WEBVTT - You Cannes 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:03.360 Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:09.280 of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie. 0:00:09.400 --> 0:00:13.320 Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the 0:00:13.360 --> 0:00:13.920 Other Side. 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:16.880 Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:20.000 everything on the other side. 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:23.800 Yes we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic, 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:27.920 or to some the invisible world, life is going to 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.600 be more fun and much more serene. 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:35.640 Uh heck, yes it can. Because let's be honest, br in, 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:37.519 earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me. 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:40.080 That let's crush Earth school together. 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:55.200 Well, hello, my Gigley WITCHI pooh. 0:00:51.000 --> 0:00:53.800 I'm not as good as you because you've been around 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:54.920 a fancy place. 0:00:55.040 --> 0:00:56.920 Oh my god, I have. 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:01.440 I have tell us about your trump. 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:04.360 I have Well we're calling this you can because can 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:10.080 is failed like can France, fancy place, fancy places, and 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:14.920 so just like how you have stories when you go 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:17.840 to Eslin, I apparently had stories when I go to 0:01:17.920 --> 0:01:22.800 advertising festivals. So I just know I want to give 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:27.039 a little history about tell us about can, tell us 0:01:27.080 --> 0:01:29.360 your origins. Well you know I love to do that, 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:31.920 So thank you very much for offering me that. Making 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:37.039 an opening so everybody. I'm sure a lot of people 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:41.040 have heard of the Can Film Festival, right, but yeah, so, 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.200 and I think that was about a month ago that 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:45.959 they had that and Can and then they have the 0:01:46.080 --> 0:01:49.120 Can they called the Gold Lions, So it's like the 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:54.320 Can Advertising Festival. So here's what's funny. I have made 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:57.680 it almost fifty five years not having to go to 0:01:57.720 --> 0:02:02.760 that fucking thing. And because back in the day when 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:09.000 I was running HP's advertising globally for the agency, my 0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:12.120 team won multiple awards. We had got an honorable mention 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:15.360 for an award, and so I would get a call 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.760 from a woman named Ann Wilson. I can't believe I 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:20.160 remember her name, and not the one that played the 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:24.720 guitar for Heart, but Ann Wilson, who worked at Zenith. 0:02:25.680 --> 0:02:28.720 Anne would call me and say, in her accent, and Julie, 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:31.639 we won and I'm like that's great, and she's like, 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:36.520 will you go? And I said fuck no, and she's 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:40.120 like why, and I like, because all I have done 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:44.640 is travel internationally for fifteen years or whatever long it 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:47.919 had been. And by the way, it's hot and humid 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:51.320 and that is like a hellscape for me. So you 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:55.400 go on stage, get the award, all the ticker tape parade, 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:58.040 wherever the fuck it is. You go, rock on, sister Boo. 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:00.840 And leave me alone, me alone. 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:02.960 I am not gonna I listen. I do not do 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:08.040 well in humid environments. I don't. I never have. I've 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:11.320 always run hot, and then postman apostle, I'm even hotter. 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:16.480 And so I tried to avoid areas like Miami. 0:03:16.120 --> 0:03:19.079 Florida, except you bought a condo there, not. 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:24.120 Miami, yes, Miami's No, it was further north. But I 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:27.280 tried to avoid humid humidity. Apparently I can't come to 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:31.080 Cincinnati this summer because it sounds like it's humid. I 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:37.840 can handle going to to h New Orleans, but only 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:42.720 in early winter. I don't do well. I mean, you 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:45.640 know how when people get really hungry and they say 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:49.240 they act angry, you know, because okay, that's how I 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:51.800 am when I get humid. I don't know the word 0:03:51.840 --> 0:04:00.960 for that yet, so humid and angry, so hugree, it's 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:05.560 I'm miserable. So anyway, I've avoided it. In this case, 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:08.920 I did not. So I had to go this year, 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:11.520 and not only that that, I need to go into 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:14.760 the land of hell. I had a great place. By 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:17.520 the way, it's beautiful. I'm sure it's wonderful different times 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.640 of the year. No, it's stunning. The south of France, 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:23.760 the French Riviera is unbelievably fly into nice, it's all stunning. 