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Speaker 1: What up, it's lip service. I mente la yee.

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Speaker 2: I'm Gigi Maguire, Jordie Joor Jordie j Smith's.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I am fanning because you know, I've been

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Speaker 1: watching Sisters from the beginning. I am locked in and

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Speaker 1: it's season ten. Congratulations to you, Jordan for your addition to.

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Speaker 3: The show, coming.

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Speaker 1: In very high. You two placed sisters on the show,

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Speaker 1: So I don't know what's going to happen yet between

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Speaker 1: the two of you, but I know y'all don't have

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Speaker 1: a good relationship with each other on the show, not

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Speaker 4: In real life. I ignore her, I can obsessed, but

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Speaker 4: on the show, no way. I want her far Far Award.

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Speaker 5: It's great.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's so funny because I watched Sisters with

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend. He'd be having a real issue with Andy.

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Speaker 4: Talk about it right, not so much or anything.

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Speaker 1: He'd be like, she just be going into fast, That's

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Speaker 1: what he says.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what do you.

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Speaker 1: Think about it? Because listen, you are a professional on

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think it's it's showing the flaws

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Speaker 4: of humanity, right, so you can be so great at

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Speaker 4: one thing in this other area in your life, you're

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Speaker 4: terrible at So when she's at work, she knows what

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Speaker 4: But in her love life, she's just she's she really

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Speaker 4: needs to work on that. It's really but she hasn't

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Speaker 4: started the work. So we're watching her not even start

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Speaker 4: the world. She hasn't even begun, you know, Like I've

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Speaker 4: been in therapy for ten years, you know, in real

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Speaker 4: life and real life in real life, and so it's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm at a certain part of my journey of healing,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. But Cheyenne is introduced and

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Speaker 4: she's like, you better heal fast because I'm here now.

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Speaker 1: Exactly. And it's actually your mother who is really determined

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Speaker 1: for you guys to have a better relationship. What's so

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Speaker 1: interesting is that we have our chosen sisters and then

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Speaker 1: the chosen sisters that you guys have. But now we

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Speaker 1: have a chance to see, you know, family is blood

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Speaker 1: in real life because a lot of us do have

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Speaker 1: by blood family. What was that for, because you know.

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Speaker 5: What I went through with my family. Yeah, what happened?

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Speaker 5: What didn't happen. She sent me to jail, She sent

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Speaker 6: She stole my bail money, left me in jail overnight.

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Speaker 6: I mean that's more recently, when my mom passed away.

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Speaker 6: She bullied my niece out of my mom's house and

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Speaker 1: So you still love her to death?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because she's my sister, but we don't really get along.

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Speaker 7: Sounds like not right now.

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Speaker 1: Tyler Perry couldn't even write that.

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Speaker 7: It sounds like a movie.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we committed a crime together back in the early

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Speaker 6: two thousands, and she got caught and told on me.

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Speaker 5: We had the same last name, so they're like, well,

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Speaker 6: And the Feds came to get me at eight o'clock

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Speaker 1: Find forgiveness for that? Just say that because I don't know,

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Speaker 6: What I think? You know what I think it is.

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Speaker 6: Besides the fact that she's my big sister, I love

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Speaker 5: My nieces and my nephews. I love them so.

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Speaker 6: Much, like they're my favorites out of all of my

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Speaker 6: So and I think it's like, oh my god, but

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Speaker 5: But still the kids are keeping it together.

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Speaker 7: So what do you actively do?

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Speaker 7: Don't keep trying.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm over it.

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Speaker 6: After the whole thing when my mom passed away, and

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Speaker 5: It was all done with, So that's over.

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Speaker 6: We recently were her son, unfortunately, is serving a very

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Speaker 6: I love her to death, but I don't like her.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: It's so interesting, especially when you have like somebody in

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Speaker 1: She has a half brother and he like stole the property.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a while the things that happened with families, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And she doesn't even know why I'm there. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 4: No, she doesn't want to.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, she's both You're like why and no, why and

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Speaker 8: immediately know because she and she knows that you're here

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Speaker 8: to wreak havoc on her controlled life, her very curated

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Speaker 4: First the mom shows up, right, she has answer right, right,

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Speaker 4: oh for sure, but she masks it under her success

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Speaker 4: she knows it's about to be chaos because she's the

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Speaker 5: What that means.

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Speaker 1: And she's going to be living with you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, buttons.

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Speaker 1: Which is the next level, because I also think if

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Speaker 7: It's like a relationship.

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Speaker 1: You don't just move want to live in someone else's space,

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Speaker 4: I would never marry or date a married person just

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Speaker 5: Marriage is so sacred.

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Speaker 4: I would never ever ever date a married person ever,

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Speaker 4: you're blocked. Don't contact me. We cannot be friends, we

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Speaker 4: paperwork divorce can be absolutely and there's still some remnants.

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Speaker 4: I just it's just it's tricky, slippery, stol. I was

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Speaker 4: just I'm not interested. So that has I run a

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Speaker 1: What about accepting a gift and keeping a penhouse from

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Speaker 4: Can't it's mine. It's a gift, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, unless there's too much trauma like within there, like

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Speaker 4: Penthouse, you keep, you just keep valuable. You can learn

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly a little bit of incense.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you'll be fine, You'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: Wow. First of all, congratulations, it was like, you know,

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Speaker 3: Well, getting the audition was crazy because I didn't even

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Speaker 7: And I'm coming.

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Speaker 3: Through with the ground already eight nicely, you know, Karen

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Speaker 7: I can never go away.

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Speaker 1: That's success already though for them to have been on

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Speaker 1: there for ten seasons, you know, and real life things happen,

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Speaker 1: I think it's unrealistic. You think everybody is going to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I said, it never no storyline can

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Speaker 5: It's already been built.

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Speaker 3: And I'm only there because of them being there. And

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's why I even though that's a thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, is that possible?

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Speaker 1: And so anyway from that though, congratulations on you having

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Speaker 1: online like diary.

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Speaker 3: I would be thinking someone's gonna hack it something.

441
00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, well sometimes you can do it on topics or.

442
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 1: Like people stuff, like a lot of news people have it,

443
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 1: like Doane Reid has a substack that it's pretty amazing.

444
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:51,959
Speaker 1: Anything you don't want to if there's something like you

445
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 1: could do us you know, do something about like just

446
00:22:54,720 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 1: you know, joining the cast and having different things and

447
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 1: just even I said you had a chip to BALI

448
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: that feels like it was life changing for you.

449
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 3: I had my last scooter ride because you know, you

450
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,400
Speaker 3: hop on the back of the scooters to get around everywhere,

451
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 3: and I was balling, crying, like because that was my

452
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 3: last scooter rider. I was leaving to go to the

453
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 3: airport the next morning, and there were something so transformative

454
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 3: about going there and seeing people just happy with life.

455
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 3: It wasn't because they have this or they get to

456
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 3: go do that. It was family oriented. They ate whole foods,

457
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 3: like the Balinges people. They don't go out to eat,

458
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 3: they don't like party like that. They party but like

459
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 3: together at home. And I started to understand why us

460
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 3: in America we feel so lonely even though we're all

461
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 3: like on social media and we're all doing like things,

462
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 3: but it's like, mmm, there's still something missing. And that's

463
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 3: what I felt when I went there and I partied,

464
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 3: I had fun, I met new people, But there is

465
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 3: something about just people looking at you and not wanting

466
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 3: anything from you. They just look at even smile, and

467
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 3: they're helping you make stuff, putting on your forehead to help.

468
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 7: You with your cough.

469
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 3: They're like, this is what we like to do, has

470
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 3: nothing to do with what I can do for them,

471
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 3: or they don't know what TV show I'm on, how

472
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 3: many Instagram followers I have, and that that I felt

473
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 3: it in my soul my spirit, that.

