Speaker 1: Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie.
Speaker 2: Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Speaker 2: Other Side.
Speaker 1: Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
Speaker 1: everything on the other side.
Speaker 2: Yes we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
Speaker 2: or to some the invisible world, life is going to
Speaker 2: be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 1: Uh heck, yes it can. Because let's be honest, br in,
Speaker 1: earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me.
Speaker 2: That let's crush Earth school together.
Speaker 1: Well, hello, my Gigley WITCHI pooh.
Speaker 2: I'm not as good as you because you've been around
Speaker 2: a fancy place.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have.
Speaker 2: I have tell us about your trump.
Speaker 1: I have Well we're calling this you can because can
Speaker 1: is failed like can France, fancy place, fancy places, and
Speaker 1: so just like how you have stories when you go
Speaker 1: to Eslin, I apparently had stories when I go to
Speaker 1: advertising festivals. So I just know I want to give
Speaker 1: a little history about tell us about can, tell us
Speaker 1: your origins. Well you know I love to do that,
Speaker 1: So thank you very much for offering me that. Making
Speaker 1: an opening so everybody. I'm sure a lot of people
Speaker 1: have heard of the Can Film Festival, right, but yeah, so,
Speaker 1: and I think that was about a month ago that
Speaker 1: they had that and Can and then they have the
Speaker 1: Can they called the Gold Lions, So it's like the
Speaker 1: Can Advertising Festival. So here's what's funny. I have made
Speaker 1: it almost fifty five years not having to go to
Speaker 1: that fucking thing. And because back in the day when
Speaker 1: I was running HP's advertising globally for the agency, my
Speaker 1: team won multiple awards. We had got an honorable mention
Speaker 1: for an award, and so I would get a call
Speaker 1: from a woman named Ann Wilson. I can't believe I
Speaker 1: remember her name, and not the one that played the
Speaker 1: guitar for Heart, but Ann Wilson, who worked at Zenith.
Speaker 1: Anne would call me and say, in her accent, and Julie,
Speaker 1: we won and I'm like that's great, and she's like,
Speaker 1: will you go? And I said fuck no, and she's
Speaker 1: like why, and I like, because all I have done
Speaker 1: is travel internationally for fifteen years or whatever long it
Speaker 1: had been. And by the way, it's hot and humid
Speaker 1: and that is like a hellscape for me. So you
Speaker 1: go on stage, get the award, all the ticker tape parade,
Speaker 1: wherever the fuck it is. You go, rock on, sister Boo.
Speaker 2: And leave me alone, me alone.
Speaker 1: I am not gonna I listen. I do not do
Speaker 1: well in humid environments. I don't. I never have. I've
Speaker 1: always run hot, and then postman apostle, I'm even hotter.
Speaker 1: And so I tried to avoid areas like Miami.
Speaker 2: Florida, except you bought a condo there, not.
Speaker 1: Miami, yes, Miami's No, it was further north. But I
Speaker 1: tried to avoid humid humidity. Apparently I can't come to
Speaker 1: Cincinnati this summer because it sounds like it's humid. I
Speaker 1: can handle going to to h New Orleans, but only
Speaker 1: in early winter. I don't do well. I mean, you
Speaker 1: know how when people get really hungry and they say
Speaker 1: they act angry, you know, because okay, that's how I
Speaker 1: am when I get humid. I don't know the word
Speaker 1: for that yet, so humid and angry, so hugree, it's
Speaker 1: I'm miserable. So anyway, I've avoided it. In this case,
Speaker 1: I did not. So I had to go this year,
Speaker 1: and not only that that, I need to go into
Speaker 1: the land of hell. I had a great place. By
Speaker 1: the way, it's beautiful. I'm sure it's wonderful different times
Speaker 1: of the year. No, it's stunning. The south of France,
Speaker 1: the French Riviera is unbelievably fly into nice, it's all stunning.
