WEBVTT - The Royal Baby Shower 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:07.840 Welcome, welcome to my show. I am the girl, a 0:00:07.920 --> 0:00:11.360 model and nick and as usual, you're listening to Exactly 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:14.880 a Mada. Thank you so much for downloading and subscribing. 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:18.680 Thank you for the love and support. Thank you for 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:21.280 writing all your comments and messages. I'm always grateful for it. 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:25.360 And if you haven't yet, do it now rate us 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:30.920 five stars. So, in the beginning of my season of 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:34.279 Exactly a Madam here with you guys, I started with 0:00:34.320 --> 0:00:38.120 my co host Stevie Nonez. Eventually, you know, he got 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:40.680 real busy. He started doing his own thing, and I've 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:43.800 been doing my own thing better. I won't lie. I 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.720 do miss him, I miss his company, I miss having him, 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:49.760 and that's why today I wanted him to join me. 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:53.440 Stevie noonez, Stevie noun yez to join me so that 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:56.720 we can go over a little bit of the Royal 0:00:57.040 --> 0:01:00.520 baby Shower Mina. I must admit, i'm us admit that 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.200 I've missed you a whole bunch. I missed your energy. 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:05.600 I think that you are such an amazing person and 0:01:05.640 --> 0:01:08.200 I'm so grateful to have you in my life. I 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:11.160 am grateful that you're my friend, and I am grateful 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:14.160 that you were one of the people that actually came 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:16.400 to show me love and support me in my baby shower. 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:23.760 But I'm let me tell you something, Jono savvy kid, 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:26.360 and baby shower was so much work. I did a 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:31.399 beautiful um baby shower. Shout outs to Onyx, the banquet hall. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:37.440 It was amazing. It was beautiful. Shoutouts Mia, Epic Events. 0:01:37.720 --> 0:01:40.960 Epic Events in Miami made sure that my gender review 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:44.080 was amazing, make sure that my baby shower was amazing. 0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:47.480 I am just so grateful for them. Um, I will 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:51.200 check the coach, I mean, everybody that came together to 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:55.240 make it happen. But it was so much work. God, 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:59.160 can we talk about that cake? Ow good? I At 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:02.640 first of all, they sat me down with her, the 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:05.800 one that did your kids. She is incredible. And on 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:10.000 top of that, it was a Dominican cake. You can't 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:17.000 have a party without Dominican cake. It's moist, is like, 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:22.720 I'm sorry, Dominican is fired it and the cake tastes 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:25.640 a basic and listen, I'm not a cake fan, but 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:32.720 her cake was good. I mean everything cake. The food 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:37.480 was good. The setup was very royal, very goddess, very queen, 0:02:37.639 --> 0:02:43.880 very sea him first, very being was like over the 0:02:44.000 --> 0:02:45.799 top because people are like, oh my god, this is 0:02:45.840 --> 0:02:47.919 the first baby shower that I go to. That it's like, 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.840 you know, so extra. Usually people don't do it like that, 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:55.919 they do something more simple. Let's talk about I had Loca, 0:02:55.960 --> 0:03:00.840 I had dancers, I had a robot, I had machines. 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:03.200 We were dancing boom that. I mean, it was just 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:06.040 really really dope. The DJ was cool. I mean it 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:08.079 was just such a vibe. Like if you haven't seen it, 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:13.600 go check it out on my Instagram at Allen on 0:03:13.639 --> 0:03:16.400 the highlights it says baby shower and there you can 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:20.519 see my dress. Valentino mar did a beautiful, a beautiful gold, 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:25.079 very royal regal uh dress for me that I really 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:31.040 loved my hairstyle. It was like a whole concept. Yeah, no, no, no, 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:34.880 I love the aura. Now that I've already expressed all 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.480 the great things and how wonderful and everything it was, 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:42.960 I thought it was great, But there was you have 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:44.920 some guests there. Can we talk about some guests you 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:48.560 have there? So if you didn't know already, she had 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:55.320 um Jackie, which is yes, she's amazing. I had Bratt Branner, 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:58.080 to which I love very much. He came to show 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:01.360 me some love and support. That's my friend boring. And 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:06.160 then you have I had Bobby Lights, I had Prince's love. Okay, 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:09.600 later on you guys will we'll see because she also 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:12.360 is going through some situations that you guys will have 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:15.040 an opportunity to find out on Loving Hip Hop this season. 