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:29.080 The food is phens. It's a great place, except not 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:32.359 in the summer. But because I live in like a 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:36.000 Rando state now, and I say Rando state because there's 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:37.640 not very many people and we don't have a lot 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:40.320 of direct flights to places. You know, when I was 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:44.279 in La I could go anywhere pretty much direct. I 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:47.080 mean like it's like I'd walk on the plane and 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:48.840 if I was you know, would go to Europe, I'd 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:51.200 go to Asia wherever. Even in San Francisco got to 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:55.240 do that. The luxury of not having to have layovers 0:04:55.240 --> 0:04:58.120 all the time, kind of like you going probably to Esslon, right, 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:03.599 lots of get interressed there. So in my case, I 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:07.680 had to go from Albuquerque to Salt Lake City to 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:11.080 Amsterdam and then Toni's. 0:05:12.200 --> 0:05:15.039 Oh, mercy, that's a long. That's a long, and. 0:05:15.160 --> 0:05:17.720 I had to come home the same damn way. So anyway, 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:23.839 it was utterly exhausting, but some super duper magical things 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:28.560 happen there that I am dying to tell you. Guys, 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:30.560 So are you going to tell us we probably need 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:32.599 a brace? This is kind of a brief intro for us. 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:34.560 We're going to tell us me a little brief break 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:35.719 before we go into it. 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:39.320 I can't wait to hear your fancy keenestones. 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:41.280 Fancy can. 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:56.080 Yes, okay, freak, We'll be right back. Hi, welcome back, Thanks, 0:05:56.160 --> 0:06:01.640 and settle in for fancy French storytelling. What kind of 0:06:01.680 --> 0:06:03.280 magic did you cook up? 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:10.320 Off off? Okay, so I probably should have been focusing 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:12.000 on some other things, but I'm going to tell you 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:13.919 what I was obsessed about while I was there. This 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.680 leads into the story. I probably should have been worrying 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:19.039 more about the meetings and all the stuff I was 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:21.640 having to do, but I was too worried about finding 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:25.440 a metaphysical story because I wanted to buy a I 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:29.960 wanted to buy a French to roe deck. Oh it 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:32.640 somehow became my mission. I mean I started, I was 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:34.760 looking up all these One place I found it was 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:36.479 twenty minutes away, but then I had to find it 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:38.640 like a to drive. There wasn't a walk, it was 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:41.799 like a toy minute drive. Found another one shit's closed 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:45.080 by the way on Sundays and Mondays, you know, like 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:49.920 they mean it when they say I'm not working. So 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:51.760 then I was trying to look at my schedule to 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:56.000 fit in. When can I go? Okay, so it was 0:06:57.000 --> 0:06:59.039 I think it was, Oh, it was Wednesday. It was 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:03.000 Tuesday because the place I went to was not far 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:05.839 from the where a company had their like kind of headquarters, 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:10.560 and this place that opened it two thirty. So I'm like, oh, 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:12.320 I'm gonna figure this shit out. No, I'm sorry, it 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:14.800 was Wednesday. I missed it two Thurdays and Wednesday, I'm like, 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:18.040 damn it, I'm gonna go. It opened it ten thirty. Sorry, yeah, 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:21.240 scratch that. So because I did go the day before 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:23.640 and I forgot they were they were closed. So I 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:27.440 go there and the woman who was working there didn't 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:29.760 speak a look of English and I did not speak 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:32.360 a lick of French. But didn't matter because they had 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:36.360 all the cards but in this like bookshelf behind the register, 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:38.720 and I tried to convince her could I walk back there? 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:42.840 She said no, And so you're shaking your head like 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:47.160 I could walk back any place else, but there you can. