1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: Did Jewel show on demand? Good morning? Are you guys 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: still doing Friday Feel? Yeah, we are. We do it 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: all show long. This is the normal time where we 4 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,039 Speaker 1: talk about it on the air. But why not? What's 5 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: your name? Liz? What up? Liz? What's up? Good morning? 6 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: Good morning? What's your Friday feel? My Friday feel? As 7 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: a parent is helpless? Why are you helpless? Don't laugh 8 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: at her? Really, well you can, but my daughter is 9 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: a sophomore in high school and he has been being 10 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: bullied and it has been extremely hard on her because 11 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: she is one of the most caring people I know 12 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: in the world periods. And all she wants is to 13 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: make a friend and she has not made a friend 14 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 1: yet and it's being really hard. And are you kids 15 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: are turning down and just seeing where are you from Sacramento? Okay? 16 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: From SZA? What school does? She go to? Fortune High School, 17 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: which is an early college, so she's taking college classes 18 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: as well. Oh nice, she will graduate with her AA 19 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: out of high school. Well that's she's completely dedicated to 20 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: her future and school. So that's been part of the issue, 21 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: is if she doesn't want to be friends with people 22 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: who don't care about their future too and olds are 23 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: just yeah, there, I heard of it. I like, I 24 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: want to go up here and beat up a bunch 25 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: of little high school that feeling what's her name, Tatiana? 26 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: I feel you want to go beat up a bunch 27 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,280 Speaker 1: of high school ers thing Alex and I are married. 28 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:37,919 Speaker 1: I'm sure you've heard me say that a billion times. 29 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: It's hilarious. Though. If Jack's the nine year old comes 30 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: home and says somebody's bullying him, you can just tell 31 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: that she's ready to go down to school. Like take 32 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: her if she was wearing earrings and be like, where 33 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: is he? Alex? The mama bear is just like filling inside. 34 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: I know the feeling. I want to get Tatiana some 35 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: genuine good friends that are like her, and we should 36 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: do something. We should define what kind of stuff are 37 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 1: they doing to her? M They make fun of her 38 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: about her pants, and they wear uniforms, so they're all 39 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: wearing the same thing. What this is to make fun 40 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: of her about? Okay, so she's a little sick. If 41 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: he got a little hole in her thighs and they 42 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: were making fun of her about that and pointing it 43 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: out for the whole classroom, are you? I'm like, we're 44 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: not poor. You could have told me your pants were 45 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: ripping and we'll go buy you more. Like, like, this 46 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: is twenty twenty one, How is bullying still a thing? 47 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I know people bully because they're sad because 48 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: maybe something that's going on home. Yeah, but still like 49 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: I feel like more should be done, you know, and 50 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,679 Speaker 1: kids like they need to find some compassion for sure. Yeah. Yeah. 51 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: Do you know how she responds to them? She just 52 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: shuts down. Yeah. As someone who used to be a 53 00:02:58,080 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: bully when he was growing up, believe it or not, 54 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: I know, I'm sure not that intimidating looking, but a 55 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: bully or even worse, the guy who just hung out 56 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: with the bullies and didn't say anything and just let 57 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: them do what they do and then laughed along with them. 58 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: It sucks that kids are still doing that, and it 59 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: doesn't make you feel any better. Actually, I felt a 60 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: lot of shame and like crap a lot in my 61 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 1: life for things that I've done. But when you shut 62 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: down or when you respond on their level, that only 63 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: encourages them more, which sucks. But we would definitely want 64 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 1: to try to help her out and do something for 65 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: her that would help talk to her. I want to 66 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: talk to her too. Would that be cool? That would 67 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: be awesome. Actually, I think awesome because I feel like 68 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: we could help. Jule is like somebody who's really good 69 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: at because he gays. He used to be a bully, 70 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: right because of things that we're going on at home, 71 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 1: but he's not like that. So and he's actually called 72 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: kids that he went to school to apologize. Yeah, as 73 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: an adult, so obviously like he's grown from it, he's 74 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: learned from it and it wasn't okay. And then I 75 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: think every parent goes through this at some point during school. 