Speaker 1: The food is phens. It's a great place, except not
Speaker 1: in the summer. But because I live in like a
Speaker 1: Rando state now, and I say Rando state because there's
Speaker 1: not very many people and we don't have a lot
Speaker 1: of direct flights to places. You know, when I was
Speaker 1: in La I could go anywhere pretty much direct. I
Speaker 1: mean like it's like I'd walk on the plane and
Speaker 1: if I was you know, would go to Europe, I'd
Speaker 1: go to Asia wherever. Even in San Francisco got to
Speaker 1: do that. The luxury of not having to have layovers
Speaker 1: all the time, kind of like you going probably to Esslon, right,
Speaker 1: lots of get interressed there. So in my case, I
Speaker 1: had to go from Albuquerque to Salt Lake City to
Speaker 1: Amsterdam and then Toni's.
Speaker 2: Oh, mercy, that's a long. That's a long, and.
Speaker 1: I had to come home the same damn way. So anyway,
Speaker 1: it was utterly exhausting, but some super duper magical things
Speaker 1: happen there that I am dying to tell you. Guys,
Speaker 1: So are you going to tell us we probably need
Speaker 1: a brace? This is kind of a brief intro for us.
Speaker 1: We're going to tell us me a little brief break
Speaker 1: before we go into it.
Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear your fancy keenestones.
Speaker 1: Fancy can.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, freak, We'll be right back. Hi, welcome back, Thanks,
Speaker 2: and settle in for fancy French storytelling. What kind of
Speaker 2: magic did you cook up?
Speaker 1: Off off? Okay, so I probably should have been focusing
Speaker 1: on some other things, but I'm going to tell you
Speaker 1: what I was obsessed about while I was there. This
Speaker 1: leads into the story. I probably should have been worrying
Speaker 1: more about the meetings and all the stuff I was
Speaker 1: having to do, but I was too worried about finding
Speaker 1: a metaphysical story because I wanted to buy a I
Speaker 1: wanted to buy a French to roe deck. Oh it
Speaker 1: somehow became my mission. I mean I started, I was
Speaker 1: looking up all these One place I found it was
Speaker 1: twenty minutes away, but then I had to find it
Speaker 1: like a to drive. There wasn't a walk, it was
Speaker 1: like a toy minute drive. Found another one shit's closed
Speaker 1: by the way on Sundays and Mondays, you know, like
Speaker 1: they mean it when they say I'm not working. So
Speaker 1: then I was trying to look at my schedule to
Speaker 1: fit in. When can I go? Okay, so it was
Speaker 1: I think it was, Oh, it was Wednesday. It was
Speaker 1: Tuesday because the place I went to was not far
Speaker 1: from the where a company had their like kind of headquarters,
Speaker 1: and this place that opened it two thirty. So I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna figure this shit out. No, I'm sorry, it
Speaker 1: was Wednesday. I missed it two Thurdays and Wednesday, I'm like,
Speaker 1: damn it, I'm gonna go. It opened it ten thirty. Sorry, yeah,
Speaker 1: scratch that. So because I did go the day before
Speaker 1: and I forgot they were they were closed. So I
Speaker 1: go there and the woman who was working there didn't
Speaker 1: speak a look of English and I did not speak
Speaker 1: a lick of French. But didn't matter because they had
Speaker 1: all the cards but in this like bookshelf behind the register,
Speaker 1: and I tried to convince her could I walk back there?
Speaker 1: She said no, And so you're shaking your head like
Speaker 1: I could walk back any place else, but there you can.
Speaker 1: You may point, I know my charm did not work.
Speaker 1: I don't have great eyesight, and I wanted to look
Speaker 1: at him. So I found this like really lovely set
Speaker 1: of trop cards, so I like, oh, I want that,
Speaker 1: which kept pull them down. It was just take a
Speaker 1: long time pulling them down. And of course when she's
Speaker 1: dialing around, I'm like looking at the crystals blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Which ps, I have way better ones.