474
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:20,239
Speaker 1: Why people go instead experience.

475
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 7: Wow, it's amazing.

476
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: To be Because I was looking at I was like,

477
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: that looks so fied. Like so when I have of

478
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 1: from work, I feel like I have a week to

479
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: figure it all out. What can I do for a week?

480
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 4: Where are you gonna go?

481
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying in general, never, that's never enough time.

482
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: It feels like, but nature does that do something?

483
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 3: And up until I was thirty, for like a five

484
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 3: years before, from twenty five to twenty nine, every year

485
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 3: on my birthday, I would stay off Instagram.

486
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 7: I go camping and.

487
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 3: I only have like five people with me. It's the

488
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 3: same camp group. I have a jeep wrangler. I put

489
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 3: the blow up mattress in the back.

490
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 7: I have the tent.

491
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Speaker 3: We have like charcuity boards, we have we have wine,

492
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 3: we have games, we have a fire pit and it's

493
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 3: just us and we play like these little card games

494
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 3: getting to know each other or like when did you

495
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 3: know that you had trauma?

496
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: And you hear the.

497
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,959
Speaker 7: Waves crashing and malibi and so feeling.

498
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,199
Speaker 3: And then the next day I'll go on Instagram and

499
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 3: be like birthday because there's too much energy and I

500
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 3: just want to go into a new year with like

501
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 3: my people, just primal, just fire, water.

502
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 7: Sand food. They're able to think, you know.

503
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,679
Speaker 1: Clarity, And it feels like working at is therapeutic for

504
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 1: you too, and I see that I wish it was

505
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 1: for me too. I gotta how do you get to

506
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: that point?

507
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 3: I've always been an athlete, so it's already instilled. Being

508
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 3: in Florida, Florida, it's basketball, track, football, how you're gonna

509
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 3: make it out?

510
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 7: So that I would.

511
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 3: Always it was always that, And then I got to

512
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 3: college and I started playing like flag football. I did

513
00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 3: like the basketball, what is it not? The inter yeah, yeah,

514
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 3: and the intermediate stuff, and.

515
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:03,199
Speaker 5: I just loved it.

516
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 3: Me and my line sisters, we would go and work

517
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 3: out every single.

518
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 7: Day for what I don't know why. I don't know why.

519
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 3: We just really enjoyed it and not to this day,

520
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 3: like my day does not go well if I don't

521
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 3: start it off with movement, whether it's walking on the chuadmill,

522
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 3: walking outside.

523
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 5: It just makes me so happy.

524
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 3: But I think it's because I think of my older self,

525
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 3: and that's who's gonna thank me.

526
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: They're going to look back.

527
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 6: And be like.

528
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, And you know, because the more you take care

529
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 3: of yourself, and that means I can be around to

530
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: take care of others too. And I just feel like

531
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 3: so many people, like my mom, like sacrifice so much

532
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 3: for me, Like how dare I not do what I

533
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 3: can to make sure that I'm healthy.

534
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 1: A lot of things that we do in habits, it

535
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: does come from like our family, our parents, that background,

536
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's the it's a result of it, or

537
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 1: it's the opposite of it.

538
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wanted to be able to show up and

539
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 3: my my mom and dad, and they've made a big

540
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 3: turn because of me. They had gained a lot of

541
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 3: weight at one point and they were eating and their

542
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 3: habits weren't very very good because of you know, they.

543
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: Like what do you do to that?

544
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 3: Because they started eating better food, they started working out,

545
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 3: they were each other sometimes, you know, and like they

546
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 3: there comes a point where they what do they say

547
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 3: that your parents start becoming your children, And it is

548
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 3: such a nice relationship to be able to like don't yeah,

549
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 3: Like they still teach me stuff, but then like now

550
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 3: I'm teaching them stuff.

551
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: Making juices for them and everything. Yeah, finishing the juice.

552
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 3: My mom's like, I made this smoothie, I put in spinach, Like.

553
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:48,680
Speaker 1: It's so nice. When I look at kJ and I'd

554
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 1: be like, she is you always look so well put

555
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: together on there. I'm like, what is the regiment that

556
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: you follow?

557
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 5: Well?

558
00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 4: You know, I wake up like that. No, you know,

559
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 4: we have a whole team of people that make us

560
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,160
Speaker 4: look beautiful and I'm so grateful for them. A lot

561
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 4: of them I've been working with for six seven years.

562
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 4: It's been seven years, and they make me beautiful. I'm I, well,

563
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 4: it used to be a sweatshirts and type of girl.

564
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 4: But now I'm in Cashmir. I have changed a little house,

565
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 4: the house.

566
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: Thank you.

567
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 4: No, I'm so grateful Atlanta. Atlanta has welcomed me with

568
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 4: open arms, and I am so grateful. I just got

569
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 4: my I just got my my Georgia Peach. I dare

570
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 4: you serving? I served? I was like from my camera.

571
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: You know, Atlanta's like a better place to raise your

572
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: daughter too.

573
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 4: Well. Being from Florida, my entire family were talentcy Florida

574
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 4: and the Panhandle is about three and a half hours

575
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 4: away from Atlanta, so for me, I was three thousand

576
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 4: miles away. I don't have any family in Los Angeles,

577
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 4: and I spent seventeen years there, so I did not

578
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 4: know what family looked like because no, I wasn't having

579
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 4: I was having friends givings or I wasn't having family

580
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 4: functions because no one could get there and I couldn't

581
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 4: get here. You know, for the for the first fifteen years,

582
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 4: I ain't doing all the math, but like at least

583
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 4: ten years, you know, I was, I was struggling, starving artists,

584
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 4: so you know, you you formed this habit of just

585
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 4: being in this town lonely and alone. And when I

586
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 4: got pregnant, me and Sky Sky and I were like,

587
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 4: you know, I was like, I'm ready to be with

588
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 4: my family. And when I tell you my family has

589
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 4: not stopped coming up. He's from Florida too, both of

590
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 4: our families.

591
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 5: We and that's better.

592
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 4: Yes, Mike, my grandmother is there right now. My mother

593
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 4: is there right now, And it's that wouldn't have happened

594
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 4: if I in l A. And I'm I'm Southern, homegrown,

595
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 4: like the family is so important to me.

596
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 5: We just had our Christmas at our house.

597
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: That had to feel it was.

598
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 4: I was on cloud nine turning to pull off for

599
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 4: the kids, like.

600
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 2: I was like, I am.

601
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 4: Trying to go. I need you do. I literally was

602
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 4: like I told all my cousins, I'm like, I'm going

603
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 4: for favorite Auntie and I want I want period.

604
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 1: Absolutely Now listen, I gotta ask you this, who would

605
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: you say is Andy's favorite boyfriend that she had on

606
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: the show If you had to weigh out all of

607
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: the pros and kinds of all the men that she dated,

608
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: you know, lawyers, doctors, janitors, yeah, Jenners, everything. She's running again,

609
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: I would say, is the person that has the best

610
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: has been qualities.

611
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 4: Robin Robin Robin I think was, and I also think

612
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 4: he was best suited for her. I think he had

613
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 4: you know, I think they kind of started off really

614
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 4: weird because she was still with Gary, but I think

615
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 4: he had her intentions, her best intentions, and he was

616
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 4: helping her regardless of he wasn't trying to control her.

617
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 4: He was trying to facilitate her success instead of being

618
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 4: intimidated by it like Gary was, or even Jordan. I

619
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 4: feel like Jordan was immature in love and Andy always

620
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 4: knew that, so she never really committed to Jordan in

621
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 4: that way. She just she felt that he was refreshing

622
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 4: because he didn't have a lot of drama until he did, okay,

623
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 4: you know, and then of course Gary was, you know,

624
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 4: he should be. He was the worst. So Gary was

625
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 4: the absolute worst. And I think I think she's not

626
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 4: in the pal She's in the Royce is gone. I mean,

627
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 4: did with Penelope, well, apparently evidently from Penelope's mouth, which

628
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 4: we cannot.