76 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: But in high school, she's old enough to where we 77 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: could talk to her and offer some advice on how 78 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: to respond even Yeah, one of the best moments of 79 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: my life so far was give Alex's daughter Bella, my 80 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: stepdaughter Bella, some advice on when she was being bullied. 81 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: She's fifteen. She's gonna be sixteen in a couple of weeks. Yeah, 82 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: she was, she was thirteen, right, She's being bullied by 83 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: some guys when she was thirteen, and I gave her 84 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: some advice just on how to deal with what they 85 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: were doing to her. And it was like two days later, 86 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: So they leave me alone now so yeah, I would 87 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: love that, because you know, I give her advice daily. 88 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: But coming from your mom, it's like, yeah, evil was 89 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: said than done. Mom. Yeah, sometimes that stuff just hits 90 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: different from someone who's not your parents. You know, it 91 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: is what it is. They're gonna look at me like, yeah, whatever, 92 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: what do you know? How is she actually taking it 93 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: when she gets home and stuff? Is it consuming her life? 94 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: The ride home is usually a little hetchy, and there's 95 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 1: pension or emotional release about it. But once she gets home, 96 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: I think she she's more comfortable. She's away from all 97 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: the drama and bulls, so she gets better. But she's 98 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: definitely it she wants Yeah, and yeah, that's kind of 99 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: the part that is killing me inside is that I 100 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: guess that like she feels lonely and she's like, I 101 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: want to go stuff. I will have friends to talk 102 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 1: to you, and we're gonna help her. Let's do it. 103 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: Let's do it right now. Yes, we'll play a song 104 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: and then we'll call her and I'll start it off 105 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 1: with a phone prank and it's going to be in 106 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: place of the phone prank. Yeah, I'll see if I 107 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: can do like an impromptu phone prank and then we 108 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: can get real with her and talk to her about 109 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 1: her situation. Well, let's do that. Sound good? That would 110 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: be amazing. You guys are so awesome. I love you 111 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: guys so much. Thank you so shure. Yeah, he's crying. 112 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: He's always crying. I'm always crying though. I'm a cry 113 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: baby too. All right, we'll do it next. It's a 114 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 1: Jewel show, The Jewbil Show on demand. It's another Jewbil 115 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 1: phone Frank Day mornings on that's twenties phone pranks a 116 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 1: little different. Today, it's a Jewil show. If you just 117 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: missed it. A listener named Liz called in because her 118 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 1: daughter's being bullied and shared unless she feels help us 119 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: for Friday feels and so we're gonna call her daughter 120 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: right now see what we can help her out. But 121 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: first I'm gonna start it by doing a phone prank. 122 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: Of course. Mans people, Tatiana please, that's me, Tatiana. How 123 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: are you? This is Herbert Weinstein. I'm the new principle 124 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: of high school and I was calling to inform you 125 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: of the new start time or were you not aware? No, sir, okay, yeah, 126 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 1: that would explain the absence today. Are you coming into 127 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 1: school today? Yeah? I'm on my way. Okay. Yeah, I've 128 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 1: had to call a bunch of students today. Did everybody 129 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: miss the email? Um? What email about the new start time. 130 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say no, then school is now starting. 131 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 1: Our new start time is gonna be six thirty in 132 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 1: the morning, starting with a double zero period. You know 133 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: some people of zero period in first period. That's a 134 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: double zero period. Um that I'm not waking up at 135 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: four in the morning to go to school at six 136 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: in I'm sorry, Okay, a little bit of pushback. Well, well, 137 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: you know what I took over as principle just two 138 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 1: weeks ago, and my show the way I want. Um, 139 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: I guess we can do a double seventh period if 140 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: you don't want to do the double zero period that 141 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: doesn't exist. Did you miss that email too? Yeah? Okay, 142 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: apparently my email situation is all messed up because I've 143 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: had to call so far. You're my fiftieth call this morning. 