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:17.440 But I think she kind of somewhat made it public 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:20.160 the fact that she is no longer with the father 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:23.800 of her children, her husband. To my understanding, ray J 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.240 and Um, the baby shower was something that really touched her. 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:31.040 Who memento like heart to heart moment. But we'll all 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:33.400 talk about it in a little bit. Neary was there 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:44.240 as well. There are a lot of people. That's why 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:48.320 you got it from because and the dance floor Richard 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:52.960 Photography and gifted me an amazing picture of maternity picture 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:55.320 that I did all those things. Bet that the truth 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:58.240 of the matter is I had a beautiful baby shower. 0:04:58.360 --> 0:05:02.160 It was really, really nice. I truly appreciated being able 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:04.200 to have done this for my girls, being able to 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:07.000 have this memory because to be honest, it was more 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:11.039 about the memory and about the celebration than anything else. 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.240 And I'll tell you this, Um something I want to 0:05:13.279 --> 0:05:16.640 clear up to some of the clips that I posted 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:19.200 on Instagram about the behind the scenes, and I'm going 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:21.360 to get into the juicy part now. A lot of 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:24.080 them were talking ship like, oh, I might as so 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:28.120 rude and she's so disrespectful. Look how she was talking 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:31.080 and a lot and I'm like, first of all, only 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.880 if people knew, because people love to talk without really 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:38.279 knowing what was going on. One I had like eight 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:41.360 cameras in my face. There's a whole bunch of production there. 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:44.760 You know, we're already late. My guests has been sitting 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.320 there for a long time. I won't get into details, 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:50.120 but they wouldn't let my guests come in because everybody 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:52.960 that came into the event had to have prove of 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:56.520 COVID COVID tests and they didn't have a prop of 0:05:56.600 --> 0:05:58.800 COVID test. They literally had to leave. So there were 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:02.400 a lot of people that when home, shower change after 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:05.560 after work, or or got a babysit or whatever, got 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:08.760 their white outfit. All this stuff got there and then 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:10.560 they were like, oh, you can't get inside because of 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:13.679 the COVID test. So it was just so much happening, 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:17.200 And then I felt like when them let's figure out 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:19.719 a way where the people that have been COVID tested 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:23.200 sit in the front. I understand safety. We're in a 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:25.800 new world right now where we have to protect ourselves, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.000 where COVID is serious. And on top of that, you 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:29.839 know you're going to a baby shower with a woman 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:31.919 that's pregnant with twins. You don't want to feel responsible 0:06:31.960 --> 0:06:34.559 if you pass on COVID to her or to her guests. 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:37.400 I totally get that part, but I was already piste off. 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:40.960 And then when you're doing these type of events, all 0:06:41.040 --> 0:06:44.200 the pressure is on you. Everybody wants to Everybody wants 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:47.360 to talk to you, everybody wants to hug you, everybody 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:50.400 wants to rub your stomach. Time out. Now that I 0:06:50.520 --> 0:06:55.520 say that etiquette, stop rubbing pregnant women's stomach, What is 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:58.960 wrong with you? Like they're not Buddhist. I get that you. 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:01.160 I get that you're like, oh my god, the baby's cute. 0:07:01.200 --> 0:07:03.839 I get that part. I don't know about other cultures. 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.240 We're like we we we have these thoughts of like 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:13.440 you know, Lambidia sale lie in it. He are the 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:17.880 energies or whatever salac you come with all your bad 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:20.120 jujor your bad energy, and you're stress in your life, 0:07:20.360 --> 0:07:21.920 and then you come and rub it all a bit 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:24.040 my stomach. And then I don't want to be rude 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:26.600 and be like, yo, can you back off? I don't 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:28.600 mind standing next to you. I don't mind taking a picture. 