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Speaker 1: What's up? It's way up for Angela yee. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking fast because Sam Jay is here and she

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Speaker 2: has a flight to catch and New York is crazy

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Speaker 2: right now. O.

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Speaker 1: Nica McLean is guest hosting. Hey what up y'all?

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Speaker 3: Hey Sam? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: I listen.

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Speaker 2: She came in when she was guest hosting, and she

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, I was with She was telling me

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Speaker 2: everybody that went to go see Beyonce? Yeah, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, Sam Jay's coming later today, so you

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Speaker 2: should stay for that.

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Speaker 3: Coincidentally, look at that.

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Speaker 1: Did you see Beyonce at the concert or just the movie?

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Speaker 3: No, I went in Atlanta? Okay, yeah, it was amazing.

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Speaker 1: Wow you went in Atlanta?

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Speaker 3: That said I would the Mute Challenge one the mute

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Speaker 3: I was there the Mute Challenge there.

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Speaker 1: How'd you do?

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Speaker 3: We did good? That was like the best one one. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It was so mad about that.

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Speaker 3: People would lose their minds. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So first of all, we watched your whole special.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I know there has to be some little

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Speaker 2: people backlash.

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Speaker 3: You know what you want. It's so crazy. I thought

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Speaker 3: it would be like crazy. I was like, oh, this

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Speaker 3: is gonna be one of those things where I'm not

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Speaker 3: going to be able to be on like Twitter for

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Speaker 3: a few days. But it hasn't really happened. Yeah, it

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Speaker 3: hasn't really happened. So I thought it was gonna be

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Speaker 3: a lot more back last than actually came.

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Speaker 2: I think it's always great when you can make I

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Speaker 2: always feel like this jokes can be controversial, but as

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Speaker 2: long as they're clever, right, then you can get away

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Speaker 2: with it.

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Speaker 1: Make you think that made you think?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I feel like I did a better time

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Speaker 3: this special of kind of tying the knots, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean. I'm just better at comedy. So I

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Speaker 3: feel like last special it was like I was saying

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Speaker 3: some things and some of it it was too open ended,

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Speaker 3: and I feel like this time I kind of like

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Speaker 3: down some of that noise.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I listen.

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Speaker 2: I like when I am not sure if I'm supposed

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Speaker 2: to laugh or not, Like when something's funny and you're like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but it's funny, so I guess I

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Speaker 2: just laugh. I hope nobody videos me laughing at something.

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Speaker 2: And we want to get in trouble you saw, like

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Speaker 2: even certain things you said.

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Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle took a picture with what's that.

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Speaker 2: Woman Lauren Bobert Congress and then she used it as

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Speaker 2: like an anti trans.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, and he was like, well, damn.

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Speaker 3: I was just I was just yeah, Like that's the thing.

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Speaker 3: You never know if you're gonna flip stuff to make

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Speaker 3: it be or whatever. So to some degree, you really

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Speaker 3: can't care. You just gotta do what you know, you know,

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Speaker 3: you believe in or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Well, you've been having a phenomenal past few years too,

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Speaker 2: by the way, you know Pause with Sam Jay I.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy watching that show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and the conversations that would take place on there

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Speaker 2: is there a chance that that's gonna be.

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Speaker 3: Like nah, man, we're not doing any more pause, It's done,

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Speaker 3: which is okay. You know, like a lot of people

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Speaker 3: I'm actually cool with it. I was a very draining

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Speaker 3: show for me because it was all just personal, you know,

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Speaker 3: like every topic was something that was real personal to me.

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Speaker 3: And I was kind of like exhausted, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean, Like I was like emotionally tapped like that

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Speaker 3: last season was really heavy, the stuff with my mom

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Speaker 3: I don't even really know where girls to go, you

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Speaker 2: Do you still have like kickbacks and stuff like that? Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely,

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Speaker 2: that's a real thing that. Yeah, that's just a part

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. I like throwing parties.

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Speaker 2: I was asking on Nikka before you got here. We

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Speaker 2: the state planning and I just did something on that

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Speaker 2: up here too, because I you know, the budget. Nista

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Speaker 2: to put like my properties into a trust.

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Speaker 3: And you haven't done any of that stuff yet.

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Speaker 1: I have, no I haven't.

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Speaker 2: You just all here walling, I know, because yeah, you

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Speaker 2: just never know, you're right?

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, you know.

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Speaker 1: I gotta get it together, y'all. Oh, bro, I gotta

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Speaker 1: get together for real.

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Speaker 3: You start like I'm forty one. Bro, It's like anything

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Speaker 3: can happen. You can fall, bro, it's a rap. You

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Speaker 4: Y'all.

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Speaker 3: It's like I'm a fall the same, bro.

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Speaker 1: Now, I'm not gonna lie. One of my friends in

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Speaker 1: high school actually just passed today from an aneurysm.

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Speaker 3: See it, you gotta play your stuff way to bring

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Speaker 3: down the mood Angela.

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Speaker 2: But I'm sorry having a conversation because I feel bad

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Speaker 2: that I'm not an organ donor and onka is, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel really bad.

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Speaker 1: To do that.

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Speaker 3: My mom passed away from loopis, but before that, she

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Speaker 3: got a loan transplant, so it just felt like, you know,

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Speaker 3: someone can help my mom have a longer life and

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Speaker 3: more time with me.

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Speaker 2: So I just felt, right, Okay, I'm gonna be an

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Speaker 2: organ donor about it.

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Speaker 3: I don't want.