144 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: It seems like nobody showed up at six thirty. And 145 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: can you blame them? Ims waking up at like three 146 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 1: in the morning think you're ready for school? Yeah, probably 147 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: a bonehead move. Hey, I'm your new principal and I'm 148 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: kind of a dummy. Yeah, not nice. Screw that to 149 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: say that. I'm sure, I'm sure you're not that stupid. 150 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 1: I'm sure. Well, I don't know about that. Hey, Tatiana, 151 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 1: how are you? Hey, Tatiana, how are you? I'm are you? Tatiana? 152 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: This is the Jewel Show? What's up? What? Yeah? The 153 00:07:55,640 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: jew Show and me Evan, how are you? Okay? I'm okay? 154 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? Did you have any idea 155 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: that was jubil or not? Not really, because my principle 156 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: like hurt his back, Like, well that worked out. I 157 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: love that you're just like Nope, that's not happening for you, Like, no, 158 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: doesn't just sounds insane. How are you this morning? I'm okay? 159 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: How are you? We're good? Your tone has changed a lot. Yeah, 160 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,320 Speaker 1: I'm probably proud of you that you stood up for yourself. 161 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 1: Most kids wouldn't. Most kids would be like, okay, y'all, 162 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: i'll go to the double Zerobre, you'll wake up super early, 163 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: and then they would hang up the phone and be 164 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 1: like this stuck right, especially when she was like sir, 165 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 1: whatever she's been so, I'm like, she's definitely gonna be 166 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: like okay, Yeah, I'm sorry. No, I was like, dang, 167 00:08:52,040 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: good job. Did you have any idea why we're calling? Oh? No, really, 168 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: it wasn't a prank you, No, it wasn't yet. That 169 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: was kind of good. Yeah, unexpected. So you obviously don't 170 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: know why we're calling. No, I really don't. We're calling 171 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: you because your mom called in for Friday Fields and 172 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: we talked to your mom for a little while, and 173 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 1: we wanted to call you and just check in with 174 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: you and say hi first of all, and introduced ourselves 175 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: and say we're the Jewels show. My name is Jewel. 176 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: You know, I would whatever all the names. And your 177 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: mom's a dope mom. Did you know that? Um? Yeah, 178 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: I mean it's just cool to hesitate. You're in tenth grade, 179 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 1: you're fifteen, Like, dude, I would have a lot of 180 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: second thoughts that someone said my parents are cool at 181 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: that age. I'd be like, well, I guess ultimately they are. 182 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: But you have a really cool mom. She loves you 183 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: a lot. Thank you, guys. Yeah, And she called up 184 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 1: and talked to us and told us a little bit 185 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 1: about what's going on at school. And we don't condone 186 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: anybody being bullied or made fun of or whatever. Also, 187 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: we just are concerned to make sure that we can 188 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: help you out though, that you can have the experience 189 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: that you deserve. You know what I'm saying, Well, thank you, 190 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,079 Speaker 1: all right, We'll play a song, come back, get a 191 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 1: little more information about your story, and then help you 192 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: out and we have a surprise for you. It's coming 193 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: up next. It's a Jewel Show. The Jewel Show on Demand. 194 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: My Friday feel as a parent is helpless. My daughter 195 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: is a sophomore in high school. It has been being 196 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: bullied and it has been extremely hard on her because 197 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: she is one of the most caring people I know 198 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 1: in the world period. Her new startime is gonna be 199 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: six thirty in the morning. Um, that's just that's that's 200 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm not waking up at four in the morning to 201 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 1: go to school at six in I'm sorry, Okay, a 202 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 1: little bit of pushback. Apparently my email address situation is 203 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,679 Speaker 1: all messed up because I've had to call so far. 204 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 1: You're