Speaker 1: But I was looking at the crystals and all this shit,
Speaker 1: and then she pulls this big it's a big box,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh man, I'm gonna have to check
Speaker 1: my bag because I'm going to have to like expand
Speaker 1: the zipper, you know, like I did with Reuben and
Speaker 1: Jimmy and Shu's and I went on a cruise. I'd
Speaker 1: expand my zipper because I gained five pounds the first
Speaker 1: two days. So true story. I had to go on
Speaker 1: a diet vacation because my pants didn't fit. It was
Speaker 1: all the gelato. So so as she's like pulling things down,
Speaker 1: I had had my eyes on this small deck and
Speaker 1: I could tell it said oracle on it, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I've never really worked a lot with
Speaker 1: Oracle cards. I didn't think I own a deck of
Speaker 1: Oracle cards, to be perfectly honest, I'm like, I'm want
Speaker 1: to buy this deck of cards. It has this hot
Speaker 1: pink like cardboard case to it. I'm like hot pink
Speaker 1: oracle screaming, Okay, fuck it, let's do it. So I
Speaker 1: make my purchase. I go back to our little area.
Speaker 1: We had this kind of area of one of the
Speaker 1: hotels that the hotel is called the Gray. It was
Speaker 1: a place where we could stop get a snack, drinks,
Speaker 1: whatever we want to get. So I'm sitting there at
Speaker 1: this booth by myself and I'm opening the cards because
Speaker 1: I wanted to feel them, Like I was really excited
Speaker 1: about this Oracle deck. So obviously my stories are really long.
Speaker 1: So I get all excited and I'm taking the plastic
Speaker 1: off and I'm doing and I'm like doing like poker shuffling.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what happened to me? How did I learn
Speaker 1: how to shuffle like this? And I just want to
Speaker 1: get a feel for him. I had no idea what
Speaker 1: any of this ship meant. There were pictures and then
Speaker 1: there was a French word on him, and I'm just like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is great. So this very very handsome man sat
Speaker 1: down at my table work for the company, and he's like,
Speaker 1: and his name is Mack from the UK Mock. And
Speaker 1: so Mak said to me, He's like, do you mind
Speaker 1: if I sit here? And I'm like, sure, go ahead,
Speaker 1: and I'm like playing with the deck and he goes,
Speaker 1: you know, I've I've never had a reading before. And
Speaker 1: I looked at him. I go, okay, here's what happened.
Speaker 1: I think he thought I was hired entertainment. I pull
Speaker 1: on one hundred percent. Think he thought I was hired entertainment.
Speaker 2: And you're like, damn it. I should have brought it
Speaker 2: to rod deck.
Speaker 1: I should have brought a tip jar. So so I'm
Speaker 1: sitting there and I'm like shuffling the cars or whatever.
Speaker 1: And I said, listen, I go, I just bought these.
Speaker 1: And I was really excited about him. I go, you
Speaker 1: can just sit there for you. Nothing's required here, It's
Speaker 1: all okay. Well, he keeps talking to him and I'm shuffling.
Speaker 1: I'm playing, and I said, darling, do you want to
Speaker 1: pick a card?
Speaker 2: Everybody wants to pick up?
Speaker 1: And I said, you want to pick a card? And
Speaker 1: he's like, well, I'm nervous. I said, then don't pick
Speaker 1: a card. He looked at my I said, then pick
Speaker 1: a card. I mean it was like that little stupid
Speaker 1: thing you must pay the rent. I can't pay the rent.
Speaker 1: I mean this whole thing way back. And I said him,
Speaker 1: I said, pick a card. I work for the company.
