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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jenna Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: You guys, we're back and it's so cute. We walked

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Speaker 1: in and it's a jungle right now in the studio.

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Speaker 1: It's adorable. It's so sweet. Producer Amy and Tori and

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Speaker 1: Eastern and Jen. They threw us a little baby shower.

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Speaker 1: It's a boy. It's a coming any day now. I

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Speaker 1: had contractions the other day. Did you sort of freak

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Speaker 1: And because my brother and his girlfriend Christen were in town,

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Speaker 1: we went to the Santa Monica Pier and we're walking

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Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, this is a contraction because

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Speaker 1: it's really hurting, and it would come. It was like

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Speaker 1: a sharp stabbing pain right there in my uter and

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Speaker 1: but then I didn't know if he was just sitting

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Speaker 1: it would come like every two minutes, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: Pierre happening right now? Oh my gosh. But I started

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Speaker 1: to free out and I started to look like, okay,

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Speaker 1: there's the police station, there's some like I started to

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Speaker 1: So did you ever have the tightening contractions? I had

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Speaker 1: those for sure. I haven't had those yet though, because

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Speaker 1: those are the real Yeah, oh, we better get to

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Speaker 1: the hospital. Well, you know, but when, like I said,

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Speaker 1: that I thought he was stabbing me with a knife.

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Speaker 1: And that's if everyone is different. Yeah, that's true. Mike

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Speaker 1: really want to try to get this in all what

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Speaker 1: we had to table the other night my motorcycle. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so Jane, I've been just go go ahead, but I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm so already again. Okay. I've always wanted one, okay,

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Speaker 1: It's not a midlife crisis. I just want one. I've

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Speaker 1: So Janna says, all right, you can get one when

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Speaker 1: We know that, right which I told her that we

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Speaker 1: I knew it. I knew it. We have two kids.

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Speaker 1: There's so many deaths and dangers of motorcycle just right.

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Speaker 1: But it's worse. It's not about I don't It's not

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Speaker 1: I almost hit motorcyclists driving because we live in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: Are you getting a crop rocket? No, it's like a crossover. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what is your what is your I'm told I'm still

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Speaker 1: I pulled of statistics just I'm always on your side,

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Speaker 1: the next year. This is weird though, this guy, I know,

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Speaker 1: I know I'm an idiot. I've made a lot of

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Speaker 1: I understand the chance of danger greater on a motorcycle.

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Speaker 1: But if you think about the statistics, I'll be driving

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Speaker 1: number one. Number two, I do love you. As much

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Speaker 1: as I've said I want you to die some days,

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Speaker 1: why would I even bother getting it right now? Because

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Speaker 1: it's something to do for me? Go golfing? Much safer?

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Speaker 1: when you have children, yeah, it's like you have to

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Speaker 1: wait until they go to sleep to start and then

424
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Speaker 1: you know, pre there's nothing post kids go to sleep

425
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Speaker 1: from me, I'm done. I mean there's no way. Oh yeah,

426
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: when they're sleep I passed out immediately. She's in Chicago

427
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Speaker 1: doing Empire. Do you stay here? Do you go to

428
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Speaker 1: Chicago with her? Um? I visit a popping They'll love

429
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 1: popping here and there. You guys are just gorgeous, both

430
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 1: of you. You guys are both dreamy, beautiful, beautiful couple.

431
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Speaker 1: And then she pops in pop in, who guys, who

432
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Speaker 1: watches the kids? When she pops in, we're here and

433
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 1: when I pop out, then we have Rosie, the world

434
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Speaker 1: famous Rosie who's our angel and God sent. But she's

435
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Speaker 1: been with twelve years. She's amazing. That's why the kids

436
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Speaker 1: speak Spanish perfectly. That I think it's great though, that

437
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 1: she does communicate well, because you guys are on opposite

438
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: sides of the coast too, you know, like, don't you

439
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 1: don't you need that communication? Well, I mean it's close

440
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Speaker 1: enough people right there. I just let her go with that.

441
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: You should, you should, because it's not if it was

442
00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: my wife's right, the coast, it's the Midwest. It's actually

443
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Speaker 1: in the it's like an hour and a half flight

444
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Speaker 1: from New York. You're right, you're right, you're right. It

445
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Speaker 1: is actually more on the coast. If you really think

446
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Speaker 1: about the coast of a lake water, it's in the

447
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Speaker 1: coastal area. I'm checking out right now the podcast to

448
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Speaker 1: play the game a little bit. I just let it.

449
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Speaker 1: Oh no, you know, you know exactly. I mean that

450
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Speaker 1: I would have reacted the same exactly. Absolute Chicago is

451
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Speaker 1: on the east coast. I'm just I'm from Michigan, so

452
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Speaker 1: it's it's it's that side, Michigan East coast. To me,

453
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Speaker 1: if it is for you, it's Midwest. I don't like him.

454
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Speaker 1: It's right in the middle of the worst. He's making

455
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Speaker 1: me hot. And bothered. So I don't want to baby

456
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Speaker 1: come yet. My Uh you're you're like about to now?

457
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: Yeah you excited. Yeah, we're having a boy, so we're

458
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: we're super planking. Jesus. Your boy was so cute. I

459
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Speaker 1: met him at the fashion show. One boy saved my life.

460
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: Why what is that? Because I was in estrogen? Hell,

461
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 1: and then he came. I thought you were going to

462
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 1: sweet for a second and say something really nice and

463
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: just know, I love my girls, but look, it is

464
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Speaker 1: a difficult endeavor at times to deal with the estrogen.

465
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Speaker 1: And that's just the truth. Has a very big personality.

466
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Speaker 1: She does in a beautiful way. Oh yeah, absolutely beautiful.