my fiftieth call this morning. It seems like nobody 205 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: showed up at six thirty, and can you blame them? 206 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: Someone's waking up at like three in the morning to 207 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 1: ready for school. In case you missed it. Those clips 208 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: are from just a little while ago. One of our 209 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: listeners named Liz called up and told us that her 210 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: daughters being bullied. So you know what, We're gonna help 211 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:12,079 Speaker 1: her daughter out and anybody who's in the same situation. So, Tatiana, 212 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: from your side of things, are you good? House school 213 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 1: affecting you right now? I'm fine. I just kind of 214 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: attempting to ice. I guess, yeah, what exactly is going on? 215 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,439 Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, you should know this. Okay, 216 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 1: I don't know how much you know about me in general, 217 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,839 Speaker 1: but in school, I was a bully and I'm not 218 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 1: proud of it, and I've called people that I've done 219 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 1: that too and apologize as an adult. I was a 220 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 1: kid that grew up in an abusive household, and that's 221 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: the reason that I acted out right. Those people that 222 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 1: are trying to make themselves feel better, it's because they're 223 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 1: hurting about something. And I've had a lot of you know, 224 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: I've been in counseling since kindergarten, So this kind of 225 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: stuff I take serious because it can have effects on 226 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:58,599 Speaker 1: your mental health. And I just wanted you to know 227 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 1: that we're my ice or wanting to call you and 228 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: stuff came from for me personally. And then Alex also 229 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: is very passionate about ending people being mean to each other, 230 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: bullying each other or whatever. And your mom called up 231 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: and told us your story, which is actually a really 232 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,679 Speaker 1: cool move. Like, I know it might be kind of 233 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 1: weird at your age if like, i'd be embarrassed, right 234 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: if I was you. Yeah, here's the thing, though, that's 235 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: a really cool move by your mom to reach out 236 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 1: to be like, hey, I don't like what's happening to 237 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 1: my daughter, and I want her to feel like she 238 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: deserves to feel good, like everybody deserves to feel And 239 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: she didn't ask us for help. We offered it because 240 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,559 Speaker 1: it's important. Yeah, Tatiana, you're being bullied at school. And 241 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: the first thing that I want to say to you 242 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: is this two shell pass. You're almost an adult, and 243 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: you're gonna be able to make the friends that you 244 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: want and the close friends rate like you, you should 245 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: have like a few close friends, so you know, people 246 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 1: don't need like a ton of friends, they just need 247 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: like a couple of close friends that are a good 248 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: support system. Me. They don't break you down, they build 249 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: you up. So that's our mission. Yeah, and the thing 250 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: that your mom said about you, and that I can 251 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: tell about you right away is one, you're a really 252 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: good student. Sometimes sometimes well your mom says you are 253 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 1: so y'all would think she would be the biggest critic. 254 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: She also said, you're really selective about who you hang 255 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: out with because of that, because you'd like to spend 256 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: your time working your brain and not working in your 257 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 1: mouth with gossip and stuff, which is actually a really 258 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: good thing. The people that might make fun of you 259 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: or might bully you all that stuff, you gotta remember 260 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: there's a reason they're doing that, and it's not because 261 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: of you. It's because of them, and it's because something 262 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,559 Speaker 1: about you makes them jealous. They wish they had it. 263 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 1: I'll tell you right now, the way that you were 264 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: with when you thought I was at the principal when 265 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: I did that phone prank. Her new startime is gonna 266 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: be six thirty in the morning. That's that's that's I'm 267 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 1: not waking up at four in the money to go 268 00:13:55,800 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: to school at sixth I'm sorry, you're you're you're fifteen, fifteen, 269 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 1: and you you were being assertive. Assertive sounded so confident. Yeah, 270 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 1: if the principal cooled me, I would have been like, Okay, 271 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't learn that asertiveness until my thirties. 