Speaker 1: Nobody's going to know but everybody that listens on my podcast,
Speaker 1: so it's gonna be fine. And so he's he's giggling
Speaker 1: at me. So I like, I lay him out. I go,
Speaker 1: I mean I did everything, like I shuffled the shit
Speaker 1: out of this deck. You'd have been very proud. And
Speaker 1: so I lay him out. I said, pick a card,
Speaker 1: any card. He picks the card and he flips it over.
Speaker 1: I'm like, great, take the rest of the cards, gently
Speaker 1: stack them, put them to the side. Because we were
Speaker 1: not picking more than one. It was one card, one
Speaker 1: and done. Baby, this is what I'm doing. And I said,
Speaker 1: I go listen. I've never I just touched this deck
Speaker 1: of cards. I have no idea what's going to happen.
Speaker 1: Let's see. So because I don't speak French, I'm tapping
Speaker 1: on the card because I don't know what the buck
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 2: It's because we all know tapping on the card is
Speaker 2: how you get more information.
Speaker 1: Here's what happened. I said, you have a set of twins.
Speaker 1: They're boys. Yes, I do. Okay, they're around three years old,
Speaker 1: aren't they.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 1: I'm tapping, tapping, tapping away, and he's looking at me
Speaker 1: like what the fuck is going to happen next? And
Speaker 1: I'm and I'm looking back and I'm like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: so tapping away, and I said, okay, one of your boys,
Speaker 1: I go, I don't. I can't get their names names,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter right now. But one of them is
Speaker 1: very like prone to more than engineering things like I
Speaker 1: think you guys have a train set. He plays with
Speaker 1: it the most. And he said, oh, yeah, that's so.
Speaker 1: And so I'm like, okay, we're not here to talk
Speaker 1: about him. We're going to talk about the other one.
Speaker 1: And he's like okay.
Speaker 2: And I said, he's a special kid, isn't he?
Speaker 3: Wait?
Speaker 1: I said, so, did he fall? I said, in the
Speaker 1: last week, did he fall down on his face, break
Speaker 1: it tooth, cut his lip? Because I see a bloody face?
Speaker 1: He said yes, last week. I said, that's him. I said, okay,
Speaker 1: And I said this one very sensitive. And I said,
Speaker 1: but he's really really sensitive to her. He doesn't even
Speaker 1: know how to express it. That's why he's falling down.
Speaker 1: And I said, he's like you before you got married.
Speaker 1: And he goes, yes, exactly like me. And I said,
Speaker 1: this is your job with him. Your job is to
Speaker 1: actually talk to him about his emotions so he learns
Speaker 1: how to process them. You start talking to him when
Speaker 1: he's between seven eight nine years old about those feelings
Speaker 1: and those emotions, because he will sail through life if
Speaker 1: he knows how to deal with that. If he does not,
Speaker 1: he will continue to stumble and fall. This guy, Malk
Speaker 1: had tears running down his face. He goes, he goes,
Speaker 1: what the fuck am I doing? It? Can crying? I said,
Speaker 1: you're welcome.
Speaker 2: That isn't drop the mic, that's.
Speaker 1: Your ass. Set down. I looked at him. I said,
Speaker 1: you sat down at my table thinking that I was
Speaker 1: the hired entertaining hired help. Then you're telling me you've nervous.
Speaker 1: You picked the card. Okay, now let me tell you
Speaker 1: about the card. Are you ready for the card? So
Speaker 1: the card had the picture of a child and on
Speaker 1: the card there were there all the cards were numbered.
Speaker 1: I didn't notice this until afterwards. He took a picture
Speaker 1: of it. Because I looked at it, I went, oh,
Speaker 1: you want want to take a picture of this card?
Speaker 1: On the card, it's number thirty three twin three twins
Speaker 1: and they're each three years old. I did not see that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's so perfect, isn't.
Speaker 1: That incredibly like that to me? Is like what? And
Speaker 1: he paid it's his card, not me?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, And then you didn't even know the card I.
Speaker 1: Do what was happening. I think maybe the word was
Speaker 1: babe or some shit like that. I don't know. And
Speaker 1: so I had to, like, you know, get my shit together.