629
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: Try tasting her. Yeah, okay, I just kind of like

630
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: vaguely remember that. I don't know if he counts.

631
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, you know, she said they're together, but

632
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 4: I don't know. The proof is in the pudding. Robin

633
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 4: never said it.

634
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 1: Now, let's talk about some themes on the show or

635
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: some things that happened on the show, and I want

636
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: to get your take in real life. Okay, so we

637
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: saw let's say, I'm trying to remember everybody's name. He

638
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: owns the juice bar Rich Rich. Okay, So he broke

639
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: up with Sabrina. They were barely broken up. It was

640
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 1: only a couple of days. And then he slept with Penelopes.

641
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: But he she caught him, and he wants to justify

642
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: that by saying.

643
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 5: Well, we were broken up.

644
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: You know, we were broken up, and I was doing

645
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: this to try to get over you. It meant nothing

646
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: to me, even she said it meant nothing. Okay. Is

647
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: that forgivable or is that forever not?

648
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 4: I run a street program.

649
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 3: I think if there is a clean and clear breakup

650
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 3: there was, it is forgivable because you have to have

651
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 3: to ask.

652
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 5: What is he forgiving?

653
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 4: Is it?

654
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: Like?

655
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 3: Is it is he forgiving because it's like a person

656
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 3: that's close to them or that were they having something

657
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 3: behind their back the whole time or was it just

658
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 3: simply a broken up and I just wanted to you know, no,

659
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 3: because there's no there's you don't think there's any like

660
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 3: if it was someone you didn't even know, it's someone

661
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 3: you didn't even No. No, but do you do you

662
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 3: know you guys gonna get back together?

663
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 4: No, you still need to be dying over me in

664
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 4: that time. You know what I'm saying. You can't even be.

665
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 7: Well growing up while doing that someone.

666
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 4: Immediately you know this is.

667
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: But I do want to say we say that.

668
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 7: I want to be in that position.

669
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 1: I want to say that, we say that, but in

670
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 1: real life a lot of times it don't happen like that.

671
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,720
Speaker 1: I do want to say, like we can feel like, okay,

672
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: I would never.

673
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 4: What the heart wants. Well the heart, Yeah, I agree

674
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 4: with that. Uh in this hypothetical situation. Absolutely not in me.

675
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 4: If I'm in love because I am a lover, I'm

676
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 4: a lover girl, then yeah maybe.

677
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: So Danny dating a man, he quits his job and

678
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: living with her. She's paying the bills for now, but

679
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: she also he wanted to move and go to Alaska

680
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,359
Speaker 1: get a job there, but instead he ends up quitting

681
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: his job. She didn't want him to move, and now

682
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 1: he's living with her and he's kind of on the

683
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,879
Speaker 1: couch playing video games and doing stuff like that.

684
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 5: Nope, no, not for nothing.

685
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:03,240
Speaker 4: I don't believe in living with someone that's not my fiance.

686
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 9: Okay, so for me personally, so I don't even think

687
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 9: that would be a thing. However, if we were married

688
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 9: and he loses his job, I would be okay with

689
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 9: picking up the slack.

690
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: Okay, in a short period of time.

691
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 3: Period of time, correct, because you're not nineteen. But there's

692
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 3: a lot at steak. Yeah, you were talking about in

693
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 3: our thirties and your your your what right?

694
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 4: Put? You got three jobs?

695
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 7: Starbucks, Target, and I don't care what it is.

696
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 4: Get off the count.

697
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: Absolutely that he also, by the way, borrowed money from

698
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: her with.

699
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 4: No no, he stole it. Okay, Yeah you don't.

700
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 3: Immediately Who should look up the definition of borrowing becau

701
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure it's like you have to ask to borrow.

702
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:01,320
Speaker 4: Right, should ask as well?

703
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,439
Speaker 7: People have a lot of time.

704
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 1: Interesting.

705
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 7: I'm on team Andy, I'm team Cheyenne.

706
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, for sure, Oh for sure, we're going to

707
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 4: be on You know, I think Andy needs some slack.

708
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 4: A lot of people have not been on Team Andy

709
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:21,919
Speaker 4: for a while.

710
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,280
Speaker 3: They I'm seeing a lot in the comments, they're excited

711
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 3: for me just because I'm going to paralyze.

712
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: They wanted they want you to get one thing that

713
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: was crazy. And but she will take accountability after shen.

714
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, she makes Queen well a little late in the game,

715
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 4: but she's she is self aware.

716
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 5: She'll be like, I'm so sorry.

717
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 4: I have an attitude and I'm so sorry.

718
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 3: We were just doing a TikTok and we had to

719
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 3: like point on like who would do this, and it

720
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,240
Speaker 3: was who would say sorry first?

721
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 1: And it's had a bad thing.

722
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 4: And she's growing, she's growing. We're watching her evolution live

723
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 4: on it's being televised, you know what I mean. And

724
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 4: I think we are in our lives. Like I look

725
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 4: back at some photos I said I just cleaned off

726
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 4: my Instagram. I was like, girl, what what was going on?

727
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 4: And why you thought this was a moment? Take it down.

728
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 5: We're living our.

729
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 4: Lives out loud, you know what I mean. We're having experiences,

730
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 4: first time doing this, first time being triggered first time,

731
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:30,479
Speaker 4: you know, having these experiences, and we're living it out loud.

732
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 4: So people are witnessing a woman processing her own life

733
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 4: traditions and she doesn't know, she doesn't know what's going on.

734
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 4: And so I love it. I love people yelling at

735
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,399
Speaker 4: her and you know, calling her. I love it because

736
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 4: I'm like, this is what should be happening to us.

737
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 4: But we don't have someone yelling at us saying, girl,

738
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,359
Speaker 4: you need to leave that man alone. Girl, you need

739
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 4: to get some help.

740
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 2: Girl.

741
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 4: You need to stop having attitude. You need to stop

742
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 4: being jealous, you need to stop being insecure. We don't

743
00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,479
Speaker 4: have no one yelling at us. We have our girls

744
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:05,240
Speaker 4: being like, well, no, it's not you. You're fine, perfect, You're.

745
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:12,880
Speaker 1: Are however, okay, well look on that note Andy did

746
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: on the show. You want to see what you guys. Yeah,

747
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: she did a lot.

748
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 7: I know what this is. I know you got to

749
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 7: do a lot.

750
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 4: Best to have this interview next year. Please promise me.

751
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: That, I promise. Okay, So Zach saw you naked, zachre

752
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: stating Fatima who works for you, but it's also your

753
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: friend and you did not want Fatima to know about

754
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: it as a matter of fact, didn't tell her about it. Now,

755
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:40,919
Speaker 1: what would you do if your friend's man so you naked?

756
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: It was an accident, he didn't mean to. Would you

757
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: tell or would you be like, let's keep this a secret.

758
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 3: I gotta tell. It would suck, But you have to

759
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 3: because the quicker you do it, the less it seems

760
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 3: like something be like, yo, he walked in it was,

761
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 3: and then jokey joke, joke joke jokes and then like

762
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 3: let it pass. But if you wait, right, yeah, then

763
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 3: that means there's something.

764
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 7: There's something there.

765
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:10,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. It's shady, right, it's shady.

766
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 7: I don't want to do it.

767
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: I think, I think.

768
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 4: I don't think it was shady for Andy. I just

769
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 4: think she has a passive personality. She's a sweeper under

770
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,919
Speaker 4: the rug until things explode in her face. Like that's

771
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 4: just the way she used it. Wasn't shady for her.

772
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 4: But me, me, I I would not be okay. If

773
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 4: I were Fatima, I would be like, that was shady.