467
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Speaker 1: And and my daughter is basically a carbon copy of

468
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Speaker 1: my wife. That's how and then happened here, That's how

469
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Speaker 1: it is, because I mean, I remember I was talking

470
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Speaker 1: to her at the at the show and she was

471
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Speaker 1: telling me about your girl and how sweet and all that,

472
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Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, just late, you'll see what happens

473
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: at twelve. I wasn't a mole caught in a time

474
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Speaker 1: warp in my house. They had an argument up there

475
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Speaker 1: on a balcony and they stormed off in opposite directions

476
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: and slammed the door both of them, and I was like, Yeah,

477
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: that's it right there. That's exactly why I have foreshadowing

478
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: right now, like I feel like, oh, you're gonna see

479
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 1: that you guys are the same. She's already a type

480
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: a strong wheeled personality three years old. So you two

481
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: are going to go at it. Unbelievable. She is turning

482
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: into a little mini me with your son, Like for

483
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 1: a new filing, you you're not even you won't need

484
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Speaker 1: a motorcycle. I swear to God, you won't need a

485
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Speaker 1: mostc He's going to be just to just to watch

486
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 1: my son on the basketball court or hanging out with me,

487
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 1: or playing tennis, or dealing with his sister or it's

488
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 1: just your heart just swells up. It's absolutely the best

489
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 1: feeling in the world. And then you see little things

490
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 1: that he does that remind him, that reminds you of him,

491
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: that reminds you of yourself, because you're the model, right,

492
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 1: you're his model, and he watches you like a hawk.

493
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: Everything you do say, how you relate to his mom,

494
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: how you love his mom, that's that's a that's a footprint.

495
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: You know that that you leave that he tries to

496
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: step into um as he relates to women, and it's

497
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: the most amazing thing. That's awesome. I'm looking forward to that. However,

498
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 1: how have you balanced being obviously a father figure but

499
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: also a friend at the same time kind of trying

500
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: to find that? No, no, there's no balance. I'm the father.

501
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: Go look for a friend. I'm not the friend. But

502
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 1: what if he wants to come to you and say, hey,

503
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: you know what, talk to you about hard stuff. If

504
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna be with you, don't have to be a

505
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: friend for that. But if you're like you don't you

506
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 1: don't do drugs. But but what kind of father do you? Well?

507
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: For example, like, how would you deal with that? Because

508
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: I deal with it as you can come to me

509
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: with anything, but yeah anything. Being a father doesn't mean

510
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down on you all day long. No,

511
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: it means it means I love and embrace you, and

512
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: I and I give you structure and discipline, and you

513
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,479
Speaker 1: can come to me with anything, and I always got

514
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: your back, always supports you, I love you no matter what.

515
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: That's what a father is supposed to do. What about emotions,

516
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: same thing, same thing. Absolutely, you don't say your boy,

517
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 1: don't cry what, No, that's archaic, that's like caveman. Well,

518
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: it depends on a culture too, you know. Called different

519
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: cultures have have different ways of dealing with that. But

520
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 1: I I shoot you cry cry you want to cry? Cry?

521
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:40,240
Speaker 1: Absolutely no, I mean no, But I'm not his friend.

522
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm not my daughter's friend either. See I kind of

523
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: I don't that reps me weird? I don't know because

524
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: I want to still be No, but maybe your definition

525
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: of I think you're you're You're looking at it as

526
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 1: mutually exclusive and it's not. I can be I can

527
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: serve a friend type purpose as a father. But to me, um,

528
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: my priority is to make sure they're safe, make sure

529
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: they get all the attention they need, all the love

530
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: they need. Right. Friends don't have the same responsibility, right,

531
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Speaker 1: And and because it's my, my responsibility is to make

532
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 1: sure that he is going to be well rounded, uh,

533
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: purposeful human being walking on this planet. And I have

534
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: a lot to do. I have a lot of responsibility.

535
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 1: I mean, he's a little black boy with green eyes, right,

536
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: so I have to have in this day and age,

537
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: I have to have conversations with him that a white

538
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 1: father doesn't have to have with his child. So that's

539
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: extra responsibility. Like he had a super soaker and he

540
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: wanted to run across street in the park with his friend.

541
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: I said he can't do that, and he looked at

542
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: me like I was crazy. Those are some of the

543
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: conversations I have to have that the friend won't have

544
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: with him. Right because friends and Manton Beach, they're a

545
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: little white boys run around, they don't, you know, they

546
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 1: don't not having that conversation with him. I have to

547
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: have a conversation with him. I have to have a

548
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: conversation with him about how to treat his sister, how

549
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: to treat any woman, how to how to um you know,

550
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 1: look somebody in the eye and shake their hand and

551
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 1: introduce themselves. And those those are the conversations that a

552
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: friend won't have with him. So that's why I distinguish

553
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: between that and being a father. But it does not

554
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: mean that I'm not there for him any time he

555
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: needs me for anything. And we have fun together. We

556
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: have a ball again. You know, I've taken places. I mean,

557
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: we spent one on one time, just like I do

558
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: with my daughter. And you know, I take him to

559
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: concerts and I take him to our art exhibits and

560
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 1: and we we travel, and they've been traveling since they

561
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: were babies. I mean they've been to every single continent

562
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: and slept on on dirt floors and five star hotels.

563
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: And that's my job as a father to expose them

564
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: to we think, make sure they understand that life is

565
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: not what it looks like in Manhattan Beach. But yeah,

566
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: for sure. Alright, so you have your suit line and

567
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Speaker 1: my custom suits. For me, that's like it sim a

568
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569
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Speaker 1: He goes, when we have when we have money to splurge,

570
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: we have this conversation in the car. He's like, what

571
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: what would you do if we had money to splurge

572
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 1: watch watches and suits. He goes, I would go to

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574
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575
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576
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Speaker 1: My brother actually brought the concept to me a couple

577
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580
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Speaker 1: our shirts are Egyptian cotton. We have. I just made

584
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585
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Speaker 1: are you wearing your line right now? I'm wearing those

586
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587
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588
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589
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590
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591
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Speaker 1: when you go, when you go, you can go on

592
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593
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Speaker 1: Twenty five days later you get your stuff in the middle.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we're doing this. So it's sad. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: That was cute? Can we do that? They just kissed?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Um, we have Justin and Emily Baldonian.

679
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: That was really cute. Cute. You guys are holding it.

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00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: Why don't we hold hands? We're usually like debating stuff

681
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,320
Speaker 1: that we argued about. You guys are holding papers and

682
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 1: you know what, we don't touch me. Here's the thing,

683
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 1: we never really see each other. So when we're together,

684
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: we're like, okay, you're real. Well we were talking about

685
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 1: probably because why Mike isn't very happy with me right

686
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 1: now is because he wants a motorcycle. Do you have

687
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: a motorcycle? I do not have a motorcycle. I have

688
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 1: a motorcycle license. You do? Did not get a motorcycle?