272 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: So I was jealousy right there. I was like, damn, 273 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 1: that's impressive. I was like fist pumping in the air. Yeah, 274 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: because you weren't disrespectful about it either. For sure. I 275 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 1: really think it's important Jewel Free to like explain to 276 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 1: her how you respond to bullies. Yeah. Yeah, I wanted 277 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: to ask you specifically what things are going on or 278 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: what are they saying to you or doing to you? Oh, 279 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: like they make fun of you? Yeah? What do they 280 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: make fun of you? For whatever they can find? Like 281 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't do my hair like how I 282 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: usually do the fifth high. That sucks. Also, I know 283 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: we can help you out with this for sure, definitely, 284 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 1: And have a surprise for you coming up too. We 285 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: have to play a song. We'll play a songs, come back, 286 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: and then we'll give you some advice that we think 287 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: could really help. It's The Jewel Show, The Jewel Show 288 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 1: on Demand. My Friday Angel as a parent is helpless. 289 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: My daughter is a sophomore in high school. It has 290 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 1: been being bullied and it has been extremely hard on 291 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 1: her because she is one of the most caring people 292 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 1: I know in the world period. We're actually talking to Liz, 293 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 1: who you've just heard on that phone call. She told 294 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: us that her daughters being bullied, so we called up 295 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: her daughter, Tatiano. We've been talking to her this whole hour, 296 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: helping her out their situation, and in case you missed 297 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: what just happened, she shared with us some of the 298 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 1: things that people do. She had a hole in her pants. 299 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: They were making fun of that, her hair, her hair, 300 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: anything fun of anything they can. What do you say 301 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 1: back to them? I just laugh along. Do you laugh 302 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 1: along from the point of you're laughing honestly joking about it, 303 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: or you're laughing just to seem like it's okay, like 304 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: it doesn't phase you, but just to seem like it's okay. Yeah, 305 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: that's yeah. I was city. They're crying while I'm laughing, 306 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: so like, right, yeah, I was wondering because you know, 307 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: I moved schools a lot, and I had to deal 308 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 1: with people coming at me because I'm a small dude. 309 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: The name is Jubile. Never easy to go to a 310 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: new school, you know. Yeah, And I would laugh the 311 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 1: other way because I was just I always just wanted 312 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 1: to be funny, and that's how I'm asked stuff, so 313 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 1: I would always just make a better insults for myself 314 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 1: and to be like, you're not as good of a 315 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: bully as I am, right, but I'm not expecting you 316 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: to do that. I just wondered if you were laughing 317 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: like that in a way to just make it kind 318 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: of better, because obviously you don't want to break down 319 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: and cry. Right. Have you talked to anybody at the school, 320 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: like any of the teachers about the bullying, No, well 321 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: you should. You should let them know. And the reason 322 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: I asked you about the laughing thing was one thing 323 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: that that does it makes it okay, And that's not 324 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: your fault, right, You're just doing what you think will 325 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: make it easier in the moment, for sure, because I've 326 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: been there. I have done that in my life, right, 327 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: But what that tells the people that are bullying you 328 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 1: is that it's okay to keep saying it, right, And 329 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: I'm not saying you need to clap back at them 330 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: or anything, but they need to know that it's not okay, 331 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: not in an aggressive mean way. But you're assertive, right, 332 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 1: you are? You are? You? Just yeah, you showed the 333 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 1: coginning of this phone call. How assertive you are. And 334 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 1: that's an impressive trait that a lot of people don't have, 335 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 1: and a lot of people struggle with throughout their entire life. 336 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 1: Do you know how many times I've tried to figure 337 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 1: out if there's some place I can go for a 338 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 1: couple of weeks to teach me to be more assertive 339 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: naturally like you are, because you did that. Yeah, and 340 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 1: with people like that, how to respond is to not laugh. 