774
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:34,840
Speaker 4: I can never forget.

775
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 7: Think about it.

776
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 3: Now I have a secret with your man. Yeah, that's

777
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,320
Speaker 3: the part that's too intimate for me.

778
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: Joy, you're too quiet.

779
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,920
Speaker 9: Well, I'm in a unique position because I'm naked on

780
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,840
Speaker 9: the internet. Internet I was.

781
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:55,280
Speaker 3: Different, but still moment, that's a public that's public, that's public,

782
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,240
Speaker 3: that's Playboy answered, it's work.

783
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 9: Let me think, Let me think, let me think, let

784
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 9: me think, like girl, I mean, I guess I would.

785
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 9: I think I would actually make light of the situation

786
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 9: the same you would have, more.

787
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 4: Than anything else.

788
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:10,760
Speaker 1: She's just like, well, I worked in the strip club,

789
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: I mean naked.

790
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 5: You can see my cities on stars right now.

791
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: But there's a difference between a clubless moment and.

792
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 7: A private and how you decide.

793
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,399
Speaker 1: And I think it might be naked on the beach

794
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: or whatever. She don't care for sure.

795
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm definitely a new and I don't.

796
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 4: Mind showing it.

797
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 6: However, if a man that was with a friend of

798
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,800
Speaker 6: mine walking in on me, I would definitely be sure

799
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 6: to tell my friend right away. And again like may

800
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 6: like light of it and kind of like girl, I

801
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:41,400
Speaker 6: can't believe it, you know, because it's the Tennessee in

802
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 6: that moment. Yeah, but I do think like, oh my god,

803
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 6: how am I going to tell her? Or that gives

804
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 6: it a too much, It gives a negative if you

805
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 6: if you worried, you're making it something.

806
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: Okay, here's another situation speaking of what are you worried for?

807
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: So if Fatima gets a client, right, he's a basketball

808
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: player and he's given her gifts a bag, you know whatever,

809
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,959
Speaker 1: and she did not tell her man that she got

810
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: these gifts from him. But it is also somebody that

811
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: is a potentially big client. Say he's an NBA player,

812
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: that's a huge client for the agency. You know he's

813
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: Zach is going to be mad and was, and you

814
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: know it's a nice bag.

815
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 4: You want to keep it.

816
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 3: I want to keep when you know someone that just

817
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 3: went through this, get out of here, break it down basically.

818
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 7: The same thing.

819
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 3: It's a girl her man was trying to get a

820
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 3: promotion and then was kind of wooing someone in order

821
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 3: to in order to get it, but then kept it

822
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 3: a secret.

823
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 4: How did she find out that's good, we need a tea?

824
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah. And so it became a thing of

825
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 3: you knew what you were doing because you purposely kept

826
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 3: it a secret.

827
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: So therefore it takes a gift together.

828
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:08,879
Speaker 5: No, if you wanted to.

829
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 3: Be like a babe, like, look at all the gifts

830
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 3: they're giving me, Like, let's let's run this bag like,

831
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 3: I'm not going to do anything weird, but like you know,

832
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 3: like they're they're doing this. If y all want to

833
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 3: play it like that, that's cool. But if you're with someone, yeah,

834
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 3: you have to make those decisions together. You cannot keep

835
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,399
Speaker 3: it a secret because now it's something in your whole.

836
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 1: That's what I said.

837
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 3: If you have a secret with someone else, then that

838
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 3: you're doing something wrong.

839
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 4: That's good.

840
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:30,760
Speaker 5: I agree.

841
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: What do you think?

842
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 5: I agree?

843
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 1: You got it the same outfit.

844
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 4: And those God, it's crazy.

845
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: What do you think doing? And keep the bag and

846
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: keep it a secret.

847
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 4: We know I'm keeping the bag. I'll be honest about

848
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 4: it though, you like.

849
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 9: But see, I feel like the type of men that

850
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 9: I like, they'd be like and get something else, give

851
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:01,919
Speaker 9: me something, give.

852
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 2: Me some glasses, you know what I mean?

853
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 9: Like they would be encouraging to do that. I think

854
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 9: they would be that secure that it wouldn't really play

855
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 9: this game together. Right, Yeah, exactly, that's exactly.

856
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 5: Let them in on it. Let's do this.

857
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:17,760
Speaker 4: Exactly.

858
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 5: Man.

859
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: I cannot wait to see what's going to happen on

860
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: this scene, to see the two of you, because I

861
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: do feel like that Andy needs some balance for somebody

862
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: to just kind of.

863
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,359
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, and I think I think what we're going

864
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 4: to discover is we already know Andie's is not as

865
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 4: put together as she seems. But what you're going to

866
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:38,439
Speaker 4: see is the root of.

867
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: That and why we need to know.

868
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 4: You're going you're going to see that. And it's so

869
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 4: interesting to watch, even even playing it and doing my

870
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 4: discovery with the mother, you know, with her calling her

871
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:55,320
Speaker 4: mom mommy and her mom, you know, correcting her posture

872
00:43:55,440 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 4: and her language and throwing scriptures at her and crossing boundaries,

873
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 4: moving in, letting her sister come. You can see why

874
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:09,919
Speaker 4: she deals with life like this because you see her

875
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 4: mom just crossing boundaries non she shows up her job,

876
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 4: Take me to your aunt's house. I beg your finest pardon.

877
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 4: I'm at work. You want me to drive to Alpharetta?

878
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 4: Like no, you know, it's like no, mom, no, But

879
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 4: she thinks I'm your mom. You do what I say,

880
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:32,399
Speaker 4: you know, And then you'll start to see how she

881
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:40,480
Speaker 4: became this andy that is so rigid that she has

882
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:45,760
Speaker 4: to drink a bunch or smoke or whatever to relax

883
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 4: for half of a day because her sister comes in,

884
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 4: causing chaos. Her mom comes in causing chaos and it

885
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 4: doesn't fall from the tree. So we're gonna see why

886
00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 4: she has to have this.

887
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: Tight Yeah, I cannot wait. I cannot wait to see

888
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: what is going on. You know, it's interesting you talk

889
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: about your ten years in LA like.

890
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:08,839
Speaker 4: Just at seventeen, well.

891
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: Struggling, right, and you talk about that. Okay, I got

892
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,839
Speaker 1: to know more about like that part because I think

893
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: a lot of times and you've booked, you know, obviously

894
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: a lot a lot of other work before being on systems,

895
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:27,240
Speaker 1: but Sisters is really the role that is like super

896
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: consistent for sure. And I just want to know like

897
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: that period of your life because there's a lot of

898
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,840
Speaker 1: people out there that are still waiting for that opportunity.

899
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: You know, what was like going on for you? Then?

900
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 1: How did you keep on keeping.

901
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 4: On ignorance and delusion? Okay, I mean I didn't I

902
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 4: didn't know what I didn't know.

903
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 5: I was.

904
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 4: I was perpetually optimistic, you know, I was you know,

905
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 4: living in before, I was living in a two bedroom

906
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,959
Speaker 4: apartment with five six people. We were all having fun.

907
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 4: It was play. It was like, oh I booked a project. Oh okay,

908
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 4: how much they've panned They don't pan nothing, but I'm

909
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 4: on set all day. Now I'm gonna go work my

910
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 4: three jobs, you know. And it was it was fun

911
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 4: and exciting and invigorating because I didn't know what the

912
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 4: next day was gonna be. And I think, you know,

913
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,279
Speaker 4: it has to stay that way. It doesn't matter what

914
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 4: level you're on, it still has to stay fun and exciting.

915
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 4: And I think, you know, you kind of lose that

916
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 4: once you start getting secure and you're like, how much

917
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,839
Speaker 4: does it pay? Oh no, no, no, that's not my rate,

918
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 4: and it's like you're missing out on other opportunities that

919
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,319
Speaker 4: could change your life again, you know. So I think that,

920
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 4: you know, just my sheer delusion and my ignorance.