689
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: And why is that? We don't want to be around

690
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: for a long time? Yeah, that just seems to be

691
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 1: their running theme. Michael, I'm over to today. Yeah. Boris

692
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: was like, why why are you getting a motorcycle? This?

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Speaker 1: I think l A is just too dangerous for motorcycle.

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Speaker 1: That's why I said, nope, not here. She would you

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Speaker 1: get a motorcycle in Nashville, Tennessee? Probably, Okay, that's what

696
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 1: I'm but for like a weekend, like a Sunday, like

697
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:09,359
Speaker 1: going through the hills exactly. Why don't just rent one?

698
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 1: Why do we have to buy one? Anyways? Question? Welcome

699
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 1: to the Marriage Podcast. Okay, yes, okay, So we were obviously,

700
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: you know, doing our research last night, which again mommy

701
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: brain as a dope. Kids and I was like, of

702
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: course I need you guys had kids. They have a

703
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 1: three year old girl, a one year old boy. Sorry, um,

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00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: but Michael, do you want a fire away because you're

705
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: really excited to talk to Justin. No, I just I

706
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,439
Speaker 1: mean I love you know, reading kind of stuff about

707
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 1: you guys and all that you guys do. I mean,

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Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about you know, shout about

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Speaker 1: any guys promoting, promoting cocoon and everything that tell us

710
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: that the listeners kind of what you guys do and

711
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: what you're about. Um, go forward. Shout was shot was

712
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 1: something I did a few years ago that actually failed.

713
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 1: It was beautiful. No, No, it's totally cool. It was

714
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: I'm a kind of a serial entrepreneurs. So we launched stuff.

715
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: Things works, things don't good. Um, I'm I'm on a

716
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: fun little TV show, Virgin. Yes, I have. I have

717
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 1: a company called Wayfair, where we tell stories that we

718
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:21,319
Speaker 1: believe help remind us of our shared humanity. We want

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Speaker 1: to help remember that we're humans in this kind of difficult, trying,

720
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 1: dark age we're living in. Um, So we create a

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Speaker 1: lot of like documentaries and TV and movies. Have a

722
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: big movie coming out in March that I just produced

723
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Speaker 1: and directed and and and Emily just launched her first

724
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Speaker 1: you know, she dove into entrepreneurship head first and h yeah,

725
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: and launched the Cocoon, which is like, we just literally

726
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 1: launched it like two weeks ago. I was super excited

727
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,839
Speaker 1: about it. Um. The cocoon is a breastfeeding wrap. Um.

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Speaker 1: And the fun little backstory to that I'm actually wearing

729
00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: it right now you can't even tell. Yeah, And the

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00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: cool stories that when I had Maya are three year old,

731
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Speaker 1: I knew I wanted to breastfeed in public. I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to stay at home or go hide somewhere. I

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Speaker 1: wanted to be out sitting at my table at the

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Speaker 1: cafe and breastfeed. UM. But didn't always want to, you know,

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Speaker 1: just pop the boob out there. Days I want to

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Speaker 1: do that. There are days that I don't want to

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Speaker 1: do that. And then Justin's mom um brought me a

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Speaker 1: wrap that she had designed and created in the nineteen

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00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: eighties when she had Justin, so he was the beta

740
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 1: tester of this cocoon that she created, and she said, hey, am,

741
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Speaker 1: I have this thing that you can use if you

742
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: wanted to feel more comfortable. Um, And I loved it.

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00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 1: Everybody else who saw people women would come up to

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Speaker 1: her and where did you because we'd be feeding our baby.

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00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: Where did you get that? I need that? And we

746
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: kind of just look at each other and we're like,

747
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: we kind of have to, we should do this, and yeah,

748
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: and then we did, and we we brought on our

749
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Speaker 1: friends Satia Tweena, who's also an amazing designer, and we

750
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: redesigned it and made it perfect for the modern woman,

751
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 1: took the shoulder pads out from the and and yeah,

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00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 1: it's really pretty. Thank you. Where can the listeners get that? Map?

753
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: So we launched on kick Starter two weeks ago um

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00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 1: and the goal today and we're going to be up

755
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: for another I think doing another two weeks, two and

756
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: a half weeks um. And they can just go to

757
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Speaker 1: Kickstarter and search for Almah A m m A and

758
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 1: the cocoon and then they can see that that's amazing paint. Yeah,

759
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 1: it's fun. It's giving women a choice. Yeah, we're absolutely

760
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,919
Speaker 1: not telling women that they should cover up. That's I'm

761
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: all for moms not covering up. But truth is, sometimes

762
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 1: we just want to, you know, depending on where we are,

763
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: we want something, you know, and the baby might be

764
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: distracted or you might be struggling with a latch. It's

765
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 1: not always so easy, and that it's nice to have something.

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00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 1: It's wearing something and this is giving women. Aye, they're

767
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:01,320
Speaker 1: really pretty. I like the colors. Yeah, we have. I

768
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 1: breast fed for well, only about three weeks because as

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Speaker 1: soon as my my mother in law walked into the house,

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00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 1: rocked like quip. Breastfeeding. Yeah, it was the weirdness. It

771
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 1: was a sign. It was a sign. When I was

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Speaker 1: breastfeeding out in public, I was one of those moms

773
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Speaker 1: that would just pull my breast out. He was so

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Speaker 1: little and breastfeed. But there were some times I didn't

775
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 1: have anything and I was like, oh, it's kind of chili,

776
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:32,919
Speaker 1: it's you know here, yeah, you're you know, you're trying

777
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: to find the napkin put it over, just depending on

778
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: where you are. But there was nothing pretty. There was

779
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 1: not and that was my problem. They look like aprons

780
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: or they have like baby pandas on them, and I'm like,

781
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 1: where is this? I want to wear something that I

782
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 1: feel good in that that works with the outfit that

783
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Speaker 1: I'm already wearing, and there was absolutely nothing out there. Nothing.