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:49.720 You may point, I know my charm did not work. 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:51.480 I don't have great eyesight, and I wanted to look 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:56.360 at him. So I found this like really lovely set 0:07:57.120 --> 0:07:59.320 of trop cards, so I like, oh, I want that, 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:01.120 which kept pull them down. It was just take a 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:03.880 long time pulling them down. And of course when she's 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.440 dialing around, I'm like looking at the crystals blah blah 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:08.320 blah blah blah. Which ps, I have way better ones. 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:10.440 But I was looking at the crystals and all this shit, 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:16.120 and then she pulls this big it's a big box, 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:17.720 and I'm like, oh man, I'm gonna have to check 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:19.800 my bag because I'm going to have to like expand 0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:22.960 the zipper, you know, like I did with Reuben and 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:24.680 Jimmy and Shu's and I went on a cruise. I'd 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.360 expand my zipper because I gained five pounds the first 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:31.440 two days. So true story. I had to go on 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:36.400 a diet vacation because my pants didn't fit. It was 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:41.720 all the gelato. So so as she's like pulling things down, 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:47.600 I had had my eyes on this small deck and 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:49.920 I could tell it said oracle on it, and I'm like, 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:52.640 you know what, I've never really worked a lot with 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:54.520 Oracle cards. I didn't think I own a deck of 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:58.079 Oracle cards, to be perfectly honest, I'm like, I'm want 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:00.800 to buy this deck of cards. It has this hot 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:06.679 pink like cardboard case to it. I'm like hot pink 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:12.120 oracle screaming, Okay, fuck it, let's do it. So I 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:16.400 make my purchase. I go back to our little area. 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:17.800 We had this kind of area of one of the 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.760 hotels that the hotel is called the Gray. It was 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:22.760 a place where we could stop get a snack, drinks, 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.080 whatever we want to get. So I'm sitting there at 0:09:25.080 --> 0:09:29.560 this booth by myself and I'm opening the cards because 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:31.240 I wanted to feel them, Like I was really excited 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:34.800 about this Oracle deck. So obviously my stories are really long. 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:37.960 So I get all excited and I'm taking the plastic 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:41.240 off and I'm doing and I'm like doing like poker shuffling. 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:43.120 I'm like, what happened to me? How did I learn 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:45.840 how to shuffle like this? And I just want to 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:47.800 get a feel for him. I had no idea what 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:49.760 any of this ship meant. There were pictures and then 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:52.760 there was a French word on him, and I'm just like, oh, 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:56.680 this is great. So this very very handsome man sat 0:09:56.760 --> 0:10:03.240 down at my table work for the company, and he's like, 0:10:03.520 --> 0:10:06.520 and his name is Mack from the UK Mock. And 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:09.120 so Mak said to me, He's like, do you mind 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:11.160 if I sit here? And I'm like, sure, go ahead, 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:14.800 and I'm like playing with the deck and he goes, 0:10:15.960 --> 0:10:18.560 you know, I've I've never had a reading before. And 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:22.959 I looked at him. I go, okay, here's what happened. 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:27.120 I think he thought I was hired entertainment. I pull 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:30.880 on one hundred percent. Think he thought I was hired entertainment. 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:32.959 And you're like, damn it. I should have brought it 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:33.520 to rod deck. 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:38.800 I should have brought a tip jar. So so I'm 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:41.160 sitting there and I'm like shuffling the cars or whatever. 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:44.520 And I said, listen, I go, I just bought these. 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:47.320 And I was really excited about him. I go, you 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:50.199 can just sit there for you. Nothing's required here, It's 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:53.040 all okay. Well, he keeps talking to him and I'm shuffling. 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:56.719 I'm playing, and I said, darling, do you want to 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:57.280 pick a card? 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:02.360 Everybody wants to pick up? 