921
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: What type of jobs did you have?

922
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 7: I worked at?

923
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 4: I worked at? So this is after now, mind you,

924
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 4: this is after I went to Florida State, got a bachelor's,

925
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:50,879
Speaker 4: went to fam you for grad school and journalism, and

926
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 4: I went out there and I was like, I'm just

927
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 4: gonna get any job. I thought I was gonna go

928
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 4: to law school. That's that's what I told.

929
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: Men to go to.

930
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 7: I mean, god, you didn't say what.

931
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 4: Past the bar on film?

932
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 3: Right?

933
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:23,279
Speaker 4: Like hire me for five hundred an hour. But yeah,

934
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 4: like I worked. I worked at a bar in all

935
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 4: my La people called the Cork. It was like a

936
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 4: dive bar. They had a duke joint. I would work

937
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 4: that overnight. It got shot up one time when my

938
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:42,439
Speaker 4: sister came to Girls on the Valley. So far from

939
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 4: the valley.

940
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 7: I worked outside.

941
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 3: I worked outside of a nightclub for a while, so

942
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 3: I would like be dressed in all black and work

943
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 3: like the vi P. So I would take like the

944
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 3: stacks of money and hand them to the bottle girls inside,

945
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 3: and I would just be running, like going back and

946
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 3: forth like a runner.

947
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

948
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 3: I never did the bar old girl thing, so I

949
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 3: never had to wear like the Leo Ta heart, but

950
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 3: it was.

951
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 4: It was cool.

952
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 3: But I would be there till like two in the morning,

953
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 3: and then I would postmate during the day and whole

954
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:09,280
Speaker 3: advertising degree.

955
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 7: Taking pink berry to a beller man.

956
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: And sure, handling money like that is also a little

957
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 1: nerve back. If you never knowed something.

958
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 3: For sure, I should take lamar Otam and his wife

959
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:20,959
Speaker 3: came one night, tell me why I lost this man's

960
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 3: credit card in his wife?

961
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,200
Speaker 7: No, no, no, no, another woman. I don't remember.

962
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 4: It was after it was after he got me married, right, Yeah,

963
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 4: he did get married for a little bit.

964
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 1: Bring up her? Was it?

965
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:36,320
Speaker 7: It was the black lady?

966
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, because they.

967
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 7: Were in the office with us after. They're very cute.

968
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,600
Speaker 3: Because like what happens at clubs, it doesn't matter how

969
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 3: much money you have. The bank always thinks that you're

970
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 3: doing fraud when.

971
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 7: When you go to take the table.

972
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 3: But yeah, luckily, like one of the bar runners who

973
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 3: brings the ice on the card for me brought it

974
00:48:54,400 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 3: to me and gave me Lamars credit card back it

975
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 3: because why why his time?

976
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 2: Right?

977
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, when you don't happen, I was like ship by yeah, because.

978
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 5: I'm like, could just was it?

979
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 7: I don't even remember.

980
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 4: I don't even know.

981
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: Ye what about the.

982
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:28,720
Speaker 4: Jobs I worked at Hooters?

983
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 5: I went to l A.

984
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 3: I was only there for like three months. I worked

985
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 3: in Cola, Florida, the worst location, Like do.

986
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 1: People harass you?

987
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 7: Just walk out on the.

988
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: She's right.

989
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 4: So I worked at so now mind you, mind you.

990
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 4: I'm a type A personality, so with degrees, mind you,

991
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 4: And so I'm at Hooters and they're like, you have

992
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 4: to do a test because we have like secret shoppers.

993
00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 4: So I'm I'm acing the test every time hundreds undress hundreds.

994
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 4: My peers don't care because this is like a yeah,

995
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 4: it's just nobody really cares, not that deep. Remember, But

996
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:12,720
Speaker 4: I'm like, I took my job so seriously. I was like,

997
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 4: welcome to Hooters. And I worked at the one right

998
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 4: on on Hollywood and Vine right there, the major it's

999
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 4: the tourist one. It's the tourist All the tourists come.

1000
00:50:24,040 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 4: And so it was a lot of foreigners, you know,

1001
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 4: who are not used to tipping, So we did not

1002
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 4: make a.

1003
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 1: Lot of money.

1004
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 4: Don't tip and in Asia because that's cred. So I

1005
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 4: wasn't even making a lot of money there. I just

1006
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 4: needed a job at night so that I can audition

1007
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 4: or do set during the day.

1008
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 1: Did you eat the wings while you were there too?

1009
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:48,280
Speaker 4: Like, girl, oh my gosh, them wings tore my stomach

1010
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 4: up up and I would try it and I just

1011
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 4: I couldn't.

1012
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 7: I was like, no, agree with it.

1013
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 4: Was quite literally, like you do not need to be

1014
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 4: up in here sling in these wings with such precision

1015
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 4: like I was not playing. I was like, how can

1016
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 4: I help them? I didn't play.

1017
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 7: When they made you guys do the wing?

1018
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 1: No, that was the cup, but you delivered them.

1019
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was.

1020
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 4: And then I worked at a place called the body Shop.

1021
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:20,959
Speaker 4: I have just had odd jobs.

1022
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: They always so pleasant in there. It was me and

1023
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: they always got to get to sign up for like

1024
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 1: you get a deal. Why wouldn't you get it?

1025
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 4: It was persuasive.

1026
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 3: Did you ever do background at because that was how

1027
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 3: I got it.

1028
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 4: I did background Central did Central absolutely Central casting at

1029
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 4: least back in the day.

1030
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 7: Let me find out that they don't have to do

1031
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 7: this anymore.

1032
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:51,399
Speaker 1: They don't.

1033
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 7: There's a certain amount of.

1034
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 3: Slots do you have to go probably like four in

1035
00:51:56,320 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 3: the morning and line up, and if you're past like forty,

1036
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 3: then you're most likely not get getting in unless someone

1037
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 3: like leaves me in. My roommate at the time brought

1038
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 3: our laptop from the office, fell asleep on the sidewalk.

1039
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 3: And then they're like, all right, guys, we're ready. You go inside,

1040
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 3: you take a photo, you like, do different costumes if

1041
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,359
Speaker 3: you want. And then every single day they'll send out

1042
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 3: stuff of like, oh today on All American, we're doing

1043
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 3: background work today on Grazy Night, and we're doing background.

1044
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 1: I did it on like Dear White People for like

1045
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 1: a year.

1046
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, because that's how people would become sag ye lights.

1047
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,399
Speaker 4: All I did, all the old school I did, also.

1048
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 7: Did and I didn't see in order to get to

1049
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:38,319
Speaker 7: like where we are.

1050
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: NATIONAL want people to understand because sometimes I think, would

1051
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 1: I want to be a actor and they don't understand

1052
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: like it.

1053
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 3: Is you got to sleep on the sidewalk and love

1054
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 3: lamar Odam's credit card and work and then maybe.

1055
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: You know.

1056
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:56,720
Speaker 4: And I try to encourage people because listen, everybody's story

1057
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 4: is nice. You know, I had to go through. There

1058
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 4: was something that I needed to learn on my journey,

1059
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 4: and I'm so glad I learned it because I can

1060
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 4: sit here with you and not squander my opportunity. Right,

1061
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 4: But there is something I had to learn on that journey.

1062
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 4: And I know the stuff I had to learn. I

1063
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 4: ain't about to I ain't about to tell y'all, okay,

1064
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 4: But and there was something you had to learn on

1065
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,799
Speaker 4: your journey. But I tell people all the time, you

1066
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 4: could upload a video and be a start tomorrow. Yeah,

1067
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 4: you can do one audition and be a start you

1068
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 4: know next week. Everyone's journey is different, but just know

1069
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 4: you're going on a journey.

