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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, Steve Colo, this is from Donald

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Speaker 1: in Salt Lake City. Donald writes, I'm getting a divorce,

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Speaker 1: and whenever I try to move on, my ex wife

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Speaker 1: shows up and embarrasses me by acting a fool. I

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Speaker 1: don't know how to make her stop. So I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: about relocating. I would miss my kids, though, So how

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Speaker 1: do I handle this?

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Speaker 2: Send them kids? Some nice giftstof you? Think he should run?

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Speaker 2: Leave town?

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Speaker 3: Been there, don't stop. I don't know how to make

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Speaker 3: them stop either, so I don't know what to tell you.

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Speaker 2: Get out.

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Speaker 3: That sound like a plan to meet dog Lee, Relocate,

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Speaker 3: get out, don't do like I did. I said here, relocate.

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Speaker 3: I should have been in Jerusalem.

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Speaker 1: He is, What about the kids, though?

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Speaker 2: Seriously, what about the kids?

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Speaker 4: Dog?

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Speaker 2: They got FaceTime? Everything? All right? Okay. All they won't

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Speaker 2: to do is text anyway, though My kids haven't been

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Speaker 2: in my house.

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Speaker 1: And text me yeah yeah, got to be there for

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Speaker 1: the baby, all right. Moving on to Judith and Tallula,

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Speaker 1: Julith writes, I charged a person on a credit card

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Speaker 1: that I was not supposed to be using. My husband

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Speaker 1: closed the account, and I opened it back up. He

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Speaker 1: lectured me about spending cash instead of using cards. I

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Speaker 1: worked daily, So do I have to abide by his rules?

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Speaker 2: Well you didn't, So what are we talking about? That

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Speaker 2: answers that he closed the car. You ain't.

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Speaker 3: Hey, you bought the purse he wasn't posted. He closed

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Speaker 3: a card, you open it back up. He called you

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Speaker 3: and he lectured you. You wrote us a letter, So

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's going the way he wanted to

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Speaker 3: go anyway.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: My message to men when it comes to finances with women,

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Speaker 3: give her, help them some financial freedom so you can

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Speaker 3: have some peace of mind. Whoa if you if you

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Speaker 3: try not? No, she don't share me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she says she works daily.

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Speaker 3: No, that don't give you final free She said she

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Speaker 3: bought a purse she wasn't supposed to. Who said that him?

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Speaker 3: He closed the account that she put it on, She

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Speaker 3: went back there and opened it back up. This is

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Speaker 3: fing to go on and on and on for years.

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Speaker 3: So it's in the man's best interest to give a

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Speaker 3: woman financial freedom.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she has a job, but y'all got to.

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Speaker 3: Come with laws in y'all's family and rules that allows

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Speaker 3: her to have the financial freedom because you're married an adult.

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Speaker 3: She ain't your child, and they're not gonna let you

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Speaker 3: cheat him like children, not when you and not want

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Speaker 3: to do grown folks stuff with him.

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Speaker 2: All the time. A purse, yeah, what kind of bag?

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Speaker 2: But see, there you go, there you go. Whatever the was?

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Speaker 3: Do you know the problem he got now because shea

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Speaker 3: wrote in on a national radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he just wants her to spend cash instead

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Speaker 1: of using cards too.

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Speaker 3: One card or you need an American Express where you

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Speaker 3: can get a point. See, then spending your card make

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Speaker 3: a little bit better sense because I get points and

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Speaker 3: you can turn it back in. But listen, man, if

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Speaker 3: he wanted you to pay cash, that's a good deal too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's what the lecture was about, especially if

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Speaker 1: you don't have a.

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Speaker 3: Card, because now, if you're not gonna pay the card

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Speaker 3: off right away, whatever you pay for that bag, come

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Speaker 3: with between eighteen to twenty one percent interest on them

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Speaker 3: credit cards.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right? Moving on to Marvin in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: Marvin writes, I met my side chick at a hotel.

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Speaker 1: When I left, I took her phone by mistake. She

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Speaker 1: panicked and showed up at my house to get her phone. Luckily,

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Speaker 1: luckily my wife wasn't home when she popped up. How

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Speaker 1: do I make sure, oh, she won't do this stuff again?

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Speaker 3: Well, the first thing you could do is not have

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Speaker 3: her as the side piece.

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Speaker 2: That's let's just start common sense. Yeah, yeah, bro, how

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Speaker 2: she know where you live?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What you're doing? Yeah, it's rules society piece. But how

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Speaker 2: you take her phone? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: How you get out of my home and didn't know

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Speaker 1: you didn't have your phone? Yeah, they don't. Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: don't need to do this, neither one of.

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Speaker 3: Y'all your phone at the hotel? Which that man, I

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Speaker 3: don't think you understand the rules to none of this.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy. How do I stop her from doing stuff

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Speaker 3: like this? She showed up in my house?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's stupid.

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Speaker 4: Right, you drove all the way home with her phone. Right,

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Speaker 4: you're so stupid. You don't know you stupid?

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Speaker 2: Hell, and look, a true expert y Game recognized you

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Speaker 2: don't even know he's stupid. Yea, better recognize your guilt?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Wow, all right, last one, Steve. This is the last one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Brie and Griffin re writes, my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: and I live far apart. I go visit him a lot,

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Speaker 1: and he's never offered to pay for my gas. I

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Speaker 1: asked him about it, and he said that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: ask me for gas money when he visits me. So

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Speaker 1: we're even. The question is should he pay for my gas?

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Speaker 1: Or are we even? Like?

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Speaker 2: No, I think the question is should y'all be together?

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Speaker 4: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Your relationship is built on gas travel money. Man, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he don't ask you for gas money when he comes.

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Speaker 2: See you really you?

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Speaker 1: So they're even?

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Speaker 2: He said no. See it ain't even.

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Speaker 3: Man, you don't understand. So you he won't the cookie?

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Speaker 3: You got the cookie. You get the cookie and put

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Speaker 3: it in the car and dry the cookie to him.

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Speaker 2: He can't pay.

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Speaker 3: You can't live without, so he getting free cookie delivery.

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Speaker 3: See now you got the cookie. Come on, he want

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Speaker 3: the cookie. He tried to get the cookie. He paid

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Speaker 3: to get your cookie. But when you bring the cookie,

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Speaker 3: you got a free cookie delivery service. All right? Uh?

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