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:31.880 I don't mind you seeing something nice, but you know, 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:35.960 can you please stop? They get offended. They get offended, 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:38.760 You're supposed to just sit there and let them rub 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.480 all upon you, Like, dude, I don't want to be 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:44.000 rubbed on. First of all, I'm already hormonal, already have 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:47.720 an attitude. I'm piste off. My uterus hurts, I gotta 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.560 pee every three minutes. I'm hungry, and I want to 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.280 go to sleep and then I and then I gotta 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:57.520 let everybody come and get me. Anyways, So there were 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:00.240 just so much going on that day. I get there 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:03.000 to the event, Like I said, I was already late. 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:05.880 They wouldn't let my guests come inside. That's why I 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:08.720 was already screaming, because I had people that literally took 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:11.600 a whole light to make it to my baby shower 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:14.040 because it was like a really important moment for me. 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:16.640 And then they're calling me, I'm out of we can't 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:20.080 get inside. You know, bla Blas production won't let us 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:22.920 get in it all. And I understood, because you know, 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:25.560 they have a certain protocol that they have to follow. 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:31.040 I was already so piste off. I didn't even care. 0:08:31.120 --> 0:08:33.840 I was just like, I invested so much money into 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:37.280 making this event. For those that saw some of the clips, 0:08:37.720 --> 0:08:40.760 and we're, you know, judging me without really knowing the story, 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:50.079 there goes some of it. It was true though, because 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:54.640 I was there, they were they were so like, we 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.760 were so hungry, and they were like, we had to 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:58.520 wait for you, And I understood, we did have to 0:08:58.600 --> 0:09:01.199 wait for you, but we were just so hungry. We 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:03.480 were starving. And you came out and you said fix that. 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:05.439 So what I loved about you do that, even though 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:09.199 you were filming, you were very attentive to us. You 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:13.079 were like that that they're eating, make sure that they're entertaining. 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:15.199 And that's what That's what happens when you're the one 0:09:15.360 --> 0:09:17.880 when you're the one hosting events. It's like when you 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:19.679 have a wedding, when you have any of those things. 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.000 When you're the one hosting the events, you have to 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:24.319 be the one giving all the attention to everything. And 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:26.600 in away or another. It's a beautiful thing, but then 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:28.680 you don't get to enjoy your own event as much 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:30.960 because you're making sure that all your guests are comfortable 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:35.080 to get their drinks or this or that. And by 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:37.319 the end of the night they're like, did you enjoy it? 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:39.920 I did, But I would have enjoyed it more if 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:42.360 I hadn't had to be in like the one on 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:44.360 top of everything, because even if you don't have to, 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:48.400 people still want your attention. If they're going to your event, 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:51.440 they want to know that you're catering to them somehow, 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:54.120 that you're paying attention to them, that you acknowledge the 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:55.880 fact that they're there, which is cool. I get that 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:59.000 part better. Some people can be very annoying. Some people 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:00.800 don't know how to be like, well, I'm not at 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:03.120 because he was okay, cool, boom, I'm gonna go about 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:06.240 my way etiquette. Guys, let's let's work on that. And 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:09.120 I'm not saying it because of me. Like me, there's 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:11.599 a thousand people that if you have the opportunity of 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:16.000 meeting you know, your biggest celebrity crushed or whatever. Just 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:19.520 be mindful, be respectful, be you know, be cool about it. 0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:23.240 Don't like super old. You know, it was just a 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.800 lot going on, but I just wanted to give you, 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:28.880 you know, both sides of the story, like both aspects. 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.400 So that's the kind of like the bad that happened. 