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Speaker 1: Does this come in different colors? Yes, we have. The

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Speaker 1: one that I'm wearing now is the ivory or the

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00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: bone color, and then we have a beautiful gray and

787
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 1: navy and a black and hopefully more color. He's literally

788
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: wanted to like a red carpet. It's pretty if it's

789
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Speaker 1: really pretty. So where are you on the line of

790
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: mom's like, don't breastfeed? Are you super passionate or do you?

791
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: Are you a mommy shamer? No, I'm I just want

792
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: mamas to begin to support one another. And I can't

793
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: wait for the day when we just show up for

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00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:32,600
Speaker 1: each other and understand that every journey is different. We

795
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: all have different challenges, we all have different things that

796
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 1: to celebrate. UM. Breastfeeding just doesn't work for some people.

797
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 1: They don't want to do it, or it's I mean,

798
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 1: it can be incredibly painful and difficult to have a

799
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Speaker 1: successful breastfeeding journey. So it's just not right for everyone.

800
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: And I feel like we need to show up for

801
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: one another and say, hey, mama, no matter what you're doing,

802
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: you're doing an amazing job. You're raising a human being. UM.

803
00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 1: Quite literally the hardest job in the world, no question,

804
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: it's so hard. I mean, pregnancy is one thing, and

805
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 1: then it's birth, and some people want to do home birth,

806
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: other people want to see section and you know, we

807
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: all have different things that we need. We're all doing it,

808
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: and we're raising little human beings that are gonna, you know,

809
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: take care of our planet after we'd done so. I

810
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 1: think we're doing an amazing, amazing job. Everyone should be

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Speaker 1: entitled to, you know, follow their own beliefs and values

812
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: and and everything like that. Right, And Justin I was

813
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: reading here something about you that you're saying you've been

814
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: trying to cultivate a national conversation about what it means

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Speaker 1: to be a man or woman in today's world. What

816
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: does that look like for you and your beliefs? Am

817
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 1: I kind of stumbled, kind of stumbled into it. I

818
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: did a Ted talk last year about what it kind

819
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: of what it means to be man enough. This word

820
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: man enough and and uh, I started a conversation show

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00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 1: UM called man enough. When I sit down with me

822
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 1: and five other guys and we have really deep intimate

823
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 1: conversations among men that we um culturally haven't been exposed to.

824
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: And my journey started. Know I was I was a

825
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: skinny kid, I was bullied, I was not you know,

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Speaker 1: I didn't have a lot of friends. I was always

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Speaker 1: feeling like I wanted to be accepted by the other boys.

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Speaker 1: And I think naturally, I had a lot of what

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00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: you would kind of like look up in the dictionary

830
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 1: as feminine qualities. It's very emotional. I love to have

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Speaker 1: conversations and talk. I wasn't really good about like not

832
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: crying if I was hurt or if my feelings were hurt.

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Speaker 1: Um And my dad is also you know, he wasn't

834
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Speaker 1: like a huge, big strong like me, teach you how

835
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Speaker 1: to use tools and build stuff. My dad was like

836
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 1: a very sensitive, kind man and uh and so that's

837
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Speaker 1: how he taught me to be. So I learned that,

838
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 1: you know, we we emulate generally, if we're lucky enough

839
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Speaker 1: to have dads or male role models in our lives,

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Speaker 1: that's how we become the men that we are. And

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Speaker 1: if you don't have that, where do you go? You

842
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: go to TV or movies or wherever, and you look

843
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: at kind of this hyper masculine ideal that that has

844
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: been kind of you know, where we've been socialized to

845
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: think that that's what we have to be or we're

846
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 1: not man enough. And there's a lot of repercussions to

847
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: feeling not man enough that we don't ever talk about. Um.

848
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 1: So I. So I just kind of for me, it's

849
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: stumbled into it because I think I woke up probably

850
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: like in my late twenties early thirties, and I was like,

851
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 1: who the hell am I? And why am I pretending

852
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: to be somebody that I'm not? All the time, whether

853
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,600
Speaker 1: it was when I was single and dating and trying

854
00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 1: to figure out who I was supposed to be to

855
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: have women like me, or even in my marriage or

856
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: now as a father, there are real repercussions to how

857
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 1: we as men choose to act and uh, and whether

858
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:37,879
Speaker 1: or not we allow our emotions and feelings to kind

859
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 1: of come to the surface and acknowledge them and uh.

860
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 1: And so I'm kind of just in this journey and

861
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 1: writing a book and going deeper into the show, and

862
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 1: we're doing all kinds of stuff that just can hopefully

863
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 1: get men to have a conversation. And also the other

864
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:54,359
Speaker 1: part of that is I think when we can start

865
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: to have that conversation, we can show up and be

866
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 1: better men for the women in our lives and the

867
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: allies and and uh, you know, I hope that that

868
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: I hope that like we can take baby steps here.

869
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: I'm almost speechless right now because that I mean I

870
00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:11,360
Speaker 1: couldn't say any of that better myself. I mean, I

871
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: appreciate you being that honest and vulnerable about how you

872
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: feel that you know the the change and culture that

873
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: men should follow nowadays, and a tem percent support that

874
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: idea behind that because being someone I came from a

875
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 1: family that was oppositely yours in a sense of you

876
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: don't express your feelings, kind of rough and tough, build stuff.

877
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 1: If you, you know, get hurt, you get That's one

878
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: thing I didn't do. I wasn't a bully, but you

879
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 1: know I didn't do those things. I didn't express those

880
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: things I always kind of wanted to, but anytime I did,

881
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: I would fight them because I was trained in my

882
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: mind to not be that way through observation, through nothing

883
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: really than a not a verbal lesson, but through observation

884
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: of the men in my life. And so now as

885
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 1: an adult the last couple of years, I've been going

886
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: through that transition to learn how to be a man,

887
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: really communicate, show emotion, express my feelings, to be a

888
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 1: better father, to be a better husband. And that's something

889
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: that seeing both sides of it, I'm like, how was

890
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: I ever that person before without being this way? That

891
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 1: I am now, and so I appreciate what you're doing.