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:05.360 And I said, you want to pick a card? And 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:08.720 he's like, well, I'm nervous. I said, then don't pick 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:12.200 a card. He looked at my I said, then pick 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:14.320 a card. I mean it was like that little stupid 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:16.200 thing you must pay the rent. I can't pay the rent. 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:19.080 I mean this whole thing way back. And I said him, 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:21.280 I said, pick a card. I work for the company. 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:24.840 Nobody's going to know but everybody that listens on my podcast, 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:30.040 so it's gonna be fine. And so he's he's giggling 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:32.560 at me. So I like, I lay him out. I go, 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.880 I mean I did everything, like I shuffled the shit 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:39.000 out of this deck. You'd have been very proud. And 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:40.839 so I lay him out. I said, pick a card, 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:44.679 any card. He picks the card and he flips it over. 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:47.760 I'm like, great, take the rest of the cards, gently 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:49.560 stack them, put them to the side. Because we were 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:52.880 not picking more than one. It was one card, one 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:54.880 and done. Baby, this is what I'm doing. And I said, 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:57.600 I go listen. I've never I just touched this deck 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:59.240 of cards. I have no idea what's going to happen. 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:03.160 Let's see. So because I don't speak French, I'm tapping 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:05.840 on the card because I don't know what the buck 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:06.199 it is. 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:08.280 It's because we all know tapping on the card is 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:09.120 how you get more information. 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:13.680 Here's what happened. I said, you have a set of twins. 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:17.960 They're boys. Yes, I do. Okay, they're around three years old, 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:18.360 aren't they. 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:18.640 Yep. 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.599 I'm tapping, tapping, tapping away, and he's looking at me 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:26.040 like what the fuck is going to happen next? And 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:28.000 I'm and I'm looking back and I'm like, I don't know, 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:32.920 so tapping away, and I said, okay, one of your boys, 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:35.040 I go, I don't. I can't get their names names, 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:37.319 it doesn't matter right now. But one of them is 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:40.240 very like prone to more than engineering things like I 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:42.520 think you guys have a train set. He plays with 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:45.880 it the most. And he said, oh, yeah, that's so. 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:48.240 And so I'm like, okay, we're not here to talk 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:49.920 about him. We're going to talk about the other one. 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:52.040 And he's like okay. 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:55.520 And I said, he's a special kid, isn't he? 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:55.760 Wait? 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:58.120 I said, so, did he fall? I said, in the 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:01.000 last week, did he fall down on his face, break 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:03.160 it tooth, cut his lip? Because I see a bloody face? 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:07.000 He said yes, last week. I said, that's him. I said, okay, 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:12.640 And I said this one very sensitive. And I said, 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:14.880 but he's really really sensitive to her. He doesn't even 0:13:14.920 --> 0:13:17.520 know how to express it. That's why he's falling down. 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:20.520 And I said, he's like you before you got married. 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:23.320 And he goes, yes, exactly like me. And I said, 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:26.040 this is your job with him. Your job is to 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:29.480 actually talk to him about his emotions so he learns 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:32.040 how to process them. You start talking to him when 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:35.679 he's between seven eight nine years old about those feelings 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:38.120 and those emotions, because he will sail through life if 0:13:38.120 --> 0:13:40.079 he knows how to deal with that. If he does not, 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:43.680 he will continue to stumble and fall. This guy, Malk 0:13:44.160 --> 0:13:46.960 had tears running down his face. He goes, he goes, 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:50.160 what the fuck am I doing? It? Can crying? I said, 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:51.199 you're welcome. 0:13:57.840 --> 0:13:59.760 That isn't drop the mic, that's. 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:03.800 Your ass. Set down. I looked at him. I said, 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:07.440 you sat down at my table thinking that I was 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:11.880 the hired entertaining hired help. Then you're telling me you've nervous. 