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:36.160 My father didn't come. I was hoping that he would 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:38.320 be there because it was one of the most important 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:41.760 days obviously of my life, right but he left to 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:44.040 d R because he has a little skank over there, 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:46.960 so he was busy. But um, but with that being said, 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:50.400 it's okay though. It's okay though, because you know, that's 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:54.760 part of life. Um, My baby's father didn't show up. 0:10:54.880 --> 0:10:57.920 Either I was hoping that he would be there or 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:00.280 just you know, I was hoping he would just show 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:03.520 up to surprise me, like surprise. You know. I came 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:08.080 here to celebrate, at least for the girls, and there 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:09.959 was a part of me that kept hoping that he 0:11:10.000 --> 0:11:13.679 would show up. But he didn't show up either. You know, 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:18.240 that really hurt my feelings and one of one of 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:21.640 the most special moments for me in this baby shower. 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:25.000 You know, when I came out, they opened the curtains 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.079 and I went down the stairs and I was on 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:29.840 stage and everybody saw me and everybody was clapping because 0:11:29.960 --> 0:11:32.920 you know, oh, the excitement looked pretty whatever. When I 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:34.199 went down and they gave me the mic and I 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:38.840 had the opportunity of talking, I gave a little speech 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:42.040 about how grateful I was that all my friends and 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:44.440 family came to support me, or at least the ones 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:46.679 that were there, because I was like, you guys didn't 0:11:46.679 --> 0:11:48.120 have to be there. You guys didn't have to take 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:49.880 a flight. You guys didn't have to drive there. You 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:52.800 guys didn't have to come after work, you know, after 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:56.160 a long day of work to you know, come celebrate 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:59.240 with me. Um my girls, like, you guys didn't have 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:03.400 to do that. And and it was a very vulnerable 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:06.120 moment for me that I was open to my friends 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:09.520 and family and co workers because a lot of like, 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:11.280 I'm very private, and a lot of people don't know 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:14.040 about my personal life besides, but I obviously allowed them 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:18.640 to know. And I cried because I was like, I 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:20.760 never thought that I would be standing on the stage 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:24.280 by myself, you know, in my mind I had dreams 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:27.559 of how this moment was going to be. But I 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:29.559 was just so grateful to look to my right and 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:32.160 my left and see so many people that were there, like, 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:34.920 because sometimes we focus so much on the negative, and 0:12:35.000 --> 0:12:37.320 it's like, but if you just stop and really taking 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:40.640 what's currently happening, Look how many people came in to 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.240 show you love. Look how many people did come here 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.400 to appreciate the fact that you know that you're here, 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:49.559 and you're girls, and just everything overall. So I was 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:52.559 grateful for that. Later on, you know, I tried to 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:55.360 disconnect my mind from the negativity of the stress of 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:59.360 you know, filming and production and and just all the 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:02.920 cups that had happened in the event and just enjoy 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:05.360 that night, you know, by lad and you and I. 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:08.439 We danced, My mom and I we danced. You know, 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:11.520 I danced with as many people as possible. I tried 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:14.880 to laugh as much as possible. I I just tried 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:18.719 to take in the positive, because normal, you know, the 0:13:18.840 --> 0:13:21.520 negative will always be there. It's a moment that was 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:23.960 just so mad because there was just so many things happening. 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:28.200 I was emotionally not there because I felt like, oh, 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:31.240 my baby Daddy didn't come, my dad's not here. This 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:35.920 is pissing me off. I'm already hormonal. I k everything 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:39.080 my time, like everything is just bad. But then It's 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:42.559 like there was a switch in my mind where I 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:45.040 was like, you know what, it's really not as bad 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:46.959 as it seems. You know, things could have been so 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:49.440 much worse. And I was just happy and I really 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:53.439 enjoyed my baby shower. And you can see that you 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:56.640 enjoyed it. What I love the most was that, man, 0:13:56.960 --> 0:13:59.640 when you got on that mic, you hosted it, and 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:02.520 you're such a great host. We had such a great 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:09.080 oh full control of the baby shower, Like I had 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:12.520 so much fun. But like, man, if you were there 