341 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 1: You don't have to cry either, because it seems like 342 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: you can stop yourself from crying because you laugh like that. 343 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 1: To do that, just look at them, stone face, and 344 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:53,760 Speaker 1: then turn your head away, turn your whole body away. Right, 345 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: It's like I don't even hear it, you know, don't 346 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: even give them the pleasure of the laugh along coming 347 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 1: from someone who bullied a lot of people growing up, 348 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,399 Speaker 1: or who was around bullies as friends, right, Right, So 349 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: if it seems like it doesn't affect you, they'll stop 350 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: because they're not getting what they want want, right, So 351 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: even that little laugh, that a little bit of a laugh, 352 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: still gives them something because it goes, oh it's cool, Right, 353 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: I can still do it. Right, if you cry. It 354 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 1: also goes, oh I made her cry. If they say 355 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 1: it to you and you just look at them and 356 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: don't even move a muscle on your face and then 357 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: just turn around. Now they have nothing, don't give them 358 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 1: anything to work with at all. And you can. I 359 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: can tell you can just by the way you talked 360 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,119 Speaker 1: to beginning of the phone call. You should tell her 361 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 1: the story about Bella. Oh yeah, I have a fifteen 362 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:37,119 Speaker 1: year old daughter as well. I gave the same advice 363 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 1: basically to Bella, my fifteen year old stepdaughter. When she 364 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 1: was thirteen, there was a couple of dudes who were 365 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 1: bullying her in the hallway, same thing. She would kind 366 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 1: of engage them, she would tell him to stop, she 367 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 1: would threaten to go tell on them and stuff. And 368 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: I was like, hey, just the same thing. Just don't 369 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: give them anything. Don't give them what It had been 370 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: going on for like quite a bit. It was these 371 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: two boys, and they were being legitimately mean to her. 372 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 1: They were they were being were mean. And then after 373 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: no reason, Yeah, after a couple of days of her 374 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 1: dis ignoring them, she came home and told you goal, Yeah, 375 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 1: she was like all excited. She's like, guess what they don't. 376 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: They don't bully mean anymore, they don't talk to me anymore. 377 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: Haven't been doing haven't been doing it? Yeah, And because 378 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 1: there's different you know, there's different ways to engage, right, 379 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 1: there are certain ways to engage with a bully that 380 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 1: will shut them down where it's it's active. But I 381 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 1: think for you, since you're strong enough, because you're a strong, 382 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:26,440 Speaker 1: strong willed person, you're strong enough to ignore it. I 383 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: wasn't sometimes in my life because I've also been on 384 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 1: the other end, right when I was talking about the 385 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 1: joking thing, that's when I would respond that way and 386 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 1: take their power away basically and go, all right, you 387 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: want to make fun of me, I'll make fun of 388 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: myself way worse. I also like sometimes like when you 389 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,640 Speaker 1: respond with like the you know but yeah, my old 390 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,439 Speaker 1: pants they had like them. Yeah, we're kids making fun 391 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 1: of that. Yeah, like kind of a day. Yeah. And 392 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 1: so did you say anything back to him? No? I 393 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 1: just left. Okay, you laughed. But in that instance, if 394 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 1: it was a guy making fun of your hair because 395 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: it wasn't done the way normally is or it was 396 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: messy or whatever, you could be like why I didn't 397 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 1: do it? Like I normally do do you think I'm cute? Right, 398 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 1: because they're gonna be like, oh, I guess I am 399 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: paying a lot of attention. I'll be like, I'm not 400 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 1: into you. Sorry about that, you know, like a boyfriend? Yeah, sorry, exactly. 401 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: You just have to sort of do the opposite, right. 402 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:26,199 Speaker 1: That's why I asked about what you do in response. 