892
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: I mean, that's very that's man. That means a lot

893
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:31,360
Speaker 1: to me personally. Thank you, man, I thank you, and

894
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 1: I think too. But when you looked at it last night,

895
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: you almost got you almost thought it was like a

896
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 1: feminist standpoint. That's yeah, that's I mean, another thing we

897
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: can talk about when you know. There's again a note

898
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: here that we got that says you're raising both your kids,

899
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 1: raising them both to be feminists, and and we were

900
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,240
Speaker 1: kind of thinking, like, okay, what is the true definition

901
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: of a feminist? We looked it up last night, and

902
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: I think people are taking it for me personally, taking

903
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: it a little bit out of text. I still think

904
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: that should was therdship lot like no, I'm a I'm

905
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 1: a I can open my own door. It's like no,

906
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 1: but I still think a guy should open a woman's door.

907
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: So do you. I'm not sure what that has to

908
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,920
Speaker 1: do how that works with the definition of feminism. Well,

909
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:16,720
Speaker 1: so I agree with you. So that's why I was wondering.

910
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: Let me start. I think there's extreme side, right. So

911
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,240
Speaker 1: one of my one of my best friends, UM, actually

912
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: a woman I grew up with. UM She passed on

913
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: a definition of feminism to me that I fell in

914
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: love with, which is the radical notion that women are

915
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: human beings. Mm hmm right, and that's it. So, you know,

916
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: feminism from from my perspective is and look, you can

917
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: look at it in all kinds of different ways that

918
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: the word itself is now so loaded right right, As

919
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:56,800
Speaker 1: an example me, well, there's all kinds of feminism. But

920
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 1: but feminism and politics now right, like it's so suddenly

921
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:03,880
Speaker 1: if you're a feminist, then you're a liberal or if

922
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: you're looking at you know, I'm talking about masculinity, but

923
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,879
Speaker 1: I'm not attacking men, right, But I'm acknowledging that as

924
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:12,799
Speaker 1: men were a big part of the problem of why

925
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 1: women have been historically oppressed because women have not historically

926
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: oppressed themselves. And but I'm not saying that like all

927
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:22,879
Speaker 1: men are problems, and I think that, um, you there,

928
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: there are certain things that are buzzwords in our current

929
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 1: culture that have been associated with politics that have not

930
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,760
Speaker 1: that in my opinion, don't have anything to do with politics.

931
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: They're human issues, right, So when I talk about raising

932
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: my kids as feminists, it's really about acknowledging and respecting

933
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: the fact that like women and men are truly equal.

934
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 1: That's it. You know. We were raised in the b

935
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 1: High Faith, that's our faith. We believe that all the

936
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:49,840
Speaker 1: religions fundamentally agree and at the core God created women

937
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 1: and men right in his image. But we are completely equal.

938
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: And there's a quote we grew up with. Its talks

939
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: about how women and men are like two wings of

940
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 1: a bird right on one. You have one women on one,

941
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: you have men on another, and the bird itself is humanity.

942
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: But not until those wings are equal can the bird

943
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 1: ever fly. So not until women and men are truly

944
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: equal and all aspects of life all over the world

945
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,919
Speaker 1: can we ever have peace. Right. And it's not saying

946
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: that men and women are identical, but it's saying that

947
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 1: we have to understand that they're truly equal and they

948
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: should all be afforded the same opportunities. And that's really

949
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: all it comes down to. For me, it's humanity, right.

950
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 1: So chivalry always try to open the door for a

951
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 1: woman more. And my my dad was super chivalrous from

952
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: pulling out you know, seats and all this kind of stuff. Um,

953
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 1: but again it's the choice, right, and I don't think

954
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: chivalry should die. I don't think we should get to

955
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 1: a place where men are just looking at women and

956
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 1: saying like, oh, you could do it yourself, You'll be fine, right,

957
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:50,320
Speaker 1: And I think that they're like you have to just

958
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 1: look at the core reasons why chivalry probably even exists.

959
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 1: I think it's about honor, and it's about a code.

960
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: It's about us men understanding that you know, part of

961
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: us being physically larger than women. I mean, that's just

962
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 1: something you cannot debate. Like in general, we're just you know,

963
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 1: we're stronger, We're bigger. Is as protection, right, you know,

964
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 1: but at the same time, we we can't have babies.

965
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 1: We might be bigger and stronger, but like you give

966
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: us that or a or a monthly period you watch,

967
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 1: like you know, how how truly weak we actually really

968
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:29,240
Speaker 1: I can go fight all day long and fighting wars,

969
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: but but like give us cramping or like you know,

970
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: or like the man cold, Yeah, we're done. We're useless.

971
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: So I just think it's understanding, like you know, its

972
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: just it's just, uh, it's just being aware, like being

973
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: sensitive to it. Yeah, And I appreciate you clarifying that

974
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 1: because Jan and I when we're reading, you know, kind

975
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: of going over stuff doing our research. And that's the thing.

976
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: We look at the definition. It's like so many people.

977
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 1: Everything is so subjective that people don't go by what

978
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: the true definition of award means. And like you said,

979
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 1: feminism is just equality. It's really all it is, equality

980
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 1: across men women. But again people use in all these

981
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 1: radical ways that you know where I saw some interview

982
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,959
Speaker 1: one time with two different generations, and millennial generation woman

983
00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 1: said I don't want to a man at work to

984
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: compliment me and say, I look at it look pretty today,

985
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 1: because who I don't need him to tell me I

986
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:19,440
Speaker 1: look pretty, and all these valides. It's just it's this

987
00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: huge mess now and it's like these words and everything conflicting.

988
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 1: It's like I don't you don't know which way is up.

989
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 1: And so I get why people and workplaces or whatever

990
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 1: are hesitant to even compliment people anymore because of all

991
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 1: these radical ideals. Yeah, well, evngelum has swung. It's just

992
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: the pendulum has swung so far in one direction. But

993
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: that's what we have to understand the history of whine.

994
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: It's because it hasn't swung for years and years and years,

995
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 1: like historically women have been oppressed and like, now the

996
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,799
Speaker 1: door is finally open, and then it's gonna go very

997
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: far and then it's eventually going to find its way back.