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:13.959 You picked the card. Okay, now let me tell you 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:16.800 about the card. Are you ready for the card? So 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.720 the card had the picture of a child and on 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.560 the card there were there all the cards were numbered. 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:24.840 I didn't notice this until afterwards. He took a picture 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:26.160 of it. Because I looked at it, I went, oh, 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:27.800 you want want to take a picture of this card? 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:33.320 On the card, it's number thirty three twin three twins 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:35.640 and they're each three years old. I did not see that. 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:38.720 Yeah, yeah, that's so perfect, isn't. 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:41.120 That incredibly like that to me? Is like what? And 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:42.520 he paid it's his card, not me? 0:14:42.920 --> 0:14:45.920 Yeah? Yeah, And then you didn't even know the card I. 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:49.280 Do what was happening. I think maybe the word was 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:52.320 babe or some shit like that. I don't know. And 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:55.920 so I had to, like, you know, get my shit together. 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:57.920 I had to go to a meeting and I'm getting 0:14:57.920 --> 0:14:59.160 wake up. And he looked at me and goes, can 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.000 I give you a hug? I? Oh, can you give 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:05.160 me a hug? Yes you can, And so I got 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:07.760 out and he hugged. He goes, I just I don't 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:11.000 know what to say, and I go, you don't have 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:13.960 to say anything. I'm like, this is clearly what you 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.720 needed to hear today, and so just remember this and 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:20.920 remember him with this and what your job as his 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:24.800 dad is. That's all you got to do. So beautiful, 0:15:24.880 --> 0:15:26.880 So that happened in the middle of a work day. 0:15:30.160 --> 0:15:34.400 What a great work day, doing great work in the world. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:35.800 Man, How fun is that? 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:38.640 Thank you, thank you for your service. 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:40.960 It's so funny because he kept asking me, Okay, so 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:44.400 here's a couple of side notes. So he kept I mean, 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:48.040 I'm tapping like, I'm tapping like I'm doing more's fucking code, 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:52.120 Like I am tapping like tapping away and he goes. 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:54.000 He goes, Can I stop you and ask what you know? 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:59.280 I said no. A few minutes later, I said, listen, 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:01.720 I go, have you ever heard of the term tapping in? 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:04.880 He goes no. I said, have you heard the term 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:07.840 tapping out? Like and you know wrestling? He's like, yes, 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:11.160 I said, tapping in. I mean I'm connecting with the 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:13.680 with what it is that you need to know? He goes, Oh, 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:16.480 is the card telling you this? I said, if you 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.760 want to believe the card is telling you that, you can't. 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:23.560 But that's not really, that's not what's happening here. He goes, So, 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:28.480 what's happening here? I said, guides galore like they're just 0:16:28.560 --> 0:16:31.760 all huddling up. Want to make sure that I get 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:34.240 the message right. To tell you about your boy. 0:16:35.000 --> 0:16:36.400 So perfect translation. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:38.080 I don't know what else to say. 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:42.200 I mean, that's perfect translation. Love needs no translation. It's 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:42.880 the same in everything. 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:45.320 It's like, this is what And I think that kid 0:16:45.560 --> 0:16:49.920 is if dad does his gig right, Yeah, that kid 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:52.400 is going to is creative because that's. 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:54.680 The other Kidney's. I think the kid needs a few 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.600 some boundaries, but here nor there, because I think he's 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:01.800 he's Yeah, I think he's got some attachments. Well not 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:03.160 necessarily harmful, but. 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:06.159 Okay, well I have his and he sent me. He 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:08.120 sent me a love letter that was a thank you. 0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:09.840 So I can get back to him and I can 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:12.760 let him know. Okay, yeah, to some boundaries, clearing some 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:14.920 I will let him know. Oh, I can say he'd 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:19.919 go out and fetch them selenite. Yeah, black TERMINEE get 0:17:19.960 --> 0:17:23.600 to go ship that I have to send thee give 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:26.040 and I have hoarded all the best tourmaline in the 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:28.560 world that's sitting in my garage that I think is 0:17:28.600 --> 0:17:30.120 my job that I need to send it. 0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:35.679 So respect that my great job. Great story. 