Speaker 1: I had to go to a meeting and I'm getting
Speaker 1: wake up. And he looked at me and goes, can
Speaker 1: I give you a hug? I? Oh, can you give
Speaker 1: me a hug? Yes you can, And so I got
Speaker 1: out and he hugged. He goes, I just I don't
Speaker 1: know what to say, and I go, you don't have
Speaker 1: to say anything. I'm like, this is clearly what you
Speaker 1: needed to hear today, and so just remember this and
Speaker 1: remember him with this and what your job as his
Speaker 1: dad is. That's all you got to do. So beautiful,
Speaker 1: So that happened in the middle of a work day.
Speaker 2: What a great work day, doing great work in the world.
Speaker 1: Man, How fun is that?
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for your service.
Speaker 1: It's so funny because he kept asking me, Okay, so
Speaker 1: here's a couple of side notes. So he kept I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm tapping like, I'm tapping like I'm doing more's fucking code,
Speaker 1: Like I am tapping like tapping away and he goes.
Speaker 1: He goes, Can I stop you and ask what you know?
Speaker 1: I said no. A few minutes later, I said, listen,
Speaker 1: I go, have you ever heard of the term tapping in?
Speaker 1: He goes no. I said, have you heard the term
Speaker 1: tapping out? Like and you know wrestling? He's like, yes,
Speaker 1: I said, tapping in. I mean I'm connecting with the
Speaker 1: with what it is that you need to know? He goes, Oh,
Speaker 1: is the card telling you this? I said, if you
Speaker 1: want to believe the card is telling you that, you can't.
Speaker 1: But that's not really, that's not what's happening here. He goes, So,
Speaker 1: what's happening here? I said, guides galore like they're just
Speaker 1: all huddling up. Want to make sure that I get
Speaker 1: the message right. To tell you about your boy.
Speaker 2: So perfect translation.
Speaker 1: I don't know what else to say.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's perfect translation. Love needs no translation. It's
Speaker 2: the same in everything.
Speaker 1: It's like, this is what And I think that kid
Speaker 1: is if dad does his gig right, Yeah, that kid
Speaker 1: is going to is creative because that's.
Speaker 2: The other Kidney's. I think the kid needs a few
Speaker 2: some boundaries, but here nor there, because I think he's
Speaker 2: he's Yeah, I think he's got some attachments. Well not
Speaker 2: necessarily harmful, but.
Speaker 1: Okay, well I have his and he sent me. He
Speaker 1: sent me a love letter that was a thank you.
Speaker 1: So I can get back to him and I can
Speaker 1: let him know. Okay, yeah, to some boundaries, clearing some
Speaker 1: I will let him know. Oh, I can say he'd
Speaker 1: go out and fetch them selenite. Yeah, black TERMINEE get
Speaker 1: to go ship that I have to send thee give
Speaker 1: and I have hoarded all the best tourmaline in the
Speaker 1: world that's sitting in my garage that I think is
Speaker 1: my job that I need to send it.
Speaker 2: So respect that my great job. Great story.
Speaker 1: Okay, I have another one, but why do I take
Speaker 1: a break.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll be right back.
Speaker 1: What the what the fuck are you doing? You're counting up.
Speaker 1: You're not counting down. Everybody, Joey, keep this ship in.
Speaker 1: I want ever to know that my witch is supposed
Speaker 1: to count down. And she started going three, four, five.
Speaker 1: It's like, what are you doing? That was amazing. We're back, everybody.
Speaker 2: You are not honoring. I'm dyslexic and I have my own.
Speaker 1: You do not go up in numbers. You mixed them. No,
Speaker 1: but you kept going up.
Speaker 2: I know, but I thought it was Oh my god, hype, welcome,
Speaker 2: welcome back. Tell us another fancy.