998
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: And his men were just having to really be aware

999
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 1: for the first time. Like we've never been asked to

1000
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,280
Speaker 1: be aware. We could say whatever the hell we wanted

1001
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: to anybody with no consequences for ever. Now it's like, oh, well,

1002
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: maybe we should think about how we compliment a woman,

1003
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 1: right right, because we forget that women generally are called

1004
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 1: and harassed they walk out the door looking beautiful, and

1005
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: as men, we don't think about that. Like you know,

1006
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 1: if if a woman says something to us, we're like, yeah, right,

1007
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: still good, I still got But a woman like are

1008
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: like are so to be every once in a while

1009
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 1: to okay, so I gotta do. I'm not saying it's

1010
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: not no no, I know, but if you got that

1011
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: from a random guy, like it depends she does though,

1012
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: like tell you all the times that she gets. But

1013
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:41,319
Speaker 1: depending on that person's personality, it depends on how they're

1014
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: depends on the delivery from the mail. That's to be respectful.

1015
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 1: But even so, even if it's respectful, that woman's mentality

1016
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 1: could take it the wrong way through a you know,

1017
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:55,919
Speaker 1: a different filter. It takes it as inappropriate or whatever. Yeah,

1018
00:55:55,960 --> 00:56:00,359
Speaker 1: I just I just hate to see the where it's going.

1019
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 1: Where they don't want things. Oh no, we're gonna I

1020
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 1: don't want the door held. I just I don't know.

1021
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: I still think a man can still do the man

1022
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: things that they should do. And I want my I

1023
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: want my daughter to see what how a man holds

1024
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 1: the door open. I want my I want my daughter

1025
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: to see these things. It's not saying I'm not a feminist.

1026
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: I don't. I believe in equality for both parties involved.

1027
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 1: That's really what it comes down to. Yeah, you know,

1028
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 1: and I want my daughter to do the same thing,

1029
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:28,839
Speaker 1: except I also want her to know that she can

1030
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: pull the door open for herself if she needs to, right,

1031
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:34,799
Speaker 1: So it's both. It's like allow allow someone if they're

1032
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,080
Speaker 1: being kind to do that for you, but also know

1033
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: that you don't need that to walk through the door.

1034
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: That's kind of the only difference is and I'm sure

1035
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:45,400
Speaker 1: you know it's raising strong independent women as well, but

1036
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: not rejecting or saying that they don't need men, because

1037
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,360
Speaker 1: I think we need each other. And I think that

1038
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 1: like to your what you were talking about earlier. If

1039
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 1: it were not for your wife or mine, there's no

1040
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 1: chance I would be anything close to the man I

1041
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: am or even thinking about these things. She's my mere

1042
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: She's a reflection of that. And she caused and she

1043
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: asked me to go deeper into myself on a daily basis.

1044
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:07,879
Speaker 1: And like, I think to become the men we really

1045
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 1: need to be, I think you know, women are crucial

1046
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 1: to that. There's no question you need a challenging, strong

1047
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: woman to really I think, like you're saying, justin to

1048
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: become the man that you want to be or should be, really,

1049
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: because if you have, oh, updated women in the past

1050
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: that I just got my way all the time, and

1051
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:28,840
Speaker 1: that doesn't how am I going to grow out of

1052
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,000
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Speaker 1: No wait a minute, you are y'all this is my husband. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I was like, are you the impregnator? But then I

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Speaker 1: am the impregnator. Okay, that's not weird that Hey, you guys,

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Speaker 1: please welcome to the studio. Mom so hard Christ and

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Speaker 1: Hensley and Jena um and and the impregnator. Yeah, impregnator. Literally,

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Speaker 1: she just said, are you the impregnator? You too are

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Speaker 1: a good looking couple. You're just literal opposites of my

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Speaker 1: husband and I. I feel like a handsome devil doesn't

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Speaker 1: clean his ears at the table of a restaurant like

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Speaker 1: my husband does. In your ears, he really cleans his

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Speaker 1: ear with I love my husband, but we're going on

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Speaker 1: ten ten, yeah years, you look like you're nauseous when

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Speaker 1: you're saying that. Look, there's just things that you think

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Speaker 1: in the beginning, like oh, that's quirky, and then eight

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Speaker 1: years later you're like, that's just gross. Man. Like, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I will say to your point right right there. Yesterday

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01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 1: we were sitting down watching football. He farted really loud

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Speaker 1: for the first time, and I let it go because

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, he just let that go.

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Speaker 1: And then about fifteen minutes later and I go, do

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Speaker 1: you just not want me to think you're attractive? Like, like,

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Speaker 1: can you keep a little bit of the She she

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Speaker 1: had like some serious tone to it. I'm like, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: it's our house. Yeah, but I mean, like if I

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Speaker 1: walked around farting like that, I get the occasion. I

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01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 1: have an occasional slip by accident that I think that's

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Speaker 1: going to be silent and it's not, so I don't

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Speaker 1: mean to, but like he's walking around, it's a little

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Speaker 1: different than something that sounds a well actually sure at

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Speaker 1: this stage in the game when that happens to me,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I have no idea what ind that came

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Speaker 1: out of that could have been run her back? Are

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Speaker 1: super hot no time, but I think you should still

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Speaker 1: keep it a little bit. And he looked at him.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but he's a very handsome right, but then

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Speaker 1: standard like, then live with him for a little bit,

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Speaker 1: and then if he's farting all the time, then the

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Speaker 1: attractiveness goes down. Just like the cleaning out your ear wax.

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Speaker 1: Let me get table. My husband cleans between his teeth

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Speaker 1: with I know, oh that's not gross. He like been

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Speaker 1: married for they've been together a long time. He has

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Speaker 1: been what eleven years. I thought they were dated for

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Speaker 1: fifteen years. Yeah, we know we dated for like four

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Speaker 1: and yeah, I should know this they did it the

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Speaker 1: opposite of us. We got They were together for like

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Speaker 1: four years, and I dated them at the same time

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Speaker 1: because I was single, so I was always going on

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Speaker 1: their dates with them. I'm like, hey, guys, where were

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Speaker 1: going tonight? And then then they got engaged and they

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Speaker 1: had a baby. My husband and I met, We humped

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Speaker 1: a bunch, I got knocked up, and then we got

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Speaker 1: married real quick, romantic Thursday, and by Tuesday she was pregnant. Yeah. Really,

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Speaker 1: five mondays pregnant at my wedding. What's up? I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's like the Notebook all over again. It really, it

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Speaker 1: really is. I mean we met on Twitter, so it's

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Speaker 1: not like it's not like we really have the greatest

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Speaker 1: love story either. That's fun My husband and I met

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Speaker 1: at the dog park, which is like a film, right,

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Speaker 1: it's very yeah, teaching kids the love of improv comedy.