0:17:35.760 --> 0:17:37.320 Okay, I have another one, but why do I take 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:37.760 a break. 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:39.320 Yeah, we'll be right back. 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:51.640 What the what the fuck are you doing? You're counting up. 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:55.439 You're not counting down. Everybody, Joey, keep this ship in. 0:17:55.640 --> 0:17:57.720 I want ever to know that my witch is supposed 0:17:57.720 --> 0:18:00.440 to count down. And she started going three, four, five. 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:06.080 It's like, what are you doing? That was amazing. We're back, everybody. 0:18:06.560 --> 0:18:09.680 You are not honoring. I'm dyslexic and I have my own. 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:14.800 You do not go up in numbers. You mixed them. No, 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:16.040 but you kept going up. 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:19.720 I know, but I thought it was Oh my god, hype, welcome, 0:18:19.880 --> 0:18:22.360 welcome back. Tell us another fancy. 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:27.960 Fancy bronze story. First of all, I just have to 0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:31.359 share with everybody that we were giggling our asses off 0:18:31.520 --> 0:18:36.000 in the last break because because I was, because I said, 0:18:36.600 --> 0:18:38.240 I said something like I go listen. I did invite 0:18:38.280 --> 0:18:40.120 this guy over. I didn't say, hey, let me read 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:42.640 for you. And you're like no, when you start shuffling cards, 0:18:42.680 --> 0:18:45.080 they all show up. I said yeah, and I said 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:47.040 and I was super jet lag and she goes it 0:18:47.080 --> 0:18:50.440 probably helped, I said, yeah, because nothing was going on upstairs, 0:18:50.480 --> 0:18:53.800 like it was vacant, no activity. It was a warehouse 0:18:54.440 --> 0:18:55.240 but nothing in it. 0:18:56.800 --> 0:18:58.159 But you served him greatly. 0:18:58.240 --> 0:19:01.160 He served him great because literally nothing going on upstairs. 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:07.159 Y'all's nothing. Okay, it all worked out perfectly. So the 0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:11.600 other fun magical thing that happened is one of the 0:19:11.640 --> 0:19:13.880 people in this world I love so dearly was there. 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:16.440 There's actually several which was made the trip really great, 0:19:17.280 --> 0:19:20.480 and one of them is my friend Becca. And those 0:19:20.520 --> 0:19:22.320 of you that have read the book, she's mentioned in 0:19:22.359 --> 0:19:27.919 the book. She is actually the one that the first 0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:32.480 picture of the gray alien I sent to her. I'm like, girl, 0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:35.480 get I think, I texted. I'm like, girl, gilo, this 0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:36.120 is what the fuck? 0:19:36.440 --> 0:19:39.680 And she goes that scares me. Delete it now, blah blah. 0:19:39.520 --> 0:19:42.000 Blah, blah blah blah, not having it. 0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:45.240 You want nothing to do with that alien action, not 0:19:45.440 --> 0:19:49.880 having it. So she was there, and and I've been 0:19:49.920 --> 0:19:52.320 through a lot of stuff with she and her family. 0:19:52.359 --> 0:19:56.120 I mean, she's had some family members jump all kind 0:19:56.119 --> 0:19:59.680 of in a cluster of a time frame. And her grandmother, 0:20:00.040 --> 0:20:04.080 who you know practically well, actually did raise her and love, 0:20:04.160 --> 0:20:08.280 I mean love, like deep deep love, had recently gone. 0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:13.560 And her grandma's actually spoken to me for her before. 0:20:14.400 --> 0:20:18.359 But she's always looking for signs from her grandmother, and 0:20:18.440 --> 0:20:20.800 so she was telling me. We had dinner I think 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:22.920 three nights, two nights when were there? Two three nights 0:20:22.880 --> 0:20:26.639 when we were there. And she's like, and by the 0:20:26.640 --> 0:20:31.720 way they dine in France is late they do in Spain. 0:20:32.240 --> 0:20:35.679 I'm like, for the love of God, y'all, like I 0:20:35.720 --> 0:20:38.720 remember going to Spain and like dinner would start at eleven. 0:20:38.840 --> 0:20:40.879 I'm like, what are you doing? I should be asleep 0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:44.480 for two hours by the time this shit starts. So anyway, 0:20:44.600 --> 0:20:47.280 so we're having dinner, and so she's telling me, she 0:20:47.280 --> 0:20:50.360 goes listen, she goes, I s, you're still laughing at 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:52.280 my dining thing, aren't you? Yeah? But it's I did 0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:54.800 not know. I've been. I've been to Paris for work 0:20:54.840 --> 0:20:57.800 a ton. Never do I recall the late dinners like 0:20:57.840 --> 0:21:00.520 we had in can It reminded me of Spain. So 0:21:00.960 --> 0:21:03.600 we so we're dinner and we're just talking away and 0:21:03.640 --> 0:21:07.080 she's asked me about Grandma and I met Grandma's cake 0:21:07.119 --> 0:21:12.479 in the pants, and she's like, she goes listen, and 0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:14.720 Beca is very matter of the fact. 0:21:14.560 --> 0:21:15.159 She has listened. 0:21:15.280 --> 0:21:18.159 She has I'm seeing these fucking numbers. I go, what 0:21:18.240 --> 0:21:22.720 kind of numbers? She has? One? One one, one, two 0:21:22.840 --> 0:21:28.840 two two, Like all of the magic numbers constantly. She's like, 0:21:28.920 --> 0:21:33.440 I'm seeing them all the time. And I said, okay, 0:21:34.080 --> 0:21:35.680 and then of course she goes, one time I saw 0:21:35.720 --> 0:21:37.959 sixty nine. I said, were we not get into that? 0:21:37.720 --> 0:21:39.920 That is, like you, it is none of my friend 0:21:39.920 --> 0:21:42.760