker 2: My final question, you wrote so much about your life 667 00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:22,439 Speaker 2: and the book from the beginning up until basically now, 668 00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,359 Speaker 2: I want to know what you enjoy now, what you 669 00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:28,160 Speaker 2: love right now this version of Lionel Ritchie. 670 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:33,759 Speaker 1: I wasn't ready for that one. That's good. You know what, 671 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:44,040 Speaker 1: there's a there's a moment in time. There's a moment 672 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:48,160 Speaker 1: in time when you're so busy. Let me tell you 673 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:54,680 Speaker 1: about this business. When the light turns green, it's like 674 00:51:55,360 --> 00:52:01,080 Speaker 1: a supermarket thing to give you a basket and how 675 00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:04,800 Speaker 1: much can you put in that basket before the light 676 00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:10,160 Speaker 1: turns red? So you've for sake anything you know of 677 00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,560 Speaker 1: any kind of common sense, and you just work right, 678 00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,239 Speaker 1: work right, work right, work right, as fast as you 679 00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:24,120 Speaker 1: can before the red light comes on. The red light 680 00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 1: didn't come on. The songs stayed around. You can't guarantee that. 681 00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:38,000 Speaker 1: Up until this book. There's a word that I've been 682 00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:45,040 Speaker 1: constantly holding on to. It's called fear. Did I enjoy 683 00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:48,560 Speaker 1: the ride? You better believe I enjoyed the ride? But 684 00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:55,440 Speaker 1: what was my companion? Fear? It wasn't I got this. 685 00:52:56,520 --> 00:53:01,520 Speaker 1: It was what am I going to do in case 686 00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:07,720 Speaker 1: the thing turns red? Not reeling lizing it's been forty 687 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:16,520 Speaker 1: years since the light turned green. And so what this 688 00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:22,080 Speaker 1: book did was it forced me to look over my 689 00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 1: shoulder behind me. I discovered Lionel Richie. I discovered that 690 00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:37,279 Speaker 1: all the people that you are laughing at right now 691 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 1: and waving at and expecting to sing all night long 692 00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:48,879 Speaker 1: and we ain't gonna say all right out. But I mean, 693 00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:53,799 Speaker 1: in other words, it's almost like the imposter syndrome. And 694 00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:56,680 Speaker 1: what I want you all to understand, I didn't write 695 00:53:56,680 --> 00:54:00,760 Speaker 1: this book to tell you about the success. I wrote 696 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 1: this book to tell you about the fear and then 697 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:08,080 Speaker 1: not trusting myself and hopefully finding a way to make 698 00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:11,760 Speaker 1: this work because somebody just may find out I can't 699 00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 1: play the saxophone. They just might find out I can't 700 00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:19,160 Speaker 1: play from notes on the keyboard. I gotta make sure no, no, no. 701 00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:22,880 Speaker 1: I was trying to keep everything in front looking real good, 702 00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:29,520 Speaker 1: and then I started talking about this book. I made it, 703 00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:40,600 Speaker 1: I actually made it, but even better than making it, 704 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:49,200 Speaker 1: I lived through it. I lost. I lost Luther Vandros, 705 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:58,600 Speaker 1: I lost Whitney, I lost Michael Rick James, I lost Sammy, 706 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:04,640 Speaker 1: I lost my men, just lost Quincy. I would have 707 00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:09,160 Speaker 1: loved for them to be here with me to experience 708 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,520 Speaker 1: this crazy stuff, and then I could tell you all 709 00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:19,239 Speaker 1: a lot more because they wouldn't suit my ass. But 710 00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:28,279 Speaker 1: the truth is what comes with success a sacrifices. If 711 00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:29,960 Speaker 1: I had known it was going to end up like this, 712 00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:34,640 Speaker 1: I'd have spend more time with my family. If I 713 00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:37,000 Speaker 1: knew it was going to be the end result like this, 714 00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 1: and then I realized they can't have both. What they 715 00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,720 Speaker 1: give you is that moment in time when your mother's dying. 716 00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:51,440 Speaker 1: Here's the dilemma. Do I cancel the World tour to 717 00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:53,480 Speaker 1: go home to check on my mother? By the way, 718 00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:57,799 Speaker 1: the World Tour was the all night long tour. Now 719 00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:01,400 Speaker 1: do I cancel that tour or do I stay on 720 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,760 Speaker 1: the phone to see how mom's doing? And of course, 721 00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:07,880 Speaker 1: thank god she lived through the entire tour. But the 722 00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:11,120 Speaker 1: point was your first concern is I gotta go home. 723 00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:16,279 Speaker 1: I didn't. And then you have friends that call you 724 00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:18,440 Speaker 1: on the phone, Lionel, I need to talk to you. 725 00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,840 Speaker 1: Is very important that we get on the phone and 726 00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,880 Speaker 1: I go, I'll call you. I'll call you what Okay, 727 00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:32,480 Speaker 1: I'll call you back. And then you get home and 728 00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:35,680 Speaker 1: you decide I'm going to return the phone call. Seven 729 00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:44,040 Speaker 1: months later and I said, let me speak to William, Lionel. 