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Speaker 1: How did you two meet? Oh? Well, this is funny.

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Speaker 1: We're both from Nebraska, but we didn't know each other

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Speaker 1: in Nebraska, which is I'm just gonna like, the entire

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Speaker 1: state is like one point two million, and one million

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Speaker 1: of those people live in two cities, so it's it's

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Speaker 1: it's weird that we didn't meet it. It's weird. We're

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Speaker 1: not related. Yeah, it's weird. We're probably this ship can

1185
01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 1: do that because it'll be like, but we met um

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Speaker 1: out here. We moved out to l A at different times,

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Speaker 1: ended up living a block apart without knowing it, drove

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Speaker 1: the same car. We both drove Mini Coopers, like real

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Speaker 1: a holes. And then we went to the same bars,

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Speaker 1: do all the same people, doing the same stuff, studying comedy,

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Speaker 1: and then I went to see a show. She was

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Speaker 1: in the show. We were having beers in the parking

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Speaker 1: lot after because it was a real A plus place

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Speaker 1: and then we're classing people. We felt very comfortable having

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Speaker 1: beers in a parking lot, and then we quickly figured

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Speaker 1: out we literally ran into each other and the Nebraska

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Speaker 1: card came out and it was just this endless rolodexively

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Speaker 1: like wait a minute, you know, Michelle, you know what?

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Speaker 1: And then she knew more people at my wedding than

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Speaker 1: I did. Yeah, and you guys have just been momming

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Speaker 1: so hard ever since moming so hard, caught up for

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Speaker 1: lost time, figured you know, let's start in the middle

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Speaker 1: and just get to it. And it's been christ funny though,

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Speaker 1: I mean obviously your comedians. But what you're doing is

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Speaker 1: you're shutting light on the mom the mom world two,

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Speaker 1: which is just but it's but you do it in

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Speaker 1: such a way where it's sometimes it's just really nice

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Speaker 1: to laugh about the that goes on the mom. Kristen

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Speaker 1: was she had her son Finn first, so he's two

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Speaker 1: years older than my oldest, and uh I was for

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Speaker 1: the longest time. I was like, oh, man, she's just busy.

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01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: I gotta stay out of her hair. But then she

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01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 1: was like, no, I need to come to your house

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01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 1: and have beers because you're not going to believe this.

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01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: She's got a great capacity to just laugh about everything,

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Speaker 1: which was nice. So when I had mine, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: kid rolled off the bed. He's still fine. I can

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Speaker 1: imagine that. So it's nice that no judgment. She's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you're not gonna make baby food. She was like, don't

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Speaker 1: make it by it. I got mom shames so bad

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Speaker 1: because I was so excited when Jolie turned what was it,

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Speaker 1: I think it's six months old, start eating baby food.

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Speaker 1: I went to the grocery store stalked up on Gerber's.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. The shame that I got was like,

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Speaker 1: how do you not make your own food? I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sorry, I don't like And even

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Speaker 1: if I did, like, they're like, there's moms that do

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Speaker 1: that work and still cook. But I just was like,

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Speaker 1: you know what I like to do. I like to

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01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 1: rip the price tags off stuff and put it in

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Speaker 1: a container and then tell people I did it, because

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Speaker 1: who cares if you're being in for shaming me? Where

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Speaker 1: we win? There's science to this. But they used to

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Speaker 1: make their own babies food, like in the pioneer days,

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Speaker 1: and they didn't live long. Yeah, nobody was having a

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Speaker 1: good time and it tastes better right, there was no

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Speaker 1: chemicals in it, and everybody was yeah, yeah, they'd have

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Speaker 1: a few extra because they were like, well, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: winter could be tough. Yeah. So I feel like the

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Speaker 1: mom shooting. The one thing that we've been really lucky

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Speaker 1: to do on our on our web series and the

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Speaker 1: community that's on there, is that people are really the

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Speaker 1: women are really cool and they're all self deprecating, and

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Speaker 1: I do feel like we hear about the mom shaming

1245
01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 1: and stuff by it, it isn't as present, at least

1246
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:06,040
Speaker 1: in this little area that we've sort of isolated as

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Speaker 1: a cultivated this is who we are. Who we are,

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Speaker 1: you can absolutely judge us because we are so flawed

1249
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:16,639
Speaker 1: in every way. Yeah, in case you are swimsuit video

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01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 1: that none of that was airbrush. But none of that guy,

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Speaker 1: because I would have so much hotter than I wish.

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Speaker 1: Oh man. I think there's two ways you can play

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Speaker 1: a game, to win or just except that you're losing,

1254
01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:34,080
Speaker 1: and the way that's the way we parent. And so

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Speaker 1: if you want to be on that train, you can

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Speaker 1: have more fun with us. I just I'm on the

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Speaker 1: train drinking wine with you, ladies, and it's funny. Jane

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Speaker 1: has like her own like kind of amateur mom so

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Speaker 1: hard group, her Troop Dancers, like a group of moms

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Speaker 1: back in Nashville that she texts with, and it's that's

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Speaker 1: where she feels most supported, is because they're able to

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Speaker 1: laugh about the crap that goes on. It's like they're

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Speaker 1: not doing it perfect. But that's where she feels most

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Speaker 1: supportive is when everyone just owns that, Like one of

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Speaker 1: my troop girls is like, um, the kids have been

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Speaker 1: in front of the TV. They're eating a frozen dinner,

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Speaker 1: and right now I'm having a glass of wine and

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Speaker 1: I don't give a you know, and women were like

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Speaker 1: and then the other one sends a picture of a

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Speaker 1: wine glass, cheers, mommy, you're doing a great job. It's

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Speaker 1: just like that support. It's like unique because sometimes you're

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Speaker 1: just like I can't I can't be perfect. I can't

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Speaker 1: do it perfectly. I can't do this everything organic, I

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Speaker 1: can't make the food. Maybe I'm not doing this or that.

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Speaker 1: It's and it's okay, it's more alive. They're breathing, they're happy.

