1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand, Jewels, Dirty Little Secret, Close 2 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 1: the Jewels Show. Yes, Hi, Hi, Hi. I'm not gonna 3 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: ask what your name is because you have a dirty 4 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: little secret to tell us, right I do. Yes, Okay, Well, 5 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:22,040 Speaker 1: it's nice to meet you, whatever your name is, nice 6 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: to meet you. Negotiated. Yes, I'm ready to say it. Okay, 7 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: whenever you're ready. Okay, so ready, Yes, and a mouth 8 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: into my husband's Facebook account and Messenger account. And he 9 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: has no idea. Oh, he has this thing where he 10 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: doesn't want me to see his phone. He's always been 11 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: away before we got married and even afterwards. That's shady me, 12 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 1: a little bit of suspicious shod you find anything, well 13 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: kind of what kind of have some? I guess dirty 14 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: messages with growth. I have no idea. Oh hell they are? 15 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: Are these just like random girls that he's met like 16 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: on the like online or in person? No, so I've 17 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: actually stocked them right, so actually from the same place 18 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 1: where he's from the same count. Um, I guess they're friends. 19 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 1: He's never talked about them, he's never mentioned them, but um, 20 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: there are messages like around like eleven o'clock maybe midnight. Yeah, 21 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: no matter what though, Yeah, he has this scene where 22 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: he says, you know, something has to be private in 23 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: the marriage. That's actually one that you should be open 24 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: about in your marriage. Yes, I'm sorry. You should be 25 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: cool with it so that you don't feel like you 26 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: have to check it. Yeah, I mean, is this somebody 27 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: that you see yourself most likely that you want to 28 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 1: be with forever? Or because I've been in a situation 29 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: like this and I knew that it was forever. I 30 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: knew that it wouldn't be forever, right, and he was 31 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: shady with his phone, and like, I didn't check because 32 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: I just knew, right, I just didn't care. But if 33 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: you care, if you want to be with him, that's 34 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: a different story. Yeah, I guess that makes sense. Yeah, 35 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: it is a different story. Now. I don't know if 36 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: he's just you know, like, what are his intentions? Yeah, 37 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: it's not really weird. Are we trying something? Or if 38 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: he's just being friendly? Well, if I have any advice 39 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: for you at all, even though you didn't ask, just 40 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: keep checking, keep checking, keep I'm hoping for the best, 41 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: but I'm going to be prepared for the words. Can 42 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: I ask you a question? We should do the roses? 43 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: We should who we could here's my question to you. Okay, 44 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: because ultimately I believe everybody knows everything that's going on 45 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,359 Speaker 1: in their life if they truly pay attention. Okay, are 46 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: you looking for proof or are you keeping tabs? Just 47 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: be honest? Both both? Okay, So you're looking for proof okay, 48 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: because I don't want to, you know, accuse him of 49 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 1: anything like that. Yeah. At the same time, I want 50 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: to be one step ahead of them, right. Yeah, he 51 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 1: might not be cheating, but might not be. He still 52 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: should not be messaging those girls. He's walking the line. 53 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: That's my other question. Is it cool with you that 54 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 1: he messages girls at eleven o'clock at night? None? Yeah? Yeah, 55 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: I mean most people probably would not be cool with it, right. Yes, 56 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: I just don't want to be that crazy one. But 57 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: I kind of feel crazy. That is so stressful. Yeah, 58 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: that is super stressful, and that will make you go crazy. 59 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: Here's what I would if you want some other advice 60 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,679 Speaker 1: they didn't ask for. Log out of it. Okay, log 61 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: out of it. Don't forget about it. Log out so 62 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: you don't have to keep feeling like a crazy person, 63 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: checking and checking and checking and checking and checking, waiting 64 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: until you find the proof. Just log out except the 65 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: fact that you saw something you're not cool with, and 66 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: then figure out how you're going to bring it up, 67 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: because you should, You absolutely should. Whether you need to 68 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: find proof, but yes, is not cool with you, right, 69 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: it's not. Your needs are important, just like his needs 70 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: are important. But your needs are important. And if you're 71 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: his wife and you're not cool with that, which I 72 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: don't think a lot of wives would be cool, right, 73 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: Alex with that? That's correct? Yea, then you should definitely 74 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: log out of it. You got the proof you need 75 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: and and do something about it, you know, I think, yeah, 76 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: I have to just get it together and confine them 77 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: about this. Ye yeah, you'd feel better, yep. But if 78 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: you want to do it in a word of the 79 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: roses to catch a cheater, we can let us know. Hey, 80 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: well yeah, I'll definitely think about it. Okay, Okay, Well, 81 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 1: good luck with everything. Well, thank you for telling us 82 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,799 Speaker 1: your dirty little secret, and good luck, thank you for listening. 83 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 1: Thank you. You're welcome to Guys Did You Bil Show 84 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: on demand