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Speaker 2: To go on the back. You're coming back, come back,

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Speaker 2: think about that. I don't know what happens afterwards.

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Speaker 1: What if I need?

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Speaker 3: You're not going wherever we're going after this? They not

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Speaker 3: You're not gonna need your heart that's dead.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well anyway, so you didn't get married yet, right,

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Speaker 2: you're still you have a day?

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Speaker 1: No, every time I ask you this.

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Speaker 3: Is come on, bro, I don't come on, man, come on.

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Speaker 3: We're having fun, hanging out like she's happy.

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Speaker 1: I know she's mad happy.

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Speaker 2: When I sometimes but it do sometimes look like y'all

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Speaker 1: Sometimes always that's.

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Speaker 3: Probably most likely.

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Speaker 5: But know what I was saying is we were watching

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Speaker 5: it specially, and you were talking about how you have

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Speaker 5: last night she sam was.

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Speaker 1: Like, it's cold, you stay here. She's like, I can

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Speaker 2: No, that's perfect. That's what the relationship should be. Like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: That's not what it should be, but that's what it like.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend loves it. I realized this the other day.

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Speaker 2: I handed him like six bags and I wasn't holding

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Speaker 3: Y'all does my She was like like, there'll be a

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Speaker 3: why there is a table, why don't you put it

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Speaker 3: on the table. It's like she just always wants me

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Speaker 1: But you kind of like it a little bit, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I like her crazy. She's like, you know, we know

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Speaker 3: each other a long time. She's my kind of crazy.

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Speaker 1: And she's an interior designer. Okay, so what's the house.

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Speaker 3: Like like however she wants it changing things? Yes, always

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Speaker 3: changing things. It's yeah, y'all's playhouse it there's a lot

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Speaker 3: It's her? And then I have my corner. I got

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Speaker 3: And that's it. That's where I got my corner.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well the special is salute me or shoot me?

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Speaker 2: And are you already working on the next month? Because

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Speaker 2: this one I feel like did really well. I saw

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, not necessarily. I mean I'm always doing stand up,

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Speaker 2: I said, you said you did like three hundred stand

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Speaker 5: know what you did on your special that was so dope.

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Speaker 5: You tapped into the masculine energy like it was like church,

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Speaker 3: It was so dope to watch.

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Speaker 2: Oh thank you, I'm glad to be a woman. I

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Speaker 1: At least expectation of help.

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Speaker 2: Right, But I do work hard, like I do, I

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Speaker 2: work a lot. I would say that, like I'm always working,

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Speaker 2: I'm always doing this. But I think there is something

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Speaker 1: Sometimes that's a hard thing to do.

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Speaker 3: And like my filt doesn't take care of me joke.

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Speaker 1: But you also made it sound very unappealing, like to.

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Speaker 2: Be a man because of all the responsibilities that men have, right,

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Speaker 2: because you know, we could just take a dick, like

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Speaker 2: you said, and get everything, you know, if.

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Speaker 4: You're smart, smart, if you're smart, that's true, if you're smart.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it did sound like I think I like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean it is just like the

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Speaker 3: stuff that I just didn't think about it. Of course,

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Speaker 3: And then I was like, oh, man, like should definitely

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I said a lot of things, and I don't

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Speaker 2: think it was on this one. But previously you talked

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Speaker 2: about period sinking up. All that is a very real thing.

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Speaker 3: It is. It's messed up.

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Speaker 2: It's messed up because in my jasmine, it's bad.

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Speaker 1: You said it's bad because because.

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Speaker 3: Both both have an attitude and like it's and it's

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Speaker 3: Like my my fiance starts to like like four days

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, we know each other and I could tell

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Speaker 3: Keep your income. You could ban me from a Walmart.

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Speaker 3: Like I make a like a decent income for New York.

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Speaker 2: Yes, because other places people have like designated parking spot.

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Speaker 2: I still don't even take that chance. Do you get

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Speaker 2: And like even trying to get out of there is

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Speaker 3: Yes, I don't know, kind of sort of give us.

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Speaker 3: I just got some stuff in development, you know, with

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Speaker 2: Is it like okay something you ask is it scripted

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Speaker 3: I'm working on two scripted things. One that's like like

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, I like that. What was it? I felt

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Speaker 3: I don't know that. I never like sat my family down.

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Speaker 2: And then that's when people are like I always knew. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: So if everybody else was seeing this, you could have

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Speaker 1: I can tell you we'reing good at it.

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Speaker 3: Too. I was actually kind of good at it, cause

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Speaker 1: You have to be the dick, become one, Anika said.

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Speaker 1: I am the dick.

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Speaker 5: I am, but I am still single, so maybe I

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Speaker 2: But listen, Samia does have to catch a flight. We

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Speaker 4: I do.

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Speaker 3: I do. I'm so sorry for being late. I'm not late.

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Speaker 3: Am I usually late? I'm not late.

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Speaker 3: I'm not. No.

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Speaker 1: I believe you, and Anika was.

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Speaker 3: What is happening to me?

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Speaker 2: But I need to go catch a flight and come back.

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Speaker 2: We love you and I cannot wait to see you

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Speaker 2: and we do this again.

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Speaker 3: I would love to come back. Okay, thank you, thank you?

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Speaker 2: Good enough, because it's very exciting to me. I always

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Speaker 2: When are you coming on the show. So I'm glad

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Speaker 2: we finally made it happen. I know we did the

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Speaker 2: Breakfast Club, but here is different ding all right. Way up,

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Speaker 2: bye Sanjay, Bye bye.

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Speaker 4: Way up.