1070
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 1: I don't think there's such a thing as an overnight Soele,

1071
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:38,319
Speaker 1: you can get attention, Okay, yeah, way to put it.

1072
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 1: But in order for you to have longevity and to

1073
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: rely that, it comes with a lot of work. And

1074
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: I just want to say that it doesn't. I don't

1075
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,439
Speaker 1: like when people act like they just I wasn't even

1076
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: trying to do it, and then like it does take

1077
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:55,760
Speaker 1: work keeping it mentally. It can be really draining.

1078
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 4: It really is a marathon, you know.

1079
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: It's just so, how was dating during that time? Like,

1080
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:00,879
Speaker 1: during the.

1081
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 4: Time you have fun?

1082
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 7: I had fun.

1083
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 1: Well that's good, that's promising.

1084
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:07,280
Speaker 7: I was never really single.

1085
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, no either, I'm not gonna lie.

1086
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:14,240
Speaker 3: And that was great because, like like you said, every

1087
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 3: day was so different and I understood that. I understood

1088
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,959
Speaker 3: that where I'm at now delivering pinkberry and sugarfish, which

1089
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 3: like now I can afford, it's a blessing. I'm like,

1090
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,800
Speaker 3: I'm not going to be doing this later. I'm gonna

1091
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,439
Speaker 3: know that this man is not going to be here either.

1092
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 3: Everything here is temporary and it's all just getting me

1093
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 3: to where I need to go. I just need to

1094
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 3: lock And I was having a good time on doing

1095
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 3: it because we were starving artists but also.

1096
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:38,280
Speaker 5: I was like, we haven't.

1097
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 7: Because there's no other option. There's no other option. There

1098
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 7: was never a Plan.

1099
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 4: Chicken, right, No, it was fun. It's fun.

1100
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 7: This is Plan A.

1101
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 3: So I'm going to do everything to ensure Plan A

1102
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 3: works and means enjoying them.

1103
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 1: Some dark, dark days, yeah, I you know, I will

1104
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 1: say I did have a lot of good times and

1105
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: I was really broke. Yeah, I want to say, and

1106
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 1: I've always said that, like those times when we always struggling, Yeah,

1107
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: nobody had it like that and we were trying to eat.

1108
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: When you were broke, you didn't even really know that, no,

1109
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: because you didn't know what it was like to not

1110
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 1: grow broke and then have to go back down.

1111
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 3: To Yeah, ten years ago, social media wasn't how it is,

1112
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 3: and I was like, I didn't have a c and

1113
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 3: I didn't feel like I.

1114
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 4: Was less than any one.

1115
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 3: I would like go to like celebrities house parties and

1116
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 3: said that I would go home because I needed Postman

1117
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 3: in the morning. I didn't feel weird about it or

1118
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 3: feel like, well, I'm not doing something right. I was like, no, no,

1119
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 3: that I'm going to be in a house just like that,

1120
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 3: that's right. Yeah, but I need to go home and

1121
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 3: get some sleep, so.

1122
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 4: I so I can work, yeah, my other two jobs,

1123
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 4: and throw up an audition. But I was younger to

1124
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 4: help my friend win an audition, and you know, I was.

1125
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:48,719
Speaker 7: Able to stay up late and still get up early.

1126
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 4: And it was a community. Like honestly, like I had

1127
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 4: a great community of friends. We would help each other.

1128
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:56,280
Speaker 4: It was just if we did a ten page audition,

1129
00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 4: we made it a party, you know what I mean.

1130
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 4: And nobody had money, so it was like chips in

1131
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 4: salsa and we're watching a movie or something like that. Afterwards,

1132
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 4: it was it was it was an incredible experience, and

1133
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 4: I try to remind myself, like you know, I was

1134
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,319
Speaker 4: just talking about this. I had to release a lot

1135
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 4: of things and remind myself of those times and like

1136
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 4: life is supposed to be fun. It got to a

1137
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 4: point where it was like, oh now now I want

1138
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 4: to No, No, things don't look how I wanted them

1139
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 4: to look. And it's like they never did everything that

1140
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 4: you never did. And that's okay. Stop having an expectation.

1141
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: A plan. But raise your hand if you've ever gone

1142
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 1: on a date just because you wanted a good meal.

1143
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 1: Back in the.

1144
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 7: Day, I didn't want. I didn't want.

1145
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 1: I remember it was hungry.

1146
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 5: I was a steak for sure.

1147
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 7: Was typhood.

1148
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:58,400
Speaker 1: I'm so hungry. I normally even do this, but this

1149
00:56:58,480 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: was really like nice.

1150
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 3: It was someone that I like, was always around. He

1151
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 3: was like around my job or something like that. And

1152
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, okay, whatever do you.

1153
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:07,320
Speaker 1: Take nice guys?

1154
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:12,959
Speaker 3: Yes, I hate be mean to me. If you want,

1155
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 3: I won't rip you to shreds not tolerate. You don't

1156
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:22,440
Speaker 3: have to like if I don't know you like, you

1157
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 3: don't have to like give me like Princess Treament or

1158
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 3: like buy me things, but you will treat me correctly

1159
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 3: and talk to me nice and you're going to open

1160
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 3: my door. You are not going to treat me like

1161
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 3: some No.

1162
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 1: Okay, So you didn't like the nice guy or you did,

1163
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: or you went not to eat with him to get

1164
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 1: Tai food, like what was the issue?

1165
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 7: No, it just he was not my type at all.

1166
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 7: I knew that there.

1167
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 3: I wasn't going to like text him to hang out.

1168
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 3: I just was not attracted to him. But he was

1169
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 3: very kind where I was like, I'm not going to

1170
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 3: hate having a meal with this man. It was like

1171
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 3: a friend date that you know that I knew that,

1172
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 3: like obviously he would love five more dates, and I'm like,

1173
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 3: I knew nothing.

1174
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 4: Was twenty two Yeah, yeah for sure when we were younger. Yeah, yeah,

1175
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 4: it happens now. Ship, But I'm like, I'll go on vacation.

1176
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 5: I don't like you.

1177
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 3: I can't not no way, I've never done that.

1178
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: Shoot Listen turned down some amazing trips just because I

1179
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: was like, I don't yeah no.

1180
00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 7: I also like him to freak me out.

1181
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: I can't take gifts from somebody if I don't like them,

1182
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: like if I know I don't like you, g She's

1183
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 1: laughing at me. It's like, don't do that, like yeah,

1184
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: because I think there's an expectation. They think that, like

1185
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: you're going to go out with them.

1186
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 4: And then they get to say, well I gave well

1187
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 4: what about dis gave you?

1188
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: Thank you kind.

1189
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 5: Kind sir?

1190
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: Because the guys sends you something and then you're not responsive.

1191
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: I had a guy that got like so and I

1192
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:00,760
Speaker 1: did not ask for nothing, like he he hit somebody

1193
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 1: else up. I was like, I'm good, like I wasn't

1194
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 1: even having no communication, but he just was acting like

1195
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 1: entitled you to.

1196
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,520
Speaker 7: Do something on your own in your upset.

1197
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, every time, the audacity.

1198
00:59:16,560 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 4: Oh trust me, I'm a bona fie man hitter. I

1199
00:59:18,320 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 4: love my man. I'm very much. I think because I

1200
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 4: had the opportunity to observe his character without it being anything.