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:14.920 to see it, like she grabbed the mike, let me 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:19.080 give you guys a little vision. He said, where the 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:22.160 party at. It's time to party, And it was like 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:25.280 that moment, Oh my god. From then on it was 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:28.680 the greatest baby shower I've ever been to. It was 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:33.520 so beautiful. I mean, and then use the purity of whites? Now, 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:37.600 why did you choose white? Is my question? I wanted 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.480 to do it like that. I felt the same way 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:42.240 like you just said. It was just the purity of 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.240 of having, you know, everybody come in and white and 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:48.880 it was clean and it was very angelic, almost angelic. 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:53.120 Is that the word? Yeah? Um, that's the energy that 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:56.400 I wanted. I just wanted to be a pure, clean space. 0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:58.920 And then obviously you don't have to stand down, so 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:02.840 I came out in a go dress battle. It was 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:05.080 just very nice and I wanted to have a concept. 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:08.200 I also went, you know, o D for the Gender 0:15:08.280 --> 0:15:11.400 Review party because then I had helicopters and I have fireworks, 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:16.040 and you know, I did the most. I brought the 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:19.280 whole zoo, like I did a whole production. Um. And 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:22.040 then now the other The other thing I'm thinking about 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:25.720 is that I told my mom meet him Gender Review 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:31.920 baby shower the first year and after that semim on. 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:35.360 After that, we're gonna get a from the supermarket, a 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:38.720 little candle and cut of the day until you're fifteen. No, no, no, no, 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:39.920 I can't be doing this all the time. What do 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.880 you think this is? No, you're right. It is a 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:45.640 huge production. And I feel about that because Stevie Jr. 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:50.080 I'm his second birthday is coming up March eleven, and 0:15:50.200 --> 0:15:52.160 I'm like, oh my goodness, we're gonna do the second 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:53.800 and the third, and it's like you have to keep 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:57.080 doing better and better and better, and there's too much stress. 0:15:57.120 --> 0:15:58.720 So I think I'm just gonna take them to Disney 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:01.600 World kind of a ache and call it a day. 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:04.840 That's the good thing about living in Florida. But I mean, 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:06.680 you can at least go to Disney World. But that's 0:16:06.680 --> 0:16:09.960 another question. At two years old, do they still remember? No, 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:13.280 but at least they look at the pictures. Yeah, okay, 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:16.120 that's true. But I mean the old school way. I 0:16:16.200 --> 0:16:18.960 don't know about y'all and which which state you may be, 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:22.000 but down here Miami, we used to have the Chucky Cheese. 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.720 Oh my god, remember Chucky Cheese? Yo me? And that 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:27.920 you go to the chuck E Cheese, you get a 0:16:27.960 --> 0:16:30.200 little bit coach though. You get a little you know, 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:33.880 a pizza with all a little kindergarten friends and everybody's 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:35.360 having fun and they don't even know what's happening. You 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:38.680 are people a little ball that and it's perfect betto 0:16:38.800 --> 0:16:41.960 these productions every year. I know, maybe it's the excitement 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.920 of the first time, you know, mom or whatever, because 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:47.880 usually I've seen this happen on social media, and I've 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:50.480 seen this happening real like when it's your first kid. 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:54.920 What you go over the top after you have your second, third, fourth, Yeah, 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:58.160 it's like look, and I definitely missed those days I 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:01.560 feel like things have gone is also because of social media. 0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:05.320 Social media and the standards of how you know, you're 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:08.280 supposed to be extras hell and showcase everything, you know, 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:11.240 showcase everyone we were capable of doing, and you know, 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:14.080 all this other stuff. But to be honest, if I 0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:18.520 would have had the opportunity of doing it again, if 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:21.160 there were anything I could have done differently, I think 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:23.760 that one. I think it would have been really cool. 