Speaker 1: Fancy bronze story. First of all, I just have to
Speaker 1: share with everybody that we were giggling our asses off
Speaker 1: in the last break because because I was, because I said,
Speaker 1: I said something like I go listen. I did invite
Speaker 1: this guy over. I didn't say, hey, let me read
Speaker 1: for you. And you're like no, when you start shuffling cards,
Speaker 1: they all show up. I said yeah, and I said
Speaker 1: and I was super jet lag and she goes it
Speaker 1: probably helped, I said, yeah, because nothing was going on upstairs,
Speaker 1: like it was vacant, no activity. It was a warehouse
Speaker 1: but nothing in it.
Speaker 2: But you served him greatly.
Speaker 3: He served him great because literally nothing going on upstairs.
Speaker 3: Y'all's nothing. Okay, it all worked out perfectly. So the
Speaker 3: other fun magical thing that happened is one of the
Speaker 3: people in this world I love so dearly was there.
Speaker 3: There's actually several which was made the trip really great,
Speaker 3: and one of them is my friend Becca. And those
Speaker 3: of you that have read the book, she's mentioned in
Speaker 3: the book. She is actually the one that the first
Speaker 3: picture of the gray alien I sent to her. I'm like, girl,
Speaker 3: get I think, I texted. I'm like, girl, gilo, this
Speaker 3: is what the fuck?
Speaker 1: And she goes that scares me. Delete it now, blah blah.
Speaker 2: Blah, blah blah blah, not having it.
Speaker 1: You want nothing to do with that alien action, not
Speaker 1: having it. So she was there, and and I've been
Speaker 1: through a lot of stuff with she and her family.
Speaker 1: I mean, she's had some family members jump all kind
Speaker 1: of in a cluster of a time frame. And her grandmother,
Speaker 1: who you know practically well, actually did raise her and love,
Speaker 1: I mean love, like deep deep love, had recently gone.
Speaker 1: And her grandma's actually spoken to me for her before.
Speaker 1: But she's always looking for signs from her grandmother, and
Speaker 1: so she was telling me. We had dinner I think
Speaker 1: three nights, two nights when were there? Two three nights
Speaker 1: when we were there. And she's like, and by the
Speaker 1: way they dine in France is late they do in Spain.
Speaker 1: I'm like, for the love of God, y'all, like I
Speaker 1: remember going to Spain and like dinner would start at eleven.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you doing? I should be asleep
Speaker 1: for two hours by the time this shit starts. So anyway,
Speaker 1: so we're having dinner, and so she's telling me, she
Speaker 1: goes listen, she goes, I s, you're still laughing at
Speaker 1: my dining thing, aren't you? Yeah? But it's I did
Speaker 1: not know. I've been. I've been to Paris for work
Speaker 1: a ton. Never do I recall the late dinners like
Speaker 1: we had in can It reminded me of Spain. So
Speaker 1: we so we're dinner and we're just talking away and
Speaker 1: she's asked me about Grandma and I met Grandma's cake
Speaker 1: in the pants, and she's like, she goes listen, and
Speaker 1: Beca is very matter of the fact.
Speaker 2: She has listened.
Speaker 1: She has I'm seeing these fucking numbers. I go, what
Speaker 1: kind of numbers? She has? One? One one, one, two
Speaker 1: two two, Like all of the magic numbers constantly. She's like,
Speaker 1: I'm seeing them all the time. And I said, okay,
Speaker 1: and then of course she goes, one time I saw
Speaker 1: sixty nine. I said, were we not get into that?
Speaker 1: That is, like you, it is none of my friend
Speaker 1: class yet none of my business not doing that one.