403 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: And the last thing is is totally understandable. That just 404 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:32,119 Speaker 1: keeps it going. And then if you respond in anger, 405 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 1: all you're doing is egging them on giving them what 406 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 1: they want. But if you do the opposite of what 407 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 1: everybody expects, embrace it with kindness. I'm not saying you 408 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: have to walk up and say hi and be sweet 409 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 1: to them. That also is not a good idea because 410 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: then they're going to think that what they're doing makes 411 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 1: you want them to like you. Um. But if you 412 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: made them like, oh man, you must be checking me 413 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 1: out a lot lately. Sorry, I'll do my hear different tomorrow. 414 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: If you if you want to go out this weekend, 415 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:01,480 Speaker 1: let me know, you know, thank you. It really has 416 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: to do with their own insecurities. Here's the thing that 417 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 1: is really hard to understand. It took me till I 418 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: was like way too old to understand this, But nobody 419 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: can be responsible for your happiness and how you feel. 420 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: And for someone to be as assertive as you are 421 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,680 Speaker 1: without an attitude shows that you have a lot of 422 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:23,320 Speaker 1: inner confidence and that's great, and that also makes people 423 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,240 Speaker 1: very upset. Speaking from someone who has a lot of 424 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 1: inner confidence, who people have been very upset with about 425 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 1: it and jealous of throughout his entire life, being confident 426 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 1: in yourself, uncomfortable in your own skin is weird for people, 427 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 1: right They don't get it and they don't like it 428 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:41,120 Speaker 1: because they wish they could be. Because everybody's uncomfortable. Everybody's 429 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,399 Speaker 1: trying hard to like fit in. They're trying hard to 430 00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: be one way or the other way. And then they 431 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 1: see someone who is actually walking around life comfortable in 432 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 1: who they are, and it it makes them want to 433 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 1: lash out. So you got to remember that it's about 434 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 1: their insecurity and you got to take care of yourself 435 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 1: and remember inside every single time they throw something at 436 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,959 Speaker 1: you right now until it because I guarantee you they 437 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,400 Speaker 1: will stop every time they throw something at you. It's 438 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: basically a compliment. See it the other way. It's all 439 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 1: about seeing things the other way. Right, So they make 440 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 1: fun of whatever it is. It's because you have something 441 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 1: that they are jealous of. You have something inside you 442 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,920 Speaker 1: that makes them upset, and so here it is a compliment. 443 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 1: And tell yourself that you're dope, because everybody is and 444 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: you are too. And your dirty little secret is coming up. 445 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: We actually have a dirty little secret for you that 446 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna like a lot. And I know you gotta 447 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: get to the school because you're gonna be late, and 448 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: as your principal, you should get school. But we'll tell 449 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: you what the awesome dirty little secret is right after this. 450 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 1: It's a Jewel show, The Jewels Show on demand, Jebils 451 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: Dirty Little Secret. Time for your dirty little secret, and 452 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 1: today's a little bit different. It's our dirty little secret. 453 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 1: It's true. We spend this whole hour talking to Liz, 454 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: who is a mom who called up Friday feels and 455 00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 1: should feeling helpless because her daughters being bullied at schools. 456 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,359 Speaker 1: We've been talking to her fifteen year old daughter, Tatiana, 457 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: giving her some advice on how to deal with her situation. 458 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: And I just told her that we have a dirty 459 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: little secret for her. Before we tell you what it is, Tatiana, 460 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: how many people are in your family, my mom, my dad, 461 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 1: and my sister. I don't really talk to anyone else 462 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 1: with that. Then, so three and then your two friends. Yeah, yeah, 463 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: so I'm bad at math. Six I'm six, Tatiana, That's 464 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:28,640 Speaker 1: how bad I am at math. Literally, three plus three, 465 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 1: you got two friends, plus you plus three people in 466 00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 1: your family. That makes eighteen. I should have known that 467 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 1: right away. But since you listen to the jewel show 468 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 1: in Sacramento, I'm gonna give you six tickets to the 469 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 1: big holiday concert coming up. That's six tickets. Oh my god, 470 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 1: you your family and two friends. Yeah for all you guys. 471 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 1: Really yeah, yeah, really, Actually, I'm gonna give you seven tickets. 