730 00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:51,080 Speaker 1: William died about six months ago, I said, die. From 731 00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,040 Speaker 1: what he said, well, he was trying to get in 732 00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:57,000 Speaker 1: touch with you to tell you that he had cancer, 733 00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:07,640 Speaker 1: and that's why he was calling. Okay, I'm here. I'm 734 00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:11,640 Speaker 1: on stage, worried to death that I may not be 735 00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:14,120 Speaker 1: able to How do I write a duet with Diana 736 00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,120 Speaker 1: Ross when I've never written a do it? I was 737 00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:21,080 Speaker 1: definitely under pressure, and I was so busy being under pressure. 738 00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 1: I let go of a lot of things that I 739 00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:26,840 Speaker 1: wish I could have been there for. But it's either 740 00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:32,160 Speaker 1: or it's never both. And so tonight, what I want 741 00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:36,600 Speaker 1: you all to know about that book, it's not the success. 742 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,959 Speaker 1: It's the things I had to overcome to get there, 743 00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:46,360 Speaker 1: the commitment, the doubt, the fear, the worry to get 744 00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:49,919 Speaker 1: on this stage. And I want every kid and every 745 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:55,479 Speaker 1: person to understand, everyone to understand, we're all scared to death. 746 00:57:56,480 --> 00:58:00,560 Speaker 1: As my dad say, what is the similarity between a 747 00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:04,959 Speaker 1: hero and a coward? They were both scared to death? 748 00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:11,680 Speaker 1: Is just one step forward and one step back in 749 00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:15,320 Speaker 1: all of my fear, Thank you, In all of my fear, 750 00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:20,920 Speaker 1: I just kept hearing my father. Are you scared of death? Yes? 751 00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:26,160 Speaker 1: Step forward? Are you scared of death? Yes? Step forward? 752 00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:33,240 Speaker 1: Are you in doubt? Yes? Step forward? Do you believe it? 753 00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:38,600 Speaker 1: Kind of step forward? Do you know who you are? No, sir, 754 00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:44,680 Speaker 1: step forward. In other words, step forward. 755 00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:47,840 Speaker 3: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor, 756 00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:58,880 Speaker 3: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. 757 00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:04,800 Speaker 2: We've got three audience questions. These will be quick hitting questions. 758 00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:07,840 Speaker 2: So tell the story of Stuck on You? This is 759 00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:09,680 Speaker 2: from Barr, But can you tell the story of stuck 760 00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:13,000 Speaker 2: on You? It's the one that goes stuck on you? 761 00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:18,080 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you, you know and by 762 00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:22,240 Speaker 1: the way you all are laughing. I wrote stuck on You. 763 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:28,360 Speaker 1: There are moments on stage. Well, I'll start singing stuck 764 00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:29,840 Speaker 1: on You, and for the life of me, I can't 765 00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:33,640 Speaker 1: think of stuck on You. I can't think of it 766 00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:38,160 Speaker 1: because it's that moment. Stuck on You was interesting. I 767 00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:43,560 Speaker 1: wrote the song for Kenny Rodgers. I wrote Truly for 768 00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:47,800 Speaker 1: Barbara Streisan, Truly. I wrote three Times a Lady for 769 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:52,480 Speaker 1: Frank Sinatra. All right, so you have to understand. James 770 00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:58,400 Speaker 1: Carmichael found out that I had a stash, so after 771 00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:03,840 Speaker 1: every group meeting he'd always go, Brad, MITCHI, now let's 772 01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 1: go back to your house and play the songs you 773 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:10,800 Speaker 1: wrote for somebody else. And I played him stuck on You, 774 01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,919 Speaker 1: and the song is very clear. I like, you don't 775 01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:19,959 Speaker 1: have to ask the question, what's the song about? I'm 776 01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:23,800 Speaker 1: stuck on you. Now, I'll tell you something funny about 777 01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:26,560 Speaker 1: while we're talking about stuff. There's no other story that 778 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:31,440 Speaker 1: goes along with that. But I didn't realize how special 779 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:42,760 Speaker 1: simplicity would be. I'm playing China. I'm playing China, and 780 01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:47,400 Speaker 1: the Minister of Education came backstage to me and said, 781 01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:54,160 Speaker 1: and I couldn't figure out