1201
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 4: You know, we were at work together, we were in

1202
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 4: the pandemic together, so we were able to experience I

1203
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 4: was able to experience his character on a different level,

1204
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,240
Speaker 4: you know. I was able to and I felt an

1205
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:49,680
Speaker 4: obligation like I wasn't you know, I wasn't dating anybody

1206
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 4: or anything like that. But when I was watching him,

1207
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 4: I was like, oh wow, he has integrity. He comes

1208
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:56,479
Speaker 4: to set on time, he speaks to everyone, he's kind,

1209
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 4: he's thoughtful, he's all these things. And I was like, okay, no,

1210
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 4: good guy, all right, cool, great job. We wrapped, and

1211
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 4: then a few months later I hear he was the show.

1212
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 4: I'm like, yo, congratulations, you're you know you you deserve this.

1213
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 4: You were great on our show. So with Doo Wop

1214
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 4: and then and then you know, I tell this story

1215
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 4: all the time, but you know, we met when we're

1216
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 4: doing the I couldn't get my hair done. I couldn't

1217
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 4: get so he met me on my I wasn't pulling

1218
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 4: myself together either. Yes, get it pretty, and I genuinely

1219
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 4: feel that way about myself, Like for real, I love

1220
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 4: me raw, you know, and he loves me girl his

1221
01:00:35,680 --> 01:00:45,439
Speaker 4: camera roll. I'm like, delete it right now.

1222
01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 6: I'm like, I hate it.

1223
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,400
Speaker 5: So I have a question. What was you guys? First date?

1224
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 4: Oh girl, I love this story. I love this story.

1225
01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 4: And then goes, hey, you know you you you asked me,

1226
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 4: you know if I if I need any advice, Yeah,

1227
01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 4: let's chop it up. Do you mind, Like, let's go somewhere,

1228
01:01:04,520 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 4: let's just kick it. I'm thinking again, picnic or something

1229
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 4: like that, like it's pandemics said picnic.

1230
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of picic.

1231
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:17,120
Speaker 4: At the time, or was in l A. I was

1232
01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:22,919
Speaker 4: in LA we just moved a few months ago. But yeah,

1233
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 4: so I no, I wasn't. I was thinking coffee or

1234
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 4: something like that, something that was open during the pandemic,

1235
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 4: but not like, yeah, something like that, you know, or something. Yeah. Anyway,

1236
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 4: So he comes to pick me up, and I guess

1237
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:41,480
Speaker 4: on our first conversation he just wrote down everything I

1238
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 4: was saying that I like. So he showed up with

1239
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 4: flowers like a picnic basket all my favorite foods, all

1240
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 4: my favorite treats, everything, and then he was like, let's

1241
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 4: let's go to Malibu, and you know, this is what

1242
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 4: I have planned for. He had a plan, went to

1243
01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 4: Malibu and watched the sunset, he put the you know,

1244
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 4: he set everything up, and it was something about the

1245
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 4: way he touched my lore. Back then, I was like, oh,

1246
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 4: I'm gonna marry this man. Literally day one, I'm gonna

1247
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,120
Speaker 4: marry him. And he in the in the car, he

1248
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 4: handed me his phone. He was like, whatever you want

1249
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 4: to play, I'm going through the phone.

1250
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: Child, you know, yeah right, let me not let me not.

1251
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 7: Have she gets some crazy.

1252
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, he knew what time it.

1253
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 4: Was you and you know what's gonna happen. So I'm

1254
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 4: going through the phone like, okay, innocent, innocent, nothing going on, study, I'll.

1255
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:34,160
Speaker 5: Do your work.

1256
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:38,120
Speaker 4: Cool checks. Then you know it was if you went

1257
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 4: through the phone where him sitting and he was so oblivious.

1258
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: He's still that way. He's like, are you gonna put

1259
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: a song on it?

1260
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 4: Out is the music? I'm like, oh, what what's your past?

1261
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: I can't lock me out?

1262
01:02:53,320 --> 01:03:01,400
Speaker 4: Like it was great, but he's like, I mean that

1263
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 4: was that was very telling. Honestly, Again, it goes, it

1264
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 4: goes back, and he's been ever since. Like we just

1265
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 4: we have we share the same iCloud like, that's that's

1266
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 4: the love we have for each other. That's my best

1267
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 4: friend ever since that I love you for sure.

1268
01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: When when when you were able to like go public,

1269
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: because you know, there's a difference between when you date

1270
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 1: and then when you let the world know.

1271
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were in Miami. I had a speaking engagement

1272
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 4: for the Family Classic in Miami, and and you know

1273
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 4: when normally people will take pictures because we were both

1274
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 4: on the show, they'd be like, oh my god, y'all together,

1275
01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 4: take picture, and then they would post it and tag it,

1276
01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 4: and I would be like, hey, we're not public, do

1277
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 4: you mind like taking it down? So I would do that,

1278
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 4: you know, every now and then, And it got to

1279
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:56,000
Speaker 4: a point where so many people were doing it that,

1280
01:03:57,400 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 4: you know, I kind of was like, we have to

1281
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 4: tell Tyler not everyone. I can't. So we did a

1282
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:05,600
Speaker 4: public speaking event and everyone was like picture, picture, picture,

1283
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 4: pach for which I love, you know, honestly, that's my

1284
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 4: That's one of the joys because you get it's a

1285
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 4: very thankless job. You know, what we do can be

1286
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 4: very thankless. And so when people see you and they

1287
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 4: know you and they want a picture with you, it's like, hey,

1288
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 4: I'm doing something that matters.

1289
01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 6: You know.

1290
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:26,919
Speaker 4: It feels really good. And so I instead of being like, hey,

1291
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 4: we're not publicly, do you mind? You know, I was like,

1292
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 4: you know what, let's yeah, sure, let's get a picture.

1293
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 4: Let's get a picture. Let's get a picture. And and

1294
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 4: so we called Tyler that night and we're like, hey,

1295
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 4: we went to an event together and we're together.

1296
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 5: I just wanted to let you know.

1297
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 4: And he had this real stern talk with with s

1298
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 4: guy like, yo, don't break her heart, break legs, you

1299
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 4: know what I say that.

1300
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:49,439
Speaker 5: I didn't say that, but.

1301
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: You be the one that broke his right, I got because.

1302
01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 4: But yeah, he was just like he was really earned, like, yeah,

1303
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,439
Speaker 4: you know this, this is what I expect from you.

1304
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 4: And Sky has never let me down. He's been so like,

1305
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 4: he's never let me down. Ever.

1306
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 5: We had to.

1307
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were we went to a public event and

1308
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:16,479
Speaker 4: everyone's taking picture. So that's why we told you you had.

1309
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 1: The first Tyler Perry Studios hook up.

1310
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 4: There's a few.

1311
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say.

1312
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 4: Husband and two kids. I think I think there's two. Okay,

1313
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know, but I believe.

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Speaker 7: There's some happy husbands in life.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, no fateizing.

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Speaker 4: They need to dismantle it because you know why, because

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Speaker 4: you know, we're in the arts and it's nothing like

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01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 4: someone who understands what you do and how you do it.

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01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 4: And I have I have good friends who are married

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01:05:55,960 --> 01:06:00,080
Speaker 4: who have all been on Tyler Perry shows, movies, and

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01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 4: they're great. They're fantastic, and you know, it's they're not

1322
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 4: as public as my husband and I fear as you know,

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01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 4: we put it out there, but I know they're married,

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01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 4: and I know they have kids to get right, and

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Speaker 4: it's great, and they're they're perfect. They're the perfect match

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Speaker 4: for each other.

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Speaker 1: Now, I got to ask you do and where were

1328
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: you when you found out you booked the show.

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Speaker 3: I was leaving work on the way to hot yoga.

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Speaker 3: You did say that was on the way to hot yoga.

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01:06:27,520 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 3: I'm like crying, and then I get off the phone

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01:06:30,080 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 3: with my manager. I quickly call my mom and I

1333
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 3: was like, real quick, I got the show. I got

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01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 3: this many episodes and I'm like balling crying. I was like,

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01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 3: I need to go into hot yoga and just you know,

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01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, and I'm literally in downward

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01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 3: dog like.