Speaker 1: And so so we're talking about it. She goes, well,
Speaker 1: what you know? She again she wants to know exactly
Speaker 1: what each one means, and I'm like, well, you can
Speaker 1: google that shit yourself. I said, but but why don't
Speaker 1: you like do a journal and write them down, like
Speaker 1: when you get them, the days, the frequency, and let's
Speaker 1: just see if there's some sort of pattern that kind
Speaker 1: of emerges from this. Well, instead of a journal, the
Speaker 1: bitch starts texting them to me, So my text is
Speaker 1: like blowing up constantly, and all I get is a number.
Speaker 1: So I get a number on my text and it
Speaker 1: has a time stamp, so I know the day, the time,
Speaker 1: and what the number was, all this kind of stuff.
Speaker 1: And so when I got home from can I was
Speaker 1: like jet lag, like I had not been jet lag before.
Speaker 1: So again brain is empty, like going on upstairs, like
Speaker 1: Suzanne was actually like hey baby, she was asking me
Speaker 1: questions and I'm like, no talking, like I don't know talking,
Speaker 1: I cannot talk. It's all like everything's empty right now.
Speaker 1: You just let me like regiterate here. And so I
Speaker 1: got a couple more texts with these fucking numbers on it,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, this is what it is.
Speaker 1: So I sent her text because again I didn't want
Speaker 1: to talk to anybody, and I said a text. I said, girl,
Speaker 1: you know what, when my whole spiritual journey was really
Speaker 1: kicking off, I said, I got all the numbers. I
Speaker 1: got the numbers just like you are. I saw them everywhere.
Speaker 1: I saw them on clocks, I saw them on license plates,
Speaker 1: I saw them when I was driving around to La
Speaker 1: on billboards, and that in on billboards, by the way,
Speaker 1: they have a number assigned to the billboard. I was like,
Speaker 1: it was it was insane. I said, I think this
Speaker 1: is just the beginning of your journey, so I wouldn't
Speaker 1: get so wrapped up in the definition of everything. But
Speaker 1: I think the key is just to start paying attention
Speaker 1: to all the other signs that are yet to come
Speaker 1: or have come, and they're going to keep coming. So
Speaker 1: just open to what happens next. You don't have to
Speaker 1: worry about every time you see a number, there's something
Speaker 1: your grandmother or something's supposed to happen or tell you.
Speaker 1: I go, I think there's more. This is like, this
Speaker 1: is like the training wheels on your bicycle, your training wheels.
Speaker 1: Just look and see because eventually you're going to kick
Speaker 1: those things off and you're going to be talking to
Speaker 1: Grimma on yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Just such a sweet confirmation. Hey, you're on the
Speaker 2: right track.
Speaker 1: You're on the right track.
Speaker 2: Let us show you some magic numbers so that you
Speaker 2: know you're on the right track. These are little candy
Speaker 2: drops showing you the path forward. Just keep coming, just
Speaker 2: just keep coming.
Speaker 1: It's like the full car. It's like you're on a journey.
Speaker 1: You're you're on a path you've never been on.
Speaker 2: Before, exactly. So we're sending you signals and you're the
Speaker 2: little GUARDRAI let's keep going exactly.
Speaker 1: That's exactly right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so sweet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so that was like, it's just so nice
Speaker 1: that I've been so fortunate to work in an industry
Speaker 1: that I mean, I'm still weird, let's be honest, but
Speaker 1: it's like super embrasively here. You know. It's funny. My
Speaker 1: old old boss used to head the agent's hip globally.
Speaker 1: He's like, he British, Julie, You're like, let me say,
Speaker 1: you're like a sack of ferre You are so incredibly bright,
Speaker 1: but you are as crazy as a sack of ferrets
Speaker 1: or bag of ferrets or some shit like that. And
Speaker 1: he looked at me and he goes, I hope you're
Speaker 1: not a fitted. I said, I now feel like it's
Speaker 1: the greatest compliment I've ever received it. What are you kidding?
Speaker 1: Only a sack of ferrets would think of? Sack of
Speaker 1: ferrets is a compliment?
Speaker 2: Fair enough, fair enough, nice.