I'm doing China Idol. And 782 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,640 Speaker 1: I walk out on stage and they know every word, 783 01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:03,120 Speaker 1: the kids, they know every word. And get this. Now 784 01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:06,200 Speaker 1: you're ready for a number three hundred and sixty one 785 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:12,600 Speaker 1: million people watching live. That's China Idol. And they are 786 01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:14,880 Speaker 1: going to do a medley. Excuse me, I'm going to 787 01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:18,439 Speaker 1: do a medley of all of my songs at the end. 788 01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:24,560 Speaker 1: They gave me this award. And then I learned what 789 01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:36,000 Speaker 1: they called me. I thought they called me Lionel Richie, Teacher, teacher, teacher, teacher, 790 01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:41,560 Speaker 1: And I said, what the hell are they? I know 791 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:47,840 Speaker 1: a little Chinese, but what's teacher? And they said teacher teacher. Okay, 792 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:56,160 Speaker 1: why do they call me teacher because we teach English 793 01:01:56,280 --> 01:02:04,960 Speaker 1: in China. On your songs, easy like Sunday Morning, stuck 794 01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:11,480 Speaker 1: on you? Hello? Is it me you're looking for? All right? 795 01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:15,120 Speaker 2: Two left Renee from Houston said, if you could sing 796 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:17,120 Speaker 2: one song, and only one of your songs the rest 797 01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:18,120 Speaker 2: of your life, what would it be? 798 01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:23,440 Speaker 1: Oh god, well no, no, no, no, no, no no no, 799 01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,360 Speaker 1: Now what would you all think? What would it? Will? You? 800 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:26,440 Speaker 5: All? 801 01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:29,400 Speaker 1: Right? God? You said? Zoom? Oh yeah, yeah, all right, 802 01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:38,800 Speaker 1: so it would be easy like Sunday morning. Yeah for me. 803 01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:47,120 Speaker 1: It said everything it said. I walked into a room 804 01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 1: one day. I wanted to be famous, and we're now famous. 805 01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 1: The Commodos are famous. And the beauty of this was 806 01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:58,520 Speaker 1: it brought us a book with three hundred and sixty 807 01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:03,440 Speaker 1: six pages in it, and from one to three sixty 808 01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:05,760 Speaker 1: it told us where we were going to be for 809 01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:09,360 Speaker 1: the next year, every day for that year, because we're 810 01:03:09,400 --> 01:03:13,320 Speaker 1: going to play a world tour. And I remember writing down, 811 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:19,920 Speaker 1: why would anybody put chains on me? I paid my 812 01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:22,920 Speaker 1: dues to make it. Everybody wants me to be what 813 01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:26,320 Speaker 1: they want me to be. I'm not happy when I 814 01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:29,080 Speaker 1: have to fake it or try to fake it. Leave 815 01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:36,920 Speaker 1: me alone. And I said, that doesn't sound like a 816 01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:42,200 Speaker 1: hit record. So I went back, took a break, and 817 01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:44,320 Speaker 1: came back and said, I just want to be easy. 818 01:03:44,600 --> 01:03:52,080 Speaker 1: I just want to take it easy. I'm easy. Easy, 819 01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:57,320 Speaker 1: Like what it took me three days to figure out 820 01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:02,400 Speaker 1: what you just said in five seconds. So what I 821 01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:04,840 Speaker 1: want you to understand, don't let anybody fool you about 822 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:09,440 Speaker 1: this word called genius. It's called hard work and asking 823 01:04:09,560 --> 01:04:12,280 Speaker 1: God in the universe as many times as you can 824 01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:18,800 Speaker 1: think about it. God, I know you're busy, but you 825 01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:28,960 Speaker 1: made me famous and they're looking for easy like what 826 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:34,760 Speaker 1: what is it? And in my midst of craziness, like 827 01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:39,560 Speaker 1: Sunday Morning came out and that is everything I was feeling. 828 01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:41,320 Speaker 1: And I'll tell you that you said another song, which 829 01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:44,040 Speaker 1: is wait if you listen to Zoom. And I said 830 01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 1: this in the book. I may be just a foolish dreamer, 831 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:53,200 Speaker 1: but I don't care. Of course, I know my happiness 832 01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:59,400 Speaker 1: is out there somewhere. I'm searching for that silver lining 833 01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:05,000 Speaker 1: horizons that I've never seen. Oh, I'd like to take 834 01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:12,320 Speaker 1: just a moment and dream my dream Zoom. And what 835 01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:15,440 Speaker 1: has happened to me in this book and what has 836 01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:19,840 Speaker 1: happened in my life is that God was listening and 837 01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:20,520 Speaker 1: it happened to me. 838 01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,280 Speaker 2: I think we end it right there, Ladies and gentlemen. 839 01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:37,960 Speaker 6: Lionel Richie, Bobby Bones, thanks for listening to a Bobby 840 01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:38,760 Speaker 6: Cast production.