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:26.560 I think it would have been really really cool, really 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:29.359 awesome if I would have been able to done like 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:33.680 a zoom invitation or zoom thing and then have all 0:17:34.040 --> 0:17:36.680 my family and d R or friends that weren't able 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:39.600 to actually make it to watch it at least through 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:41.480 zoom and we could have all been come and get 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:43.720 connected on like a big jumble toron a big screen 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:46.240 or something. I think that would have been super would 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:48.160 have it would have been like the Wendy Williams show 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:50.320 when she has the audience there, they would all have 0:17:50.359 --> 0:17:52.040 been there. That would have been my God about it. 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:54.760 That's great. Maybe someone's listening and they might you just 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:57.560 gave them a great idea. Yeah, I think that that 0:17:57.600 --> 0:18:00.520 would have been a really cool moment um if anything, 0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:03.040 I think I would have probably had more food because 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:05.520 I was definitely more you know, hungry for other things. 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:09.440 But maybe that was just me craving things. Um. I 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:14.400 think that I would had probably Um, I really wanted 0:18:14.440 --> 0:18:19.200 to dance more and and but in my gender reveal, 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:20.880 I dropped it like it was hot and I went 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:23.440 down and though I couldn't do it like my like 0:18:24.240 --> 0:18:27.440 it was just too much. I couldn't dance and enjoy 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:29.160 it as much as I wanted to, but I enjoyed 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:32.920 watching other people have fun. I think that I also would, 0:18:33.640 --> 0:18:35.680 like I said, I don't really care too much of 0:18:35.720 --> 0:18:37.080 my dad would have been there. Now, I wouldn't have 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:39.160 made a difference to me, but it would have made 0:18:39.160 --> 0:18:41.600 a difference to me if the father and my girls 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:43.520 would have actually showed up. I think that that would 0:18:43.520 --> 0:18:46.000 have been, you know, even even a more special moment, 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:48.639 so that later on when they look back into it, 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:50.639 they could be like, oh, you know, my dad was 0:18:50.720 --> 0:18:55.000 there too, but hey, that's part of life. And uh, 0:18:55.640 --> 0:18:58.000 I don't know. I think that everything came out pretty perfect. 0:18:58.080 --> 0:19:00.119 Oh well, one last thing, I think what I then, 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:06.200 COVID test outside, Yeah, COVID tests outside, you know, make 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:09.480 sure that everybody before they came in has some way 0:19:09.560 --> 0:19:12.800 of showing their COVID tests were not showing, but just 0:19:12.920 --> 0:19:15.080 getting it done right there. I think it would have 0:19:15.119 --> 0:19:17.359 been for the protection of all of us. Thank god 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:21.840 that nobody came out. No, I didn't get any news 0:19:22.000 --> 0:19:24.960 of anybody that got sake or anything. But I do 0:19:25.119 --> 0:19:29.840 understand that for health purposes, we have to adapt and understand, 0:19:29.880 --> 0:19:33.240 whether we like it or not, that you know, we 0:19:33.359 --> 0:19:36.240 have to protect ourselves for our health, so, you know. 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:39.439 But other than that, I really enjoyed just how everything 0:19:39.520 --> 0:19:50.480 came along. Listen. I felt that you wanted to dance 0:19:50.600 --> 0:19:52.600 and have fun, and I felt that under energy, just 0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:55.920 because I know how you are. So I made sure 0:19:55.960 --> 0:19:57.639 I went up to her. I told the t J 0:19:58.320 --> 0:20:01.440 and get classic or I and me and I'm out 0:20:01.560 --> 0:20:04.160 at our moment and we danced and I made sure 0:20:04.240 --> 0:20:06.879 she had her moment. You know. It's so yeah, I'm 0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:14.440 waving a swing thing. We were dancing. We had a 0:20:14.520 --> 0:20:18.520 grand old time. I think I think it was perfect. Actually, 0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:21.000 I'm out. I thought your your baby shower for you? 0:20:21.720 --> 0:20:23.920 You know, it was for you, It wasn't you know? 0:20:24.080 --> 0:20:28.000 It was your day and your twins days. It doesn't 0:20:28.040 --> 0:20:31.760 matter whoever was there was meant to be there. It 0:20:31.920 --> 0:20:35.359 was just that, you know, and I wanted. I wanted 0:20:35.400 --> 0:20:39.480 to be I wanted you know, yeah, I wanted to 0:20:39.560 --> 0:20:42.359 be able to share this, um, this experience with my 0:20:42.480 --> 0:20:44.600 fans and followers. I just wanted to be able to 0:20:45.200 --> 0:20:46.760 share with you guys, because I know that you saw 0:20:46.880 --> 0:20:49.040 some videos, some clips on my social media and a 0:20:49.160 --> 0:20:51.119 lot of you you know, question asked, hey, what was 0:20:51.160 --> 0:20:54.040 going on, and basically that's what it was. But um, 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:56.920 but you know, I enjoyed it. I had so much fun, 0:20:57.200 --> 0:20:59.720 and I can't wait for my girls to finally be here. 0:21:00.240 --> 0:21:02.440 I can't wait, steed for you to meet them as well. 0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:05.440 And then later on, I guess their first year will 0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:10.760 be uh the next big production horses or ponies, and 0:21:10.920 --> 0:21:13.800 you already know I gotta be extras hell. But after that, 0:21:14.080 --> 0:21:17.640 I went, oh yeah, after that, yeah, we're gonna wait 0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:19.959 till your fifteen. You know, it's awesome because I am 0:21:20.040 --> 0:21:22.600 waiting for like play dates. I know that you know, 0:21:22.760 --> 0:21:27.040 my see and that would be so fun. I can't 0:21:27.080 --> 0:21:29.280 wait for play days. I'm out of you know, this 0:21:29.480 --> 0:21:32.600 is like an amazing time for you. You know, you're 0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:36.280 gonna have double the love, you know, And if I 0:21:36.359 --> 0:21:39.400