Speaker 1: Fair enough. I'm writing that down right now. Farrot enough.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna make t shirt, y'all. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna start another business anyway. So that was cann So
Speaker 1: it's about being open. It's like you know, yes, yes
Speaker 1: you can, Yes you can too. You don't have to
Speaker 1: be with the fall falls in the South of France
Speaker 1: sweating your ass off.
Speaker 2: Nope, you can just follow the gum drops, the little magic.
Speaker 1: Or buy yourself a little oracle deck hot paint, shuffle
Speaker 1: that ship around. You never know what's going to happen.
Speaker 2: It's like a beacon they'll come running and.
Speaker 1: You know, after that, all the people are like will
Speaker 1: you read you? And I'm like, bitches, I'm out, like
Speaker 1: what and done from the UK? Got the best of
Speaker 1: me and I gotta like work.
Speaker 2: That is awesome, that is awesome. I love love, love
Speaker 2: your stories. I love your work, trip love your stories.
Speaker 2: Beautiful well play. It's fun, yeah, And I.
Speaker 1: Think, like you, it is, but I think like it's
Speaker 1: also and I think I caught it from you, Like
Speaker 1: it's a disease, but it's a good disease. It's just
Speaker 1: the disease of doing service for people. You know.
Speaker 2: It's like it's a contagious disease. You know what.
Speaker 1: I still have a little jet leg I know, I
Speaker 1: really do, but I think it is it is. It's contagion.
Speaker 1: It's like you do so much in your life that
Speaker 1: serves others, and it is it is contagious, and it
Speaker 1: literally I get Do I get joy? I get joy
Speaker 1: for other people? Do I get joy that I'm right?
Speaker 2: Or no?
Speaker 1: I actually don't like it's good to have confirmation just
Speaker 1: because I don't want to misguide, mislead, miss guide. But
Speaker 1: it's such an interesting space. It is a space to
Speaker 1: like egos so removed. You know, it's not like I'm
Speaker 1: going out to get my jolly's. These are not my jollies.
Speaker 1: You know, I can love a stranger. Listen in the
Speaker 1: world today, when we can hate strangers, I'm perfectly happy
Speaker 1: to love a stranger. So I have this stranger Mak
Speaker 1: that I really wanted to like, I wanted to serve
Speaker 1: him properly.
Speaker 2: Right, no longer is stranger.
Speaker 1: It was not a stranger anymore. We may be BFFs now.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure we'll find out. I'll give you I'll
Speaker 1: give you all updates. But it is to you know,
Speaker 1: and for Becca to do like she's struggling, she's trying
Speaker 1: to figure that. It's like, this is just what we do.
Speaker 1: And so I just think that I thank you for
Speaker 1: that because I would have never I think fully understood.
Speaker 1: I'm like, looking at your eyes through the camera, even
Speaker 1: a mind a little squinty, I thank you for that
Speaker 1: because I don't I've never been taught that by anyone else.
Speaker 1: And I think that this is so important that everybody.
Speaker 1: I hope that someone has taught you this, or maybe
Speaker 1: we are the ones to teach you. Disembodied versions of
Speaker 1: us can teach you and for you to take it
Speaker 1: on and to do the same, because if we don't
Speaker 1: pass it on, things die, you know. So if we
Speaker 1: don't pass on this stuff, especially in really hard times,
Speaker 1: you know, if we don't do that, it stops. So,
Speaker 1: you know, having that sense of service, you know, like
Speaker 1: snag that contagion slash not disease.
Speaker 2: Exactly. Thank you mine, Thank you for your service, Thank
Speaker 2: you for your love.
Speaker 1: It is my pleasure.
Speaker 2: And thank you for your beautiful stories. So much fun
Speaker 2: this week. Thank you, thank you my pleasure. Thanks for listening, everybody,
Speaker 2: and remember our school is.
Speaker 1: Hard without a pink deck of Oracle cards from France
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