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Speaker 1: Are they happy? Nobody? You don't want them that nobody

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Speaker 1: that I'm gonna have a college education. Maybe for all

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Speaker 1: the like evils that social media can do, I really

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Speaker 1: do think a blessing of it is exactly that because

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Speaker 1: we get like grandmother's that message us and they're like,

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Speaker 1: where were you, like forty fifty years ago, you know,

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Speaker 1: because I didn't have anybody to like reach out to

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Speaker 1: and be like, hey, you're doing okay. You know that

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Speaker 1: kind of thing. So that is a good thing that

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Speaker 1: you can like not just brag on social media. You

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Speaker 1: can post a really funny fail. Yeah, and you know

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Speaker 1: what I say to like, I love the moms, like

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Speaker 1: I want to post those pictures of their kids looking

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Speaker 1: so cute, and the and the family pictures that seem

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Speaker 1: perfect and there's like a little bit of breeze and stuff. Great, great,

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Speaker 1: but I want to see the picture that was taken

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Speaker 1: three shots right before. Then we're in the frame and

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Speaker 1: your chin is so tight because you're so mad, and

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Speaker 1: you're like, I just sure, you know, like me, And

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Speaker 1: and that's what I love, because I hate how Instagram

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Speaker 1: is the pretty version of everything. So what we do

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Speaker 1: on our face or Instagram, we try to keep it where.

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Speaker 1: You know, yes, I will put a very beautiful photo

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Speaker 1: of Jolie, but at the same time I will throw,

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Speaker 1: you know, Instagram story her losing her mind, screaming in

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Speaker 1: the middle of a parking lot, and it's just like,

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Speaker 1: I yeah, and it's just but I want to see that.

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Speaker 1: I want to see other moms. And it's like the outpour.

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Speaker 1: It's like, thank you for showing that because I had,

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Speaker 1: you know, my daughter had that exact same meltdown. And

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Speaker 1: it's it's so nice to see that I'm not alone,

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Speaker 1: and it's like we're not You're not nobody's alone. You

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Speaker 1: do know, there's not a perfect well, And I think

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Speaker 1: we all. I think, here's the here's the thing that

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Speaker 1: I wonder if some people that would on the outside

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Speaker 1: looking in wonder and they say, well, if you give

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Speaker 1: everybody permission not to be perfect, and they're gonna stop trying.

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Speaker 1: And I say to that, like, every mother is trying

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Speaker 1: all the time. Like she's going for like a fifteen

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Speaker 1: all the time. So if you just tell her to

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Speaker 1: take a break, her bar only goes down to like

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Speaker 1: a nine at the end of the day. You know,

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Speaker 1: Like we're just saying, hey, today, maybe you didn't have

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Speaker 1: your best day. Tomorrow's a new day. Laugh at it.

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Speaker 1: Try try harder in one area because the other side

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Speaker 1: is going to fail then too, because like once you

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Speaker 1: get your kids eat vegetables and they're going to drop

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Speaker 1: the vom at school. Like that's just how it works.

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Speaker 1: So everybody needs to give themselves a little grace. We

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Speaker 1: need to give it to each other, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. Like if you see a parent and their

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Speaker 1: kid is having a temper tantrum, you just like give

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Speaker 1: her a coffee, don't There's a a balance to it.

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Speaker 1: Like as soon as I was really proud of my

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Speaker 1: daughter that she gave up the bottle at three, like

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Speaker 1: she couldn't take it to bed anymore. And we have

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Speaker 1: real high aspirations for hopefully she'll read something. I refuse

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Speaker 1: to give up the bottle. Yeah, my daughter is still

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Speaker 1: on the bottle. She's yeah. Well, when we talked to

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Speaker 1: her about it, we're like, third birthday, we'll do it upright,

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Speaker 1: you give up the bottle. She started picking her nose

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Speaker 1: that day. Isn't that disgusting? And then they put it

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Speaker 1: on you. That's what Jolly does. She'll pick her nose

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Speaker 1: and then put it on microt It singer a song

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Speaker 1: every night before bed, close to her facing her song midsong,

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Speaker 1: She's picked her nose and wipes it on my face.

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Speaker 1: I'm singing this sweet song to her. I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: songs cut short, good night on the head like he's

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Speaker 1: hugging me. And then I realized, just wiping his face

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Speaker 1: on the front of my shirt and look at this

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Speaker 1: sweet moment grass. Yeah sounds about right. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: guys are killing it though, so you guys are out

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Speaker 1: on the I mom so hard to her Until December.

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Speaker 1: multi camera comedy pilot by CBS. You guys, Yes, we

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Speaker 1: shot him pilot CBS. Yes, it was a completely magical experience.

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Speaker 1: We yeah, we shot a pilot for CBS, but they

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Speaker 1: passed on having it on the air every week, And

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Speaker 1: so I'm going to say there was a correlation between

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Speaker 1: that and we did do some swimming suit work in

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Speaker 1: the pilot, but they said no to that. Yeah. Well,

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Speaker 1: but we are at Warner Brothers were redeveloping so well.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I would watch anything. I love you guys, Facebook,

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Speaker 1: mom so Hard dot com. So for all the moms

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Speaker 1: you know, relate, you guys are just like so awesome.

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Speaker 1: So you're just I love you guys, so thank you

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Speaker 1: for coming on the show. And I just I'm excited tour.

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Speaker 1: That was an action packed show that was insane. What

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Speaker 1: a fun show that went so quick. I feel like

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Speaker 1: every single guest there's just more and more I want

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Speaker 1: to talk about. I know we had Boris co Joe,

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Speaker 1: so thank you so much for coming in the studio.

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Speaker 1: Justin Baldoni and his wife Emily. And then I'm mom

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Speaker 1: so hard. I mean everybody I could spend a whole

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Speaker 1: episode talking to. We need to bring them all back

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Speaker 1: and just have just because we got to have them

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Speaker 1: all content so much, and we only we only got

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Speaker 1: to be like surface level on a lot of different topics,

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Speaker 1: and we're supposed to wind down, but I'm like amped up. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But what I did learn though from the show is

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Speaker 1: Michael is not getting a motorcycle because everyone agrees that

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Speaker 1: it's not safe. So we'll wind out next week. Alright back, guys,

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Speaker 1: see you later. And nothing