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01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:49,960
Speaker 5: Tears, and I.

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01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:51,960
Speaker 1: Was like, oh, this is perfect because I really do

1340
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Speaker 1: go to hot yoga.

1341
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:54,640
Speaker 4: To just like really let it go.

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01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is my time quietness. And I thought that

1343
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 3: was perfect because I was leaving one job that I've

1344
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 3: been at. I work in for a YouTube company who's

1345
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:07,640
Speaker 3: production as a producer, and I'm like, wow, I kind

1346
01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 3: of see like my life changing before my eyes.

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01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 7: I was like, driving away from this job, I'm getting

1348
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 7: a call that.

1349
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:15,600
Speaker 3: I'm you know, about to start a new journey and

1350
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 3: now let me go pray about it. It was a

1351
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:25,439
Speaker 3: fantastic yea. And I actually I still work there.

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01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:27,919
Speaker 7: I love it. There's so much. I don't work there

1353
01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 7: as much, but they are my family. I learned so much.

1354
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:34,160
Speaker 3: I like, I've learned filming, I've learned visual effects, and

1355
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 3: that's not really normal for women of color to even

1356
01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 3: be in an industry like that. So I'm going to

1357
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:41,200
Speaker 3: stick around until the day that I die. It just

1358
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 3: always be showing up in different ways. I will be

1359
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 3: able to give as many days or hours. But that's

1360
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 3: my second family and they're the ones that were able

1361
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 3: to give me healthcare and pay my bills like that

1362
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 3: was my last like five years there to be able

1363
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 3: to act, and they will let.

1364
01:07:57,160 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 5: Me take off to go to auditions.

1365
01:07:58,400 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 4: And I'm.

1366
01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, adizing what you're doing.

1367
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, shout out to quarter or Digital.

1368
01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 7: It's the best. It's literally a visual effects YouTube channel.

1369
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 4: That's great.

1370
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 7: It's just a very niche.

1371
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:14,040
Speaker 3: And but they have millions of viewers.

1372
01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 7: Very different fan base.

1373
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:17,080
Speaker 3: I feel like I've lived like two different worlds and

1374
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:17,679
Speaker 3: we love.

1375
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 1: That for you.

1376
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fun.

1377
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:21,919
Speaker 1: And then you have a movie that you guys are producing,

1378
01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 1: you and your husbands doing something together, and it does

1379
01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:26,200
Speaker 1: have to do with maternal house.

1380
01:08:26,240 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, Yeah, it's when I when I went on

1381
01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 4: the journey and it just changed my life. I see

1382
01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:35,759
Speaker 4: I see mothers with a whole new lens. I see

1383
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 4: black women from a whole new lens just going into

1384
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:42,040
Speaker 4: the you know, into the offices and not being heard,

1385
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:46,400
Speaker 4: you know, saying hey, is this is this vaccination necessary?

1386
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:48,559
Speaker 4: Do I have to take this test? Or can I

1387
01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:50,120
Speaker 4: take this test? Can you test me?

1388
01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 1: And just.

1389
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:57,280
Speaker 4: You know, it's it's heartbreaking to be perfectly honest, and

1390
01:08:57,360 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 4: but also transformative because I can. I can either transform

1391
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 4: it into my art and share this experience in a

1392
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 4: way that people can digest it, or I can sit

1393
01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:13,800
Speaker 4: and just wallow in my own tears. And so my

1394
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:15,879
Speaker 4: husband and I, you know, I was, I was expressing

1395
01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 4: myself to him like this is not fair and doing

1396
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,960
Speaker 4: all this research and studies on psychosis of black women

1397
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 4: while while being pregnant and mental health, and I'm still

1398
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 4: going through postpartum. Like I was telling everybody today, I

1399
01:09:29,479 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 4: just feel like I'm like, whoa Like, I feel like

1400
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:35,800
Speaker 4: this is brand new. I feel like this is my

1401
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 4: first interview. You know what I mean, because I feel

1402
01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:41,800
Speaker 4: like a different person. Use the word fresh, Yes, Yes,

1403
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:42,840
Speaker 4: that's how I feel.

1404
01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 3: I feel, which is cool because season ten usually people

1405
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,959
Speaker 3: are jaded. I was going to use that word earlier,

1406
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:50,840
Speaker 3: and that's the exact opposite of how I felt with

1407
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:51,760
Speaker 3: you guys bringing us in.

1408
01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 7: You guys, you would have thought it was season one.

1409
01:09:54,280 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1410
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,800
Speaker 3: For the rest of the cast that's already been there

1411
01:09:56,880 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 3: and that I love that. I love that for you

1412
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:03,400
Speaker 3: you still feel that way, and with a baby, a family,

1413
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:05,920
Speaker 3: you have so many other responsibilities and you're still like

1414
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 3: this is fresh.

1415
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:07,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, It's like.

1416
01:10:07,760 --> 01:10:15,200
Speaker 1: Wow, it's aspiring and there's different now, that's right, sister.

1417
01:10:16,560 --> 01:10:17,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was great.

1418
01:10:18,439 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, Cat, so you got a lips. Look at

1419
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 1: the maternal instant kicking in.

1420
01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 7: We gotta move thing.

1421
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:40,360
Speaker 1: Look at that. I'm on the k.

1422
01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1423
01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 1: Shout out to Cap, shout.

1424
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:48,920
Speaker 7: Out to Duck's cake.

1425
01:10:48,960 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 5: S Then cute.

1426
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 1: Okay, it's cute.

1427
01:10:53,880 --> 01:10:55,200
Speaker 4: Little lips are.

1428
01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: The little lips are so cute? Well, no better way

1429
01:10:59,920 --> 01:11:07,799
Speaker 1: to celebrate then with my girls, Yes, my girls help.

1430
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 6: Me then.

1431
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,640
Speaker 1: Do it?

1432
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:13,280
Speaker 4: Great.

1433
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:20,400
Speaker 1: Congratulations you know, and congratulations to you Jordans Chyanne, you

1434
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:22,880
Speaker 1: know the sister. That's a big deal. And I just

1435
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:25,559
Speaker 1: I could already tell just looking at your page you

1436
01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:28,400
Speaker 1: know how amazing your spirit is and just seeing everything

1437
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 1: that you stand for. This is so well deserved and

1438
01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:32,840
Speaker 1: we're really happy to be able to celebrate you here

1439
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:36,360
Speaker 1: today and for YouTube kJ going through what you went through,

1440
01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:40,720
Speaker 1: you know, your husband, your baby, A season ten. You

1441
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:45,360
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, manifestation.

1442
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:46,479
Speaker 5: I know that's right.

1443
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:48,000
Speaker 7: Everyone they deserve.

1444
01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:52,639
Speaker 1: Yes, that's not like a sister's tagline. Everyone will get

1445
01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:53,640
Speaker 1: what they deserve.

1446
01:11:58,400 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 5: Next week.

1447
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:05,960
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank y'all so much. I appreciate you

1448
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 1: this really does mean a lot to me that, Like

1449
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:09,439
Speaker 1: I said, I'm a fan of the show and I

1450
01:12:09,520 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 1: love that it's been a ten seasons seeing strong women,

1451
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:16,840
Speaker 1: seeing sisterhood and you know, popular belief will tell you

1452
01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:18,759
Speaker 1: there's not good but there are good men on that show,

1453
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 1: and we do get a chance to experience, you know,

1454
01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:24,439
Speaker 1: those amazing relationships, and so we like to see that

1455
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:27,639
Speaker 1: on the TV and see y'all doing big things even

1456
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:30,320
Speaker 1: behind the scenes. So congratulations, thank.

1457
01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:32,719
Speaker 4: You so much for having us love yeah so much.

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01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 1: This is amazing nip services. Yeah t