472 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you seven tickets, so you can also 473 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 1: bring a new friend. Yeah, thank you. Also, we're gonna 474 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 1: send all of you to dinner before in a limo 475 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 1: getting that boy get ready. Thank you. You tell your 476 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 1: two friends today that they're going with you, and then 477 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 1: we'll give you seven tickets. Like I said, so your 478 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 1: whole family and to your friends that you already have 479 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: and the new friend that you make in the next 480 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: four weeks, and then dinner, and just remember what we 481 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 1: were saying every single time anything's thrown at you, it's 482 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 1: it's actually a compliment. And yep, keep your head up. Yeah, 483 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: just don't even just don't give them any sort of 484 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 1: response at all other than I'm just gonna turn around, 485 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,359 Speaker 1: all right, Thank you so much, guys. Yeah, you're welcome 486 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: to have a really good day. You guys do have 487 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: a great day. Bye bye, Okay, and we'll do more too. 488 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 1: We'll figure it out. Also, I didn't ask first. We 489 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: just gave away those tickets, and I think we need 490 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: to call our Boston check on that. You better hope 491 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 1: there's still tickets available. You're gonna be scouting tickets. Why. Yeah, 492 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 1: Alex and I are married. If you didn't know that, 493 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:09,399 Speaker 1: by the way, and this is why she's I was like, 494 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 1: why don't you check first? Free things? All right, We'll 495 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: let me call it and make sure. Yoh Eric, he 496 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: hear me. Yeah, how's it going good? Well? Hey, guys, 497 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: I do want to say this that there's not many 498 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 1: people that would talk to you before my morning coffee, 499 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 1: but the Jewel Show is definitely one of them. Yeah, 500 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:41,400 Speaker 1: what a way to wake up. You want to get 501 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 1: coffee and we'll call back. Um, No, I'm good. Hey, 502 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: So something happened this morning and I got to ask 503 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,479 Speaker 1: you a question, of course, Yeah, what's up? Okay? Um, 504 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 1: so you know the big holiday concert thinking of this 505 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: coming up? Yes, it's right around the corner. Yeah, and 506 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:03,200 Speaker 1: um young like officially said, hey, you guys can give 507 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:07,639 Speaker 1: away tickets yet to me at least, well not yet? No, 508 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 1: why why? Um? Sort of gave away seven of them. 509 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 1: It's a long time to do the math. But gave 510 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 1: away seven of them this morning, And I'll tell you 511 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 1: why because a listener to them, Liz called up her daughter, Tatiana, 512 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 1: goes to Fortune High School. She's being bullied, and we 513 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 1: talked to her, helped her out a bunch, and then 514 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,400 Speaker 1: I gave her tickets to the show, seven of them 515 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,159 Speaker 1: because her family and two friends that she does have, 516 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 1: and then one for like a new friend that she'll 517 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,879 Speaker 1: make that she can take to the show. So, Um, 518 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,159 Speaker 1: did I speak too soon? Or is that? Can we 519 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,400 Speaker 1: make that happen? Well, you guys know this is radio 520 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: and you can't see my Facebook. When you said seven, 521 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 1: my first reaction was like seven? Really why Stevens. But 522 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: definitely we'll talk more about it. But I mean seven 523 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 1: tickets that we can do it. Ye wasn't sold? Yeah? Yeah, 524 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: So while we're at it, um Fordy's gonna be there 525 00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 1: and he's one of my favorite hovers ever And can 526 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 1: I hang out with you forty other show just me 527 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,679 Speaker 1: and him? Uh, Let let's talk about let's take care 528 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 1: of her to the family first. Let's start there. You 529 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: probably not, but evant Alice, you guys want to be 530 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,879 Speaker 1: forty or more than welcome to be forty. But Jubile, 531 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,919 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's the nicest. No, It's like, hey, 532 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 1: we don't need a fan boy backs for you to know. 533 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 1: But for Tatiana and her friends. Yes, The Jubil Show 534 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:23,280 Speaker 1: on demand